YES people always think it’s sus when partners don’t want to move in together yet. We’re young, value independence, and that time will come. Why rush it? Our relationship is so much more than living together or not. Everyone is different. So yes, respectfully, mind your business :)
That is so me. My mother’s friend asked me and I told her I want to live on my own for 1-2 years and my mother was right next to her and completely disagreed😂🤷🏻♀️
Love to see you thriving Nicole. Moving is actually the worst the fact that you got backed up from the stress just shows that. This is next level adulting 😂👏🏽
i've been watching you for two or three years now and i've heard repeated so many times the story about your mom's friend saying you need to live alone before you live with a man - I'm so so happy for you for achieving that! i know you're an internet stranger on the other side of the world but i'm so proud of you nicole, the fact that you've pulled through such extreme stresses and mental health issues and college and the pandemmy and everything - and come out on top. i'm so so proud of you! i hope you're loving your new home
I’m moving THIS WEEKEND as in like TOMORROW we start moving in and we only have until Sunday. The amount of stress I’m feeling is crazy and I’m glad I can relate to someone because pretty much everyone else I know has never moved
I'm so happy that you've come this far Nichole. You have shared your lows with us, which means the world to me. And now, your highs too!!! I hope this new place is all you dreamed of and more
I'm Iranian and moved out of my parents house at 19, which is quite uncommon here. this was really well edited and enjoyable to watch! have fun on this new adventure :)
i'm so happy for you Nicole! i really really hope you can live your best life now that you've moved out and you're starting a new stage of your life! please stay safe and keep it up!
I’m packing up my room while I’m listening to this. I’ve lived in this house my entire childhood and have never moved before. Sitting here and looking at my half barren room is strange, but it doesn’t feel bad anymore. Thank you for making this video and talking about your experience!
I never thought I wanted to live alone until you and another one of my favorite youtubers moved out and you both seem so happy! Now I am reconsidering if it would be so bad living alone after all
I love watching you and your life. There is something so peaceful and satisfying about you and your message. You keep things real and still remain so adored, I am so happy watching your videos so keep up the hard work! Your effort does not go unnoticed! ❤
Congrats! I recently made a similar solo move! I was living with my parents since early pandemic and I have really loved living alone so far and getting to spread out further than my room haha
The best part of the video is you saying how all this has made you extra calm and anxiety free 😌😌❤️❤️ I’m extremely happy for you..the place is so so pretty ✨✨ love it !!❤️❤️
as someone who works for Rover (a pet sitting app) I couldn't recommend it enough. literally the best job ever and you can make good money for easy/fun work!
My favorite parasocial relationship 🥳 I bought your earrings and the black (itchy) turtleneck sweater from your depop ( I love it) and my mom was like wtf Anyways So excited for you! The apartment is gorgeous I love the windows.
Absolutely LOVE that you moved out by yourself and not with Adam, it's something I'm thinking about in the near future and how it's something I want to experience even though I love my partner. It's now or never baby!
Just wanted to ask how have you dealt with moving anxiety/home sickness? I’m going away to college soon and the idea makes me so exited but scared that I’ll be violently shaking every night at the thought of not being home. Just want to see how someone who deals with the same problems as me copes. So happy to see you come this far!!! Xo
I'm not Nicole, but I can give some comforting advice i hope?! 😁 For me when I moved out for the first time it was with my boyfriend, but I'm sure I would've had the same anxiety either way. It is a new experience and it likely will bring alot of anxiety especially if your someone like me who already has anxiety, but I'm completely serious when I say that giving it time and allowing yourself to feel whatever you need to, is all it takes and just know that you will adjust at some point and feel comfortable. I saw a therapist at my college after I first moved out and it helped a lot as well, so asking for help and using those kinds of resources is definitely helpful if you find the anxiety is persistent. You kind of have to consistently remind yourself that you are safe and capable of adjusting to this new way of living, and that eventually it will feel like home to you. It doesn't hurt to watch some comfort shows or cook nostalgic food, or bring a pet with you too.
I'm back from graduating college and now shaking violently in my childhood bedroom.point is everything is a matter if habit you'll end up loving the freedom so so much
When I was in college, a woman in my dorm told me that she was moving back home. She said she missed being at home: she was a junior. So of course you can move back home, after being away for a while.
Girl...this video resonated with me SO hard! I just went through a move myself & completely understand all of the mental/emotional/physical....AHHH you go through! I'm happy for you, for many reasons, including making it to that stage that you feel like you can just actually BREATHE again! Cheers to going on your own, that is the best decision you could have made for your own growth!
Good for you guys for knowing what is best for your own relationship! Many couples last longer living separately, or at least having their own bedrooms and personal space but can still enjoy sleeping together. Distance and independence truly do make the heart grow fonder. If is easier to get along with people when we don’t live with them no matter how much we love them it’s just the truth. I am so happy to be seeing so many 19-23 year old babes realIzing stuff I didn’t at that age. We healing this generational trauma up in here and realizing things younger and younger 💓🥲 when you don’t succumb to social/family pressure and follow your intuition and choose what is best for yourself you are pathing the way for others to follow suit 💫🧬💫 thank you for demonstrating this to the collective
I've been watching your content since before clementine and i'm so proud of how far you've come, watching you grow makes me so much more hopeful for my future
Your apartment is beautiful! Love to see you and clem thriving!! I suggest some sheer curtains for the windows in the bathroom/closet 😂 or maybe those stick on privacy films!
It's really cool to hear how you and your boyfriend want that independence, but still trust each other with your relationship. My girlfriend and I are dating long-term (26 & 25), but being in a more christian community we see a lot of pressure to get married/move-in quickly, and we're still figuring out what we want. As the guy, it's harder to focus on timelines when you have others asking you when you're proposing, so thanks for talking about that, it really resonates with me.
i lived alone for 2 years in my mid-20s and then my bf and i moved in together. it's nice living with a partner, but i don't regret for a second choosing to wait and experiencing living by myself for a while. i grew a lot and really enjoyed my alone time and making my space my own! enjoy it girlie!!!
Not to be weird but I appreciate you talking about your IBS because I always feel self conscious about it and don't want to bring it up to my doctor but seeing you talk about it casually makes me feel better.
I’m so so happy for you Nicole ❤️❤️ your apartment looks absolutely beautiful and the windows and the layout of your bedroom are sooo gorgeous! I hope you and Clemi will enjoy living there!🥰 to the future 🥂
I just wanted you to know you're an inspiration. I'm moving to my own place from having a roommate for 2 years for the first time and you just eased some fears I had.
im so happy for you! i hope you enjoy this new home + youre glowing, you look so happy being in youre own place. and and your hair curled at the bottom is such a cute look i love it :) WAIT U HAVE A CHANDLIER AND A BIDET HOW FANCY
seeing your growth over the past couple years has been so cool! i am so happy you are thriving in your new space. i comment this on so many of your videos lmao but i am excited to see what the future holds!!
Omg that sleep talking I love. I used to record my sleep all the time but didn't come up with much except the fact I still have restless leg syndrome when I'm fast asleep. Lol
First of all I’m so proud of how well you have handled the move; and or how beautiful the apartment is!! But I have to know where that door stopper thing is from! As a fellow girl in her 20’s moving out of home soon it’s a must have
hii nicole !!! i just started watching all your videos last week and omg the serotonin rush i had when i saw u posted. also i just got outta rehab so ur vids make me so happy !
YES people always think it’s sus when partners don’t want to move in together yet. We’re young, value independence, and that time will come. Why rush it? Our relationship is so much more than living together or not. Everyone is different. So yes, respectfully, mind your business :)
EXACTLY!!!
also, shows the security they have in their relationship
That is so me. My mother’s friend asked me and I told her I want to live on my own for 1-2 years and my mother was right next to her and completely disagreed😂🤷🏻♀️
Only reason I am moving in with my boyfriend is because I cannot afford an apartment on my own.
Love to see that Clemmy has found the courage to come out from under the bed. Please tell her I am proud of her. ❤️
Love seeing u here hannah😂💕
Two of my fave ✨
Love to see you thriving Nicole. Moving is actually the worst the fact that you got backed up from the stress just shows that. This is next level adulting 😂👏🏽
YES you get it ugh
THE PLACE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AHH
THANK YOU ALEXA!
i've been watching you for two or three years now and i've heard repeated so many times the story about your mom's friend saying you need to live alone before you live with a man - I'm so so happy for you for achieving that!
i know you're an internet stranger on the other side of the world but i'm so proud of you nicole, the fact that you've pulled through such extreme stresses and mental health issues and college and the pandemmy and everything - and come out on top. i'm so so proud of you!
i hope you're loving your new home
this is so sweet! thank you so much ❤️
As a fellow child of immigrants it’s odd but also cool to see someone like me (in that aspect and growing up Catholic lol) doing this
this video feels like catching up with an old dear friend it feels so comforting!!! im so so happy for you nicole
THANK U THIS IS THE SWEETEST THING!!!!
I’m moving THIS WEEKEND as in like TOMORROW we start moving in and we only have until Sunday. The amount of stress I’m feeling is crazy and I’m glad I can relate to someone because pretty much everyone else I know has never moved
I'm so happy that you've come this far Nichole. You have shared your lows with us, which means the world to me. And now, your highs too!!! I hope this new place is all you dreamed of and more
That is a gorgeous apartment! Clemmy's zooming are so, so cute. She's having a blast there!
I'm Iranian and moved out of my parents house at 19, which is quite uncommon here. this was really well edited and enjoyable to watch! have fun on this new adventure :)
woke up feeling weirdly optimistic. now i know exactly why. our kween has finally uploaded 💅 really hyped for your apartment tour!
omg nicole your BEDROOM the natural SUNLIGHT i am SO happy for you!!!
I'm so happy to see you thriving in your own space :) I love the classy baby decoration
i'm so happy for you Nicole! i really really hope you can live your best life now that you've moved out and you're starting a new stage of your life! please stay safe and keep it up!
I'm also moving out of my childhood bedroom in the next couple weeks after two years of being here on/off so this was SO exciting to watch
I’m packing up my room while I’m listening to this. I’ve lived in this house my entire childhood and have never moved before. Sitting here and looking at my half barren room is strange, but it doesn’t feel bad anymore. Thank you for making this video and talking about your experience!
I never thought I wanted to live alone until you and another one of my favorite youtubers moved out and you both seem so happy! Now I am reconsidering if it would be so bad living alone after all
You should get some of those window sticker things (so people can't see through) I think they even have some that cast rainbows inside cuz of the sun
I love watching you and your life. There is something so peaceful and satisfying about you and your message. You keep things real and still remain so adored, I am so happy watching your videos so keep up the hard work! Your effort does not go unnoticed! ❤
this is so kind, thank you!!!
Congrats! I recently made a similar solo move! I was living with my parents since early pandemic and I have really loved living alone so far and getting to spread out further than my room haha
ALREADY OBSESSED WITH YOUR DESK AREA BY THAT BEAUTIFUL WINDOWWWW
The best part of the video is you saying how all this has made you extra calm and anxiety free 😌😌❤️❤️
I’m extremely happy for you..the place is so so pretty ✨✨ love it !!❤️❤️
The chaoticness but pure joy that this is, is such an accurate reflection of my own life and I love it soo much!
I love your bedroom omg the windows in that house
i love the shape?? set up?? of your bedroom!!♥️
as someone who works for Rover (a pet sitting app) I couldn't recommend it enough. literally the best job ever and you can make good money for easy/fun work!
love the new place, so happy for u and clem
My favorite parasocial relationship 🥳
I bought your earrings and the black (itchy) turtleneck sweater from your depop ( I love it) and my mom was like wtf
Anyways
So excited for you! The apartment is gorgeous I love the windows.
OMG this is so cool, thank you!!!!!!
Absolutely LOVE that you moved out by yourself and not with Adam, it's something I'm thinking about in the near future and how it's something I want to experience even though I love my partner. It's now or never baby!
Only 2 mins in and already overwhelmed by how gorgeous the windows in your room are…. miss Nikki you scored with this one
THANK YOU!!!
aaahhhh i love watching you grow and thrive in your own space
Pet sitting/dog walker was one of the, if not the best, job I’ve ever had!! Definitely not a livable wage, but such a fun part time job!
Can't wait for the notes app apology vis-a-vis better help in the future but other than that, you're golden Nicole.
the queen is back aaaaa, you're new place is lookin great so far!!
you should put a film on your bathroom window
Just wanted to ask how have you dealt with moving anxiety/home sickness? I’m going away to college soon and the idea makes me so exited but scared that I’ll be violently shaking every night at the thought of not being home. Just want to see how someone who deals with the same problems as me copes. So happy to see you come this far!!! Xo
I'm not Nicole, but I can give some comforting advice i hope?! 😁
For me when I moved out for the first time it was with my boyfriend, but I'm sure I would've had the same anxiety either way. It is a new experience and it likely will bring alot of anxiety especially if your someone like me who already has anxiety, but I'm completely serious when I say that giving it time and allowing yourself to feel whatever you need to, is all it takes and just know that you will adjust at some point and feel comfortable. I saw a therapist at my college after I first moved out and it helped a lot as well, so asking for help and using those kinds of resources is definitely helpful if you find the anxiety is persistent. You kind of have to consistently remind yourself that you are safe and capable of adjusting to this new way of living, and that eventually it will feel like home to you. It doesn't hurt to watch some comfort shows or cook nostalgic food, or bring a pet with you too.
@@leilanidrennan1767 🥺 Thankyou so much, it’s comforting to see other people dealing with this!! Thanks for the help :)
@@rea7797 ofcourse, hang in there it'll be okay 👌 ❣
I'm back from graduating college and now shaking violently in my childhood bedroom.point is everything is a matter if habit you'll end up loving the freedom so so much
When I was in college, a woman in my dorm told me that she was moving back home. She said she missed being at home: she was a junior. So of course you can move back home, after being away for a while.
Girl...this video resonated with me SO hard! I just went through a move myself & completely understand all of the mental/emotional/physical....AHHH you go through! I'm happy for you, for many reasons, including making it to that stage that you feel like you can just actually BREATHE again! Cheers to going on your own, that is the best decision you could have made for your own growth!
I GENUINELY MISS SEEING UR VIDS NICOLEE :'(( THANK U FOR SHOWING UP 💕
Good for you guys for knowing what is best for your own relationship! Many couples last longer living separately, or at least having their own bedrooms and personal space but can still enjoy sleeping together. Distance and independence truly do make the heart grow fonder. If is easier to get along with people when we don’t live with them no matter how much we love them it’s just the truth. I am so happy to be seeing so many 19-23 year old babes realIzing stuff I didn’t at that age. We healing this generational trauma up in here and realizing things younger and younger 💓🥲 when you don’t succumb to social/family pressure and follow your intuition and choose what is best for yourself you are pathing the way for others to follow suit 💫🧬💫 thank you for demonstrating this to the collective
I've been watching your content since before clementine and i'm so proud of how far you've come, watching you grow makes me so much more hopeful for my future
Your apartment is beautiful! Love to see you and clem thriving!! I suggest some sheer curtains for the windows in the bathroom/closet 😂 or maybe those stick on privacy films!
I love your apartment! I love how much light it has!
OMG I LOVE YOUR APARTMENT!😍😍😍and I can tell Clem does too!😍❤️😭
I love you,and you look like you're thriving so well! I Love your hair so much!ugh❤️
i just moved out of my parent's house this past weekend so this whole vlog has been my roommate and I's entire vibe
you sound so happy here!!! love to see you thriving!!
I MUST give you 10/10 for originality for sure! Awesome girl, just keeping being who you are! xx
seriously 2022 is the year of moving vlogs
It's really cool to hear how you and your boyfriend want that independence, but still trust each other with your relationship. My girlfriend and I are dating long-term (26 & 25), but being in a more christian community we see a lot of pressure to get married/move-in quickly, and we're still figuring out what we want.
As the guy, it's harder to focus on timelines when you have others asking you when you're proposing, so thanks for talking about that, it really resonates with me.
i lived alone for 2 years in my mid-20s and then my bf and i moved in together. it's nice living with a partner, but i don't regret for a second choosing to wait and experiencing living by myself for a while. i grew a lot and really enjoyed my alone time and making my space my own! enjoy it girlie!!!
So happy for you!! Living vicariously through you for now because I’m still stuck with roomies… CA is not cheap 😵💫
Yay! Im so ready for this video!
Big proud of you girly
Truly looks like you made your apartment a true home! Love to see you thriving and just living your life!
this is the most beautiful apartment i've ever seen in philly i'm obsessed
Not to be weird but I appreciate you talking about your IBS because I always feel self conscious about it and don't want to bring it up to my doctor but seeing you talk about it casually makes me feel better.
Love the place! ur living my dream Nicole, living in ur own place with ur cat with plants~ so excited for the apartment tour~
FIRST VIDEO IN THE NEW PLACE YAYYYY
yessss nicole, love this for you! ❤️
the way you move your hands makes me unnecessarily happy
So happy to hear that you are doing better!!!! I ❤️ Nikki Nasty
I’m so so happy for you Nicole ❤️❤️ your apartment looks absolutely beautiful and the windows and the layout of your bedroom are sooo gorgeous! I hope you and Clemi will enjoy living there!🥰 to the future 🥂
I love the apartment.
I can't wait to see it all done.
I just wanted you to know you're an inspiration. I'm moving to my own place from having a roommate for 2 years for the first time and you just eased some fears I had.
you will LOVE having your own place!! ❤️
im so happy for you! i hope you enjoy this new home + youre glowing, you look so happy being in youre own place. and and your hair curled at the bottom is such a cute look i love it :) WAIT U HAVE A CHANDLIER AND A BIDET HOW FANCY
I'm so happy for you Nicole!! You deserve the absolute best and you're *glowing*
IM SO HAPPY FOR U !! seeing u getting better and be happier really gives me hope :)) glad to know clemmy finally got adjusted!
you have such a nice aesthetic!! like your little trinkets or accesories just fit you so well ahhh :D
Just in time for my break, congrats Nikki!!!!!
Love this! Really inspiring to watch you thrive
omg I love rooms that have that hose circle places with windows
Ahh feliway is great! So glad to see how well you take care of the queen of the house
seeing your growth over the past couple years has been so cool! i am so happy you are thriving in your new space. i comment this on so many of your videos lmao but i am excited to see what the future holds!!
Omg that sleep talking I love. I used to record my sleep all the time but didn't come up with much except the fact I still have restless leg syndrome when I'm fast asleep. Lol
are you doing cassies morning routinee?? (from euphoria) youre using the same roller, eye thingyyys and the hair thingy too!
First of all I’m so proud of how well you have handled the move; and or how beautiful the apartment is!! But I have to know where that door stopper thing is from! As a fellow girl in her 20’s moving out of home soon it’s a must have
thank you!!! target!
so happy for you!! and your place is so beautiful!
Ahhhhh I’ve been waiting for this!!!! So excited for you Nicole!!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Watching you thrive on your own makes me very excited to move out of my parents house and very hopeful, I’m happy your doing well in your new place!
your hair looks so cute in this video!
your apartment is so beautiful i’m so jealous and so happy for you
nicoleee we love to see you
All of your videos are my comfort videos tbh💅😎😔
thank you for documenting your growth and just these super cool milestones so well, it makes me feel like it can happen for me too :)
it 100% can!!!
@@NicoleRafiee not this motivating me to actually study rn ;-; ur the best
I'm so genuinely happy for you! also your videos make me feel so happy and cozy and comfortable, I'm pretty sure you're my comfort youtuber hahaha
thank you for uploading 🖤
Can u post non-touristy places to visit in Philly? Or a good cheap eating guide in Philly?
AAAAY CONGRATS!!! i wanna be able to do this one day becos honestly living w my parents makes me v depressed
CONGRATS NICOLE!!! ilyy
Obsessed with how at 7:40 it sounded like you said "and I oop-"
hii nicole !!! i just started watching all your videos last week and omg the serotonin rush i had when i saw u posted. also i just got outta rehab so ur vids make me so happy !
wishing u so much happiness and healing!!
Honestly such a mood on stress and the ibs front lmao. So happy for you, the apartment looks amazing so far!
Always so excited to see a new video from youuuuu
girl your skin is amazing
THANK YOU!!!
Nicole I literally love you so much!!!! Thank you for existing and making content
THE APARTMENT IS GORGEOUS!! Congrats !
Obsessed with the whole aesthetic of the apartment 🤩
Little late but your apartment is so cute! Love seeing you glowing and happy!
So happy for you 🌻 congrats!
I'm so happy for you boo, it's so great to see you living your best like
your vids are so relaxing i love ur vibe
first, proud of u!! second, can you do a philly rec list/your favorite spots video?