Anything will help Shelvonya’s funeral fund: angelink.com/fundraiser-public/3764f028-0429-4a8a-8276-dd1191deb26c Funeral 10/19 @ 12pm 5065 Soutel Dr Jacksonville, FL 32208 United States
God bless you. I'm glad to do my small part to help this family. My donation came in from my government name. Sending you love today and always. 🙏🏿😘 Thanks for doing all you do, to make us beautiful. 😘
Yes May in heavenly peace! 🙏🏾 I at the age I'm under the age of 50 by the time I was 35 been diagnosed with lupus at 18 add a stroke at 32 lost my vision had to learn how to walk talk feed myself I was on a tube feeding seven times to continue to put weight on lupus attack my brain and my kidneys but through faith in prayer and family I survived when people hear my story they always say oh you don't look like you have lupus oh my gosh how you keep going lupus don't have a look I tell people I'm glad I don't look like what I've been through all the time I pray her daughter finds peace and she gets a really good doctor and have herself checked as well and the stress from the loss of her son probably just threw her into complete remission because when I lost my sister that's when my health deteriorated they tried to diagnose me with a failure to thrive I was in the hospital CICU for 6 months but I am here today.
@@nomorecrocs and that is the trick of the devil they want you to not believe in prayer and in God God didn't tell us to be a fool or be fools yes we need wisdom and to take care of our health but never stop praying it does help I am here today as a living testament 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
She was very pretty and way too young to lose her life this early!! I checked out the fundraiser and saw that the money raised was like $38,000 with the goal of just $9,000!! Way to go!!
It's at $46000 now I've just tried to donate but I'm in the UK and it won't let me. I'm so glad people are helping her daughter that poor child has been through it, I helped nurse my dad through cancer and it was hard and I'm grown and I didn't loose my brother too. It's always the good ones 😢
This truly hit home. I'm 40, and currently fighting stage IV breast cancer myself. While I'm winning the fight, stage IV is still scary as hell. Sending love to her daughter 😢 RIP Shelvonya 🕊️ EDIT: Thank you so much for all of the loving, encouraging comments! I appreciate every single one! 💕 I thank God everyday that I continue to be triumphant over this disease.
Don't know why this story became an option in my browsing of RUclips. I'm glad it did. It is a real story of humanity, and you told it very well. Even though she sat there quietly, I felt there was a lot going on. She's at rest now. I hope things work out for her daughter. Condolences and respect to the family.
Continued prayers and condolences to you and her family. There will always be a piece of her with you. Those fond memories that were shared during the appointments. They were your bonding times.
I never met you before but Thank you for serving my aunt. This made me smile so BIG!!! Funds have been raised for the service and we’ll be posting info soon. ❤
Hello. My condolences. You are very welcome. Shelvonya was my girl. It was always a pleasure when she comes to her hair appointment. I am so happy that God present the opportunity for me to help🙏🏾
I was diagnosed with Lupus in 2019 (4 days before my wedding). Stress makes the symptoms worse so when people say don't involve them in foolishness cause it could k**l them, please believe them 😢 Love on your people while they are still here
So very true I wish my family could understand this I've been diagnosed now for 21 years in Lord knows it has been a journey but he has brought me through and then my footsteps when I was too weak 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am the splitting image of Shelvonya, we could have been twins. And I am also battling a disabling autoimmune disease. So this video really shook me in many ways. What a beautiful thing to do for her, to make her feel cared for, like she mattered, to help her smile and feel good about herself, even though she must have been going through so much. I truly understand. Women suffer the most from autoimmune diseases (lupus is one). This particular group of diseases very clearly manifests after sudden grief events and trauma. After a terrible shock like sudden, unexpected tragic death or other trauma, our bodies experience a massive loss of nutrients at a rapid rate which begins a downward spiral. If we are aware we might respond differently. When I looked at health trends recently I was a little surprised that more awareness hasn't been raised about the well established connection between grieving or traumatized women and autoimmune diseases. But I wasn't very surprised at the lack of public education campaigns about grief, trauma and illness because "black" women are more likely than other women to develop lupus and other autoimmune disorders. We are not a priority for prevention of disease. Instead, we have become a lucrative statistic and target for disease. We should be telling women and families that once there is a sudden or tragic death or signs of someone struggling with trauma, do not wait for disease to show up. Go into the best counselling program available to you to start acknowledging and processing your feelings (burying grief inside of us silently is the worst thing to do), de-stress, nourish your body as best you can, rest, give all the love and kindness you can to yourself, and focus on prevention of illness and saving your life. Shelvonya's daughter needs help to work through multiple grief events and her own trauma. Someone needs to look out for her. It is not enough for her to pray and receive condolences and donations. Her nutrition, ability to rest and sleep well, access to a trusted counsellor to deal with her feelings, and her ability to have hope in life getting better for her are very important now. She is vulnerable. It is said by Gabor Mate, a medical doctor who specializes in palliative care and trauma research, that grief from loss of a family member is a reliable predictor of someone in the family faling ill soon afterward. That someone is most often a woman. Rest in love, Mama Shelvonya. You ďon't have to be lost in grief anymore. No more suffering. Your life was not in vain. Protect your daughter at that higher level. Walk good and free in eternity.
@@Mia-yp9ydThere is also a huge link with low vitamin D, and gluten/dairy intolerance. If you have an autoimmune disease or are having stomach issues see your Dr. and look into it. I have been dairy and gluten free for 15/18 years now. I also take 3,000iu of vitamin D3 a day & D2 with my Dr's advice. This has helped me remain symptom free from my MS & my CKD3 with my doctors regularly testing me. Please see your doctor if you don't feel well and educate yourselves about your illness. I feel terrible for this woman & her daughter. Life is so unfair sometimes. 😢🙏
They did my mom the same way, we couldn’t believe what they did, knowing they knew better, we were robbed, but thank God my sisters and I were able to work and come up with the money to bury my mom, Rest Peacefully mom💐🕊️
They should have explained the difference but I know there was a point and time if you had a pre- existing condition like Cancer they wouldn't cover you.
My mama is dealing with the same 41yrs and nearly all of her older clients have passed 😢 a few 90+ hanging on and still going to get their hair done religiously every week 🥰
May God bless you for your kindness, thoughtfulness and generosity of spirit. May Shelvonya be in eternal peace (she's with her son now) and may her surviving daughter find strength and peace throughout this time.
Sometimes we complain about our circumstances and are reminded that we don’t have a thing to complain about… that we should be thanking God for our little problems. Praying her daughter has peace, comfort and healing as she lays her mother to rest 🙏😢and that Shelvonya RIP in our Heaven Father’s hands 🙏
I worked with a woman who drove passed a horrible car accident and she said she remembered thinking that her mom had that same car. Unfortunately, it was her mom and sister in that accident. They were hit head on by a drunk driver and killed. 💔 All of us were so incredibly devastated for her.
It is most certainly is. My Dad and my Oldest Brother past within a month of each other. I was devastated. My youngest Brother passed a year before them.
I am the splitting image of Shelvonya, we could have been twins. And I am also battling a disabling autoimmune disease. So this video really shook me in many ways. What a beautiful thing to do for her, to make her feel cared for, like she mattered, to help her smile and feel good about herself, even though she must have been going through so much. I truly understand. Women suffer the most from autoimmune diseases (lupus is one). This particular group of diseases very clearly manifests after sudden grief events and trauma. After a terrible shock like sudden, unexpected tragic death or other trauma, our bodies experience a massive loss of nutrients at a rapid rate which begins a downward spiral. If we are aware we might respond differently. When I looked at health trends recently I was a little surprised that more awareness hasn't been raised about the well established connection between grieving or traumatized women and autoimmune diseases. But I wasn't very surprised at the lack of public education campaigns about grief, trauma and illness because "black" women are more likely than other women to develop lupus and other autoimmune disorders. We are not a priority for prevention of disease. Instead, we have become a lucrative statistic and target for disease. We should be telling women and families that once there is a sudden or tragic death or signs of someone struggling with trauma, do not wait for disease to show up. Go into the best counselling program available to you to start acknowledging and processing your feelings (burying grief inside of us silently is the worst thing to do), de-stress, nourish your body as best you can, rest, give all the love and kindness you can to yourself, and focus on prevention of illness and saving your life. Shelvonya's daughter needs help to work through multiple grief events and her own trauma. Someone PLEASE look out for her. It is not enough to just pray and receive condolences and donations. Her nutrition, ability to rest and sleep well, access to a trusted counsellor to deal with her feelings, and her ability to have hope in life getting better for her are very important now. She is vulnerable. It is said by Dr. Gabor Mate, a medical doctor who is experienced in palliative care and trauma, that grief from loss of a family member is a reliable predictor of someone in the family faling ill soon afterward. That someone is most often a woman. Rest in love, Mama Shelvonya. You ďon't have to be lost in grief anymore. No more suffering. Your life was not in vain. Protect your daughter at that higher level. Walk good and free in eternity.
The daughter needs to investigate. Insurance companies are notorious for withholding payments on a technicality. She needs go after the Insurance advisor and seek legal assistance.
I agree because what kind of policy is strictly accidental? Normally, that would be a supplement to the original policy. And what kind of insurance company would've taken her on when she had pre-existing detrimental health issues? Sounds like they scammed her, knowing damn well that they had no plans on covering her.
@@OriginalPrincess32 i agree. she was 100% scammed. what awful people to do that to struggling people. and this family can't be the only ones they've done this to.
@@Lovestrengthandpeace my condolences 🙏🏾 please tell the family that I'm praying for you all's peace and good spirits for her to look down upon from Heaven to enjoy!🥰☺️❤️💗💓🙏🏾
Wow this actually happened to my hubby, he called me and said “I’m going to be late there was an accident and I’m helping the people sort it out because a car was totaled with someone in it”. Then hours later for the first time I seen him balling crying, because he found out one of the people in the accident was his first cousin who died on the scene. He didn’t even know it. The body was apparently unrecognizable😢.
Upon reading your story, I believe that God sent him there to be with his cousin during his transition. May he rest in peace, my condolences to your family
You know who ever sold her that policy knew damn well what she was asking for and needing and they sold it to her anyway! Damn devil. Shame on that horrible insurance person! As a cancer nurse I cry all the time! Cancer is the most evil thing I have ever seen!
@@Schrodingers_KatGod never said life would be problem free. God lets things happen to people because he never said life would be pain free or problem free, our trials and tribulations are done to bring us closer to god. Her going through what she went through brought her back to heaven. From heaven to earth, and back again. That's the life cycle if you believe in god and do well by him.
God loves you and He will never leave you without His arms of protection around you.🌿❤️✝️🌿 Praying 🙏🏾 you will seek his perfect peace 🕊️ and eternal love.!! 🌿💖👑🌿
@@carolbeatty8852, dear whoever you were posting this for will probably not see it because you posted to my post. You will need to copy and paste it as you comment and not a response to my comment. I think your post was meant for Ms Carla.
You never know what people are going through. Kindness is key. Your words can change things. I'm a Survivor 3 brain surgeries and stroke life support 10 just the last 9 years. I smile in spite of. REST WELL BEAUTIFUL SISTER YOU FOUGHT WELL!!!! ❤❤❤ PRAYERS FOR ALL!
Lord, why did I see this before bed. I'm in tears. Life is so funny. I am looking at this beautiful, seemingly young lady, getting her hair done. Although she seemed fragile and sick, that style gave her a moment of youth and beauty for the last time. 😢 May she R.I.P
She is so beautiful. I know the pain her daughter is going through my mother died of lupus and carelessness of doctors and nurses at 55 3 years ago they accidentally put contaminated water in her machine and it gave her a bacteria in her lungs she could not get rid of I pray her daughter to be comforted and have strength to get through this. My mother had nothing because of her sickness so I had to beg for help and my Aunts have lots of money but they didn’t care. Me and my kids are still trying to get life together after her death. I am donating because I truly understand.
You can't really sue these doctors, hospitals, nurses or anyone in the medical field unless it is negligence with proof. As long as anyone receives standard of care, and everything is documented as treated you can't really go after anyone. The medical review board needs to give their review after case presented and if standard if care was provided the nurses and doctors etc are not held responsible. It's a legal way to khil people by meddicine nothing more.
I remember when they tried to sell me the accidental also! When you’ve had cancer you can’t get life insurance, unless you pay a premium monthly. Condolences 💐
I believe her when she said “when she looks good, she feels good.” She was so drained getting styled. Then as soon as you finished she whipped that mask off and gave the biggest smile to herself!! 😄 As a hairstylist, this has me in tears. I’m glad they were able to get donations.. thank you for sharing Shelvonya’s story with us. May her soul now rest. ❤🙏🏽
I’m sitting here watching. To be praying for the accident victims not realizing it was her son. Then her own diagnosis. I pray that God will bless her daughter that she never has to worry financially. More than what she could ever ask or think. This touch my soul. RIP beautiful queen.
I am from Africa Kenya and i have nothing to contribute but my prayes goes to her daughter, family and friends,may her beautiful soul rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Can i just say in all this sadness its lovely that her daughter thought to ring you and tell you her mum had passed. Obviously you made her feel very special ❤
I hope her daughter gets more than enough for her Mom and herself as well. Shelvonya Wear your Wings Proudly.. Your Job here is done Queen.. Rest Easy. 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
I went to see what I could donate… she’s at over 3x her desired amount and I’m so proud to see a community really step up and show out for such a beautiful soul. I hope she’s huggin her baby boy so tight while they watch over her daughter. Much love, Miss Shelvonya. RIH. ❤️
@@TheHairGuruCarla Hi I try to donate but for some reason I was not able to ,as when I try to add my zip code it wouldn’t accept it . I don’t know if is because I live outside the USA .
You can't fully know what a person means to you until they are gone... Carla you played such an important role in this person's life.... a unique roll... thank you so much for sharing and thank her daughter for the permission....
The video was recommended to me. I had never heard of this channel before. God brought me here. It’s lovely what you did for this family. I subscribed and donated. Keep being a fantastic human!
Even though the donation goal was already reached and surpassed, I still decided to put in a contribution to ensure that Ms. Shelvonya receives the best celebration of life as possible and to ensure the financial security of her daughter. I really hope Ms. Shelvonya's soul is happy and at peace and the her daughter is able to continue on into a bright future in which she remains happy and healthy.
It was meant for you to share this story to your platform..where the insurance company failed her, you were able to make a way. I know her daughter is beyond grateful. U r an angel.
I’m so sorry, Carla. I believe your client is smiling again because she’s with her sweet baby boy. Wow, so young and pretty. I also have Lupus. At this time I feel we have to help her sweet baby girl because she’s left behind with grief and the expenses . I am definitely donating. Stay strong, sis.
15:07 That Beautiful Smile.🙌🏽🙌🏽 I KNOW she is Resting in the Presence of Christ with her son!!! No more Pain, No more Sickness, No more suffering!! Thank you Lord Jesus for Word and Promise that weeping may endure for a night, but Joy, YOUR JOY will come in the morning! Keep her daught and family and loved ones in Perfect Peace 🕊️🕊️ From Labor to Reward, she fought the Good Fight!!! She kept the Faith! She finished her race. God Bless you for sharing such a personal moment with the rest of the world 🙏🙏
😢 this had me heartbroken , GOD bless her baby. I loss my Mother in 2019 while in my 30’s and I’m STILL not ok . May GOD give the Family comfort knowing she is sitting at his MIGHTY Throne , no more pain or sickness 🙏🏽🙏🏽
So sad😭 I remember when my grandma was going through chemo and lost her hair. You can see the defeat in her face because she couldn't wear her hair like she has been for decades. But then you see them have a glimpse of hope when their hair grows back. They just want to do something so simple like get their hair done and feel pretty again. It may be a temporary smile but any smile is worth seeing even if it's the last. If people can, please get your kids at an early age some life insurance so that their kids won't have to stress about burying them later in life. I'm grateful that my mom did for me because I don't have to worry about it now should something happen to me. Every year she gives us the talk about who the insurance policy is with/where we can find the paper work should something happen to her.
I dont even know what to say. Im literally in tears. She was so young and still had a daughter. My dad passed from brain cancer so I really empathize with her daughter to loose her mom and brother. Im praying for her daughter. Her mom seems like a sweet, gentle, woman of faith. I think the insurance company knew it would be hard to insure her at a price she could afford with pre-existing conditions so they just insured her without even letting her know the terms. Thank you for sharing her story. Im donating what I can.❤❤ Rest in Peace 🙏🏼 🕊
Hello thank you for your kind words. Yes I am thinking the same about the person that wrote the insurance policy. I think he intentionally deceived her knowing it was the wrong policy just so he/she can make a sale and that is so sad. But God is great and he will take care of the situation 🙏🏾
@@TheHairGuruCarlaYou're exactly right, and that person needs to have their license suspended! I am a licensed life insurance agent, and Shelvonya could've gotten an affordable final expense policy through a company named Ethos, but not many agents are certified through them like I am. This really bothers me.
@@teijaflink2226Right. Under many circumstances, people with terminal illnesses are deemed uninsurable but there are a few companies who offer them life insurance, but might cost a little bit more.
I too had cancer and by the grace of God l over came this horrible disease.. l feel bad for this poor woman, she got hit so many times. Shes at peace now, no more pain watching over her daughter. May she rest in Peace ❤❤❤
Thyroid cancer. Didn't know l had it. I would see.myself in the mirror and wasnt till l went to my Dr l saw a bump on my throat, l didn't pay attention as l thought l talked to much. The horror was being told l had cancer The first thing that comes to mind how far has it spread. And l'm gonna die. I had it removed. They don't tell U how bad Ur gonna feel after. I threw up alot. Am on meds for to checked my Dr. Plus I gained a lot of weight. Cuz my thyroid wasn't working.
Oh my Lord. This right here made me cry fa real. I am 38 yrs old, i have Heart failure and Graves Disease and some other issues. Hearing this woman's story gave me strength and the will to want to keep living for my children. Oh this hurts, I am for sure going to donate something to her daughter, I know God will make a way. May her beautiful soul rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️😢😢😢😢
As a professional stylist, my heart goes out to the client's family and to you as her stylist. People don't understand the emotional and psychological toll it takes on the stylist of the deceased she or he has been servicing for a time. I pray for your strength in the LORD as you continue on with your profession because stylists are NOT just styling hair. Still, we are counselors, encouraging and inspiring people who take pride in our craft but also care about our regular clients as family members. May she RIP! Smh
My dad used to work for an insurance company. They are NOTORIOUS for scamming people. I hope the daughter can talk to a lawyer and investigate further. Those SOB will do anything to not pay.
😔😔🙏🏾 2 yrs ago i lost my 21 yr old son to Sickle Cell 😔☹️💔 within that yr & a half i had lost my mom, my unc (which was my father figure), my big bro then my son 💔 all back to back smh, idk how im still making it, pls pray for me 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@nikkid1537Sorry for your loss,and please don't lose hope. You are here for a reason,and keep your family alive in your heart. I hope with time,you feel better.
Thank you🙏🏿 I lost one of my best friends to lupus. She suffered for at least 10 yrs before passing away. I miss her like crazy, but I find comfort in knowing that she's at peace and has no more pain to deal with.
Thank you. Lost my mom in 2020 to metastatic lung cancer. She was only 55 when she was diagnosed. She was still healthy, at a healthy weight, still going to the gym, always got her check ups. By the time we knew something was terribly wrong, it was too late to do much to stop it. It still doesn’t feel real. It rocked everyone who knew her because she was so vibrant and energetic up until the day she was hospitalized. You really never know the turns life will take. I spun out and lost myself in those ten months of caring for her until she passed and a couple of years following her death but praise The Most High for keeping me and restoring my faith in Him and my sanity. 🙏🏾
Omg.. same exact thing happened to me.. my mom was paying for accidental insurance instead of health. Left the world thinking all 4 of us would be taken care of. We had to scrap up change to bury my mother after she passed of heart failure.
I absolutely love the compassion and care you showed this client. I'm a longtime nurse and I promise you, I've worked with some who could learn a lot from you. You're also very talented. No wonder she came to you. ❤
I want to share my story when i was 19 my fiance he died in a car accident 2 weeks before the wedding and at the time i was dealing with something bigger my dad was dignosed with an agressive skin cancer i feel broken inside my dad and my fiance love my hair was 4 ft long i decide cut it off and sell it was i dont know its a pain that still in my heart cause nobody knows what just simple things like brush your hair could mean good bless that women she was a hero so strong
I will definitely share and donate. I need to reassess myself complaining about anything, my heart is broken for her and her family! 😢Be well daughter 🙏🏾❤️
It’s very disappointing that insurance companies do this. This happened to my mom and she was very educated and on top of her things. She had 3 policies and they were suppose to be an accidental death add on. I hope those that do those things FAIL because that’s really sad. I was blessed to be able to cover her expenses but knowing she thought she was securing life after her passing and they did this is just infuriating.
I'm so sorry for your loss. As a licensed life insurance agent, I can tell you that it's the fault of the actual agent who deceptively sold the policy...the insurance company is simply acting on the signed contract. Also, this conduct is grounds for license suspension or revocation, but families must report the agent's misconduct to that state's Commissioner of Insurance where they're licensed.
@@melaninmoxiellc963As a former life insurance agent as well; I can tell you that agents are covered by errors & ommissions insurance. There may be possible recourse to sue if the agent acted fraudulently. It may be worth checking into.
It’s really sad that she was faced with so many challenges in life. Her fund is currently over 30K. I’m adding something and pray that she can properly be laid to rest 🙏🏽🕊️❤
Awww Carla praying for her family, daughter & yourself as well. I just loss two of my clients & it’s truly hard to build such a bond with someone over the years for so long & then within a blink of an eye they’re gone. 😢🙏🏽❤️
My mother was diagnosed with lupus in 1993. She succumbed to it in December 2004. God is good...and bless the family that she has left behind. May the peace of God fall on her family and all who loved her. Thank you for being a blessing in her life. The women that go to the salon that I go to are very special to me. My stylist and her clients are like family. Unfortunately, we just lost a dear friend of our as well. Stylists become family over the years...and you were definitely a friend to her. Condolences to you as well, sister.
She was so naturally beautiful! I’m so sorry she had to go through that and her daughter. I pray her daughter heals and gets all the support she needs. I will definitely be donating. You Carla are the type of stylist all ladies need! ❤
I cried through this whole video. This is so very heartbreaking. Rest in peace sweet lady, you endured much. I will donate to help her daughter, and I will keep her in my prayers for her to be comforted ,and to be strengthened at this most difficult time in her life.
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Anything will help Shelvonya’s funeral fund:
angelink.com/fundraiser-public/3764f028-0429-4a8a-8276-dd1191deb26c
Funeral 10/19 @ 12pm
5065 Soutel Dr
Jacksonville, FL 32208
United States
thank you to everyone for you’re sweet and kind words ❤
@@jakaramarshallthank you for allowing your Mom's story to be shared. My deepest condolences to you and your family. May God grant you peace🙌🏽🙏🏽❤
Carla please give us an update at a later date
God bless you. I'm glad to do my small part to help this family. My donation came in from my government name. Sending you love today and always. 🙏🏿😘
Thanks for doing all you do, to make us beautiful. 😘
@@jakaramarshall My condolences to you and your family for your loss. Peace, love, comfort and strength. 🙏🏾
Stroke, lupus, lost her son, kidney failure and cancer! Jesus..this poor woman, may she rest in peace 😢
Sad to say something spiritual was after this lady it seems. May she rest in the heavens 🙏🏾🕊 Stay praying over yourselves and familiies ladies ✝️
Goes to show just because someone looks beautiful doesn’t mean they’re not dealing with unseen illness. May she have eternal peace and comfort. 🙏🏽
@@serene2414 the prayers are NOT working, sad to say, we need to STOP praying and get knowledge/wisdom on how to care for our health
Yes May in heavenly peace! 🙏🏾 I at the age I'm under the age of 50 by the time I was 35 been diagnosed with lupus at 18 add a stroke at 32 lost my vision had to learn how to walk talk feed myself I was on a tube feeding seven times to continue to put weight on lupus attack my brain and my kidneys but through faith in prayer and family I survived when people hear my story they always say oh you don't look like you have lupus oh my gosh how you keep going lupus don't have a look I tell people I'm glad I don't look like what I've been through all the time I pray her daughter finds peace and she gets a really good doctor and have herself checked as well and the stress from the loss of her son probably just threw her into complete remission because when I lost my sister that's when my health deteriorated they tried to diagnose me with a failure to thrive I was in the hospital CICU for 6 months but I am here today.
@@nomorecrocs and that is the trick of the devil they want you to not believe in prayer and in God God didn't tell us to be a fool or be fools yes we need wisdom and to take care of our health but never stop praying it does help I am here today as a living testament 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
She was very pretty and way too young to lose her life this early!! I checked out the fundraiser and saw that the money raised was like $38,000 with the goal of just $9,000!! Way to go!!
Thank you for the update! I'll be praying for her daughter during this tough time. God bless her family.
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It's at $46000 now I've just tried to donate but I'm in the UK and it won't let me. I'm so glad people are helping her daughter that poor child has been through it, I helped nurse my dad through cancer and it was hard and I'm grown and I didn't loose my brother too. It's always the good ones 😢
She gained her heavenly body ❤
I comes off when u shampoo her hair
This truly hit home.
I'm 40, and currently fighting stage IV breast cancer myself. While I'm winning the fight, stage IV is still scary as hell. Sending love to her daughter 😢 RIP Shelvonya 🕊️
EDIT: Thank you so much for all of the loving, encouraging comments! I appreciate every single one! 💕 I thank God everyday that I continue to be triumphant over this disease.
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Prayers for you beautiful. 🙏🏾❤
Keep praying! Get second and third opinions ❤
Keep fighting 🙏🏽 praying 🙏🏽 that you win your battle in Jesus name Amen
Don't know why this story became an option in my browsing of RUclips.
I'm glad it did. It is a real story of humanity, and you told it very well.
Even though she sat there quietly, I felt there was a lot going on. She's at rest now. I hope things work out for her daughter.
Condolences and respect to the family.
Yes , I found this RUclips channel the same way.
Continued prayers and condolences to you and her family. There will always be a piece of her with you. Those fond memories that were shared during the appointments. They were your bonding times.
God bless her daughter love ones and friends may her and her sons soul rest in peace ❤🙏🙏🙏
You can see her pain in her eyes. I lost my 12 year old son to a bike accident. It’s been 24 years and I still grieve every day on the inside.
I'm so sorry ❤
😓😓😞😞✝RIP little man
So sorry for your loss😢
I'm so deeply sorry
what a tragedy, sending you many hugs
I never met you before but Thank you for serving my aunt. This made me smile so BIG!!!
Funds have been raised for the service and we’ll be posting info soon. ❤
Hello. My condolences. You are very welcome. Shelvonya was my girl. It was always a pleasure when she comes to her hair appointment. I am so happy that God present the opportunity for me to help🙏🏾
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You made her look beautiful rest in peace 🙏🥹🙏🌸
Sincerest Condolences and prayers to your entire family! 🕊🙏🏾
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I was diagnosed with Lupus in 2019 (4 days before my wedding). Stress makes the symptoms worse so when people say don't involve them in foolishness cause it could k**l them, please believe them 😢
Love on your people while they are still here
AMEN And AMEN
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I was diagnosed with Lupus in 1991 while pregnant with my only child. I was only pregnant for 6 months/26 weeks.
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So very true I wish my family could understand this I've been diagnosed now for 21 years in Lord knows it has been a journey but he has brought me through and then my footsteps when I was too weak 🙏🏾🙏🏾
We really need to understand how trauma is so linked to illnesses. Bless you for being some light in her life!!!! ❤❤❤ light ✨️ she is.
Yes, a lot of autoimmune diseases are diagnosed after majorly stressful events.
I am the splitting image of Shelvonya, we could have been twins. And I am also battling a disabling autoimmune disease. So this video really shook me in many ways.
What a beautiful thing to do for her, to make her feel cared for, like she mattered, to help her smile and feel good about herself, even though she must have been going through so much. I truly understand.
Women suffer the most from autoimmune diseases (lupus is one). This particular group of diseases very clearly manifests after sudden grief events and trauma. After a terrible shock like sudden, unexpected tragic death or other trauma, our bodies experience a massive loss of nutrients at a rapid rate which begins a downward spiral. If we are aware we might respond differently.
When I looked at health trends recently I was a little surprised that more awareness hasn't been raised about the well established connection between grieving or traumatized women and autoimmune diseases. But I wasn't very surprised at the lack of public education campaigns about grief, trauma and illness because "black" women are more likely than other women to develop lupus and other autoimmune disorders. We are not a priority for prevention of disease. Instead, we have become a lucrative statistic and target for disease.
We should be telling women and families that once there is a sudden or tragic death or signs of someone struggling with trauma, do not wait for disease to show up. Go into the best counselling program available to you to start acknowledging and processing your feelings (burying grief inside of us silently is the worst thing to do), de-stress, nourish your body as best you can, rest, give all the love and kindness you can to yourself, and focus on prevention of illness and saving your life.
Shelvonya's daughter needs help to work through multiple grief events and her own trauma. Someone needs to look out for her. It is not enough for her to pray and receive condolences and donations. Her nutrition, ability to rest and sleep well, access to a trusted counsellor to deal with her feelings, and her ability to have hope in life getting better for her are very important now. She is vulnerable.
It is said by Gabor Mate, a medical doctor who specializes in palliative care and trauma research, that grief from loss of a family member is a reliable predictor of someone in the family faling ill soon afterward. That someone is most often a woman.
Rest in love, Mama Shelvonya. You ďon't have to be lost in grief anymore. No more suffering. Your life was not in vain. Protect your daughter at that higher level. Walk good and free in eternity.
Well said ❤🕊💖🙏
@@Mia-yp9ydThere is also a huge link with low vitamin D, and gluten/dairy intolerance. If you have an autoimmune disease or are having stomach issues see your Dr. and look into it. I have been dairy and gluten free for 15/18 years now. I also take 3,000iu of vitamin D3 a day & D2 with my Dr's advice. This has helped me remain symptom free from my MS & my CKD3 with my doctors regularly testing me. Please see your doctor if you don't feel well and educate yourselves about your illness. I feel terrible for this woman & her daughter. Life is so unfair sometimes. 😢🙏
@Mia-yp9yd Bless you and this wonderful information you bestowed on us. So glad we are making this connection now. I will look up Gabor Mate.
she looks like she’s 25 …
even with being sick, she was a beautiful soul … prayers for her family as she was called home all too soon
She does look in her 20s beautiful lady it’s heartbreaking x
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@@kinsley7777 So very true.
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Now y'all know she doesn't look like she's in her 20s.
RIP Shelvonya😢. 40 is so young...
My condolences to you and her daughter and family.
My mom past away at age 45 of liver cancer ,she never drank,she left my dad and my 9mo.old brother plus a sister,2 more brothers.
This is heartbreaking. I'm glad you were able to make her feel good one last time.
Agreed ❤
She looks beautiful God bless you for your gift to her. May the peace of the Lord be with her family and friends
Like 1000.
Yes, her hair was done beautifully 😍 May she rest🙏🏾🕊
Amen and Amen
The insurance agent should have never sold her that policy. They should be ashamed of themselves. RIP beautiful Queen. Prayers for her daughter.
They did my mom the same way, we couldn’t believe what they did, knowing they knew better, we were robbed, but thank God my sisters and I were able to work and come up with the money to bury my mom, Rest Peacefully mom💐🕊️
They should have explained the difference but I know there was a point and time if you had a pre- existing condition like Cancer they wouldn't cover you.
Right,they knew what they were doing,just sad they took advantage of her mom,Rip Sweetheart!
They did it to get free money they should just give it to them for her funeral
Would be the right thing to do❤❤❤
Some insurance agents are scammers
I was a Hairdresser for 40 Years. I have grieved for many.
My mama is dealing with the same 41yrs and nearly all of her older clients have passed 😢 a few 90+ hanging on and still going to get their hair done religiously every week 🥰
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Poor little thing. She looked so tired while she was getting her hair done. And so young! God Bless Her.
Hello. Yes she was.🥲
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RIP queen your flying high know with the man upstairs 😢
May God bless you for your kindness, thoughtfulness and generosity of spirit. May Shelvonya be in eternal peace (she's with her son now) and may her surviving daughter find strength and peace throughout this time.
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Sometimes we complain about our circumstances and are reminded that we don’t have a thing to complain about… that we should be thanking God for our little problems. Praying her daughter has peace, comfort and healing as she lays her mother to rest 🙏😢and that Shelvonya RIP in our Heaven Father’s hands 🙏
Amen Amen Amen well said AMEN 🙏💜
Thank you so true. I was just thinking about my own complaining.
Yessss. I was just thinking that. May our Lord and Savior, hold her loving daughter tightly in His Spiritual arms.
Amen 🙏🏿 ❤ GOD PLEASE BE WITH THIS YOUNG LADY DURING THIS ROUGH TIME! God you a able and only you, can help this baby
I cried reading this, because I was thinking about now fortunate I am, Yet I complain. This is very sobering. I pray for her family, may she RIP🙏🏽
She looks absolutely gorgeous 😍....RIP QUEEN gone way too soon 😢 💔 😔
I worked with a woman who drove passed a horrible car accident and she said she remembered thinking that her mom had that same car. Unfortunately, it was her mom and sister in that accident. They were hit head on by a drunk driver and killed. 💔 All of us were so incredibly devastated for her.
So tragic
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@@kateshadysart3236 truly :(
@@Selanium That's like a nightmare. That's the last thing people think when driving by an accident
Oh Lord. I can’t finish this video
This is truly sad. To have your mom and brother pass away in such a short time apart is devastating. I pray for the daughter's strength and peace
True
It is most certainly is. My Dad and my Oldest Brother past within a month of each other. I was devastated. My youngest Brother passed a year before them.
I can definitely relate… I lost my mother, brother, and stepbrother very close together; may she rest in peace eternally.
@@msbelindab5231i am so sorry for your loss
Amen
I think... She wanted you to be her stylist for her funeral. You did such a blessed thing. Big Blessings to her little girl. ❤
I am the splitting image of Shelvonya, we could have been twins. And I am also battling a disabling autoimmune disease. So this video really shook me in many ways.
What a beautiful thing to do for her, to make her feel cared for, like she mattered, to help her smile and feel good about herself, even though she must have been going through so much. I truly understand.
Women suffer the most from autoimmune diseases (lupus is one). This particular group of diseases very clearly manifests after sudden grief events and trauma. After a terrible shock like sudden, unexpected tragic death or other trauma, our bodies experience a massive loss of nutrients at a rapid rate which begins a downward spiral. If we are aware we might respond differently.
When I looked at health trends recently I was a little surprised that more awareness hasn't been raised about the well established connection between grieving or traumatized women and autoimmune diseases. But I wasn't very surprised at the lack of public education campaigns about grief, trauma and illness because "black" women are more likely than other women to develop lupus and other autoimmune disorders. We are not a priority for prevention of disease. Instead, we have become a lucrative statistic and target for disease.
We should be telling women and families that once there is a sudden or tragic death or signs of someone struggling with trauma, do not wait for disease to show up. Go into the best counselling program available to you to start acknowledging and processing your feelings (burying grief inside of us silently is the worst thing to do), de-stress, nourish your body as best you can, rest, give all the love and kindness you can to yourself, and focus on prevention of illness and saving your life.
Shelvonya's daughter needs help to work through multiple grief events and her own trauma. Someone PLEASE look out for her. It is not enough to just pray and receive condolences and donations. Her nutrition, ability to rest and sleep well, access to a trusted counsellor to deal with her feelings, and her ability to have hope in life getting better for her are very important now. She is vulnerable.
It is said by Dr. Gabor Mate, a medical doctor who is experienced in palliative care and trauma, that grief from loss of a family member is a reliable predictor of someone in the family faling ill soon afterward. That someone is most often a woman.
Rest in love, Mama Shelvonya. You ďon't have to be lost in grief anymore. No more suffering. Your life was not in vain. Protect your daughter at that higher level. Walk good and free in eternity.
The daughter needs to investigate. Insurance companies are notorious for withholding payments on a technicality. She needs go after the Insurance advisor and seek legal assistance.
Excellent advice. You are absolutely correct ❤❤
I agree because what kind of policy is strictly accidental? Normally, that would be a supplement to the original policy. And what kind of insurance company would've taken her on when she had pre-existing detrimental health issues? Sounds like they scammed her, knowing damn well that they had no plans on covering her.
@@OriginalPrincess32 i agree. she was 100% scammed. what awful people to do that to struggling people. and this family can't be the only ones they've done this to.
Yes indeed, That's exactly what I thought, but what satan meant for evil, God will turn for that Daughters good, In Jesus Name❤
That's okay, God will deal with them. I pray that an attorney will help her daughter. Insurance companies are legalized extotionists.
Sleep in peace cousin🙏🏾 u did amazing on her hair thank you for sharing. I’ll always come back to this video to see her 🤍🤍🤍
Many Condolences love. Hope she gets a beautiful send off. 🌷🥀🌹🌷.
Sending my condolences
Sending my condolences to you dear and the family at this very painful time🪽 🤍🪽🕯
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@@Lovestrengthandpeace my condolences 🙏🏾 please tell the family that I'm praying for you all's peace and good spirits for her to look down upon from Heaven to enjoy!🥰☺️❤️💗💓🙏🏾
Sometimes our healing doesn't come on this side of eternity, but knowing that God is the great healer & restorer gives me hope! My condolences! 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏾💜💯
Amen sister
Amen
Amen❤
Amen. No more sickness or pain or worry. ☺️😌
That hairstyle was beautiful she loved it you got a smile out of her.
Wow this actually happened to my hubby, he called me and said “I’m going to be late there was an accident and I’m helping the people sort it out because a car was totaled with someone in it”. Then hours later for the first time I seen him balling crying, because he found out one of the people in the accident was his first cousin who died on the scene. He didn’t even know it. The body was apparently unrecognizable😢.
Hello. Omg. Yes that was very devastating. My condolences 🙏🏾
@@TheHairGuruCarla Yes, it was so sad and unfortunate. Thank you for your kind words and condolences. 🙏🏾
Oh my GOD!!! 😮 truly tragic!
Upon reading your story, I believe that God sent him there to be with his cousin during his transition. May he rest in peace, my condolences to your family
@@DarthFurie I completely agree!! I appreciate that, thank you so much!
I lost my mum to cancer just 4 weeks ago, I can empathise with her daughter. Rest in peace. Thank you for giving her one last lovely hairstyle. ❤
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@jasminspepperpot8156 May she rest in peace, sorry for your loss!🙏🏼🕊
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I don't know why good people suffer so much , that's not fair , ❤
Always wondered the same
Life isn't always fair, that's for sure.💛
I aske myself the same thing why
The Book of Job helps me to get it, sometimes...
@@indriadrayton1132oh plz
May this beautiful woman rest in peace
You are the definition of what it means to be a hairstylist!
You know who ever sold her that policy knew damn well what she was asking for and needing and they sold it to her anyway! Damn devil. Shame on that horrible insurance person! As a cancer nurse I cry all the time! Cancer is the most evil thing I have ever seen!
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Thats 💯treu what u saying thy knew BUT GOD IS INTENTION 12:51 AL NEVER FAILING🙏🔥👌🔥MAY HER SOUL REST IN ITERNAL PEACE 🙏
@@NadleyIsaacs Really? God? The one that gave her stroke, lupus, failing kidney, and breast cancer, all while she was still young? That God?
Yes, my thoughrs exactly. Someone took advantage of her in her vulnerable state because I'm sure she said why she was getting that policy.
@@Schrodingers_KatGod never said life would be problem free. God lets things happen to people because he never said life would be pain free or problem free, our trials and tribulations are done to bring us closer to god. Her going through what she went through brought her back to heaven. From heaven to earth, and back again. That's the life cycle if you believe in god and do well by him.
This is so sad, and she looks young to have gone through so much. I love the hairstyle you gave her. She was beautiful. RIP Shelvonya.
God loves you and He will never leave you without His arms of protection around you.🌿❤️✝️🌿
Praying 🙏🏾 you will seek his perfect peace 🕊️ and eternal love.!! 🌿💖👑🌿
@@carolbeatty8852, dear whoever you were posting this for will probably not see it because you posted to my post. You will need to copy and paste it as you comment and not a response to my comment. I think your post was meant for Ms Carla.
You never know what people are going through. Kindness is key. Your words can change things. I'm a Survivor 3 brain surgeries and stroke life support 10 just the last 9 years. I smile in spite of. REST WELL BEAUTIFUL SISTER YOU FOUGHT WELL!!!! ❤❤❤ PRAYERS FOR ALL!
Hello I pray that god will restore your health 🙏🏾
Praying For Your Total Healing in JESUS NAME!🙏🏽
Her hair looks fabulous!
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Lord, why did I see this before bed. I'm in tears. Life is so funny. I am looking at this beautiful, seemingly young lady, getting her hair done. Although she seemed fragile and sick, that style gave her a moment of youth and beauty for the last time. 😢 May she R.I.P
I too watched this just before bed and I'm shattered 💔
Same right before bed ❤😢
She is so beautiful. I know the pain her daughter is going through my mother died of lupus and carelessness of doctors and nurses at 55 3 years ago they accidentally put contaminated water in her machine and it gave her a bacteria in her lungs she could not get rid of I pray her daughter to be comforted and have strength to get through this. My mother had nothing because of her sickness so I had to beg for help and my Aunts have lots of money but they didn’t care. Me and my kids are still trying to get life together after her death. I am donating because I truly understand.
Hello my condolences 💐 🙏🏾 thank you for donating
@bewilson19 that’s a law suit hun. Get you a good lawyer that will listen to you & not just see money.
And praying for you and your family as well!😢
Please accept my condolences. Sue them please. Don't let them get away with it. 🙏🏾💟
You can't really sue these doctors, hospitals, nurses or anyone in the medical field unless it is negligence with proof. As long as anyone receives standard of care, and everything is documented as treated you can't really go after anyone. The medical review board needs to give their review after case presented and if standard if care was provided the nurses and doctors etc are not held responsible. It's a legal way to khil people by meddicine nothing more.
I hope you and her family find peace. RIP to your client.
I remember when they tried to sell me the accidental also!
When you’ve had cancer you can’t get life insurance, unless you pay a premium monthly.
Condolences 💐
I believe her when she said “when she looks good, she feels good.” She was so drained getting styled. Then as soon as you finished she whipped that mask off and gave the biggest smile to herself!! 😄
As a hairstylist, this has me in tears. I’m glad they were able to get donations.. thank you for sharing Shelvonya’s story with us. May her soul now rest. ❤🙏🏽
Yesss she did that warmed my heart God Bless her beautiful soul
I’m sitting here watching. To be praying for the accident victims not realizing it was her son. Then her own diagnosis. I pray that God will bless her daughter that she never has to worry financially. More than what she could ever ask or think. This touch my soul. RIP beautiful queen.
I am from Africa Kenya and i have nothing to contribute but my prayes goes to her daughter, family and friends,may her beautiful soul rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hello. Thank you for the kind words and considering to contribute 🙏🏾
Pole mummy is in agood place
Aww she looked so pretty and happy that day! 💚 R.I.P May The Blessings of The Lord Be With Her Daughter
Can i just say in all this sadness its lovely that her daughter thought to ring you and tell you her mum had passed. Obviously you made her feel very special ❤
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She is absolutely beautiful. She is now reunited with her son and healthy ❤❤❤❤
Amen🙏🏾Finally at peace from this suffer filled world.
I hope her daughter gets more than enough for her Mom and herself as well. Shelvonya Wear your Wings Proudly.. Your Job here is done Queen.. Rest Easy. 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
She’s with her son now , remember the soul is eternal, just the meat suit dies .❤
The love you poured into your client/friend is beyond words. God bless you.
I went to see what I could donate… she’s at over 3x her desired amount and I’m so proud to see a community really step up and show out for such a beautiful soul. I hope she’s huggin her baby boy so tight while they watch over her daughter. Much love, Miss Shelvonya. RIH. ❤️
Hello. Thank you for your donation 🙏🏾
@@TheHairGuruCarla Hi I try to donate but for some reason I was not able to ,as when I try to add my zip code it wouldn’t accept it . I don’t know if is because I live outside the USA .
I had to step away from my desk because I can't stop crying. Thank you for making her homegoing beautiful🥲👼👼
R.I.P to this woman. My deepest condolences to her family as well. As her stylist and friend, you did an amazing job.
You can't fully know what a person means to you until they are gone... Carla you played such an important role in this person's life.... a unique roll... thank you so much for sharing and thank her daughter for the permission....
The video was recommended to me. I had never heard of this channel before. God brought me here. It’s lovely what you did for this family. I subscribed and donated. Keep being a fantastic human!
Hello thank you for subscribing and donating 🙏🏾
Even though the donation goal was already reached and surpassed, I still decided to put in a contribution to ensure that Ms. Shelvonya receives the best celebration of life as possible and to ensure the financial security of her daughter. I really hope Ms. Shelvonya's soul is happy and at peace and the her daughter is able to continue on into a bright future in which she remains happy and healthy.
Hello thank you for your kind words and thank you for your donation 🙏🏾
It was meant for you to share this story to your platform..where the insurance company failed her, you were able to make a way. I know her daughter is beyond grateful. U r an angel.
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Wow, she really didn’t look like she was in her 40s with that hairstyle, she could have easily passed for 20 something. May she rest in peace ❤
I’m so sorry, Carla. I believe your client is smiling again because she’s with her sweet baby boy. Wow, so young and pretty. I also have Lupus. At this time I feel we have to help her sweet baby girl because she’s left behind with grief and the expenses . I am definitely donating. Stay strong, sis.
Her smile was everything when she saw her hair 😢it could be the smallest things in life that could brighten someone’s day
So sad. Praying for her daughter! She was beautiful. May she rest in peace 🙏🏾💗🙏🏾
Very sad story. Grateful she had you. She looks gorgeous. 15:28
15:07 That Beautiful Smile.🙌🏽🙌🏽 I KNOW she is Resting in the Presence of Christ with her son!!! No more Pain, No more Sickness, No more suffering!! Thank you Lord Jesus for Word and Promise that weeping may endure for a night, but Joy, YOUR JOY will come in the morning! Keep her daught and family and loved ones in Perfect Peace 🕊️🕊️ From Labor to Reward, she fought the Good Fight!!! She kept the Faith! She finished her race. God Bless you for sharing such a personal moment with the rest of the world 🙏🙏
Hello. Amen. Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏾
This broke my heart may this beautiful lady R.I.P 🕊️ 😢
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Honestly. It’s an honour to be called a formed. Thank you for honouring her. .
😢 this had me heartbroken , GOD bless her baby. I loss my Mother in 2019 while in my 30’s and I’m STILL not ok . May GOD give the Family comfort knowing she is sitting at his MIGHTY Throne , no more pain or sickness 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hello. My condolences 💐 🙏🏾
So sad😭 I remember when my grandma was going through chemo and lost her hair. You can see the defeat in her face because she couldn't wear her hair like she has been for decades.
But then you see them have a glimpse of hope when their hair grows back. They just want to do something so simple like get their hair done and feel pretty again. It may be a temporary smile but any smile is worth seeing even if it's the last.
If people can, please get your kids at an early age some life insurance so that their kids won't have to stress about burying them later in life. I'm grateful that my mom did for me because I don't have to worry about it now should something happen to me. Every year she gives us the talk about who the insurance policy is with/where we can find the paper work should something happen to her.
I dont even know what to say. Im literally in tears. She was so young and still had a daughter. My dad passed from brain cancer so I really empathize with her daughter to loose her mom and brother. Im praying for her daughter. Her mom seems like a sweet, gentle, woman of faith.
I think the insurance company knew it would be hard to insure her at a price she could afford with pre-existing conditions so they just insured her without even letting her know the terms.
Thank you for sharing her story. Im donating what I can.❤❤
Rest in Peace 🙏🏼 🕊
Hello thank you for your kind words. Yes I am thinking the same about the person that wrote the insurance policy. I think he intentionally deceived her knowing it was the wrong policy just so he/she can make a sale and that is so sad. But God is great and he will take care of the situation 🙏🏾
I really feel they didn't tell her the full truth that she couldn't get the insurance she wanted because of her illnesses and stole her money.
@@TheHairGuruCarlaYou're exactly right, and that person needs to have their license suspended! I am a licensed life insurance agent, and Shelvonya could've gotten an affordable final expense policy through a company named Ethos, but not many agents are certified through them like I am. This really bothers me.
@@teijaflink2226Right. Under many circumstances, people with terminal illnesses are deemed uninsurable but there are a few companies who offer them life insurance, but might cost a little bit more.
That person that did the policy wicked but God ain't sleeping
Wow! So heartbreaking! 💔She looks so beautiful and you made her feel so special.😢
Bless your heart Ms. Carla. May she rest in peace! 🙏🏽
I too had cancer and by the grace of God l over came this horrible disease.. l feel bad for this poor woman, she got hit so many times. Shes at peace now, no more pain watching over her daughter. May she rest in Peace ❤❤❤
Hello. God is Great 🙏🏾
What kind did you have?
Thyroid cancer. Didn't know l had it. I would see.myself in the mirror and wasnt till l went to my Dr l saw a bump on my throat, l didn't pay attention as l thought l talked to much. The horror was being told l had cancer
The first thing that comes to mind how far has it spread. And l'm gonna die. I had it removed. They don't tell U how bad Ur gonna feel after. I threw up alot. Am on meds for to checked my Dr. Plus I gained a lot of weight. Cuz my thyroid wasn't working.
Oh my Lord. This right here made me cry fa real. I am 38 yrs old, i have Heart failure and Graves Disease and some other issues. Hearing this woman's story gave me strength and the will to want to keep living for my children. Oh this hurts, I am for sure going to donate something to her daughter, I know God will make a way. May her beautiful soul rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️😢😢😢😢
Hello thank you for your donation 🙏🏾
🙏🏽 GOD BLESS YOU
What a beautiful woman. My deepest condolences to her family.
The power of the community. They exceeded the goal for her funeral expenses. I love when we can all come together to help each other ❤
As a professional stylist, my heart goes out to the client's family and to you as her stylist. People don't understand the emotional and psychological toll it takes on the stylist of the deceased she or he has been servicing for a time. I pray for your strength in the LORD as you continue on with your profession because stylists are NOT just styling hair. Still, we are counselors, encouraging and inspiring people who take pride in our craft but also care about our regular clients as family members.
May she RIP! Smh
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My dad used to work for an insurance company. They are NOTORIOUS for scamming people. I hope the daughter can talk to a lawyer and investigate further. Those SOB will do anything to not pay.
I heard about that. So it must be true. 😢
What insurance company was it
Damn. Her daughter did her dirty.
Oh, I cried.
@@mrslavanderbluhow did her daughter do her dirty?
I pray for all who lost someone to cancer or lupus✝️🙏🏾💔😢
😔😔🙏🏾 2 yrs ago i lost my 21 yr old son to Sickle Cell 😔☹️💔 within that yr & a half i had lost my mom, my unc (which was my father figure), my big bro then my son 💔 all back to back smh, idk how im still making it, pls pray for me 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@nikkid1537Sorry for your loss,and please don't lose hope. You are here for a reason,and keep your family alive in your heart. I hope with time,you feel better.
Thank you🙏🏿 I lost one of my best friends to lupus. She suffered for at least 10 yrs before passing away. I miss her like crazy, but I find comfort in knowing that she's at peace and has no more pain to deal with.
Thank you. Lost my mom in 2020 to metastatic lung cancer. She was only 55 when she was diagnosed. She was still healthy, at a healthy weight, still going to the gym, always got her check ups. By the time we knew something was terribly wrong, it was too late to do much to stop it. It still doesn’t feel real. It rocked everyone who knew her because she was so vibrant and energetic up until the day she was hospitalized. You really never know the turns life will take. I spun out and lost myself in those ten months of caring for her until she passed and a couple of years following her death but praise The Most High for keeping me and restoring my faith in Him and my sanity. 🙏🏾
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Her hair style turned out beautiful. Her spirit is beautiful.
Omg.. same exact thing happened to me.. my mom was paying for accidental insurance instead of health. Left the world thinking all 4 of us would be taken care of. We had to scrap up change to bury my mother after she passed of heart failure.
Hello. My condolences I’m sorry to hear that. I’m happy you all was able to lay your mom to rest. 🙏🏾
Sorry for your loss 😢 do you know why she got the wrong cover? I really feel that a lot of these insurance companies need to be investigated.
@@Faircafe98 most of them are scammers they know what they are doing lies and deceit
They shouldn't be allowed to get away with this! It's too many stories for it to be a coincidence
She looked so healthy. That hairstyle was so beautiful.
I absolutely love the compassion and care you showed this client. I'm a longtime nurse and I promise you, I've worked with some who could learn a lot from you. You're also very talented. No wonder she came to you. ❤
I saved this link and when I'm financially able, I'm going to donate. I even put it in my calendar so I won't forget. ❤️
I want to share my story when i was 19 my fiance he died in a car accident 2 weeks before the wedding and at the time i was dealing with something bigger my dad was dignosed with an agressive skin cancer i feel broken inside my dad and my fiance love my hair was 4 ft long i decide cut it off and sell it was i dont know its a pain that still in my heart cause nobody knows what just simple things like brush your hair could mean good bless that women she was a hero so strong
Hello. I give you my condolences 🙏🏾
The stress of losing her son hurt her so bad.She wanted to be with him.Glad she is in a much better place.If I could donate I would
What about her daughter
Wow. That's a lot of hardship for one person. Poor woman.
Hello. Yes! She went through a lot more than I stated in the video. She was very strong and she kept her faith
@@TheHairGuruCarla what did her faith get her though, respectfully??
@@nomorecrocsur weird and negative hopefully you get help
@@nomorecrocsfor some people, it’s all they have and it makes them feel better. There’s no logic to it. That’s how faith works.
Amen !! Can't even explain it. Just Christ Jesus and His love and sacrifice for us @@crissoa
She had a magnificent daughter and this lady telling the story is magnificent as well ❤
GOD BLESS HER FAMILY POOR ANGEL LOST HER BABY IN A CAR ACCIDENT AND THEN GOT LUPUS AND A STROKE MAY THEY BOTH RIP 😢😢😭😭😭😭🙏🏽
I will definitely share and donate. I need to reassess myself complaining about anything, my heart is broken for her and her family! 😢Be well daughter 🙏🏾❤️
Hello. Thank you for your donation 🙏🏾
That was too much grief for one woman to bear alone. I know life isn’t fair but why must it be so brutally UNfair to some people??
She really looks beautiful!! I bet this really helped her spirit.
It’s very disappointing that insurance companies do this. This happened to my mom and she was very educated and on top of her things. She had 3 policies and they were suppose to be an accidental death add on. I hope those that do those things FAIL because that’s really sad. I was blessed to be able to cover her expenses but knowing she thought she was securing life after her passing and they did this is just infuriating.
I am so sorry for your loss. These insurance companies are thieves. When you are at your lowest, they kick you even more.
I'm so sorry for your loss. As a licensed life insurance agent, I can tell you that it's the fault of the actual agent who deceptively sold the policy...the insurance company is simply acting on the signed contract. Also, this conduct is grounds for license suspension or revocation, but families must report the agent's misconduct to that state's Commissioner of Insurance where they're licensed.
@@melaninmoxiellc963As a former life insurance agent as well; I can tell you that agents are covered by errors & ommissions insurance. There may be possible recourse to sue if the agent acted fraudulently. It may be worth checking into.
I hope this comment can get pinned because another lady went through the same thing. This is fraudulent and needs to be stopped. 😢
So sad 😢 there’s almost $12,000 in the angel 👼 fund! Amazing ❤
It’s really sad that she was faced with so many challenges in life. Her fund is currently over 30K. I’m adding something and pray that she can properly be laid to rest 🙏🏽🕊️❤
@@Peace147dI just added also.
Carla, I'm so, so sorry. May the LORD comfort, keep and strengthen you and her entire family.🙏🏾
She's so beautiful, I had tears fall when she looked directly into the camera. Her smile and her spirit touched me
So Beautiful She Was. That Hair Style Looked Beautiful On Her.
Awww Carla praying for her family, daughter & yourself as well. I just loss two of my clients & it’s truly hard to build such a bond with someone over the years for so long & then within a blink of an eye they’re gone. 😢🙏🏽❤️
Hello sorry for your loss. Yes she was like a little sister. She always had a positive attitude even after she got all the negative news
My mother was diagnosed with lupus in 1993. She succumbed to it in December 2004. God is good...and bless the family that she has left behind. May the peace of God fall on her family and all who loved her. Thank you for being a blessing in her life. The women that go to the salon that I go to are very special to me. My stylist and her clients are like family. Unfortunately, we just lost a dear friend of our as well. Stylists become family over the years...and you were definitely a friend to her. Condolences to you as well, sister.
Very great job I pray for her family she look so pretty!
I lost my mother at nine to Lupus. This touched my heart to the core. I gave and thank you for sharing and helping this baby.
Hello. Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾
It's good to know that you helped your client/friend to feel better. Even if it was only for a short time. Prayers for her family
She was too young! RIP beautiful! God has you and your family! Daughter should definitely fight the insurance company if she can! 🙏🏾
You did a beautiful job on this beautiful lady. May she RIP.
She was so naturally beautiful! I’m so sorry she had to go through that and her daughter. I pray her daughter heals and gets all the support she needs. I will definitely be donating. You Carla are the type of stylist all ladies need! ❤
Hello thank you for your kind words and for your donation 🙏🏾
I cried through this whole video. This is so very heartbreaking. Rest in peace sweet lady, you endured much. I will donate to help her daughter, and I will keep her in my prayers for her to be comforted ,and to be strengthened at this most difficult time in her life.
Hello thank you for your prayers and donations🙏🏾
Look at her smile..I bet she haven't genuinely smiled in weeks