Hey everyone hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 3 Steps to Heal Yourself after a Toxic Relationship Ends (Warning: Spots are limited) 🗒 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> www.healyourheart.school/webinar 🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> www.healyourheart.school/guide 💕 Apply For Heal Your Heart School Here! www.healyourheart.school/call
I have done therapy for 5 years and have worked so much on healing myself and inner child but these videos you are sharing are GOLD! I have been watching them all day! You have this special aura around you that is very soothing and comforting, and you communicate the ideas in a very loving and understanding way. Thanks a lot, watching you speak today made me realize the points that I need to work on in my dating life. Much Love and Appreciation.
This is a great video. It’s totally aligned with what I’ve learned through therapy. The time thing is something I don’t quite believe in (as far as needing a great deal of time to notice what you need to notice), but the context I’m aligned with. We can see the signs quite early if we heal ourselves. We can still see he might be a good guy, but he is either not relationship ready or just not for us.
I love these boundaries, I watched one of your videos for the first time last month, and I have been using most of the strategies I learnt, even from the masterclass, and its amazing how muh better my dating life is, as well as my mental health in general, i have been diving deeper to heal even in my faith in God, my relationships with family and friends, and im doing great with my work relationships as well. Thank you so much for everything you teach
Hi Amy, thank you for the video! What valuable information offered in such clarity. I’m thinking it would be helpful to get more of a visual of what it’s like for women to be fully in their feminine. I think I also would like some clarity on your statement if a wounded feminine man meeting feminine in conflict. It’s harder for me to visualize.
Hello Amy I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your most helpful videos. Lots of love and positive vibrations from Daniela in the United Kingdom 🥰
I'm so glad to hear this Daniela!! If you'd like to see if I can help you further, you're welcome to book a free consultation here: www.healyourheart.school/call
Do you believe in dating a few people at a time to see who or what is right or should we just concentrate on one at a time ? There is always lots of different views on this !
Hey Mel! What I "believe" is what's right for my body, my nervous system, and my soul. I would encourage you to try both, and see which allows you the clarity and discernment to get to know someone in a paced way. Get to know your own body and nervous system, what is right for you, is the right thing for you to do!
Sounds like you are just after free meal tickets while you play the field....the complete opposite of what a man wants from a woman. No purity if you are multiple dating at same time, whether you sleep with them or not.
I’d love to hear more about giving complements. I happen to adore giving complements as I’m giving them from a place of deep appreciation in the moment… I also love receiving compliments that feel authentic… Will you do a video on giving compliments as it relates to this topic? Thanks so much for a great video!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@LoveByDesign I thought you were saying in this video how giving compliments is a form of fauning…. So I was wanting to know how we can give genuine compliments without playing into that fauning mode🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for this beautiful explanation. ❤ Recently I met a man that the moment we looked at each other there was spark that I haven't felt for a long time with anyone.. Followed by amazing dinner, conversation and kissing. The attraction was very high and the following date we spent a night together.. From this moment I felt subconsciously that something was off with his energy, I could ses he rally liked me but there was this emotional bareer. After three meetings he ghosted me off and still is watching my activity on Instagram. Last weekend he came to a place where I attend social dance and never approached to say hi. I know that we did it too fast, I knew before it happened, too late to cry over it, but is it really possible to fake this kind of magnetism? I understand that people can say anything to get what they wnat but it's hard for me to believe that on energetic level you can lie to another person, and it was very clear that it was mutual... Is it all just my imagination or he has potentially emotional problems? Or both😅 I know that my lack of boundaries in this situation didn't help, but his follow up actions are very confusing for me. Thank you fo any word of advice❤
Some people are very good at creating magic in the connection of the initial meeting, and they often can’t follow through with consistency. Believe his actions over time, that will tell you what you need to know about him ❤️
I have been hurt by this situation too. Like why don't they want to continue something good with me? But whatever the reason is, there is a defect in HIM, and he lied and manipulated for short term escape and gratification. I can't speak for your experience, but I can relate. And just like this video describes, we need to look for consistency and actions vs words. And that takes time. I have learned my lesson the hard way.
I’m having a bit of trouble understanding what it means to be in my feminine vs. my masculine and how to deepen into my feminine. I have a sense that I tend to emasculate to an extent just by being a man’s equal 🤔
The information out there on masculine/feminine polarity and inner dynamics can be so confusing. The way I understand it is that we all have inner masculine/feminine and our task is to both come into balance within our selves and allow inner flexibility in relationship. A healthy relationship allows for both equality and shifting in polarity to deepen attraction.
13:00 I am a very comfortable male , lost my wife to Alzheimer's, Howevery I have had a spiritual awakening and have focused on my intuition. Yes many hours of releasing many energies.(Check our Dr. Bradley Nelson's work) . Lol never cried so much in my life letting energy go. So I am uncertain how to play this role. I feel / understand what she is saying ever before her 2 hour explanation but as a sigma male feel very comfortable leading. In my late 50's .. please advise me of your thoughts.
#5 - Be a high value woman. You want the top 20% of men? Be a top 20% woman. From a man's point of view, these are good tips, but it's starts with dating in your own league as well. Sure, it's possible for an average woman to break through to the higher level. It happens, but not often. Be careful when you play for high value. You could waste years of your time. And if you hit the wall waiting, your value decreases. I know from experience with my 2 nieces. Mid 30's. Both went after high value men and dated them. Both still single. Character is more important than "high value". In fact, character should be at the top of the list. It's great to have a 6' man that makes $120K or more. But if he doesn't stay with you, then you are only renting him. He's not yours.
Hit the wall??? Your watching too much shite on RUclips. Women always were told to marry up not marry down. Why would a woman take on a burden in the form of a man? Ridiculous..
Hey everyone hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 3 Steps to Heal Yourself after a Toxic Relationship Ends (Warning: Spots are limited)
🗒 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> www.healyourheart.school/webinar
🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> www.healyourheart.school/guide
💕 Apply For Heal Your Heart School Here! www.healyourheart.school/call
I have done therapy for 5 years and have worked so much on healing myself and inner child but these videos you are sharing are GOLD! I have been watching them all day! You have this special aura around you that is very soothing and comforting, and you communicate the ideas in a very loving and understanding way. Thanks a lot, watching you speak today made me realize the points that I need to work on in my dating life. Much Love and Appreciation.
You are so welcome!! ❤️
This is a great video. It’s totally aligned with what I’ve learned through therapy. The time thing is something I don’t quite believe in (as far as needing a great deal of time to notice what you need to notice), but the context I’m aligned with. We can see the signs quite early if we heal ourselves. We can still see he might be a good guy, but he is either not relationship ready or just not for us.
I'm so glad this video was helpful for you! ❤️
Fascinating video, Amy. I just discovered your content and I hope your work is thriving.
Thank you!!
I love these boundaries, I watched one of your videos for the first time last month, and I have been using most of the strategies I learnt, even from the masterclass, and its amazing how muh better my dating life is, as well as my mental health in general, i have been diving deeper to heal even in my faith in God, my relationships with family and friends, and im doing great with my work relationships as well. Thank you so much for everything you teach
This makes me so so happy!! Thank you for sharing ❤️
Hi Amy, thank you for the video! What valuable information offered in such clarity. I’m thinking it would be helpful to get more of a visual of what it’s like for women to be fully in their feminine. I think I also would like some clarity on your statement if a wounded feminine man meeting feminine in conflict. It’s harder for me to visualize.
Hello Amy
I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your most helpful videos. Lots of love and positive vibrations from Daniela in the United Kingdom 🥰
I'm so glad to hear this Daniela!! If you'd like to see if I can help you further, you're welcome to book a free consultation here: www.healyourheart.school/call
Do you believe in dating a few people at a time to see who or what is right or should we just concentrate on one at a time ? There is always lots of different views on this !
Date more than 1. No intimacy-just really getting to know each until you decide to commit to one.
Hey Mel! What I "believe" is what's right for my body, my nervous system, and my soul. I would encourage you to try both, and see which allows you the clarity and discernment to get to know someone in a paced way. Get to know your own body and nervous system, what is right for you, is the right thing for you to do!
Sounds like you are just after free meal tickets while you play the field....the complete opposite of what a man wants from a woman.
No purity if you are multiple dating at same time, whether you sleep with them or not.
I’d love to hear more about giving complements. I happen to adore giving complements as I’m giving them from a place of deep appreciation in the moment… I also love receiving compliments that feel authentic… Will you do a video on giving compliments as it relates to this topic? Thanks so much for a great video!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Do you mean - how to give compliments in an authentic way that calls in high value men?
@@LoveByDesign I thought you were saying in this video how giving compliments is a form of fauning…. So I was wanting to know how we can give genuine compliments without playing into that fauning mode🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hi Amy. I love your videos! Do you have any other videos diving into polarity a little more?
Do you mean polarity between two people in a relationship? Or inner polarity?
It is so much to remember.
It can be yes 😌
Love this! Are you a therapist ?
Thank you for this beautiful explanation. ❤
Recently I met a man that the moment we looked at each other there was spark that I haven't felt for a long time with anyone.. Followed by amazing dinner, conversation and kissing. The attraction was very high and the following date we spent a night together..
From this moment I felt subconsciously that something was off with his energy, I could ses he rally liked me but there was this emotional bareer. After three meetings he ghosted me off and still is watching my activity on Instagram. Last weekend he came to a place where I attend social dance and never approached to say hi.
I know that we did it too fast, I knew before it happened, too late to cry over it, but is it really possible to fake this kind of magnetism?
I understand that people can say anything to get what they wnat but it's hard for me to believe that on energetic level you can lie to another person, and it was very clear that it was mutual...
Is it all just my imagination or he has potentially emotional problems? Or both😅
I know that my lack of boundaries in this situation didn't help, but his follow up actions are very confusing for me.
Thank you fo any word of advice❤
Some people are very good at creating magic in the connection of the initial meeting, and they often can’t follow through with consistency. Believe his actions over time, that will tell you what you need to know about him ❤️
I have been hurt by this situation too. Like why don't they want to continue something good with me? But whatever the reason is, there is a defect in HIM, and he lied and manipulated for short term escape and gratification. I can't speak for your experience, but I can relate. And just like this video describes, we need to look for consistency and actions vs words. And that takes time. I have learned my lesson the hard way.
Great video, I took a full page of notes, but of course boundary #4 I’m going to have to seek help elsewhere!
I can't understand any of this without examples
What kind of examples would you like?
Fantastic session, esp in time when all we see are how to rig emotions...sadly Robert Greenes Art of Seduction, triggered this
I really believe in authenticity providing the best outcome for compatibility - anything else is manipulation!
Incredible video Amy!
Thanks Kate!
I’m having a bit of trouble understanding what it means to be in my feminine vs. my masculine and how to deepen into my feminine. I have a sense that I tend to emasculate to an extent just by being a man’s equal 🤔
The information out there on masculine/feminine polarity and inner dynamics can be so confusing. The way I understand it is that we all have inner masculine/feminine and our task is to both come into balance within our selves and allow inner flexibility in relationship. A healthy relationship allows for both equality and shifting in polarity to deepen attraction.
@@LoveByDesign Thank you. I will definitely be looking into this a bit more!
13:00 I am a very comfortable male , lost my wife to Alzheimer's, Howevery I have had a spiritual awakening and have focused on my intuition. Yes many hours of releasing many energies.(Check our Dr. Bradley Nelson's work) . Lol never cried so much in my life letting energy go. So I am uncertain how to play this role. I feel / understand what she is saying ever before her 2 hour explanation but as a sigma male feel very comfortable leading. In my late 50's .. please advise me of your thoughts.
I'm sorry, I don't advise men as I just don't have the experience.
I appreciate all advice makes sense but I would to see some example of each of things u talk about
Absolutely, what specifically would you like examples of?
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#5 - Be a high value woman. You want the top 20% of men? Be a top 20% woman. From a man's point of view, these are good tips, but it's starts with dating in your own league as well. Sure, it's possible for an average woman to break through to the higher level. It happens, but not often. Be careful when you play for high value. You could waste years of your time. And if you hit the wall waiting, your value decreases. I know from experience with my 2 nieces. Mid 30's. Both went after high value men and dated them. Both still single. Character is more important than "high value". In fact, character should be at the top of the list. It's great to have a 6' man that makes $120K or more. But if he doesn't stay with you, then you are only renting him. He's not yours.
Your comment tells me a lot more about your limited attitude towards women and dating than anything about my content 🙄
Hit the wall??? Your watching too much shite on RUclips. Women always were told to marry up not marry down. Why would a woman take on a burden in the form of a man? Ridiculous..