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1. You lack trust in eachother 2. You dont like eachother anymore 3. They have no respect for you 4. They are selfish and make everything about themselves 5. You have drifted apart and no longer want the same things. ( Dont have same values and goals) 6. You are the only one putting efforts and you are trying very hard.
I'm rather glad in this case that it does. This makes it much easier to make the hard decision. I'm still sort ing it out. But I feel now it's only a matter of time. I get tired of teetering on the fence. Time to rip the band aid off quickly and get on with my life.
Trust me you don't want to have one even in this economy just be glad you're single, you can enjoy your favorite activities and not be bothered by someone who will break your heart
5 quotes I learned the hard way: If they are not sure you are the one, they are not the one. Once you feel unappreciated, LEAVE. Don't play games with a person who can play better. Stop giving 100% to ppl who give you 20%. If they come back, don't forget how they left.
The moments leading up to the end of the relationship can feel more challenging and anxiety filled because there is a lot of uncertainty and a lot of times you want to do whatever it takes to salvage the relationship but you’re really not going anywhere. Ending a relationship is hard but it’s even harder to let go of that person especially when you’ve been so emotionally invested in them.
Bro. Go look up red pill dating and female nature. Once you learn about that stuff, the more the merrier, you'll never cry over another woman in your life. You learn exactly what to expect from them. What they do behind your back. Their manipulation techniques they pull on you on a daily basis most men are clueless of. Trust me. It'll open doors for you that you never knew existed.
Exactly, my x had a sister that I know didn’t like me, you can tell I wasn’t imagining it. So I brought to my x’s attention and she wouldn’t hear it she immediately shot it down.
This is so true… discovered my wife has been having an affair for 3 years… her family knew over 2 years ago… and now they know that I know they have showed no interest in my feelings just an interest in how much money their daughter can squeeze out of the divorce. My soon to be ex wife won’t accept that her family are leeches that only contacted us when they wanted money - they live on the other side of the world. I even paid thousands towards her father’s heart operation… only for them to accept her lover who contributed nothing with open arms.
There are many different signs. These include spending time on phone that was not spent previously, withholding sex from you, withdrawing in communication with you, agitation or anger over Petty stuff or making up situations to get angry or agitated over, lying, being secretive in any way, randomly spending more time caring for and pampering oneself such as putting on makeup or wearing cologne or coloring hair etc. Any type of changed behavior that is not aimed at pleasing or benefiting your relationship. With all of that though, follow your gut. your gut is telling you that something isn't right and it's telling you that this could or is happening, therefore listen to it. Just Free yourself from all of it! Run and don't look back. Go 100% no contact. The mental and emotional abuse is not okay at all! Do not bring anything up to her. Don't try to rationalize or have a conversation about anything. Don't let her know that you know she's in narcissist. All of that can cause a narcissistic rage. If you have not yet witnessed one of those just trust me that you don't want to! A narcissistic rage is beyond any rage I have ever seen or witnessed in my entire life. I am an army combat veteran and served front lines for a year and afghanistan. I have abuse going back from as long as I can remember, the first time in my personal memory is 2 years old. With everything I have been involved in, and my rape, other sexual abuse, their physical abuse, etc in narcissistic rage is by far the worst! If you need to contact your local police department and start a new contact order. No one can protect you like you can! free yourself from it all and move forward in your life. The minute you run and go no contact is the minute your life begins again. If need be seek out professional help. Therapy is the best thing I did for myself. The best gift I gave to me! The abuse is so deep and overwhelming that having a professional guide you through the steps of the healing process is extremely beneficial! Just remember, there is great strength in asking for help. There is great lack and strength or no strength at all in putting on a mask and hiding behind the opinions of society and pretending that you are okay! As human beings we all witness A Time In our lives where we are not okay! Those that heal, move past, and move forward, and have a brighter future are those who ask for help and do the work that is needed through the help! I'm so sorry you are going through this and I wish you the very best! Good luck! Always remember that you are stronger than you believe you are, you are worthy and deserving of better and always, and you are enough just the way you are and who you are today! Take this time for you! Get yourself again. Fix that meal that you're all time favorite, rent that movie you've been wanting to see, have a guys night out with your best friends, remodel a room in your home, go purchase that item you've been wanting to for so long, just do for yourself! Self-acceptance, self-love, and being able to forgive yourself is far more important than what anyone else can give to you! Believe in who you are! You deserve nothing less than that! You're not alone! Feel free to tag me in any other questions that you have! I'll help if I can. Additionally you can hire a cyber expert to help you get remote access to their phone so you can track them and monitor all of their activities without them knowing. You may locate the top cyber specialists locally at digitalinvestigate@gmail.com where you can engage a well-trained professional to assist you..........
it's been a year, and it's still her. she was so much different than any of my other past partners, i could feel that she truly loved and cared for me. it's so amazing that a person like her somehow saw a future with me. when we broke up, she just dropped everything we had. i don't think she'll ever come back soon, and i don't think i'll be better any day now. i love and miss her so much, sometimes there are periods where i can't find the strength to get out of bed due to these heavy feelings. i wouldn't wish this heavy state to anyone. so please, for anyone reading this who broke up with someone recently, please try to move forward, no matter how painful it may be.
i dont wanna lose a girl i love, we both love each other. i cant imagine my life without her, we have never met irl tho, but we know each other since 4 years. idk how people let go their partners so easily, i burst into tears or get so much depressed whenever i think about breakup or divorce things. without her, my life is boring,lonely,useless and depressing.
This vid really hit hard from my first and only relationship. If your partner gets on your nerves, they don’t put any effort into the relationship, or they only care about what they like and how they feel, it’s not a relationship worth keeping and it’s best to just let go. I didn’t, and I only wish I had sooner
You just described the relationship I was in for 3 years I just ended it. I'm so angry at myself that I allowed that relationship to literally drain my life force from me. I'm so miserable and depressed now I worry that I will never heal.
Number 6 hit me like a truck. A week ago I ended my 21 year relationship with my partner because I was literally the only one putting any effort in the relationship. I was the one having all the difficult conversations. Trying to come up with compromises, suggestions. Making myself look good, being affectionate, compassionate, gave him space, listened to him…..but he just wasn’t willing to put the effort in either. He refused to get help for his mental health, refused any of my suggestions. He might occasionally make an effort for one day and then that’s it. I still love him….walking away from that relationship was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. But I was just suffering every single day. I couldn’t take the neglect anymore.
I had to look to see if this was an old comment I’d left. Same situation. Divorced after 20 years married. 3 kids. I’ve had to start my life over. I couldn’t take it anymore but I tried for 10 years.
@@ankurbhatnagar4609 honestly it’s been really up and down and hectic. I did some travelling, fell madly in love with a French guy, been dealing with the pain of being apart from him. Trying to get my life in order, exercising more, eating better meals, drinking more water. Slooooowly separating my possessions from my ex’s. My mum has been putting pressure on me to just throw my ex’s stuff away. Despite everything, I still like my ex as a person and promised to look after his stuff until he finds a permanent place to live. My mum can’t comprehend this. Overall…. I’m slowly getting better. I actually just reconnected with my younger sister who I haven’t spoken to in years and we had a nice long chat about everything that’s been going on in our lives. I actually feel really good right now. Hopeful, even. Thank you for asking, I appreciate it.
This video hits home. Lately I’ve been feeling less respected, and when I bring it up in the moment, like she wants (even though I disagree with this idea; time and place) it gets thrown back in my face as a “me issue.” I’ve been questioning our compatibility for a while now and it seems like with each passing day I’m reminded that we’re not.
Dr. Orion Taraban from PsychHacks gives a good framework for evaluating whether you should be in a relationship also. the video is called "Listen to YOURSELF: you likely already know the answer". It's a good listen.
If you find she's disrespecting you, you should leave if she doesn't see her as being part of the problem. Tolerating her disrespect means you don't have enough self respect. If she ever dumps you, you're going to feel much worse than if you'd ended things yourself. Much much worse.
I definitely relate to the last point. I've always had a never give up attitude and that also translated over to my relationship. It's over now, but it has definitely left me winded and hollowed out. All I can say is, a relationship takes two people and you can't Superman your way through. Don't make my mistake, your well-being matters more than trying to save a sinking ship.
Definitely rings a bell ... Talking about breakups, do you have planned a video talking about a partner suddenly ghosting you and blocking you out of nowhere ? A breakup without any explanation and how to manage that when you're victim of such behaviour ? Would love to see a video like that and it would be extremely helpful 🥺 Anyway, thanks for your work as always 😊
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Right you are.Absolutely right. I wanted validation & you gave that to me. I am being torn apart. But, I have got the answer. With tears in my eyes, I thank you, dear. Deepest regards.
I think these advices do apply to platonic relationships as well. I've been in a tough situation with a friend and I can relate to most of those points. Guys, don't forget that communication is key !
Timestamps 1). You don't trust in each other 0:36 2). You don't like each other anymore 1:06 3). They have no respect for you 2:11 4). They are selfish and make everything about themselves 2:56 5). You have drifted apart, and no longer want the same things 3:47 6). You are the one who puts in all the effort 4:19 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
That's literally what my relationship is since 2 two years. And last night my mind and heart finally snapped in place. I just fighted for so long because of our daughter. But I'm tired of fighting for so long. Spoke to him so often, but nothing ever changed... I finally understood in my heart, that he doesn't want anymore than someone to keep everything as clean as he wants and a babysitter for our daughter.. he doesn't even speak to me anymore.. it's like we're strangers again but live in the same house... I cried so much last night as I realized it, but leaving will be better..
The last time I called myself attempting to establish a serious relationship, the person was a covert narcissist I had to take to court after he assaulted me, cheated and traumatised me/my loved ones among other things. I’ve been single for a year almost two, however there’s someone I’ve been talking to for 5 almost 6 months and things are gradually developing which I enjoy.
This video is just what I needed. I have been with my GF for over a year now. She was the perfect GF but over time she started to criticize my actions. And begin to change me. This lead to us drifting apart little by little. Trust became an issue because we stopped checking in with each other. It finally got to a fight that lead to words we both later regretted saying but brought up a question we were both thinking. "Why are we together?!" We ended the relationship and it was hard but it was the best thing we both needed.
I related to number 2. I had broken up with my gf today and number 2 kinda hit home. In the beginning of the relationship it grew into us thinking we’d be together forever. But, then things drifted apart. I felt myself getting upset at the smallest things she’d do and I made things worse. I felt a lot worse before this video but no I feel I’m not alone. Thank you psych2go, for easing the pain a little. Maybe the relationship wasn’t the one. And if you’re just some person scrolling in the comments and you somehow find mine, thank you for reading it and if life is hard, I’m there in the same boat with you. God bless🙏❤
This video inspired me to suggest a new video idea: How to end a love relationship in the best way possible or sth similar. I mean imagine if you break up in a wrong way and they start hating you.. on the other hand, me and my (ex-)partner broke up, but still remained close friends. that's what i was always hoping for, because i knew, that it probably wouldn't last forever. I wish everyone to have such luck ❤
It is easy to be swept away by some overwhelming feeling, so it’s helpful to remember that any stressful feeling is like a compassionate alarm clock that says, “You’re caught in the dream.” Depression, pain, and fear are gifts that say, “Sweetheart, take a look at your thinking right now. You’re living in a story that isn’t true for you. Byron Katie, Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life
...whoa, this is the first time I've related to all of the signs... Well, luckily it's already over. I feel like it's better this way anyway for me... I hope everyone else is doing okay. Reader, I hope you're okay. I wish you the best.
Amanda has such an soothing voice 😭😭 like y'all I can fall asleep to her voice and heal my inner child hearing that. Kudos to the whole team for being amazin tho
Ikr. It's hella confusing because how could one possibly be infatuated or attracted to another based off their voice but daaaammmnnn her voice is soft, supple and so smooth.
I love this video it's great for a younger generation for there first love, it was basic simple and to point and stayed on point without alot of words, cartoon effects and voice overs were presented at the right time.
I've never being in a relationship before. And I'm turning 26 in two months. So my changes of ever finding a girlfriend are simply dead. All hope is officially lost.
I needed to see this is a help. I got dumped on 2 months ago for communicating my feelings respectfully to my ex bf and All I got is “go get someone else” and he turned on me unfortunately. I wished him nothing but the best the red flags were there.. time to let go and heal and god will bring the right partner for me when he is ready for me. This video was a huge help 😊
We were just dating but boy the timing of this is crazy lol saw this video right after she decided not to continue and I was feeling it too. Def felt some of these feelings in the short version as well
My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend and this pain is too much He was my heart and soul. I saw a future together with him and now it's all gone and I'm left alone and heartbroken at the worst time in my life
The last good relationship I had (at least I thought it was), was some 20 odd years ago. Loved enough to have a little stinker from him that he couldn't care for. I lost all his attention and I noticed he liked his women a certain way. Now I just love my kids, grands and cat. And loving myself.....
Does anyone else watch these videos thinking about a specific recent relationship, and then as soon as you hear "NUMBER ONE…" it’s followed by the most exact thing that led to the end of your relationship with them? Well… me too. My two closest friends last year (one was more of a situationship) began to lie to me… which meant I stopped trusting them… which led to the end of our friendships just a few months later. But time really does heal all wounds, people! I feel great, I focused on bettering myself, I have a great new job, and I’ve even been on an ACTUAL date this month. Be brave, be patient, be gentle, and choose love every time. I'm rooting for you, just as I rooted for myself so much last year.
Thank you for another amazing video... as much as it hurt to hear all this... 😭 "Can you relate to any of these signs in this video..." Yea... unfortunately, 6 of 6. 💔
if I watched this last month I would've cried knowing i related to half of them. but me and him worked everything out, and we're back to being lovey dovey and coupley
Thank you for your advice “to move on from this relationship “, I ticked all the boxes there and want to go, but he won’t let me go, I always end up back. I’m not happy there, I want out but I don’t know really do it!😢
I used to be in a relationship with this boy four years ago. When we decided to date, I found it incredible that I have found someone who stood to every belief and goals to dating, but because he lived in a different country, it was really hard for us to stay connected (wifi connection was the issue), but he and I started to drift apart. We barely communicated and even if had the chance to speak through face time or call it was only to be sexual to each other. At one point I got tired of it. While I do enjoy having a sexual relationship with him, I still felt that our connection was another must for us both. So after three years, I ended up having to break things off with him. It was one of the hardest things I had to do, but both of us knew it wasn't going to last due to our distance. We are still in good terms, however, it's already been a year since we last spoke. I still miss him time to time, and even he admits the same, but there was nothing both of us could do.
If you’re watching this video should be reason number 7. Because you’re just looking for something to confirm what you already know.!! The best part now you know what you’re not going to accept in your next relationship.!!
Bruh im the one doing the heartbreaking but some people still want to come back to me like whatever it was a one time thing. Besides i have plenty of time and sticking to only one person like yeah right.
Letting go is really hard to do when looking at them makes your funny parts all tingly, but you gotta do it. There will be other sexy people who are better for you
Sogns its over 1) You dont trust each other. 2) You dont respect each other 3) You are making all the effort to keep up the relationship. He doesnt care enough to make it work. 4) He is selfish and always makes out for himself only. 5) You are not interested in the same things anymore.
I am stuck in one and I don’t know how to get out of it. I’m holding my tongue and biding my time, and simply going through the motions at this point. I would say it’s beyond repair but it was never put together to begin with. Like a Lego set you tried to put together just by looking at the picture on the box rather than following the actual directions. I am by no means perfect, but I’m also self aware and have emotional intelligence. She doesn’t. I’m so unhappy.
Rose didn’t let go. She had an entire family, kids, husbands after Jack and on her deathbed, she remembered this beautiful moment with the man who truly had her heart the entire time.
These aren't always signs that the relationship is over. You might drive eachother absolutely insane, but there's a little thing called love that can keep you together forever. So not liking eachother isn't a sign, but not loving eachother is. Of course I know this channel is for younger people who don't even know what love is, so maybe these are signs for their relationships. If you don't know what love is like, I can tell you now it doesn't always feel good. It can often manifest itself as feelings of anger and sadness. You'll understand when someone you love refuses to wear their seatbelt or gets a speeding ticket
It's important to recognize when it's time to move on when your relationship isn't working well. This video might help you next: Benefits of Being Single According to Studies ruclips.net/video/uerw0d7Sga0/видео.html
How is the comment 3 weeks ago?
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@@Psych2gohow this beautiful emoji 😭 i also want that
@@Darki_x They post the first unlisted videos.
1. You lack trust in eachother
2. You dont like eachother anymore
3. They have no respect for you
4. They are selfish and make everything about themselves
5. You have drifted apart and no longer want the same things. ( Dont have same values and goals)
6. You are the only one putting efforts and you are trying very hard.
Thank you 😊
tysm fellow timesaver!
6. Only your partner is putting in the effort
3. you have no respect for them
4.you are selfish and make everything about themselves
1(I don't trust her), 3(She doesn't respect me)4(It is always about her )and 6(I have always been the effort maker)..for me...Wow
from finding if you like each other to signs you should let go of your partner I'M 100% ASSURED THIS CHANNEL IS STALKING MY LOVE LIFE
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I'm rather glad in this case that it does. This makes it much easier to make the hard decision. I'm still sort ing it out. But I feel now it's only a matter of time. I get tired of teetering on the fence.
Time to rip the band aid off quickly and get on with my life.
Never had a relationship in the first place.
If youre a girl date me
Lmao
That's rough buddy
Trust me you don't want to have one even in this economy just be glad you're single, you can enjoy your favorite activities and not be bothered by someone who will break your heart
:(
5 quotes I learned the hard way:
If they are not sure you are the one, they are not the one.
Once you feel unappreciated, LEAVE.
Don't play games with a person who can play better.
Stop giving 100% to ppl who give you 20%.
If they come back, don't forget how they left.
@wendyyss2 Zero returns on investment.
There is no “the one”. You need to stop listening to Hollywood.
The moments leading up to the end of the relationship can feel more challenging and anxiety filled because there is a lot of uncertainty and a lot of times you want to do whatever it takes to salvage the relationship but you’re really not going anywhere. Ending a relationship is hard but it’s even harder to let go of that person especially when you’ve been so emotionally invested in them.
how to do it?
Agree
I had a particular relationship in mind when I clicked this video.
6 for 6 on signs
Think I will curl up and cry now.
im so sorry to hear that
… this too shall pass
Bro. Go look up red pill dating and female nature. Once you learn about that stuff, the more the merrier, you'll never cry over another woman in your life. You learn exactly what to expect from them. What they do behind your back. Their manipulation techniques they pull on you on a daily basis most men are clueless of. Trust me. It'll open doors for you that you never knew existed.
Thank you. Lying as a sign of disprespect and destroying trust is key.
If they choose their family over you. That’s a sign the relationship isn’t going to last.
This. So true. I'm going through this and struggle with articulating why it bothers me so much when it occurs
Exactly, my x had a sister that I know didn’t like me, you can tell I wasn’t imagining it. So I brought to my x’s attention and she wouldn’t hear it she immediately shot it down.
Yeah walk when this happens cause it’s only headaches from this point forward
This is so true… discovered my wife has been having an affair for 3 years… her family knew over 2 years ago… and now they know that I know they have showed no interest in my feelings just an interest in how much money their daughter can squeeze out of the divorce. My soon to be ex wife won’t accept that her family are leeches that only contacted us when they wanted money - they live on the other side of the world. I even paid thousands towards her father’s heart operation… only for them to accept her lover who contributed nothing with open arms.
You got a point there, unfortunately it takes a toll..
It hurts when you are in this position while you can't even comunicate it with your partner
real.
@@alliwrites6739 sending hugs 🫂🫂🫂
There are many different signs. These include spending time on phone that was not spent previously, withholding sex from you, withdrawing in communication with you, agitation or anger over Petty stuff or making up situations to get angry or agitated over, lying, being secretive in any way, randomly spending more time caring for and pampering oneself such as putting on makeup or wearing cologne or coloring hair etc. Any type of changed behavior that is not aimed at pleasing or benefiting your relationship. With all of that though, follow your gut. your gut is telling you that something isn't right and it's telling you that this could or is happening, therefore listen to it. Just Free yourself from all of it! Run and don't look back. Go 100% no contact. The mental and emotional abuse is not okay at all! Do not bring anything up to her. Don't try to rationalize or have a conversation about anything. Don't let her know that you know she's in narcissist. All of that can cause a narcissistic rage. If you have not yet witnessed one of those just trust me that you don't want to! A narcissistic rage is beyond any rage I have ever seen or witnessed in my entire life. I am an army combat veteran and served front lines for a year and afghanistan. I have abuse going back from as long as I can remember, the first time in my personal memory is 2 years old. With everything I have been involved in, and my rape, other sexual abuse, their physical abuse, etc in narcissistic rage is by far the worst! If you need to contact your local police department and start a new contact order. No one can protect you like you can! free yourself from it all and move forward in your life. The minute you run and go no contact is the minute your life begins again. If need be seek out professional help. Therapy is the best thing I did for myself. The best gift I gave to me! The abuse is so deep and overwhelming that having a professional guide you through the steps of the healing process is extremely beneficial! Just remember, there is great strength in asking for help. There is great lack and strength or no strength at all in putting on a mask and hiding behind the opinions of society and pretending that you are okay! As human beings we all witness A Time In our lives where we are not okay! Those that heal, move past, and move forward, and have a brighter future are those who ask for help and do the work that is needed through the help! I'm so sorry you are going through this and I wish you the very best! Good luck! Always remember that you are stronger than you believe you are, you are worthy and deserving of better and always, and you are enough just the way you are and who you are today! Take this time for you! Get yourself again. Fix that meal that you're all time favorite, rent that movie you've been wanting to see, have a guys night out with your best friends, remodel a room in your home, go purchase that item you've been wanting to for so long, just do for yourself! Self-acceptance, self-love, and being able to forgive yourself is far more important than what anyone else can give to you! Believe in who you are! You deserve nothing less than that! You're not alone! Feel free to tag me in any other questions that you have! I'll help if I can. Additionally you can hire a cyber expert to help you get remote access to their phone so you can track them and monitor all of their activities without them knowing. You may locate the top cyber specialists locally at digitalinvestigate@gmail.com where you can engage a well-trained professional to assist you..........
it's been a year, and it's still her. she was so much different than any of my other past partners, i could feel that she truly loved and cared for me. it's so amazing that a person like her somehow saw a future with me. when we broke up, she just dropped everything we had. i don't think she'll ever come back soon, and i don't think i'll be better any day now. i love and miss her so much, sometimes there are periods where i can't find the strength to get out of bed due to these heavy feelings. i wouldn't wish this heavy state to anyone. so please, for anyone reading this who broke up with someone recently, please try to move forward, no matter how painful it may be.
I've been there
🙏🏻 Keep faith and keep trying man, the pain is only temporary and one day you will wake up more stronger.
Never give your strength or faith to a woman. Never pedestalize a woman. Find the strength in God.
@@aramisy.cajigas744 👌🏻💪
i dont wanna lose a girl i love, we both love each other. i cant imagine my life without her, we have never met irl tho, but we know each other since 4 years. idk how people let go their partners so easily, i burst into tears or get so much depressed whenever i think about breakup or divorce things. without her, my life is boring,lonely,useless and depressing.
This vid really hit hard from my first and only relationship. If your partner gets on your nerves, they don’t put any effort into the relationship, or they only care about what they like and how they feel, it’s not a relationship worth keeping and it’s best to just let go. I didn’t, and I only wish I had sooner
You just described the relationship I was in for 3 years I just ended it.
I'm so angry at myself that I allowed that relationship to literally drain my life force from me. I'm so miserable and depressed now I worry that I will never heal.
Same
Relationships are tough sometimes and never be afraid to end it if it's not working
Just chuck it out for a little thing?never perfect,sure there is a point when its too much
Number 6 hit me like a truck. A week ago I ended my 21 year relationship with my partner because I was literally the only one putting any effort in the relationship. I was the one having all the difficult conversations. Trying to come up with compromises, suggestions. Making myself look good, being affectionate, compassionate, gave him space, listened to him…..but he just wasn’t willing to put the effort in either. He refused to get help for his mental health, refused any of my suggestions. He might occasionally make an effort for one day and then that’s it.
I still love him….walking away from that relationship was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. But I was just suffering every single day. I couldn’t take the neglect anymore.
You tried,sounds like you tried hard.
I had to look to see if this was an old comment I’d left. Same situation. Divorced after 20 years married. 3 kids. I’ve had to start my life over. I couldn’t take it anymore but I tried for 10 years.
You posted this comment 2 months ago. How is it going for you now?
@@ankurbhatnagar4609 honestly it’s been really up and down and hectic. I did some travelling, fell madly in love with a French guy, been dealing with the pain of being apart from him. Trying to get my life in order, exercising more, eating better meals, drinking more water. Slooooowly separating my possessions from my ex’s. My mum has been putting pressure on me to just throw my ex’s stuff away. Despite everything, I still like my ex as a person and promised to look after his stuff until he finds a permanent place to live. My mum can’t comprehend this. Overall…. I’m slowly getting better. I actually just reconnected with my younger sister who I haven’t spoken to in years and we had a nice long chat about everything that’s been going on in our lives. I actually feel really good right now. Hopeful, even.
Thank you for asking, I appreciate it.
I know the feeling.
these uploads have been getting really personal lately.. the last videos literally resonate with me
This video hits home. Lately I’ve been feeling less respected, and when I bring it up in the moment, like she wants (even though I disagree with this idea; time and place) it gets thrown back in my face as a “me issue.” I’ve been questioning our compatibility for a while now and it seems like with each passing day I’m reminded that we’re not.
Dr. Orion Taraban from PsychHacks gives a good framework for evaluating whether you should be in a relationship also. the video is called "Listen to YOURSELF: you likely already know the answer". It's a good listen.
If you find she's disrespecting you, you should leave if she doesn't see her as being part of the problem. Tolerating her disrespect means you don't have enough self respect. If she ever dumps you, you're going to feel much worse than if you'd ended things yourself. Much much worse.
I definitely relate to the last point. I've always had a never give up attitude and that also translated over to my relationship. It's over now, but it has definitely left me winded and hollowed out. All I can say is, a relationship takes two people and you can't Superman your way through. Don't make my mistake, your well-being matters more than trying to save a sinking ship.
Definitely rings a bell ... Talking about breakups, do you have planned a video talking about a partner suddenly ghosting you and blocking you out of nowhere ? A breakup without any explanation and how to manage that when you're victim of such behaviour ? Would love to see a video like that and it would be extremely helpful 🥺
Anyway, thanks for your work as always 😊
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Right you are.Absolutely right.
I wanted validation & you gave that to me. I am being torn apart. But, I have got the answer.
With tears in my eyes, I thank you, dear.
Deepest regards.
These videos give me motivation in sad times.
I think these advices do apply to platonic relationships as well. I've been in a tough situation with a friend and I can relate to most of those points. Guys, don't forget that communication is key !
the timing coulnt be more perfect, but the last one hit unexpectedly hard, im crying
thank you so much for the video
Your advice has touched me to the core. I'm still healing after five years. Thank you so much.💖
Timestamps
1). You don't trust in each other 0:36
2). You don't like each other anymore 1:06
3). They have no respect for you 2:11
4). They are selfish and make everything about themselves 2:56
5). You have drifted apart, and no longer want the same things 3:47
6). You are the one who puts in all the effort 4:19
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
As my husband and I get more and more separated, I have been wondering a lot about this. 😢
That's literally what my relationship is since 2 two years. And last night my mind and heart finally snapped in place.
I just fighted for so long because of our daughter. But I'm tired of fighting for so long. Spoke to him so often, but nothing ever changed... I finally understood in my heart, that he doesn't want anymore than someone to keep everything as clean as he wants and a babysitter for our daughter.. he doesn't even speak to me anymore.. it's like we're strangers again but live in the same house...
I cried so much last night as I realized it, but leaving will be better..
Can u post one video on "Signs Friendship is over"?
That last one hit me really hard. Literally all she did in her free time was read.
The last time I called myself attempting to establish a serious relationship, the person was a covert narcissist I had to take to court after he assaulted me, cheated and traumatised me/my loved ones among other things.
I’ve been single for a year almost two, however there’s someone I’ve been talking to for 5 almost 6 months and things are gradually developing which I enjoy.
This video is just what I needed. I have been with my GF for over a year now. She was the perfect GF but over time she started to criticize my actions. And begin to change me. This lead to us drifting apart little by little. Trust became an issue because we stopped checking in with each other. It finally got to a fight that lead to words we both later regretted saying but brought up a question we were both thinking. "Why are we together?!" We ended the relationship and it was hard but it was the best thing we both needed.
I related to number 2. I had broken up with my gf today and number 2 kinda hit home. In the beginning of the relationship it grew into us thinking we’d be together forever. But, then things drifted apart. I felt myself getting upset at the smallest things she’d do and I made things worse. I felt a lot worse before this video but no I feel I’m not alone. Thank you psych2go, for easing the pain a little. Maybe the relationship wasn’t the one. And if you’re just some person scrolling in the comments and you somehow find mine, thank you for reading it and if life is hard, I’m there in the same boat with you. God bless🙏❤
This video inspired me to suggest a new video idea: How to end a love relationship in the best way possible or sth similar. I mean imagine if you break up in a wrong way and they start hating you..
on the other hand, me and my (ex-)partner broke up, but still remained close friends. that's what i was always hoping for, because i knew, that it probably wouldn't last forever. I wish everyone to have such luck ❤
It is easy to be swept away by some overwhelming feeling, so it’s helpful to remember that any stressful feeling is like a compassionate alarm clock that says, “You’re caught in the dream.” Depression, pain, and fear are gifts that say, “Sweetheart, take a look at your thinking right now. You’re living in a story that isn’t true for you.
Byron Katie, Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life
...whoa, this is the first time I've related to all of the signs...
Well, luckily it's already over. I feel like it's better this way anyway for me...
I hope everyone else is doing okay. Reader, I hope you're okay. I wish you the best.
You have such a soothing voice… Soft and kind. I could listen to you for hours.
Whenever I’m thinking about me and someone else’s relationship or myself you upload to that subject 😭😭🙏🙏
Hard to leave when you have no where else to go 😢
Amanda has such an soothing voice 😭😭 like y'all I can fall asleep to her voice and heal my inner child hearing that.
Kudos to the whole team for being amazin tho
Ikr. It's hella confusing because how could one possibly be infatuated or attracted to another based off their voice but daaaammmnnn her voice is soft, supple and so smooth.
This video caused my relationship to end. Thank you
With how much information these videos give me on life and stuff, I'll be able to plan my life 10y ahead.
I love this video it's great for a younger generation for there first love, it was basic simple and to point and stayed on point without alot of words, cartoon effects and voice overs were presented at the right time.
I've never being in a relationship before. And I'm turning 26 in two months. So my changes of ever finding a girlfriend are simply dead. All hope is officially lost.
C'mon man you're in the prime of your life go to the gym get in shape and just work on yourself things will turn out good bro
She'll find you.
Having a romantic relationship with an alcoholic is next to impossible. Therefore, I’m moving on…
Had 9 relationships, 9 chapters in my book of this life..
Currently 2 years into my 10th relationship.. if it ends, such is life….❤
This works for platonic relationships as well
Thanks a lot
I needed to see this is a help. I got dumped on 2 months ago for communicating my feelings respectfully to my ex bf and All I got is “go get someone else” and he turned on me unfortunately. I wished him nothing but the best the red flags were there.. time to let go and heal and god will bring the right partner for me when he is ready for me. This video was a huge help 😊
#7: “No relationship ever got off of the ground in the first place.”
This is great advice for any relationship, romantic or friendships.
okay but the jazz playlist?!?!?!?! what?!?!?! can i have it?!?!?!?
😮 where?
@@Psych2go the music is so good, is it a playlist on spotify or something?
I needed this so much right now. Thank you for this
We were just dating but boy the timing of this is crazy lol saw this video right after she decided not to continue and I was feeling it too. Def felt some of these feelings in the short version as well
This video is hitting really close to home for me, it’s really eye opening!
Love yourself enough to leave someone who is making life hard and doesn’t put in as much effort as you do.
I've never had any relationship at all. Don't know if I ever will, seeing the current state of the world.
I really love the geeky easter eggs 😁 it makes the videos even better 🔥
My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend and this pain is too much He was my heart and soul. I saw a future together with him and now it's all gone and I'm left alone and heartbroken at the worst time in my life
The last good relationship I had (at least I thought it was), was some 20 odd years ago. Loved enough to have a little stinker from him that he couldn't care for. I lost all his attention and I noticed he liked his women a certain way. Now I just love my kids, grands and cat. And loving myself.....
Love your tips, thank you❤
Thanks for coming early!
Can't be bothered anymore with relationships
Does anyone else watch these videos thinking about a specific recent relationship, and then as soon as you hear "NUMBER ONE…" it’s followed by the most exact thing that led to the end of your relationship with them?
Well… me too. My two closest friends last year (one was more of a situationship) began to lie to me… which meant I stopped trusting them… which led to the end of our friendships just a few months later. But time really does heal all wounds, people! I feel great, I focused on bettering myself, I have a great new job, and I’ve even been on an ACTUAL date this month. Be brave, be patient, be gentle, and choose love every time. I'm rooting for you, just as I rooted for myself so much last year.
I let go because most of the things here was happening to me. It was the best decision I made. Just let go, and build a new one. It's much better...
Beautiful video, “it’s ok to let go”
Just a friendly note, volume is quite low & ads become too loud. Thank you.
Thank you for another amazing video... as much as it hurt to hear all this... 😭
"Can you relate to any of these signs in this video..." Yea... unfortunately, 6 of 6. 💔
Feel alone now. Just like with them
A couple of these signs are still fixable I think.
if I watched this last month I would've cried knowing i related to half of them. but me and him worked everything out, and we're back to being lovey dovey and coupley
I needed to hear this.
All we did is text for 4 months. No relationship there
Thank you for your advice “to move on from this relationship “, I ticked all the boxes there and want to go, but he won’t let me go, I always end up back. I’m not happy there, I want out but I don’t know really do it!😢
I'd say yes to all mentioned, the narcissistic person I was involved with checks all the boxes. Time to move on!
Same 2 years 🚽 never met a more evil person
My ex girlfriend and I did not have any of these problems but she abruptedly dumped me anyway...
Yep. death Is surely One of the reasons why a relationship can end
I used to be in a relationship with this boy four years ago. When we decided to date, I found it incredible that I have found someone who stood to every belief and goals to dating, but because he lived in a different country, it was really hard for us to stay connected (wifi connection was the issue), but he and I started to drift apart. We barely communicated and even if had the chance to speak through face time or call it was only to be sexual to each other. At one point I got tired of it. While I do enjoy having a sexual relationship with him, I still felt that our connection was another must for us both. So after three years, I ended up having to break things off with him. It was one of the hardest things I had to do, but both of us knew it wasn't going to last due to our distance. We are still in good terms, however, it's already been a year since we last spoke. I still miss him time to time, and even he admits the same, but there was nothing both of us could do.
I knew it was over when she told me she had been f*****g other men throughout our 13 years of marriage. It was kind of a red flag.
If you’re watching this video should be reason number 7. Because you’re just looking for something to confirm what you already know.!! The best part now you know what you’re not going to accept in your next relationship.!!
Very well said (I have never held hands with anyone)
Bruh im the one doing the heartbreaking but some people still want to come back to me like whatever it was a one time thing. Besides i have plenty of time and sticking to only one person like yeah right.
I had all these signs, but never did I think that it was that serious, until the ship sank.
1:34 the innocent 'can you shut up' made me giggle😂😂
Letting go is really hard to do when looking at them makes your funny parts all tingly, but you gotta do it. There will be other sexy people who are better for you
Sogns its over
1) You dont trust each other.
2) You dont respect each other
3) You are making all the effort to keep up the relationship. He doesnt care enough to make it work.
4) He is selfish and always makes out for himself only.
5) You are not interested in the same things anymore.
I am stuck in one and I don’t know how to get out of it. I’m holding my tongue and biding my time, and simply going through the motions at this point. I would say it’s beyond repair but it was never put together to begin with. Like a Lego set you tried to put together just by looking at the picture on the box rather than following the actual directions. I am by no means perfect, but I’m also self aware and have emotional intelligence. She doesn’t. I’m so unhappy.
"6 Signs Your Relationship is Over"
Me who has never been in a relationship: Interesting
5/6 of these for my past marriage. Makes sense.
Gosh..🙈 HOW you almost always know to post just the right video❤
I Need To Let My Sister Watch This Her And Husband As The Issues.
Thanks for the advice I kinda needed it
Rose didn’t let go. She had an entire family, kids, husbands after Jack and on her deathbed, she remembered this beautiful moment with the man who truly had her heart the entire time.
No relationship started yet so nothing to regret about it😊
I am watching this right now because I broke up with my ex and boy, I miss him so very much
These aren't always signs that the relationship is over.
You might drive eachother absolutely insane, but there's a little thing called love that can keep you together forever.
So not liking eachother isn't a sign, but not loving eachother is.
Of course I know this channel is for younger people who don't even know what love is, so maybe these are signs for their relationships.
If you don't know what love is like, I can tell you now it doesn't always feel good. It can often manifest itself as feelings of anger and sadness. You'll understand when someone you love refuses to wear their seatbelt or gets a speeding ticket
I wish I had a list like this to guide me so that I didn't put so much effort into what ended up for me to be an emotionally abusive relationship.
Très très chouette d'avoir toujours plus d'avis sur le cinéma de plein plein plein de belles personnes
I related to ALL! Thanks alot for telling me to let go!
❤Awesome, thank you. ❤
VR relationships are really tough
*I think I meant long distance
Why do you guys always post those kindes of videos when i relate to this situation right now, it's mentally drowning
Sorry 😢 In the video it will help you understand why you’re experiencing that. It could potential help you out