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"Age is just a number!!"
" _P r i s o n i s j u s t a b u i l d i n g_ "
snapping a neck is just an action
The guillotine is just a machine.
@@kaga.mine. it isn’t murder I just stabbed him repeatedly
The eletric chair is just a chair
Dropping the soap is just a little accident
i mean, does anyone else view their fave teachers as parental figures rather than crushes? my math teacher is more like a funky uncle than a crush..
Same here
pinkbotany My favorite teacher is like a cool older brother to me lol
Yeet
Yeah pretty much all my favorite teachers were like cool aunts and uncles.
Yessssssss
Teacher Crush Community: Uses TCC abbreviation
Texas Community College: *Concerned/Distressed detective Pikachu*
“yyyYEEEEEE HAAAAWW WE’RE IN DANGER-“
oh boy
As a texan I am losing my shit over this
@@FiSH-iSH why must you speak of my accursed old name
@@yahairagarcia7208 same
It's not uncommon for a student, especially a minor, to develop a crush on a teacher, and it's not like you can stop those feelings from developing. It really only becomes an issue when they become overly vocal about it and/or have deluded themselves into thinking that the teacher likes them back and that the hypothetical relationship between them would be healthy.
And also when the teacher, an ADULT, reciprocates those feelings
LANCE!
I agree. Everyone has had a crush that they know wouldn’t be appropriate whether it’s age or things about the person. And you can still like someone. My friends (I’m in high school) literally thought that I was crazy by thinking it was normal that my bf liked me and someone else. He was dating her and he dated me before her. He liked us both but he chose me because I was supportive and told him it was normal. He felt so bad like he was betraying her because of feelings he couldn’t control and she flipped on him. We have broken up but that is not important.
They thought I was being a push over until I explained. You can’t control if you think someone is hot or if you have a crush. The important thing is your with the person you want to be with and that you know what who you want out of the people you like
Daniella Sosa a lot
I’m not gay, but Ah a I see you’re human of culture as well
why can't these poor kids just be normal and just write fanfics starring OCs that just happen to be eerily similar to people they know
It's better.
you used the word just 3 times in one sentence
This is scarily accurate to what I did as a kid I’m-
I agree with this
tbh? MUCH better than crushing on adults
The teacher crush community and the true crime community being the same abbreviation tbh gives me life.
this put me in tears i-
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crushing on ur serial killer teacher
when they write "I dream of having a man like him one day #TC" I just don't know what to think.
But it's very wrong either way. Just two different, parallel levels of wrongness.
@@KPater-mf4je That quote made me cringe. What I hate about the "true crime community" is that they're actually the "murderer crush community". As someone who is interested in true crime (for the psychological aspect of it) I hate that I can't bring it up without people assuming I want to fuck a killer
Both communities are equally worse
13 yo: "I'm a top XD"
Me: "The only thing you should be on top of is your homework and chores"
PERIODT
PERIODTTTTT
PERIODDTTTTTTTTT
I'm 13 and I approve this message
My friends act like that, I'm 13 and their all 12, we just make jokes about being a top or a bottom, but it's kinda awkward for me cause I just wanna cuddle my friends without talking about sex- something I'm planning on not doing EVER T~T
I saw a post on tumblr, it said:
“You’re an adult, they’re a child, you have to take responsibility as an adult, a guardian. The child may be naive, but you’re not.”
It was something among those lines. It was regarding Teacher crush things.
Gross. It shouldn't be someone else's fault for others' feelings. That's like telling the teachers to cover their whole body with a hazmat suit and use a computer generated voice for teaching kids.
@@Lunar_DeBrie I think their comment just meant that a teacher shouldn’t encourage a student’s crush or respond positively to it, not that the teacher should be covered in a hazmat suit all the time.
@@enjoyerofnonsense3392 facts
@@enjoyerofnonsense3392 I just ruined the 69 likes
i cant even imagine how weird it would be to find one of your students' blogs or notes about all the sexual things they would do to you....gross
My skin was crawling in sympathy for those poor men.
Anyone else notice the “TC” community is almost entirely very young girls? I feel disgusted even reading most of this I couldn’t imagine finding some about you..
lmao the only time i had a crush on a teacher I never imagined anything sexual with him. maybe something is wrong with me?welp lol
@@maggotsfeast3897 not at all, actually, you're part of the norm
@@cocoabeanz6171 oh, you actually make my day better? thanks brosky :b
“Age is just a number”
*So is 911*
also, prison is just a place
edit: just saw your other comment, fuck lol
a human, duh lmao sorry 😂
OOOOOOOH-
so is a prison sentence
Fun fact “Age is just a number” used to be really wholesome. It was used when old couples did things that were considered childish, or wanted to get married, do “young people things” but it’s been perverted and it makes me sad.
WAIT WHY DID THE TEACHER IN THE IMAGINE HAVE EYES
THEY'RE SUPPOSED TO HAVE O R B S
I'm fucking-
*what?*
Banye west 2 Electric boogaloo fanfic terms, usually the eyes are called orbs as a way to be dramatic
@@musicinmymind623 oh??? I've never heard of that before. Thank you, that clears up allot!
@@musicinmymind623 You beat me to it lol, thanks though haha
@@musicinmymind623 yeah -_- I get so annoyed with that term because it doesn't mean eyes, so I have no idea why the term is even used. I literally click off a fanfic if I see orbs.
Teacher: *doing roll call*
Teacher: “Hailey?”
Hailey: *moans* “my name sounds so beautiful coming from your lipssssss”
Teacher: “please go to the principals office, I’ll be calling your parents.”
EK Dav it would be a girl named Hailey
What is nymph aeshetic?? Also lmaooo this comment is gold
@@starrynight_reverie nymphette is an aesthetic based around looking youthful and pure in order to attract older men. It’s super creepy, actually.
@@emilydavis162 that sounds next level creepy I couldn't imagine
EK Dav before i read your comment i thought it was just an aesthetic for woodsy tree nymphs, flowing tulle dresses and flowers and vines and stuff, yikes 🥴
“Your soulmate isn’t even born yet 🙈😍💕✨”
Did Onision write this quote???
Onion boy*
A creep named Greg*
RUclips psychobrat*
I almost disliked this out of disgust until I remembered you quoted this
Oml I refuse to sing the banana song because Onision wrote it -.-
I wouldn't have a heart attack if my teacher asked to see me after class, I would have a panic attack.
I'd be annoyed cause that always happens with new teachers (have a problem where I can't talk in front of a class, but the grade you get for it can make up to 30% of your final grade,, rip)
Same in my mind its always like "wtf did i do wrong!?"
If I were to be asked to stay after class, I'd get so scared. Like I've developed a bit of anxiety because I'm always expected to have good grades so I get so scared if it sounds like I did something wrong D:
Same, they always want to talk to me about my anxiety but the stress of those talks make me even more anxious
literally me whenever i pick up my phone
“That mini heart attack you get when he asks to see you after class” yeah I do that with any given teacher because *I DID SOMETHING WRONG DIDNT I PLEASE NO*
Melanies song ’Teachers Pet’ highlights how these relationships are toxic, and how you regret them in the future. These girls definitively dont know that
I was literally thinking of that song, and really wanna listen to it now, cause oh boy, is it relatable when you had a crush on your teacher that you had to get over.
A lot of people use this song as a teacher crush anthem when it’s literally about how toxic that kind of relationship is and how you shouldn’t engage in that
I WAS THINKING ABOUT THAT
@@marsp5636 SAME
@@mikanviola LITERALLY LIKE DOING THAT DISREGARDS THE POINT OF THE SONG
"She doesn't exist yet"
Oh my god I'm puking
My god this one was so terrible I want to die
It was fine until that very sentence.
my dad is 13 years older than my step mom so like that kinda be applying to my parent tho😂👀
Spooky I’m hoping, that the narrator is talking to a child, like a four/five year old but I know that I just really don’t want the real theme to exist
@@beanzrgross2648 same except 12
My dad is a teacher.
His students have crushes on him, a married man with a daughter their age.
It's weird. It's so weird. Just stop.. same with my mom (who's also a teacher) where some of her students like her.
They don't like you.
They know you like them.
It's just weird for everyone.
HONESTLY. my friend's dad is a choir teacher and by god it's so awkward hearing the stories from them. my friend had a girl give them a note towards their father explaining their feelings and i don't think i've heard a more revolting or stupid idea.
That's daddy issues. Tell them that just because their daddy doesn't want them doesn't mean they can borrow yours jkjk
@@Larkin4840 My God! 🤣
Man, that must suck for you... :'( im sorry
I used to work as a substitute teacher. One HS girl had the worst crush on me. She was not a bad kid but God it was so
awkward. After she saw me out with my boyfriend, she wouldn't speak to me anymore. It was honestly a relief
As someone who started teaching when I was 22, I was shocked (and creeped-out) by how bold some of the young women were. They will straight-up ask you out in the middle of class and it's very awkward. Part of me wants to look older sooner just to stop that from happening
According to this video, that will not stop it
Honestly, I think I would make a good teacher (idk for sure but whatever) but this is the one thing that puts teaching low on my list of jobs I’d want. I’d be so scared that this would happen literally all the time, and my students would probably think I was an anxious mess :’)
The thought of you, a piece of fucking garbage that whines about video games not giving you titties that you feel somehow entitled to, who spreads rampant misinformation, teaching you people fucking terrifies me beyond measure.
@@Cdr2002
Do me a favor and please don't clutch your pearls too hard. I wouldn't want you to bruise your hands because then you won't be able to whine online anymore. Which is how every productive and rational person spends their time.
Damn, this just threw me back to high school when we got a freshly graduated history teacher, must've been about the same age as you. She was decently pretty as far as I remember, so all of the guys loved her, very vocally, right to her face. But the worst thing was that SHE FLIRTED BACK. I believe it was only ever light-hearted, but it was still weird as hell, and she wasn't exactly well-respected amongst the girls. If she'd been a guy there was no way that shit would fly.
Oh man my poor 7th grade teacher had 2 different girls write and draw NSFW things about them together two school years in a row. He almost got fired, even though none of it was his fault. He's still teaching, but I still feel bad for him.
That‘s terrible!
We also had one younger teacher a lot of the girls were openly lusting after and it felt terrible to me because I was worried for that poor guy‘s career. They were trying to ask him out on dates, posed in front of him seductively and whatnot...
...maybe Russia tolerates pornography different, thank god. I've never seen or heard about anything like this happen in my school.
@@combinemetrocop4213 I wouldn't be so sure about that bro... I've never heard of anything like this in the US, but here we are (tho it's probable it doesn't happen TOO much)
@@jamontoast7467 scratch that, most Russian teachers were born and educated in the Soviet Union where pedophiles experienced hell on earth
Damn I woulda just fucking quit
I'm 15, I have a crush on one of my teachers, and I goddamn HOPE she doesn't feel the same way. Like, she's pretty and cool but she's a goddamn adult and I'm not about that life.
exactly. ive had multiple little teacher crushes but i never wanted them to be real
Reblog.
I never had a crush on a teacher, but my school's choir teacher is really pretty and nice.
But I would NOT like her to look at me the same way.
That's gross.
Humans are attracted to either people in their age range or maturity.
So yes, it's normal for kids to have crushes on adults. However, it's biologically and morally wrong for it to be the other way around.
A lot of students have teacher crushes, but nobody wants to actually have a relationship with a teacher
I’ve had crushes on my teachers but it would be a nightmare if they reciprocated
in middle school one of my “friends” was going through a Lana Del Ray daddy phase and constantly called a teacher daddy. It was very uncomfortable to watch that.
Lmao
why you gotta drag our queen Lana into that
Just pulled a neck muscle in the biggest involuntary cringe I’ve had in well over two years so yeah thanks for that.
@@Zealous_Delusional That sounds painful.
Sehe called him daddy to his face?!?!
My new history teacher at the high school is super young, 26. One of the male friends in my friend group who is bi has a HUGE crush on him. He won’t shut up about it. He even made a him x teacher Pinterest board and shared it to the group chat. To put it lightly there was a lot of bondage and other BDSM. He just turned 18 and has his first class with him. I feel so bad for the teacher.
Edit, 1 year later since this is still getting replies: My friend has since graduated, he never acted on it, and the teacher never found out :)
*o h n o*
*O H N O*
*O H N O*
I was that high school gay. Poor choir teacher, you never understood why I kept asking to have my range checked.
jeezus christ
“when ur a teenager u don’t see anything weird or wrong about it”
i see *so many* things
same💀
same bro
being a teenager myself it is disturbing to think that there are people my age being this worryingly dense
BeanBoone get used to it, idiots reproduce with their own. It compounds every generation.
Another teenager here, and yes I find this both curios and disgusting. How are these people able to survive.
This was me when I was a teenager. In a couple years, you'll realize that you were also an idiot... Just in a different way. We are all idiots.
Aquin I’m not a teenager I agree with you there. Teenage hood is like a hormonal haze as you advance into adulthood. It’s slowly fades as the tragedies of being alive take its toll.
I had a crush on a teacher once
In my peer taught class
"Today we are looking at the teacher crush community"
Me: The what now?
Cynthia Erune Welcome to tumblr; there’s a community for everything
Ashley Olsen THERE IS! I SWEAR I FIND A NEW ONE DAILY 😂😂
*YOU WHAT*
Better than the school shooter crush community
YOU HWAT
I remember having a crush on my teacher, who at that time was 24 and I was 18, but he was engaged and y'know, it was something so unrealistic, I just stopped paying attention with it. It was there, I knew it, I ignored it. That was it.
Funnily enough, towards graduation, cause he was our substitute for the last 4-5 months of our final year, he became sort of my best friend. Y'know these teachers designated to be there for students and students can come and talk to them for help for basically anything? He was one of them, so I used to go to him with my family issues, still living at home and all, it endagered me passing my finals. Dude even took his time to drive me to my "boyfriend" whilst we were having a massive fight cause I was terrified of going alone. Obv, it was outside of school times, but he helped me cause he knew my mental issues and whatnot. Broke up with that boyfriend and felt better than ever.
Even now, 2 years after I've graduated, I sometimes go to my old school to meet up with him, talk about how my life at home is improving and all and check on my old school. He's like, a dad to me now. A best friend. Someone outside of all my issues who can give me a clear opinion if I need it. It's great. He's a great person and unsurprisingly, the school's favorite teacher. I'm so happy for his new class that they have him, 'cause I know how great of a teacher and person he is!
Also fun fact: He married my music teacher this year - they're adorable together and make literally the cutest pair. Plus both were my favorite teachers in school! Wishing them well. :)
So wholesome I love it thank you for sharing
I think there's a time in your life (some people) where you think every non-family relationship has to be romantic. Idk if it's the inundation of main character romances in books and movies or what but I've noticed this a few times in people's life stories.
@@ashleynoble2880 it's just you
"you make me overthink everything you do.
You also make me overthink everything I do.
I think I just overthink a lot when it comes to you."
Sounds like me analyzing every move my teacher makes during a test to deduce from body language if I've messed up
They stand around you too long - they believe you are about to mess up, but you can prove em wrong.
Light scoff- you made a mistake, so pick your next best choice.
Light chuckle - You made a big mistake, change choices even if you have no idea what the answer is.
Light sigh with shoulders a bit drooped - okay, there is a pretty high chance you might fail this but if you keep going I'm sure you'll do good. And, besides, a 50 is not that bad.
They walk away shaking their head - ask to use the bathroom and go cry about what a massive failure you are and how even if you do good on this, your parents will still pay no attention to you and will still prefer Jason over you.
Fuck you, Jason.
@@ScaredCat4 lmaooo
"Oh shit, they're looking straight at me... they know I'm fucking cheating don't they?? But what gave me away??? Did they see the notes inside my pencil case, the ones written on on the edge of my desk or the one I'm sitting on right now!? Oh god oh fuck oh shit oh fuck."
It’s honestly disgusting, there is a male teacher at my high school and nearly every girl in the school flirts with him. AND THE DISGUSTING PART IS THAT HE DISCREETLY FLIRTS BACK 🤮🤮
*OH FUCK NO NO NO NO PLEASE GOD N O*
Tf- call 911 damn-
Tell the principal.
Wow, nooooo. Noo, that's a nooo.
I was going to like this comment but it’s at 68 and there’s no way in hell I’m making it 69
I think most of these kids realize that they shouldn’t act on their feelings, and they’re just kinda expressing themselves on tumblr where it feels safe
Edit: this is the most amount of likes I have ever gotten on a comment wowzers thank you
i can promise you they aren't though lmao
on tumblr there is a whole community of 12-18 year olds who fetishize pedophilia and are in relationships with "maps".....It's....really bad on there right now
Rachel H Personally I don't think this is that unusual, in highschool (mid 80s) kids made the same comments from time to time. It was just the vast majority of teachers were not attractive enough to catch highschoolers eyes. Mostly though, I'm sure they just fantasized at home in their rooms. Here the difference is they have a platform to express openly that before was only done at home and talk at slumber parties.
@@erenrodriguez8768 What the hell? I need those urls, they should be reported.
YES THANK YOU
@@nyancat8655 just look up "minor supporting maps" on tumblr or look up "map" on tumblr. They typically claim to be non offending but consume cp so yes they are offending. If not offending, me and a few friends have gotten a few reported already
We had this one teacher that got together with a 17 year old girl. He was fired, but they ended up getting married (we found that out because their wedding pic was literally his profile one). So... he is a priest now
what the fuck
what the fuck
what the fuck
what the fuck
Oh fuck no
Going from a teacher to a priest? That's a pretty big leap in careers.
What the-
Bullshit, priests aren’t allowed to get married, they take a vow of celibacy. Unless you mean pastor..
Oh man, in eighth grade we'd gotten a younger teacher, like this was his first teaching job and the poor man was not prepared for the several girls in class not only having crushes on him but in no way being subtle about it. His desk started out just kinda to the side of the classroom and by midyear he'd made it into a barricaded fortress because we'll, this is the south so these girls had been raised on the concept that chasing a man was okay and age gaps meant nothing. The few of us girls without crushes tried to run interference and by the end of the year he had one of the female teachers sitting in on classes. I have never seen a grown man look so hunted.
that's so fucked up, holy shit. the thing is, it would be perceived as so much worse if it were the other way around but it doesn't change that the guy probably felt so helpless and EXTREMELY uncomfortable. ewwwwwwwwww.
Him: I am uncomfortable with the energy we have created in the studio today
I feel like a lot of TCC people are lacking affection so they want it wherever they can get it from. Sometimes having a particularly nice teacher that actually treats them like a person might just confuse them when they are in that vulnerable state. This is why i think a lot of kids grow out of it, they find friend groups, they find someone who is at their maturity level.
Preach!!!
Very this! I was an anxious, lonely kid in high school and had more than one "crush" on teachers that were kind to me. I think it's part of that developmental stage - teenagers pine for connection and understanding, and if their peers don't provide it, they latch onto adults that do.
This. I was raised in an emotionally depriving cult. Anytime anyone showed me common decency, I would lap that up and assume that they were romantically interested in me.
personally i was really depressed and my parents didn't pay attention to me so i found that in one of my teachers who used that against me and groomed me at 11-12 years old. i moved to a different school and started crushing on another male teacher who i hoped would be like the first, but he kept his distance and was very polite about it. i hope to god these tumblr users WON'T have their feelings reciprocated, even though i know how bad that hurts. i'm thankful to the second teacher for being normal.
@@zazhands8866 I’m glad that you are out of that situation. I’m also really thankful that second teacher was a decent person.
_when I see my teacher in public, I literally run the other direction bc no_
shit I'm in college and this is still a mood
I saw my 5th grade teacher a few weeks ago and I SPLIT
Same I saw my old History/Geography teacher at work and I literally froze in fear because I knew I couldn’t run away or hide during a shift lmaoooo
I saw my teacher in a store a few years ago and even though she saw me I hid behind my mum so she couldn’t see me anymore 😂
I skipped school once and went to walmart and my mom saw the detention teacher and told me to keep my head down because school was happening. So she saw us and said hi and then said that she was "sick" too. I don't know how to feel. Scared? Happy? Idk!
I think the biggest problem with that it gives space to teachers that actually want to abuse their students. It gives room for inappropriate touches that these kids won't see anything wrong with it, and even actual abuse.
Also when the teacher IS NOT a predator, I can't imagine how stressful it would be to learn a student is doing this.
It also creates a space where a student being abused and trying to open up to a peer about it might get hit with one of those awful “if I was in your situation, I’d have liked it” or “you should be grateful”.
The big issue with any age gap relationship is the power imbalance. financial/ social/ sexual. It can lead to some pretty messed up situations. Hell if the age gap is big enough, most will assume their is some kind of exploitation happening. I want to give adult couples the benefit of the doubt, but some people are good at hiding that kind of abuse :/
* I'm sure some gap relations work out, but I've personally never seen it happen.
I don't have an issue with ages gaps in relationships, IF both parties involved are mature and responsible grown adults that know what they're getting into with that commitment. I agree that some relationships can appear very predatory, and it's kind of worrisome that someone older would be taking advantage of a younger adult.
It's really not my place to tell people what they can and can't do in relationships or to get involved at all, what you do is only your business. But personally I would be a little concerned about a 20yo in a relationship with like a 35-40yo- because people who are 20 are barely more than teenagers, they may not know what they're doing or be mature enough to handle a relationship like that and make smart decisions.
While a 30-35yo with a 45-50 year old, I maybe wouldn't be quite as worried about- it depends on the specific relationship, but I think that once they become an established and mentally grown adult with experience they would be able to handle themselves and know if the situation was becoming toxic or predatory.
I think healthy age gap relationships can work if everyone involved is at the same place in their lives, but that's a fairly unlikely "if" - ie, a 35 y/o might be looking to settle down and have kids, but their 25 y/o partner might be starting a new career or saving money to explore the world. People tend to want different things as they get older, and that can erode even a perfectly healthy age gap relationship over time.
Completely agree
@Annabelle MacDonald Oh! I have a great example... My step-mom and father have a gap of 11 years and it's alarming to some, but rest assured that they met when she was a mature adult and they did date for a while before marriage. Their relationship is actually really well balanced and my father has become a much happier and better person through it. I greatly appreciate my step-mom being in my life because both of my biological parents were abusive in the past, and she also had a rough childhood and is a really good listener. She's also rather learned in mental health(having dealt with it personally) and has helped me, as well as my father and younger brother, learn about our ADHD, coping mechanisms, and we're now diagnosed and better off. I know that there are lots of examples of bad turn-outs with age-gap relationships, but this is a time where it made both people happier. C:
@@chaos9364 Your step-mom sounds like a awesome lady. I'm happy you have parents with a healthy relationship. Honestly the world would be amazing if we all had better role models. Thank you for sharing.
Teacher:is Ashley here?
Ashley:*moans*
Teacher:wtf?
bruh my name is ashley wtf
lmaoo
666 likes :0
I'm dead 😂😂
this kinda sounds like what a really- and i mean REALLY annoying kid named ashley in my school would do
‘That distinctly FanFiction style, you know what I mean.’
I do. I really hate it, but I do.
I threw my hair into a messy bun, put on eyeliner and black hightops, with an arctic monkeys shirt, and walked out the door. Suddenly I fell onto the concrete and into the sewers. I then saw Splinter, the rat from teenage mutant ninja turtles, staring at me. I looked into his sultry green orbs and met his piercing gaze. His face was in mine, merely inches apart. "I love you, Splinter" I said, and then he stabbed me with a wrench.
@@JMunny Perfect!
@@JMunny They had us in the first half.
@@JMunny That... that was beautiful. 😂😭👍
I used to write fanfic occasionally (it was dusgostangh) and had SO MANY friends that wrote it. Still comes out in formal essays of mine LMBO
I legit hurt my neck when I heard "She doesn't exist yet" from it contracting
this is a weird one because i think it's pretty normal for teenage kids (essentially little bags of hormones) to start feeling attraction and it tends to just get placed on the nearest reasonably attractive person. it makes sense that this could easily be someone you see everyday like a teacher, who is more mature than the relativley immature kids your age. on top of that, attraction to authority figures speaks volumes about your previous relationships/interactions with authority (i.e. your parents) which is why most of these kids will feel they have 'mommy' or 'daddy issues'. used in quotes because this ranges from absent parents to genuine abuse. as long as these kids aren't actively looking to date older people, leaving them vulnerable to predators, many will grow out of these attractions in their own time. kids are kids. as long as its not the teachers initiating these crushes, its not really harmful.
i think the harmful things is the communities like the tcc tag where alot of people bounce their emotions around and things can get warped. ive seen abused kids start beliveing that abuser 'loves' them because they think posts about age gap relationships being ok applies to them. kids still need to be taught about healthy relationships. sure it makes a whole lot of us feel genuinely uncomfortable because we see it from an adult perspective, but these kids are just trying to figure out alot
*sorry for this absolute unit of a wall but its just an opinion
yes, i agree
@Sop hie very very very good point as well
In high school, my psych teacher gave me 'special attention'... making small talk with only me in a class of 40, winking at me in class while teaching, asking me to do him favors like help him grade papers, clean his desk space after hours, etc. As a 16 year old with low self esteem, he was an absolute dream and I had the BIGGEST crush on him. Over time, his favors grew more and more inappropriate and isolated. At the time, I thought it was normal for teachers to treat students this way. It wasn't until now that I realized his method of treatment towards me was grooming.
Additionally, his coworker/friend/other teacher witnessed his attention towards me. I guess that signaled to this other teacher that it was okay to touch me inappropriately and pressure me to travel to another country with him.
When you are that young and vulnerable, you soak that attention up, especially with low self esteem. It is only now at 22 years old that I realize how incredibly inappropriate it was and how traumatic it was for me. I still have vivid dreams about both teachers.
All in all, just want to say that it isn't always the student's fault for having predisposed issues with parents/authority, which I suspect is usually the psychological root for teacher crushes. Unfortunately, there are predators that hold teaching positions that abuse and seek out these kids in these psychological situations.
Natalie Schopen Oh my god!! I hope that you’re okay now! That is so terrible and I hope you feel better after that terrible situation. Stay safe, boo. ☹️
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you're healing!
You are absolutely right, and I'm glad you got out of that situation. It isnt always the kids fault..sometimes teachers take advantage of teens who are still trying to figure themselves out. It's a little scary, but the biggest thing is just being aware of the situation, which in many cases, the student isnt. Being informed, it's very easy to recognize bad situations early before they get to toxic
Bullshit! Your just seeking attention and putty it was two nice guys who never crossed a line and you have nightmares? That's weak as fuck
You got Kricfalusi'd.
One thing to be attracted to a teacher while realizing that you should never act on that... another thing to make a blog and actively work to be with an authority figure
true but a lot of the community does not want to get with their crushes, they just use it as a vent
@@nal3901 yes, but it's not a lil crush, it's a full unhealthy thing
But are really people taking it seriously? I am in the TC community and I have a crush on my teacher (I’m on my fourth year of college btw) and I vent on this tag because I think it’s funny…..Not because I actually consider anything with him.
It’s a fantasy, I thought everybody on the tag was like that
honestly the Teacher Crush Community and True Crime Community using the same tag is ICONIC!!! i mean it makes a lot of sense if you think about it. if a teacher actually did do anything like that with a student it would truly be a crime, so it makes a lot of sense to lump them together in the same tag! 💀
“So are you into older men or serial killers?” Idk why I laughed so much at that😂
I had an attractive, young teacher my senior year of HS and I think it’s normal to be a little attracted to them. But to full blown FANTASIZE about them? Imagine a relationship with them? Genuinely want to be with them? That’s unhealthy and obsessive and creepy. Not to mention illegal and inappropriate.
alize0623 I agree. I actually have a teacher rn who I think its pretty attractive, but its more of just a "oh, you're an attractive person" sort of thing, not a "omg! I have a crush on you".
Its completely natural to find some people that are older than you attractive. I mean, lots of girls would usually have posters of famous guys on their bedroom walls because they find them attractive, or like something about them. But to be completely sexually and romantically attracted to them is just wrong. One person here posted a comment about how someone in their school wrote a fan fiction about doing it with a teacher, and the school found out. Apparently the guy almost lost his job because of that girl writing a messed up fan fiction about him.
I just realised how long this comment was 😂 I apologize.
It's inappropriate but it's not illegal. It would be if the teacher was the one wanting to be with the student. Right?
Alessandro M. Lupacchini Yes But the students with the crush desire the teacher to have a relationship with them, which is the illegal part
yeah, i think you can think “oh theyre cute” as long as you keep it to yourself and dont act on it.
pinkbotany ya, I think its alright as long as its just a slight sort of "you're attractive" thing and not a messed up crush that you're going to act upon.
One person in the Teacher Crush Community at my high school had a huge thing for our choir teacher. And she wrote a sexy fan fiction on Wattpad about him and herself in his office getting it on on his couch. The school board found out about it and he got suspended for a few days while they investigated. It was discovered that the fan fiction was just fanfiction. But, it almost cost the guy his job, and cost my school a really chill, cool teacher. This community is actually quite harmful.
Name of fanfiction? Not saying I’m interested, just saying I wanna write so many comments about how fucking wrong it is, and because I came from your comment.
Why.did.you.do.that
The fanfic was deleted after the whole fiasco. The girl switched schools shortly after that.
If I were that teacher I would probably have curled up in a corner, died, and never gone near another child again. That's really shitty that her gross fantasies almost cost him his job.
Omg what the hell, that's disturbing and I know that person must be super embarrassed
One of my teachers actually married one of his students when she was of age and they have like 7 kids
There’s like a 22-year age gap between them or something
edit: their youngest kid is in 8th grade and the teacher is like 70 it gives me the creeps
Eli Soares wait SEVEN KIDS!!?!? You’re not exaggerating are you?
Jack Kreanxx nope, I kinda wish I was
Oh god i want to clay out my eyeballs
That happened at my high school too. And the guy was a HEALTH teacher. So not only was he a weirdo, but he was a weirdo who had to teach us about sex.
Oh God. In my elementary school the principal dated & married this super young teacher that started right out of college and that already made me literally nauseous.
Teya: "Everyone's had that crush"
My ace self that saw teachers as not even the same species:
you sure you dont mean aro?
My aroace self as well
hello i am aro ace
there are so many of us (including aros but not aces and aces but not aros and anyone under the umbrella) on the internet but none irl )': lol
not the best time but HEY
Beginning of video: "aw it's kinda cute, just kids with crushes"
Halfway through: "Okay nevermind"
My guy, 1:55 in and i’m already uncomfy
@@senorsombrero1275 okay to be fair I was a little barred out
im not that far in yet and im scared
Just before I left school I spoke to one of my teachers and she told me that when she was a teen she dated a teacher for two years after leaving (at 16). She said that reflecting on that now as an adult she realized how wrong it was, especially as she now teaches children of the same age. She said she felt taken advantage of and even though she was consenting to the relationship at the time, if she could go back she would never have done it
when kids or teens "consent" to having sex with an adult they aren't really consenting, because they're (often) too young to fully know what they're getting into, and don't know the repercussions or the fact that it's wrong. especially when this person is some kind of authoritarian figure to them, like a teacher. they think this person knows best and that they should go along with what they say, because they don't have the knowledge to realise how wrong it really is. it's sad that there are so many disgusting people that would exploit and take advantage of people for their own sick needs like this, and i'm sorry that your teacher went through that. glad she told you though so that she can educate people on it, and prevent it from happening to others
That happened to me but online i was like 13 and this dude who was 20 or something was really sexual and shit with me and I didn’t think it was wrong and now looking back on it I regret the fuck out of it but I’m just thankful that it was online and not in real life. I remember him saying that he had gotten a gf and it turns out she was underaged too and shit god he was so creepy.
CandyAshes I’m so sorry that happened to you, I’m sure you know this but that’s not your wrong doing at all.
erin adolescents are young adults.
This is exactly what happened to me, when I was 16 and he was 25 and he was my art teacher. We dated for 2 years as well! But I have never looked back on it and thought it was wrong... I think sometimes it just happens, I looked and acted much more mature for my age, could easily pass for 18+ or older. Now I am 26 and he is 35 and we are still good friend and occasionally meet up to hang out, and he has only ever dated older people since me. I was a one-off situation and it was never his intention to take advantage of me. I can however see why it might appear that way to others, but I feel like every situation is different based on the person and their intentions.
When I first started highschool (I'm 13 yrd old) someone started a rumor about me that I have a crush with my teacher who I'm friends with (kinda? Idk, we're close tho). That rumor just died but after that, my teacher doesn't want to speak to me anymore outside class. Thank you, whoever you are for destroying my relationship to a supposed-to-be parental father figure.
I'm so sorry
teacher crushes are incredibly weird, but also #466 is just having anxiety in high school.
'see me after class.'
braincells, becoming a barbershop quartet: you've fucked uuuuuup.
I'm not gonna lie. My gay ass had a huge crush on my health class instructor, but I couldn't imagine ever thinking about the possibility of a relationship with him. I can see where they're coming from: being attracted to an authority figure like a teacher, but they take it way too goddamn far.
@Professional Dragon Tamer well you see physical education and health teachers are different, but some schools will have them be the same teachers
@@OjaZack I had two. One was an ex navy asshole that was rumored to watch our asses jiggle as we work out
The other is a big woman with nice glasses and was also the 8th grade math teacher
@Professional Dragon Tamer no, my PE from my old school was young and healthy af and he wasn't even married yet
None of my teachers are attractive, so that’s cool. And most of them are married with kids.
I've had some crushes on teachers, but it wasn't like I was ever having sexual fantasy stuff about them. It wasn't like I was daydreaming about relationships with them. Fuck.
Crushing on teachers is somewhat normal but posting about them obsessively or acting on it is y i k e s
B I G EW
Yeah
Agreed
Everyone's had a mild teacher crush I think. But like, this is obsession
Kemerald Exactly, like I think most people have a crush on a teacher once or twice but most people also know that it’s not something they should pursue
9:51 (your name)? Who uses (your name)? If they’re writing fics they should know it’s y/n not (your name)
when a fanfiction has [name] instead of y/n you know its written by someone too experienced and mature to be writting fanfiction
I liked this for your name and profile pic
Lol _that's_ the issue you found with this
I honestly never understood how people could read stories/fanfics with "y/n"(or in this case the words "your name") appearing often in them. Like, how can you be immersed in that? Not to mention, a lot of the times it's written like:"y/n, come look at this","y/n, I like you", "y/n this" "y/n that" like, normal people don't address you with your name *every* time they want to say something to you lmao.
@@Robin-234 i did read y/n fic when i was a child and tbh i never substituted my name in because i always forgot so i always pronounced it "why en" idk if this was a universal experience tho
Would like to point out, teens DEFINITELY know that this is weird. When I was at *least* 14 everyone around me and myself knew that teacher crushes were weird af, these teens are just being the weird percent.
As an educator, I *mildly* expressed my disgust of this community on Tumblr and was met with a barage of threats and insults for several MONTHS.
The *only* positive feedback was from other educators who use Tumblr for correspondence.
Kids: We don't want you. We don't even want to know that you want us. Part of growing up is dealing with rejection and the social reality that a teacher dating a student is just inappropriate. Be healthy and explore the dating scene among your *peers*
Thanks
HrhMk I’m so fucking sorry you had to go through that. Just the thought of dating any of my professors/teachers (I go to high school and college) disgust me entirely. I hope that you are having a better tumblr experience these days. Tumblr is really only good for shitty meme videos and pics and basically everything else is super incredibly toxic
HrhMk Sorry to hear about your threats. That just sounds awful. I mean there’s looking up to someone in admiration and respect for their wealth of knowledge (which was the relationship with most of my favorite teachers). But then there’s this. Having a little crush on a teacher is one thing (and it was easy to tell who had them because they always asked the teacher stupid questions and would giggle like an idiot). But then there’s going to stalker levels of creepy.
Tumblr is absolutely cancerous.
Aaliyah K. E. Which response are you talking about? The one above your comment?
@@epicjoyfulcreations4580 No, I was talking about the "hate" the original commenter received from Tumblr. Apologies for the confusion.
"My name sounds beautiful coming from your lips" like when they call on you for attendance? Lmao
Legit Bridget this comment killed me hahahah
That's what i thought
Legit Bridget probably, yes
im skksksskskks omh
honestly i was like "is it nice when they yell at u?"
Tw- this is really messed up
One of my friends had a crush on a teacher when she was 10. A sub heard about it and he ended up molesting her and not getting fired. It was awful to watch it go down. I only just realised what had actually happened a few years ago.
That's so terrible and heartbreaking. I hope she's okay now. And that sub was a predatory piece of trash, and I hate that he didn't even get fired, he should be in jail.
@@videoupload6898 I agree. I haven't spoken to her in a long time. We weren't very close to begin with but I really hope she's alright now.
I remember reading this book (in my high school library, ironically) by Jacqueline Wilson called Love Lessons. Not only does the main character, Prue, have a crush on her art teacher, she tells him she loves him, kisses him, and he reciprocates, and even contemplates leaving his wife and newborn baby FOR A FOURTEEN YEAR OLD. And since it's written from her perspective, it's framed as incredibly romantic, and it's such a shame that she gets expelled and they can't be together!
I liked Jacqueline Wilson's other works, but this was incredibly bad.
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
You know what they say
Age is just a number
And jail is just a place
and hell is just a sauna
@@d3cayingdolly a really hot sauna
my fist is just a body part ya know
the electric chair is just a seat
And murder is just keeping us from overpopulating.
I don’t think I can handle the word “crave” being applied to anything other than food
who? I crave sleep
K r a v e. c h o c o l a t e. c e r e a l
i crave good art skills
I crave d e a t h
Now I want pizza.
"She was in school studying to become a high school teacher" **OH NO**
Yeah, I was once in that state of mind. Realised how fucking weird it is, and now I'm going down the opposite end of the spectrum, and decided on working in early education (which I've wanted to do since yr 10, before my teacher crush).
Imagine walking into a hospital as a 22 year old pointing to a newborn girl and saying "I just wanted to meet my future wife"
I just threw up thanks
That's basically a plot point of the last Twilight movie
One of my students was reading the Twilight books for SSR. Room completely SILENT. She literally shouts "FUCKING WHAT" and throws the book like it was on fire. At the time I hadn't read any or even knew what was in them and kids tend to bring their own books from home. So she explains she's sorry for swearing but she couldn't deal and shows me the passage where he's like "Oh awesome I'm a life mate with your daughter that's been born that's chill"
We mutually agreed she could just avoid the book talk at the end of the week.
@@Kitsuiko Jacob was no longer hot after that. I remember it sent a chill down my spine when I was like 12.
I think its a lil funny bc imagine a 14 year old girl obsessing over a teacher who is only nice to her bc shes a student and she has good grades, but he actually finds her super annoying bc she's always bugging him "i need help with this" , "can i come in after class for help?" "How was your day?" And the teacher just wants her to stfu. sorry i just started thinking about this thats hilarious
I remember having a crush on my teacher in 11th grade, I even gave him a Christmas gift in 12th grade (he keeps it on his desk which I find very nice) but once I was out of HS I realized how weird it was. But I will say that me and my teacher really got along and I’ve seen him since (BC my mom works at the school and I stop by often) we get along as two adults now and I’m happy about that. He was the only person that accepted me as an atheist when I first came out as one, despite him being super Christian. We have nice conversations and I think that’s what a healthy totally platonic relationship with a teacher/ former teacher should be. I just hope these kids never act on it and grow out of it.
Oh man, as a teacher this makes me SO uncomfortable. I wasn't aware this was a thing until this video and I didn't even watch it all the way through because I was just so viscerally disturbed.
I doubt that these students would be so enamoured with their teachers if they heard the amount of shittalking in the staffroom.
Can confirm as an adult person that works with kids, there's a lot of shittalking in the break room lol
Oh my god yes, they even shit talk about their own students
Child of two teachers (mom's 2nd grade, dad's middle school Spanish). They do complain about students a lot. I can honestly say that I don't think there are too many that they ever disliked to the point of not wanting them in their classes however. I think that's the case for most teachers.
True.
In all fairness, about half the shittalking is about parents as well. Really, in many cases the parent is as much to blame as the child. I've had kids that misbehave and run wild...and later find out that Mom doesn't discipline or believe in saying "no" at home, so he gets to act however he wants there.
Plus another common extreme...the helicopter parents. Oh god, the helicopter parents.
On the flip side, there are loads of great parents that cooperate and my profession is one where you see enough cute/well-behaved kids to get baby fever at least twice a week.
my mom’s a teacher and she loves giving me the tea on her students, their parents, and even her coworkers.
As a teacher, I am slightly disturbed that this community is a thing....
Shelsy WOAH TEACHERS CAN BE TUMBLR THOTS?
Oof run...
sksksks i wanna be a teacher for highschool and i have no idea what the fuCK id do if someone my own age right now, 16, wanted a relationship and obsessed over adult me. i mean just entirely having a blog for someone is creepy as fuck!!!! the fact that the person is in a position of power is worse and then the cherry on top is the age gap even if its late teens and early 20s what the fuck man?? the maturity gap also
GET OFF THE INTERNET IT IS A HORRIBLE PLACE YOU NEED TO BE PROTECTED
I don't know if y'all are joking or serious 😂
as a person who was groomed by my teacher as a minor, this stuff makes me so worried for the kids in this community. please, for the love of god, stay safe.
This community is oddly fascinating to me. It’s so bizarre, they look so into the tiniest things to believe their teacher likes them too. I’ve spent hours on this tag and blogs, it’s insane.
i feel the same way omg
When I was 9, my then teacher was such a sweetheart. I mean that in a... Not sexual way. Like, he was just so nice. He was a gentle giant.
Anyways, long story short, one day I said "I want to own a lizard with you." (I was a weird kid) The next day he had a lizard in a tank and showed me it. It was so fucking nice and cool. The lizard is still alive and retired with him. I still talk to him, he's became kinda a mentor I guess? Like a tutor? He's prepping me for high school math which I thank him for. He and my mom are friends actually.
And before you go apeshit,
I HAVE NEVER HAD A CRUSH ON HIM. LITTLE NINE YEAR OLD ME HAD A CRUSH ON MY BEST FRIEND (lol lesbian problems). HE HAS NO CRUSH ON ME. IT WAS JUST A TEACHER GETTING ALONG WITH A MENTALLY CHALLENGED CHILD.
He has always been so kind to me. Even when we first met, he didn't belittle me for my hf autism. He just believed in me. He helped me go through elementary school when my bullying got at its worse. I respect him for that.
thanks you made my night that was really wholesome
Omg the 'i want to own a lizard with u' is sooo cute😭
That was wholesome thank you
This is so cute OMG. As someone who has high functioning autism (which went undiagnosed til well after I finished high school), I wish I'd had a teacher be that willing to bond with me and not judge me for it.
I'm glad you all got to continue your friendship (I guess that's what it is?) with him beyond school because he sounds awesome.
"lol lesbian problems" Do I smell the need for attention?
...Now I suddenly don't want to be a teacher anymore.
Children are largely terrible and the money sucks.
kids are annoying
same lmao, I already get enough rude comments from grown ass people, I don't want them coming from dumb kids too 😂
My dad is a teacher and he isnt very attractive like at all but now I wonder if the 7th grade girls he teaches-
I think you can be a teacher if you want to. I for sure think that it doesn't pay well, but if you want to go for it b=haha
I always thought teacher crushes were super gross in school and they did happen. I remember telling the girls, “he’s happily married with children and much older than you, you know crushing on him is gross on multiple levels right.” Then a girl at my school who was like 14 started sleeping with a 23 year old who ran the racetrack. I kept telling her he was a predator till she quit talking to me. We had a coach that we all suspected to be a super kid perv because he would peak in the girls locker room. Maybe because big age gaps always made me cringe but I never understood teacher crushes. I wanted to go into education for a while and would look around my college classrooms and wonder if I’d ever see any of them guilty in the news paper for sleeping with students. It happened at one of my local high schools twice.
I started watching Pretty Little Liars and the main girl Aria is in a relationship with her teacher. To his credit, the first time they met he didn't know she was gonna be his student and they met in a bar and she sorta mislead him into thinking she was in college and as I said, she did meet him in a bar so it's not that strange that he'd assume she was an adult.
But then he finds out and STILL doesn't break up with her because "they have a connection" even though they've only met once before.
And there are SO so many moments when he's like "I shouldn't be doing this... it's wrong, we're at entirely different stages of our lives, I'm keeping you from having actual appropriate relationships with boys your own age, I'm abusing my power as a teache... not to mention it's illegal..."
And I'm like "Yes... yes..."
And then he's like:"... But I know I have to be strong and do The Right Thing and stay together with you, a child, anyways."
And I'm like "NO! NO! YOU ALMOST HAD IT!"
Me: cursive
Teya, an intellectual: curly font
lmaoooo
i'm-
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There was one teacher at my school when I was like 12 and almost every girl had a crush on him because he was in his early twenties and was somewhat attractive. The worst part is that he knew the girls liked him and was super cocky about it so he would always flirt with them and it was so uncomfortable to watch. Like he would always flirt with one of my friends in particular who hit puberty at like age 9 so she was definitely more developed than the rest of our year group but she loved the attention he gave her, and it genuinely was so gross to see an adult act that way.
I think that's illegal... just maybe flirting with a little kid that hit puberty early is wrong.
@@mme.veronica735 oh it was super wrong. I don't think it's because he had any interest in any of the girls, it seemed more as if he just liked the ego boost that came from all these girls idolizing him which is still weird in it's own right. He actually started dating an ex student after she became an assistant at the school when she was like 20, which again kinda rubbed me the wrong way but they were both consenting adults at that point so
That's disgusting... I hope to become a teacher and it's just so uncomfortable to think about people half my age crushing on me, so to actually flirt back just makes me wanna vomit tbh
Did you report him to another teacher or any authority figure in the school or something?
@@lieutenantlemons2260 honestly all the other teachers would joke about him being a flirt. Like I said I don't think he was necessarily predatory or anything, he just had an ego. Like it's still super fucked up, but it seemed like he just enjoyed the attention, especially since he always tried to be the young chill teacher so the guys all loved him too.
I had a crush on a teacher so instead of like doing that, I started calling him a gnome to the point the younger years started calling him that and one got yelled at for drawing it on his whiteboard.
That's really shitty lol
I remember a book I read back in the 4th grade called "Fifth Grade Fever." The book had two girls have a crush on their teacher, a 20-something man with a girlfriend. I forgot most of the book, but I do remember the teacher was oblivious of the girls crushes (even though they dress like the girlfriend in one chapter) and the book ended with the girlfriend meeting the girls, calling them "cute," kissing the teacher on the lips, and the girls realizing they're no match for the girlfriend. I enjoyed the book as a little boy but now as a grown adult I'm wondering how the hell a) that it ever got published, and b) why it was in an ELEMENTARY SCHOOL LIBRARY!
What the actual FUCK?
In reality, teachers (unless they're horrible) look at their students as nothing more than kids D: You could be 17 turning 18, and I would still see them as a kid, it's a lil creepy that kids look at their teachers like that
Not necessarily creepy but I'll admit it is odd about romanticizing it, a fantasy such as that is only alright until you wish for it to be true. Tho for the most part it's virtually harmless
i can tell you never had a bad teacher, although forming a community out of it is retarded
i knew about a teacher who actually married a cheerleader at our school. ppl already suspected there was something going on. though he waited till she was 18 obviously. all in all its fucking gross imo
Starbeam please don’t think all teacher crushes mean the student wants to ‘do it’ with their crush. I know this from personal experience be honest you’ve had an innocent non sexual crush on an adult when you were a kid
Hallam Family im 16 and i can safely say, fuck all of my teachers
My older brother is becoming a teacher and the idea of a girl half his age crushing on him and writing this obsessive stuff honestly grosses me out so much (it repels him too, he feels sick just thinking about it.) These kids in the TCC honestly don't know what they're talking about and just trying to act older than they really are.
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Professor Bacon He'll be teaching physics! He's been working so hard and will be teaching in a few weeks.
schoolgirl crushes happen, it's just the obsessive stuff that is insane
cherub a I didn't necessarily mean that a small tiny crush was bad, but the TCC is full of young impressionable kids who write those obsessive posts and could potentially be taken advantage of.
Some kids have this hero worship of their teachers (or of much older celebrities, etc.) and can't really distinguish the two., especially if they don't have these figures in their home lives. But congratulations to your brother!
“Age is just a number”
*hell is just a sauna*
The worst is when your best friend has a crush on a teacher and has no personality other than that
Lol this reminds me of this interaction my friend told me about between this chick and a teacher who a lot of students were crushing on where the chick walked up to him and said "I'm 18 now 😏" and he completely shut her down with "you're disgusting".
Good for him lol
IM WEAK 😂
I definitely would’ve paid money to see this go down ☠️☠️
Mission passed! +Respect
Trickster Cat llssss 😂
teacher: alright kids, we’re going to do roll call. anne davis?
kid: i love when you say my name. it sounds _beautiful_ coming from your *lips*
Child pls. Pls no.
Got me dead lol
And then the teacher be like: wtf
If that happened my teacher would die laughing and then tell them to leave still dying of laughter
*Teacher, suddenly seduced*
“And with those lips I’ll touch them with your-“
As someone who's almost done studying to become a teacher, this makes me so uncomfortable. I'm only 25 but I already see people under 18 as almost toddlers (I'm exaggerating but you get what I mean) so to imagine finding out about all their fantasies about me or a colleague would be so so weird.
lol I would probably cry XD
As someone with a teacher for a dad...this makes me very uncomfortable
You: big Ew.
Me, an intellectual: massive disgust
omg perfect
Al R-e me, as a genius: major uncomfortable
Me, ascended: t h o u s u c c s
@@insertarnombre1354
Me *_A S C E N D E D:_* *_THY MAKE'TH ME'STV DISGUST FELLING_*
me, a confused intellectual: momumental repugnance
I feel like TV shows and movies that feature student-teacher relationships in a “romantic” way add fuel to the hormonal fire.
having a little crush on a teacher growing up is completely normal, but this is just creepy. the second you want to act on it, it becomes unhealthy.
a kid at the school im currently going to appearantly had a relationship with her teacher, slept with him and maybe even got pregnant (not sure about that though) but when she graduated this chick decided she and the teacher who was like,,,45 or something should marry and live together. the teacher quit his job to marry and live with a student and it still disgusts me to this day.
Big yikes
gargantuan shock
My friend had a crush on our language arts teacher in 8th grade. She’s over it now but I was in hell for a year.
Her: “It’s just not socially acceptable [for them to be together]”
Me: “NO, IT’S ILLEGAL”
Ellie B people had crushes on my 8th grade English teacher too! It’s so gross.
Oi, tjeres another comment on here thats like this one. You should talk with them
*back to school season*
Every other youtuber- lol school supplies haul tiimme (even tho none of us go to school)
Teya- teacher crush deep dive timee
That's why this is the *longest* channel on youtube.
Having crushes on teachers is one thing. Those kids can't really stop that, even if they want to. But trying to get it reciprocated is just disgusting and sets off all of my alarm bells.
completely natural to have a crush on an older figure in your life. been there plenty of times. not "normal" or good to pursue it or think it's an actual reasonable goal to have.
One girl in my highschool (freshman year) had a crush on a teacher and she wrote him a love letter and gave it to him. she wasn’t allowed in his classroom anymore
oh my
she wrote- and gave it- oh my lord..
I just cringed so hard I turned into a cringe-black hole
THE C R I N G E
That whole situation is C R I N G E. The embarrassment. Imagine explaining that to your guardians/parents. And if it's in high school imagine the weird vibe that would surround that persons relationships with any teacher for the next couple of years.
I feel like its fine to think your teacher is kinda cute, but i dont think you should fantasize about you and your teacher👏
Yeah i had an innocent crush on my english teacher in junior high. I knew it could never go anywhere, and tbh i didnt want it to go anywhere. I knew i was a child and he was an adult and it would be horrible innapropriate if something were to happen. I just enjoyed getting butterflies in my stomach during his classes. It never distracted me from school or the subject he was teaching either so i'd say it was healthy.
McLovin McLovin bruh same,, I had a huge crush on my english teacher in 6/7th grade but I never acted on it or let it mess up my schoolwork
We all had some teachers we wanted to shag/get shagged by but most of us knew it would actually be horrible if it happened
call me crazy but i think people can fantasize about whatever the fuck they want
@@goyjin5676 literally me in chemistry tbh >< I was lowkey a puddle sometimes, and even though he was pretty young (17 me and 22 him if I remember right.) it still would've been massively inappropriate and unbalanced no matter what.
As somebody who chronically has crushes on her teachers, I'm glad I didn't know about this community in high school.
I’m lesbian and I’ve ever only crushed on female teachers
To me it sounds a little weird, because I’ve only read stories where students had straight crushes on teachers
Anyways I remember having a massive crush 3 years ago one of my teachers
She still teaches at my school and I’ve gotten over it now
I've literally never had a teacher crush. More like an overwhelming need to make my favorite teachers from middleschool and high school proud at age 21.
You look like a kindergarten teacher in this, ironically 😂
Not quite colourful enough
Jontron: " I don't like where this is going"
This made me have a realization that she does look like a kindergarten teacher, all the time, i cant unsee it
@@magicavocado6528 uhhhhhhum.... UHHHHHHHUM