I don't want to "handle" a woman, I want her to be caring, loving, and easy to get along with. I already handle the world when I step out my door. I want to come home and enjoy my time off and be with my woman without handling anything.
I think when people get a certain age they cherish their peace Nobody wants all the stupid drama.I think this is a very good conversation People don't want relationship any more because care has gone through the window these days.People care about money,impressing people and is bowing to pressure of trying to gain lots of material things .
Depends on your definition of "handling" and "peace". Typically, what the man REALLY means by "handling" and "peace" is that he makes all the decisions while the relationship labor and domestic labor fall on the woman. 50/50 conveniently only means in finances, but nothing else.
So wise! 😊 And even as women I rather live a bit simpler and have a man I can see enough rather then be richer and he being always away because of needing to work so much!
I absolutely love that you're talking about these points man. When you have the money and lifestyle you desire you're left with the problems those things can't solve. Incredibly important to be real with yourself about what will actually make you feel fulfilled.
I agree that this Push that you have to have a lot of money for a beautiful woman to like you is complete BS...TBH on my brokest years is when I was juggling a lot of Beatiful women..But now that I make a significant amount of money I barely have time for one lol...all jokes aside even though I agree you should get your finances in order.... building character as a solid man & learning how to properly convey that to a woman so that she feels safe in your care will do more wonders than having a lot of money can hands down
Absolutely spot on about the recent monetization regarding men making women pay for not seeing them and or not choosing them! Everyone has a platform and rather than running to a therapist, life coach, mentor, etc. to heal they bleed out and spew their venom on impressionable audiences as well as those who have experienced similar fates. Could it be that one's undesirableness has nothing to do with looks and status and EVERYTHING to do with poor character, attitude and personality? I and my friends have encountered men in various settings that once they started talking we wished that they would just stand there and be eye candy. Even a fool proves himself wise when he chooses to keep his mouth shut.
This was the best in my opinion. I listened to all of it. It kept my entire focus and attention. I took notes and rewinded it. Excellent food for the mind!
"The conflict of interest in monetary money management values!". Also, how the values can be threatening into, not two but by yet to the maintenancing in fabrics upholestry(germs), the extent that selling fabrics host maintenancing.
"Business minded always host the attributes of the compatibly-competent sales!" Business frame is always at the host of maintenancing competence features!" ~There is the taking a different fabric the fabric that is. "William Shakespeare!" ~as-like wisdom, they have caught onto the fish-hook!
Society this, society that...ir seems like the SOCIETY is a giant boss who doesn't let us use our perfectly amazing brain to make our own decisions. It looks like people use the society thing to hide their laziness or just plain inability to use their own brain and skills. Because the society is nothing but you and me.
Imitate the Christ the best as you can. He showed men how to be a man and have a perfect balance. He also teaches women submissiveness in his way that he submitted to his Father’s and Our Fathers will than his own. The majority of people are trying to rewrite the relationship manual, the manual for all relationships, that sits on the shelf collecting dust.
I’m a middle aged single mom and needed to choose between marrying a widowed single FT father doctor who made over half a million a year or a divorced single PT father who made 125K/yr which was all eaten up by taxes, insurance, his 401K, alimony and child support, with a vicious ex working to take more. The former lived in a huge nice house on a golf course and the latter lost his house to his ex and lived in a beaten up rented townhouse with hardly any furniture next to his work in a rough area of downtown, and he could barely make rent. Both wanted to be good stepdads to my kids. Both were very handsome and took great care of themselves. Both had great kids. Both were really into me. I went for the latter. Because the former seemed mostly wrapped up in himself. He didn’t display much empathy with me. The latter showed more empathy, was more patient with me, was more open and communicative and wanted to really SHARE life with me. With the former I could have invested all of my savings and lived off of him. With the latter I used my savings to buy a house together with him for us all to live in and I will need to go to work again after 13 years as a SAHM. And the former worked a ton and didn’t get many vacations. The latter works regular hours and wants to camp and travel and do fun things together. It’s not always about money. Sometimes it’s more about a simple life where you can feel how much the other truly loves you and is there, right there with you, fully living life together hand in hand.
Oh wow you just broke this down and I agree you made the right choice. I would've dated the latter too because money is not everything when you lack in important character traits.
Understand when women say we are out of your league or you cant afford us, this is what we mean. Of course some women will use these lines to be mean and arrogant, but this is what we mean.
That doesn't mean that a Man has the right to go for a test drive as if it's a selection of a vehicle or a dress ..You try it on.. discard it according to your whims and fancies... disrespect devalue just because the women do not fit in your lifestyle...One has to respect every individual.. they are not objects for ones sensory satisfaction...true Relationships go beyond the mere connection of flesh and bones
I love your work, Stephan. But I wholeheartedly disagree with the message in this video. There's a sequence of events at play here: I agree that men in general want(ed) just to build homes and communities BEGINNING with their one woman. BUT something changed in society. What the men bring is no longer enough, not because it isn't enough, but because the women exist inside themselves to have RIDICULOUS expectations. This causes strife within the home. And with society and the LAW not only encouraging it, but REWARDING those same women AT THE EXPENSE of the men that wanted to do nothing but love and protect them... The men now don't really have a choice... They learn how to fish using the bait that the fish want WHILE building PROTECTION around themselves with WEALTH AND CONFIDENCE. I believe when men speak like you guys are doing in this video, you just haven't gone through it. YET. Unfortunately in our society it's almost inevitable for every man who gets married.
Stephan, how much advice can you give when you aren't married? You're giving advice on how to find the one, successful relationships when you aren't married. Why aren't you married?
I don't want to "handle" a woman, I want her to be caring, loving, and easy to get along with. I already handle the world when I step out my door. I want to come home and enjoy my time off and be with my woman without handling anything.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤ 🙏
I think when people get a certain age they cherish their peace Nobody wants all the stupid drama.I think this is a very good conversation People don't want relationship any more because care has gone through the window these days.People care about money,impressing people and is bowing to pressure of trying to gain lots of material things .
Amen , good luck hope you find her
Depends on your definition of "handling" and "peace". Typically, what the man REALLY means by "handling" and "peace" is that he makes all the decisions while the relationship labor and domestic labor fall on the woman. 50/50 conveniently only means in finances, but nothing else.
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So wise! 😊
And even as women I rather live a bit simpler and have a man I can see enough rather then be richer and he being always away because of needing to work so much!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Same here .... so sad most are believing the lies
I absolutely love that you're talking about these points man. When you have the money and lifestyle you desire you're left with the problems those things can't solve. Incredibly important to be real with yourself about what will actually make you feel fulfilled.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that!
Love how you put that
I agree that this Push that you have to have a lot of money for a beautiful woman to like you is complete BS...TBH on my brokest years is when I was juggling a lot of Beatiful women..But now that I make a significant amount of money I barely have time for one lol...all jokes aside even though I agree you should get your finances in order.... building character as a solid man & learning how to properly convey that to a woman so that she feels safe in your care will do more wonders than having a lot of money can hands down
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that 🙏
Hands down.
Absolutely spot on about the recent monetization regarding men making women pay for not seeing them and or not choosing them! Everyone has a platform and rather than running to a therapist, life coach, mentor, etc. to heal they bleed out and spew their venom on impressionable audiences as well as those who have experienced similar fates. Could it be that one's undesirableness has nothing to do with looks and status and EVERYTHING to do with poor character, attitude and personality? I and my friends have encountered men in various settings that once they started talking we wished that they would just stand there and be eye candy. Even a fool proves himself wise when he chooses to keep his mouth shut.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
This was the best in my opinion. I listened to all of it. It kept my entire focus and attention. I took notes and rewinded it. Excellent food for the mind!
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
💯 on this one. You have my full attention .Ty most Awakening.. this is like SOP of Life.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
This was an excellent conversation! Where’s the full interview?
Wow. When it goes from what I thought was a self- esteem issue to a slowly building neurological issue... Just. Wow.
Gold as always, thank you Stephan!!
My pleasure ❤
Super happy to see you make it on this show. Next is Steve Harvey’s and more 🚀
I appreciate that 🙏
Men need to do the work for and on themselves the rest will fall into place and come in due time
Most definitely!
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Is there a link for the full video??? Pweeese 🤓🙏🦋
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Awesome video. Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
Where can i watch the whole video ???
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Women as more power its proven in history also ❤
I like y’all chemistry definitely need to do another podcast together
If I’m hell into my partner I don’t get attracted to other women
I can see they are pretty and a sexy woman but I have no urge to have them
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that 🙏
"The conflict of interest in monetary money management values!". Also, how the values can be threatening into, not two but by yet to the maintenancing in fabrics upholestry(germs), the extent that selling fabrics host maintenancing.
Is there a way we can see the full podcast? I loved the information shared and wished there was a way to see the full episode.❤😊
It's likely on the podcaster's RUclips channel
Good Morning Happy Sunday I Love the topic thank you Stephan for your Videos Blessings to you And I Love You.....❤🥰🙏🏾🥰💙🙏🏾
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
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Stephan and Tom Bilyeu are both my heros!
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What?! Women would never throw away a man for another man!!?? Cmon..
Kindly don’t say that, there are a lot of good men out there!
this was fire I just hit the scribe button
Spot on brother may God continue to bless you in Jesus mighty name 🙏
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Stephan you are The Man.
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9:50 a lot of women also go through this during ovulation/fertility window 😂 like it literally can cause insomnia
Truth!!!!👏👏👏
Good discussion.
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
Thanks a lot!
Real Talk, Brotha Stephan!!
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
🤔good points
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
Everything else is great points
I would love to see you on The Basement with Tim Ross but to share your personal story.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
My goodness this man on the right talks nonstop lol
It's his podcast 🤷🏾♀️
You are always pouring into others. I pray others are pouring into you
Glad I could help 🙏
"Business minded always host the attributes of the compatibly-competent sales!" Business frame is always at the host of maintenancing competence features!"
~There is the taking a different fabric the fabric that is. "William Shakespeare!"
~as-like wisdom, they have caught onto the fish-hook!
Society this, society that...ir seems like the SOCIETY is a giant boss who doesn't let us use our perfectly amazing brain to make our own decisions. It looks like people use the society thing to hide their laziness or just plain inability to use their own brain and skills. Because the society is nothing but you and me.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
One's mind is affected by the society in which they live... there are entire research fields on this
I love you ❤❤❤🎉
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Imitate the Christ the best as you can. He showed men how to be a man and have a perfect balance. He also teaches women submissiveness in his way that he submitted to his Father’s and Our Fathers will than his own. The majority of people are trying to rewrite the relationship manual, the manual for all relationships, that sits on the shelf collecting dust.
God bless you sister I agree 🙏
Exactly! And Jesus was a man with little money and no home
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@@StephanSpeaksforMen I’m happy to share. You’re welcome.
Thank you so much Stephan
I know you’re doing extra mile talking to someone like him..
GBU ❤
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I find this absolutely crazy I make 6 figures, but I don't want any woman to measure me by my income. There are beautiful women that's low maintenance
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you 🙏
What is "low maintenance"m
I’m a middle aged single mom and needed to choose between marrying a widowed single FT father doctor who made over half a million a year or a divorced single PT father who made 125K/yr which was all eaten up by taxes, insurance, his 401K, alimony and child support, with a vicious ex working to take more. The former lived in a huge nice house on a golf course and the latter lost his house to his ex and lived in a beaten up rented townhouse with hardly any furniture next to his work in a rough area of downtown, and he could barely make rent. Both wanted to be good stepdads to my kids. Both were very handsome and took great care of themselves. Both had great kids. Both were really into me.
I went for the latter. Because the former seemed mostly wrapped up in himself. He didn’t display much empathy with me. The latter showed more empathy, was more patient with me, was more open and communicative and wanted to really SHARE life with me.
With the former I could have invested all of my savings and lived off of him. With the latter I used my savings to buy a house together with him for us all to live in and I will need to go to work again after 13 years as a SAHM. And the former worked a ton and didn’t get many vacations. The latter works regular hours and wants to camp and travel and do fun things together.
It’s not always about money. Sometimes it’s more about a simple life where you can feel how much the other truly loves you and is there, right there with you, fully living life together hand in hand.
Oh wow you just broke this down and I agree you made the right choice. I would've dated the latter too because money is not everything when you lack in important character traits.
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Understand when women say we are out of your league or you cant afford us, this is what we mean. Of course some women will use these lines to be mean and arrogant, but this is what we mean.
Are you in some sort of spacecraft ??
That doesn't mean that a Man has the right to go for a test drive as if it's a selection of a vehicle or a dress ..You try it on.. discard it according to your whims and fancies... disrespect devalue just because the women do not fit in your lifestyle...One has to respect every individual.. they are not objects for ones sensory satisfaction...true Relationships go beyond the mere connection of flesh and bones
I love your work, Stephan. But I wholeheartedly disagree with the message in this video.
There's a sequence of events at play here:
I agree that men in general want(ed) just to build homes and communities BEGINNING with their one woman.
BUT something changed in society. What the men bring is no longer enough, not because it isn't enough, but because the women exist inside themselves to have RIDICULOUS expectations.
This causes strife within the home.
And with society and the LAW not only encouraging it, but REWARDING those same women AT THE EXPENSE of the men that wanted to do nothing but love and protect them...
The men now don't really have a choice... They learn how to fish using the bait that the fish want WHILE building PROTECTION around themselves with WEALTH AND CONFIDENCE.
I believe when men speak like you guys are doing in this video, you just haven't gone through it. YET.
Unfortunately in our society it's almost inevitable for every man who gets married.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@@StephanSpeaksforMen
We appreciate you, brother.
Cut your coat according to your cloth🤷♀️ All Fingers are not Equal!
Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤
If women TRULY went for dudes that are 6-figured as much as y'all claim... then the stats would say differently
Is Stephan married yet?
Hell No and probably will never there's no room
These two are a miss match
This guy is a drifter!!! HE doesn't have an original thought.He's mixing Kevin and Andrew's talking points....
Stephan, how much advice can you give when you aren't married?
You're giving advice on how to find the one, successful relationships when you aren't married. Why aren't you married?
What has he said that is wrong? I'm single, and I've given advice to some people who are married...
@The look out i didn't say he said anything wrong but, you gotta be special to take advice from an unmarried person about how to get married.
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I don't like how he equates a beautiful woman to a woman whi like to spend momey
I like getting that luxary uber , 5 star hotel, and that hot bottle girl... but then I go home to my lemon, room, and e gf (free onlyfans)