Johnny Depp: Hid in bathroom to escape Amber Heard abuse | LiveNOW from FOX
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- Actor Johnny Depp testified that he was verbally and physically abused by Amber Heard throughout their relationship, saying she would "verbally decimate me" and it would send him "into a kind of tailspin of confusion and depression." The actor alleged he would constantly lock himself in the bathroom or other places Heard couldn't get to him in order to remove himself from the abuse. Heard is being sued for defamation for an op-ed she wrote in which she said she was the victim of domestic violence.
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As a woman… I believe him 100 percent. I don’t believe that every woman is the victim… men are victims also…
100% and I hope more men speak out because of this..
Indeed. I’ve met a few venomous narcissistic women, inc one who sexually assaulted guys.
True.
Absolutely. I came across a young man sitting outside of a hospital a few years ago. It was during Covid and you could only enter thru one door. After I parked and started towards the way in this young man stopped me and asked if he could talk to me. I sat down and he started sobbing. His girlfriend had dropped him off there to stay until she got ready to come back for him. He staring crying with big tears rolling down his face. He told me about how she beat him and verbally abused him. I cried with him. I don’t know what’s happened to him but I urged him to get out of that relationship. Men are victims too. It’s not a matter of being a strong person. After so much trauma you shut down and you feel embarrassed about it. I hope Johnny wins this case. He clearly sounds the victim here. She is hateful.
Lol, thanks?.. obviously not just women are victims 😂 I’ve actually found women are mentally abusive just about 80% of the time… not even joking, my wife and I talk about it all the time, seeing toxic traits is harder in a woman as well, men it’s to easy to see
To the people commenting that the way he talks is ego centric and carefully calculated - I have experienced abuse and trauma in my life and when I talk about it in therapy I speak exactly the same. My tongue gets tied, I have a difficult time spitting the simplest things out. Especially because Johnny is widely known as a shy, soft spoken person.
I can ABSOLUTELY relate to this and I feel for him 100%. Its like the child inside of you takes over your voice.
Nessalight the same thing happens to me.
Yep. He has to be calculated, bc EVERYTHING you say/do is used to exploit your pain. Your very existence is used against you. You have to be extremely careful with how you speak, and what you say.
They break your thought process until you feel like you have some sort of brain damage!
Honestly I just figured that was due to his career as an actor. They are supposed to talk slowly like that and thought it might be habit. It's sort of hard to listen to though, being so slow
@@ld2588 he suffered from narcissist abuse and grew up with an abusive mother watching her abuse his father, he was prime prey for her.
I feel so bad for him. He seems terrified of her. She’s staring at him like she’s just waiting to get back at him.
She prefers women, she was using him to advance her career which is why she had her secretary hide the magazines
I believe she is humiliated knowing a million people are watching and finding out what a witch she is and knowing her career is over .
@Mami Makala
I’ve been watching her take notes. I don’t hear anything she can dispute. She just needs to move on. Watching him today telling about his life experiences touched my hear and at the same time it made me start sobbing. My whole life has been mental and physical abuse. Now I feel like a mental breakdown is coming. I tried so hard to bury all of that but today it all came back. Totally depressed.
@@kathybishop6623
She should be. We’re seeing Johnny Depp as a real person during this trial and not just an actor. He will carry this abuse with him all of his life. I hope he can get past this and find someone real to love.
Her straight faced look is freakishly menacing
It's called walking on egg shells. Being married to a extreme narcissist is toxic. I only experienced it for 6 months before I bailed. I was always wrong and constantly put into a trick bag. I hated walking through the door of my own home not knowing what to expect.
Watching this brings back terrible memories of over 20yrs ago. I'm now married to a wonderful Chaldean Christian from Iraq. Nadira is truly a joy.
Sorry to hear u went through that. Contratulations for you and your love. :)
Reminds me more of BPD. Their psychiatrist mentioned abandonment issues and Johnny himself said she has been diagnosed with it.
10 yrs for me and he sent me to the Er thinking I was having a heart attack but I was hyperventilating from panic and anxiety and my blood pressure wouldn't be normal for days. The therapist told me if I continued living under stress and didn't get divorced I would stroke out bc my body couldn't handle high blood pressure everyday, I left 7 years ago and blood pressure has been normal for the most part and I freeze up when I have to see him, I still have to co parent but I thought I was put thru hell, she terrorized him and severed his finger and put cigarettes out in his face. She makes me sick.
I’m so happy to hear you’re happier and safer :))))
I went through it for ten years. It’s extremely hard after as well and long periods of living with that it’s essentially ptsd you are dealing with.
It’s emotional and physical abuse from a female narcissist. She wanted to control him. She was going into narcissistic rages. Johnny deserves to be heard. Men have the right to speak out about abuse. He should not be ashamed at ALL! He’s standing up for himself.
Oh please, he's a nut job.Also exhausting, odd, and BORING!
yes! absolutely correct.
He should not have married her
True. We only ever hear about abuse against women. Hopefully, this will highlight that men suffer abuse as well.. And strong men..
@@richardjenkins8366, true. But she probably started the abuse after they got married.. Often, narcissists hide their true colours untill they have an emotional hold on their victim.
He was hiding on the bathroom to stay away from her , that says it all!!!!
If psychological , mentally and emotional abuse happened over and over again in a relationship and that’s what happened to Johnny.
Men is also a victim of domestic abuse and Johnny is an example of this.
Hopefully Johnny will get justice and all her lies will be exposed.
He obviously was avoiding her- anything it seems to just find peace from whatever she was up to.
@Mami Makala I got that- kind of judging someone when you have no clue how hard it can be to escape... Like whats he gonna do...? Go to the local pub? His fame and wealth is indeed a silver lining with a cloud
I hope that this also might help other men getting abused but they lose the court case because people think men can’t be the victim so they believe the woman’s lies
The difficulty he has speaking is heartbreaking. Even as he describes her abusing him he’s holding back a lot.
He's on antipsychotics/ mood stablizers
Yes, he is.
Depps vague generalities can be used to vilify anyone. The truth is in the specific behavioral detail. In the audio he is someone who does not reason well at all. He one ups and grandstands. He falsely accuses. He evades and diverts and deflects. He does not level. He thinks he is always wrong to her but actually you cannot have functional relational intimacy with an addict. Also his games of “placating” what he sees as her delusions sounds like crazy making gaslighting plus I don’t believe him.
@@misstmemrs yeah you should stop talking...
@@misstmemrs Exactly and not to justify any of Amber's violent talk or actions but relationships are work. Couples sometimes have to confront and attempt to resolve problems together but if one party (like Johnny) has a history of abuse that person may avoid confronting important issues by leaving or running and hiding. Rufusing to face these issues can also be hurtful and does not make for a healthy functional relationship.
“She couldn’t be wrong” - THAT is one of the major red flags for a narcissist. 🤦🏼♀️
You got it!
Yep
You mean women. I kid of course but seriously. I’m 43 and I have never met a women that is wrong about anything.
I have a half brother like this. They are always right and always have to have the last word. You can’t live your life walking on eggshells.
@@Indiekiwi I personally felt like it was a mine field in your own home. You feel like walking in the door you immediately need to navigate through everything and are under constant anxiety and stress of an explosion. I lived this for ten years and the last 4 I had a child involved which was far worse.
This is most probably the first time she was forced to hear his view of things…without opening up with her verbal assaults.
Yea she was bloody vicious
So true..
More like she was enjoying seeing him suffering.. She couldnt stop staring
. Gave me chills.. Even when she wrote she kept glancing evry second
Amber is a sick individual. What he describes is like my relation with my abusive ex. Verbal abuse for no reason and blameshifting.
See what you said is exactly true. Verbal abuse is when it’s for no reason. A lot of women label just an argument or getting upset about something and saying things you regret is verbal abuse and it’s not. It’s just a fight. Verbal abuse is just constant slander and put downs for no reason other then to belittle the person.
@@alpha6games751 Getting verbally abusive in fights too much, all the time is also abuse.
Looking at Amber makes me believe every word he says.
Yes her face says it all ...
You can tell it's extremely hard for her not to shut him up as she's seemingly used to belittling his every move and word. That's a Jezebel.
Straight up Jezebel...oh Lord She makes my blood boil..spoiled Karen brat
This is difficult to watch especially if you have been the victim of abuse. Extremely triggering. You think you have gotten over it after therapy and time passing but then you hear something like this and realize the pain is still so raw. Amazing.
Oh man....lots of triggers for me
I wanted to watch this , but I was an a abusive relationship for a year and raped so it was very triggering for me so I can watch small clips
Look how she smirked knowing she kept him from his kids,she had to put her head down so people can't see. She is a horrible person.
Duping delight, the c u next Tuesday!
@@bbeeez yes, trait of a sociopath
I saw that too 😏
shes just living man. leave her be
A Jezebel demon posession.
"Tell the world, Johnny, tell them, 'Johnny Depp, I, a man, I'm a victim too of domestic violence'. And see how many people believe or side with you".......
100%
I cried when I heard her tell him him... I cried again reading it now.
From day 1 I have believed JD. Because I knew his story about his parents. I also saw he has no prior history of not one allegation from any female of any kind of abuse. And every lie she told from the start the truth started coming out. The taped conversations in the daily mail reporter Ben Ashford, the videos of Musk and the other actor. The police coming and not arresting anyone. The lack of an arrest or drs coming forward stating she had injuries. You get raped by this man and you don’t see a doctor? Contusions on your body no pictures or video in the era of smart phones she video taped or took pics of nothing?!!! And yet he still didn’t come out and tell it all when she was destroying him. I find it also telling they say he is an addict right?? Then when she went public she wasn’t concerned that he might OD? After all he is an addict right?? Or has suffered from DV and I’m sure a host of other things right? But yet they are using us addiction in court nobody was concerned about his addiction when she was dragging him and took this man’s money! She lied about donating the money!!! And the 2 causes she said she donated to both causes are ones he has been heavily involved with and I can prove it! She needs medical help. Her own father, sister, friend and assistant can’t all be lying about her?!!! I’m gonna post proof about the Childrens hospital. One second
Was this something she said? Where can I hear it?
I believe him 100%
I can see my ex wife in this... harridan, and it disgusts me.
Just because he’s a man doesn’t mean he can’t go through domestic violence.. domestic violence against men or a women is not okay what so ever
Sadly, male victims of domestic violence don’t often report their abuse so it’s likely those cases are underreported. Man or woman, child or adult, no one should ever be subjected to abuse. And animals shouldn’t either. 🙏🏼
There are many honourable men who can't hit women.
It is heartbreaking to hear someone who experienced childhood abuse repeating or falling into an abusive relationship. It is so common and so understandable how he would have fallen into and stayed as long as he did. Abusers sense these types of souls and prey on them. I wish him love and peace.
In listening to his testimony, it is clear that he was SO deeply affected by watching the dynamic between his mom and dad. The way his father took the abuse, and how he handled leaving. It is sadly poetic that Johnny has taken the place of his father in a mirrored situation. How difficult, but also perhaps healing to some degree to be able to now stick up for himself the way he maybe wished his father could have done.
My heart is breaking for him. He sounds like he is suffering with ptsd. I have it and when I have to talk to my psychologist about what happened to me I spoke the same way. This is very difficult for Johnny. My love goes out to him
If you have ever LISTENED to his previous interviews for past 30+ plus years
This is how JD communicates. He testimony is believable.
Thank you
Imagine being so narcissistic that you tell one of the best actors of all time that they don’t know what they’re doing
She wanted to use him, her parents and friends used him, there is so much evidence against her its mind blowing how she treats people.. when she blew up at a mechanic because Johnny wldnt pay for the car she was fixing, she had to pay and refused to..She said and did vile things to that mechanic too, and then had her dad do the same thing. She never paid for one thing.. she sucked of his money, and when her parents found out he was not going back to her they (her dad) threatened to kill him. They were trying to get him to break the restraining order, I believe so she cld have him arrested. How dare he divorce her, she made everything up because he dared to.. shes a horrible person.. TEAM JOHNNY ALL THE WAY!!!.. and hes still not trying to say anything too bad about her, hes just saying what he felt going thru it.
As a survivor of Narcissistic Abuse and actually understanding the disorder... Am I the only one watching this in complete shock that it seems like the people in court are completely oblivious of what I can clearly see is happening. Everything from control, the family/sister dynamic, EVERYTHING he is saying is by the book and EXACTLY what everyone dealing with a narcissist goes through. They are literally scarily all the same person.... They CANNOT heal. Johnny Depp is still in the early stages of a narcissistic relationship, he's still questioning his sanity, he has no clue what's going on... He hasn't done the in depth digging into this Disorder yet.
I said earlier his descriptions are absolute textbook. And you're spot on about questioning our sanity. I described growing up as a scapegoat within a matriarchal narc regime as being spun around like in the game blind man's buff for literally years and years. You're spinning all the time but you're blind as to why exactly. You're so all over the place and so damn ineffective, feeling so atomized, until one day you take off the blindfold and realize your whole family was spinning you. They were all in on it and you're not bad, but you've grown into a certain kind of person from never having stability, or the chance to relax and feel sane, for a damn minute.
He has studied narcissism in the last few years to understand it all more.
She put a cigarette out on his face…WTF. Who does that? She is a lunatic
Who allows someone to put a cigarette out on there face?
@@treal4real67 it's about power. when one is so beaten down and their reality is flipped completely on it's head, you'd be surprised what that person will "allow." it's a sad and toxic situation to be in. wouldn't wish it on anyone tbh.
He has no scar on his face. Therefore, fake news.
@@bmrjktxxvid1737 scars can fade. this would have happened years ago. he's an a list actor. it is beyond possible that he has the capability to see top tier dermatologist and that the scar faded. everyone's skin is different. there's one thing that appears consistent in this case though: most testimony about amber is not good. that and she's been arrested for abuse before. oh and she tried to get this case thrown out time and time again. a hit dog will holler 🤷🏾♂️
A crazy heartless person
Am I the only one here who wants to give him a hug? I know what he's talking about.
It’s called Narcissistic Abuse. The process is: Idealize, devalue and discard. So likely in the beginning, it helped her ego to be with him and she treated him like he was great. But then her inner misery comes to the surface, and in order to feel better about herself she has to tell him he’s wrong and devalue him.
Finally, she sucked all the energy out of him and she either dumps him or he has to leave.
1st person here to describe the energy vampirism. 3 men I know are dead from this, murdered by the BPD.
@@6m92973 it’s insidious, and even more hurtful when they seem to be kind, reputable people. There’s two personas and not everyone can see the energy vampire. Of course, it can be male or female. There’s another aspect called “The Dark Triad”, which is a combination of Narcissist, Psychopath and Machiavellian. (This is usually more males than females).
I totally understand his comment about being in a relationship with his mother. I remember the shock that I felt when I realized that I had married someone with my mother’s worst qualities. I remember saying to myself in shock “I married my mother!!”
Wow. How does that even happen?? Did u not see those qualities when u were dating?
@@esthellakomerl8084 i happens you are blinded by love but it is only after it all fades that your able to see thier true color
@@esthellakomerl8084 No. I sure didn't. We should have dated longer I think that I was just looking for all of the ways that he was different from my ex.
Okay it’s official. We hate her!
A man that comes out with this like he has ...he is a Victim of Domestic Abuse/Family Violence both as a child and a spouse.
Power and Control dynamics...it’s not as easy as “why did you stay”...ABUSE is abuse!
Very proud of this amazing personality to SPEAK OUT about Abuse that he has experienced in his life.
He will forever be changed. He’s scared of her. Hopefully going forward he will find a new avenue to go down helping other victims of abuse.
When he’s talking about how she was unable to be wrong this really felt relatable to experiences I’ve had with abusive personality types. I really feel for him and wish him and his family healing….
Even as I continue listening to him I know he’s telling the truth. It’s so text book. I’ve been through almost exactly what he’s describing.
Borderline personality disorder. People with this are horrific.
@@gul201210 its narcissist behavior. Not border line personality.
Absolutely. I recognise it too. I was saying to my husband, isn’t it amazing how everyone who is a narcissist, has the exact same traits? Like, it’s not even vaguely similar, it’s exactly the same behaviour in them all! They all, even though they don’t know each other, gaslight, use, abuse. It’s crazy.
@@poodee9395 AH has been diagnosed with both BPD, and NPD.
@@pommiebears thank you for saying that. I had no idea she was properly diagnosed.
Abusers have a sixth sense regarding who to choose for partners. His upbringing put a target on his back. I get it- I wound up in a marriage to a passive man, and I would behave beastly in fights. Once I realized that I was really mad at my Dad, after lots of therapy, my entire life changed. We are happily married, now, for 28 years. You have to want to change!
Good for you! I mean it👍
My mother is the exact same way. Constantly belittling and beating her exes. When I got married I noticed I internalized a lot of her demeanor, and the way she spoke to her partners, it really scared me how similar I could sound without even trying. I remember I did throw something at my husband as he got to a different room, and how normal that felt. When that happened I knew I was the problem. And I had to change. I did not want the next generation to normalize those types of relationships, and my poor husband didn’t deserve any of it. It really is the reactions we have, the battles we chose, and everything I do now has to be thought in my head before I act it out. Very hard to train the brain but that is how I avoid being like my mother and hopefully avoid being a narcissist. I heard people with childhood trauma either become over empathetic or continue the narcissistic abuse. It’s very scary to know you could be your abuser if you don’t have self awareness of it.
@@spunkyrooster618 I give so much respect to you and the original poster for taking accountability and making a change. I was on the receiving end of this for ten years. My ex and I never married and we had a son in the last 4 year of our relationship. It got 100times worse with a child involved. She had these same traits and issues but she is clinically BP as well. She ended up accusing me of all the things she had been doing over the years and took my son and moved out. We never married so she had 100% custody. Take a person like that and give them fully custody of a child and the narcissistic god complex stacks on top of the other issues. It only got worse with separation and a kid for her to play emotion games with. Using him as leverage and blackmail. I pray you never meet someone like that.
Being a victim of DV myself I understand how difficult it is to publicly explain the insane situations when your spouse turns from your best friend and lover to a"possessed" raging attacker who is hellbent on beating the shite out of you.
Oh God, Johnny. So sorry this has to be dragged thru court and the public. Stay strong.
Amazing. I have such respect for this man. He shows up for his story. The story of narcissistic abuse is a survivor story. We can still show up for ourselves. Well done Johnny. You were always my favorite since 21 Jumpstreet. What a heart-throb.
He has won in the court of public opinion...she's a monster
She's the sort of person that if she got picked up by Ted Bundy I'd say it was karma.
Someone help her baby. She’s gonna damage that child.
I think it’s beyond twisted she has a baby. After hearing him speak, I am terrified for that baby
@kyle I don’t think it’s his. He would have claimed the kid if that was his baby. He is a baby collector
It really seems like he believed the weight of her words. Like he had to take a step back and say to himself, "have I been wrong all of these years?" She did not instill confidence in her husband. She created fear and made him question himself.
Sound like you fell into a relationship with a Narcissist Johnny. I’ve been there and they will drive you crazy and turn you in circles. I am SO sorry that this has happened to you.
Wow, she was jealous of his children and didn't want him to spend time with his own kids! She is such a narcissist and so immature!! She should've known that his children will always come first! He is a wonderful father!!!
We're so extremely proud of Johnny's bravery..
if he wins or not, her reputation is down the drain in my opinion .
Johnny has been given THE opportunity to speak and his words ring louder and true than anything Amber has EVER said to the public. This is Johnny's 2 day speaking and it just shows how powerful a good honest testimony can impact the defense
Every good single man life story summed up into Johnny's life. Crazy how the highlight of manhood has to be coming from an artist and to be taken serious.
Severe drug abuse, anger management, spending 2 million a month on a lavish lifestyle? Which one?
Imagine how his children feel watching this. Too bad Vanessa has moved on.
I had to hide also from my abuser…. In the bathroom. And even as I was actually sitting on the toilet he was breaking in the door, barging in… yelling and freaking out. I’ve experienced every bit of the abuse he describes, he’s being absolutely truthful. The gaslighting and mental abuse is also every bit as horrific.
We have needed a national conversation about the narcissism epidemic in this country for a very long time. I’m glad it’s finally here and I salute Johnny’s courage, I’m just sorry for all the pain it’s caused him.
In the world !!! It’s world wide x
You don't have to write down so much if you aren't guilty .She's tring to play an intimidation game right now looking as though she's important.shes also tring to remember what she needs to make a story on to defend herself.Seriously the writing is just out of hand.If she's not guilty she will be able to clearly tell the truth.
Absolutely agree! You don’t need to
Remember ANYTHING when you’re telling the truth..
It’s exhausting watching her try so hard to have a neutral expression, no matter how hard she tries the psychopathy shines through
Agree! I think she tries to build up a narrative by writing down details. I think she is very tired and sad in her way. She looks totally exhausted. I don’t think she felt her actions were wrong at that time and now is very sad that she got caught. In terms of makeup and hair, I think she came up with the same strategy like Elizabeth Holmes, or her advisors did.
When he said he started to realize he was in a relationship with his mother 🥺 oh Johnny I am so sorry this man had to go through all that and has to relieve his whole life and all this childhood trauma and all the horrible things Amber put him through. The truth will be seen 🤍
I feel so bad for him. Like he said, some people will take your weaknesses, the things you confide in them about your past, and use it against you to hurt you. Sounds like she used his complicated relationship with his mother to hurt him. Then she turned around filed for divorce and brought these accusations against him days after his mother passed away. Horrible. And she just sits there so smug. Smh. Normalize men talking about and reporting abuse.
I lived the same life with my ex husband. When I was sick and could no longer work he made me leave the house because I was of no value to him without a paycheck. He would not pur me in his insurance so that I could have the necessary surgeries. He said I was making it up. My imaginary spine and neck injuries required 2 years to get disability then medicaid and an 11 hour surgery. I was able to hold my head up without support and turn my head, use my arms and hands and finally walk and not have to crawl...but it was "all in my head".
Yeah that's how abusive people are.
Omg the way she stares at him gives me chills.. Even when shes writing nonsense she keeps glancing evry second.. As if shes gonna miss her fav part ! More lk shes enjoying him suffering
She looks like she's under the influence
listening to him explain how an argument becomes circular i couldnt relate more...almost impossible to wrap your head around. Like how the hell did we get here??? well, i just wrote the last part as i was listening to him. Took the words out of my mouth.
@@duckbilledplatypus308 yeah I spoke out to all my friends and family, and it wasn’t really until I did that was when I realized how fkd up it was based by their reactions. It was such a nightmare. Beautiful girl, but just ugly underneath. Lol canned goods would sting a bit I can imagine!
I paused content an came to comments when councel asked Johnny what he meant when he stated she used his past information against him like weapons. Any person that's dealt with abuse knows what he means & how it feels. If there are people following this trial that have suffered or knows someone that's suffered through abuse, and they have difficulty believing Johnny, that statement in its self, is a huge eye opener. An abusive person will do anything they can to break their victim down. Also it really tore at my heart hearing Johnny say she would look & talk to him like she hated him. I've been on the receiving end of the type of hatefullnes & aggression he describes & commend him on keeping his composure. I pray he finds peace.
The dynamic of the twin flame on display here.
Narcissistic abusers also take great calculation in hurting people deliberate. AH is awful.
Who else saw when he said digs she smirked smdh
I have been physically, psychologically, & emotionally abused (many years ago), I have also spoken with men and women who have been in these types of relationships ... Johnny talking about his experience sheds light on the Fact that men also suffer physical, emotional, and psychological abuse ... it just hasn't received as much attention as abuse of women has garnered over the years.
I honor him for speaking so openly ... we should remember that these relationships can be significant learning tools for us to shift our lives and our choices. I pray for Johnny and Amber both, they both have scars that need to be healed
Amber's dead expression during Johnny's statement reminded me a lot of Norman Bates at the end of Psycho.
"They're probably watching me. Well, let them. Let them see what kind of a person I am. I'm not even going to swat that fly. I hope they are watching... they'll see. They'll see and they'll know, and they'll say, 'Why, she wouldn't even harm a fly.'"
When he was talking about the awful ways she treated him she looked so guilty like she was trying to not cry bc she knows it’s true and everyone else knows too
@@Adatoode Tell me you have no experience in relationships without telling me...
Look at her miserable face ☹️ 🤣🤣🤣🤣
her face is scary... jeez what a psycho
Not miserable enough
She's not miserable she's pissed as heck seeing him sitting there. This chic is evil and hates him with a passion. In her mind she didn't do him enough damage.
In his own stunted way, he has just described what it's like to be "in conversation" with a narc. You're not ever in conversation, you're just on the receiving end of their monologue and your will to even interject for yourself is seen as pure defiance. They do not and cannot recognize you as an individual in your own right. You are an extension of them, like a extremity or a tentacle. And you're either a good tentacle or a bad one.
Beautifully worded
He has been gaslit so much by her it definitely reflects in the way he tells his truth. Living a narcissist is so damaging.
She wanted to be the main character and not the back up she is.
He married a young version of his mother. So sad 😞
There are books written about why people stay in bad relationships. It's because they like to see the other person on a good day. Even kids (even though they are not in a relationship with their parents) do the same thing. They appreciate the good times with their parents if they are abusive or neglect them.
Classic tell tell sign of grandiose narcissist is never being wrong and making everyone else the bad guy. Amber looks like she is about to burst into tears. What appears it happened to Johnny Depp is she love bombed him and then pulled the rug under him after he married her. This type of behavior is very cold and calculating. It seems his childhood trauma was relived all over again with her. Given he says he felt like he married His mother. However what I have to say based on the ongoing evidence coming from the trial is that he is as deeply troubled and toxic as she is. His drug addiction, alcoholism and inability to keep himself clean from substances created the life circumstances and misery in his life. We can’t heal our lives by blaming others solely for the problems in our lives. And for as long as we blame the other person and refuse to take any responsibility for our part in the situation we are not only not going to heal our lives but we are living in perpetual denial and victimhood. It is very hard to accept accountability for our issues and our contribution to the mess we create. For some reason we tend to be very harsh and critical of people around us , but very objective and understanding of ourselves which is okay. We see things through our own lens and yet we must always look outside of our mindset and seek to see the deeper truth of why our lives are the way they are.
Well said..
He is also a vulnerable, or covert narcissist. They both have personality disorders, and he has diagnosed mood disorders as well.
JD has a lot of work to do on himself. It is his responsibility to teach others how to treat him. He allowed her way too much authority. It is my hope he will get past this situation and find peace and happiness. ✨🙏🏽
This is something that many victims of childhood abuse and trauma deal with. They want to avoid conflict so much that they don't lay out boundaries. They end up leaving themselves open to the abuse of narcissists like Amber. And I'm speaking from first hand experience. At the age of 38, I am only JUST learning to set boundaries and protect myself. JD unknowingly spoke so many of our stories for us. This is a man that was severely abused as a child, who grew up to be a traumatized adult that did not receive the proper mental health assistance he needed. I believed JD before... after his testimony? I have no doubt who the abuser is. Amber Heard is a monster
Holy sh*t!!! This sounds like my life's story with my former fiance. I know exactly what he felt like. My sympathy goes out to him.
I don’t ever remember seeing a person in his place answering a question and it turning into A very engaging conversation and with so much depth . I just loved hearing him speak. He should be a public speaker !
Aw this is heartbreaking he’s finally speaking out so proud but this is upsetting in so many ways 😭😔
If he weren't a celebrity he would've been cut off a long time ago. They never let people talk that much without constantly interrupting.
That’s because he’s performing. He’s an actor. This is an Oscar worthy drama performance.
@@jjames943 It's because it is _his_ case that he is bringing. I'm sure he is paying for the court time.
I can’t determine whether she wants to cry or pounce on him and take out his juggler artery. Maybe a bit of both, but there’s no doubt that narcissist rage is boiling underneath like Yellowstone. This personality style cannot tolerate being humiliated, questioned, or taken to task in relation to their own actions. The narrative going on in her brain is loud! And she is showing a few acting scenes of being hurt by his words. It’s for the cameras, that’s it.
I thought it was just me. She has looked like she wanted to kill him a few times and other witnesses as well. She looks like she wants to lose it. Like in a few good men! Did you order the code red? You GD right I ordered the code red. I believe if they ask her the right question some of who she really is may come out in this case. She is being exposed and he is still taking it easy on her to me. 😳
Amber Heard seems to have a type of PD (Depressive, Borderline, Avoidant, Narcissistic) and Mythomania
Borderline Personality Disorder is a mental health disorder that impacts the way you think and feel about yourself and others, causing problems functioning in everyday life. It includes self-image issues, difficulty managing emotions and behavior, and a pattern of unstable relationships. With borderline personality disorder, you have an intense fear of abandonment or instability, and you may have difficulty tolerating being alone. Yet inappropriate anger, impulsiveness and frequent mood swings may push others away, even though you want to have loving and lasting relationships.
Borderline personality disorder usually begins by early adulthood. The condition seems to be worse in young adulthood and may gradually get better with age. If you have borderline personality disorder, don't get discouraged.
Look up the order PDs.
Mythomania is an abnormal or pathological tendency to exaggerate or tell lies.
Amber needs help and treatment and her closest friends need to help her no matter the outcome of this case. Elon Musk was smart enough to let go quickly I believe.
I have BPD and I'm so happy I dont have it paired with Narcissism. Instead I also have PTSD and PDD. However I'm capable of being self aware of my actions especially as I've gotten older. My fervent need for honesty from both myself and my family/friends/partners also helps. For those who also battle it, there is hope for a better life, relationships and happiness
She needs help. As much as I dislike her she clearly suffers from mental illness. Most likely she had a really tough childhood that changed her.
James 1:19
My dear brothers and sisters
TAKE NOTE OF THIS:
Everyone should......
Be quick to listen,
Slow to speak, &
Slow to become angry.
She is trying to look pitiful, a typical tool for a woman who is a narcissist to use. Don't come at me I've used this many times in my past for pity from others. She needs to heal before she ever tries to get back into another relationship. Poor Johnny!
Damn Will...Take NOTES!!!
He really knows what it’s like to be a victim and certainly has done his homework on his own issues and seems to take responsibility for his actions. It’s always complicated when it’s dysfunctional. Both parties are sick and don’t work.
What a nightmare he lived in with her. This should be a movie.
I've been in an abusive relationship and I really feel what he is saying... I can really tell he's been threw it.
John, there's a squirrel behind you 😅✌️😆
Im so sorry for him. The first time I saw them together on photos, i knew she is just using him and I got the vibe she isnt treating him good. Its so sad he could not see through her beauty to see her bad personality. Stay strong Johnny 🙏❤️
She's not beautiful. She just has some "elegant" facial features and symmetry. Even if she is or was, age is catching up with her and will do so every day of her life. It looks to me like she is spending a lot of time on "presentation." You need only to meet one person like this in a lifetime to want to avoid anyone with that expression.
@@davebellamy4867 Agree with you 🙏
She loves playing tic tac toe doesn't she....
She is the devil. Dude got screwed. Stay strong Depp!
Bbefore i heard this scandal, i had watched a red carpet moment of johnny here in you tube, i really noticed the reaction of johnny and AH there. He was very uncomfortable and as it was like he can look longer to her. And i remember when he asked, he answered that he wanted to go home and scared and the expression of his face that even me i wondered why there 's really something on him. Now? I can say that as if he wanted help but can "t only say. We love you johnny
I believe him. I was married 9 years to a man that abused me in every way possible and I realized I was married to my dad somewhere in all of that. So much of what he is describing I recognize and it’s so awful and mentally debilitating and like Johnny is doing as he speaks of her ,I did my best to still speak of him as kindly as possibly even after all of the abuse whilst he ran around for years telling lies about me for years to people. Eventually tho… everyone he lied to ended up on the receiving end of his awful behavior, and they experienced first hand a fraction of what I had experienced.
I honestly hope the jury sees through her like I do.
Men can definitely be victims. Women can definitely be abusers.
Listening to him just breaks my heart 😔
Keeping the truth away from people is like trying to hold water in your hands. You can hold it back for a while if you are good enough, but eventually its going to slip through tour fingers. Amber tried to lie and hold back the truth but it will always emerge. It's over Amber.....
She's writing her defense positions. She's writing how she was the victim not him
Justice for Johnny!!!
Johnny Depp is an amazing man with an extremely kind heart he does amazing things for children of cancer he will take the shirt off of his back to help somebody out it is without question he is an innocent victim I wish him the best it's pretty obvious this has traumatized him
I can relate to what he was feeling. People can be so mean and hateful.
I hope AH gets charged with perjury for all of the lies she’s about to tell on the stand in the next few days.
Does he know how to form a complete coherent sentence?
guess all her friends no longer needed free penthousing
The interesting thing about it is that verbal abuse is significantly detrimental. Verbal abuse is a systematic breakdown of someone's mental state of mind, self awareness, self esteem, and it shines a light on every imperfection that one may have (albeit good or bad). If that is done over and over and over and over again, even the strongest of minds start to believe the incendary things that are being said to you and about you. Take it from someone who knows and will be trying to heal from it for the rest of my life. Unfortunately, I am right there with Johnny and how he feels.
I just want to Hug him and Hold him just to make him feel safe and Loved just for the man he is and not the fame, it’s had to get rid of the pain from physical and mental abuse. Stay Strong and I’m Praying for You and Your Kids🙏❤️
I do believe Johnny is telling the 100% truth!!
Atleast he admits to his mistakes and seems to want the truth to come out. She seems calculating and vengeful from what I have heard so far. He seems very honest.
Jonny is clearly describing Narcissist Abuse.
Sounds like my
42 yr old estranged daughter, raving narcissistic lunatic! You HAVE to leave and get away from them to escape the hate.
Yes, Johnny, when arguments and behaviors become circular, it's pure narcissism. My heart goes out to you!
Justice for Jonny ❤️
Justice for Depp
I stand next to you Johnny!! Hold your head up!!
His way of speaking is exactly like mine after years of abuse from my mother - broken, hesitant, and searching. It's like the abuse clouds your mind so you can't remember or understand what you trying to say. It's like trying to shine a light through the fog and realising you can't.
It's clear to any victim of abuse just from the way he speaks who the guilty party is here
JD's phrase, "the day I chopped off my finger" is synonymous with the retelling of an accident that was not one's fault; specifically: the day I got in my accident.