Perhaps aggression is another form of communicating something you wanted - instantly, I can assume then there are calmer methods to achieve what's intended. This is a relatable talk.
Actually it is a human need and there's plenty of science and history to back that assertion. don't know of any evidence or history that would support this irrational belief that humans don't have deep primal needs of violence against each other.
@@NeonCicada what his main point of that section however was that it can be broken down into much more simpler terms, as 'revenge' or simple 'primal aggression' is too vague.
Eat more 75% cacao for Tryptophan + some carbohydrates+enzyme=Serotonin. With the right enzyme, instant feelings of being socially respected. Watch out for mood crashes two hours later though. At least that's been my experience. There's no need for aggression and often misinterpreted. Learn to meditate to stay calm the world of your own mind won't bore you. ☮️ Peace. ☮️
Absolutely mind-blowing talk. We are so often quick to judge and jump to conclusions about one another when really we're all the same. The world would be a much better place if we all took the time to understand each other.
Check out Angela Merkel's speech in Harvard university. She exactly said the same that we need to focus on our similarities rather than differences and that's the key.
Understanding is the most important thing in my opinion because we don't know what is going on in others mind but we can only understand what is talking about . If anybody talks about something but other person can take it in another way so I can say that Understanding is very much important for knowing others.
What the world needs now...not just love sweet love, but a deeper understanding, beneath our surface differences to understanding that we're all so much the same. As Larry explains here, this is how we can be happier in our personal lives, and also work toward peace in our societies. Amen, brother!
I’ve always thought the quickest way to gain an understanding of others was to simply ask clarifying questions, listening, and showing others you don’t mean them any harm to lower their defenses.
Seek to understand why you do what you do. There is an innocence down there at the bottom of the well. When you finally see it in yourself, trace how it rides alongside all of your actions, good and bad. Then turn outward and seek to see the same in the actions of every other person you interact with. See it clearly in yourself, then in others, and you may feel an inner peace arise and take root in you... This is a profound mediation of an inner war. After this understanding, you can begin to mediate outer wars too. Incredible TED talk, thank you so much for sharing.
Yeah that would be to view the world In Innocent light and view everything in an innocent way. Satan deceives us to think that we are just good ppl, n that sin is innocent . While what u say is necessary to some degrees it's not the final result. We need to seek God , few realize the degradation Jesus death saved us from
Beautiful exploration into human behavior. Funny, profound, and valuable. "Human behavior is complex. But human needs are simple. We seek these common needs, and nothing else." Also I loved this line: "I cried too. I had 10 minutes. What was I going to do?" Bravo!
Hey, I'm watching this video after 7 years since it was uploaded. I'm a 14-year-old girl, and whenever I think about someone who others label as bad, like criminals or terrorists, my brain always leads me to think deeper. But I try to control my thoughts and not think too deeply because then I might start believing they don't have anything bad in them and that they have reasons that pushed them to do what they did. I'm worried that if I start feeling empathy for them, I might be condoning their actions. It makes me doubt my own personality when I see others in society labeling them as just "bad" without considering their reasons.
@@xyz8427 I am from Pakistan Karachi,and i don't like this country.Addtionally,i want to leave this country as soon as possible that's why i am trying to study hard!
@@learnnewconcept_everyday932 see no one even know when faith will brought you According to my instinct you may be muslim if thats the reason if you are in a good school /college you can study abroad by co curricular activities with full scholarship but if you are eager to know study in USA or in Germany but if you can get a Nepal visa it's also good place to leave in india there a place. Banaras very cheap food is there you can go
Whatever they went through or whatever trauma they faced is sad and you should feel empathy for that. But whatever behavior is by their choice. Your feelings will always be valid but your behavior is not. Just remember this. You are a good person, empathy is not everyone's cup of tea.
this is the one video to watch to get interested in the nature of human behaviour. He explained it clearly with examples and references. There are just 30 needs for a human being... life is simple
If the whole world could follow this speeches of yours that would be the biggest blesssings & thing ever happened in everyone's life, hats off for this awesome words Mr. Larry! GodBless you
Such a great and true speech! To understand gives empathy and you can have empathy and still disagree. As a kid my mom was strict but had behaviors that puzzled me, that to myself felt hurtful and unfair. And I want things to make sense or I will obsess until they do and this was one of the biggest ones. It started with trying to understand my mom's behaviors, continued to observing behaviors in school corridors versus the same people outside of the friend group and subtitle changes when the same person was with different people. I started to study behavior, body language and psychology in my own young head. Then internet came and I started to try to find online data to understand her but also why I was different and felt broken and failed. It went on. Long story short, I found what he was talking about when I was studying animal behavior, psychology,motivation, development, basic needs and social needs and saw parallels that wasn't on the human pages with huge hard words. It started to make sense. We can do 2 things, 1 is to look at past, present and future behaviors. What are they doing now, what did they experience to conclude that this is the best way to cope and deal, and what do they wish to achieve by doing so which tends to be either to avoid unpleasant to ever happen again - anxiety, or strive for pleasant as in strive for happiness and success. When stuck and lost in the middle you have depression and despair. The 2nd is motivator as he talked about. Humans and animals alike are reward driven. In short if you don't gain on it you will hate doing it even when common sense tells you it's good for you. To understand someone you can wonder what emotion are they going through and what things in life can cause that emotion. Tears are a good example. Are those happy tears? Sad, overwhelmed, empathetic, afraid, and so on and what triggered to feel that way. To go back to my mom she was stricter to me for 2 reasons. One was that she lost her firstborn, a son, and was scared to drive away my very confident independent brother and savor getting a second chance, and stricter tome because I was her mirror and shaping me was to try to shape herself but also to try to get me to be equipped to avoid experiencing what ever it is that she went through. She has never told me what it is. To finish off, my biggest moment of empathy to my mother when I hated her the most (hate = hurt) was when she spoke to my grandmother in a conversation and I saw her revert into her inner child that was triggered by something granny said. I saw hurt, fear, feeling sad,broken, misunderstood, old loneliness. My strong strict mom... was not much different than me. That was the day... everything she ever did made sense to me, even the things I disagreed with.
@@lunafringe10Not at all empathy is strange... its dog eat dog world nobody is not selfish if we werent selfish we would not have hurt plants animals etc why do you eat things they lived too now you are not being empathetic what makes humans different from animals?
How you framed those two young men is such profound way to frame the human spirit and our common needs. Thank you for that! I am also thrilled to hear how you incorporate neuroscience as this is an area that also applies to my work and research.
Its like i am commenting on this to fulfill a simple common human need. Wow. We consider mattering outside world just because we want to fulfill needs. Wow. So what we really want is to fulfill those needs. Wow what a discovery. Whatever action and thought is happening, i am doing those to fulfill simple needs.. the truth does not actually matters (if the truth is derived in the realm of thought)
Wow. This talk was enlightening. I would often surmise that by understanding myself, I could project that understanding onto others under the assumption that all human beings are generally one and the same in regard to what we are looking for. I love how Larry Rosen ties this idea into enhancing our relationships with others.
Wow... I love this...In my whole life, the most difficult task I've ever had and still having is understanding human. I hope more presentation on this topic would be posted for people like me to learn. Nice one Larry
Will I haven't watch the video but there is a different between something deep and something wise. When someone saids something deep doesn't mean there not misdirecting you to the wrong path. It is kind of have the same concept as being half-right or manipulating the truth.
The desire to be accepted is not a basic need though. This is just a way to test our "worth" as a human being on other people. The real need behind it is be worthy. Not to feel worthy.
I have to disagree..... I believe Acceptance is the Primary human need. Most behaviorists will call it "belonging," but I feel there's a vast difference between the two... and upon my pondering this exact question as long as I have, I feel strongly that Acceptance is a much better explanation. Within the feeling of true Acceptance is the feeling of genuine Appreciation. And of course, I have to argue that for most people who may disagree with me, although I value their opinion regardless of it being in opposition, the best way to understand what I am saying is to consider the ideas I am proposing by actually visualizing them....understanding HOW they feel within yourself. I agree that yes, of course, we all need to feel worthy... However, BEFORE we can even gauge whether or not we hold any worth, we first must feel Accepted. The feeling of Acceptance at the actual core of the feeling is to feel safe in WHO they are; to feel that the most important individuals in one's life (most commonly one's biological family, ie birth mother, biological father, any blood siblings...then furthermore their immediate family if this is not their biological family...) have a basic level of APPRECIATION for their existence.... At the very bottom of the Worthiness Ladder, is what I would call the first 'rung' of Acceptance. In order to build any worth, one must have this FOUNDATIONAL sense of being Accepted, or feeling that it is okay to be who they genuinely are.
I Octane ‘be worthy’ ? How is that accomplished? Worthy of what? Who or what measures ‘being’ worthy? To ‘be worthy’ implies some standard. Whence is that standard? I rather subscribe to the words of Jesus when He said: “So you also, when you have done everything you were told to do, should say, 'We are unworthy servants; we have only done our duty.'" Luke 17:7 NIV translation
the desire to be accepted is just another brainwashing tactic for those of higher calibur to manipulate you. your 'acceptance' is just another way of them trying to control you. it's as simple as that. think for yourself, or forever be judged. i prefer to live my life as i see fit :) no judgements. as only i can live my life the way i want :)
@@darrickcortez7672 Our freedom lies not in being loved, but in loving. If we recollect over our lives, and if we are honest, we see that the deepest happiness we have had is when we have loved. Not when we are loved, but when we give our joy freely to another, without thought. This is what all spiritual teachings have conveyed in various ways over the millennia. It is in giving that we receive, in loving that we find love. Not a faint glimmer, but the unlimited and infinite expression of love, that knows nothing other than itself. Love upon which all universes rest, that which in reality is our very being.
I have a keen interest in learning human behavior and after seeing this video i will save much of my time I'm just really thankful to you from the bottom of my heart ❤
This particular video help us to understand the behavior of not just one specific category of a human being but various categories of human beings. The video enables us to understand that the mentality of different people belonging to the different age group differs significantly. Also, according to the speaker, psychology or the human behavior of an individual very much depends on the environmental factor as well. The above video aids us in understanding the reason behind the reactions given by our own people about whom we care a lot, thus, augmenting our patience level towards each other for a better and a healthy living.
This concept should be the overall goal of our education system. Half of our learning should be about how to manage our complex mind. The other half can be academic. Both are needed.
Marshall changed my life too. His teaching is so simple, but by no means easy. Glad to see the basic truth of common human needs are being shared in this talk. It's worth pointing out clearly that few people belief this because needs and strategies are so commonly confused. So too are thoughts and feelings. A good understanding of the language of feelings and needs is sorely missing in this world. For those inspired by this talk, I highly recommend another needs-based approach called 'the Human Givens', brought to the world by Joe Griffin and Ivan Tyrrel. Keep shining the light into every dark corner of the world, and spread the language of peace... :)
Thnks to the speaker u really made my intrest in psychology and human nature much more profound and... strong..human nature is always driven by understanding motives..wow .
Larry C. Rosen is an intelligent empathizer (a Mench) seeing both party's side. THEE ORIGINAL TEXTBOOK IS: "You Can Negotiate Anything". A book on negotiation by Herb Cohen that used story-telling to help explain the various concepts and strategies behind the art of negotiation. The 1982 book spent nine months on the New York Times bestseller list.
un-human are those who have change the world to kill, Human Being are rarest thing in this universe, our laws and system should build to protect living human being and innocence on this planet. We are people of Planet EARTH, to survive here we need peace.
You were talking about an afghanistani kid. What made him like this? can you answer my question? If you constantly treat someone that much unfairly then how can you expect love and respect from that guy?????
Very well said sir ! The way we percept the situation differs from man to man it may be either in the Good side or a Bad one. so understanding ones perception is way too difficult.
I agree as an opinion, this speaks levels but you said it yourself. It's basic and simple. On a fundemental level we as humans have both mind and body. What I disagree with as an opinion, is that its more than that. Especially when you suggested the taliban and how it's respect. At this time in your life, that is what you found an answer to that question. Although personally, I think its simpler than that. Its survival, in a sense. You're right, they're fighting for respect but to give up their life, they wouldn't. Respect is not powerful enough to survive. Its hard for one to grasp of survival, when you get to speak so freely, in world like ours. While those taliban boys must fight for their own survival. Even our minds fight for survival, our ego's. In my opinion, the easiest way to understand another on the most fundemental level is that we are not different. We are human, we are life, and we live. That's all.
I unfortunately have the potential to understand people at this level. It means that meeting people has a different experience for me and I see things others miss.
The problem is people make actions they don't even understand but I want to know that I want to understand the actions of other although they might not know the meaning behind their own actions
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“But hurting another person is not a human need.”
I like this. It really stuck out to me for some reason.
Hurting other's would be fulfilling other needs like showing their superiority to Gain respect
Perhaps aggression is another form of communicating something you wanted - instantly, I can assume then there are calmer methods to achieve what's intended.
This is a relatable talk.
Actually it is a human need and there's plenty of science and history to back that assertion. don't know of any evidence or history that would support this irrational belief that humans don't have deep primal needs of violence against each other.
@@NeonCicada what his main point of that section however was that it can be broken down into much more simpler terms, as 'revenge' or simple 'primal aggression' is too vague.
Eat more 75% cacao for Tryptophan + some carbohydrates+enzyme=Serotonin. With the right enzyme, instant feelings of being socially respected. Watch out for mood crashes two hours later though. At least that's been my experience. There's no need for aggression and often misinterpreted. Learn to meditate to stay calm the world of your own mind won't bore you. ☮️ Peace. ☮️
"the desire to be accepted, to be liked is in you, is in me, is in everyone" DAMN what a powerful statement!
Absolutely mind-blowing talk. We are so often quick to judge and jump to conclusions about one another when really we're all the same. The world would be a much better place if we all took the time to understand each other.
@Brian Holtzman 👌
Check out Angela Merkel's speech in Harvard university. She exactly said the same that we need to focus on our similarities rather than differences and that's the key.
Yah,
Indeed, if ever a taliban gets a hold of you, preach to him about human needs. 🤣🤦🏻♂️
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"Understanding is exactly how you create the world that you want"
"Hurting another person is not a human need"
Understanding is the most important thing in my opinion because we don't know what is going on in others mind but we can only understand what is talking about . If anybody talks about something but other person can take it in another way so I can say that Understanding is very much important for knowing others.
What the world needs now...not just love sweet love, but a deeper understanding, beneath our surface differences to understanding that we're all so much the same. As Larry explains here, this is how we can be happier in our personal lives, and also work toward peace in our societies. Amen, brother!
Jack Gescheidt :)
We are not the same.
@@Acalamity
No we're not, but I think the point of that statement was more- 'we need the same kinds of things', as human beings.
Differences keep us from bridging our devition. Human race will never have this serenade. As much as it is needed.
@@Acalamity
We are, everything wrong is caused by differences of beliefs. Does not matter. Shouldn't. In the end will not.
I’ve always thought the quickest way to gain an understanding of others was to simply ask clarifying questions, listening, and showing others you don’t mean them any harm to lower their defenses.
"Understanding is the power to shape the world."
Yes sir
Exactly
Nothing else! UNDERSTANDING is the answer. Thank you so much for claryfing its importance!
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Seek to understand why you do what you do. There is an innocence down there at the bottom of the well. When you finally see it in yourself, trace how it rides alongside all of your actions, good and bad. Then turn outward and seek to see the same in the actions of every other person you interact with. See it clearly in yourself, then in others, and you may feel an inner peace arise and take root in you... This is a profound mediation of an inner war. After this understanding, you can begin to mediate outer wars too.
Incredible TED talk, thank you so much for sharing.
Yeah that would be to view the world In Innocent light and view everything in an innocent way. Satan deceives us to think that we are just good ppl, n that sin is innocent . While what u say is necessary to some degrees it's not the final result. We need to seek God , few realize the degradation Jesus death saved us from
Right on target...engaging...accessible...informative.Any tool that helps us better understand each other is just what we all need!Thank you!!
Beautiful exploration into human behavior. Funny, profound, and valuable. "Human behavior is complex. But human needs are simple. We seek these common needs, and nothing else." Also I loved this line: "I cried too. I had 10 minutes. What was I going to do?" Bravo!
Yes, I always say, "Reasons are not excuses, but often understanding the reasons helps."
This is absolute ART itself in the lesson that is his mediation story.
Hey, I'm watching this video after 7 years since it was uploaded. I'm a 14-year-old girl, and whenever I think about someone who others label as bad, like criminals or terrorists, my brain always leads me to think deeper. But I try to control my thoughts and not think too deeply because then I might start believing they don't have anything bad in them and that they have reasons that pushed them to do what they did. I'm worried that if I start feeling empathy for them, I might be condoning their actions. It makes me doubt my own personality when I see others in society labeling them as just "bad" without considering their reasons.
Right
By the way where are you from
@@xyz8427 I am from Pakistan Karachi,and i don't like this country.Addtionally,i want to leave this country as soon as possible that's why i am trying to study hard!
@@learnnewconcept_everyday932 see no one even know when faith will brought you
According to my instinct you may be muslim if thats the reason if you are in a good school /college you can study abroad by co curricular activities with full scholarship but if you are eager to know study in USA or in Germany but if you can get a Nepal visa it's also good place to leave in india there a place. Banaras very cheap food is there you can go
Whatever they went through or whatever trauma they faced is sad and you should feel empathy for that. But whatever behavior is by their choice. Your feelings will always be valid but your behavior is not. Just remember this. You are a good person, empathy is not everyone's cup of tea.
this is the one video to watch to get interested in the nature of human behaviour. He explained it clearly with examples and references. There are just 30 needs for a human being... life is simple
If the whole world could follow this speeches of yours that would be the biggest blesssings & thing ever happened in everyone's life, hats off for this awesome words Mr. Larry! GodBless you
Such a great and true speech! To understand gives empathy and you can have empathy and still disagree. As a kid my mom was strict but had behaviors that puzzled me, that to myself felt hurtful and unfair. And I want things to make sense or I will obsess until they do and this was one of the biggest ones. It started with trying to understand my mom's behaviors, continued to observing behaviors in school corridors versus the same people outside of the friend group and subtitle changes when the same person was with different people. I started to study behavior, body language and psychology in my own young head. Then internet came and I started to try to find online data to understand her but also why I was different and felt broken and failed. It went on. Long story short, I found what he was talking about when I was studying animal behavior, psychology,motivation, development, basic needs and social needs and saw parallels that wasn't on the human pages with huge hard words. It started to make sense. We can do 2 things, 1 is to look at past, present and future behaviors. What are they doing now, what did they experience to conclude that this is the best way to cope and deal, and what do they wish to achieve by doing so which tends to be either to avoid unpleasant to ever happen again - anxiety, or strive for pleasant as in strive for happiness and success. When stuck and lost in the middle you have depression and despair. The 2nd is motivator as he talked about. Humans and animals alike are reward driven. In short if you don't gain on it you will hate doing it even when common sense tells you it's good for you. To understand someone you can wonder what emotion are they going through and what things in life can cause that emotion. Tears are a good example. Are those happy tears? Sad, overwhelmed, empathetic, afraid, and so on and what triggered to feel that way. To go back to my mom she was stricter to me for 2 reasons. One was that she lost her firstborn, a son, and was scared to drive away my very confident independent brother and savor getting a second chance, and stricter tome because I was her mirror and shaping me was to try to shape herself but also to try to get me to be equipped to avoid experiencing what ever it is that she went through. She has never told me what it is. To finish off, my biggest moment of empathy to my mother when I hated her the most (hate = hurt) was when she spoke to my grandmother in a conversation and I saw her revert into her inner child that was triggered by something granny said. I saw hurt, fear, feeling sad,broken, misunderstood, old loneliness. My strong strict mom... was not much different than me. That was the day... everything she ever did made sense to me, even the things I disagreed with.
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Thank you so much for your comment Ambi. I needed to hear this today. I can try and understand my mom better now!
americans talking and writing abt empathy when they have none, kinda funny
@@lunafringe10Not at all empathy is strange... its dog eat dog world nobody is not selfish if we werent selfish we would not have hurt plants animals etc why do you eat things they lived too now you are not being empathetic what makes humans different from animals?
How you framed those two young men is such profound way to frame the human spirit and our common needs. Thank you for that! I am also thrilled to hear how you incorporate neuroscience as this is an area that also applies to my work and research.
Its like i am commenting on this to fulfill a simple common human need. Wow. We consider mattering outside world just because we want to fulfill needs. Wow. So what we really want is to fulfill those needs. Wow what a discovery. Whatever action and thought is happening, i am doing those to fulfill simple needs.. the truth does not actually matters (if the truth is derived in the realm of thought)
I am so fascinated with Ted Talks I can’t get enough. This is amazing I hope more people will try to understand each other
This was such a good talk, perhaps my favorite. Indeed understanding isn’t condoning.
I have literally watched this like 10 times and I will continue to watch it. It’s amazing!!!
What he taught us was always been inside us but we realised it after watching this motivational video.
Love from india sir.
Wow. This talk was enlightening. I would often surmise that by understanding myself, I could project that understanding onto others under the assumption that all human beings are generally one and the same in regard to what we are looking for. I love how Larry Rosen ties this idea into enhancing our relationships with others.
What a moment ..much respect 5:38 ✊🏽
Wow... I love this...In my whole life, the most difficult task I've ever had and still having is understanding human.
I hope more presentation on this topic would be posted for people like me to learn.
Nice one Larry
Amazing, mind-blowing speech. Simple when you think about it, but incredibly deep as always is the truth. Thank you, sir.
Will I haven't watch the video but there is a different between something deep and something wise. When someone saids something deep doesn't mean there not misdirecting you to the wrong path. It is kind of have the same concept as being half-right or manipulating the truth.
Straight to the point, without getting too sappy and emotional!
The desire to be accepted is not a basic need though. This is just a way to test our "worth" as a human being on other people. The real need behind it is be worthy. Not to feel worthy.
I have to disagree..... I believe Acceptance is the Primary human need. Most behaviorists will call it "belonging," but I feel there's a vast difference between the two... and upon my pondering this exact question as long as I have, I feel strongly that Acceptance is a much better explanation. Within the feeling of true Acceptance is the feeling of genuine Appreciation. And of course, I have to argue that for most people who may disagree with me, although I value their opinion regardless of it being in opposition, the best way to understand what I am saying is to consider the ideas I am proposing by actually visualizing them....understanding HOW they feel within yourself. I agree that yes, of course, we all need to feel worthy... However, BEFORE we can even gauge whether or not we hold any worth, we first must feel Accepted. The feeling of Acceptance at the actual core of the feeling is to feel safe in WHO they are; to feel that the most important individuals in one's life (most commonly one's biological family, ie birth mother, biological father, any blood siblings...then furthermore their immediate family if this is not their biological family...) have a basic level of APPRECIATION for their existence....
At the very bottom of the Worthiness Ladder, is what I would call the first 'rung' of Acceptance. In order to build any worth, one must have this FOUNDATIONAL sense of being Accepted, or feeling that it is okay to be who they genuinely are.
I Octane ‘be worthy’ ? How is that accomplished? Worthy of what? Who or what measures ‘being’ worthy? To ‘be worthy’ implies some standard. Whence is that standard? I rather subscribe to the words of Jesus when He said: “So you also, when you have done everything you were told to do, should say, 'We are unworthy servants; we have only done our duty.'" Luke 17:7 NIV translation
“So you also, when you have done everything you were told to do, should say, 'We are unworthy servants; we have only done our duty.'" Luke 17:7 NIV
the desire to be accepted is just another brainwashing tactic for those of higher calibur to manipulate you. your 'acceptance' is just another way of them trying to control you. it's as simple as that. think for yourself, or forever be judged. i prefer to live my life as i see fit :) no judgements. as only i can live my life the way i want :)
@@darrickcortez7672 Our freedom lies not in being loved, but in loving.
If we recollect over our lives, and if we are honest, we see that the deepest happiness we have had is when we have loved. Not when we are loved, but when we give our joy freely to another, without thought.
This is what all spiritual teachings have conveyed in various ways over the millennia. It is in giving that we receive, in loving that we find love. Not a faint glimmer, but the unlimited and infinite expression of love, that knows nothing other than itself. Love upon which all universes rest, that which in reality is our very being.
"..what was I gonna do.." 10/10
btw, good talk.
I have a keen interest in learning human behavior and after seeing this video i will save much of my time
I'm just really thankful to you from the bottom of my heart ❤
This particular video help us to understand the behavior of not just one specific category of a human being but various categories of human beings. The video enables us to understand that the mentality of different people belonging to the different age group differs significantly. Also, according to the speaker, psychology or the human behavior of an individual very much depends on the environmental factor as well. The above video aids us in understanding the reason behind the reactions given by our own people about whom we care a lot, thus, augmenting our patience level towards each other for a better and a healthy living.
Tony P Jose?
Bravo... beautiful synopsis on the truth behind human psychology which is simple... our most basic need to be understood on a core level
This concept should be the overall goal of our education system. Half of our learning should be about how to manage our complex mind. The other half can be academic. Both are needed.
Very good idea!
Revenge is nothing but empathy on deeper level
Elaborate
i mean i probably would already know what you mean but its so vague so im intrigued
Marshall changed my life too. His teaching is so simple, but by no means easy. Glad to see the basic truth of common human needs are being shared in this talk. It's worth pointing out clearly that few people belief this because needs and strategies are so commonly confused. So too are thoughts and feelings. A good understanding of the language of feelings and needs is sorely missing in this world. For those inspired by this talk, I highly recommend another needs-based approach called 'the Human Givens', brought to the world by Joe Griffin and Ivan Tyrrel. Keep shining the light into every dark corner of the world, and spread the language of peace... :)
Thank you , Mr Larry ❤
Thank you. I really needed this. I'm an understanding person and just want to understand more
I feel that motivation is simply helping people do what they want to do
Thnks to the speaker u really made my intrest in psychology and human nature much more profound and... strong..human nature is always driven by understanding motives..wow .
That talk was absolutely fantastic and transformational, thank you so very much for sharing!
i feel like these kind of things help you solve problem's in day to day life
Thank you .. for this recommendation... and to the presenter for his very comprehensible - learn the language of the heart ... love.
His voice is calming
Thank you for putting this in such a relatable way ♥
One of the best Tedx talks I've ever watched.
Thanks for the TEDx Talk
This is my new fav ted talk
Larry C. Rosen is an intelligent empathizer (a Mench) seeing both party's side. THEE ORIGINAL TEXTBOOK IS: "You Can Negotiate Anything". A book on negotiation by Herb Cohen that used story-telling to help explain the various concepts and strategies behind the art of negotiation. The 1982 book spent nine months on the New York Times bestseller list.
"Human behaviour is complex but human motivation is simple"
you cannot understand behavior without the motivation for it
Hands down, the most useful TedTalk I've ever seen
One of finest ted talks
Thank you
This talk is changing my life
Much like the Latin phrase; cui bono: who benefits? What is the motive?
Thanks for your insights! Simple and profound.
un-human are those who have change the world to kill, Human Being are rarest thing in this universe, our laws and system should build to protect living human being and innocence on this planet. We are people of Planet EARTH, to survive here we need peace.
May God bless this man and everyone who helped in sharing this valuable information ❤️🙏
love this. I also think, "needs" are a lot of compensation and want to make everyzhing "better"
Omg, this gave goosebumps. Such a touching story.
GREAT GREAT STUFF!!!!! THIS WILL BRING PEACE ON EARTH!!!! THANK YOU SO!!!!
Human motivation is simple....thanks
This video is just GREAT!
I find myself coming to re-watch it every now and then.
Thank you for such nice sharing!!
phenomenal...brilliant...
brilliant....phenomenal...
Vừa vào đã nổi cả da gà 藍giọng a Phúc hayyy quá, mong sẽ tiếp tục cover ạ ❤️
To me he kinda looked like Bon Jovi , I was waiting for him to sing “it’s my life”
Nah, livin on a prayer
So inspiring and informative
You were talking about an afghanistani kid. What made him like this? can you answer my question? If you constantly treat someone that much unfairly then how can you expect love and respect from that guy?????
Very well said sir !
The way we percept the situation differs from man to man it may be either in the Good side or a Bad one.
so understanding ones perception is way too difficult.
this was an amazing talk!
so good and precise... just loved it. m going more for it
Amazing opened my mind
Amazingly amazing speech
The outside world matter to us only because we're trying to fullfil needs internally
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Children who have never been in a war and children who have never been in peace are different.They can never be the same.
Wow. This is so much insight
This video is underrated
this was great, thank you for sharing with us
One of the most amazing talks I’ve seen.
I agree as an opinion, this speaks levels but you said it yourself. It's basic and simple. On a fundemental
I agree as an opinion, this speaks levels but you said it yourself. It's basic and simple. On a fundemental level we as humans have both mind and body. What I disagree with as an opinion, is that its more than that. Especially when you suggested the taliban and how it's respect. At this time in your life, that is what you found an answer to that question. Although personally, I think its simpler than that. Its survival, in a sense. You're right, they're fighting for respect but to give up their life, they wouldn't. Respect is not powerful enough to survive. Its hard for one to grasp of survival, when you get to speak so freely, in world like ours. While those taliban boys must fight for their own survival. Even our minds fight for survival, our ego's. In my opinion, the easiest way to understand another on the most fundemental level is that we are not different. We are human, we are life, and we live. That's all.
Thank you!
I unfortunately have the potential to understand people at this level. It means that meeting people has a different experience for me and I see things others miss.
"What is it that you truly desire?"
I knew a lot of this stuff already. From experience and just being empathetic. People would just tell my I think/worry too much. 😩😢😔
Any one of 2025... Anyone from Instagram? 😂
Nah i am from 2030
All conflict is derived from lack of understanding.
Peace& harmony is the goal whether if your good or bad
Beautiful
This was great.
Excellent talk👍🏿
Very good talk
Wonderful speech!
Amazing talk.
Powerful!
The problem is people make actions they don't even understand but I want to know that I want to understand the actions of other although they might not know the meaning behind their own actions
Taking notes rn
Thanks you are very clever in yours ideas.
Excellent Larry!
such an underrated video
Great Job! Thanks