As It Is - The Stigma [Boys Dont Cry] (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
  • ITUNES: found.ee/thegre...
    MERCH: found.ee/asitis...
    Taken from the new album 'The Great Depression.'
    Available Now
    Directed by Our World Is Grey // www.owig.co.uk/
    Stay connected:
    asitisofficial.com
    / asitisofficial
    / asitisofficial
    / asitisofficial
    LYRICS:
    I see a pain behind your eyes,
    I know you feel it everyday.
    It’s like a light that slowly dies,
    but it’s better not to say such things out loud.
    Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now.
    Don’t let them see you fall.
    Stay strong,
    hold on,
    you’ve got to keep it together now.
    Just dry your eyes,
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    You feel an emptiness inside,
    how it sinks into your soul.
    But it’s nothing you can’t hide;
    just forget about the hole beneath your skin that’s swallowing the best of you within.
    Don’t let them see you fall.

Комментарии • 3,3 тыс.

  • @lisa-marieeichberg1541
    @lisa-marieeichberg1541 6 лет назад +2279

    the fact that this exists in 2018 feels like a warm hug from smudged eyeliner. we need more of this

    • @DeathNote-ch1so
      @DeathNote-ch1so 6 лет назад +31

      More Eyeliner?

    • @lisa-marieeichberg1541
      @lisa-marieeichberg1541 6 лет назад +13

      @@DeathNote-ch1so more of this music

    • @rayslavenburg2783
      @rayslavenburg2783 5 лет назад +12

      @@DeathNote-ch1so both

    • @Baked-as-Bread
      @Baked-as-Bread 5 лет назад +18

      @@lisa-marieeichberg1541 we need the old bands back also... mcr, hawthorne heights, from first to last, escape the fate,etc... we need them back as well

    • @Baked-as-Bread
      @Baked-as-Bread 5 лет назад +10

      30 seconds to mars need to be emo again also

  • @davidcox777
    @davidcox777 5 лет назад +489

    Me 2018: 19 Years old. Father. Hard working professional.
    As It Is 2018: Dye your hair black again. Buy more eyeliner. Wear dark clothes.
    So glad that emo is making a come back

    • @Ann-mk8cg
      @Ann-mk8cg 4 года назад +1

      NICE!❤️

    • @angelp2092
      @angelp2092 3 года назад +3

      when did it leave

    • @davidcox777
      @davidcox777 3 года назад +2

      @@angelp2092 there were a freaky couple of years where scene almost completely took over XD

  • @MaryB-fx2ik
    @MaryB-fx2ik 6 лет назад +1075

    EMO NEVER LEFT IT JUST WAS HIDING IN OUR SOULS DONT HIDE IT SHOW FALLEN ANGELS

    • @davidvillegas7650
      @davidvillegas7650 5 лет назад +5

      fallen angels? you know what a fallen angel right? since when was the emo genre considered satanic lol

    • @shylynntalbert6707
      @shylynntalbert6707 5 лет назад +24

      Black veil brides

    • @exolp6949
      @exolp6949 5 лет назад +4

      @@shylynntalbert6707 is metalcore not emo this song too its not emo cause emo is more emotional than this

    • @cherrygarnet3870
      @cherrygarnet3870 5 лет назад +11

      Hmmm fallen angels....OMFG ARE YOU REFERRING TO BVB AHHHhHhHhH YES!!!!!

    • @amberstyles9505
      @amberstyles9505 5 лет назад +11

      WE ARE THE FALLEN ANGELS

  • @sleepingcolours
    @sleepingcolours 6 лет назад +1256

    Is anyone else already in love with the new As It Is era? The way they're focusing on mental illness and using their music and platform to break the stigma is inspiring. They've already helped so many people, they're only gonna help even more. Love this band. Thank you, As It Is. 🖤🖤🖤

    • @Intersexashleyleeanntv
      @Intersexashleyleeanntv 6 лет назад +7

      light and rebellion this band is the reason I don't commit suicide tbh

    • @sleepingcolours
      @sleepingcolours 6 лет назад +5

      Austina Quigley "Stay strong, hold on" 🖤 Take care of yourself! X

    • @riseagainstfan1986
      @riseagainstfan1986 6 лет назад +2

      the stigma has alwas been there idk where you been but it won't ever go away

    • @omnislack
      @omnislack 6 лет назад +4

      Wasn't a fan before, but I like the new them.

    • @IDiggPattyMayonnaise
      @IDiggPattyMayonnaise 6 лет назад +3

      Someone hasnt heard You, the Room & the Devil on Your Shoulders from their first album.

  • @sharellehannah9460
    @sharellehannah9460 6 лет назад +440

    I love how he's challenging the whole stigma with boys and mental health, this is an important topic that needs to be talked about. As it is has got my full support 100%

    • @shineecrystal
      @shineecrystal 6 лет назад +5

      sharelle patterson Yes!!

    • @stevodaniel2898
      @stevodaniel2898 6 лет назад +22

      Struck a few cords with me. For years I never talked about it. Bottled it all up and only ever let it out when it was to late. Men need to talk alot more. As a society we need to break through this horrible stigma. Its ok to be sad, cry, upset. Doesn't make you weak.

    • @YouTearMyHeart
      @YouTearMyHeart 5 лет назад +1

      You're all so right !

    • @demonintellect9834
      @demonintellect9834 5 лет назад

      Dudes really shouldnt cry. I mean for the loss of a loved one sure, but if you stub your toe and break down and cry then you are a pussy.

    • @chelseydavidson6264
      @chelseydavidson6264 5 лет назад +9

      ​@AOMechMarine AOMechMarine Sorry you are afraid of crying. It's a terrible thing when we can't express our emotions, especially the painful ones.
      Trust me though, keeping them bottled up will only make things worse. It will numb you. It will depress you. It will break you. And eventually all of those emotions will come boiling over anyways.
      Real strength is having the courage to face those emotions head on. No mater how painful they are. Accept them and let them go.

  • @demonlover6662
    @demonlover6662 5 лет назад +702

    This song has a very strong message about what society says is acceptable for boys to do. Like they can't wear makeup, like cute things, be "soft", or cry. Even though forcing people to live by this is not only toxic but a type of emotional abuse because you are hurting them in ways that are not visible on the surface. I love this song for that reason

    • @demonintellect9834
      @demonintellect9834 5 лет назад +10

      Society needs men, not pansys.

    • @BLACKGEAR026
      @BLACKGEAR026 5 лет назад +71

      @@demonintellect9834 Yes society needs Real men who are not afraid to be in touch with their emotions. We need real men who arn't infected by toxic masculinity. We do not need pansy ass emotionally constipated dude bros like you. So yes strong emotionally healthy men that are not afraid to cry is what we need.

    • @YamiRovi25
      @YamiRovi25 5 лет назад +34

      @@BLACKGEAR026 ''pansy ass emotionally constipated dude bros'' hahaha I don't know you, but I already like you.
      DemonLover666 and you are absolutely right. Toxic masculinity is a thing and we need to get rid of all that shit.

    • @dirgabpp9281
      @dirgabpp9281 4 года назад +3

      O

    • @Edge_Walker
      @Edge_Walker 4 года назад +14

      If someone doesent allow for guys to cry and be NORMAL FKING EMTIONAL HUMAN BEINGS- give me their godam adress, theres about to be a bloody mess pal,

  • @OscarVillapol
    @OscarVillapol 6 лет назад +876

    It feels like we're back in 2005, and it feels... sooooooo good!!

    • @inarairuairc3043
      @inarairuairc3043 6 лет назад +13

      I know right! Well, I was 4 in 2005, but I feel like emo is forever.

    • @johndearstyne1845
      @johndearstyne1845 6 лет назад +4

      I was 4 or 5 in 2005 lol

    • @undeadgomez
      @undeadgomez 5 лет назад +4

      I was 1 🤣🤣

    • @RoxasHeartLessXIII
      @RoxasHeartLessXIII 5 лет назад +6

      2005 - 2010! we had 5 good years! then soon to be 9 years of shit! stay strong and hold on! and boys don't cry but men do!

    • @zombiericka
      @zombiericka 5 лет назад +1

      Hell yes! 🤘🏽

  • @inarairuairc3043
    @inarairuairc3043 6 лет назад +1516

    Even though I'm a girl, this song's message speaks volumes to me.

    • @minhhuyenta3388
      @minhhuyenta3388 5 лет назад +17

      Can relate

    • @lilemo3337
      @lilemo3337 5 лет назад +20

      erey body cries

    • @tezak_20
      @tezak_20 5 лет назад +7

      Same

    • @lxxak.5392
      @lxxak.5392 5 лет назад +17

      these were my thoughts while listening it 👐🏼💭

    • @wtfdidijustwatch1017
      @wtfdidijustwatch1017 5 лет назад +46

      I hope you understand that this song isn't about you? It's about men forcefully having to "man up" by not crying, and putting away their emotions, or we're portrayed as weak.

  • @guillier4248
    @guillier4248 5 лет назад +829

    Music industry: Emo is dead, move on.
    As It Is: 'Scuse me? Hold my beer

    • @exolp6949
      @exolp6949 5 лет назад +4

      Pop punk its Pop punk understand it you crazy scene bastards

    • @jesusavalos2399
      @jesusavalos2399 5 лет назад +14

      @@exolp6949 This is definitely not pop punk, their original sound was incredibly pop punk, this definitely leads more towards the Emo genre especially with the addition of more screamed vocals

    • @exolp6949
      @exolp6949 5 лет назад

      @@jesusavalos2399 yeah you can say this song is more emo but emo pop doesn't exist so it's pop punk with emo vocals because real emo music is in screamo or emocore but this instruments are to punky for it

    • @teresahoerricks6788
      @teresahoerricks6788 4 года назад +1

      haha true XP

    • @insomniac_rav
      @insomniac_rav 4 года назад +3

      The music industry has mostly turned to bullshit now

  • @iluvpost-hardcore4204
    @iluvpost-hardcore4204 6 лет назад +701

    This may look dated to alot of people now in 2018 but i bet in about 5 or 6 years, emo/scene and post-hardcore will be back in style because of 00s nostalgia thats already starting to replace the current 90s nostalgia trend.

    • @figsprout
      @figsprout 6 лет назад +26

      stonedgamer 420 Invader Zim is coming back the world is already primed for an emo renaissance

    • @alufolie2845
      @alufolie2845 6 лет назад +7

      Hell yeah I'm so up for it!

    • @scottykingdavid
      @scottykingdavid 6 лет назад +6

      It all reguritates every 20 to 30 years. Its all been done already.. From the beg. The beatles.stones on. For mainstrean .. Not the blues they stole from

    • @abbiepancakeeater52
      @abbiepancakeeater52 6 лет назад +1

      Oh man I hope so

    • @prabowonegoro3693
      @prabowonegoro3693 6 лет назад +13

      Couldn't agree more... things like this reminded me to MCR and they ARE good. I'm just hoping the emo scene making more breakthrough cause there are still people out there who enjoy this scene..

  • @the_eternal_darkness_8436
    @the_eternal_darkness_8436 6 лет назад +139

    Finally a video that focuses on male depression!!! Thank you so much!!! My only problem is that it didn’t come out sooner!!!!!

    • @BlackyMox
      @BlackyMox 6 лет назад +2

      So true. Have to hide the pain everyday

    • @Me-pe8eb
      @Me-pe8eb 6 лет назад +2

      This is the kinda music that matters. We don't need more het love songs. We need people like this. (If you like music like this yung blud is perfect (esp polygraph eyes)

  • @kkyu7886
    @kkyu7886 5 лет назад +238

    I prefer this a million times than the current trend in music.

  • @ИЛЮША
    @ИЛЮША 6 лет назад +337

    Its realy good, Emo alive!

  • @demolitiontyler9563
    @demolitiontyler9563 6 лет назад +380

    Beautiful... I'm literally crying now. This is such an important topic to talk about, it's so toxic for boys and men to not be allowed to show emotions, that's why the suicide rates are so high for men. Beautiful lyrics and video, I feel like this is a perfect example of the macho culture. Thank you, this band is amazing and I love their new sound so much. I'm so excited for the album, it will be great!! ♥️

    • @stevenrogers1812
      @stevenrogers1812 6 лет назад +21

      jishwasoreos powerful but completely right. Its okay to not be okay doesn't make you less of a man because you struggle this hopefully will hit a lot of people

    • @serbandumitrescu6435
      @serbandumitrescu6435 6 лет назад +3

      Men were always alowed to show emotions, but to show emotions in a rather controled way means to have the strenght to control yourself, which is not a bat thing.

    • @demolitiontyler9563
      @demolitiontyler9563 6 лет назад +11

      Serban Dumitrescu ehh no wtf boys were literally beaten up for crying

    • @santosmoreno7145
      @santosmoreno7145 6 лет назад +8

      jishwasoreos Its true, i was one of those boys

    • @serbandumitrescu6435
      @serbandumitrescu6435 6 лет назад +1

      In romania, where i live ive never heard of anything like this

  • @emoluka7904
    @emoluka7904 5 лет назад +68

    I’m a boy and this song made me cry because of how true it all is and how meaningful and relatable this is and ya know what I ain’t ashamed

    • @ianh2527
      @ianh2527 5 лет назад +3

      I feel ya bro

    • @Cjs3315
      @Cjs3315 2 года назад

      Gay

    • @synbioshoshone745
      @synbioshoshone745 7 месяцев назад

      Forcing yourself to hide an emotion will do that to ya…

  • @itsnotchloeolivia3281
    @itsnotchloeolivia3281 6 лет назад +285

    I only just heard about this band but I'm already hooked?? This song is not only great but it tackles an issue no one all's about (which is toxic masculinity) literally love this and the Great Depression album

    • @isaiahsmith7123
      @isaiahsmith7123 5 лет назад +3

      Check out there earlier works like Okay and Never Happy Ever after

  • @Kasey512
    @Kasey512 6 лет назад +170

    Full lyrics for everyone:
    I see a pain behind your eyes,
    I know you feel it everyday.
    It’s like a light that slowly dies,
    but it’s better not to say such things out loud.
    Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now.
    Don’t let them see you fall.
    Stay strong,
    hold on,
    you’ve got to keep it together now.
    Just dry your eyes,
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    You feel an emptiness inside,
    how it sinks into your soul.
    But it’s nothing you can’t hide;
    just forget about the hole beneath your skin-
    That’s swallowing the best of you within.
    Don’t let them see you fall.
    Stay strong,
    hold on,
    you’ve got to keep it together now.
    Just dry your eyes,
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    Keep it all inside
    ‘Cause boys don't cry
    Are those tears behind your eyes?
    Nuh uh, no, boys don't cry
    Keep it all inside this time
    Nuh uh, no, boys don't cry
    Not until the faithful day you die
    ‘cause boys don't cry
    ‘cause boys don't cry
    Stay strong,
    hold on,
    you’ve got to keep it together now.
    Just dry your eyes,
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.

    • @icestorm_rb9057
      @icestorm_rb9057 6 лет назад +4

      Kasey Vincent it amazes me how they dont put the full lyrics in the description

    • @Hannah-1956
      @Hannah-1956 6 лет назад

      You are literally the best person in the universe 🤣

    • @SockTheUnicorn
      @SockTheUnicorn 6 лет назад +2

      They put it in the description

    • @icestorm_rb9057
      @icestorm_rb9057 6 лет назад +1

      @@SockTheUnicorn they did, but it isnt the full thing

  • @chloenicolehood5253
    @chloenicolehood5253 6 лет назад +116

    i cried when he got punched and cried more when he started crying...……. then they locked the knob head out and when he smiled and giggled to himself I don't think I have ever smiled so much... I love this song, I love this band and I love this album... I pre ordered it and honestly it is all I listen to most of the time... I fucking love this band

  • @yatoshair6294
    @yatoshair6294 6 лет назад +610

    first song I've heard from them.
    Now it's time to follow all their social media.
    Download pictures of them.
    Yeah...

    • @amoward370
      @amoward370 6 лет назад +8

      Same + love ur profile pic

    • @yatoshair6294
      @yatoshair6294 6 лет назад +1

      Thenk

    • @263malice
      @263malice 6 лет назад +13

      Damn. When you put it like that.

    • @klauslehardy6967
      @klauslehardy6967 6 лет назад +9

      GOD ME

    • @Pluvillion
      @Pluvillion 6 лет назад +7

      May I join you with your journey? Because I'm doing the same thing as well. xD

  • @8ahda388
    @8ahda388 6 лет назад +465

    First time hearing these guys got a new fan with this song

  • @leslieg4094
    @leslieg4094 5 лет назад +286

    jared leto and gerard way had a child

  • @figsprout
    @figsprout 6 лет назад +2584

    It's happening.
    The emo Renaissance is happening.

    • @realchainrxn
      @realchainrxn 6 лет назад +30

      The Renaissance was back in the early to mid 00's..... This is a resurgence..... I was a sneak emo then because of the stigma at the time in the areas I grew up in..... Now I'm supposed to be a professional, but hey..... I have practice at this....

    • @jeyaveryverymagicalcatofme4704
      @jeyaveryverymagicalcatofme4704 6 лет назад +25

      FRINGEs WILL GROW MOTHER LOCK UR DOORS AND HIDE UR DAUGHTERS...from the emo haha emo song referenced

    • @elromer1434
      @elromer1434 6 лет назад +2

      Love

    • @zachaustic7135
      @zachaustic7135 6 лет назад +22

      Emo revolution 2018-2019

    • @shelbym4616
      @shelbym4616 5 лет назад +14

      We will rise

  • @cas3604
    @cas3604 6 лет назад +237

    This actually hits a hard message if you think about it

    • @jaidenpoof4558
      @jaidenpoof4558 6 лет назад +6

      I agree

    • @yt_wv_hollow8986
      @yt_wv_hollow8986 6 лет назад +34

      I agree too. Im a man and I cry just like anyone else. Fuck all the stereotype bs of we arent allowed to cry. I teach my children its ok to cry.

    • @YouRandamoTube1237
      @YouRandamoTube1237 6 лет назад +17

      You really don't have to think hard to see the message, it's a fairly obvious point that the song is making.

    • @ryleesb5108
      @ryleesb5108 5 лет назад +17

      i completely agree, this song is about breaking the stigma of boys not crying but it also shows breaking the stigma of girls being weak by having a female drill Sargent yell silence at the end of the video.

    • @faydemaria1019
      @faydemaria1019 5 лет назад +9

      "If you think about it"
      Actually, it's pretty spelled out, lol

  • @thatoneemoboy6621
    @thatoneemoboy6621 5 лет назад +85

    This song sends such a strong message and I love it. I’m a pretty soft guy and this made me cry. Well shit guess I’m not a boy now.

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 4 года назад +1

      Simp

    • @savagemacke
      @savagemacke 4 года назад +2

      salaah khayr don’t bring that here.

    • @thevarietychannelofyoutube4769
      @thevarietychannelofyoutube4769 4 года назад +4

      @@salaahkhayr2398 Someone should make a twitter account chronicalling the worst examples of people saying "simp"

    • @hidudes227
      @hidudes227 3 года назад

      @@salaahkhayr2398 yes

    • @hidudes227
      @hidudes227 3 года назад

      @@thevarietychannelofyoutube4769 it's a joke smart one

  • @ChrisSadowski
    @ChrisSadowski 6 лет назад +222

    The ending to this video makes me think that there is going to be a similar song on the album on female social standards, and i think its going to be just as important as this beautiful song

    • @SydneyChromatic
      @SydneyChromatic 6 лет назад

      Holy shit there are other sadowski's on youtube?

    • @IAP74
      @IAP74 6 лет назад +3

      Nah fuck women's rights

    • @exidrial431
      @exidrial431 6 лет назад +2

      Woosh!

    • @warmicecream645
      @warmicecream645 6 лет назад +4

      UndergroundPuppy why though? It's just as important as men's rights

    • @Clarisse1258
      @Clarisse1258 6 лет назад +8

      In their Rocksound interview, Ben said that "The Haunting" would talk about sexual misconduct allegations within the scene, as well as his childhood friend's suicide, so yeah there'll be one, and it'll be important and beautiful, but definitely very heavy.

  • @erbihc1781
    @erbihc1781 6 лет назад +51

    seems like it was never just a phase

  • @bunnysniper007
    @bunnysniper007 10 месяцев назад +2

    5 years later this song is still so important to me and has such a powerful message

  • @raz3905
    @raz3905 6 лет назад +271

    This band might be trying to singlehandedly bring back emo music. Best of luck, you guys are great!

  • @bramblechaser162
    @bramblechaser162 6 лет назад +148

    I’m so impressed with this song! I’m gonna have to look into As It Is. this day and age we have only hope for music with meaning!

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS 6 лет назад

      Bramble Chaser YOU MIGHT LIKE OUR MUSIC IF YOU'RE INTO THIS AND REVENGE ERA MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE, CHECK US OUT! 🌹

  • @diegomartinezbello3287
    @diegomartinezbello3287 4 года назад +70

    I see a pain behind your eyes
    I know you feel it everyday
    It's like a light that slowly dies
    But it's better not to say
    It's better not to say such things out loud
    Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now
    Don't let them see you fall
    Stay strong, hold on
    You've got to keep it together now
    Just dry your eyes
    'Cause boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh
    Boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh
    'Cause boys don't cry
    You feel an emptiness inside
    How it sinks into your soul
    But it's nothing you can't hide
    Just forget about the hole beneath your skin
    That's swallowing the best of you with it
    Don't let them see you fall
    Stay strong, hold on
    You've got to keep it together now
    Just dry your eyes
    'Cause boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh
    'Cause boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh
    'Cause boys don't cry
    Keep it all inside, 'cause boys don't cry
    Are those tears behind your eyes?
    Nuh-uh, no! Boys don't cry!
    Keep it all inside, inside
    No, 'cause boys don't cry
    Not until the fateful day you die
    No, 'cause boys don't cry
    No, no
    Boys don't cry
    No, no
    'Cause boys don't cry
    Stay strong, hold on
    You've got to keep it together now
    Just dry your eyes
    'Cause boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh

  • @Ravenclawunicorn
    @Ravenclawunicorn 6 лет назад +66

    I love how they're making everyone feel emo again. I also feel like this album is going to make their following blow up. Proud of these emo boys

  • @ShellyBeansGaming
    @ShellyBeansGaming 6 лет назад +175

    I love how Patty's shiney blue eyes pierce through the black hair... it does something to me xD

    • @howieewalt1322
      @howieewalt1322 5 лет назад

      Thats fucking patty????????????? Wtf O REMEMBER WHEN HE DITCHED HIS CHANNEL FOR THIS BAND I DIDNT EVEN THINK IT WAS STILL HIM WTF?

  • @kaisershocker
    @kaisershocker 6 лет назад +61

    Why cant I stop listening to this? ...I mean seriously, i've had it on repeat for days and cant stop. When I'm not listening to it, this song is playing in my head. Please make it stop.

    • @mildlysinful
      @mildlysinful 5 лет назад +2

      No. Once you hear Patty's voice you can never go back. Welcome to the cult of As It Is. Enjoy your stay.

    • @willow5635
      @willow5635 5 лет назад +2

      @@mildlysinful i just started liking as it is two days ago and i've listened to almost all their songs..

    • @mildlysinful
      @mildlysinful 5 лет назад

      @@willow5635 W E L C O M E

    • @exolp6949
      @exolp6949 5 лет назад +1

      Make it stop.
      Let this end,
      Eighteen years pushed to the ledge.
      It's come to this,
      A weightless step.
      On the way down singing
      Whoa, whoa.

    • @oaklengallagher-armstrong7164
      @oaklengallagher-armstrong7164 3 года назад

      Same, I've played this countless times and everyone keeps telling me I'm depressed but I promise I'm not. It's just a really great song with a powerful message

  • @laurenbabic
    @laurenbabic 6 лет назад +2690

    *runs to bathroom and puts on more eyeliner*

    • @johnDoe-lb7sv
      @johnDoe-lb7sv 6 лет назад +33

      Lauren Babic goes to closet and pullsout all band merch from sophmore year and let's hair grow out then gets snake bites again

    • @marymassacre3188
      @marymassacre3188 6 лет назад +2

      MOOD

    • @carabowman2144
      @carabowman2144 6 лет назад +3

      Lauren Babic lol this comment made my day

    • @kidinthekelp5570
      @kidinthekelp5570 6 лет назад +10

      Why are we all so emo?!

    • @brianna9822
      @brianna9822 6 лет назад +1

      Lauren Babic LAURENNNNNNN

  • @anonymouscandle1223
    @anonymouscandle1223 6 лет назад +33

    This band reminds me so much of the early/mid 2000s emo. I miss that era but it’s pretty great to be able to watch a new wave of emo rise up and to be a part of it.

  • @chantreajeffery9078
    @chantreajeffery9078 5 лет назад +2

    This song is an emotional rollercoaster

  • @GoshDarnBarnOwls
    @GoshDarnBarnOwls 6 лет назад +64

    I love when bands write songs about mental health. It's a serious condition that targets people of all ages.

    • @dani-oz5eb
      @dani-oz5eb 6 лет назад +1

      GoshDarnBarnOwls your comment and username both give me life tbh

    • @xvegancommunistx1848
      @xvegancommunistx1848 6 лет назад +1

      GoshDarnBarnOwls its not about mental health its about toxic masculinity

    • @anythingeverything5637
      @anythingeverything5637 6 лет назад

      Kapt Mao the album is called the Great Depression. Its about mental heath

    • @EmperorNero
      @EmperorNero 6 лет назад

      1. Toxic Masculinity isn't really a thing it's a myth largely portrayed by activist, and academics.
      2. It is very clearly about mental health. Men struggle with achieving help with mental health, mainly, because men in their biological social dynamic hold cards close to them, they don't like opening up. It is always said women are very open inherently, but men take awhile they are like a cat, you gotta earn it.
      3. However that is largely exaggerated men do cry and can be emotional what research needs to be done better is how men express emotion, it may not be with tears(biologically we have larger tear ducts than women do). I personally suffer from depression, and I don't cry with it I get frustrated, because I don't want to be that way. Men express sadness through anger a lot more than tears.

  • @brandonmyers3525
    @brandonmyers3525 6 лет назад +319

    Me yesterday: emo is dead move on.
    Me, 3:35 ago: I need to bring back guyliner.

    • @hauntedyouth9625
      @hauntedyouth9625 5 лет назад +13

      Go for it guyliner is hot on the right guys
      Seriously. It is.

    • @lilemo3337
      @lilemo3337 5 лет назад +2

      guy liner till I die

    • @lilemo3337
      @lilemo3337 5 лет назад +2

      eyeliner tis my soul take

    • @leigh9409
      @leigh9409 5 лет назад

      MOOD!!!!

  • @kordorkongri3068
    @kordorkongri3068 4 года назад +19

    His voice is beautiful😍💓

  • @Abracadaniel95
    @Abracadaniel95 6 лет назад +81

    This album is gonna blow up, Invader Zim is coming back, 2000s nostalgia is coming in, the world is primed for an emo renaissance

  • @duncanistrash6529
    @duncanistrash6529 5 лет назад +144

    Why is everyone saying how “emo is back”? Emo never left. I’ve been emo for years and I know tons of emos who are the same. And there’s been tons of underground emo bands. Emo music just hasn’t been popular for a few years that’s all. BTW IM STILL EMO AND IM NOT GONNA STOP FOR A FEW MORE YEARS!

    • @duncanistrash6529
      @duncanistrash6529 5 лет назад +6

      And when I’m done with emo I’m just gonna be goth!

    • @pyophyo8901
      @pyophyo8901 4 года назад +3

      (back then)
      It's not a phase mom, this is who I am!
      (Present)
      See mom, I told you so.

    • @jackskellington412
      @jackskellington412 4 года назад +1

      @@pyophyo8901 it do be like that

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 4 года назад +2

      @@pyophyo8901 I went from "listening to this music isn't a phase, mom" to "wanting to be a musician isn't a phase, mom!" Next it'll be "being in this band isn't a phase, mom" smh

    • @savagemacke
      @savagemacke 4 года назад +1

      duncanistrash someone who actually knows the difference between emo and goth, scene, Victorian, exc.

  • @silvanus72
    @silvanus72 5 лет назад +110

    I am surprised that I couldn't find a mention about the ending of the video in the comments. it is such a meaningful moment for the video depicting the fact that girls are also expected to act a certain way. It just leaves an untold section of a story about gender expectations that keeps you thinking after you watch the video. So good job whom ever came up with the music video.

    • @gothsmolbean4863
      @gothsmolbean4863 4 года назад +3

      truee i was like why is no one noticed that

    • @mrsir3658
      @mrsir3658 3 года назад +3

      Same I was looking for this comment!

  • @BlakeMcConnellMusic
    @BlakeMcConnellMusic 6 лет назад +2271

    emo to the extremo

    • @gretz5792
      @gretz5792 6 лет назад +5

      Blake McConnell liked the cover

    • @arianalong6133
      @arianalong6133 6 лет назад +19

      Blake McConnell in a gerard way

    • @idahopotato2370
      @idahopotato2370 6 лет назад +2

      ariana long in a eyeliner

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS 6 лет назад

      Corey Taylor Have you check us out? Check us out now if you're into My Chemical Romance Revenge Era and you might find it surprising that you could enjoy our stuff! 🌹🖤

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS 6 лет назад

      Corey Taylor we love Slipknot by the way!

  • @neonmaelstrom1495
    @neonmaelstrom1495 3 года назад +5

    the way that i blasted this for a month straight when it came out...

  • @jordyn8619
    @jordyn8619 5 лет назад +5

    This song always makes me cry for some reason

  • @lucyautumncamp8686
    @lucyautumncamp8686 4 года назад +4

    Do you ever just hear your favorite song and feel safe but at the same time you want to cry because it’s so beautiful? That’s what this song does to me.

  • @zmbiegutzz
    @zmbiegutzz Год назад +7

    Every time i start to cry , i tell myself “no , don’t do that , boys don’t cry .” Im trans masc , and i’ve felt as though if i hide my emotions , it’ll make me more masculine ; but it doesn’t . Hiding emotions and something everyone does doesn’t make you more or less man . This song holds a very special place in my heart . Thank you 🫀

    • @harleybriggs3496
      @harleybriggs3496 Год назад +1

      I'm trans masc too, and this song hit me hard for the same reason.

  • @pyzal9939
    @pyzal9939 5 лет назад +132

    EMO NEVER DIE

  • @josiecotterill7546
    @josiecotterill7546 5 лет назад +8

    this song legit made me cry

  • @madeleinep.828
    @madeleinep.828 5 лет назад +66

    The fact that this was made now in 2018 when there’s been so much awful music lately makes me so happy.

  • @user-lu8yl1uk9o
    @user-lu8yl1uk9o 4 года назад +2

    This, still to this day, is the most heartbreaking music video I’ve ever seen in my life. It doesn’t make me cry, it makes realize why I shouldn’t.

  • @rainie-chanprestones637
    @rainie-chanprestones637 6 лет назад +6

    I like the meaning of this song, it says that guys are also humans too, they have feelings.

  • @phillipvillarreal283
    @phillipvillarreal283 4 года назад +18

    I've been listening on repeat since I found it. I'm a very emotional guy, but I was raised to suck it up and be there for others. I've always been the one everyone goes to for help, so strength was my nature

  • @handsoffmyskull
    @handsoffmyskull 3 года назад +2

    2021 and i still love this.

  • @victoriaprincess6914
    @victoriaprincess6914 6 лет назад +242

    This is giving me Helena Vibes MCR💕

    • @BlahBlah-cm1os
      @BlahBlah-cm1os 5 лет назад +13

      HOW?!?!? (Sorry, I just don't hear ANY of that in here.) Explain? I'm actually curious. :)

    • @petramastalirova8017
      @petramastalirova8017 5 лет назад +6

      @AOMechMarine AOMechMarine Shut the fuck up😂you do not understand

    • @charismao23
      @charismao23 5 лет назад

      Victoria Princess ikr

    • @FabulousKilljoy
      @FabulousKilljoy 5 лет назад +5

      Uh, how??? This song isn't bad, but it's nothing compared to the masterpiece that is "Helena (So Long and Goodnight)".

    • @juaanitoo733
      @juaanitoo733 4 года назад +4

      They r back :)

  • @punkieclown5449
    @punkieclown5449 4 года назад +3

    I can't believe this song is two years old, I feel like it only came out yesterday 🙄🖤

  • @katies1652
    @katies1652 4 года назад +2

    the fact that this is almost two years old.... this song means a lot to me and i’m so glad i found this band in 2018.

  • @Rana-xk4xr
    @Rana-xk4xr 6 лет назад +16

    I just saw the video,klicked it,and found my new obsession.
    Thank you.

  • @GhostKillerEntertainment
    @GhostKillerEntertainment 6 лет назад +879

    New As It Is? New The Amity Affliction? It’s a good day!

    • @aidanamphlett
      @aidanamphlett 6 лет назад +1

      Ghost Killer Entertainment Literally was just about comment that!!! 😂😂

    • @eden9306
      @eden9306 6 лет назад +7

      New hail the sun as well

    • @venividivici4607
      @venividivici4607 6 лет назад +7

      New ice nine kills 😄

    • @shxne4697
      @shxne4697 6 лет назад +1

      New Our Hollow Our Home too

    • @LJ_11
      @LJ_11 6 лет назад +1

      Don't say they are the new The Amity Affliction, that's shit. There's one and only TAA, and this isn't that good

  • @Black-plague666
    @Black-plague666 5 лет назад +28

    Are they trying to make us emo?? Because this how you do it.

    • @darcy__bxx
      @darcy__bxx 5 лет назад

      Danny Mann 9/11 yep

    • @gaydolfhitler6310
      @gaydolfhitler6310 5 лет назад

      Danny Mann 9/11 this song is just gay and cringe. lets not have this trend again.

  • @DustinWeibert
    @DustinWeibert 6 лет назад +1497

    MAKE EMO GREAT AGAIN

  • @taylennovakkkk8407
    @taylennovakkkk8407 6 лет назад +6

    I’m so in love with this era!! Can’t wait to see them this weekend

  • @namjoonsbitch8943
    @namjoonsbitch8943 4 года назад +1

    My little boy heart is very happy and comforted by this song 🖤

  • @karahtittle.6564
    @karahtittle.6564 6 лет назад +11

    ♥♥THIS BAND RIGHT HERE IS FREAKING AMAZING THEY ARE LIFE! AS IT IS MY FAVIORTE BAND♥♥

  • @Covert_skyline
    @Covert_skyline 6 лет назад +39

    I enjoy music from bands that give their bass guitar more sound over the drums and other guitars. Deep bass chords and higher vocals in my opinion give more feeling in a song.

  • @MirorR3fl3ction
    @MirorR3fl3ction 2 года назад +2

    As It Is, beating the Emo Revival to the punch by 3 years, a full 2 years before the Rawring Twenties

  • @ballinspalding11
    @ballinspalding11 6 лет назад +89

    I actually cant stop listening to this

  • @satan5197
    @satan5197 6 лет назад +455

    I’m more straight up metal, but I gotta admit this stuff ain’t bad

  • @dim1019
    @dim1019 6 лет назад +1

    I can’t stop listening to this song

  • @DrewTua_
    @DrewTua_ 6 лет назад +10

    I CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS ALBUM TO COME OUT

  • @rwt5713
    @rwt5713 6 лет назад +30

    The military dude's facial expressions are hilarious

    • @VampDr3w
      @VampDr3w 6 лет назад

      R W T he looks like an angry ricky gervais

  • @leigh9409
    @leigh9409 5 лет назад +4

    Theres less than a handfull of things that can make me truly smile. music is one of them. amazing band. #bringbackemo

  • @CraigSimmonds
    @CraigSimmonds 6 лет назад +172

    If boys don't cry how come my eyes are streaming

    • @Cthulhuguru
      @Cthulhuguru 6 лет назад +1

      Craig Simmonds Turns out, Boys always cried, the band The Cure were compulsive liars of the first order.

    • @alexbun5047
      @alexbun5047 6 лет назад

      Its referring to a stereotype

    • @CraigSimmonds
      @CraigSimmonds 6 лет назад

      Koryn Stryfe I know, I was joking

  • @LOOTd
    @LOOTd 6 лет назад +603

    Now this is the emo I remember ✊

    • @jayburriswayne5403
      @jayburriswayne5403 6 лет назад +4

      LOOTd not even emo

    • @thehorrorsociety2820
      @thehorrorsociety2820 6 лет назад +1

      Nowhere close to emo. It's scene. *cringe

    • @thehorrorsociety2820
      @thehorrorsociety2820 6 лет назад

      Nowhere close to emo. It's scene. *cringe

    • @lunarscorpio3987
      @lunarscorpio3987 6 лет назад +1

      the emo I remember sounded less like this, but it's not that bad of a song.

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS 6 лет назад

      LOOTd YOU MIGHT LIKE OUR MUSIC IF YOU'RE INTO THIS AND REVENGE ERA MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE, CHECK US OUT! 🌹

  • @williamfee314
    @williamfee314 3 года назад +2

    2021 and still is an awesome song

  • @punkfence801
    @punkfence801 6 лет назад +133

    I like the 2000's emo asthetic.

    • @jessietherat1691
      @jessietherat1691 6 лет назад +8

      CheezWhiz Slut same it’s coming back finally

  • @Wickedstary
    @Wickedstary 6 лет назад +98

    I'm a born again emo thanks as it is

  • @MariaDanieladelaRosa
    @MariaDanieladelaRosa 3 года назад +5

    ITS BEEN TWO YEARS??? TF I THOUGHT IT WAS ONLY A YEAR AGO?

  • @Demonator248
    @Demonator248 6 лет назад +10

    Thanks to As it is for bringing emo back

  • @gregoncod8533
    @gregoncod8533 6 лет назад +125

    does anyone see MCR in their new look? lol or am i too old for that

    • @jescareno8332
      @jescareno8332 6 лет назад +2

      Alec Gregory
      No I’m 29 and I was a teen when emo bands were popular and yes they remind of mcr look!

    • @scottykingdavid
      @scottykingdavid 6 лет назад +3

      No...and I see that to..And im 48. So. No youre not.. You are exactly as u want to be...friend. fuck what everyone thinks

    • @RockerChicktv1
      @RockerChicktv1 6 лет назад +3

      Alec Gregory it’s straight up revenge era!

    • @shampou8069
      @shampou8069 6 лет назад +3

      I’m 14 and I know MCR, so don’t think everyone forgot about it

    • @liambedford2760
      @liambedford2760 6 лет назад +2

      I'm 16 and love mcr

  • @benholland5331
    @benholland5331 4 года назад +2

    This song has helped me through a lot

  • @vipertori2337
    @vipertori2337 6 лет назад +4

    OMG Emo is making a comeback!! I'm literally so happy, *runs to the bathroom, put on more black eyeliner*

  • @livajepsen613
    @livajepsen613 6 лет назад +8

    I love this so much i can't even describe it. I like this band. One new fan added.

  • @sarettamcqueen4849
    @sarettamcqueen4849 6 лет назад +45

    This song was in my recommended so I listened to it. The lead singer reminded me of something but I wasn't able to tell what it was until I checked other songs of them and I realised that 3 years ago I used to listen to them. I was in the middle of my pop punk phase and I was subscribed to Patty's channel. I used to love his covers and when he stopped uploading videos because As It Is signed Fearless I checked them out. I liked them but then my pop punk phase went to end and I started listening other types of music...anyway I can't believe that i've totally forgot about them in these 3 years😅 (also they look so different how the hell could I recognize Patty😂).
    Now that I listen literally everything (including pop punk) I found them again and after I've listened to this album I want to say that their new sound is amazing. I don't like so much their old songs, but I really appreciate their changing: bands usually goes more pop but this went more "emo"... I love it

  • @lanacherie184
    @lanacherie184 2 года назад +2

    Will always love this music. My taste in music is not a phase I like what I like

  • @thatweirdval6265
    @thatweirdval6265 4 года назад +22

    Me: *doesnt know this band*
    Me: *sees thumbnail and panics (at the disco)*
    Me: WOW! it looks emo *clicks* I just found a masterpiece that’ll help me to bring the emo era back!
    Yay! Ily guys!

  • @ADThe1st458
    @ADThe1st458 6 лет назад +2

    "Just Beautiful "
    In a way that pleases the senses or mind aesthetically.

  • @velocity6306
    @velocity6306 6 лет назад +8

    Patty is the first person I’ve seen go backwards in time to the emo years, and I’m not even mad about it.

  • @andycole3729
    @andycole3729 6 лет назад +233

    please stop emoing me I thought I escaped that

    • @yulianaayu570
      @yulianaayu570 6 лет назад +4

      Haha
      NEVER!!

    • @jayelimusic6354
      @jayelimusic6354 6 лет назад +8

      *You cant escape your fate*
      Aye

    • @anonymouscandle1223
      @anonymouscandle1223 6 лет назад +2

      Once enough, always emo

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS 6 лет назад

      andy Cole YOU MIGHT LIKE OUR MUSIC IF YOU'RE INTO THIS AND REVENGE ERA MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE, CHECK US OUT! 🌹

    • @Fullcollapse1
      @Fullcollapse1 6 лет назад +2

      Your inner emo voices are calling! Your hair is becoming darker as we speak haha.

  • @sarcasticuser0332
    @sarcasticuser0332 5 лет назад +10

    How does this not have more views???

  • @tomisonfire7237
    @tomisonfire7237 6 лет назад +194

    THIS IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN THE FIRST SONG! This track has way more soul and identity. Good job!

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS 6 лет назад

      Tom Isonfire YOU MIGHT LIKE OUR MUSIC IF YOU'RE INTO THIS AND REVENGE ERA MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE, CHECK US OUT! 🌹

    • @goldenkris10
      @goldenkris10 6 лет назад +3

      Wrong but this is a good song too

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS 6 лет назад

      goldenkris10 hey check us out while you're at it! You might like our music if you enjoy this 🖤

    • @zac3126
      @zac3126 6 лет назад +5

      RADLADS go away

    • @christianjohnson8089
      @christianjohnson8089 6 лет назад

      zac lol

  • @Dynamite-Gold
    @Dynamite-Gold 3 года назад +5

    This song has such a strong and important message against abuse and gender roles that supress human feelings as a normal every day matter. It's not only an extremely well written piece of music but also meaningful connected to this music video and the lyrics. It really moved me to tears. I bow to As it is!!!!

  • @wablo9024
    @wablo9024 6 лет назад +65

    Hopefully this marks the comeback of emo even though this isnt a new band

  • @PandaGuillou
    @PandaGuillou 6 лет назад +9

    the 11 year old emo me from 2007 made a huge comeback just now

  • @syahaz7088
    @syahaz7088 6 лет назад +1049

    Emo is back? :OOOO

  • @Malu-di1ur
    @Malu-di1ur 4 года назад +17

    This made me think about the amount of times I heard my stepdad "lecture" my little cousin on how he "needs to be a man". It is quite horrofying.

    • @ThorsShadow
      @ThorsShadow 3 года назад

      Maybe show your cousin this song and teach your cousin, that it's perfectly ok for a boy and even a grown man to just be a fucking human being and show emotions.
      And while you're at it, maybe lecture your stepdad about how stupid he is and that maybe he should be more like a human being instead of trying to be a toxic variant of a "man".

  • @katiesugrue3780
    @katiesugrue3780 6 лет назад +40

    This is actually breaking my heart I’m crying

    • @iCrapBubbles
      @iCrapBubbles 6 лет назад +1

      Katie Sugrue Good job you're not a boy ✌

    • @katiesugrue3780
      @katiesugrue3780 6 лет назад +1

      Ry Hartley thanks, this video is destroying the stigma and the gender stereotypes put on guys and it makes me so proud tbh. 🙏🏻

  • @Lima-fn2bn
    @Lima-fn2bn 6 лет назад +1534

    *2018 EMO AGAIN!*

    • @fearditya
      @fearditya 6 лет назад +4

      Rick Emotion YEAHHH

    • @Hamtara
      @Hamtara 6 лет назад +4

      Yes please

    • @ShellyBeansGaming
      @ShellyBeansGaming 6 лет назад +29

      Debate: Make Emo Great Again! (Cause it is)

    • @hexsyndiction9833
      @hexsyndiction9833 6 лет назад +8

      What do you mean again? Its always been great. Its assholes who ruin it tbh >~>

    • @xinthisdiaryx
      @xinthisdiaryx 6 лет назад +3

      Emo yes but not this kind of emo. Let this shit stay dead. More American football and less my chemical dependence shit.

  • @Premetheus
    @Premetheus 5 лет назад +4

    I couldn't cry in public... This song changed that. Thank you. I wear my heart on my sleeve and can't hide my emotional state. I'm a bad liar and all my friends know it.

  • @raringalarm
    @raringalarm 5 лет назад +5

    I love how he says together at 1:48

    • @SarahM-lw2gd
      @SarahM-lw2gd 4 года назад +1

      Me, too. You can see the emotion behind the words he is singing.