JUICY AGE GAP RELATIONSHIP Q&A

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @MindyMinx
    @MindyMinx  4 года назад +520

    Hieeee guys! The first upload of this video was deleted from RUclips due to the video stopping half way through for some including myself but was playing fine for others due to a glitch. I deleted the original upload completely because I want every viewer to have a chance to view the entire video not only 50%. Love you guys so much & thank you for your patience while I was re uploading. No changes were made to the content of the video.

    • @coffeebean725
      @coffeebean725 4 года назад +15

      Mindy Minx hieeeeee! Hey I was just wondering if Larry could expand on how his family reacted next time you do a Q&A? Does he have any brothers, sisters, or parents he had to tell that he was nervous about the reaction? Love you guys!

    • @sydneydean1311
      @sydneydean1311 4 года назад +5

      I love y'alls q &a's Please Do More!!!

    • @sydneydean1311
      @sydneydean1311 4 года назад +11

      Next time y'all do an age gap q & a can Larry please talk about how his police officer coworkers reacted/ felt about the age gap? 😊

    • @samanthafrechette8952
      @samanthafrechette8952 4 года назад +3

      You guys are so cute together ❤️

    • @luvpixiedustkimberly2484
      @luvpixiedustkimberly2484 4 года назад +5

      I know it’s irrelevant, but I have always wondered about Larry’s ex. Like how long had he been single before you guys got together & if and when Bruce ever has children....will she be in the picture at the same time as you guys....like something that you will have to deal with or anything like that. Does that make sense?

  • @taylors.23
    @taylors.23 4 года назад +4342

    Why was this recommended to me.... lol

  • @katharrington1220
    @katharrington1220 4 года назад +4891

    this girl is making money off the fact that y’all think her relationship is weird lmao

    • @faithbetts4613
      @faithbetts4613 4 года назад +71

      No she making money off as a RUclipsr lol... your jeloues

    • @Quode001
      @Quode001 4 года назад +10

      Good

    • @katharrington1220
      @katharrington1220 4 года назад +80

      Faith Betts how am i jealous? lmao that’s a very bold assumption considering i never said anything negative

    • @donnabarden4494
      @donnabarden4494 4 года назад +21

      Goody for them, lovely couple 🤩

    • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
      @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 года назад +18

      She also gonna make money off the old hags death.

  • @sweeterthanhic6430
    @sweeterthanhic6430 4 года назад +347

    She’s really good with her words, careful how she says everything, & aware how anything COULD be offensive & it’s so genuine

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад +26

      Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @stephaniebalog9207
      @stephaniebalog9207 4 года назад +5

      I agree

    • @robertbrooks3007
      @robertbrooks3007 4 года назад +4

      I noticed that as well. It’s so nice to see that and they both are just very respectful. All the best to you both !!

    • @janecoe9407
      @janecoe9407 11 месяцев назад +1

      YES BUT THEY SEEM LIKE FRIENDS NOT MARRIED.

  • @Fry_Plantain
    @Fry_Plantain 4 года назад +1356

    While I don’t really have an issue with their relationship, I DO have a problem with RUclips putting this into my recommendations.... WTF RUclips, why? Best of luck to you both tho 😂😂😂

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад +70

      Thank you lol sorry we popped up in your recommended ✨😊

    • @Fry_Plantain
      @Fry_Plantain 4 года назад +12

      Mindy Minx lmaooo. It’s cool

    • @cascadestars
      @cascadestars 4 года назад +27

      @@Fry_Plantain once I got a recommendation for video about how to wash windows.
      .....I watched it

    • @Fry_Plantain
      @Fry_Plantain 4 года назад +3

      cascadestars lmfaoooo

    • @Surdeigt
      @Surdeigt 4 года назад +5

      RUclips recommended a video on the people cleaning up a house after a crime scene, where they showed us how and what they do. I subscribed. 😂

  • @AA28374
    @AA28374 4 года назад +697

    Why are some of y’all judging? As long as everything is legal, consensual, and safe it doesn’t matter.

    • @kamisa7362
      @kamisa7362 4 года назад +31

      @jake shepherd. Stop being ignorant. I dated someone way older than me for 10 years and it had nothing to do with money. I also never cheated on him and we were both in love.

    • @GeneralGorillaSonicOC
      @GeneralGorillaSonicOC 4 года назад +3

      Usually age gaps in dating are proof gold diggers will do anything for money. If this guy died tomorrow make sure the both the police and life insurance agency investigate before forking over cash.

    • @AA28374
      @AA28374 4 года назад +21

      General Gorilla “usually” huh? Where are your statistics to back up your ignorant statement? I have family members who are in age gap relationships, and they have been married 20 years, and love each other very much. Get over yourself and quit with the degrading assumptions on women.

    • @AA28374
      @AA28374 4 года назад +7

      skies. “Weird” is subjective. That is only a matter of opinion

    • @RaquelNavas
      @RaquelNavas 4 года назад +6

      I agree with you they deserve to be happy.

  • @laurenb1284
    @laurenb1284 4 года назад +683

    " you would be surprised how many questions we get regarding the age gap" not surpising at all actually....

    • @saltandpepperandmint
      @saltandpepperandmint 4 года назад +1

      Lauren Batterbee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 4 года назад +4

      That’s the same thing I was saying. It’s so obvious that they would get hella questions about that

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 4 года назад +1300

    Even though there’s a big age gap, I think they’re on the same wavelength and compliment each other well

    • @AhmedXbox
      @AhmedXbox 4 года назад +13

      Adnan A man your everywhere lol

    • @Jennifer-uh8th
      @Jennifer-uh8th 4 года назад +1

      Are u following me? You are EVERYWHERE

    • @GeneralGorillaSonicOC
      @GeneralGorillaSonicOC 4 года назад +5

      Usually age gaps in dating are proof gold diggers will do anything for money. If this guy died tomorrow make sure the both the police and life insurance agency investigate before forking over cash.

    • @sydneycohn6455
      @sydneycohn6455 4 года назад +2

      There's no actual problem with an age gap relationship. Psychology understands that people initially view these relationships as being 'exploitive', because they falsely associate an unhealthy power dynamic conditioned by money, sex, or lifestyle. So they end up stereotyping the couple. Because of this initial wrong view, people can't imagine that this kind of relationship is based on shared values, beliefs, and interests. Bascially people are just confused and think that they're not.

    • @pdg61met
      @pdg61met 4 года назад

      Wait about 5 to 7 years. Someone will be very unhappy.

  • @mariaphares4783
    @mariaphares4783 4 года назад +149

    Aww, Larry made me cry when he was talking about kids and how it would affect people, like her parents. You can see how much he loves her. You guys are way too cute and sweet. ❤️

  • @lilykeidel9421
    @lilykeidel9421 3 года назад +151

    My parents are 15 years apart!! My mom had me at 40 so my dad was 55 when he became a dad (I’m currently 15). And all I can say is that older dads are THE BEST! I know you guys are going through your IUI journey right now, and I’m so incredibly excited to see y’all become parents. You mentioned in this video that it’s “now or never” for Larry when it comes to having another child. I hope that Larry isn’t afraid of aging while raising this kid. My dad being an older dad was truly the best thing ever. I never ever wished that my dad was young like all my friends dads, in fact it never once crossed my mind. My dad unfortunately passed away in November of 2019 after a battle with cancer, and he would have just turned 71❤️ Although I only had 14 years with him and my time with him was cut short, he has shown me enough love to last me the rest of my life. Larry, I promise you that age is just a number ESPECIALLY when you’re a parent. OLDER DADS ROCK!! Best of luck to you both as you prepare for this baby :)

    • @ASMRA33
      @ASMRA33 3 года назад +11

      This is the sweetest comment on earth! This is how we should view our lives! God never promised that this life would be easy but focusing on what we have been given..our blessings-helps! You're in my prayers! Love from Mpls!

    • @lilykeidel9421
      @lilykeidel9421 3 года назад

      @@ASMRA33 thank you so much!

    • @marykyzer4373
      @marykyzer4373 2 года назад +1

      I agree that older dad's a great my mom is 47 and my dad would of been 75 if he was still here

    • @caydence808
      @caydence808 2 года назад +3

      Such a sweet sweet comment! So happy you were so well loved by your dad that it will last a life time. Beautiful.

    • @HoischenFA
      @HoischenFA Год назад +1

      Wonderful words! You're so right!

  • @jesiyadigg
    @jesiyadigg 3 года назад +92

    This relationship truly is a diamond in the ruff. They’re so wholesome. Larry doesn’t have a single creepy bone in his body.
    Im embarrassed to admit that the age gap relationships I’ve witnessed, the old man is creepy and perverted. They constantly want their ego fed. They’d take any young body they find sexy. And the young girls that will deal with a man like that do it for money and gifts.
    Larry is confident in his skin, he doesn’t have an ego to feed. He respects Mindys mind, body, and soul. He doesn’t treat her like a child or as though he’s above her. They have mature, adult conversations where they speak to each other as equals. Literally everything about their relationship is the opposite of the stigma that age gap relationships have, especially with an older man and young woman. They’re singlehandedly breaking the stigma and giving other age gap couples the confidence to embrace their love regardless of any judgement.
    I know this comment is a lot. It’s just so refreshing to have my mind cleansed from the image of creeps with beautiful, usually broken girls hanging a dollar over her head to have his way with her, and turn her into his accessory.

    • @vee6411
      @vee6411 2 года назад +2

      Exactly, sometimes you don’t get to decide who you fall for. Larry seems like he genuinely loves her and they have spoke about how they met, which was coincidental. I think the creepy old guys usually prey on younger women, and that is all they go for. So I completely agree with you.

    • @moon-ha8192
      @moon-ha8192 Месяц назад

      I 100% agree. Larry is a really great, genuine guy and really respects Mindy. they match each others wave length.

  • @xDreamer17
    @xDreamer17 4 года назад +514

    My parent are 20 years apart and they’re happily married since 30 years... and my boyfriend and I are 17 years apart and we’re deeply in love since 3 years.. age has never been an issue to us thankfully

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад +17

      Wishing all of you the best🥰✨

    • @Flores324
      @Flores324 4 года назад +6

      Dang

    • @Kavyathegreat
      @Kavyathegreat 4 года назад +4

      @@Flores324
      .. 👀

    • @TheDougSpot
      @TheDougSpot 4 года назад +4

      Let me guess, in both cases the man is the older one

    • @bimalkumarsahadev8824
      @bimalkumarsahadev8824 4 года назад +5

      @@TheDougSpot
      Look at the great relationships between the French President and his former teacher who is 25 yrs elder to him!And read about and watch the platonic love between the Greek Piano Maestro Yaani and his beloved wife 16 years his senior and among sports stars: one of the most famous cricket genius in the last few decades Sachin Tendulkar who fell in love with a doctor 8 years older than him while he was undergoing treatment in a hospital when he was just 19 or 20 and married her later & living happily even at the age of 42 & 50 now, with their two teenage children. So large age gap marriages are not only taking place between older men marrying younger women but the other way too...DGLS_Official..!!

  • @USER.__777
    @USER.__777 4 года назад +96

    Y’all vibe so well together and the fact that he cares about your wants and your family’s wants speaks volumes! I completely support age gap relationships if there was no grooming involved!

  • @jessieg1107
    @jessieg1107 3 года назад +71

    I'm in a 31 year age gap (28 + 59) and it's nice to know there are others out there that are experiencing the same thing. Thanks for creating this platform so others can find and relate to xx

    • @Celinexdp
      @Celinexdp 2 года назад +1

      Please can I ask advice 🙏🏻 I am 19 and my bf is 39. His family loves me and we are really happy together. But I haven’t told my family or parents because I know they will NOT approve and they will be harsh. How can I bring it to you then in the best way and deal with their criticism?

    • @pariahazul8653
      @pariahazul8653 2 года назад

      @@Celinexdp At the end of the day it shouldn’t matter what they think at this point. As long as he’s serious about a relationship with you cares about you that’s all that matters

    • @juliebaxter3564
      @juliebaxter3564 Год назад

      @@Celinexdp Be frank with your family. I kept my relationship secret for too long now we're getting married. Your family may also know. At 19 you are classed as an adult so hope they qre ok with your news.

    • @wanishabirahmad9268
      @wanishabirahmad9268 4 месяца назад

      ​@C❤❤❤elinexdp where from u

  • @alsmyth5251
    @alsmyth5251 4 года назад +418

    This came up in my recommended and I was like "oh god here we go this is gonna be weird" lol but actually they seem like a sweet and normal couple.

  • @jackson2556
    @jackson2556 4 года назад +167

    I am personally not bothered by age gap relationships, as long as all partners are happy it's non of my business 💖

  • @laceandtullebysamira
    @laceandtullebysamira 4 года назад +225

    Please remember that you can adopt, there are so many children out there that need a home. A child does not need to be a biological child to be able to love them as if they were your own. That love can grow to be so great and deep for that child just like you fall in love with someone.

    • @jaxl1931
      @jaxl1931 4 года назад +8

      I completely agree. Someone told me its expensive and can be quite difficult to actually adopt even if you have a stable home.

    • @nadiaevee
      @nadiaevee 4 года назад +17

      Samira Reyes some people just want a child that can they themselves produced if that’s the right word lol i personally will defo want my own biological children x

    • @MousyLeigh
      @MousyLeigh 4 года назад +2

      There’s actually an age limit to adopt from foster care though.

    • @MousyLeigh
      @MousyLeigh 4 года назад

      101sanford what?

    • @MousyLeigh
      @MousyLeigh 4 года назад

      101sanford I’m not sure what that has to do with my comment. I was simply telling the other commenter that there are age requirements when you adopt a child from foster care.

  • @fatimagracem-
    @fatimagracem- 4 года назад +50

    not in a gap relationship but i watched this entire thing just to be informed, and not reminisce in the “ignorance is bliss” mindset so that when i do witness one or anything in that realm, i won’t be so quick to judge but rather be more open to understanding them.

  • @filipinaamericancouple144
    @filipinaamericancouple144 4 года назад +16

    My husband and I is 23 years age gap.. he's the sweetest man I've meet. We both love each other we enjoy life to the fullest..

  • @hollylangford24
    @hollylangford24 4 года назад +157

    I’m 26 and my husbands 43. We have been married for 3 years and have a perfect baby girl ❤️
    Edit- I just want to say to anyone thinking about replying to this with something disgusting and false like some already have, I own a company (on my own), I’m financially comfortable (on my own) and I fell in love with my husband when he was working an average job and I was working an average job. Our daughter was fully planned after a year of being married, and we subsequently lost our 2nd child (who was also very much planned) during pregnancy complications a few months ago. Nothing about our relationship has been fake nor forced nor for anything other than love.
    To anyone thinking age gaps are wrong, if you met the love of your life, your dream person, but they were younger/older than you, would you say no to forever with them? Because if your answer is yes, then you don’t truly love them. Love is unconditional. I hope everyone finds what I’ve got with my marriage ❤️

  • @sizzle8547
    @sizzle8547 4 года назад +518

    I almost cried when he said “i could be ruining your life”

    • @ruthlessfairy
      @ruthlessfairy 4 года назад +48

      My partner also said this to me multiple times (we are 20 years apart). It's so sweet and comforting to know that these men actually exist.

    • @tabethmureya8137
      @tabethmureya8137 4 года назад +5

      Same... I felt that 💔

    • @jamiehorwitz1227
      @jamiehorwitz1227 4 года назад +40

      He’s not “ruining your life.” It’s your decision who you want to be with. And you choose him.

    • @rebeccadebrier7442
      @rebeccadebrier7442 4 года назад +12

      My husband has said that to me more than once. He’s 18 years older than I am.

    • @aylamiller5752
      @aylamiller5752 4 года назад +5

      I know and he looked so sad :( it makes me think about the fact that if I date people that are much older than me they'll always have that guilt in the back of their head for something that isnt their fault.

  • @Silvia-vg7zr
    @Silvia-vg7zr 4 года назад +294

    My parents have a 21 years age gap and are still happily married. My mom is 53 and my dad is 74. They met when my mom was 19, and no my dad is not rich so it wasn’t about the money

    • @santaemin2993
      @santaemin2993 4 года назад +2

      Silvia Sfriso 😱😱

    • @itsmarcia7519
      @itsmarcia7519 4 года назад +30

      My dad is 83 and my mother if she was still alive she would be 60. I'm currently 18. But I wish my dad was younger because sometimes it's really hard for me to communicate with him.

    • @willgaff3183
      @willgaff3183 4 года назад +5

      My mum 43 my dad 72 😂

    • @Randompotatoes-qs7bm
      @Randompotatoes-qs7bm 4 года назад +4

      It's Marcia I’m sorry, that’s the thing that all these selfish people don’t think about. :(

    • @vgrayz6628
      @vgrayz6628 4 года назад +3

      @@itsmarcia7519 this is the main reason why people should not have that much of a bigger age gap

  • @amy2565
    @amy2565 4 года назад +10

    This video is so heartwarming, there's a 20 year gap between me and my partner ,we have been together 2 years and are now engaged, it's disgusting how rude and insulting strangers can be looking in from the outside in ,stay awesome guys ,you look great together 🥰

    • @AmericanDreamer
      @AmericanDreamer 10 месяцев назад

      Hi, Amy! Are you guys still together? Did you marry? I wish you both a great 2024 💛 and a lot of joy and love! 💛 I hope you dont mind sharing with me - how to go about if your older bf's (he is 19, almost 20 y older than me, so same as you and your boyfriend ) friends do not really accept and include you? I mean, they are civil to me, but not more than that and dont rly want to befriend me genuinely, just for the sake of my bf do they act civil (that's really the most accurate word ) -hi, how are you, bye! I would love to become part of their group/friendship, but it is not happening, somehow it doesn't click and it has caused a lot of heart ache on my side. They all are in their mid/ late 40ies and early 50ies. So I get it - they are not used to having much younger friends. For me the gap has never been a problem, coz all my life I have always dealt better with older people, better connection overall and I am used to having older friends. But they seem to be very off put by something, I am guessing it is the age gap -both mine and my bf's and age gap between me and them. I gather they do not want to accept me coz of that and also coz i come from another country and i do not yet speak the local language altho you can not be fluent and still show positive curiosity and want to get to know your good friend's partner. right? I have had the weirdest cutest Google translator conversations with people and it results in lot of fun in the process and really communicating despite that! Like it should be more about connecting not about dismissing someone based on the language! (recently I found out that many of them are very good at English but they been avoiding to use it with me and refused to talk, so we could not have convos when at party/hangout. And my bf has known it all along that they are capable of English convos and he has said nothing! They rly like my bf and so I am puzzled, why their immediate reaction is like it is..Bwsed on what? My bf doesn't seem to care, not also concerned about why such distant attitudes from them. He is well accepted and that is enough for him. If they came to know me and see that I'm, let's say, bad for my bf, then that would be legit, but they have not tried to get to know who am I, they literally don't know me and about me, except whatever scarps my bf has shared with them!! ! So ...what is going on...He seems uninterested so I let it go but it bothers me deeply. They just act excluding in various ways and because they sweet talk him (especially one of his besties) it escapes his notice..can you pls give me some advise? it has been hurtful, friends means very much to him, since his parents are dead for years..i dont mind his friends at all, just sad because he puts them first and somehow is not even troubled that this is the dynamic between us and that they act like that..it would bother the hell out of me.. in lip service they talk friendly about (!) me, but in deed and when my bf is not around - they dont wanna talk to me. i dont want to make things worse than they are. it has been this way ever since i first met them. I appreciate any insights. Me and him are currently on the very brink of break up 💔😬 It has been a tough ride.

  • @jessicaqu
    @jessicaqu 3 года назад +16

    I’m of Mindy’s age, and can totally empathize with her. Proud of you guys for staying strong and living your best life.

  • @laurene1389
    @laurene1389 4 года назад +33

    You two are so genuine and lovely. Regarding having kids Mindy, remember that even if you were with a spouse your own age, there are no guarantees it would be easy to have a child then either! There are no guarantees, the most important thing is to have a stable marriage and you clearly do. You are both going to be wonderful parents together, I wish you all the luck!

  • @emelien4489
    @emelien4489 4 года назад +65

    It's 28 years between me and my fiance, I'm in my 20s and he in his 40s. We have been together for almost 3 years, and he is truly the love of my life. Thank you for being a wonderful couple that inspire others.

    • @fabulouzD
      @fabulouzD 4 года назад +6

      Emelie N that’s nice to hear. I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 43 .

    • @prnst4r
      @prnst4r 4 года назад +4

      He must be hot, probably looks younger than what he is and probably wealthy too.

    • @prnst4r
      @prnst4r 4 года назад +3

      @@fabulouzD He must be hot, probably looks younger than what he is and probably wealthy too.

    • @nondumisogasser7155
      @nondumisogasser7155 4 года назад

      @@fabulouzD stop.

    • @nondumisogasser7155
      @nondumisogasser7155 4 года назад

      @@fabulouzD girl...a guy 10 years older but this be pushing it.

  • @emilymohrmann236
    @emilymohrmann236 4 года назад +194

    My husband and I are 19 years apart. He is my best friend and I don’t know where I would be without him.

    • @bayonna1810
      @bayonna1810 4 года назад +10

      the age doesn’t matter as long as there’s love and support and u have that strong relationship that makes him ur best friend not only ur husband everything is so amazing ☺️ also me and my husband are 11 years apart 🙂

    • @mrmanq9517
      @mrmanq9517 3 года назад +1

      The wisdom of an older man is a MUST in a womans life

  • @Momandwife04
    @Momandwife04 4 года назад +379

    To everyone who has a problem with their relationship, why don’t you keep scrolling? Stop being so judgmental. If she’s happy that’s all that matters.

    • @BrendaHernandez-pg5xp
      @BrendaHernandez-pg5xp 4 года назад +3

      Yes!!!

    • @Maeve2001
      @Maeve2001 4 года назад +4

      No problem with it at all and I’m glad that they found each and super happy for them however, I just don’t think they’ve considered when she’s 60 and still wanting to travel and enjoy life, he’ll be 90 if he even makes it that long. I think it’s sad to think about 😐

    • @spanishcaramel7
      @spanishcaramel7 4 года назад

      ..and him (if they BOTH happy)

    • @Momandwife04
      @Momandwife04 4 года назад

      spanishcaramel7 that’s what I meant

    • @Momandwife04
      @Momandwife04 4 года назад

      spanishcaramel7 he is happy too

  • @hotelblud6701
    @hotelblud6701 4 года назад +235

    My boyfriend is only 8 years older than me but it’s still a big difference to some people

    • @amandac8836
      @amandac8836 4 года назад +2

      Same, especially since the last person I was with was 2 years younger than me, having someone who is 8 years older now is a big change for me

    • @LBR19530
      @LBR19530 4 года назад +11

      Mine is 8 years older than me too and it’s honestly not weird at all. People are so judgmental

    • @danabxoxo379
      @danabxoxo379 4 года назад +5

      Mine is 6 yrs older and is of a different race and ppl look at us weird... but I really don’t care ppl my age are not srs about life!

  • @1journal2catstea39
    @1journal2catstea39 4 года назад +34

    I am 14 years younger than my boyfriend. He is the most amazing person. I want to be with him for the rest of my life. He is so smart and so sweet and so generous. If I cry he cries with me. I cannot imagine life without him. I am happy for you two. 😊

    • @bibtii9691
      @bibtii9691 4 года назад

      1journal2cats &tea So are my parents they are still together after 24 years :) It works just like every relationship as long as there is communication, happiness, love and trust, the relationship is functioning 😊

  • @desi83
    @desi83 4 года назад +28

    I’m so glad I found you guys. I’m in an age gap relationship as well. 24 year age gap. 17 years together! I’m 36 now, he’s 60. You have no idea how much I appreciate y’all’s videos 🥰🥰🤗🤗

  • @nicolasrivera3733
    @nicolasrivera3733 4 года назад +56

    Y’all are so adorable and tbh I wish more people would come out about their age gap. I was in a 35 year age gap and was deeply in love but the pressure from society and family kind of pressed us apart. Thanks for sharing your amazing story. 😇

    • @raghavnamasivayam5098
      @raghavnamasivayam5098 2 года назад +1

      well how old were you
      well how was old was your gf
      If you dont mind

  • @kristen_xoxos4143
    @kristen_xoxos4143 4 года назад +10

    I'm so glad to see someone on RUclips that's in a age gap relationship. I'm 28 and my bf of almost 6 years is 55 and it's been the best relationship I've ever had.

  • @autumnross6647
    @autumnross6647 4 года назад +15

    I absolutely love you guys! I am 29 and In a 18 year gap relationship with the absolute love of my life. So nice to be able to relate to someone!

  • @LoveHopeFaith90
    @LoveHopeFaith90 4 года назад +48

    I'm in a 22 year age gap relationship! I'm 30 and he's 52 and we are the happiest we have ever been! Age is merely a number! Love you guys so much!!!!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад +4

      Brilynn90 Yay! Sending you both love🥰 Thank you for your support!❤️

  • @sherribaldwin2239
    @sherribaldwin2239 4 года назад +86

    I think you guys are such a great couple! I think Mindy is an “old soul” and Larry seems to be “young at heart” (he likes Harry Potter, collectibles, etc). I think that makes you both meet I’m the middle and makes you guys a perfect match ❤️

  • @laraann3252
    @laraann3252 4 года назад +84

    You two are the literal sweetest people on the planet🥺💗

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад +2

      Lara Ann Thank you🥰❤️

  • @sammyrothrock6981
    @sammyrothrock6981 10 месяцев назад +3

    Its awesome! Im 61 she is 44 its been beautiful there is 17 years between us we have been together for 6 years ! She asked me and I said why not? Happiness and love now is so fulfilled now! I always dated women my age I cant believe how beautiful things are now with a younger woman. Peace, love , harmony ,like minds ! Her family immediately loved and accepted me! All the very best to you all!

  • @theswiftvet7107
    @theswiftvet7107 4 года назад +22

    My parents have a 30 year age gap ... and they had me naturally! So it's definitely possible, don't lose hope guys! Love you forever and always. Love knows no boundaries, that's what makes it so beautiful

    • @theswiftvet7107
      @theswiftvet7107 4 года назад

      @@chocona3639 its definitely true! My parents are very happy together. I think every relationship has highs and lows.

  • @johnhammond2123
    @johnhammond2123 4 года назад +6

    My girlfriend and I are are 21 years apart and it's nice to see we aren't alone so thank you so much! We are now expecting a baby! We had a miscarriage last year and we got pregnant a year exactly after the miscarriage. Such a blessing!

  • @salmaba3229
    @salmaba3229 4 года назад +92

    This man is a precious gentleman

  • @tarabelleenoch3305
    @tarabelleenoch3305 4 года назад +46

    “We deal with our battles as they come.” ❤️

  • @OnCamWithCami
    @OnCamWithCami 4 года назад +150

    Honestly I’m not bothered by age gaps as long as both members are consenting adults, and that there was no previous predatory behavior/grooming! Rooting for you guys!💓

  • @kellynemecek5894
    @kellynemecek5894 4 года назад +9

    My dad and stepmom are 14 years apart, and they are so great together. I’m so happy they have each other, and to have such a wonderful stepmom in my life.

  • @roadschoolerusa9621
    @roadschoolerusa9621 4 года назад +15

    I like it when someone asked about “older will be gone sooner” and you answered nope coz we don’t know when and what age we’ll be gone.Some are sick but they’ll still alive,and there’s are healthy people but gone due to accident.So that’s a positive thought about having a big age gap.

  • @Swedishgrl360
    @Swedishgrl360 2 года назад +7

    I know you might not see this bc this is an older video BUT videos like this one and couples like you and Larry has been so helpful for me in my new age gap relationship. I was WAY better prepared for some difficulties that i wouldn’t have been if i hadn’t followed you and your relationship before. Thank you for sharing your beautiful love and journey 🥰

  • @shelby5781
    @shelby5781 4 года назад +27

    Love these Q and As! My husband and are 21 years apart and doctors told us we would probably never conceive and we have a 19 month old daughter now ❤️ it CAN happen and just try to keep the faith. Love you guys and you’d be great parents.

  • @marymay6387
    @marymay6387 4 года назад +9

    I honestly love you two! I have been in a relationship with a man 2x my age for almost 5 months. I'm 27, he's 52. But I don't feel like the age makes any difference besides the life experience he has that I havent had yet. No kids, no divorces, life is so easy and fun and romantic. Most of our friends and family have been supportive, we both just love the other for who we are and are so happy! Thanks for posting your life and letting people realize that being in love doesn't require you to be a certain age!!! 🥰

  • @jemmamckee4907
    @jemmamckee4907 4 года назад +3

    This video and the comments especially have helped me a lot. I’m in a 13 year (and a few months) gap with someone who is absolutely amazing. He is much healthier than me and looks the same age as me but, I struggled ever since we got engaged in May 2019. After watching this video, I feel a weight lifted. Thank you & much love.

  • @millireay6738
    @millireay6738 4 года назад +55

    I’m 30 and my husband is 54. I swear I’m the grownup in the relationship. I cannot keep up with him. Lol. Would love to get to know another awesome couple like us! 😈💜

    • @DianaRodriguez-fi1mt
      @DianaRodriguez-fi1mt 3 года назад +5

      My husband and I been together for 9 years now we have 2 beautiful children and we have a 23 yrs difference

    • @kurlykaitlyn
      @kurlykaitlyn 3 года назад +7

      Id love to do that! I have a 30yr gap. we’ve been happy for almost 10years. I don’t care what other people think. I have the most fun in my life with him. And I love him more every year

  • @MarkandJoey
    @MarkandJoey 4 года назад +15

    Loved this video! We’re in a 19 age gap relationship, and it’s always nice to see other couples share their love for each other.

  • @cwilkGMCR
    @cwilkGMCR 4 года назад +591

    “You don’t need a pill, trust me.”
    😂😂😂 HECK YEAH, LARRY!

    • @TheAc550
      @TheAc550 4 года назад +15

      Not all heroes wear capes 🇺🇸

    • @GeneralGorillaSonicOC
      @GeneralGorillaSonicOC 4 года назад +2

      That pill probably is cyanide or arsenic.

    • @savibunni3750
      @savibunni3750 4 года назад +5

      i was like awww yeah get summm

  • @NS-s951
    @NS-s951 4 года назад +98

    The way he looks at her is so beautiful

  • @rainbowliann
    @rainbowliann 4 года назад +35

    She is such an old soul ❤️ I can see why they click.

  • @Bailster
    @Bailster 4 года назад +32

    You are a beautiful couple. Love should have no barriers or restrictions - it’s about the person that fits your heart and soul as much as you for theirs. Thank you for being so open about your “unconventional” relationship as to help open minds and inspire discussions. It’s 2020. Time to embrace humanity - raw, imperfect, unexpected and beautifully organic.
    Stay you! You’re an inspiration! ❤️

  • @poteetdana
    @poteetdana 4 года назад +15

    You can see and feel the love that you guys have for each other. Continue to share your precious journey with all of us. Love ya'll.

  • @awakenedwarrior6880
    @awakenedwarrior6880 4 года назад +7

    We're 37 age gap... And im 38 now...
    And i just love this man with all my heart. His heart and soul is just so beautiful. But i think, like larry he's into that thought... He's in so much confusion maybe. But I just love him so much.
    Thanks for this inspiring video...
    Much love and God bless

  • @Anewsandgossip
    @Anewsandgossip Год назад +4

    Older men are so much more romantic and gentle. I love your relationship. ❤❤❤❤

  • @sarahsalsa2461
    @sarahsalsa2461 4 года назад +5

    There's an age gap between my boyfriend and I.
    People freak out about it.
    Ultimately, no matter what other people say or think, it's NOT their relationship and it doesn't impact their lives at all tbh, so it shouldn't really cause so much direct hate and backlash. Its sad that people can't just let people be happy and live their version of happy.
    Good luck to you both! May love fill your lives forever. ❤

  • @TM-tw1py
    @TM-tw1py Год назад +4

    I think much of society tells us that age gap relationships are not good, but the reality is a nice gap is age is a very healthy functional thing in a relationship.

  • @dollyramos367
    @dollyramos367 4 года назад +24

    Me and my husband are 20 years apart we have two beautiful girls and life couldn’t be any better. ❤️❤️love your videos

  • @marissamurray7610
    @marissamurray7610 4 года назад +13

    I’m 25 and my husband 49. We have three beautiful kids and the happiest ever. I have found the live of my life and soulmate with an age gap. ❤️

    • @isybahhm1069
      @isybahhm1069 4 года назад

      Dude is going to be 67 when they graduate high school lmao

  • @kaylagreene7688
    @kaylagreene7688 2 года назад +3

    I am going back and watching your older videos, and I just love Larry’s love and compassion for you. How he thought more
    About you than himself, so selfless than anything else. It speaks volumes of his character and love for you. You two are just wonderful wish we could meet you.

  • @caitlin5508rules
    @caitlin5508rules 4 года назад +3

    My boyfriend is 12 years older than me and it’s 50/50 on how family and friends feel about it. I love watching you two because I know age doesn’t matter, but it’s nice seeing another couple with an age Gap who is as happy as ever ❤️

  • @happy_2b_nappy
    @happy_2b_nappy 4 года назад +133

    Why do people feel they need to explain their relationships to others who cares what they think or what their opinion is about it love who you love and be happy
    She’s pretty too Larry

    • @monikak285
      @monikak285 4 года назад +3

      Mr. Soxside89 She doesn’t feel Like She has to. She makes dollars doing it

  • @jtrees21
    @jtrees21 4 года назад +40

    The majority of this q&a focused on the younger persons experiences/ perspectives. Would love hear more in regards to the elder persons experiences/ perspectives (or more balanced going forward). Thx! 🙏

  • @katiemarie4651
    @katiemarie4651 4 года назад +82

    I've been watching you guys for a while now . All I see is two people who love and adore each other 🤷‍♀️❤

    • @AndreyaWryght
      @AndreyaWryght 4 года назад +2

      That's the first thing I noticed. The way they look at each other ❤️❤️👌true love right there

  • @abygaelthompson3105
    @abygaelthompson3105 4 года назад +131

    I'm a little concerned why this popped up on my recommendation list lolol

  • @shadeofjade2040
    @shadeofjade2040 4 года назад +28

    Life decisions from a person with more experience is a benefit to your relationship for sure!

  • @Jaxxie1981
    @Jaxxie1981 4 года назад +69

    I'm 39 and my husband is 55. My husband worries that he'll be a burden when I'm still feeling youthful, but I love him so much it doesn't matter to me.

    • @selgomezfan1rcw
      @selgomezfan1rcw 4 года назад +14

      Thats not a bad age gap though

    • @suseysoll448
      @suseysoll448 4 года назад +8

      16 years is not that little actually

    • @umut967
      @umut967 4 года назад +3

      You are a real woman, your husband is lucky

    • @BrookeMonroe
      @BrookeMonroe 4 года назад

      Awwww 🥰🥺

    • @mikafreak1
      @mikafreak1 4 года назад +1

      My boyfriend and I are 15 years apart. Love him so much!!

  • @juliecameron4171
    @juliecameron4171 4 года назад +16

    Loved this video!!! ♥️ me and my fiancé Gary who are 28 yrs apart, we have twin boys and are getting married June 27th this year and watching you two and how comfortable you are in public makes me more confident to do the same. 😊 I just love y’all

    • @kurlykaitlyn
      @kurlykaitlyn 3 года назад +3

      Yasss!!! In the first few years I was scared and ashamed but we would go on trips and wouldn’t worry and have such a time!! 30yr gap but strangers always saw we were a couple because our energy and dynamic with eachother. I’m almost 10years of being with this man and I can’t imagine myself being with anyone else to make me this happy

  • @tandb1090
    @tandb1090 4 года назад +32

    Love you bouth , i adopted 2 girl with my husband because of the age gap, and they are the blessing in my life , happy as ever.

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад +2

      N d Aw that melts my heart! I’m so happy for you & your family🥰❤️✨

    • @tandb1090
      @tandb1090 4 года назад

      @@MindyMinx thank you , and wishes you luke with your choices 😍😍🥰🌷

  • @devonw9891
    @devonw9891 4 года назад +22

    I think RUclips is spying on me lmao...that is the ONLY explanation as to how this appeared in my recommendations. The two of you are lovely!

  • @michellemurphy4148
    @michellemurphy4148 4 года назад +35

    Larry is such a sweet guy especially when he was talking about how he affects her and everyone around her, he obviously cares for her. Best to you both

    • @ashleyjust
      @ashleyjust 4 года назад

      Michelle Murphy this is such a sweet comment, I was thinking the same thing!

  • @glowjunkie4840
    @glowjunkie4840 4 года назад +8

    Just found your channel and love y'all already. I'm 30 and my husband is 54. Age doesn't matter as long as the love is there. Much love to y'all

  • @bri9266
    @bri9266 4 года назад +26

    When I first started watching y'all I was so happy to know and see there were other couples out there in an age Gap relationship like my husband and I, and felt less like an outcast/alone. So glad y'all are so open and sharing y'all's story. ❤️

    • @brittanyholtgreven4106
      @brittanyholtgreven4106 4 года назад +6

      Same!! Turning 28 here on Feb. 1st and my husband just turned 49 last month. Been together 6yrs and I didn't know anyone else my age in an age gap relationship until Mindy

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад +4

      Bri GJM You’re definitely not alone❤️ sending you love✨

  • @brendaflores1532
    @brendaflores1532 4 года назад +60

    Oh my God! I'm also in an age gap relationship and the things Larry said about "ruining your life" is something my boyfriend says, I thought it was something that just happened to us. Thanks for this video! I appreciate you speaking so openly.
    Sending you lots of love from Mexico ♡

    • @emilyann3840
      @emilyann3840 4 года назад +5

      My boyfriend says the same about “holding me back” because I have “so much more life to live”, so I’m super glad it’s not just us too!!

  • @nora_ray
    @nora_ray 4 года назад +405

    "You don't need a 💙 pill when you're with someone that looks like her." DaAwE😍🥰 Get It Larry!!

  • @valentinacooper5886
    @valentinacooper5886 4 года назад +16

    My husband is 16 years older than me, and we are happy❤️

  • @jeremybumpermanpub7144
    @jeremybumpermanpub7144 4 года назад +9

    I think that your relationship is beautiful. Don’t listen to what the haters say. Real love transcends all barriers, age being one of them.

    • @MrsMendoza09
      @MrsMendoza09 4 года назад

      Jeremy Bumpermanpub your probably a cradle robber aswell

  • @Erika-wl8xb
    @Erika-wl8xb 4 года назад +129

    Larry is such a sweet human being I love you both

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад

      Erika Aw thank you so much🥰❤️ xoxox

  • @treniesablunt
    @treniesablunt 4 года назад +22

    Hello from fl my hubby is 55 I'm 35 and I love him more then life itself... people question our relationship because of it and for tiny period I did 2.... keep doing what u do

  • @kirstenanderson4543
    @kirstenanderson4543 4 года назад +9

    Thank you for putting yourself and your relationship out there! I'm with a man 24 years older and it's been such a confidence boost to see people in similar situations. Much love.

    • @raghavnamasivayam5098
      @raghavnamasivayam5098 2 года назад

      well how old are you if you dont mind

    • @rosechild3118
      @rosechild3118 2 года назад +1

      Same here. We are 22 years apart. Sometimes I have to smile when I see people starring at us

  • @akanemishima3876
    @akanemishima3876 4 года назад +61

    Me and my boyfriend are 8 years apart but we are so happy together and grow every day! He was my first boyfriend I presented to my family and they were all shook especially since I look really young. But they ended up loving him❤️

    • @stellarmonet
      @stellarmonet 4 года назад +2

      Akane Mishima I wish yall the best for the future❤️

    • @akanemishima3876
      @akanemishima3876 4 года назад +1

      Awww thanks 🥰

  • @whitneykirkpatrick6635
    @whitneykirkpatrick6635 4 года назад +13

    your in your 20s. Sweetie. You have a whole life ahead of you" is what a lot of people would tell me. But love is love. My man is 12 years older. So I can relate.

  • @justcauseimcute
    @justcauseimcute 4 года назад +12

    Hahaha I love Larrys facial expressions ! So cute - you can really tell he try’s to be so involved and enthusiastic ! It’s awesome.

  • @SugarSpiceHomemadeWithLove
    @SugarSpiceHomemadeWithLove 4 года назад +70

    older man are way matured,sweet and caring... based on my friends..

    • @summoner1032
      @summoner1032 4 года назад +7

      If you met me, you'd change your mind lol Don't generalise, that's how the oldies will take advantage of you.

    • @carlhelmer-jensen4661
      @carlhelmer-jensen4661 4 года назад

      Often women won't date the older man so he'll prey on the young, naive woman with less income. (Not saying this about Larry but just to be aware please...)

    • @johnj9976
      @johnj9976 4 года назад

      @@carlhelmer-jensen4661 Guess my age? My age is *changeable* I'm riding my *bicycle* my body is *unbreakable* my thoughts are *abnormal* I'm not an *animal* I'm *normal* I have classical *clavicle* it's pretty *touchable* I'm able to *freestyle* I'm not *grime* but I kinda look like *one* & I'm *done*

    • @roadschoolerusa9621
      @roadschoolerusa9621 4 года назад

      Sugar & Spice TV true and they won’t reallly make drama like younger guys.

    • @jesuislapluie695
      @jesuislapluie695 4 года назад

      And... Old. 🤦‍♀️

  • @water2wine1
    @water2wine1 4 года назад +49

    My dad and I spent a lot of time together. I am single and my mother passed when he was 63. People always assumed we were a couple so I had the opposite. He got to where he would quickly say I was his daughter. 😂 as soon as that was said I could see the relief on people’s faces.

    • @LifeBeingDest
      @LifeBeingDest 4 года назад +4

      water2wine1 bro same lmao hella awkward

    • @Sapphireia
      @Sapphireia 4 года назад +1

      Yeees I traveled a lot with my dad when I was about 14 and my dad was 47. People asked if we were on honeymoon...

    • @abbigail.a
      @abbigail.a 4 года назад

      Literally same, it was incredible annoying 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @christino3852
      @christino3852 4 года назад

      water2wine1 I’ve had people assume me and my dad were a couple too. The first time the woman I talked to just said “oh well, you can never be too careful!” and I thought it was sweet 😊 Never felt I saw any relief on her face.

  • @treehouse8501
    @treehouse8501 3 месяца назад +1

    I enjoyed this video since I’ve been started talking to a 19-year-old I’m 40 and we just get along. She’s so mature for her age. We have just the best conversations and I don’t know we’re attracted to each other. I know there’s gonna be opinions and controversy so I’ve had to turn to RUclips to find out, what the real deal is thank you for making this video

  • @kristag5768
    @kristag5768 4 года назад +21

    You two are perfect for eachother 💜 the age may of been thing when u were 20 but clearly you two are very much in love and happy. Forever more for you both 🥰

  • @brandimarie9798
    @brandimarie9798 4 года назад +8

    Age Gap relationship here as well. My husband is 17 years older than I am and we have a 3 year old. I can completely relate to ALL that y’all have said. My husband always said that we don’t have an age gap because he’s immature for his age and I’m mature for my age and we meet in the middle. 😂 He’s my soul mate and I couldn’t see myself with anyone else.

  • @amandamurray3805
    @amandamurray3805 4 года назад +16

    You are consenting adults. You are a grown women mindy u have no need to ever explain urself. Love laught live. You are both wonderful people

  • @ariasmith1085
    @ariasmith1085 4 года назад +30

    Love is love. My husband is 22 years older than me. He is the best thing that happen to me. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ u guys are so much like us. I love it!!!! My husband is a retired police officer now.

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 года назад +3

      We wish you both so much love & happiness🥰

    • @faithbetts4613
      @faithbetts4613 4 года назад

      I'm so proud of u

  • @emilyscheideler5432
    @emilyscheideler5432 Месяц назад

    My dad was 59 when I was born. Unfortunately he passed away when I was 21 BUT having his wisdom as an influence in my life forever is something I’m so so grateful for. I think you guys are precious.

  • @purpleice7277
    @purpleice7277 4 года назад +8

    And who cares who, what or how old someone is. How wonderful to have found love and respect, someone that is good to you. This world is such a hard place to be alone. Good for you both. 🙌🏻

  • @christinecervantes3722
    @christinecervantes3722 4 года назад +39

    My ex-husband had a vasectomy reversal 25 years after he had the vasectomy. One vas deferens reconnected, the other didn't. The urologist/surgeon told us not to expect to get pregnant because there was so much scar tissue and after the reversal there would be even more. 4 months later, I was pregnant. You just never know!

  • @stephaniealvarado3652
    @stephaniealvarado3652 4 года назад +4

    You two are great!! I’m dating my soul mate and we have a huge age gap! We met when I was 36 he was 68 and we weren’t planning on meeting or falling in love. We have been together for almost 5 years. He’s my everything. Unfortunately my family stopped talking to me because of it. I’m happy that you two have people supporting you!

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 2 года назад +1

      Silly Family! Enjoy life however you can!

  • @HowCaseySeesIt
    @HowCaseySeesIt 4 года назад +41

    My grandparents were 25 years apart and no one cared back then. I think it was more accepted in the past but I don’t know why.

    • @Yesok344
      @Yesok344 4 года назад +4

      My parents are 13 years apart dad's older .but it seems normal

    • @grazialionti5677
      @grazialionti5677 4 года назад +1

      So true, you know what I never thought about it.

    • @mikafreak1
      @mikafreak1 4 года назад

      My great grandma was 16 and my great Grampa was 26 when they got married/had my grandma. It was the norm!

  • @crystal6817
    @crystal6817 4 года назад +2

    My sons Dad and I were 14 years apart. We broke up because we were too different but we became great friends. Unfortunately he passed when he was 48 due to cancer. Love each other unconditionally, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Life is short. ❤️❤️

  • @bonniedunn5068
    @bonniedunn5068 2 года назад +5

    My husband is 12 years older then I and there was a 24 year age gape between my parents - my mom was 19 and my dad was 43 and they went on to have 7 kids over 24 years with me being the youngest and born 8 years after my brother. There’s so many variables in relationships so just take things as they come.