@WinterGirl He was a dirty john. I'm a sugar daddy. I'd never ask for sex on the first date nor offer money for that. It's supposed to be like normal dating but the woman then asks for help with this or that and he pays if, with no need of discussion, he's feeling like she's a cool girlfriend. Sex can wait 6 months or more.
The only person who did anything wrong in that last encounter was HER. She lied to the guy, he was 100% honest with her. SHE advertised herself, she agreed to meet up for sex, she let him pay for the hotel knowing she would never go, then acted as if she was in an awkward situation she just couldn't help. He was polite, didn't force her to do anything and sympathised that she'd apparently changed her mind. Christ, this has nothing to do with the website, it's about her getting on her moral high horse against men because women can get paid for consensual sex.
I agree, she could have been honest and have told any of them she wanted to do an interview to better understand the reasons that bring people to look for sex with someone so much younger. I'm sure she would have found someone willing to tell their story. :S
In the end the program had tips what you should do, how NOT to get scammed and was a great advert for the site, showing that yes, you can make good money really fast and clients might actually be quite nice!! 🤔
@@natalierose2182 that's exactly what I thought it made the whole thing seem quite appealing to the men and the younger women that's might be interested 🤣
Was this supposed to be shocking? Lol what else were you expecting when the dude literally told you before you got there what he wanted... I'm just confused and bored.
You catfished a guy who has no time for a real relationship and is willing to fork out for a "pay to play GF", just for a bit of intamacy, all for a clickbait piece. That's pretty dry and callous.
What is a "real relationship", exactly? Are you talking pseudo-romantic nonsense like "Sugaring" or... friendships... or what? People treat one another like disposable goods doing this stuff, and worse, yet nobody seems to bat an eyelash because of delusions that seem so common...
Girl,I think you should text Cash Daddy on Instagram @cody.j01 or text him on phone (904)385 3727 a sugar daddy and he helps people too He helped me out recently just as he promised $1500 a week
n. p.I never found the real daddy until Steven spoil me physically and financially I will love to share my daddy just to help sugar babies you could just message him on what's App +19376349657
@@Jojohumf You realize that these women don't have the intelligence, dedication, character, work ethic, and patience to study, go through dental school, and become a dentist, don't you? That's why they go this route. It's not that they're "selling themselves short;" it's that they're selling the ONLY thing they have of value anyway. Women who engage in this lifestyle generally have nothing else to offer.
I thought it was obvious that it would be an exchange of sex & money. I mean some people do just want to hang out or have a companion/go on dates, but sex is usually a huge part of the equation. I remember being on some of those sites, and pretty much every man that messaged me was super up front about that lol.
It's very naive of you to think that most relationships aren't dependent on financial benefits and standards. Just because there is a financial transaction doesn't mean it can't be graceful and caring. This man treated her better than most husbands and boyfriends treat their girls, let alone how most men would react on a "date"! Most husbands and bfs would get pissed at their girl if they told her their plans and intentions and she still let him blow a bunch of money pretending she was on board only to let him down at the last minute after he spent a bunch of money and got his hopes up.
You didn’t meet with any sugar daddies, you met with a John. There is a difference. Even in his message, it was obvious that he was a John, a cheap one at that. 250 pounds for a few hours of “fun,” ? That’s Cheaper than what an escort would charge him. Also men that use the word “fun,” in reference to sex, should never be taken seriously.
Sugar daddies and John's are synonymous. They ALL want sex. Do you think an older wealthy man is going to waste his time and money on a complete stranger, without getting sex for it? Get real.
A lot of sugar daddy's and mommy's look for a little something like that but not a single one I've come across, spoke to or had have looked for or pushed for sex. Many are just looking for companionship or may have a fetish called "findom" x
Wow, he was so respectful and kind. It makes me wonder if he was just lonely (which he probably was). But I would genuinely feel comfortable in his presence.
She’s only 18 and bragging about doing it with old men...... She’s even showing her face. Do people not have shame or embarrassment anymore? I thought people only did this job in desperate times
@@joshspiker It was morally bankrupt with God & it was morally bankrupt over thousands of years with War & Rape. Prostitution is the oldest profession.
Looks like a really genuine advertisement of the website. 1) You can earn easy money. 2) Male users are nice and polite. 3) it's not prostitution (states the website in the end).
Karina Peters Look at it this way: Now there r sugar mamas as well as sugar daddies. That’s equal rights. The fact that women now have enough money to spend on young men (or women) if they choose to. Sex work is the oldest profession. It’s not going anywhere. If anything, equal rights brought it to the forefront. So don’t demean these ppl. If u want to go after anyone, go after the consumers. Which is just about everyone these days. Anyone who looks at porn, buys a dirty magazine, hires a stripper for their bachelorette party...ur just proving there’s a huge market. U want them to stop? U and everyone u know needs to stop.
Karina Peters It’s a job. Nothing to do with the suffrage movement. And before u judge, imagine a single mom w no where to go. Her abusive husband just kicked her out. She’d lost all her friends when her husband had thhem move across the country last yr, where can they go? Shes been to the local library to use their internet to try to find any job to feed her kid. She finds this. She sleeps w a guy and she feeds her kid. I agree w u it’s not something I’d do but there r ppl with real situations like this. Forget women’s suffrage, this is about a basic human right to live.
Karina Peters And u didn’t respond to anything I wrote in response to u. Congrats on that. The point was he’s out of the way, could be jailed, could be dead, she left him, u don’t know in what state.
@Karina Peters you just ignored all the valuable points by Essence Oceans because they made far better point than you. You can't just judge people with out having any idea of their circumstances, plus we live in a free will society so if a man or a women want, they can have casual sex, one night stand, sex for money, sex with multiple people at the same time and so on, as long as all the adults involved are consenting.
You're a grown woman, if you cannot handle a grown man who is being honest and open to you abour his needs in a mutually benificial relationship then this type of relationship and life goals just isn't for you.
I kinda had a sugar daddy but didn't do anything sexual with him not even hug lol he's also a father but he would offer me free rides and free food and gave me money on my bday and would literally drive me anywhere I asked him lol also weekly allowance of $500. He offered me a job at his business place as well but we talked mostly online I found him on kik @NedAaronpaypiggy Haha😛
I have been reading a lot about this and according to people who have used it, newbies tend to get a lot of sex request first cause guys hope they are naive. This girl catfished this guy, had the app for maybe a day, and responded to a sexual request which she accepted. She is trying to make men out to be the bad guys here but he was pretty understanding when she changed her mind and she completely lead him on.
If you are going to enter sex work why not choose an easier route and train to become a dominatrix? That way the power is in your hands and you don't sleep with the person. Not saying there aren't risks involved and not everyone has the right temperament for it but it deffo seems like the better choice. I'm just glad I am financially independent and able to support myself without resorting to sex work. Not everyone is so lucky.
Aisha Abdella this is a little naive, the power balance doesn’t completely shift if you’re in the assumed powerful position of a Dom - ultimately the clients needs are still going to be met and their wants as a paying submissive negate the interaction. There is a lot more labour that goes into being a Dom which can make it far from the first option for people in sex work.
Maria C True. I’m an escort and sometimes requests for a Dom are a ruse. The man wants me to enrage him so it will be easier for him to assault me. Then he turns on me. It’s a common scenario. I try to avoid clients who sexualize violence in any way.
Yeh yeh, but at the ends of the day he want sex. But I think I remember sugar daddy site open for the only dating site but fact now it's turn into a sex or prostitution site. So keep it up 👍 sugar babies
Sheena Rehema I’m glad he didn’t behave worse, but looking to use male privilege and economic privilege to sexually exploit a young woman is, by definition, disrespectful.
@@brittaolson6550 yes it is but these are grown women who make these choices. it's basically prostitution they know exactly what they're doing and they willingly sign up for such sites he isnt the disrespectful one here when these women cant respect themselves and CHOOSE to do it! sleep with men for money
@@sheenarehema27 Well, it’s a sugar daddy site. What’s a man doing on that site if he wants sex on the 1st date and would only pay $250? In the modern world, men don’t want to be perceived as a molester or abuser so that’s why they use mind games and manipulation on girls who don’t know any better so they can give themselves up
It's cheaper to do this than date. If you go on 2 dates a week for a year and as a man you pay 50-100 each time (2-3 cocktails each) that can add up to 5000-10,000 a year.
I mean, isn’t this what most “traditional” boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are like? When girls expect their boyfriends to be ‘gentlemen’ and pay for dinner, movies, etc.? I really don’t see the difference except one situation is more honest about what each side wants 🤷🏽♀️
Olivia Miller-Davis no I agree the man shouldn’t be expected to pay for everything, but I just know lots of women who do expect the man to bend over backwards for them, and yet, all the women are bringing to the table is their looks. Only difference in this situation is the man is a lot older 😐
Basically this video promotes sugar dating. In the first part she mentions no sex with the sugar daddy, he just pays her for company while traveling. In the second part it seems that even if the daddy asks for sex you can easily decline. Also failed to whisper prostitution at any point.
It’s sad that on RUclips, and other social media young people most commonly frequent, the sugar baby lifestyle is glorified to the fullest. I hope many people learn from the recent Mackenzie Lueck story and realize it is not a good option to choose. Stay safe and don’t meet strangers alone or late at night in non-public areas. I’m not victim blaming, but I want others to learn from this. If her story saves even one person that her death wouldn’t be for nought.
Listen, I don't know what Universe you are in but Every escort agency claims that sex isn't part of, or rather the whole deal...I don't know what you were thinking and that guy was really nice...you are lucky!
Interesting. I would called it prostitution; not sugar daddy, sugar babie, sugar coating BS. Prostitution: "the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment." This definition applies to every class, not just to the lower class.
She lied about her age, lied about her intentions. The man was completely 100% honest and even understanding when she reneged. Who is the despicable one here?
You could say he was a nice bloke. You could say his wife died of cancer last year and he's been lonely. But....he's going after a young teenager wanting sex. Knowing that age range are impressionable and very, very vulnerable. The man is the one in the wrong. You don't go looking for 'daughter aged' girls on these websites. You are a lowlife , no matter how polite and kind you seem. Your maturity should garner a behaviour of respect and protection, not lust and exploitation.
Liz And as long as woman are willing to sell themselves to be exploited, there will be desperate men to pay for it. A sad state of affairs on all ends really.
We are living in the most narcissistic world that I have ever seen, It's getting to point that there is no such thing of a normal relationship anymore! I do not understand why she was so surprised? If a man is paying you to be his sugar baby , you should already know whats coming ????
Dude the guy was a complete gentlemen. Sure sugarbabies are borderline sex work but just because it is illegal in your country does not mean it is immoral. What would be immoral is a guy forcing you to have sex with him saying along the line of "I already paid for this and that" but instead he was clear from the start what relationship he was looking for and what benefits you would get and even though in his perspective you had a change of mind he insisted on paying the bills (even though you wasted his time) and was adamant not to make you feel uncomfortable.
Don’t join the website if you don’t wanna go all the way. Either you in or you out . No one is forcing you to join the website in the first place so why join it .
Even sugardaddy dotcom knows what's happening behind shut doors after people meet. They just state the stuff mentioned at the end to save themselves legally.
yea but like, what did she expect. everyone on the site is consenting, it's relatively safe so of course he'd be a nice person who wanted her to be comfortable. this is very different from other sex work
@ 1:20, this is what a normal relationship IS for many people in the real world, sadly. Women marrying men for money, security and not for love. Or men doing the same with women but a lot less commonly. Sometimes, during the relationship they may actually come to love their spouses. So, I prefer this arrangement where there is no pretending, both parties KNOW what they are in it for.
Not surprised that sugar daddies and babies are becoming more common. Women like easy money and having things paid for them. More than sex, men really like admiration. Even if it is fake admiration, as long as it isn't too obvious it doesn't matter to them. The feeling of teaching a young attractive women whom you find attractive and occasionally having sex is much better than prostitution. I don't know why everyone acts like they don't know what is going on. It's obvious to everyone.
I hit the SD lottery....Dude lives in another state. In the 10 years of this relationship we've only been together a handful of times. After all this time I do really love him.
Im 60 and my sugar baby is a beautuful 31 year old. We see each 1x per week and we spend the whole day together. I did the math. When i was single, it cost me more on first dates and wasting time, than dating a sugar baby. And yet with a sugar baby its a sure thing.
This "John" just taught us all how to treat women better, cuz most husbands and bfs would've got mad at her for this yet he was gracious. It's very naive of us to think that most relationships aren't dependent on financial benefits and standards. Just because there is a financial transaction doesn't mean it can't be graceful and caring. This man treated her better than most husbands and boyfriends treat their girls, let alone how most men would react on a "date"! Most husbands and bfs would get pissed at their girl if they told her their plans and intentions and she still let him blow a bunch of money pretending she was on board only to let him down at the last minute after he spent a bunch of money and got his hopes up.
Not everyone is rich okay.....im not saying they should be mad but then spending money on room doesnt mean u have to decline the offer for make out all together they could go there and have like a small private date.
Cut the bullshit people. All relationships are transactional. Values, morals, decency, politeness to other people matter regardless of the type of relationship. But don't get it twisted - everyone pays.
@Karina Peters You're prettier than you think. The only time you get old is the day you die. Older women in bed are like marathon runners. Slow and steady always makes the most memorable experiences.
That guy seemed lovely and the girls seem to be in control of what they choose to do and who they meet from the website. Doesn't seem any more dangerous than any other dating website and both parties seem happy. Why is this considered a bad thing again?
@@Ikaros23 I just feel so bad for these women who believe their husband is on a trip! Smh! It's millions of these men and women who are corrupt and egg each other into infidelity.
He can turn into a monster once you are in the room with him.......These women are delusional if they think they are so pretty, that this isn't about sex....seriously?
I see nothing wrong with this . Why it's so normal to be in a relationship even if it's abusing relationship when you can have casual relationship? I would prefer this . At least you get paid and you get entertained and share love to the guy 😉
These are grown women and can do what they want but ladies, some men can turn up on you cuff you and next thing you know, you’re in a trafficking ring full of abusive men. What would you do? Don’t be too trusting of such sites or men.
Seeking arrangement got more and more mainstream so men who are not finacially able to be sugar daddies and give an allowance who want to feel like they are or want the experience of a younger more “exclusive” girl use it for sex, and that has caught on with escorts that also use it for work. He, and the other guy who messaged you, was very upfront from the beggining
its not a platform for older men to pay young girls for sex. its a platform for young girls to sell themselves to older men for sex. big difference. In drugs dealing, the buyer is never in trouble, the seller gets prison time. why is it different for here? Is nobody going to say anything about the young girls>
Look through the comments. Yeah this is by all means prostitution. Girls in economic distress seek to earn "security" fastly and do so by selling themselves to those willing to provide. But it's like a payday loan. Sure the money right now feel nice but you just made your future worse.
It literally is prostitution/or escort services with extra steps. But usually sugar babies DONT have sex at the first meeting. They really do set up relationships with these men. Sex isn’t always on the table, sometimes even in the long run. The money is though.
To be fair that guy was really respectful and nice. He was clear the whole time and didn't force her to do anything she was uncomfortable with.
WinterGirl amen to that
13 out of ten I would be be his sugar baby!!
He was super sweet, I would love an SD like him.
@WinterGirl He was a dirty john. I'm a sugar daddy. I'd never ask for sex on the first date nor offer money for that. It's supposed to be like normal dating but the woman then asks for help with this or that and he pays if, with no need of discussion, he's feeling like she's a cool girlfriend. Sex can wait 6 months or more.
Yeah you gotta respect that. A man who knows what he wants in the limit of morals.
She’s so lucky he was chill asf
If he had an ill temper she could have been in some real trouble. Women who do this really need to know the dangers.
@@joekrebs964 you mean hoes haha
@@capecoastcity1
More like Gold Digging Sluts.
William Nova WHAT THE HELL LMAO
How was he
The only person who did anything wrong in that last encounter was HER.
She lied to the guy, he was 100% honest with her. SHE advertised herself, she agreed to meet up for sex, she let him pay for the hotel knowing she would never go, then acted as if she was in an awkward situation she just couldn't help. He was polite, didn't force her to do anything and sympathised that she'd apparently changed her mind. Christ, this has nothing to do with the website, it's about her getting on her moral high horse against men because women can get paid for consensual sex.
I agree, she could have been honest and have told any of them she wanted to do an interview to better understand the reasons that bring people to look for sex with someone so much younger. I'm sure she would have found someone willing to tell their story. :S
Exactly
In the end the program had tips what you should do, how NOT to get scammed and was a great advert for the site, showing that yes, you can make good money really fast and clients might actually be quite nice!! 🤔
True
@@natalierose2182 that's exactly what I thought it made the whole thing seem quite appealing to the men and the younger women that's might be interested 🤣
Was this supposed to be shocking? Lol what else were you expecting when the dude literally told you before you got there what he wanted... I'm just confused and bored.
This should have been titled "Catfishing a Sugar Daddy" 😂
I know right? 😂😂😂
well why do sugar babies say they aint prostitutes then lmaoooo
@@mgtowdream8972 idk they are in denial. Who the hell pays for a sexless thing. Maybe a hostess, but then again it aint sugar baby
Brooklyn Here haha exactly she acting so surprised like we gonna have sex??!! Really🤦🏻♀️😂🙄
To be honest the guy was very fair to her she agreed to go on the date knowing what he wanted she just messed him about unnecessarily
What on earth were you expecting?
Red Royce right??
Right..
Red Royce yea for real!! 🙄🤷🏻♀️
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Real sugar baby needed First to D.m me or like my pic I'm gonna give Her 5000 for are weekly allowance asap cellphone +17273007711
she really put herself as an 18 year old 😳💀 sis looks at least 25
No she don't look 25, I'm 25 I would say she's probs older than that
She's more like 30
Im 24 and yuuppp. Shouldve gone with 22 😥
fs sf In this day and age 18 year old look old
I am alone u love me😙😘😍❤❤❤🌷🌷
He seems so nice, very understanding that she had changed her mind. What a respectful lad.
how all men should be
minus the paying for a shag, that’s not too great
I hope he actually finds someone genuine that won’t waste his time. . .
@@rijoiice5257 he uses young women for sex. he doesn't deserve someone genuine or respect. you're an idiot.
Problem is he may not be so understanding with the next girl. Shouldn't play with people who are bold enough to be direct.
Mellisa Ferdinand how much does he pay you
You catfished a guy who has no time for a real relationship and is willing to fork out for a "pay to play GF", just for a bit of intamacy, all for a clickbait piece. That's pretty dry and callous.
Na they're criminals as are the girls who sell them sex. Should be hit with large fines and prison for the worst offenders
@@josephdugdale4150 Shut up you sensitive feminist pussy!
"a guy who has no time for a real relationship"
Thats a good one!
I agree
What is a "real relationship", exactly? Are you talking pseudo-romantic nonsense like "Sugaring" or... friendships... or what?
People treat one another like disposable goods doing this stuff, and worse, yet nobody seems to bat an eyelash because of delusions that seem so common...
I wanna have a glucose guardian too lmao...
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@@kingakpabio4614 Nah that's a diabeetus daddy.
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You Mean A C6H12O6 Custodian 🧐
Dr Mike?
I honestly feel bad for him.
Why? He uses prostitutes.
Girl,I think you should text Cash Daddy on Instagram @cody.j01 or text him on phone (904)385 3727
a sugar daddy and he helps people too
He helped me out recently just as he promised
$1500 a week
Kathleen Koons 😭😂😂😂 are u Joking
@gypsy lab pretty the one commented is a girl lol
I don’t feel bad for him. He calls himself a “sugar daddy” but asked for sex on the first date for only $250. That’s not a sugar daddy
its ALWAYS been a prostitution website.
n. p.I never found the real daddy until Steven spoil me physically and financially I will love to share my daddy just to help sugar babies you could just message him on what's App +19376349657
Huh?
Idk about that website but u know sugar babying isnt always sex? Men will pay u for dinner
@@Jojohumf You realize that these women don't have the intelligence, dedication, character, work ethic, and patience to study, go through dental school, and become a dentist, don't you? That's why they go this route. It's not that they're "selling themselves short;" it's that they're selling the ONLY thing they have of value anyway. Women who engage in this lifestyle generally have nothing else to offer.
joshspiker very well said. Stupid women that only offer their body.
I thought it was obvious that it would be an exchange of sex & money. I mean some people do just want to hang out or have a companion/go on dates, but sex is usually a huge part of the equation. I remember being on some of those sites, and pretty much every man that messaged me was super up front about that lol.
@@VerBAASingwekkend I was already a cam girl/doing online sex work and was contemplating working as an escort or a companion 🤷♀️
@@Lankynibs what is a companion, exactly? Are you talking "Firefly" or "just friends, no benefits"?
For people who are dating, surely attraction and at the very least, the desire to be intimate is there. Why should it be different in an arrangement?
@@utubecomment21 that's very innocent of you, thinking that attraction and intimacy are part of "arrangements".
It's very naive of you to think that most relationships aren't dependent on financial benefits and standards. Just because there is a financial transaction doesn't mean it can't be graceful and caring. This man treated her better than most husbands and boyfriends treat their girls, let alone how most men would react on a "date"! Most husbands and bfs would get pissed at their girl if they told her their plans and intentions and she still let him blow a bunch of money pretending she was on board only to let him down at the last minute after he spent a bunch of money and got his hopes up.
He's was very honest and respectful.. I wish she were a bit more herself.
*"He's was"*
You didn’t meet with any sugar daddies, you met with a John. There is a difference. Even in his message, it was obvious that he was a John, a cheap one at that. 250 pounds for a few hours of “fun,” ? That’s Cheaper than what an escort would charge him. Also men that use the word “fun,” in reference to sex, should never be taken seriously.
Ssss Cccc Great comment
Sugar daddies and John's are synonymous. They ALL want sex. Do you think an older wealthy man is going to waste his time and money on a complete stranger, without getting sex for it? Get real.
@@joshspiker you speak truly.
Yea thats cheaper than some average prostitutes. Thats maybe like an hours worth of time. 30 min if your very pretty and good at what you do.
A lot of sugar daddy's and mommy's look for a little something like that but not a single one I've come across, spoke to or had have looked for or pushed for sex. Many are just looking for companionship or may have a fetish called "findom" x
250$ to sleep with someone! That's pretty cheap even iPad 9,7in cost more than your body:(
Yeah imagine sleep 4times and get an ipad while people out there work for months and still couldnt afford an ipad hmm
$1,000 reasonable. $250 too cheap.
Wow, he was so respectful and kind. It makes me wonder if he was just lonely (which he probably was). But I would genuinely feel comfortable in his presence.
She’s only 18 and bragging about doing it with old men...... She’s even showing her face. Do people not have shame or embarrassment anymore? I thought people only did this job in desperate times
Andrew Smith Not usually. That’s a myth, really.
It's a Godless generation. The younger women don't believe in God. Just look at the world today. It's morally bankrupt.
@@joshspiker It was morally bankrupt with God & it was morally bankrupt over thousands of years with War & Rape.
Prostitution is the oldest profession.
@@joshspiker oh so the generation of rape is godful.
Mia Lol do you really think she’d use her real name?
Looks like a really genuine advertisement of the website. 1) You can earn easy money. 2) Male users are nice and polite. 3) it's not prostitution (states the website in the end).
maybe that was the real intention
a couple houres of fun?! daimn, that guy has HELLA stammina!😂
Dressing as a school girl is creepy
Like literally dressing up as an underage child is vile
When the reporter is prettier then the one interviewed lol
Why waste the guys time? He was nice and respectful, and you just messed him about to try and be a reporter. 👎🏻
I totally agree
I agree
I think this kind of video encourages young girls to earn "easy" money.
@Karina Peters Not sure how you got to scamming people and the suffragette movement in the same sentence. Most of the women here are simply Clippers!
Karina Peters Look at it this way: Now there r sugar mamas as well as sugar daddies. That’s equal rights. The fact that women now have enough money to spend on young men (or women) if they choose to.
Sex work is the oldest profession. It’s not going anywhere. If anything, equal rights brought it to the forefront. So don’t demean these ppl. If u want to go after anyone, go after the consumers. Which is just about everyone these days. Anyone who looks at porn, buys a dirty magazine, hires a stripper for their bachelorette party...ur just proving there’s a huge market.
U want them to stop? U and everyone u know needs to stop.
Karina Peters It’s a job. Nothing to do with the suffrage movement. And before u judge, imagine a single mom w no where to go. Her abusive husband just kicked her out. She’d lost all her friends when her husband had thhem move across the country last yr, where can they go? Shes been to the local library to use their internet to try to find any job to feed her kid. She finds this. She sleeps w a guy and she feeds her kid.
I agree w u it’s not something I’d do but there r ppl with real situations like this. Forget women’s suffrage, this is about a basic human right to live.
Karina Peters And u didn’t respond to anything I wrote in response to u. Congrats on that.
The point was he’s out of the way, could be jailed, could be dead, she left him, u don’t know in what state.
@Karina Peters you just ignored all the valuable points by Essence Oceans because they made far better point than you. You can't just judge people with out having any idea of their circumstances, plus we live in a free will society so if a man or a women want, they can have casual sex, one night stand, sex for money, sex with multiple people at the same time and so on, as long as all the adults involved are consenting.
He was more than respectful and understoood her boundaries. There's nothing wrong with sugaring if everyone is a legal adult and consents.
You're a grown woman, if you cannot handle a grown man who is being honest and open to you abour his needs in a mutually benificial relationship then this type of relationship and life goals just isn't for you.
Exactly
I kinda had a sugar daddy but didn't do anything sexual with him not even hug lol he's also a father but he would offer me free rides and free food and gave me money on my bday and would literally drive me anywhere I asked him lol also weekly allowance of $500. He offered me a job at his business place as well but we talked mostly online I found him on kik @NedAaronpaypiggy
Haha😛
I have been reading a lot about this and according to people who have used it, newbies tend to get a lot of sex request first cause guys hope they are naive. This girl catfished this guy, had the app for maybe a day, and responded to a sexual request which she accepted. She is trying to make men out to be the bad guys here but he was pretty understanding when she changed her mind and she completely lead him on.
& the fact that she advertised intimacy, like what did you expect sis?
Tiffany Sweeney well done, you learned what everyone else already knew,what was even the point of this documentary?
So she's really a sugar baby?
@Anglus Patria who are u talking about the chick pretending to be a sugar baby or the college sugar baby?
This was so unnecessary and pointless the whole production team should feel bad for doing the guy like this🤦🏾♀️
Agree shameful.journalism
LOLOLOL she literally knew what she was getting herself into, he was straight forward.
She was the 1 who advertised intimacy, so I'm trying to understand what else was to come of this...?
If you are going to enter sex work why not choose an easier route and train to become a dominatrix? That way the power is in your hands and you don't sleep with the person. Not saying there aren't risks involved and not everyone has the right temperament for it but it deffo seems like the better choice. I'm just glad I am financially independent and able to support myself without resorting to sex work. Not everyone is so lucky.
Aisha Abdella this is a little naive, the power balance doesn’t completely shift if you’re in the assumed powerful position of a Dom - ultimately the clients needs are still going to be met and their wants as a paying submissive negate the interaction. There is a lot more labour that goes into being a Dom which can make it far from the first option for people in sex work.
Maria C True. I’m an escort and sometimes requests for a Dom are a ruse. The man wants me to enrage him so it will be easier for him to assault me. Then he turns on me. It’s a common scenario. I try to avoid clients who sexualize violence in any way.
he was really respectful
Yeh yeh, but at the ends of the day he want sex.
But I think I remember sugar daddy site open for the only dating site but fact now it's turn into a sex or prostitution site.
So keep it up 👍 sugar babies
Sheena Rehema I’m glad he didn’t behave worse, but looking to use male privilege and economic privilege to sexually exploit a young woman is, by definition, disrespectful.
@@brittaolson6550 yes it is but these are grown women who make these choices. it's basically prostitution they know exactly what they're doing and they willingly sign up for such sites he isnt the disrespectful one here when these women cant respect themselves and CHOOSE to do it! sleep with men for money
Want some old idiot to bring them out and give them good time and give them load money
@@sheenarehema27 Well, it’s a sugar daddy site. What’s a man doing on that site if he wants sex on the 1st date and would only pay $250? In the modern world, men don’t want to be perceived as a molester or abuser so that’s why they use mind games and manipulation on girls who don’t know any better so they can give themselves up
The entire sugar daddy/baby/momma movement seems like escorting/prostitution but with extra steps.
... And less money.
It's cheaper to do this than date. If you go on 2 dates a week for a year and as a man you pay 50-100 each time (2-3 cocktails each) that can add up to 5000-10,000 a year.
£250 for s*x? Wow UK girls have it rough 😭
Her dirty make up bag gave me anxiety
I mean, isn’t this what most “traditional” boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are like? When girls expect their boyfriends to be ‘gentlemen’ and pay for dinner, movies, etc.? I really don’t see the difference except one situation is more honest about what each side wants 🤷🏽♀️
In a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, you are in an exclusive relationship and imo the man shouldn't be expected to pay for everything
Olivia Miller-Davis no I agree the man shouldn’t be expected to pay for everything, but I just know lots of women who do expect the man to bend over backwards for them, and yet, all the women are bringing to the table is their looks. Only difference in this situation is the man is a lot older 😐
Arnold Strong Numero Uno I agree with the part about when you’re sick. [sick previous reply for expanded answer]
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Olivia Miller-Davis but most part they r the ones to cum
Basically this video promotes sugar dating. In the first part she mentions no sex with the sugar daddy, he just pays her for company while traveling. In the second part it seems that even if the daddy asks for sex you can easily decline. Also failed to whisper prostitution at any point.
It’s sad that on RUclips, and other social media young people most commonly frequent, the sugar baby lifestyle is glorified to the fullest. I hope many people learn from the recent Mackenzie Lueck story and realize it is not a good option to choose. Stay safe and don’t meet strangers alone or late at night in non-public areas. I’m not victim blaming, but I want others to learn from this. If her story saves even one person that her death wouldn’t be for nought.
I mean same can be said for all online dating. In fact you can meet some in a pub, store or just about anywhere and have things go bad.
Listen, I don't know what Universe you are in but Every escort agency claims that sex isn't part of, or rather the whole deal...I don't know what you were thinking and that guy was really nice...you are lucky!
Interesting. I would called it prostitution; not sugar daddy, sugar babie, sugar coating BS.
Prostitution: "the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment."
This definition applies to every class, not just to the lower class.
She lied about her age, lied about her intentions. The man was completely 100% honest and even understanding when she reneged. Who is the despicable one here?
Him
You could say he was a nice bloke. You could say his wife died of cancer last year and he's been lonely. But....he's going after a young teenager wanting sex. Knowing that age range are impressionable and very, very vulnerable. The man is the one in the wrong. You don't go looking for 'daughter aged' girls on these websites. You are a lowlife , no matter how polite and kind you seem. Your maturity should garner a behaviour of respect and protection, not lust and exploitation.
It's prostitution. Point blank.
"Can't be more specific than that, can you" he could have totally been WAY more specific lol
the sugar baby named valentina is 18 years old but looks like 35years old lols
It's just a financial transaction there's nothing wrong with that
Idc what anyone says I don't see a problem with having a sugar daddy, unless you are a minor. Not all of them want sex btw.
Why is the music so dark? It seems super reasonable.
Why is she so surprised at what she is finding on a sugar daddy/baby platform?
What a very sad, seedy and greedy world we live in ☹️
Yep that is 💯% true.
Some time I think God should 😠 Destroy this whole world
I love u
Really
I like u
I am alone
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And as long as woman are willing to sell themselves to be exploited, there will be desperate men to pay for it. A sad state of affairs on all ends really.
@@pritam0378 He's going to. Most people won't see it coming.
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We are living in the most narcissistic world that I have ever seen, It's getting to point that there is no such thing of a normal relationship anymore! I do not understand why she was so surprised? If a man is paying you to be his sugar baby , you should already know whats coming ????
Dude the guy was a complete gentlemen. Sure sugarbabies are borderline sex work but just because it is illegal in your country does not mean it is immoral. What would be immoral is a guy forcing you to have sex with him saying along the line of "I already paid for this and that" but instead he was clear from the start what relationship he was looking for and what benefits you would get and even though in his perspective you had a change of mind he insisted on paying the bills (even though you wasted his time) and was adamant not to make you feel uncomfortable.
That guy was actually really sweet Ik a lot of guys would’ve gotten mad and tried to force her
Don’t join the website if you don’t wanna go all the way. Either you in or you out . No one is forcing you to join the website in the first place so why join it .
I wonder what the chances of her writing this up in a positive light?
0%
There was no investigation here.
When the filming stopped they banged
Louis Payan yes 😂😂
He already told her what he wanted...and she still went there...so yeah not suprised
Even sugardaddy dotcom knows what's happening behind shut doors after people meet. They just state the stuff mentioned at the end to save themselves legally.
Yea. That is how that website works lol....
6:09 Umm............... you're SURPRISED by this? P.S. It's a two-way street, sweetheart. These girls ain't stupid.
It's not shocking, you know. But I think some rich guy are just lonely but doesn't want commitment. So it's a win win for both of you.
If you don't want, no one is forcing you to do anything you shouldn't.
yea but like, what did she expect. everyone on the site is consenting, it's relatively safe so of course he'd be a nice person who wanted her to be comfortable. this is very different from other sex work
& she's the one who advertised intimacy!
@ 1:20, this is what a normal relationship IS for many people in the real world, sadly. Women marrying men for money, security and not for love. Or men doing the same with women but a lot less commonly. Sometimes, during the relationship they may actually come to love their spouses. So, I prefer this arrangement where there is no pretending, both parties KNOW what they are in it for.
There was almost a twist at the end that we were not ready for 😂😂😂😂
Not surprised that sugar daddies and babies are becoming more common. Women like easy money and having things paid for them. More than sex, men really like admiration. Even if it is fake admiration, as long as it isn't too obvious it doesn't matter to them. The feeling of teaching a young attractive women whom you find attractive and occasionally having sex is much better than prostitution. I don't know why everyone acts like they don't know what is going on. It's obvious to everyone.
Ppl wants to shame women for choosing this lifestyle but would watch her suffer at the hands of a broke man who treats her like ish
I hit the SD lottery....Dude lives in another state. In the 10 years of this relationship we've only been together a handful of times. After all this time I do really love him.
Awwww match made in heaven!1
Um... it’s not a secret, the fact it’s called sugar daddy’s a dead giveaway (there’s a clear definition in the dictionary even)
The model they use for full body shots is not the woman they are interviewing. Dishonest.
Im 60 and my sugar baby is a beautuful 31 year old. We see each 1x per week and we spend the whole day together.
I did the math. When i was single, it cost me more on first dates and wasting time, than dating a sugar baby. And yet with a sugar baby its a sure thing.
Just out of curiosity is it a sexual thing with her?
I...want their money to...make myself financially independent. Wait what?
'He's not creepy' translation: he's good looking.
Or...he's just not creepy.
Women's definition for sure.
she didn't go undercover, she just flat out lied and wasted a respectful man's time trying to manipulate him into a 'gotcha!' moment.
The respectful man is probably married. Very disrespectful to the wife and kids
Whens homegirl gonna clean out them beauty blenders 💀💀
Who's the girl in your avi
She's stunning
LOL thats what i was thinking
This "John" just taught us all how to treat women better, cuz most husbands and bfs would've got mad at her for this yet he was gracious. It's very naive of us to think that most relationships aren't dependent on financial benefits and standards. Just because there is a financial transaction doesn't mean it can't be graceful and caring. This man treated her better than most husbands and boyfriends treat their girls, let alone how most men would react on a "date"! Most husbands and bfs would get pissed at their girl if they told her their plans and intentions and she still let him blow a bunch of money pretending she was on board only to let him down at the last minute after he spent a bunch of money and got his hopes up.
Not everyone is rich okay.....im not saying they should be mad but then spending money on room doesnt mean u have to decline the offer for make out all together they could go there and have like a small private date.
Slowly but showly she end's up giving that box up for the right price.
Cut the bullshit people. All relationships are transactional. Values, morals, decency, politeness to other people matter regardless of the type of relationship. But don't get it twisted - everyone pays.
I’m 18 and I can’t imagine myself as a sugar baby
@Karina Peters You're prettier than you think. The only time you get old is the day you die. Older women in bed are like marathon runners. Slow and steady always makes the most memorable experiences.
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You can't imagine selling your body for money? Sounds rational to me.
That guy seemed lovely and the girls seem to be in control of what they choose to do and who they meet from the website. Doesn't seem any more dangerous than any other dating website and both parties seem happy. Why is this considered a bad thing again?
Isn't it a crime and creepy to take vids and pics of others without their consent ?
"...that means this platform has become a place for older men to pay young girls for sex" DUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
These are those trips that wives be saying their husbands be on!
And she is telling the world that she is a student.
@@Ikaros23 I just feel so bad for these women who believe their husband is on a trip! Smh! It's millions of these men and women who are corrupt and egg each other into infidelity.
Most dating sites majority of guys are looking for not strings attached sex.
The picture of her in the black dress is literally on her Instagram 😂, she didn’t exactly hide her identity very well...
He can turn into a monster once you are in the room with him.......These women are delusional if they think they are so pretty, that this isn't about sex....seriously?
I see nothing wrong with this . Why it's so normal to be in a relationship even if it's abusing relationship when you can have casual relationship? I would prefer this . At least you get paid and you get entertained and share love to the guy 😉
Marisa Rodrigues are you serious? So you are gonna ignore your feeling and you growing up as an individual for some money???
@@lilyb4725 is have my reasons. Don't judge it's not nice .
Totally agree
Go for it then!
These are grown women and can do what they want but ladies, some men can turn up on you cuff you and next thing you know, you’re in a trafficking ring full of abusive men. What would you do?
Don’t be too trusting of such sites or men.
Seeking arrangement got more and more mainstream so men who are not finacially able to be sugar daddies and give an allowance who want to feel like they are or want the experience of a younger more “exclusive” girl use it for sex, and that has caught on with escorts that also use it for work. He, and the other guy who messaged you, was very upfront from the beggining
People that find this shocking, well... have lost the plot.
It's dangerous too! You never know if some of these weirdos might stalk and kill you!
its not a platform for older men to pay young girls for sex. its a platform for young girls to sell themselves to older men for sex. big difference.
In drugs dealing, the buyer is never in trouble, the seller gets prison time.
why is it different for here? Is nobody going to say anything about the young girls>
Look through the comments.
Yeah this is by all means prostitution. Girls in economic distress seek to earn "security" fastly and do so by selling themselves to those willing to provide.
But it's like a payday loan. Sure the money right now feel nice but you just made your future worse.
Dam, that first girl looks like she ran into a wall face first. Some thirsty guys out there that's for sure.
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I have a sugar daddy and i really dont like how this was portrayed :(
Escorts also maintain relationships with tricks
PLEASEE DO MORE !!
That guy is what all men should be like with lasses, he was straight up , buce , an every understanding , I would of let her pay tho lol
It literally is prostitution/or escort services with extra steps. But usually sugar babies DONT have sex at the first meeting. They really do set up relationships with these men. Sex isn’t always on the table, sometimes even in the long run. The money is though.