One Simple Trick To Make ANY Girl Like YOU | THE CHASE
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- Опубликовано: 1 авг 2024
- Here is one simple trick to make any girl like you, using a simple concept known as The Chase. It's part of the psychology of attraction, and although it's great for getting your crush, it's just as effective for making friends, getting a job and so much more.
Ever noticed how, mysteriously, you ended up getting something that you wanted really bad, only after you weren't really interested in it any more?
With the help of this powerful concept, you'll have an easier time flirting with girls, and you'll understand another major part of how attraction works between humans.
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-Julian
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Have your own life
Don’t be needy
Have your shit together
Reach your goals
I do this daily and im still single
@@FvckEmWeUp you'll figure it out 😄
So Am I the only one who realized that the main point in all of these videos is to focus on yourself?
Know thyself
Focusing and knowing oneself, self awareness helps
lol yup
Jip. And if shes not intrested in you there is fuck all you can do. So whats ghe fucking point
They want it to get that straight into your head
Life is fucking easier when you’re good with people.
You’re whole aura is different. You’ll be amazed at the things people will tell you when they’re “comfortable “.
One advice i can give to guys (all guys but especially the ones in their 20s) is to get into the habit of reading. Become voracious readers. Books, articles on the internet, anything that increases your awareness and knowledge quotient. Touch all the subjects like politics, sports, economy, celebrity gossip, anything and everything. Grow intellectually and you will attract the girls who are right for you. Give it time.
Good advice I'm nearly 25, graduated and aspiring to become a teacher. Just investing in myself, learning new skills etc and hope to meet the girl of my dreams sometime!
Indeed.
As a Renaissance Man let me say that you are absolutely correct!
Touching all aspects is a great idea! Most ppl indulge in just one topic or subject and seem to be one dimensional.
but my man most the people at my school who read are hella anti social
edit: but now that I think about it if you are social and you read it just gives you more to talk about so if your not anti social then yeah that would be very much so gooood
This game has one serious flaw for women in the long run. As soon as they start to age, guys also start losing interest in them. Had they just staid with an average guy, and overcome their low hypergamous instincts, they would probably have a more fulfilling and fruitful relationships rather than ending up like Jenny from the movie Forrest Gump.
"The Chase" never really stops, even when you get into a relationship
and not every guy/girl (simply because they've entered a relationship) is looking for something new. too add to your point
What about when someone gets married then.. that must be game over 😂
Thats because old fashioned values like honesty integrity and faithfulness don't exist anymore
@Timothy Bushnell There is that part of the bible, when Jews were conquering Palestine, slaughtering men and taking females as slaves. That would not be possible, should females had any trace of integrity or loyalty...
Shoutout to entrepreneurs in cars
Agreed! Once you start taking control of your life and becoming occupied with your activities, you will seem more attractive because you are hard to get. This is in no way manipulative because you are not purposely avoiding her to "play hard to get" because you are actually being it.
True bro
Then why am i still single?
Absolutely, you're right. We want that which retreats from us. Showing Non-chalance and a High value mindset and purpose is the key to THE CHASE.
Yo. You summed it up perfectly.
Yah. You're right. I have applied this technique on girls before. It works as smooth as a butter.
Your Alpha Dude yea non chalance and lightheartedness is the key 🔑 not disinterest or unavailability per se.
You're not being yourself when you follow all these rules, they have for dating.
Best partner you'll find is when you break all the rules and you accept each other for who you are.
Cheers Man
You said it all man
Amen.
this is the right answer
+1, be you
It's all the same.
-be successful
-be happy
-enjoy your present moment
The women magnet to all of this.
Like some on said in the comments section. Focus on yourself and it will all come to you. Don't try too much
You are absolutely correct. It's all about balancing your availability with being not available. I noticed that needy men tend to be far too available and it turns off the woman. A lot of beginners who try to start showing less availability over do it and drive off the girl that way.
But what if you’re too available
I totally agree, you should have a life in the first place.
Matt Smith wow rude much
@Matt Smith What standarsd? Try that idiotic game with me, and you can be death sure I'll not be "available" ever more, for example...
@@irism.7921 Men are fed up with the ludicrous standards being set for us as we are demonized and exploited for our resources by self entitled narcissistic women who think its sexist to expect any in return.
"Since the beginning of time..." every single video starts like this lmao
The Serbian Potato 😂
Dude I thought exactly the same thing lmao
The video started and i saw this comment when he said it
It's because he was there at the beginning of time duh
"I was born at a very young age!" 🤔
A lot of this can be applied to dating if your sole purpose is to conquer. If you’re looking for love and connection that’s real keep it real. If it dies, it dies. At least it was something real. It’s all an ego trap to “have” someone for security or identification and it isn’t real if you’re always playing the game tactfully going about your life. The biggest sense of fear, let me not say what’s real so they don’t stop liking me!! By all means, don’t be a clinger, try to be aware of your overly needyness, show restraint, but don’t be fake and play mind games. I’d rather have a temporary real thing than a forever fake love that really don’t love me (or even know the real me) who’s only attracted to the push and pull of her own insecurity. Rant over
this was gold man thanks
Bang on mate. The hard to get philosophy seriously lacks logic to me.
Steven Johnson this is good advice! be yourself and have your shi* together. If someone accepts you for you then you know it’s the real deal and no one is getting played. Of course don’t be needy or clingy because that’s always unattractive but speaking from experience it’s not a bad thing to let someone know how your feeling. Most people need to know their investing in someone worthwhile. You can still be high status without being subversive and unavailable.
Great comment. This whole video focuses more on fixing the symptoms rather than the root cause. It's only by becoming the strongest version of ourselves, can we truly fix our neediness.
Amazing comment. These stupid games are just retarded, it's just sad. Humans are fucked. Nothing is real.
Best advise for those seeking a flaky relationship.
I love this channel so much! You inspire me more and more! I want to follow in your foot steps!
It also applies for the flirt:
Get to intimate too fast and you lose. Don't progress fast enough and you get friendzoned...
If you feel like you’re friend zoned permanently, a good idea is to spend less time with them for a while (about a month of 5 mins a day instead of all the time. Get her looking forward to those 5 or so mins, then talk to her for a bit longer now and she suddenly gets excited to see you again if you play it right.
I have joined this channel today and my word you guys have it all.
Guys just me yourself busy and and she will chase you like crazy.
The main guy from RUclips when it comes to human interactions hits again! Good job, man!
Any girl? Ha ha ha! I'm not surprised nor impressed at this time!
Ya, good tips. Great RUclips channel.
Learning about psychology and sub-communication is too valuable. Learning about it changes lives. I know it changed my situation.
This channel has learnt me more than my life did
This channel has literally changed my life :D much love
That's what happens when we get into self improvement. It's like getting in the gym, working on ourselves.
As somebody that just wants to love somebody else, the idea of a chase till I die even in a relationship is harrowing.
This is some very irritating truth.
Any girl? Ha ha ha! I don't think so! I'm not surprised nor impressed at this time!
Woman are very irritating
Dude, women are fun. You got to change your view or else you're not getting along with women with that belief. You know? Think about it.
I got no problem when it comes to getting woman
C'mon when you know what they like and how to atract them it's become really easy.
Gabriel so true
he loves saying “since the beginning of time”
Great video. I think one additional point to make is that if you worry about who is chasing who, then you are in reaction to the girl. You're already investing too much. The key is to make your life awesome. Think about this...when you're outside playing volleyball on the beach with your friends, girls will look because you're having fun. They want in on your fun. The key is to make your life fun. Then, you should view girls as you would when you go to shopping for a car or computer. You are checking them out seeing which one is best for you. To make your life that awesome though, you need to develop leadership qualities and some other things.
Great video though. I know it's hard to include everything in one video. That's why we make many.
Keep it up!
To ManlinessMaximized". Good point - I am a FUNNY person (I can make people laugh), but I am not intrinsically FUN TO BE WITH. There's a difference and it is being a person that is FUN to be around that is the most important attracting quality.
This channel has changed me!! Thanks
This video really does make sense! Thanks for posting.
Be attractive and high status and you too can attract gold digging females.
Hawks NestArchive I’ve experienced this too much
Hawks NestArchive but aren‘t somewhat all women „gold diggers“? They‘re all attracted by a man who can provide and a provider has materalistic property. That just how they are...
The modern day women's vagina is a biological weapon. Drug resistant superghonareah is now an issue as well as flesheating stds yet men will sacrifice everything they have for the golden v.
*this comment !*
LOL, the sad reality.
Most important message if this vid.. "actually be a high value human" do it for yourself to fulfill your purpose and everything else will fall into place
this sounds like a dating advice ad but it gets to the point right away
With these skills almost every in my class loves me but there's this one girl who loves me way more than everybody else,thanks now I have a personal girl who practically in love with me!
Ive seen a buttload of your videos bro, but this one right here it nailed it. Great job and keet it coming
that's why it always seems it's the girls you don't like or you're not interested in that like you!
bought a red hoodie. been wanting one for a while. The shirts need to be tri-blend for me to buy. get those and I'm in.
I can't believe it's that simple. There has to be more to it!
This video just reminds me why I’m single i don’t got time to balance and play games but you have to play games to win
"....that being said", HELL YEAH, I DIG IT
I like the music that plays in your videos
You are amazing bro! I watch your videos everyday and live by your words.
Your videos are short, concise and very powerful...
Wow..! Once again an Amazing insight video on how to push pull technique... Thanks for uploading such a wonderful life needed techniques 😊
I couldn't believe that I didn't do anything about it. She walked around my car stepped in to her car. She sat there for about 5 minutes playing on her phone. She was top shelf 9/10.
But then again I have never done anything about it either. Was telling my mate that, I won't know what to do even if I ran into a 8/10. Reality is somehow different for me. I don't know what I am insecure about.
Just separated and trying to rebuild and have good prospects $$$. I am know I am good enough, yet that fear of been laughed off / rejection is too great.
I don't know if race place a part in my thinking. I am Brown and I am confident in my own skin. It's a process and one day the switch will go off.
"Wait two weeks before talking to her after getting her number"
"Hey, it's [name]"
"Who?"
"From that one place we were at together"
"Dude that was like a month ago wtf lol I don't even remember"
gg
If its a month ago how didn't she remember?🤔
Sounds exhausting Im better off single.
He gives men better focus than other guides and much better knowley
This video came just in time! - I met a girl last night and maybe I just did a simple mistake that could land me in the friendzone: I'll try maintain my availability with her!
Julian-
I don't know if this is an Archive of knowledge that you have personally acquired or if you are a professor, or if it is some type of group effort, partnership. Whatever it is and however you have gotten this information, (I would really love to know!), you are brilliant! The hard part is actually shutting down the noise in one's head and applying what we are learning here. That said, thank you! This has now become my favorite channel.
Dude, who makes these vectors for you? They're awesome
They are pretty, pretty, pretty, pretttttty, good
On point. Great video. 💯👑👍🏾
When watching this video makes me realise that it's all apart of a mental game that I'm currently going through and she's not all that interested now that I'm single
Your a legend ,Good job men!
Thanks- I tried to play hard to get and lost her.😂😂
Man this guy got a talent ,how can u make a thousand videos and each one is the same but not at the same time😂
Dudeeeeee....
you're The Goat
It's sad really. I played it with my ex untill she got obsessed over me. Over time i thought we past it, time to stop that immature shit. Well, i was wrong. (It was never an act tho was rarely available. Just after a injury at work i got more available and she lost interest in a month or 2. Although i exchanged for the better with a way hotter chick from gym thats wrapped over me for no specific reason. 😂
It sucks how quickly the lose interest and the stupid hot/cold, available/unavailable game we have to play
*Interesting perspective but it makes sense.*
The "chase" is a process or sequence of events, that is dependent on two people. A skill is a particular ability. Having things to do to create unavailability doesn't make you skilled. It means you have a life. This video would be valuable for boys as they enter Jr. High because it would give them an advantage or at least an understanding as they start to "chase."
This is amazing! Thanks a lot for this new philosophy of life. =D
Love your video's i have a girlfriend now wish me luck guys
Singyu Liu prepare for sheer disappointment .
Singyu Liu build trust , without trust any relationship is useless, with that said, good lock my guy
sorry dawg dont get tied down, but once some better guy comes along theres nothing you can do about it.. hate to sound negative but its the truth. ps definitely dont get married.. thank me later in 10 years i promise you
good luck bro
Goodluck
Very wise words thanks
Scarcity comes with high value, not the other way round. If you are high value, you will be in demand and have not much time for a single girl. You cannot fake a high value by 'making' yourself scarce.
I love how these videos use examples of video games.
Appreciate the tools ✊💯💯
Good advice for 16 years old & under
Sad to say but this is exactly true
My idea:
1. Have modern style on clothes and jewelery.
2. Be funny.
3. Stay with girls more but stay with boys too.
4. Be gentle, not everytime.
5. Have smart ideas
6. Spread good mood.
Andi Kamberi not every time
Only works for high value men
This actually made sense
The person with the power in a relationship is the person who cares less. Care about yourself so much that while having them might be great you don’t need it.
You couldn't possibly be more correct.
You are good thanks for your time🙏
How to make yourself valuable when married bc now you're always around and there is high chances of bumping into each other and end up kissing. Would work if .somehow you become unavailable
Thank you and God bless
You're correct again! i aggree on so many of your videos but there is one topic id like you to cover: The friendzone. I know its stupid but how do you attract a girl if she ya know, just wants to be friends? Id be interested to know.
1:55 Same damn thing happened to me, can’t stand all the clingy vampires out there. They suck!
No pun intended
I'm guessing ur a girl, fuck u bitch
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Hey i wanna ask a question- lot of people says being less avaible to others makes you more valuable and girls will chase or want to spend time with u. But what if you are in a relationship and you have your beautiful girl to who you love so much! Is that okay to give more and more time to her or just do that' be less avaible stuff,, being less avaible to your girlfriend makes both good and bad in some ways.. i would like to see your views in this topic.. tell which is better to do with girlfriend. And i love her so much😍
You have to maintain the balance...If she starts to seem like she is taking you for granted then it is time to start being a little less available. The Chase! Pure and simple!
Keep yourself busy!!
Good vid. In addition: a man has to figure out if the girl is a really good and nice person vs. Just regular nice. The really good girl nice girl type actually wants you to show how much you care. So in fact: most women are just regular nice . Everyone has an agenda.
Been working on this for a while, and I gotta say, this is 100% true
I've killed car salesman before that's how good I am at The Chase, beeeches!
I’ve done all the theory work time to do the practical work
How to get out of the friendzone
Step 1. Become super unavailable
Step 2. Remind them that you exist
Step 2a. Remind them that you could do x if they would respect/do y
Step 3. Profit!
so vague tho, and becoming unavailable just ends friendships in general
Eagle J.
he is right tho,i learned the hard way myself,that once you end the friendship/contact to the woman you once desired,woman in general will take notice of that,and this lead to you becoming more valuable(as said in the video).a Woman once told me herself: "woman think not about how to get to the relationship" but its actually reversed,if you give her a good feeling,that is all she needs.after that is done she will literally seek out logical reasions as to "why you the right guy" this is phenomenon is preceisly the reasion guys tend to fail with woman,when theiy just listen to theiy words/reasioning,as in: why did she do x-thing instead of y, well simple: because x-thing gave her the better "feeling" for woman feelings are priority number one everything else is just social conditioning so theiy don t get blamed as sluts for fucking a guy,and theiy in general don t tell you this because it would make them vunerable to manipulation,similar to exploits in videogames.
@@larsliljeberg3970
Dude, re-read and edit your post..its long and it's horrible..It doesn't get to the point,nor makes sense.
GalactixPirate
lol my post literally got 5 likes because it makes sense and is the truth,so if you can t comphrend anything longer then a sentence then thats your problem not mine xd.
@@Eros13adios You literally could have said. "TD;LR please?" and it would have been soooo much easier, and a lot less offensive.
Good advice for hookups, but no relationship can withstand an endless chase. Sooner or later one will loose interest and it all collapses. Never rely on chemistry only.
Oh this is what She playing on the start . That was way too soon to realize (She was doing this 1and a half year ago)
This is more the concept of a psychological sickness! 2 ambissionous people will not have time to chase each other... they will look for peaceful moments together and after that go out to their hustle. The chasing game is for people that don't have other challenges in life. I still get the point here though! Good video!
Perfect bro🥶
Well that's what life what us to do... 🎭
It's better to pursue then to back off rather than to not pursue than to act interested... girls could get some other guy interested im her etc most of the time if the girl is attractive she will attract a higher percentage of traffic to her and jeaopordizing your chances
Thanks
It doesn't make you more attractive, it only you harder to get, if that turns someone one then I guess it makes you more attractive.
Lol I’ve been doing this but now I can do it more effectively
Great info tnx bro
If a girl says yes and she's available any time I'd definitely ask her out, why is that supposed to be a warning sign? That's stupid
10 years later! Somebody is Still doing the chase. Haha
Hello,
What software did you use to design your profile picture?
Read the ebook Are You Wolf Enough? @Amazon
Man, you are the professor..
Make a video on how to cope with Heartbreaks
This channel uses the very same trick for merchandise, I can't find it in the description ;)
Thanks teacher
im really bad at this i dont think i can do it but thanks for the video anyways
Some people over do it and it CAN backfire.
Getting me robot girl. This chase means more gray hair's. I will spend my time doing things I have fun with and save lots of money.