You HAVE to Be Kidding!?
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
- Dealing with hard moments can be tough on a good day, but what do you do when they snowball in the middle of infidelity? Today, Candace shares some of the ridiculously hard moments she faced while dealing with her husband’s infidelity as well as a pro tip from her therapist that still helps her in her recovery work today.
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What a great message - suppose sometimes you just have to laugh at just how hard recovering from infidelity can be. I'm grateful for the words and your ability to add a little humor to an otherwise humor-less subject. Many thanks!!
7 months into recovery, spouse cheated on me with friend of 25 years. Month 1 can't cancel trip with them, changed hotel but not flight. Month 3 sell holiday home in same complex as friend, can't handle going back. Month 6 he tries to "in discretely" reach out but denies it. Month 7 I suffer from a herniated spinal disc. It's June... Come on world I'm ready for the next blow
WHOA! That sucks!! I totally feel your pain!
6 mos post-D Day, husband's two-month affair happened late in our 30 year marriage. Caught, because he gave me an STI. I don't have big you-gotta-be-kiddings, but, too-long reasons, I have been largely unable to share the shattering effects with others. I am grateful for Candace's message. It alone is support.
I am so sorry - it doesn't seem fair does it!! And it's hard for anyone to understand who hasn't lived it!
(currently 22 months out from Dday - married 21 years) but 6 months after Dday I found out I had Lymphoma in my blood/bones and stomach...I'm thinking ok - well at least I have my business which is wonderful - I own a flower farm - then the Dr tells me I can't touch the flowers, dirt or anything or I could die from the bacteria. Ok, so I have to hire someone and I make no money,. Start chemo and after the first round my 17 yr old dog has to be put down. Did 6 months of Chemo and declared cancer free - two weeks later, colonoscopy shows colon cancer - are you kidding me? SERIOUSLY wonder how and why these things happen to us betrayed! (Colorectol surgery was in Dec and I am cancer free thank God!)
I was coaching a kids soccer team and one of the girls on the team shared the name of the affair partner. I had to cheer for her, help her, hug her, hold her when she got hurt…. I only did it because that little girl was the sweetest :)
I fought for my marriage after my wife disclosed her infidelity 23 years ago and it was hard. I thought I had let it go after a year or so because I seemed to move on from the pain. I don't think I fully grieved the situation because I fought so hard to keep my marriage that now 23 years later it has hit me like a ton of bricks and it's like I'm re- living the whole thing over again in my mind over a trigger. I have been in constant fight or flight for about 2 months now and I don't know how to stop it.
You are living in your emotions. I also did this. And then I realized my emotions (wife) should submit to my intellect (husband). Then the internal conflict stopped.
Remember, you didn’t lose anything. You gained. You gained the knowledge that the love of your life is YOU. Always was.
I had bought my cousin a custom bracelet for her birthday, then the whole affair came out, I was a mess and got a call the bracelet was ready 🤬 needless to say my H was having the affair with my cousin.
Less than 2 months after Dday..... Our house burned down. I got the call from the fire chief while on an infidelity support group counseling call.
How ironic!!
I get it! The name story? Mine as well.
I would have to say you've got to be kidding me when I came home and my UF wife was sitting on the porch, playing her guitars, singing, cheating songs WTH. so I flooded she got mad. She's like I used to sing these songs all the time and they never bothered you and I'm like ding ding ding that was before you cheated now the songs hold a new meaning hopefully one day I can laugh about it.
Hard to laugh at that! My husband announced he loved this one song (it's old) to someone who's little girl had that name - well it's the name of the AP! I about lost my mind!!
I so felt the name example. ❤
9 months into recovery from my wife’s affair I took a new job only to find out on my third day my wife’s affair partner work there as well 🤦
My husband has had to work with his AP every day now for 22 months - it is soooooo difficult for me! No other jobs in our small rural town.