Can understand not wanting to trim to much, but you can also end like me, where you keep forgetting or just saying I will do it later, so I schedule when i need to look if it need to be done, but diffrent thing work for different people.😊
I'm white, and I still follow hair and skin advice from natural hair girlies. I had to shave my head for medical reasons and was feeling low and went to a subreddit to feel my feelings and it was black women who gave me SO much love and care and I swear I have never ever been more grateful to random strangers. Other white girls ask me how the hell my hair grew so long and it is like....yeah, not washing it all the dang time, hydrating it, keeping it in protective styles, wearing a bonnet and trimming when you need it. My hair is long and healthy, my scalp isn't dry or oily, and I do not use expensive products. Like, obvi I'm a white woman with just straight/wavy hair, so not all advice applies to me. But lord, the basics have been everything.
Thank you for your testimony I love to hear your story. ❤ lot of the products for Caucasian woman's have changed more moisturizing putting Moroccan oil in their products. I even met a lady that used Jamaican castor oil she said it helped her hair a lot.❤
@user-mg6in9cq9e A lot of what makes up black hair and skin care, from what I have had suggested to me, is a lot of really "cheap" products too. And not in a bad way. A lot of K-beauty, for example, it pretty pricey and complicated. I use black soap (the real stuff) to clean my skin and hair and then Shea butter to condition my hair and skin. Sometimes, I'll put coconut oil in my hair before a wash, leave it in for a few hours before washing it out, and when my skin is particularly dry, I'll grab the coconut oil. I live in Australia, so finding black-owned businesses can be difficult, but not impossible. And totally worth it. When I lost my hair, it was black women who helped me understand wigs and assured me that I wouldn't look ridiculous, and it was these ladies that helped me grow it out. I'm extremely grateful to those communities.
@LongLostInideQueen Thank you so much. There are some really positive people out there, and I'm so grateful they are generous with their knowledge and kindness.
I put my hair away every winter and take it out in the spring. So for about 4-5 months of the year my hair is in protective styles. The dry cold air is horrible for curly hair. But I also find that another advantage to this is i have more patience to deal with my hair after having it put away. Not property taking care of it when it’s out is what causes the most damage. If you feel like you’ve been neglecting your hair, you probably need a break from it 🤷🏽♀️
Yeah I cut my hair so I could wear my hair out and do wash and goes alot. My hair is fuller and softer. My hair sheds more when I protective style. I'm lazy natural so wash and goes force me to spray and moisturize 😊
So, I see her wetting, detangling and mosturizing/conditioning length (and twisting), shampooing roots only, rinsing, then untwisting and moisturizing again. Is that right? My baby has thicker, curly hair, and I'm not sure how to maintain her moisture? My hair is thin, curly. Not sure all that butter will be good for my thin hair. I just use sulfate free shampoo, a butter mask/deep conditioner, then a glaze. But if you're using all that oil and butter, when do you clarify?
@@CoachLadyD you would clarify during shampooing, there’s tons of clarifying shampoo options. With maintaining your babies moisture it’s really trial and error just depends on what your daughters hair responds to, but you could start with using a good amount of water(what moisturizes), a hydrating leave in conditioner, and oil to lock it in. Hope this helps 😊
It's always so visually satisfying to watch our wet natural hair being combed thru w/ conditioner & such 😊 every different texture bc no, we're not all the same (but all beautiful of course)
Came to the comments to say this! I’m white so my hair doesn’t soak up the moisture like that and it’s always so satisfying to watch these videos. Blows my mind that I can visibly see the hair getting thicker as it pulls in and retains the moisture.
As a white woman with relatively straight hair, videos of women with curly hair putting this amount of effort into keeping their hair healthy and strong puts me to SHAME! It's inspiring me to do more to look after my hair though, not only so it looks as gorgeous as yours, but also as it shows such a level of self love and self respect ❤
As a native brown girl I still admire the amount of effort and love she puts into her self, I really physically could never 😅 I can appreciate her grind tho!!😂
@@epic7224 my hair is wavy and high maintenance I think I do plenty, but she goes to the extremes because she is a content creator AND trying for growth. My hair ends just above my butt and I just went in for a trim this month so try again 😂 you’re not going to catch me constantly putting oils and creams to the root of my hair, I only do simple hacks like protective hairstyles, scalp scrubs, crème for ends, and Aegean oil for the days I really need a refresh. What I do is already a lot but to fathom doing everything she does is a lot so that being said MY ORIGINAL COMMENT STILL STANDS
The right oil actually revived my hair health. My hair is too thick and porous to go without an oil or butter. I don’t apply it daily but it’s routine enough that my hair that used to feel constantly dry and lose its length, is retaining length, stretch, and moisture (it’s applied after I moisturize lol) finally. Hair care is pretty much what works for you.
@@A_child_in_ur_walls ma’am if you’re dealing w what I am, I HIGHLY recommend water mixed w coconut milk AND coconut oil. It will help so much. Again, everyone’s different but shelf products still leave my hair dry…. coconut oil/milk + water literally put spring back in my coils.
I always had a conspiracy theory that the hair salon tells you to come back every three months so that you will spend more money than you actually need to spend 😂 every 6 month will do just fine for me
It depends what you do to your hair. If you put lots of heat and/or chemicals on your hair you'll need more trims but if you don't do either and treat your ends with care you don't need much trims. This is coming from a licensed professional ☺️
@@TheLovesnowangelI agree it definitely depends on what a person does to their hair … I get my hair trimmed 2-3 times a year my cuzo gets her hair trimmed every 2 months 😂😂 she stay coloring it crazy and just don’t be taking care of it so her ends be looking crazy she don’t care tho she will cut it with no problem.. I mean it is only hair 💁🏽♀️… I was bald 8 months ago now I have a bob 😂.. one thing about hair it will grow bk for most ppl
Same cos i get my hair trimmed every 4 months but like 90% of the time im doing natural styles and the other 10% i straighten it and they hardly cut alot hair everytime i go and im like why sooo much for a small trim 😭
I never understood putting a lot of work into maintaining length to never wear the hair out. It's okay to just wear a ponytail or puff everyday. I feel like as black women we tend to think our hair has to be styled when it's out or it's not "done" or neat enough but honestly our hair is fine in its natural state. But ofc we are allowed to feel how we feel and do what we want with our hair so no hate to this woman. Her experience is very valid
I agree with you completely. It is really mind boggling that this is seen as "normal" in the natural hair community. At some point excessive "protective styles" are indistinguishable from hiding your natural hair because it's "too difficult to manage"😣
This might sound off, but to me it feels too vulnerable. I’m mixed and typically don’t look black to most people and i grew up in a relatively diverse area so it should matter less. BUT i was surrounded by non-black people who always ALWAYS were trying to touch my hair and making all kinds of comments about it even if it was straightened or whatever. I had a rough period where stress/malnutrition caused a lot of it to fall out and I’ve worn wigs ever since. The only comments I’ve gotten now are compliments and surprise surprise, no one touches my hair anymore. I only wear it around my close family at this point, but I take really good care of it; it’s full now and down my back. I just don’t care to be “exotic” to people in that way anymore. I’ll admit, some women are much stronger and more resilient than me when it comes to that lmao
I think, like most things, it depends on the person. I used to wear my hair out -- specifically ponytails and puffs -- everyday and it just wasn't healthy for my hair. I have a lot of hair and sweat a lot so it was very often hot and damp and puffy and unmanageable. To make it more manageable, I applied heat which ultimately damaged it more. I wore the ponytails so often that my hair started to break off where it was tied up at. It just felt bad. I felt bad. I tried out a bunch of products until I found something that worked well for me and started to wear it braided almost exclusively and wear wigs on the regular instead. Every other week or so, I take it out, do my maintenance, let it rest over the weekend and then braid it back up for the next few weeks. It's never been healthier with me just leaving it alone. It's full, my curls are healthy, and the length is great. It and I feel so much better now, even if I'm the only one to see it. I started a new job a few years ago and literally no one there has ever seen my natural hair. I can buy or style a wig whenever I want a change and I generally just save a lot of time and energy not crying over it in the mornings.
I get so many people everyday asking what I put in my hair etc. I am quick to tell them I neglect my hair regularly in comparison To most but mainly genetics 🤷🏾♀️ just being honest.
@@Calax93 what is it then? My 3x great grandfather was Irish, wife Cherokee. My dad's mother's side. Ppl always speak Arabic to me or ask if I'm Ethiopian. Mom's side is all black, but my mother has very coarse hair, and her full blooded siblings have hair that's wavy, curly, or doesn't need a relaxer to be styled. What's the science, Mr, or Mrs Ugh?
@@Calax93wait really? i have my dad's 3a-3b hair and his side of the family is german, chinese and afro-jamaican mixed together compared to my moms side that has 3c-4a hair being more on the monoracial side with some south asian ancestry
Thank you for teaching me more about natural hair... I'm an author writing a black main character, but I'm white with very straight hair, so videos like this teach me a lot for writing her accurately and respectfully
Pick a different 'influencer' because this girl is anything but respectful. Out here saying other groups of people aren't allowed to wear braids and sht in their hair because it's her culture, and calling those of us who do wear braids or locs, culture vultures and appropriating. 🙄
I'm with you on keep my hair constantly in a protective style. I don't care if it's boring. My hair has gotten so healthy and long from keeping it twisted up. Plus, I can style the twists in buns, a pony with bangs, or leave them down.
That is the truth with me too. People would say you should wear it out and I would say then it won’t be this long. I have done two or three big chops since then and now I’m back on my hair GROWTH journey, thank you for sharing. I love your content.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@charlenea.davidson1199 I really can’t explain it, like we wear our hair out but it’s constantly in a protective style. I don’t wear wigs or quick weaves, that’s not what I mean. I mostly keep my natural hair in plats. Wearing it loose just seems to lead to breakage in my opinion. In my profile you can see my natural hair. Sometimes I can’t tell if my hair wants oil or h20, so I just wear platted seems safer is all
@@charlenea.davidson1199 ALSO I Only wear my true natural state, ur hair looks straightened if this is u in ur profile. That would make a super big difference we are speaking of true state at all times
While that's not totally incorrect, it's not totally correct either. Hair growth has to do with your immune system, and what you eat/ take can either trigger your immune system to excrete waste through your scalp (yes, hair is waste excretion), or keep signaling your body to excrete it in other ways. Eating a diet that is conducive to creating healthy gut bacteria that communicates with your entire body would be a start. That would require extensive gi testing and labs, which most people don't get unless you have an illness. So, yea 😢
Hair growth is hereditary but if you can't grow your hair past you neck there are other problems. Good hair care, genetics and health leads to length retention. I thought my hair wouldn’t grow until I did this... Products: Suave Keratin shampoo and conditioner, As I Am Leave in Conditioner, As I Am Jamaican Black Castor Oil Spray, Blue Magic Hair Grease and Eco Styler Argan Oil Gel BE GENTLE with your hair 1. Shampoo and condition in the shower. Rinse you hair out very well. 2. Part your wet hair into four sections 3. With one section apply leave in conditioner throughly. Use JBCO spray. Detangle with a wide tooth comb or good brush. 4. Coat ends in grease. Apply a lil bit of grease down the hair. You can apply grease to your scalp if you wish. 5. Apply a little gel if you want 6. Braid your hair. I used to put 4 or 6 braids in each section. Now that my hair is longer I put 1 or 2. 7. Repeat for the other 3 sections. I'd recommend washing your hair every 2 or 3 weeks. Leave your hair in the braids until the week or few days leading up to your wash day. If your hair feels dry at any point plan to wash your hair in the next few days. Yes you can refresh your hair with water and a little conditioner but I find it only helps me for a couple days. Some people don't feel beautiful walking around with Felicia braids/Coi Leray/Travis Scott braids so you can throw on a wig or a head wrap. Just don't forget to check on your hair BE GENTLE and give your hair some love. You got this!
@@jessimowthis is FALSE !!!! Hence why you can see someone on drugs in the street with thick healthy full air I work in a women’s shelters you’d be surprised!
I agree and disagree. Like you, my hair wasn't growing. I found out I was anaemic, so I started taking my iron supplements. Also, I changed my diet, exercise more often, and massage my scalp once a week. Now, my hair is at brastrap length 3 years after a big chop.
honestly as a hispanic with naturally curly hair, some people with straight hair don’t understand how hard it is for us to maintain our naturally curly hair. I use to have people always say “it must suck to have curly hair” which really made me want to have straight hair so I was afraid to wear it down naturally. but now I must say I feel happy with the way my hair is. it looks beautiful and there no need to change it. you should feel the same way too ❤️
It's not mutually exclusive. I have executive dysfunction. Right now my hair is a big clump. Like fr it's like when u cook spaghetti but hold it so it sticks together... I have very fine hair and a lot of hair but it's straight. It still gets really tangled. So seeing videos like this I get curl envy and also think omg that must be a lot... I can't keep my straight hair straight! 😅
I have straight hair and used to always want curly hair. We all seem to want what the other one has. Lol Curly hair is beautiful! It’s sad how society has us all brainwashed into thinking beauty only exists in certain forms or standards. That’s wrong! Beauty comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. We should all learn to be proud of how God made us. Perfect through him.
You dont need a ton of product for your hair, you haven’t tried learning more about your hair so you make excuses to not do it. I have 4b hair bra strap length and only use water, leave in and a essential oil. You dont need all these creams and custards to take care of your hair
Young people now take in what their people told them, and decided to do something about it. It's so commendable. They have access to things that I couldn't have dreamed of. Bull by the horns❤
Listen I do the same thing, I’m not a content creator but I always get “wear your natural hair, stop wearing wigs” my hair grew from not touching it so much 😂
So you grow it out just to look a bit at it , and then do a protective hairstyle all the time . What’s the point of having it long then , if it’s always hidden ?
I recently just stopped trimming my hair on a schedule! I used to do about once a month and about a month ago something in me clicked and I realized I’m cutting off healthy hair for no reason. Plus my hair grows slow so I would also cut off any new growth 😭😂
I dont trim at all. I wear low manipulation styles,moisturize and seal with oil. I use olaplex with that and game changer! I will try your line for my moisturize and seal process.
I understand wanting healthy hair and protecting it. Yet I will never understand what all that protecting is doing if I don’t wear it out anwyway. I want to see my hair and show off my hair. I love how it looks, how it feels and how it compliments every outfit every attitude and every occasion. To each their own ofcourse.
As a white person with 1c hair, watching black people wash style and braid their natural hair is very relaxing for me. Natural black hair is sooo pretty, I wish I had hair like that
hunny dont. The grass is not greener over here. There are so many factors that make taking care of hair native to black folks so much harder. I have armpit length 4b 4a hair, believe me when I tell you it takes hours if not days to wash, detangle and style it. This is why you will often see us wearing protective styles or wigs and keeping the same style in for a very long time. We have beautiful hair but it comes at a price. Wash day can actually become a full day for many of us. It takes a long time for many of us to master what works for our hair and it differs from person to person, even if you have the same hair type it also differs each season and changes throughout our lifetime. Stay with your 1c hair. I am sure it has its own unique charm Love. God gave you what you could manage.
The no oils no butters thing is definitely subjective. I started using hair grease when that trend was taking off and my hair has never felt softer or been easier to comb. People who are bothered by that just have way too much time on their hands. Also i trim on a schedule because i dont use a blowdryer and i dont straighten my hair so its hard to tell when my hair really needs it
The process you go through to maintain your beautiful hair is so cool to see. In my country I never see coiled hair. Thank you for educating people on the process.
So oil is for after, it helps you retain moisture but if you put oil on dry hair it will repel all water keeping your hair hella dry So leave-in/mask then oil@@YasminMahnaz
This the same for me. Oil dried my hair out & makes my curly hair brittle & frizz faster. I'm 48 & it took me too long to realize this! So much hair care has oil in it, esp coconut oil & it causes tangles & doesn't help at all.
@@phumeemkhulungu Soap and Grease. Old School Style when all the girls in the school yard had long Swinging Pony Tails with Twisty Balls!😊 I Keep my Hair Braided or Twists unless going somewhere.
@@Uuber2Jupiter honestly. I take soooo long with wash day. No way i do that a million times a month. No way. As is i undid my freehand on Saturday, i couldn't deal with the fro today, i just twisted it. Weekend I'm going to plait myself some knotless braids after i was and trim.
I feel that, but have those natural hair days too! We gotta show them that we are out here and that we actually love it even though it takes a long ass time😅❤ I just called self-care
@@janatomlin1296 of course❤️I've been rocking my afro for a week now. And before i had a natural hairstyle for like 4weeks. And an afro before that. Now🥺today infact. I'm going to deep condition and then plait braids ☺️
im a white blonde haired teenager who is kinda just coming into her curly hair (about a year) and with some products my hair is about a 3b to 3c! i love my hair, but its not even at all. the back of my hair is veryyy curly but the front can sometimes have a few strands that are a bit straighter. i am a competitive swimmer and water polo player, so my hair is very dead, but i was wondering if there is anything i can do to fix my hair?
![Diggy Graves - Red Vineyard [Official Lyric Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/8Ro085T0mnQ/mqdefault.jpg)
Products available at Anaturalerose.com
I want some of your products so my hair will grow….❤
Me too 😢
Her hair products are always sold out.
Will you be bringing back the moisturising shampoo? 😢
I never when on to the site but is there products that work for damage (dyed) hair
“Trim when needed “is so real !
Man here, I’ve been growing for two yrs should I be trimming.
You need to trim when it needs trimmed though
❤looks great 😊
Yes then it grows more@@Shomethescripture
Girl I feel you I never understood that either. I retain my healthy length trimming when I think it’s needed!
Question, how do you know when you need to trim?
@@kindaclxudyyyou’ll have split ends. It may not be a lot but they’re still noticeable.
Can understand not wanting to trim to much, but you can also end like me, where you keep forgetting or just saying I will do it later, so I schedule when i need to look if it need to be done, but diffrent thing work for different people.😊
What @junegem9405 said, or when you start to get more fairy knots@@kindaclxudyy
Ive heard its bc split ends can split higher
the soap that almost went in her eye 😭
I came STRAIGHT to the comments for that cause I got that triggered😭 I just finished washing my hair like 20 mins ago and this happened to me ughh
Oh gosh washed mines last night nd had my eyes closed every second of it
@@TiffanyHardy-r7p same😭😖
@@tia4936 omg😭😭
I see you everywhere😂❤
I'm white, and I still follow hair and skin advice from natural hair girlies. I had to shave my head for medical reasons and was feeling low and went to a subreddit to feel my feelings and it was black women who gave me SO much love and care and I swear I have never ever been more grateful to random strangers.
Other white girls ask me how the hell my hair grew so long and it is like....yeah, not washing it all the dang time, hydrating it, keeping it in protective styles, wearing a bonnet and trimming when you need it.
My hair is long and healthy, my scalp isn't dry or oily, and I do not use expensive products. Like, obvi I'm a white woman with just straight/wavy hair, so not all advice applies to me. But lord, the basics have been everything.
Thank you for your testimony I love to hear your story. ❤ lot of the products for Caucasian woman's have changed more moisturizing putting Moroccan oil in their products. I even met a lady that used Jamaican castor oil she said it helped her hair a lot.❤
Thanks for sharing. This was a wonderful read ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 congrats on the healthy hair.
@user-mg6in9cq9e A lot of what makes up black hair and skin care, from what I have had suggested to me, is a lot of really "cheap" products too. And not in a bad way. A lot of K-beauty, for example, it pretty pricey and complicated.
I use black soap (the real stuff) to clean my skin and hair and then Shea butter to condition my hair and skin. Sometimes, I'll put coconut oil in my hair before a wash, leave it in for a few hours before washing it out, and when my skin is particularly dry, I'll grab the coconut oil.
I live in Australia, so finding black-owned businesses can be difficult, but not impossible. And totally worth it.
When I lost my hair, it was black women who helped me understand wigs and assured me that I wouldn't look ridiculous, and it was these ladies that helped me grow it out. I'm extremely grateful to those communities.
@LongLostInideQueen Thank you so much. There are some really positive people out there, and I'm so grateful they are generous with their knowledge and kindness.
@@Rose_Castle you’re absolutely welcome
Beautiful hair. You favor Kyla Pratt so much.😊
Yess she doesss
I was thinking she’s Kyla’s daughter😊
Her voice as well!
I put my hair away every winter and take it out in the spring. So for about 4-5 months of the year my hair is in protective styles. The dry cold air is horrible for curly hair. But I also find that another advantage to this is i have more patience to deal with my hair after having it put away. Not property taking care of it when it’s out is what causes the most damage. If you feel like you’ve been neglecting your hair, you probably need a break from it 🤷🏽♀️
love this and can relate. wearing braids unless going out .
What does it mean to take your hair away ?
@@farahamin9670protective style
How.do pit your haor away?
Looksnlike alot of white residue on her hair it needs ro he rinses
Wearing my hair out has done the most damage. So I feel you on that.
If you can’t wear your natural hair what’s the point of having hair 😂😂😂
Same!! I could never wear my hair out.
@@JessicaAl1990right?!!
@@JessicaAl1990facts
Yeah I cut my hair so I could wear my hair out and do wash and goes alot. My hair is fuller and softer. My hair sheds more when I protective style. I'm lazy natural so wash and goes force me to spray and moisturize 😊
As a natural hair stylist of 15+ years, you’re doing it all perfectly! The proof is your gorgeous mane! ❤🎉🥰🔥🌟
So, I see her wetting, detangling and mosturizing/conditioning length (and twisting), shampooing roots only, rinsing, then untwisting and moisturizing again. Is that right?
My baby has thicker, curly hair, and I'm not sure how to maintain her moisture?
My hair is thin, curly. Not sure all that butter will be good for my thin hair. I just use sulfate free shampoo, a butter mask/deep conditioner, then a glaze.
But if you're using all that oil and butter, when do you clarify?
@@CoachLadyD you would clarify during shampooing, there’s tons of clarifying shampoo options. With maintaining your babies moisture it’s really trial and error just depends on what your daughters hair responds to, but you could start with using a good amount of water(what moisturizes), a hydrating leave in conditioner, and oil to lock it in. Hope this helps 😊
I was going to say the same thing, the fact her hair healthy long and beautiful says she’s doing something right
It's always so visually satisfying to watch our wet natural hair being combed thru w/ conditioner & such 😊 every different texture bc no, we're not all the same (but all beautiful of course)
Came to the comments to say this!
I’m white so my hair doesn’t soak up the moisture like that and it’s always so satisfying to watch these videos. Blows my mind that I can visibly see the hair getting thicker as it pulls in and retains the moisture.
Yesss! I'm just sitting here envying the thickness! Something about combing the product through is so satisfying both to watch and to do
Well said 👏🏾
Sis, you look like a young Octavia Spencer and I'm here for it! 💕💕
Sound like her too!
Yessss she does
She looks like Octavia Spencer and sound like Kyla pratt
Right
She looks to me more like Kyla😊
The trimming thing.... Yaaaasss! Finally somebody said it!
Her hair is so beautiful
That bounce on her hair when she's adding the product is SO satisfying! ❤
Your hair is GORGEOUS
No it's not.. Why do people feel like they have to say that to make somebody feel good
You have beautiful hair!!
As a white woman with relatively straight hair, videos of women with curly hair putting this amount of effort into keeping their hair healthy and strong puts me to SHAME! It's inspiring me to do more to look after my hair though, not only so it looks as gorgeous as yours, but also as it shows such a level of self love and self respect ❤
As a native brown girl I still admire the amount of effort and love she puts into her self, I really physically could never 😅 I can appreciate her grind tho!!😂
As you should! White ppl neglecttheir hair the most ngl, but it never used to be that way. See victoriana woman for instance!
@rearoses52 it's not that much lol you'd get used to it.
@@epic7224 my hair is wavy and high maintenance I think I do plenty, but she goes to the extremes because she is a content creator AND trying for growth. My hair ends just above my butt and I just went in for a trim this month so try again 😂 you’re not going to catch me constantly putting oils and creams to the root of my hair, I only do simple hacks like protective hairstyles, scalp scrubs, crème for ends, and Aegean oil for the days I really need a refresh. What I do is already a lot but to fathom doing everything she does is a lot so that being said MY ORIGINAL COMMENT STILL STANDS
Exactly!
The right oil actually revived my hair health. My hair is too thick and porous to go without an oil or butter. I don’t apply it daily but it’s routine enough that my hair that used to feel constantly dry and lose its length, is retaining length, stretch, and moisture (it’s applied after I moisturize lol) finally.
Hair care is pretty much what works for you.
Agreed
Why is that the exact same problem for me 😭
@@A_child_in_ur_walls ma’am if you’re dealing w what I am,
I HIGHLY recommend water mixed w coconut milk AND coconut oil. It will help so much.
Again, everyone’s different but shelf products still leave my hair dry…. coconut oil/milk + water literally put spring back in my coils.
@@godiswithyou.5358 Ty I feel like that would really help my hair ^.^
@@godiswithyou.5358how do you use this mixture in your routine?
I always had a conspiracy theory that the hair salon tells you to come back every three months so that you will spend more money than you actually need to spend 😂 every 6 month will do just fine for me
That’s a great theory.. I think I agree with you. I don’t trim my hair more then twice a year and my hair is THRIVING ✨
It depends what you do to your hair. If you put lots of heat and/or chemicals on your hair you'll need more trims but if you don't do either and treat your ends with care you don't need much trims. This is coming from a licensed professional ☺️
@@TheLovesnowangelI agree it definitely depends on what a person does to their hair … I get my hair trimmed 2-3 times a year my cuzo gets her hair trimmed every 2 months 😂😂 she stay coloring it crazy and just don’t be taking care of it so her ends be looking crazy she don’t care tho she will cut it with no problem.. I mean it is only hair 💁🏽♀️… I was bald 8 months ago now I have a bob 😂.. one thing about hair it will grow bk for most ppl
Same cos i get my hair trimmed every 4 months but like 90% of the time im doing natural styles and the other 10% i straighten it and they hardly cut alot hair everytime i go and im like why sooo much for a small trim 😭
And the opticians!
Much love and success to you in your business brand.. I wish you billions.
Oh my goodness your hair is gorgeous!! I would definitely be rocking what Yahuah gave me!!!
I never understood putting a lot of work into maintaining length to never wear the hair out. It's okay to just wear a ponytail or puff everyday. I feel like as black women we tend to think our hair has to be styled when it's out or it's not "done" or neat enough but honestly our hair is fine in its natural state. But ofc we are allowed to feel how we feel and do what we want with our hair so no hate to this woman. Her experience is very valid
I agree with you completely. It is really mind boggling that this is seen as "normal" in the natural hair community. At some point excessive "protective styles" are indistinguishable from hiding your natural hair because it's "too difficult to manage"😣
This might sound off, but to me it feels too vulnerable. I’m mixed and typically don’t look black to most people and i grew up in a relatively diverse area so it should matter less. BUT i was surrounded by non-black people who always ALWAYS were trying to touch my hair and making all kinds of comments about it even if it was straightened or whatever. I had a rough period where stress/malnutrition caused a lot of it to fall out and I’ve worn wigs ever since.
The only comments I’ve gotten now are compliments and surprise surprise, no one touches my hair anymore. I only wear it around my close family at this point, but I take really good care of it; it’s full now and down my back. I just don’t care to be “exotic” to people in that way anymore. I’ll admit, some women are much stronger and more resilient than me when it comes to that lmao
I think, like most things, it depends on the person. I used to wear my hair out -- specifically ponytails and puffs -- everyday and it just wasn't healthy for my hair. I have a lot of hair and sweat a lot so it was very often hot and damp and puffy and unmanageable. To make it more manageable, I applied heat which ultimately damaged it more. I wore the ponytails so often that my hair started to break off where it was tied up at. It just felt bad. I felt bad.
I tried out a bunch of products until I found something that worked well for me and started to wear it braided almost exclusively and wear wigs on the regular instead. Every other week or so, I take it out, do my maintenance, let it rest over the weekend and then braid it back up for the next few weeks. It's never been healthier with me just leaving it alone. It's full, my curls are healthy, and the length is great. It and I feel so much better now, even if I'm the only one to see it.
I started a new job a few years ago and literally no one there has ever seen my natural hair. I can buy or style a wig whenever I want a change and I generally just save a lot of time and energy not crying over it in the mornings.
I'm growing my hair out so I could put my hair in an updo. Length is what gives a style the much needed volume I want
Completely agree.
I get so many people everyday asking what I put in my hair etc. I am quick to tell them I neglect my hair regularly in comparison To most but mainly genetics 🤷🏾♀️ just being honest.
Same.
Yep, I relate all too well.
ugh as someone who studies actually biology no its not genetics hair is not that variable.
@@Calax93 what is it then? My 3x great grandfather was Irish, wife Cherokee. My dad's mother's side. Ppl always speak Arabic to me or ask if I'm Ethiopian.
Mom's side is all black, but my mother has very coarse hair, and her full blooded siblings have hair that's wavy, curly, or doesn't need a relaxer to be styled.
What's the science, Mr, or Mrs Ugh?
@@Calax93wait really? i have my dad's 3a-3b hair and his side of the family is german, chinese and afro-jamaican mixed together compared to my moms side that has 3c-4a hair being more on the monoracial side with some south asian ancestry
Thank you for teaching me more about natural hair... I'm an author writing a black main character, but I'm white with very straight hair, so videos like this teach me a lot for writing her accurately and respectfully
Love this! ❤
We are all for educating!! 👏🏽
This is solid!🎉
I hope to read your writing some day!
Pick a different 'influencer' because this girl is anything but respectful. Out here saying other groups of people aren't allowed to wear braids and sht in their hair because it's her culture, and calling those of us who do wear braids or locs, culture vultures and appropriating. 🙄
Watching you makes me miss my beautiful hair unraveled! I’m taking my dreadlocks down. They’re shoulder length ! I’m excited to see the growth!
I love your hair and I understand the process. Natural beauty all the way ❤❤❤❤❤!
Girl your hair is beautiful and it’s healthy. Don’t worry about what other people say.
I love her butter. It keeps my white hair moisturized.
She is so gorgeous
You're so beautiful...naturally. Will check out your hair care line❤💯
Your hair is absolutely beautiful❤
I'm with you on keep my hair constantly in a protective style. I don't care if it's boring. My hair has gotten so healthy and long from keeping it twisted up. Plus, I can style the twists in buns, a pony with bangs, or leave them down.
That is the truth with me too. People would say you should wear it out and I would say then it won’t be this long. I have done two or three big chops since then and now I’m back on my hair GROWTH journey, thank you for sharing. I love your content.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much !!
girl.... your hair is so pretty
You and your hair are absolutely gorgeous!!❤
That's got to be the most beautiful hair I have ever seen
Im a cosmetologist girl I get it to each there own textured hair is unique if you found a routine that works for you good job 😊
“I feel like it’s insane that we can NEVER wear our natural hair out”. Seriously ❤
You can though. Your hair just needs to be taken care of and given products that it actually responds to.
I wear mine all the time. What are you talking about?
@@charlenea.davidson1199 I really can’t explain it, like we wear our hair out but it’s constantly in a protective style. I don’t wear wigs or quick weaves, that’s not what I mean. I mostly keep my natural hair in plats. Wearing it loose just seems to lead to breakage in my opinion. In my profile you can see my natural hair. Sometimes I can’t tell if my hair wants oil or h20, so I just wear platted seems safer is all
@@charlenea.davidson1199 ALSO I Only wear my true natural state, ur hair looks straightened if this is u in ur profile. That would make a super big difference we are speaking of true state at all times
@jovonjulian1430 Soserious out is still natural. But, in this comment, I was referring to when I wear my Fro. Calm down, it not that serious.
You have beautiful hair!!!
Your hair is divine ❤️❤️❤️
She resembles that one actress on the Help. No shade intended.she is very pretty❤❤❤
You look so pretty
Maaaaaaaan if my hair looked like THAT id be showing that ahit off ALL THE TIME. freaking STUNNING
So pretty. It's like soothing watching your hair.
She so pretty with all that hair love it ❤❤❤
Idc what anyone says I believe hair growth is hereditary !! I been natural for 7 years and never got past neck and I wear protective styles as well
While that's not totally incorrect, it's not totally correct either. Hair growth has to do with your immune system, and what you eat/ take can either trigger your immune system to excrete waste through your scalp (yes, hair is waste excretion), or keep signaling your body to excrete it in other ways. Eating a diet that is conducive to creating healthy gut bacteria that communicates with your entire body would be a start. That would require extensive gi testing and labs, which most people don't get unless you have an illness. So, yea 😢
Hair growth is hereditary but if you can't grow your hair past you neck there are other problems. Good hair care, genetics and health leads to length retention. I thought my hair wouldn’t grow until I did this...
Products: Suave Keratin shampoo and conditioner, As I Am Leave in Conditioner, As I Am Jamaican Black Castor Oil Spray, Blue Magic Hair Grease and Eco Styler Argan Oil Gel
BE GENTLE with your hair
1. Shampoo and condition in the shower. Rinse you hair out very well.
2. Part your wet hair into four sections
3. With one section apply leave in conditioner throughly. Use JBCO spray. Detangle with a wide tooth comb or good brush.
4. Coat ends in grease. Apply a lil bit of grease down the hair. You can apply grease to your scalp if you wish.
5. Apply a little gel if you want
6. Braid your hair. I used to put 4 or 6 braids in each section. Now that my hair is longer I put 1 or 2.
7. Repeat for the other 3 sections.
I'd recommend washing your hair every 2 or 3 weeks. Leave your hair in the braids until the week or few days leading up to your wash day. If your hair feels dry at any point plan to wash your hair in the next few days. Yes you can refresh your hair with water and a little conditioner but I find it only helps me for a couple days.
Some people don't feel beautiful walking around with Felicia braids/Coi Leray/Travis Scott braids so you can throw on a wig or a head wrap. Just don't forget to check on your hair
BE GENTLE and give your hair some love. You got this!
@@jessimowthis is FALSE !!!! Hence why you can see someone on drugs in the street with thick healthy full air I work in a women’s shelters you’d be surprised!
I agree and disagree. Like you, my hair wasn't growing. I found out I was anaemic, so I started taking my iron supplements. Also, I changed my diet, exercise more often, and massage my scalp once a week. Now, my hair is at brastrap length 3 years after a big chop.
Used to think this too untill I decided to leave my protective style in for not less than 5moths...it's my second year and the hair is thriving
Do what's best for you girl cause clearly it's working for you.
I used to never wear my hair out either . But sis u should !!!! It’s so beautiful
This ish is so satisfying 😂😂😂😂 I LOVE WATCHING THE HAIR ROUTINES! Im here for it! 💪💪
Absolutely STUNNING ❤❤❤❤❤
honestly as a hispanic with naturally curly hair, some people with straight hair don’t understand how hard it is for us to maintain our naturally curly hair. I use to have people always say “it must suck to have curly hair” which really made me want to have straight hair so I was afraid to wear it down naturally. but now I must say I feel happy with the way my hair is. it looks beautiful and there no need to change it. you should feel the same way too ❤️
All Hispanics have straight hair gtfoh🙄🙄🙄 you don't know 5he definition of nappy and it showss
We have to remember it's hard to us bcus we're still actively learning how to take care of our hair, we got this!
To be quite fair, people with straight hair want curly hair and vice versa.
The grass is always greener on the other side I guess.
It's not mutually exclusive. I have executive dysfunction. Right now my hair is a big clump. Like fr it's like when u cook spaghetti but hold it so it sticks together... I have very fine hair and a lot of hair but it's straight. It still gets really tangled. So seeing videos like this I get curl envy and also think omg that must be a lot... I can't keep my straight hair straight! 😅
I have straight hair and used to always want curly hair. We all seem to want what the other one has. Lol Curly hair is beautiful! It’s sad how society has us all brainwashed into thinking beauty only exists in certain forms or standards. That’s wrong! Beauty comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. We should all learn to be proud of how God made us. Perfect through him.
I always keep my natural hair in a protective style . It’s so pointless to wear it out and I’m lazy when it comes to my natural hair 🤣.
That last part…… Boom
Right! It's more work to wear it out then just leaving it alone.
I am lazy too lol
That's me too!!!love people reaction when they see my hair out" YOU GOT HAIR"😂😂😂
I have a question. What does "wearing your hair out" mean. I'm sorry if it's a stupid question I'm just genuinely curious.
This was beautiful to watch! 🎉
I love love love your hair
Omg I love your hair!!
I don’t wear my hair out cuz it takes so much attention and product and product is money ion got no money 😂
You dont need a ton of product for your hair, you haven’t tried learning more about your hair so you make excuses to not do it. I have 4b hair bra strap length and only use water, leave in and a essential oil. You dont need all these creams and custards to take care of your hair
😂❤
Weaves are more expensive 😊
Try getting a big tub of leave in and either avocado or hemp seed oil :) the oils can be pricey up front but little goes a long way
@@Boss_etc853 what kind of essential oils have you liked?
That shower head on the hose is amazing! And I love that it's flat black finish.
YOU MADE THE ROSE LINE????? girl i be seeing it everywhere, literally everybody uses it omg not i HAVE to get me a couple bottles
Young people now take in what their people told them, and decided to do something about it. It's so commendable. They have access to things that I couldn't have dreamed of. Bull by the horns❤
Any! Gorgeous hair!!
Your hair is SO pretty. Those curls look very healthy
Listen I do the same thing, I’m not a content creator but I always get “wear your natural hair, stop wearing wigs” my hair grew from not touching it so much 😂
Just weirdos trying to control other people's body. You do you. If it makes you feel good and it's not hurting anyone else, they can kick rocks.
I never wear my hair out either. My family (mom, auntie, grandma), alway ask me to wear it out. But I got it healthy and long by leaving it alone!!!
U still should show it off tho sometimes ❤
So you grow it out just to look a bit at it , and then do a protective hairstyle all the time .
What’s the point of having it long then , if it’s always hidden ?
@@feli8117 I ask myself this all the time! Lol I just don’t know what to do with it. Plus I like keeping it under my wigs
I recently just stopped trimming my hair on a schedule! I used to do about once a month and about a month ago something in me clicked and I realized I’m cutting off healthy hair for no reason. Plus my hair grows slow so I would also cut off any new growth 😭😂
Beautiful 😍 hair, thanks for the cut tips!
Your hair is BEAUTIFUL!! ❤
I think it's great that you made a second channel for your haircare line. Promote this channel more on your primary channel, please. 🤗
😂
hi
Gurl I always never wear my hair out either and I have curly hair 😭
What difference does it make what texture your hair is
girl its your hair do whatever you want with it😊
Your hair is beautiful.
I dont trim at all. I wear low manipulation styles,moisturize and seal with oil. I use olaplex with that and game changer! I will try your line for my moisturize and seal process.
I stopped using oil cuz it did nothing for me, started washing weekly to retain moisture and whewww made all difference.
I understand wanting healthy hair and protecting it. Yet I will never understand what all that protecting is doing if I don’t wear it out anwyway. I want to see my hair and show off my hair. I love how it looks, how it feels and how it compliments every outfit every attitude and every occasion. To each their own ofcourse.
🤦♀️
You have the most beautiful hair ever!!!!
Wow those curls are gorgeous 🎉
As a white person with 1c hair, watching black people wash style and braid their natural hair is very relaxing for me. Natural black hair is sooo pretty, I wish I had hair like that
Same. ❤
Oh please .
@@Sawyer228cope
@@Sawyer228😂😂😂
hunny dont. The grass is not greener over here. There are so many factors that make taking care of hair native to black folks so much harder. I have armpit length 4b 4a hair, believe me when I tell you it takes hours if not days to wash, detangle and style it. This is why you will often see us wearing protective styles or wigs and keeping the same style in for a very long time. We have beautiful hair but it comes at a price. Wash day can actually become a full day for many of us.
It takes a long time for many of us to master what works for our hair and it differs from person to person, even if you have the same hair type it also differs each season and changes throughout our lifetime. Stay with your 1c hair. I am sure it has its own unique charm Love. God gave you what you could manage.
You and your hair are very beautiful. I wish you luck with your growth; in hair, business, and life! Thank you for sharing.
I was thinking the exact same thing!
The no oils no butters thing is definitely subjective. I started using hair grease when that trend was taking off and my hair has never felt softer or been easier to comb. People who are bothered by that just have way too much time on their hands.
Also i trim on a schedule because i dont use a blowdryer and i dont straighten my hair so its hard to tell when my hair really needs it
❤ and that’s why I love 💕 this channel. I love wearing my hair in protective stylings
Your hair is so so beautiful
I went through the drive thru at Arby’s and the guy had such beautiful natural hair in twists. I felt weird complementing him but I couldn’t not.
Girl , you have such a beautiful hair .
i literally LOVE your hair ❤❤
Luv your Hair & Beauty content❤🎉
The process you go through to maintain your beautiful hair is so cool to see. In my country I never see coiled hair. Thank you for educating people on the process.
The oil part!! They thought I was crazy for saying that, oils do nothing to my hair, almost dries my hair out most of the time 😂
Help! So oil no good.???
So oil is for after, it helps you retain moisture but if you put oil on dry hair it will repel all water keeping your hair hella dry So leave-in/mask then oil@@YasminMahnaz
This the same for me. Oil dried my hair out & makes my curly hair brittle & frizz faster. I'm 48 & it took me too long to realize this! So much hair care has oil in it, esp coconut oil & it causes tangles & doesn't help at all.
Your hair is beautiful. Keep doing what you’re doing and forget the haters.
You are so Beautiful and so love your curly hair❤❤❤
I LOVE your hair!❤
I'm naturally bleach blonde and I'm ABSOLUTELY JEALOUS, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS AND I WANT YOUR HAIR......JIST STUNNING 😍
I Stopped using Hair Products... then my Hair Grew Down my Back!😊
What do you use and how long do you keep it in a protective style?
@@phumeemkhulungu Soap and Grease.
Old School Style when all the girls in the school yard had long Swinging Pony Tails with Twisty Balls!😊 I Keep my Hair Braided or Twists unless going somewhere.
@@kimwilliams4951what kind of soap and what grease?
@@JazzyGirlyy Any Soap, Any Grease. Just plain and Simple!
I don't wear my natural hair out either and people always say "if i were you I'd never do braids". Yo😭get tf outta here😂
Right, they ain't the ones who got moisturized and detangle for hours a week
@@Uuber2Jupiter honestly. I take soooo long with wash day. No way i do that a million times a month. No way. As is i undid my freehand on Saturday, i couldn't deal with the fro today, i just twisted it. Weekend I'm going to plait myself some knotless braids after i was and trim.
I feel that, but have those natural hair days too! We gotta show them that we are out here and that we actually love it even though it takes a long ass time😅❤ I just called self-care
@@janatomlin1296 of course❤️I've been rocking my afro for a week now. And before i had a natural hairstyle for like 4weeks. And an afro before that. Now🥺today infact. I'm going to deep condition and then plait braids ☺️
You have beautiful hair! 😍😍♥️🙏
Your hair is beautiful!!!
Is it only me who noticed her wearing a watch while washing her hair
What about it
I think in a video, she said that the watch she was wearing was waterproof.
It bothered me a lot 🥺 the whole time I was looking at the watch getting wet.
Using less products and less attention works for my hair and face.
Lucky. If I don’t pay big $ I will break out.
The few months between trim is better than how long I take to decide to get it trimmed🤣 I trim my hair like once every year.
My mom and I love your hair products!❤
❤️❤️❤️
Your hair is so beautiful!!! Xxx
It's a whole workout fr.😂
im a white blonde haired teenager who is kinda just coming into her curly hair (about a year) and with some products my hair is about a 3b to 3c! i love my hair, but its not even at all. the back of my hair is veryyy curly but the front can sometimes have a few strands that are a bit straighter. i am a competitive swimmer and water polo player, so my hair is very dead, but i was wondering if there is anything i can do to fix my hair?