Number one is a recent realization of mine. It is so true. When people are rude it is really not about you it is about them. So stop making someone's behavior about yourself. Doing so we make ourselves a "victim" of how they are behaving. In turn making ourself even more powerless. No one can take our power from us unless we choose to give it away. Realizing that people behave out of their own pain and insecurities about themselves truly helps not get angry or upset when their behavior is off. I also think that certain family members can compare themselves so if they see you doing well in something where they see themselves as lacking they will start behaving in a jealous/rude/critical way. It is hard not to take it personally unless you are able to look from outside the box and see it for what it is...it is a reflection of how this person is feeling about themselves. Sounds harsh to you? Well they have to live with that everyday.... Lack of self love for yourself is also lack of self love for others. Realizing this helps feel empathy vs anger for such an individual. Empathy is a good healthy positive feeling. You don't have to walk away feeling like crap. All it takes is a change in your perspective.
I feel should maintain a personal space. There are things we can allow a person to interfere with and certain things people shouldn't do it. On top of that, it's better to stay alone for some time, so that the love within the family members will blossom. Too much of attachment will lead to disasters. This is my humble opinion
It's sad dear. My mom n her relatives are toxic too but I try to avoid them as much as I can n focus on my priority.but it's really sad sometimes I understand wht u r suffering from.
I don't get why some relatives think they know everything and insist that we listen even though it's obviously ridiculous, and they have the guts to say that technology is ruining us kids bonding 😤😤😤 moments like this my earphones are my loved ones
You are so incredibly natural on camera. You make me feel like I’m having a conversation with one of my girls when I watch your videos. You are special! It is my passion one day to work with girls and women inspiring them, sharing wisdom, bonding and filling them up with self esteem and self worth...I don’t know how I plan to do this yet but seeing your videos and your website is helping me to not give up on my vision. Oh and you’re so gorgeous I can’t take it! Haha. Keep shining ❤️ @the ladies coach
Mary thank you for you kind words!!! It means the world to us that our videos and site inspire and motivate you to pursue your dreams. Keep shining your light in the world! XOXOX
My family moved into my grandpa's house (he asked us to), and ever since then I've seen a side of him I wish I'd forget. He's done stuff to hurt us and me personally, and I've tried to forgive him but never could. I never really thought of it but then I realized, the reason it hurts so bad is because I used to look up to him, and now he's a completely different person.
Hi ladies coach! Boundaries are very important in a relationship. What I do is I just control my emotions and forgive all things that happened in the past. I do believe that we can love our love ones even though we're apart.
OMG I love these tips! You described the relationship with my sister perfectly! As if you know us! I’m going to seriously use these, in the past I’ve taken what my sister says to heart and she’s known that, so this year that’s stopping! What she says is going to just wash over me.
I have a lot problems with my older sister. And yesterday I put my hands on her first out of anger and frustration. So we got in a fight.(for like the 4th time) The thing that sucks though is that I have to share a room with her. I’m 20 and she’s 22 (My mom is a single mom so we don’t have a lot of finical support right now to build a extra room or actually buy a house with 4 rooms) we are both two completely different people and it’s very hard to live with her. But the anger towards her goes much more deeper.I’m the middle child in my family and I know I’m a adult now but still to this day I feel like there will never be a space for just Allyson for just me until I move out. I never get things I want when I suggest them and it’s also draining because my older sisters vibrations don’t correlate with mine. I feel stuck at home I find myself bouncing from my moms room to my brothers room and then back to my room😭 I feel out of place I feel like I don’t know where to sit and just chill and relax. I Graduated from high school but after that I didn’t return to school. My sister is in college so our room used to be split in half one side for her and one side for me. But now she has invaded the whole room. The room is specifically organized just for her liking and not mine. My sister is the type to shame you, belittle you, just make you feel less if you aren’t in school with a plan. I work at a warehouse and it’s a tough Job (I’m planning on quitting) but it pays good and I’ve been saving my money ever since I started like almost a year ago. I help my mom with the bills more than anyone. Hispanic families are tight we stick together even after we turn 18. My reason of still staying with my mom is cause she needs my help. I’m kinda ranting now but to be honest with who ever takes the time to read this. I have 0 friends. And I’m in a long distance relationship. And I’m over worked and tired. Does someone have any good advice?
I LOVE give up the story!! How true is that?!!! I'm a pro at changing subjects so I got that step covered haha. I'm living in a different state to my sisters so this actually is my first Christmas without them.
I had to move in with a family member and his family and I have 2 tweenagers and we live in a small laundry room together, I’ve had to stay longer than I’d had liked but I’m broke ready to move out and he keeps talking me into staying but I’m not sure if he’s doing it because of the rent money, but my kids are begging to move and and I’m stressing out because we all but heads and really not comfortable and there are 9 people living in a 3 bed house. What should I do, someone please help, thanks.
JILL M I can relate we’ve been at my grandparents for 5 year and only meant to stay for 1 and there is another person that lives with them who is very difficult to deal with and live with
I came across this at the perfect time Christal! Going on a trip with my hubby's family this week so will be using ALL these tips to protect my energy. Thank you 🙏💖
For me, it's my mom..man, she is way too aggressive Even our neighbours tell her to calm down but dont interfere much But when she brought covid in our family all I did was take care of myself while living with strangers, those strangers were way more affectionate towards me than her..so much so that I cried when I came back home.. I really was looking forward to studying out of state so I could stay away from her toxicity, but nope...apparently I am useless and cant take care of myself according to her.. so I am not allowed to go anywhere..😞😞 But when she brought covid in our family all I did was take care of myself while living with strangers, those strangers were way more affectionate towards me than her..so much so that I cried when I came back home..
My mom often get annoyed by me I don’t know what’s the problem in me she stop talking a whole day then she tell my dad (that I don’t work for her) and dad scold me then she also call my brother and he also scold me at last she cry and when I go to stop her she scold me too 😭 what do I do ?
Thanks for the advice. What I’m finding hard, is a particular in-law is so annoying that I can’t bare being in her company. Unfortunately she lives in the same town as me, and we (me, my wife and daughter) end up seeing A LOT of her. If I sit there quietly biting my tongue, I get criticised for being grumpy; I have say things, I get accused for being aggressive; but I just don’t want to around her. I just don’t know what to do! Any help or ideas please?
Give up the past their new people they've changed 🥺 Invisible conversation boundaries ❣️ STOP EXPOSING YOYR BUTTONSSS give up the story 🦋 Always act out of love how you react is the most important part ✨
I am trying to talk to my family members more. I closed out due to a toxic cousin of mine who spent all her time trying to drag me down. I stopped talking to her, it has been 2 years since I have spoken with her, and I really don't plan on speaking to her again. But I stepped away from other family members since she was always around.
I stay home a lot to keep one brother from starting any gossip.. But he manages to get it out, poisoning the rest of my family.. I lost a 19 year old son in 1987,a very loved child, in the military going to college in Germany.. Jealousy I think is there, for that one nephew doesn't seem to care as long as my brother gives to him.. My child worked hard in trying to get somewhere in his, all he paid for while working at a grocery store, then into the military.. I need my mind rested from my brothers criticizing, his geolisy in my child doing better.. My son died while serving our country in 1987, to beat all my brother thinks he can treat me anyway, mainly because I'm alone.. Help!
Excellent advice!! Especially when you're dealing with a toxic, narcissistic father who treats my Golden Child brother like "gold." He can do no "wrong," and me like a doormat. We had been no contact for months and out of the blue he texted me that we should "let go of the past." He engages in name calling and disrespectful behavior towards me and I have to walk on eggs shells to avoid being called names. So, how can I retain my power if he shows up on my doorstep one day and resorts to the old behaviors? I like your Buddhist thinking, but how to implement it when the sh*t hits the fan?
Breakthrough Moment dude I feel the same way but I would say my dad isn’t as bad but he still treats my AWFUL just AWFUL horrible no good brother like he is a king. But still you have to love your family while you can you never know when you’d lose them.
When you said 'how to deal with obnoxious uncle,I thought ,that's the reason why I came here, actually my uncle kindoff touched my neck which I think was not normal,I don't know why but I feel like that.Adults do love by hugging and kissing especially when you meet them after an year or so but his touch was different and suddenly I felt that something is wrong with the way I m touched,i told my mom about this but she couldn't help me a lot ,can u make a video on how to deal with these touchy family members.
The people I don’t like or can not relate to are usually people who carry themselves like you do. Look at yourself before you give tips, you are fake and too animated to be believed, look at your makeup, your back ground, do you really think you are someone who can coach others when you have everything?
I get that some family members have problems but when is enough enough. Like to be miserable for years and then make everyone around you that is stuck living with you miserable is horrible. Especially when it’s small things that shouldn’t be a big deal and the worst is that then they get boyfriend and become ass kissers and are really nice to them and will do anything for them but are rude to their family. I’m just done living with this person my whole family is but we are stuck!
He just constantly keeps walking in and yelling as loud as possible. It's so obnoxious and I want to die everytime, especially because we are doing online school now.
u r beautiful nd ur videos are more beutiful then u ..u r so sensible nd ur advice are very good..i needed this video so very much lots of love from india...
How about a family member who doesn’t talk to you And never interacts with you What does that mean if one Of your family members Doesn’t even talk to you And never interact with you ever
My brother is toxic I have two brothers I think what of mine and they are bigger from me and mom did nothing she even don't scould them even I think what happen of leaving with them.😭😭😭
The forgiveness we receive through Christ is not earned or deserved. Jesus paid the debt of my sin, I could never pay myself. The Bible clearly states that we all sin and are in need of a Savior. Jesus is the Savior, God sent for all who come to Him in faith for salvation from the punishment of our sins. we categorize sin according to the world’s estimation. Putting the offenses into categories of bad, worse and worst, is not what the Bible says about sin. Either you sin or you don’t (we all sin). Doing the judging of sin, traps us into believing some sins are forgivable and some aren’t. bitterness and resentment gets deeply rooted, causing forgiveness to be seemingly impossible as we allow our emotions to drive our ability to let go of the past. Hebrews 12:15 "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many." The word of God tells us that if we allow bitterness to creep into our hearts and if we become bound up in resentment, discontent, acrimony and grudges against others.. we come short of the grace of God, and have allowed the ungodly characteristic of bitterness to sink its deadly root into our heart, which defiles us before the Lord and causes no end of trouble in our own lives and in the lives of others too. Let us take this warning seriously and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave us. Let us therefore be imitators of God as dear children - walking in love, as Christ also has loved us and gave Himself for us. Ephesians 4:32 "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
"6/10/10 From YahuShua HaMashiach, Our Lord and Savior The Word of The Lord Spoken to Timothy For All Those Who Have Ears to Hear (Regarding unbelieving family members) My sons and daughters, what is trust with abandonment? What is obedience without expectation? Is not your reasonable service love without condition? Yet I tell you the truth, trust is more than letting go. For it remains standing that it must also be shown in your obedience and by your example, and by your willingness to never deny My name, no matter the time or the season. Beloved, place your loved ones in My hands, as I have said, for at no time were they forsaken. For I am the gate for all My sheep, and they also will hear My voice in the day they are humbled, the day their hearts crack and their pride crumbles... And oh what a cry shall be heard, oh what wailing shall come forth. Yet are you not also My hands and My feet, My voice, a testimony and a lamentation bearing witness of Me? Therefore, again I say to you, do not deny My name to please others or because of fear. Make no effort to keep the peace for their sakes. Rather as it is written: Proclaim My words; be instant in and out of season. Reprove, rebuke and exhort, with all long-suffering, according to that which I have shown you. For one who truly loves Me speaks about Me, and remains faithful at all times and in every season. And one who places Me above all else has shown their loved ones who is first, and what faithfulness truly is. For there is no true love apart from Me; nor can one remain faithful unless they have received of Me. Therefore to speak of Me in the Company of others is to love them... And to deny Me in the company Of others is to hate them, Whereby you have also revealed that Your comfort is of more importance than The Truth, and keeping the peace More important than their lives... Says The Lord." www.thevolumesoftruth.com/Be_Instant_In_and_Out_of_Season
BARE WITH ME GUYS I haven't seen my mom and sis in 5 years . My sister came at about August and then started Drama and shit . Bare in mind I live in Somalia and them 2 live in England . Im tryna take a break from the National exam and my sis comes around and brings chaos in the house with me and my dad . She saw a cousin of mine shouting at his sibling cah he saw here with a boy which obviously everyone would want to protect there sister from these boys. That's an instinct fr . My sisters a feminist skr immediately brings a concept of Men dont treat women right in Somalia and shit . Long story short , my mum comes in August and she brings a concept of I dont treat women right . I now live with am auntie who's 10x worse and if I say something , I'm the bad guy .
@@axcruz987 u can argue all u want, but Jesus is the main key principle for our lives. The Bible contains God's message to us His people to help us live life abundantly on this earth. So if all ur advise is not based on the words Jesus, your just wasting ur time.
How do you manage conflict with family members? We want to hear from you, let's get a conversation started!
Number one is a recent realization of mine. It is so true. When people are rude it is really not about you it is about them. So stop making someone's behavior about yourself. Doing so we make ourselves a "victim" of how they are behaving. In turn making ourself even more powerless. No one can take our power from us unless we choose to give it away.
Realizing that people behave out of their own pain and insecurities about themselves truly helps not get angry or upset when their behavior is off.
I also think that certain family members can compare themselves so if they see you doing well in something where they see themselves as lacking they will start behaving in a jealous/rude/critical way. It is hard not to take it personally unless you are able to look from outside the box and see it for what it is...it is a reflection of how this person is feeling about themselves. Sounds harsh to you? Well they have to live with that everyday....
Lack of self love for yourself is also lack of self love for others.
Realizing this helps feel empathy vs anger for such an individual.
Empathy is a good healthy positive feeling.
You don't have to walk away feeling like crap. All it takes is a change in your perspective.
Absolutely Roxy!! Thank you for sharing! XOXO
Create an imaginary antibiotic.
I feel should maintain a personal space. There are things we can allow a person to interfere with and certain things people shouldn't do it. On top of that, it's better to stay alone for some time, so that the love within the family members will blossom. Too much of attachment will lead to disasters.
This is my humble opinion
I go out for a run to keep a safe mentality, but they've look for a means to interfere.
"We only have that 1 person in that family"
Wrong, my whole family is toxic
I agree, my brother is toxic..
Another brother is kissing up for he wants support in what he did toward a neighbor, a class mate to the both of us, my brothers neighbor..
It's sad dear. My mom n her relatives are toxic too but I try to avoid them as much as I can n focus on my priority.but it's really sad sometimes I understand wht u r suffering from.
@@loretta6980 that's true
@@loretta6980 mine tooo
That family member is my sister my life would be amazing and full of positivity without her. I can't wait till I'm an adult so I can move out
I feel you.
Same here
I can relate.
Ikr
I felt the same way towards my sister. She was soooo hard to live with. She was like the bad seed or something
I don't get why some relatives think they know everything and insist that we listen even though it's obviously ridiculous, and they have the guts to say that technology is ruining us kids bonding 😤😤😤 moments like this my earphones are my loved ones
I’m going to talk with my hands 🤲🏻😉
You are so incredibly natural on camera. You make me feel like I’m having a conversation with one of my girls when I watch your videos. You are special! It is my passion one day to work with girls and women inspiring them, sharing wisdom, bonding and filling them up with self esteem and self worth...I don’t know how I plan to do this yet but seeing your videos and your website is helping me to not give up on my vision. Oh and you’re so gorgeous I can’t take it! Haha. Keep shining ❤️ @the ladies coach
Mary thank you for you kind words!!! It means the world to us that our videos and site inspire and motivate you to pursue your dreams. Keep shining your light in the world! XOXOX
Almost my whole family is toxic..like chill-
The best way to deal with people you don't like is to ignore them
My family moved into my grandpa's house (he asked us to), and ever since then I've seen a side of him I wish I'd forget. He's done stuff to hurt us and me personally, and I've tried to forgive him but never could. I never really thought of it but then I realized, the reason it hurts so bad is because I used to look up to him, and now he's a completely different person.
Hi ladies coach! Boundaries are very important in a relationship. What I do is I just control my emotions and forgive all things that happened in the past. I do believe that we can love our love ones even though we're apart.
Hi Juliana! Boundaries are SO important in all relationships, you are absolutely right. Thank you so much for sharing XO
The Ladies Coach , your welcome and thank you, you are such an inspiration #Justlove
My brother is very very very very very very very very rude to me and he is very very very very nice to others
OMG I love these tips! You described the relationship with my sister perfectly! As if you know us! I’m going to seriously use these, in the past I’ve taken what my sister says to heart and she’s known that, so this year that’s stopping! What she says is going to just wash over me.
We are so glad these tips can help you with your Sister. Thank you so much for watching
I have a lot problems with my older sister. And yesterday I put my hands on her first out of anger and frustration. So we got in a fight.(for like the 4th time) The thing that sucks though is that I have to share a room with her. I’m 20 and she’s 22 (My mom is a single mom so we don’t have a lot of finical support right now to build a extra room or actually buy a house with 4 rooms) we are both two completely different people and it’s very hard to live with her. But the anger towards her goes much more deeper.I’m the middle child in my family and I know I’m a adult now but still to this day I feel like there will never be a space for just Allyson for just me until I move out. I never get things I want when I suggest them and it’s also draining because my older sisters vibrations don’t correlate with mine. I feel stuck at home I find myself bouncing from my moms room to my brothers room and then back to my room😭 I feel out of place I feel like I don’t know where to sit and just chill and relax. I Graduated from high school but after that I didn’t return to school. My sister is in college so our room used to be split in half one side for her and one side for me. But now she has invaded the whole room. The room is specifically organized just for her liking and not mine. My sister is the type to shame you, belittle you, just make you feel less if you aren’t in school with a plan. I work at a warehouse and it’s a tough Job (I’m planning on quitting) but it pays good and I’ve been saving my money ever since I started like almost a year ago. I help my mom with the bills more than anyone. Hispanic families are tight we stick together even after we turn 18. My reason of still staying with my mom is cause she needs my help. I’m kinda ranting now but to be honest with who ever takes the time to read this. I have 0 friends. And I’m in a long distance relationship. And I’m over worked and tired. Does someone have any good advice?
I hate my step dad he is a alcoholic and is sarcastic to the point where it is not funny
I LOVE give up the story!! How true is that?!!! I'm a pro at changing subjects so I got that step covered haha. I'm living in a different state to my sisters so this actually is my first Christmas without them.
I had to move in with a family member and his family and I have 2 tweenagers and we live in a small laundry room together, I’ve had to stay longer than I’d had liked but I’m broke ready to move out and he keeps talking me into staying but I’m not sure if he’s doing it because of the rent money, but my kids are begging to move and and I’m stressing out because we all but heads and really not comfortable and there are 9 people living in a 3 bed house. What should I do, someone please help, thanks.
JILL M I can relate we’ve been at my grandparents for 5 year and only meant to stay for 1 and there is another person that lives with them who is very difficult to deal with and live with
Honestly, I don't like Christmas season for this reason.
I came across this at the perfect time Christal! Going on a trip with my hubby's family this week so will be using ALL these tips to protect my energy. Thank you 🙏💖
LOVE YOU!!!!
Sometimes I get sick being passive just being silent letting it all slip sometimes ya gotta stand up to your self.
You were really ahead of the game with this haircut 🔥
Thank you for this! I am slowly opening back up to my family and I want to do it right, without any problems.
This was very helpful , thank you !
Thank you.
It makes me sick and I can’t sleep... it’s devastating. Because it so far removed from who i am but I just block her...
I call them out on it. I make sure im not alone with the person. I make sure a third person is in the room. They change their tune very quickly.
That hair looks great on you
Thank you!!! XO
One family member doesn’t talk
To you what does that mean
If he or she doesn’t talk to you
All I learned from your advice is to stuff my feelings. Thanks.
Family is all you got with that being said some of them you have to love from a distance.
I hate my cousin who live with us. Today, I have decided not to communicate with him anymore and just give up the story
For me, it's my mom..man, she is way too aggressive
Even our neighbours tell her to calm down but dont interfere much
But when she brought covid in our family all I did was take care of myself while living with strangers, those strangers were way more affectionate towards me than her..so much so that I cried when I came back home..
I really was looking forward to studying out of state so I could stay away from her toxicity, but nope...apparently I am useless and cant take care of myself according to her.. so I am not allowed to go anywhere..😞😞
But when she brought covid in our family all I did was take care of myself while living with strangers, those strangers were way more affectionate towards me than her..so much so that I cried when I came back home..
Loved it. Will share it with my family. Thank you for sharing.
My mom often get annoyed by me I don’t know what’s the problem in me she stop talking a whole day then she tell my dad (that I don’t work for her) and dad scold me then she also call my brother and he also scold me at last she cry and when I go to stop her she scold me too 😭 what do I do ?
Awesome advice, thank you. Annoying brother, enough said.
Good advice. Thanks
This is not helping
Perhaps they're trying to share an important but difficult-to-hear truth? Don't assume you're always in the right.
Thanks for the advice. What I’m finding hard, is a particular in-law is so annoying that I can’t bare being in her company. Unfortunately she lives in the same town as me, and we (me, my wife and daughter) end up seeing A LOT of her. If I sit there quietly biting my tongue, I get criticised for being grumpy; I have say things, I get accused for being aggressive; but I just don’t want to around her. I just don’t know what to do! Any help or ideas please?
Give up the past their new people they've changed 🥺
Invisible conversation boundaries ❣️
STOP EXPOSING YOYR BUTTONSSS give up the story 🦋
Always act out of love how you react is the most important part ✨
I really wish my mother would stop yelling at me to do everything..
My brother always finds a way to anoying me all day everyday
Right? Right? Huh. Over 2 mins in and nothing of value.
I am trying to talk to my family members more. I closed out due to a toxic cousin of mine who spent all her time trying to drag me down. I stopped talking to her, it has been 2 years since I have spoken with her, and I really don't plan on speaking to her again. But I stepped away from other family members since she was always around.
I stay home a lot to keep one brother from starting any gossip.. But he manages to get it out, poisoning the rest of my family.. I lost a 19 year old son in 1987,a very loved child, in the military going to college in Germany.. Jealousy I think is there, for that one nephew doesn't seem to care as long as my brother gives to him.. My child worked hard in trying to get somewhere in his, all he paid for while working at a grocery store, then into the military..
I need my mind rested from my brothers criticizing, his geolisy in my child doing better.. My son died while serving our country in 1987, to beat all my brother thinks he can treat me anyway, mainly because I'm alone.. Help!
This has helped so much thank you so much
Excellent advice!! Especially when you're dealing with a toxic, narcissistic father who treats my Golden Child brother like "gold." He can do no "wrong," and me like a doormat. We had been no contact for months and out of the blue he texted me that we should "let go of the past." He engages in name calling and disrespectful behavior towards me and I have to walk on eggs shells to avoid being called names. So, how can I retain my power if he shows up on my doorstep one day and resorts to the old behaviors? I like your Buddhist thinking, but how to implement it when the sh*t hits the fan?
Breakthrough Moment dude I feel the same way but I would say my dad isn’t as bad but he still treats my AWFUL just AWFUL horrible no good brother like he is a king. But still you have to love your family while you can you never know when you’d lose them.
When you said 'how to deal with obnoxious uncle,I thought ,that's the reason why I came here, actually my uncle kindoff touched my neck which I think was not normal,I don't know why but I feel like that.Adults do love by hugging and kissing especially when you meet them after an year or so but his touch was different and suddenly I felt that something is wrong with the way I m touched,i told my mom about this but she couldn't help me a lot ,can u make a video on how to deal with these touchy family members.
Thank you so much! My cousin is so rude to me because of his anger issues
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Your american accent is great. What state are you from?
Las Vegas, Nevada!
How to deal with demanding and unthankful parents who are never happy whatever you do
I live with an annoying auntie who shouts at me for no reason .
THANK YOU UGH
The people I don’t like or can not relate to are usually people who carry themselves like you do. Look at yourself before you give tips, you are fake and too animated to be believed, look at your makeup, your back ground, do you really think you are someone who can coach others when you have everything?
I get that some family members have problems but when is enough enough. Like to be miserable for years and then make everyone around you that is stuck living with you miserable is horrible. Especially when it’s small things that shouldn’t be a big deal and the worst is that then they get boyfriend and become ass kissers and are really nice to them and will do anything for them but are rude to their family. I’m just done living with this person my whole family is but we are stuck!
He just constantly keeps walking in and yelling as loud as possible. It's so obnoxious and I want to die everytime, especially because we are doing online school now.
u r beautiful nd ur videos are more beutiful then u ..u r so sensible nd ur advice are very good..i needed this video so very much lots of love from india...
Thank you Syed
wow.. ik who
How about a family member who doesn’t talk to you
And never interacts with you
What does that mean if one
Of your family members
Doesn’t even talk to you
And never interact with you ever
Lol leave them be
My brother is toxic I have two brothers I think what of mine and they are bigger from me and mom did nothing she even don't scould them even I think what happen of leaving with them.😭😭😭
Until 2:50 it's drama
Thanks☺
please this type of things keep happening what can i do
how do you deal with a difficult bother in law?
Omg this is Sooo my family!! Seriously
If someone shy to say prblms what should I do
Im a Guy but ill join your ladies club 😄
2nd that. Love my family but damn they make it hard!
It's not about gender I think most of us suffer from "that " Family member .
surbhi patel yes ofcourse
Toxic positivity
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The forgiveness we receive through Christ is not earned or deserved. Jesus paid the debt of my sin, I could never pay myself. The Bible clearly states that we all sin and are in need of a Savior. Jesus is the Savior, God sent for all who come to Him in faith for salvation from the punishment of our sins. we categorize sin according to the world’s estimation. Putting the offenses into categories of bad, worse and worst, is not what the Bible says about sin. Either you sin or you don’t (we all sin). Doing the judging of sin, traps us into believing some sins are forgivable and some aren’t. bitterness and resentment gets deeply rooted, causing forgiveness to be seemingly impossible as we allow our emotions to drive our ability to let go of the past.
Hebrews 12:15
"See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many."
The word of God tells us that if we allow bitterness to creep into our hearts and if we become bound up in resentment, discontent, acrimony and grudges against others.. we come short of the grace of God, and have allowed the ungodly characteristic of bitterness to sink its deadly root into our heart, which defiles us before the Lord and causes no end of trouble in our own lives and in the lives of others too. Let us take this warning seriously and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave us. Let us therefore be imitators of God as dear children - walking in love, as Christ also has loved us and gave Himself for us.
Ephesians 4:32
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
"6/10/10 From YahuShua HaMashiach, Our Lord and Savior
The Word of The Lord Spoken to Timothy
For All Those Who Have Ears to Hear
(Regarding unbelieving family members)
My sons and daughters, what is trust with abandonment? What is obedience without expectation? Is not your reasonable service love without condition? Yet I tell you the truth, trust is more than letting go. For it remains standing that it must also be shown in your obedience and by your example, and by your willingness to never deny My name, no matter the time or the season. Beloved, place your loved ones in My hands, as I have said, for at no time were they forsaken. For I am the gate for all My sheep, and they also will hear My voice in the day they are humbled, the day their hearts crack and their pride crumbles... And oh what a cry shall be heard, oh what wailing shall come forth.
Yet are you not also My hands and My feet, My voice, a testimony and a lamentation bearing witness of Me? Therefore, again I say to you, do not deny My name to please others or because of fear. Make no effort to keep the peace for their sakes. Rather as it is written: Proclaim My words; be instant in and out of season. Reprove, rebuke and exhort, with all long-suffering, according to that which I have shown you. For one who truly loves Me speaks about Me, and remains faithful at all times and in every season. And one who places Me above all else has shown their loved ones who is first, and what faithfulness truly is. For there is no true love apart from Me; nor can one remain faithful unless they have received of Me.
Therefore to speak of Me in the
Company of others is to love them...
And to deny Me in the company
Of others is to hate them,
Whereby you have also revealed that
Your comfort is of more importance than
The Truth, and keeping the peace
More important than their lives...
Says The Lord."
www.thevolumesoftruth.com/Be_Instant_In_and_Out_of_Season
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Who else is here because your annoying little brother is bothering you
I hate my Sister 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Me too
BARE WITH ME GUYS
I haven't seen my mom and sis in 5 years . My sister came at about August and then started Drama and shit . Bare in mind I live in Somalia and them 2 live in England . Im tryna take a break from the National exam and my sis comes around and brings chaos in the house with me and my dad . She saw a cousin of mine shouting at his sibling cah he saw here with a boy which obviously everyone would want to protect there sister from these boys. That's an instinct fr . My sisters a feminist skr immediately brings a concept of Men dont treat women right in Somalia and shit . Long story short , my mum comes in August and she brings a concept of I dont treat women right . I now live with am auntie who's 10x worse and if I say something , I'm the bad guy .
If ur reference is not the Bible, then you are wasting ur time.
The bible is just a book dude, not a guide.
@@axcruz987 u can argue all u want, but Jesus is the main key principle for our lives. The Bible contains God's message to us His people to help us live life abundantly on this earth. So if all ur advise is not based on the words Jesus, your just wasting ur time.