WiPnChit (Chat)#16 - Why Mushy Has Been Dropping Her Balls, My Poor Kid,State of the Channel Address

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @robinecklund
    @robinecklund Месяц назад

    If it’s a contest , family wins. I appreciate you taking the time with us. If it was my daughter I’d be a mess! I want you to know how much I’ve thoroughly enjoyed getting up each day and finding out what pain in the arse challenge I’m going to spend my morning doing. Take care of yourself and your family 💕

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      I was/am a mess! I'm a Karen mad momma bear now though! 😆
      I'm glad you've been enjoying the challenges! I felt like we've all earned a week to catch up and maybe finish/ almost finish/ work on our canvases a bit! Enjoy!

  • @diamondnana1026
    @diamondnana1026 Месяц назад

    You take family time, family first nobody’s going no where and abandon you. TFS

  • @kimdelger9976
    @kimdelger9976 Месяц назад

    You know your daughter has been let down by so many of the health care providers…from urgent care fiascos, rheumatologist missing messages, rheumatologist calling the wrong Walgreens, rheumatologist saying how urgent this problem is but saying it could wait until Monday and not telling her to get to the ER. Good grief…there are so many wrongs in this scenario but the one scenario that was NOT wrong is you recognizing your limitations. Your daughter and husband know you and love you enough to know that you could not be of any help in the ER and both of them were ok with your decision. Sundown was already heading towards the ER, your daughter felt secure in the knowledge that you love her but knew you would be a patient too if you stayed. I’m sure it was one of the hardest things you have ever done to leave that hospital but you respected your daughter enough to do as she asked. Bravo to you, Mushy, for helping your daughter by listening to her at the ER. Thanks for sharing and putting this video out.

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words. I don't know if it's just this town or if it's like this most everywhere, but there's been so many missteps in medical care here. Not only this time with her, but also recently with me. Major things like not detecting titanium tumor clips in mammograms and using the wrong dye in an mri.... I don't know what is going on, but it adds to the fear and mistrust of the medical facilities here. I'm grateful for Sundown and him being so in tune with both Leah and I, such that he could step in and be there when I couldn't and understand without judgment. We really are a strong family unit who understands and respects and looks out for each other. We're very lucky and I'm very grateful.

    • @LolaRyck
      @LolaRyck Месяц назад

      🖤🖤🖤

  • @DevilsAngelMadness
    @DevilsAngelMadness Месяц назад

    I’m so sorry you’ve all been through hell and back! 😔
    I’m glad things were figured out 🖤🫶🏼🖤

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      It's just been a 💩 show week. We all have them. But the kicker was really that Leah could have really not been here right now and we didn't even realize it and it was doctors that did it to her 😞

    • @DevilsAngelMadness
      @DevilsAngelMadness Месяц назад

      @@Mushmellow79 and drs wonder why we don’t trust them fully as we should… smh… that truly is the scariest notion, as a parent! I personally would be suing the shit out of any urgent care that almost cost my child their life… why are those individuals even practicing medicine there if they seem incompetent?!

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад +1

      I'm poking around and checking out the law on the area to see if I might have any cause of action and if so I'll contact a local attorney for a consultation 💯

  • @javineranger2789
    @javineranger2789 Месяц назад

    I’m sorry that as a family you have been let down on numerous occasions. Sadly I fear this is the same here in the UK - if that is of ANY comfort to you. If you receive good treatment all is well and good but when it goes wrong, boy does it go wrong. It is a concern to me personally that those of us who receive these biological injections may have an allergic reaction, and how it would be treated long term whilst the effects of that particular injection wears off and leaves the body.
    I was on Humira (which works fantastically well for 5 years), but when that stopped working about 6 months ago I was moved on to Cosentyx. This is kinda working alongside some other meds, but nowhere near as good as the Humira back in its heyday.
    I really hope Leah finds her current treatment plan for her reaction leaves her feeling more comfortable (and safe) whilst the injection wears off.
    As for being a Mumma bear…….we Mummas are all like it when it comes to our cubs. My own mother is insisting on accompanying me to my next consultation appointment. I get it totally. She watches me go through the wringer, and she feels helpless so anything she CAN do to help will make her feel better. And honestly, I appreciate the support. Sometimes when you are dealing with medical issues, someone having your back and fighting your corner is hugely appreciated and you feel less ‘alone’.

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      It's sad that it's so hard and so rare to find a "good" doctor that "cares" and is actually helpful. It's one of the main reasons we make that awful trip up north every month or so! The medical care is SO worth the trip. It's sad that this is what the medical system had come to, even across the pond!

  • @KanzenSilver
    @KanzenSilver Месяц назад

    Mushy. She is an adult. She understands you. You are doing your best!!!!

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      I know but we always see our kids as our Littles ya know?

  • @melaniehebert5888
    @melaniehebert5888 Месяц назад

    Thanks for sharing… sending healing vibes. I appreciate your vulnerability but on the other hand you never have to justify yourself to social media!! Your family is and comes first!

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      💯 me and my family come first always! I just believe in transparency and clarity and just really wanted people to know what was so interfere-y that my videos have been unpredictable and late and in some cases missing altogether 😆

  • @mrsbgg8687
    @mrsbgg8687 Месяц назад

    Hi mushy I’m sorry what your going through right now but your daughter and your health comes first ❤

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      I don't care her age she'll always come first in all things! I just had to tell the story and share the bs-ery that was going on here with the medical care!

  • @ingedierckx1257
    @ingedierckx1257 Месяц назад

    Hi Mushy, I did had a roar feeling that something was wrong. I do not judge, and no one should. I wish the best to your daughter and you and your husband. Take the time you need!

  • @terrimaddox3090
    @terrimaddox3090 Месяц назад

    real life First and foremost; Take care Mush and see you when things settle down

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      Always! I just like to be transparent and let people know what's going on before anyone else wants to assume what's going on 😆

  • @BassingirlCrafts
    @BassingirlCrafts Месяц назад

    Dont apologize for taking care of your baby. She comes first. What others think doesnt make it a law. No reason for anyone to say anything other than uplifting and prayers because you are her mom not us. Hugs sweetie keep us updated when your able to

  • @carolynbrown3746
    @carolynbrown3746 Месяц назад

    Don't ever be sorry for taking care of your health issues. You are more important than any video to be on time!!! You remember that!!!

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      Thank you :) I was really just trying to explain what was going on. Transparency and all that 😀

  • @LolaRyck
    @LolaRyck Месяц назад

    Hope you're well today, my favorite lemon drop 🖤

    • @LolaRyck
      @LolaRyck Месяц назад

      I also hope baby lemon drop is ok today too❤
      And Mr. Lemon drop

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      Are you implying we're sour?! 😮

    • @LolaRyck
      @LolaRyck Месяц назад

      THIS IS WHY PEOPLE DON'T TRUST MEDICAL PEOPLE !!!
      ALSO drill it in your daughter's head that ALLERGIC reactions can happen so so fast. Don't play around with waiting to see if it gets better. Especially when your breathing/heart/throat are starting to feel bad !!!

    • @LolaRyck
      @LolaRyck Месяц назад

      Im implying youre the bestest thing there is out there !!
      ( ps. If anyone has issues with you , send them my way. I wish my parents cared an iota as much as you guys do for your daughter).​@Mushmellow79

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      She was struggling with work ethic vs self preservation. Something both her parents also struggle with 😆 on top of that i don't think she was thinking clearly because of for she was feeling/ being foggy headed and feverish and tired.
      She definately knows better. She watched me go into anaphylatic shock 2x and knows why we have epi- pens in the house! But you know young adults. They think they know better than us old geezers

  • @tearraleshay
    @tearraleshay Месяц назад

    Stopping mid video for this response because I just got angry for ya’ll. Hi Mushy! Walgreens pharmacy technician here!! If the medication was not a control medication (which if it’s a steroid and topical med, doesn’t sound like it), that pharmacy ABSOLUTELY could have pulled those scripts to the pharmacy your daughter called and did NOT have to wait until that other pharmacy opened! 🤬 All of our locations are linked and we do have access to transfer from one location to another unless it’s a controlled medication (meds that would have required your ID), then that would be a different story. I am SO sorry they did her such an injustice of not filling her meds like they were supposed to. If this happens again in the future, keep this tidbit in your back pocket!

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for letting me know! It was literally just prednisone and some topical situation. Nothing controlled. I couldn't understand it either! And I couldn't understand how they could look and see which store the px was sent to but couldn't just snatch it from the system and fill it? Walgreens is Walgreens is Walgreens ya know? I have quite a few Karen mode lawyer speak phone calls to make tomorrow/ Monday if for nothing else than to lodge complaints so the urgent cares and Walgreens can take a hard look at their current practices and the fact that people's lives depend on them doing their jobs!

    • @LolaRyck
      @LolaRyck Месяц назад

      ​@@Mushmellow79do it.
      Bc if you don't complain nothing will happen.
      And if you do complain and nothing happens as least you did what needed to be done

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад +1

      I needed some time to fully rest up and compose myself so I can sound less like a pissed off lunatic and now like a scary lawyer 😆

    • @LolaRyck
      @LolaRyck Месяц назад

      @@Mushmellow79 sometimes a breather is good for you, and them

  • @Crafty-ishKristyn
    @Crafty-ishKristyn Месяц назад

    Family first! You have lots of people standing behind you mush mush 🩷🩷🩷🩷

    • @Mushmellow79
      @Mushmellow79  Месяц назад

      That's a dangerous place to stand, especially if we've had Mexican food for dinner! 😜
      🖤