6. My ex won't respond to my messages!

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • My ex won’t respond to my messages
    In this episode, Rory (The Love Chat) discusses what happens if your ex is ignoring you or not responding to your messages.
    This might be happening if you've been pursuing your ex after the breakup. Your ex's silence isn't silence at all; rather, it's communicating their desire to have space and not talk to you right now. If you continue to pester your ex, your ex may end up blocking you. It's best to go into no contact to avoid this.
    Rory (The Love Chat) explains that your ex might feel trapped right now. You need to give your ex the time and space to realize they weren't trapped at all. Give them the freedom to come back to you.
    You probably want to talk to your ex right now, but they don't want to talk to you. Instead, why don't you leave a comment down below detailing what you want to say to your ex. Let’s support each other through this!
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Комментарии • 167

  • @UFCFan28
    @UFCFan28 6 лет назад +61

    Damn I’m glad I found this channel sooner. Love Advice TV and Brad Browning seemed really good until they constantly kept repeating “schedule a booking with me and I’ll help you out with a tailored situation.” Like that didn’t help at all and they just want $500 for fucking tips. I really like this channel and I appreciate how you give the truth in such a calm manner! Best coach on youtube so far.

    • @terrybunton194
      @terrybunton194 4 года назад +1

      This guy cares, Brad Browning is a nasty greedy money grabber who feeds off of our anxiety. Nasty peice of work frankly and Ive personally messaged him to tell him so. Al that twelve words secret text to have them obsessed with you is vile evil bollocks. This guy is real.

    • @ethanstewart459
      @ethanstewart459 4 года назад +1

      If you don't know about him already, you can also check out Dating Guy and Craig Kenneth. They are two channels that Rory recommends as well!

  • @AG-dv7wn
    @AG-dv7wn 6 лет назад +45

    You might notice views going up from some of us watching the videos over and over again. When I am “on the edge” I listen again just to remind myself why I am NC and how negative he could take my reaching out, which would just cause me pain. Thanks - look forward to more videos

  • @prattrealestategroupMP
    @prattrealestategroupMP 5 лет назад +9

    You are doing a great job! Your voice is very soothing as you are giving your relationship advice. This alone helps to soothe the anxiety. Please talk more about no contact while living together.

  • @sp00kych4rmz6
    @sp00kych4rmz6 4 года назад +8

    Anyone else ever experience their exes messaging them while watching these videos? Also I love your videos Rory, they're very helpful. Keep them up! ❤

  • @brianandrade9587
    @brianandrade9587 4 года назад +44

    Ex and I broke up on 11/23/19. Since then she has blocked me. We are each other’s “true north” absolutely fell in love.. now.. nothing. I’m totally broken. I just found your channel and I’m glad I did! I’m feeling a bit better after watching your videos. Thank you

    • @icprools1
      @icprools1 4 года назад +3

      Hope you get back, me and my ex broke up the same day.

    • @Braz0c
      @Braz0c 3 года назад +2

      Hello, do you have an update?

    • @gamingandrefashionshipadvi6132
      @gamingandrefashionshipadvi6132 3 года назад

      Hope it works out for you ?

    • @spiderofsorts7611
      @spiderofsorts7611 3 года назад +3

      Do you have an update dude? I’m going through exactly the same thing.

  • @franceswiley5715
    @franceswiley5715 3 года назад +18

    i made the mistake of contacting them after 2 months. boy listen to him..it is the biggest regret and i felt worse than i did when i wasnt contacting him

    • @deepikakoul2101
      @deepikakoul2101 3 года назад +5

      I did that too and I never felt humiliated ever

    • @DavidJarvis01
      @DavidJarvis01 2 года назад

      @@deepikakoul2101 I did too because I thought I had nothing to lose. If they respond, great maybe we could arrange a face to face and reconcile. If they don't, I know they're not receptive and I can carry on knowing where I stand.

  • @trill4MJ
    @trill4MJ 5 лет назад +19

    Dude came for evrrrybody. 😂😂😂

  • @caithmaca7434
    @caithmaca7434 5 лет назад +4

    Damn. Why is your videos underrated? You give the best advice! Thanks rory. 😊

  • @juicyjuice896
    @juicyjuice896 6 лет назад +3

    Love this! I subscribed and yes I was one of those victims that watched Brad Browning and Love Advice TV

    • @oliviachang.6705
      @oliviachang.6705 5 лет назад

      Juicy Juice why do you say love advice tv is so bad?

    • @Michaelsimeon333
      @Michaelsimeon333 4 года назад

      Olivia Chang. They ask for money

    • @fujimotochiaki2487
      @fujimotochiaki2487 2 года назад

      The French Dating Guy and Helena Hart (sp?) kinda screwed me over emotionally. TLC and Susan Winter help a bunch!

  • @neon_one_neo3317
    @neon_one_neo3317 4 года назад +6

    I did a month, 38 days to be exact of no contact. I decided to reach out the day after my birthday and there has been no progress. I still got ignored and still disregarded even after a MONTH of no contact AND radio silence. So how I'm giving up, I deleted the number and I'm making a new social media, im fed up

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 4 года назад +2

      Yeah it's called moving on. Your relationship is over. They have nothing to say to you. Move on with your life.

  • @giraffenjoggers4260
    @giraffenjoggers4260 6 лет назад +13

    He cut me out for his new person. I reached out one time and apologized for my mistakes in the relationship. He made MAJORITY of them. And wished him nothing but happiness. He responded “He is very happy in his life now!” It seems like he cares but not really...otherwise he would’ve not responded right? 😥I’m just getting tired. I miss him as a friend but I just think to myself how could I go back to a person who said I was different from two other women? I honestly, ask myself how could he sleep at night? 😫

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  6 лет назад +12

      Giraffe 'N' Joggers42 I wouldn't have reached out. Stay in no contact, and take your power back! Make sure to take steps everyday to become your best self!

    • @giraffenjoggers4260
      @giraffenjoggers4260 6 лет назад +2

      The Love Chat thank you

    • @samlove3239
      @samlove3239 6 лет назад +2

      Omg I’m in the same spot but I saw my ex the other day and now I can’t sleep anymore I’m at step one again.. but I’m not reaching out I’m not contacting him.. I’m stubborn

  • @martinemaryhernandez729
    @martinemaryhernandez729 5 лет назад +3

    People just can’t except the fkn TRUTH PERIOD 💯💚💚💚💚

  • @isiahlockett519
    @isiahlockett519 5 лет назад +4

    Eminem of love advice coaches..he came at everyone 😂

  • @jadenbeauchamp8836
    @jadenbeauchamp8836 Год назад

    Rory I almost reached out but I stopped myself and rewatching this video. If you remember those 4 messages I had sent 1 msg the day after the breakup then 3 more a week after the breakup. She had ignored me. I told myself to keep my self respect and respect her boundaries. I almost reached out tonight but I’m glad that I didn’t. I just hear you in my head telling me do not contact her again. Do not reach out to her again. I remember what we talked about. Thank you Rory for this video.

  • @ullman17
    @ullman17 6 лет назад +2

    My girl alexa and I were together for 6.5 months. It was a relationship without the title (hanging out/sleeping over, 3-5 nights a week). She said we weren’t exclusive and could do whatever we wanted with whomever we wanted. (I was Falling for her and wanted her all to myself. But She had just gotten out of a 3.5 yr. relationship and needed more time. She kept saying “soon”, “soon”) I stayed faithful to her. She went on 2 measily tinder dates with one person in our entire time together. Other than that it was just her and me. Over Christmas we both went home to our respective families. Hers isn’t very supportive of her being with girls. So she didn’t really feel very comfortable talking on the phone with me while she was there. Also during this time, my previous ex Claire called me (she had just broken up with her gf and I was feeling vulnerable) so we had about a week of calling and texting, and sexting and saying lovely dovery things to each other. It was the holidays, emotions were high, vulnerabilities were high. Drinking was high. So yeah. It was what it was. Plus
    I didn’t feel too bad about it since my current girl alexa kept saying we weren’t exclusive. Anyway, a few weeks after New Years, alexa ended up breaking into my phone and reading my texts with Claire, my previous ex. Disgusted, she pulled the plug on us. I tried to fight it and told her Claire didn’t matter and that I was in love with her. But she wouldn’t budge. She said we were over. From there I’d go a week or two of no contact and then break and call her. Nothing. Eventually after about a month she said we could talk on the phone so she could give me so clarity on things. We had a 3 hour phone convo. It was great, we were flirty and I had her laughing and she wanted to know if I was seeing anyone. And it just felt so obvious that we belonged together. The convo ended with me telling her I’d give her some space and try again. From there I went 65 days No Contact. Until I realized that she randomly unfriended me on FB and IG. This hurt. And I couldn’t contain myself. The next day, I texted her “hey are you around I have a question” no response. So I did another 40 days of “no contact” until today when I just couldn’t fight the urge to message her a flirty instagram meme through text saying “saw this, thought of you”. No response.
    I’m just so terrified of losing her. Of never seeing her or speaking to her again. I’ve gone on dates with others, but no one makes me feel like she does. It’s just everything about her. She’s gorgeous and smart and we’re just on the same page about everything and the chemistry and sex is insane. It’s been a little over 4 months. I think about her everyday. And I am still in love with her.
    It took me 32 years to find someone I felt this way about. I can’t just give up. And yet, I realize there’s nothing else I really can do. I don’t know how to let go and “move on”. I miss her. Why is having a heart and loving and missing a person a bad thing? I feel like I’m going crazy. I put so much energy and effort into having the will power not to talk to her that sometimes it’s just easier to break. Sigh. Ok I should end here. If anyone has any thoughts, please share. Thanks team.

  • @Louie_777
    @Louie_777 6 лет назад +4

    Rory. .. your advice is very helpful. .. please make a videos how to deal with a painful breakup, I'm from the Philippines. .. Thanks a lot... GOD BLESS

  • @rubypaul100
    @rubypaul100 5 лет назад +5

    I texted him for 4days after he left me, once in the morning. He has blocked me thinking ill txt him in messenger whatsapp. But then I stopped at all. Now it's 10days doing NC. I'll be silent forever now, he'll realize what he missed out. I love him enough to be silent now.

    • @munrielong6557
      @munrielong6557 5 лет назад

      ruby paul
      Hi Ruby, in case you read this, maybe we can share views and opinions about dealing our ex.We can chat thru fb messenger, this is my name munriel ong.

    • @itsmayratime6766
      @itsmayratime6766 5 лет назад

      any updates?

  • @aba9586
    @aba9586 4 года назад +2

    My situation is so complicated and he couldn’t handle it so he ended it. I went to no contact after the third time break up. We have been together for 16 months. It’s sooo hard but your videos are helping me to go through these hard days specially being in self quarantine. I would love to have a session with you and tell you about us and hear your advice.

  • @alinac8714
    @alinac8714 6 лет назад +5

    Thelovechat, what if you took it too far during the breakup and said some things to hurt them and then finally get blocked. Is there any advice you could give me on this? It’s been 6 months no contact and I’m curious if people change within the months after everything was said.

  • @wendyrubio4562
    @wendyrubio4562 4 года назад +1

    Rory I love to listen to you at night and morning. It soothes me and it helps me fall asleep at night ♥️ THANK YOU you may have saved my life.

  • @bradleyboone3543
    @bradleyboone3543 6 лет назад +2

    Listen to this a few times. Ouch, but true 😕

  • @pappymcallister2492
    @pappymcallister2492 5 лет назад +1

    Rory you give me so much hope I’m starting from video 1 too 190

  • @Chaotic_Fine_Thanks
    @Chaotic_Fine_Thanks 5 лет назад +5

    Man, I actually have given some of those folks my money. I was a recent huge fan of loveadvicetv. So what do we do?!

  • @nightmarenewbedfordenterta9851
    @nightmarenewbedfordenterta9851 6 лет назад +3

    doors open and close thats how i look at it.

  • @NYCNPC
    @NYCNPC 4 года назад +1

    I love this video ! Thank you.

  • @LonelyRider87
    @LonelyRider87 2 года назад

    It's like the meme I shared with my dumper before they left me;
    "Gets broken up with for being possessive and controlling: tries to get her back by being possessive and controlling."

  • @damienhaigh7666
    @damienhaigh7666 6 лет назад

    Perfect analogy on your topics

  • @neon_one_neo3317
    @neon_one_neo3317 4 года назад +1

    The first week of the break up was bad, mostly over text. Alot of emotions and disagreements until I eventually left her alone. Most likely that ruined my chances but at the moment it was like I got shot spiritually and mentally. And to bo honest I have doubts about no contact, not saying i might break no contact but i mean as far as her missing me.

  • @Rose-jh6qx
    @Rose-jh6qx 4 года назад

    Very true, facts are facts. Thank you!!!

  • @melwill9868
    @melwill9868 5 лет назад +2

    I have learned so much from you all. If I had found your channel a couple of months ago we would be together...I ever pursued until he blocked me from calling. At first I gave him space as he requested and then anxiety set in and I panicked...shame on me. However I have gained some life long lessons from this and in the process of a TRANSFORMATION_🙏😍😍I still can't help but to wonder what hes thinking,/feeling.

  • @Ava-lm1zy
    @Ava-lm1zy 5 лет назад +1

    Blocked for 3 months he can do one too childish to even consider him again.

  • @cocotheblackcat3209
    @cocotheblackcat3209 3 года назад

    You are the best!

  • @queennkee3749
    @queennkee3749 6 лет назад

    I love these videos

  • @stevemellin5806
    @stevemellin5806 6 лет назад +2

    She said IAM done so find IAM done to if she loved me she would work with me i made offers to help her IAM gone t to thank you your the best man out here thanks again

  • @tinamessier1869
    @tinamessier1869 6 лет назад

    Perfect timing. I wanted to contact my POI but he’s not my ex, per se. And he’s has not contacted me since the first week of May. In fact he said in that last text ‘leave me alone’. That hurt and now I’m sad because of the such abrupt change of attitude with me

  • @aliciam7774
    @aliciam7774 5 лет назад +1

    I started dating a guy ...after 1 month we had a fight. I said things like " this isn't going to work" "better leave it here" etc... 3 days later i texted him and apologized. I got no response.. then i sent about 6 or 7 texts and still no response. 💔 last night i sent the last text, saying i'm sorry about everything, that i said things because i got upset etcetc. I'll go no contact now.. but i'm so sad. He' s a yoga instructor and is always very calm and detached. I don't think he's ever going to message me again.

    • @littleredcarpet2980
      @littleredcarpet2980 2 года назад

      Don't feel bad
      If you felt like it wasn't going to work then something in your gut told you that. Maybe it wasn't working and it's too soon for that so you said those words to him. I think he thought about it and agreed. I would just move on because I had a similar situation and at the end it really did not work. You were in the courting stage so don't feel too bad. That's what this stage is for anyways.

  • @jamalalrajhi8097
    @jamalalrajhi8097 5 лет назад +1

    Well am here to share my side of story about this . I have been in NC for 5 months than i reached to this point that i said to myself nothing will happen to me now i was okay if she didn’t respond to me . First day i after 5 months i texted . Well she was okay we chat for 30 minutes than i we ended ( have a nice day ) second it was weekend i try to ask her out but she didn’t respond to massage actually she ignored me . Try to be cool after 3 days i massage her again about she even didn’t open my massage she open next day and she still didn’t respond ( guys the feeling is like shit ) i was in relationship with this girl for 10 months and she ended without any reason plz plz take Rory advise and don’t ever massage your ex that feeling when she didn’t respond let myself down even am a confident person and good looking guy . Stay strange

  • @georgespangler1517
    @georgespangler1517 5 лет назад +1

    A man don't beg and plead ,, or want to be with someone that dosent want to be with him,,and dam sure ever be with her again after she's been with someone else.

    • @davidmaurer2430
      @davidmaurer2430 5 лет назад +2

      That's ego, not heart felt, but thats your prerogative

  • @magnificentteamgunz663
    @magnificentteamgunz663 5 лет назад +2

    What if you were blocked what are the chances from ever hearing from her again if you are blocked

  • @angelopetinga
    @angelopetinga 4 года назад +1

    Perfect video, just talked about how my ex sold my German Shepard puppy on my channel :(

  • @EAGLESFLYHIGH
    @EAGLESFLYHIGH 4 года назад +3

    What if I'm the dumper and realized i made a mistake i was very harsh with a few words that i said to her? So now when i reach out she ignores me

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 4 года назад +2

      Off course she's gonna ignore you dude. Your relationship is over you loser. You made sure of that. There is nothing between you two anymore. Move on with your life and live with your decision.

    • @EAGLESFLYHIGH
      @EAGLESFLYHIGH 4 года назад +2

      @@PermanentHigh News flash punk she's in my bed now as we speak. If i want it i get it. Understand that 🖕

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 4 года назад +1

      @@EAGLESFLYHIGH We both know that's a lie. So you can get out of here with that weak shit.

    • @EAGLESFLYHIGH
      @EAGLESFLYHIGH 4 года назад +2

      @@PermanentHigh Lie to who for what? I'm man enough to admit i made the mistake and I'm man enough to correct it and that's exactly what i did. Just because you're struggling in that dept doesn't mean other dudes can't have back what they want.... Understand that

  • @chenal7445
    @chenal7445 5 лет назад +5

    Rory, I feel like No contact has made my ex angry/bitter (I only say this cos after 2 weeks of not chasing him or messaging, no begging, etc) I passed him in town the other day and he completely ignored me, acted like he didn't know me, period. Broken up 3 weeks now (I went no contact immediately). I do feel however - no contact is restoring my self respect, my boundaries and my value.

    • @anon_ya
      @anon_ya 4 года назад +2

      That means you did the right thing. He ignored you, as his ego was bruised. You maintained some dignity and self respect. It’s called boundaries, we need them.

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 4 года назад

      Your relationship is over. What does he have to say to you.

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 4 года назад

      @@anon_ya Or maybe he moved on. Why waste time on ppl who don't want you?

    • @anon_ya
      @anon_ya 4 года назад

      PermanentHigh who is wasting time? It’s not a waste of time to maintain boundaries and self respect, even if someone breaks up with you. Her comment and her feelings are valid, apparently staying in no contact restored her self respect.

  • @AStark-dn6yh
    @AStark-dn6yh 3 года назад

    I broke no contact after just one day. I should have known better damn it! She didn't respond, and I now I feel even worse.

  • @jcdezmen
    @jcdezmen 3 года назад

    she tells me she loves me and misses me then 2 days later I sent her an I miss you message and no response

  • @JelenaVecic024
    @JelenaVecic024 3 года назад

    My issue.. my ex broke up with me in march.i went to NC, didnt cry beg etc.. i went to nc, was suffering ... and i may ex texted me back we talked.. and continue to text, and it was not about pushing ex to get back.. and overall suddenly month ago ex stopped responding to my last msg.. just like that.. so i didnt push and text back..but oh man.. this is again way to painfull.what is the drill here.. i feel so heart broken again..

  • @cornellwhite529
    @cornellwhite529 6 лет назад +1

    What if u messed up when they reached out. Do u go back to no contact?

  • @vanitysmurf5145
    @vanitysmurf5145 2 года назад

    My ex and I broke up last year and it was a messy break up. He's an avoidant and I'm anxious. We took nearly 6 months post the break up to reconnect. Then we finally did and I had another 5 months of a lot of back and forth and hot and cold moments while he was in another city. I tried to build a rapport with him via texts. He eventually moved back my city 2 months back in April 2022 and we met up 4 to 5 times in these past 2 months. We got close and intimate but didn't go all the way yet. We are keeping it casual. But lately he has been working on a personal project which is keeping him extremely busy. So he sometimes responds very late. Recently its been half a month and he has ghosted my last text msg. I have not heard from him at all. I'm getting anxious as to what I'd do to progress things if he never responds and keeps ghosting. I recognise he's busy but still, it doesn't take a lot to respond to a text. I haven't seen him in half a month or so. I'm starting to worry if he'll respond or we'll talk again or ever meet again if he does not reply at all. Like what can I even do if there's no response from him?
    He was briefly seeing someone casually for 3 months when he was in another city. But that ended and the woman hurt him and he came back here. I worry about that and if she has gotten back in touch with him. Or he's just ignoring me and not prioritizing meeting me. It's been raining a lot in our area lately. Could be why he's not moving out much either. But I'm really anxious and sad, not hearing from him at all. What can I do here?

    • @vanitysmurf5145
      @vanitysmurf5145 2 года назад +1

      @@beyourself9162 Things have changed since I last wrote this comment. He's initiating more. And we've met more. I don't know if I want to grow old with him yet. But he does show some promise from time to time. I'm not giving up yet.

  • @jorbald1807
    @jorbald1807 2 года назад

    I broke my no contact after 2 months and didn't budge them after break up. I just reached out to apologize because i know i made mistakes and now im back at no contact for good.

  • @karatrias8562
    @karatrias8562 6 лет назад +1

    Hello. Me and my bf only dated for 5 months. I broke up with him bc i felt neglected. After, i completely regretted it and tried to talk to him and told him it’s not what i wanted it was more of a cry for help for him to see how strongly i felt. He then said he needed to think and that we’d talk in a few days. I gave him a few weeks before i contacted him again and he told me he needed more time so i gave him a few more and when i reached out this last time he stopped responding. It’s been 3 weeks and i haven’t reached out again. Do i just wait for them to contact me? Is the fact that it was a short relationship mean they won’t?

    • @strongertogetherfitness193
      @strongertogetherfitness193 5 лет назад +1

      Why would u want him back. You said he neglected you.. you’ve contacted him several times. I wouldn’t contact him anymore.. why would u want someone like that in your life ? Have some self worth do not reach out anymore .. move on ...

  • @BanaAlhafez77
    @BanaAlhafez77 4 года назад +1

    I feel so stupid !!! Because he’s ignoring me....

    • @BanaAlhafez77
      @BanaAlhafez77 4 года назад

      Sonia K No I can’t contact him he has to contact me first..

    • @BanaAlhafez77
      @BanaAlhafez77 4 года назад

      Sonia K Same 2 weeks ago I messaged him and he ignored me till now.. but coaches say that we should stop messaging them and eventually they will reach out (I hope) when they lose the idea that you are still there waiting..

    • @BanaAlhafez77
      @BanaAlhafez77 4 года назад

      Sonia K yeah same :( please keep strong don’t contact him/her watch some videos or get up go out I know it’s hard I’m in the same situation right now.. or practice sth like I won’t think of my ex for one minute and then think about him/ her as much as you want then 2 min and so on.. it helps..

    • @BanaAlhafez77
      @BanaAlhafez77 4 года назад

      Sonia K Sure np💜

  • @Medehaneyalem27
    @Medehaneyalem27 3 года назад

    Very hard but I'm doing what you're saying to do I miss him 😭

  • @pabloaguilar761
    @pabloaguilar761 6 лет назад

    I wish l would had seen this video before my break up, fucked it up will NC still work?

  • @snezanakohlbacher9089
    @snezanakohlbacher9089 6 лет назад +1

    DO THE NO CNTAKT; BLOCK; WORKS?

  • @terryfisherman6387
    @terryfisherman6387 6 лет назад +1

    do exes feel hurt when the person they dump moves on an gets married an the guy they dump you for leaves them an the next guy after never treats them well like the way you treated them .

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  6 лет назад

      Terry Fisherman There seems to be alot going on in that situation - if you're looking for coaching please email!

    • @terryfisherman6387
      @terryfisherman6387 6 лет назад +1

      thanks but i am just fine.i am the ex that got married an the ex seams to be hurting over it. so i just ask the question.since she left me for someone else she is on her 5 boy friend. i am with the woman who look after me when i was ill an she left me. i have fully recover since.

  • @yannaj7155
    @yannaj7155 5 лет назад

    i would like this topic covered,.. there is not clairty out there from all the coaches about what to do, if u feel they broke up with you bcoz u werent good n caring n attentive or affectionate enough,.. it seems odd to do no contact when you feel you already werent doing enough,.. my situation is,. i got accused of "killing his feelings" by apparently not doing enough for the relationship or expressing enough love,.. this is coming from my ex boyfriend,... whose a guy im a girl,..

  • @leemicheal895
    @leemicheal895 6 лет назад

    If I texted her 7 tymes over a week with a couple of calls. Is that too much,Yes it is but the total.Started NC so its been 15 days since Breakup with 4 days NC also didn’t contact a couple days in between. I mean she said she didn’t think I cared much and wasn’t all in so I sent messages Apologies of my wrongdoings and if I can do anything.None of them were mean or vengeful or blaming.Is that too much,I mean it isn’t ideal but was it too much. Also I’m not angry maybe was for an hour but really sad and confused.I do want the best for her; it’d be great if i was in it though. I pray for her daily too.

  • @Sunshine-qs4io
    @Sunshine-qs4io 5 лет назад

    They can’t miss you when they already have someone new and don’t give a fuck about you anymore.

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  5 лет назад +4

      Very incorrect. In fact dating someone new is often the catalyst that brings them back.

    • @Sunshine-qs4io
      @Sunshine-qs4io 5 лет назад

      The Love Chat Thats what I need to hear haha thanks

    • @martinemaryhernandez729
      @martinemaryhernandez729 4 года назад +1

      Yeah right💯💯 Your so full of shit💯💯💯

  • @alextee8844
    @alextee8844 5 лет назад

    I m so fucking sad that my ex never ever reply my mssg anymore, she has someone new, she doesn’t even bother to text me anymore, I love her so much, she just moved on with someone new. My heart is broken.

  • @sara78130
    @sara78130 6 лет назад

    Hi we together for 6 ys. She was block me everywhere. I buy ticket I go home after one weeks she ask me to meet you , I say not. After she find out I’m holiday every day call me. Then I bk we meet 5 times after that I txt her she online but she didn’t look is so make me crazy now I Block her f book and I delete all apps see what happens :(

  • @michelleodrada8121
    @michelleodrada8121 6 лет назад

    Hi coach! What if I want my stuff back and he ignores my messages. And why will he hang on to it. Give it back to me. He dumped me anyway. It's been 3 months now. Help!

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  6 лет назад

      That is an unusual reaction, can you involve a mutual friend to get your stuff back?

  • @story_time_bd2512
    @story_time_bd2512 3 года назад

    Plz make a vdo on blocking . My bf brokeup and blocked me on whtsap insta and messenger. Except on fb
    I req u to make a vdo about it.

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  3 года назад

      Hello - this video has been covered.

  • @brandonnykyforak
    @brandonnykyforak 3 года назад

    Will this work even if they say they lost feelings?

  • @helenahopkins9160
    @helenahopkins9160 5 лет назад

    Broke up with my ex but I don’t have my stuff back yet after 2 weeks . Do I leave it with him

  • @Benwilliaams
    @Benwilliaams 4 года назад

    Hi, is it ok to send a Christmas card because of the family or does that affect things?

  • @cathalsheehan9596
    @cathalsheehan9596 5 лет назад +1

    In my situation I begged and pleaded very badly on the day of break up and during a meet up 1 month later but bar these occasions I’ve left her alone.
    She hasn’t blocked, still has me as a friend on FB & Instagram, hasn’t removed pics of be & her plus she has never ignored my message’s during the break up as well. Have I begged yes but has I harassed and bugged her repeatedly no bar during the actual break up itself
    Do I still have a shot here if I leave her alone? The main reason for the break was her going abroad for 10 months and not wanting to be long distance.

  • @gamingandrefashionshipadvi6132
    @gamingandrefashionshipadvi6132 3 года назад

    Why do I feel like I’m the one at fault for the break up Bc I came out and called for the break up before she did based off her actions?

  • @tretucker1013
    @tretucker1013 4 года назад

    straight bullshit. I want to get back and talk to her and fix it!!

  • @mikemcgeady6032
    @mikemcgeady6032 6 лет назад

    What if i chased her for 2 months? I did try the 30 day rule and as you said.. it didnt work. Actually she blocked me after i tried it for the second month(i guess i gotta thank brad for that). But after she blocked me i added her with another account and told her im sorry i didnt mean to hurt or annoy her, and im letting her go in hope that one day we may get back together. Did i do the right thing? And yeah by the way she didnt reply of course

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  6 лет назад +1

      mike mcgeady Hi Mike, I want you to go review my video "what exactly is no contact?" Take some time to focus on you, create the best version of yourself that you can possibly be. If you want additional tailored advice be sure to reach out to me at thelovechat@gmail.com

    • @mikemcgeady6032
      @mikemcgeady6032 6 лет назад

      The Love Chat is it too late ? I know i have no other option now but is there any chance she might get back?

    • @grjabalpuriya1039
      @grjabalpuriya1039 6 лет назад +1

      hey, i had a break up on 10th of november though i was femiliar with corey wayne's 7 principle to get an ex back, i did the same today i hide photo of my ex and me so no one can see it except me. now i'm hitting gym, trying to improve my personal and profeissnol life, she sees my insta story and likes my photos, but i don't, just to get over her, and yeah the radio silent is permanent from my side.

    • @lilibetholivares6224
      @lilibetholivares6224 5 лет назад

      Hi Love chat my boyfriend broke up with me and he blocked me.on Facebook and in messenger. I didn’t contact him, it’s been a week now after the break up . My question to you couch , Is there a chance that he’ll unblock me?

  • @dg_96_7
    @dg_96_7 6 лет назад

    Hey man my ex texted me after 2 months of applying no contact. It was a late Saturday I know she must have been drunk. She texted me “hey” and I fucked up by replying right away saying “what’s up” she didn’t reply after that. Do you know why she might have texted me ??

    • @xrc80
      @xrc80 6 лет назад +2

      Diego Garcia you texted immediately. Wait 5 hours or a day and say sorry I was busy with family or friends or work what’s up? From there let her be. And you know what, a text like hey means I’m bored nobody to think about but you so I can feel better when you response. So you almost had the power but she still got it because you texted right away. Just keep going with your life man. I know it’s tough but time will heal. You’ll be fine. You want that power by letting her know by not texting and you’ve pretty much moved on. She won’t like that idea because she will feel like OMG He’s not chasing me anymore. Fuck off bitch lol good luck man 👍🏻

    • @dg_96_7
      @dg_96_7 6 лет назад +1

      Prince Gabriel thanks bro . I’ve been better compared to the first couple weeks. I still get down sometimes but fuck it , it is what it is.

    • @xrc80
      @xrc80 6 лет назад +5

      Diego Garcia I’m in a month of break up and we have to all realize there is someone better and it happened for a reason. Start dating be a manhoe if it helps to get rid of that feeling but that’s just a suggestion 😁 Keep busy, play sports, workout, look good, save money, love yourself first! Eventually, these girls will start chasing you. Girls loves a very confident man. They want a man they can hold on to and not a weak one that would break easily. Stay strong! 💪🏼

  • @adamkhan7846
    @adamkhan7846 6 лет назад

    Hi .. i have been with my ex for 8.5 years .. she left the property 2 months ago and since then i have met her twice and didnt go well.. i gave a last shot by going to her flat with flowers and again no development.. she said that she doesn't want to be in this relationship.. that we are from different worlds .. she said for me to move on.. i loved her alot and cared about her ... Im not sure what i need to do from this point forward?

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  6 лет назад +1

      Go into no-contact, work on yourself. If she reaches out, set a date to hang out & have a good time!

    • @Danimal77
      @Danimal77 6 лет назад +1

      Based on my situation it sounds like she might have met someone new. Mine did and it shocked me because I never expected her to, especially so soon after the relationship. When that happens they usually want to block you out completely because they don't want to give you any hope and don't want you to jeopardize their current relationship.

    • @kukuwaa28owusu58
      @kukuwaa28owusu58 6 лет назад

      adam khan p

  • @shawnaaki4270
    @shawnaaki4270 5 лет назад

    Maybe that’s where I go wrong. Cause I do text my ex and no response.

  • @cassyj3183
    @cassyj3183 5 лет назад

    i need a coaching bad

  • @leslieclark3565
    @leslieclark3565 5 лет назад

    What if it's your boyfriend?

  • @emeraudehime2431
    @emeraudehime2431 6 лет назад

    My ex reached out but has never talked about getting back together. He has life issues which i believe he is still dealing with which was the reason why he cant commit any further to our long distance. Would it be better not to entertain his calls/text unless he would say he wants us back?

    • @MissSarahGM
      @MissSarahGM 6 лет назад

      Emeraude, how long had been the nc period? I am in a similar situation, long distance and life issues.
      What did your ex say? Maybe was it to test the waters? I believe from distance it is harder to reconcile, as it is unlikely to say we are back together. But maybe he misses the connection.

    • @emeraudehime2431
      @emeraudehime2431 6 лет назад

      Sarah M its been a week since i started nc. But we broke up for a month now.

    • @MissSarahGM
      @MissSarahGM 6 лет назад

      Do you think his life issues are the main reasons for the breakup? NC is the best way to go if they dumped you. Otherwise you're comforting him if you entertain the bond. You would just make it easier for him.

    • @emeraudehime2431
      @emeraudehime2431 6 лет назад

      Sarah M yes dear and perhaps some pressure on getting married since were in our 30s . At one time i took the courage to ask when will we see each other again, he replied he doesnt know. Thanks a lot for giving me your piece of thoughts on my dilemna.

    • @MissSarahGM
      @MissSarahGM 6 лет назад

      Emeraude Hime, I understand, I also was anxious and scared him about the relationship label and when will we see each other again... I know it is over, he will never contact me.
      Stay strong, no contact is the best thing to do for us too. They need to find what they want on their own.

  • @Chrissybell1210
    @Chrissybell1210 6 лет назад

    My ex is texting me I'm not texting him should I respond by texting him back during no contact?

    • @paul0081
      @paul0081 6 лет назад +1

      Christine negron I wouldn't do that

  • @nobody6713
    @nobody6713 4 года назад +1

    While i agree about Brad Browning, i don't about Love Advice Tv. I mean, on love advice tv's channel there are videos for almost every situation where they explain what to do. Ex: if they say because of this bla bla bla you don't have to reach out bla bla bla, they're basically telling you what to do🤷🏻‍♂️. Then it's up to people if they wanna spend money in useless coach sessions. For almost every answer we seek, there's a video somewhere.. but people just see those videos and keep doing the opposite 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @ChordsForU
    @ChordsForU 6 лет назад +1

    I didn’t give my ex enough space when we broke up and we ended up arguing and she blocked me, we’ve spoken a few times since but just short messages. I was thinking about apologising to her for not giving her enough space, it’s been 4 and a half months since she blocked me and around 10 since we broke up. I’d love to work things out one day but I really do want us to be friends if we don’t work it out. Some of my friends have said to message apologising and some have said not to.

  • @DOMOWMNIGGA2
    @DOMOWMNIGGA2 6 лет назад

    She block me on everything so is it impossible to get her back we havent talked in three months

    • @DOMOWMNIGGA2
      @DOMOWMNIGGA2 6 лет назад

      Or just let her got in move on

    • @Danimal77
      @Danimal77 6 лет назад +2

      My ex did the same thing man. It's been 4 months for me and I found out today that she is happy and in love in a new relationship. Made me feel sick to my stomach.

    • @DOMOWMNIGGA2
      @DOMOWMNIGGA2 6 лет назад +1

      Dan Maler she will be back it won't last long but don't take her back make her work hard to get u back when she come did she block u on everything n how long was y'all relationship

    • @Danimal77
      @Danimal77 6 лет назад

      I don't know Dominic. From what I heard, she looks very happy with this new guy. It's crazy how fast she jumped into a new relationship, as though ours meant nothing to her. We were together for 2 years. Yes, she blocked me on everything practically right after she left me (text, phone line, facebook and I think even email in the last month). It's possible because of the new guy (she doesn't want me getting in the way). It's not only hurtful, but very frustrating that I can't even send her a simple text saying hi. As for the phone, well, even if your phone # is blocked, you can make your # private and it will go through to her phone line, but she will see "private" on her call display and she can choose not to answer the phone regardless (the case now with my ex). If she were single, I'd have more of a chance for her to cave in, but the new guy's giving her confidence to keep me out. I wish I knew of a way to change how she sees/feels about me (get her to respect me more, which she currently doesn't seem to).

    • @DOMOWMNIGGA2
      @DOMOWMNIGGA2 6 лет назад

      Dan Maler do not chase her pretend like she doesn't exist u don't have to do nothing just work on your self worry about your self not her don't call don't do nothing she will come back in if she do make her work hard for it don't never beg for it n make her go get a std test and when you do get back together if she make one little slip you cut her off until she learn her lesson be a alpha n never kiss her on the lips again u know what she doing to the new guy

  • @marodanm559
    @marodanm559 6 лет назад +1

    Hello...my ex she dont like me anymore but I still love her very much its okay that I will give her flowers or chocs on valentines day???

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  6 лет назад +11

      marodan m I wouldn't, you don't want to reward somebody who did not care enough to stay and work it out.

    • @frankwilliams4222
      @frankwilliams4222 3 года назад

      @@TheLoveChat exactly

  • @cng1604
    @cng1604 6 лет назад

    Are u dating guy?

  • @dreamnight2905
    @dreamnight2905 5 лет назад +3

    Dont listen to love advice tv lol