@@blacklikethesunheard that as well. And if it's true for nurses it's probably true for any female dominated field that regularly interacts with successfull men
well, woman being the majority voters got rid of that. We can all thank democracy for that. Even better places like france have banned paternity tests where when you go into a country to get your kid tested and the french gov finds out you will get over 2 years prison. Meanwhile rapists and murders get probation in france. That is where the west is going so buckle up cause it will get far worse
The first country to do the opposite of France and implement what you said or at least SOME kind of guard trails or consequences for paternity fraud (such as automatic paternity testing every child before the father is required to sign the birth certificate) will have very strong families and be destined to be one of the world's strongest countries on a per capita basis.
I'm a woman and I agree. You don't even give anything up by dressing modestly. You can look cute/beautiful/sexy while looking like you respect yourself if you look at all of the different styles available.
Yes! I'm a woman and I completely agree with the video. It's a shame that these days women are being encouraged to do whatever they want without consequences and not being taught taking accountability. Young girls will later regret doing what they did and it might be too late.
@squarecracker on the contrary. She gets the kind of attention from the kind of people she wants, presumably, not the one night stand kind of attention.
@@Musipict Nope! I had two mother figures growing up-- my mother, who was kind, smart, meek, and dressed modestly. Then there was my stepmother-- she was younger than my parents and followed the stereotype-- dressed revealingly, loud/rude, was physically and verbally abusive toward her stepkids, golddigger, cheated on my dad. Stepmother also always tried to force my sisters and I to wear more revealing clothes as teens to fit in more with her and her friends I guess, so our rebellion became to wear bigger and heavier clothes. We were definitely those kids in long pants and hoodies in 100F weather, out of spite... My dad later came to his senses and divorced my stepmother, but unlike my mother, who took nothing and rebuilt herself (she increased her work hours and later bought herself a house), my stepmother used the leverage of her one child to take everything-- the house my dad had bought back in the 80s (with my mother, though her name was no longer on it), alimony payments, ridiculously high child support payments that caused him to lose his business, too. My dad was a fool for divorcing my mom over what was likely postpartum depression without having tried therapy and maybe getting mom on medication, but he was twice the fool for thinking some younger, hot, underdressed woman would be into him for any reason except his money. When I see underdressed women outside, I assume they're usually selfish in some manner, and I've felt that way from a pretty young age.
Technically what she thought she was saying "My choice of clothes don't define me, my personality, values, etc. define me." not realizing that her choices are both indicative of them and part of them (choices are a part of values).
Sorry, but you understand who is a prostitute, who is a priest and who is a monk just by their outfit, so yes, outfit often defines who you are, deal with it.
Lets face it, she just means she wants to keep doing stuff without any consequences or judgement. Literally an overgrown child. Fathers don't get paid nearly enough to raise this.
I have three daughters, was a stay-at-home father for ten years. None of them are like this but they understand the attitudes and only use the language ironically. BTW i didn't get paid at all, I worked the nights for less pay than i could otherwise get, the payoff is three young women who are humble but expect the world to treat them well.
@@xyaeiounn yeah I was just pointing out fathers are not nearly as respected or valued as much as mothers. other countries where men are respected daughters are less likely to be this way
@@Dreweybabynah its not, man. More like... eh like 80% I'd guess. Its just that most of the women you see out and about or on social media are in that 80%. A lot the good ones are depressed and stuck at home. So they can be difficult to find. You can find decent women in normal places that people go like the grocery store, doctors office, working, some kind of good hobby like outdoorsy type stuff or a book club. Even on dating apps, though it's like one in 200, there are decent women. Just find one where they don't have any photos showing off their TnA's, shows some hobby, and their bio is just normal and no red flags. They're out there bro it's just difficult it really is. The women with souls suffer the same way we do cuz most dudes are jaded pron addicts.
I am a woman and everything you said was spot on. My sisters used to make fun of me for not dressing like these women in the video or going out to clubs, if you go there dressing like that, you're opening yourself to scenarios you may not want or be comfortable with. You don't go out to these places to get a long term relationship.
Very true. I kinda see it like this, women are marketers, men are salesmen. Who ever puts their advertisements in the best spots, has the best sales. Who ever has the best sales pitch makes the most deals.
I’m a wife and mother to sons. These women don’t seem to grasp that women, as a whole, are not “standing in solidarity” with them. Heck, I’ll be raising my sons to determine what a good woman is, and what a “304” is. I would be devastated if my sons ended up enmeshed with women like these.
And the powers that be are trying their very best to prevent mothers from doing that. Even if you are a housewife, the vast majority of children in the West spend more time learning about the world from their teachers at school (a feminist stranger that could have 100% opposite beliefs to your own that rewards masculine girls but punishes masculine boys), their friends, and social media.
@@GengoSenmon I homeschool my children. They participate in sports, and we have friend groups with children whose parents are sane, stable, and rooted in reality. And we use poorly behaved children that interact with our boys as a tool to learn from. Lot’s of family discussions when our 7 year old neighbor, already given a smartphone by her durpy parents, instructed our son to “just sneak it” when he told her he wasn’t allowed to watch watch whatever it is she brought up on her phone. Sorry, but I’m never going to sacrifice my children to avoid the honest truth: this little girl is being raised poorly, her parents don’t want to spend time with her so they give her a constant distraction, and what kind of kid goes to a playground to sit and watch a video on their phones?! Truth is, my kids are learning kids like her need to play with kids like her, and kids like my sons can play with kids like them. I’m not raising my neighbor’s kid and she already told my son to lie to me. Oh believe me... I do not play.
I met my wife in the middle of a forest. Yes, really. It was the first day of muzzleloader season and I hear a shot, followed shortly by a nice 8 point coming in to view. I realized right away it was wounded with one hell of nice vitals shot, and therefore I decided to be a good sportsman and not shoot it myself. It dropped a couple seconds later. I got down (no way I was getting anything there with fresh blood) and soon this redhead comes along trailing it. The muzzleloader was almost as tall as her. I congratulated her and was about to ask if her dad or someone was coming when she whips out her knife and sets to gutting it. Okay, this girl is awesome. She apologizes for messing up my hunt, and I said no problem, I was heading out anyway. She asked me if I could give her a hand dragging her back and the rest is history, they say. She’s never been in a club ever. She wants to hike, find mushrooms, hunt and fish. That’s when I knew I was down for this girl. Few males under the age of 50 hunt, well, except me.
My sister has a story like this. She has an etsy business where she sells jewelry made of animal bones. She is a very pretty girl and doesn't present outdoorsy at all. One night she found a dead deer out in the sticks and was sawing it's head off to turning into a home furnishing. A redneck boy pulled up to here and said 'oh lord, i might have to ask for your number'.
@@_khaine Maybe! There are more women hunters every year, it seems like. Even as the number of hunters decreases. Just a couple weekends ago I saw a 20-something woman walking in the state game lands at 630 am with her bow on her back. Granted, most of these girls are country girls, and a different breed. You kind of have to snatch them up quick.
It's profitable to tell women exactly what they want to hear. Well, it can't last forever, they are bound to wake up at some point and realize nothing is going their way.
You're right most of this content is more useful to men to become aware of the current state of society and develop a healthy strategy for their life and what to expect.
Those type of women the angry response to them having to face the reality of their poor choices is always "incel", "insecure", "small dick energy". The bad ones all think and act the same. They've went through life with everyone sucking up to them and never challenging anything they say or do. Being hit with that is legitimately a shock to many of them. Still good women out there, just a lot of toxicity. Its so important to be an informed, aware, mindful man in these times. Know the risks you're getting into, know what to look for in a good person with good character. Really hope you continue, love your content. You understand humans and relationships at such a deep core level its insane.
I'd think current universities are the last places who would allow such discourse to propagate. Then next thing you know the media twist his words and he gets in a lot of trouble. Here he can have anonymity
This is probably a thesis. He’s working on, the humorous, but legitimate thing that he is putting good work into. It’s humorous and sad at the same time. This is the world we live in.
Yeah, maybe in a more ideal world that would be cool; to be able to take a class on human relations like this, however, nowadays all of the colleges are so overly "politically correct" that anything or anyone saying anything even remotely close to the actual truth about stuff like this, is immediately shut down, banned, or hidden, basically because most average people, especially most women, simply cannot handle the real truth about themselves or their typical behaviors!
you got the spirit, but a uni is the last place this should be. even if this was a class most students wouldn't attend. they cry about genders and politics or that they can't do taxes. well they teach taxes and nobody goes. the admins require diversity and sex harrassment classes and everyone hates them
What's so bad about being a "pick me"? They basically acknowledge that you have the traits that would make guys pick you. It sounds like a praise, not an insult 😂
They use this narrative to trick top men into getting in relationships with them. Same for saying bodycount doesn't matter. They want both, to act like this and still get married to a top guy, then move on when he gets boring. They want everything without limitations.
Like "acting like a 304 doesn't diminish my value, there's nothing wrong with me. Please pick me Mr. top guy, pick me". That's basically what they're saying. And if you say otherwise they get really angry because you're waking the top guy's eyes to her manipulations. Many top guys get tricked into ignoring the red flags and fall for it.
Women seem to be their own worst enemies. It's like jack nicholson's character says in As Good as it Gets regarding writing female characters, "I write a man, then I take away all reason and accountability"
@@jamesjonnes I mean tbf. Being a hoe doesn't diminish their value, because everyone has different standards. Hell I'd even argue that being a hoe gives you a much better chance to get what you want. Clearly works as if it didn't people wouldn't do it for so long.
@@cassu6 It doesn't diminish their chances only because 304dom has been normalized by them saying that it doesn't diminish their value, such as in this video. Still, it brings many headaches for the guy who enters a relationship with her.
Dude I was JUST thinking about adding a Z-axis for morality to zones and I click your page & see you did it already. Both really impressed and sad I didn’t call it sooner
Couldnt be said any better, if a guy dresses like a felon he will be immediately judged as a felon on sight, if a guy dresses like nerd people will assume hes a nerd... not a felon. Its funny that most of the important women in my life told me that you will be treated the way you are dressed (If i dress like a bum, i will be seen as a bum) but this message didn't seem to reach the people that needed to hear it the most.
"No one is immune to temptation" is so important. There's this concept in christianity that the best way to beat temptations is to avoid exposing yourself to it. If you need to trust her to fight the temptation of other men looking at her body every day, then it's just a matter of time
It's such an important concept because it applies to everything. For example, that's how addicts recover. Not by resisting temptations, but by creating situations where they don't even have to
That's probably one of the reasons why christianity is failing in the west. "Resisting" temptation by pretending it's not there only bottles it up and causes it to froth over, rather than understanding it and not being tempted to begin with. The denial of one's own humanity is not a good thing.
Ah, the INCEL attack, the modern woman's defense mechanism when they don't bring anything to a relationship and attack trying to make themselves feel better.
2:24 Should add here that it's not about temptation, but about the reason she invites more attention in the first place. She doesn't need to be tempted because she's already looking. She doesn't need to "give in" she needs to find the guy she's looking for.
that means she doesn't like you so much but she can settle with you ( thats a strategy she will play good for you but still look around for what she wants. You are her back up plan when things go wrong) and keeps looking for a better than you .
This is so true I cannot express it in words. I'm a guy and if I see a hot girl who dresses sexy, I will NEVER approach her because my thoughts about her are like "oh she's hot...she probably has a lot of suitors...not a wife material, not interested, I'm looking for a serious relationship." And I will be much more willing to court a girl of average appearance who dresses unprovocatively. That's why, the only men this type oh girls get are men who sleep around.
But didn't men always want beautiful women in order to raise their status? And how would I be able to love a man who chose me because he thought I had fewer options, not because he finds me irresistible?
@@fran791 Once upon a time before birth control and social media was a thing, a beautiful woman wasn't necessarily an absolute liability spreading her legs everywhere. They also seek attention all the time. That's pretty much what happens very often now. And then women love more the men that have more options, is that any more fair? There are always strings attached to "love", stop thinking it's this ideal concept. Just like how body count can be a deal breaker from the start.
@@Leonhart_93 I was asking for a clarification: do men prefer beautiful women or average women who are modest?. Because on one side I hear about men wanting the hottest women, the ig baddies, but on the other hand I hear men wanting women who are not noticed by other men
@@fran791 Good question, although it's not complicated at all since men are simple. The answer is that they put women either in the "fun" only category, or "wifey material" category. For the first category personality and her past are almost irrelevant, and for the second category personality and her past are more important than looks, as loyalty is absolutely mandatory. But of course, beauty as well would be ideal, only that it's a pipe dream in the age of social media and attention seeking.
The girl that I'm talking to sent a couple of your videos with me today. We both agree with the points you have presented in your vids. And I as a woman, totally agree with this video.
This dude is going to go places. Seriously. Nothing from his videos but strait unadulterated facts , that will hit so hard peeps won’t be able to unsee it.
Went to a Bible college. Freshman gym class the prof dared to say, "and ladies, you need fitness too, you know, for the benefit of your husbands" (just like men should do fitness) and the girls circled the f*cking wagons. Fat girls, skinny girls, all of them. "How dare you suggest women should give af about their body for the sake of a man! (their future husbands). You're supposed to judge the inside not superficially!" Mind you, this was back in the early 2000s before the third wave had crested. At the time (unfortunately I only thought it instead of saying it) I thought exactly what you said: your choices do define you. Land whale? Poor self-control, addictive eating disorder, possible emotional imbalance. Lack of enthusiasm for corrective behavior (exercise/diet). More makeup than a Barbie? Egotistical/vain, seeking male attention/lust. Slutty clothes? Do we really need an explanation here? Etc. Times change. People don't.
I agree with everything you’ve said. A persons choices and behavior are always consistent with their true nature, if they don’t like what they’re projecting it’s because they’re in denial about their true nature.
I'm a woman and I agree to this. I'm always consious of the attention i get from what I wear. I'm aware that other people will find me beautiful in the clothes that I feel beautiful in. I wear the 'unattractive/ practical clothes' to places I don't want attraction from guys like the gym or my university. I go there to concentrate and not anything else... I wear 'attractive clothes' to parties or when I'm going out. That being said I'm not saying dressing attractively is an invitation for harassment. That's the creep's problem. Attention and compliments can be given without being creepy and are always appreciated. But thinking dressing attractively won't get you any attention is being somewhat delusional. I know when I want attention and I dress accordingly...
Also what women don't get, is even if they DON'T dress 'attractively', they'll still get a ton of attention from guys, because a lot of men don't particularly like a lot of makeup/revealing clothes. Just because you have no makeup, your hair up, t-shirt and jeans, that doesn;t make you immune from male attention.
Great video. On another note, becoming a trad husband or a trad wife is not something you can do overnight, it takes years of practice--and if you've spent your whole life clubbing and drinking and partying, you have to unlearn all of those bad habits before you can even begin to build new ones. A woman who's spent her whole life seeking the company and attention of men isn't going to become "wife material" suddenly when she meets Mr. Right, even if she wants to. The same is also true for men of course, a guy can't spend his whole life smoking weed and watching p*rn then suddenly become a good masculine husband once he meets the right girl, but I don't see men demanding that women put up with these behaviors in the same way entitled women are doing.
"A woman who's spent her whole life seeking the company and attention of men isn't going to become "wife material" suddenly when she meets Mr. Right, even if she wants to." - She will if she's a transactional and manipulative person. Strangely, the essentially 'good' ones won't be able to adapt. I've seen male friends struggle with the transition from skirt-chasing dog to stable man.
Dude you’ve gotten me to reevaluate myself being above this kind of thing. Like thinking about it, yeah I probably have done this stuff before and I shouldn’t be so high and mighty that I don’t care what she’s wearing when I talk to her. Thanks for calling me out man.
@@npc7679 And who was that character played by? Whose lips did that come out of? Whose vocal chords made the vibrations necessary to utter that message? Thanks for taking time away from your pride parade to comment!
" how I feel about myself defines me" seems to be the thinking of the ages. You've gotta provide source material yo!! Please help a sister deep dive. Thank you.
my ex wanted me to trust her but all her choices were sussy, always engaging other men in inappropriate conversation, showing cleavage on days to work where she was going to train new sales men, DM's literally asking her for sex. It really was insulting. After a good talk and her refusal to respect me as her man I had to show her the door. She was infuriated. I hope she sees this video. Someone should send it to her.🤣
Salute 🫡 to you for respecting your self. It seems almost completely unavoidable that most relationships for men they will be forced to choose between your dignity and self respect or becoming a doormat for a disrespectful woman. Culturally men are disrespected so I see no reason for things to improve anytime soon
You are doing an insane job bro. Big big respect to your expansion on these topics in such details and your efforts in this movement to spread a higher order awareness regarding the relationship dynamics
I'm reminded of that Dave Chappelle skit where he does the impression of a scantily dressed woman. "Just because I am dressed this way does not make me a whore!" "But you do you look like one!"
finding this channel makes me feel happy that I stay to myself human are very complicated. and this just explain all the stuff I feel and no one wants to speak on
Bro you've struck gold with this channel, well done! So informative and entertaining at the same time, without spending a fortune on production. Bravo!
I love your content. It's very logical, and it's very applicable. It's like all of the unfinished strings of logic that I've used to try and explain my preferences in women, but the whole picture. I appreciate your videos.
This is my pregnant 19 yr old sister, she has absolutely no clue how bad she messed up and how she is to perceived by other dudes, she thinks she’s gonna get right back to it, doesn’t understand that she’s blacklisted herself from 90% of guys and will have to hide it to get any attention outside of one night stands
The front part of the brain doesn't fully develop until mid 20s. Not condoning bad behaviour but it would explain why she doesn't understand the full consequences of her choices.
@@alyssawoodman people understand the basic consequences of having sex from a young age if they were raised right But for women specifically, when they don't have their family involved in their choices of who they are with, they can be screwed a lot because those types of women are easily love bombed by bad men and things like that
In a comedy sketch a kniwn comefian spoke of this. A guy dressed like a cop got approached by a woman frantically telling him she was robbed. The man dressed like a cop said, "Jyst cause I'm dressed a certain way, doesn't mean I am a certain way".
OMG you have completely decoded what I always knew was true about the women I referred to as "Wifey.". But I could never really explain it verbally. That wifey energy is always preferred for any serious, long term relationship.
I’m so disgusted by these women. I notice the ones in their 30s get resentful when you don’t want nothing too do with them and won’t rescue them from bad life choices
Of course. You will have noticed that there is so many women calling attractive men "incels" when they say something uncomfortable. Happens all day long.
I doubt there will be such a content. I would like to see some balance and variety here too, like yourself. But from patterns, I see in this channel, the "hoe" word is used only in context of women, and men are shown more as victims of women. I do not deny that there are many examples of female manipulation etc. I've seen such examples and see this as a problem. And I've seen examples of manipulative attitude of men towards women, and see this as a problem too. Although, the person appeals to common sense, and awareness, his content looks to me a rather one-sided view of reality. If someone notices and focuses attention on one part of something complex, can one teach others about awareness by providing such example? Thinking further, perhaps there is some kind of resentment towards women, and author expresses this through sarcasm. What confuses me is that this sarcasm is perceived by the public as presenting the unbiased essence of reality. This resentment, of course, is purely author's business. Until he begins to spread his mood in the world as "things really are". What may contribute more to bias, mutual disrespect, mutual grievances between men and women, which perceive such content. Although, perhaps, this is the author’s goal.
@@anastasiakriuchkovska2204 The channel certainly dips its toes into the redpill mindset at a minimum, but there are some valuable ideas in there as well. Like anything you see, hear, or read, it is up to you to decide what is valuable to you and leave the rest.
That is based on the premise that life is 'fair', that humanity is divided evenly 50/50. It has no reality outside of the belief. In reality, women have a lot of power. So much so, that in only a few decades, we have undone what thousands of years of culture tried to achieve; understandable and enjoyable relationships. Of course, that thousands of years failed, but whatever it did achieve is now gone. A very small percentage of men still have power. So when you want a "husband" material video, consider it's really just a way of saying that those few with all the power should be nicer, good, faithful guys.
@@BudoReflex yes we women have "all the power" mwahaha. We are taller on average, have more muscle mass, exhibit riskier behavior and we "terk ur jerbz" 😂 mhmm no bitterness and bias from you.
I always considered immodest clothing as putting a woman at risk of sexual aggression I never thought that it was exposing women to the temptation to cheat.... This video really helps me understand other women.
The culture is finally starting to heal itself! Videos like this reinforce the true importance of values not only men but women as well because we both seem to have gotten misguided lately and both need readjust our priorities because we do need one another and can make each other’s lives full of love and mutual respect.
Nah we got a long way to go it actually needs to get much worse before it gets better. Economists predicting by 2030 half of marriage aged women will be single. Women are getting worse and men thanks to alternative media are wising up. When women view 80 percent of men as undesirable that's not the culture healing😂. The most sensible way to do marriages going forward IMO is to have pre negotiated marriage contracts and outline conditions agreeable by both on all important matters. If one party wants to leave without a good reason they should not be rewarded. Far less marriages would happen as most of the ones that are done simply for wealth accumulation would go away. However the ones that do would happen for the right reasons. As a society we need to be incentivizing good moral upright behavior and punishing the bad which honestly will take care of most of the problems.
The description box comment is gold: "Young women often use black magic word tricks to make you think that reality isn't what you're looking at right in front of your eyes. When you're all grown up, you know that what you see is real and what people say isn't (necessarily)." and I'll repaste it here in case somebody missed it.
3:02 This was a really great point. I used to be trusting of women that I dated in this way, until one cheated on me after going out. Then I realized just because I can trust myself or can be trusted with that level of risky behavior, doesn't mean that everyone is built the same way. Most people won't ignore the temptation if someone hits on them.
One of the best indicators of determining whether a woman is likely to cheat or not -and thus a wifey material- is if she likes attention from other men, it's in their nature yes, but constraining that desire is a good indicator.
The Marine corps would literally pay you to give this brief on bases to try to stop their Marines from marrying strippers and all the problems that causes the command.
If you think male sexual aggression isn't high at church, you haven't been paying attention. It may be more subtle or even stealth, but it's definitely strong there. Every single woman in church, even if she's still in the youth group, will absolutely back me up here.
You know what, I can't even being to argue about that, cause I think you're right. But insinuating that it's as high as at the club is something else entirely.
@@regalsylvester Oh, but it is a really good environment to groom young women. With all the god-given authority men have in the church in general and the pastors especially. They just play a longer and more insidious game than the guys in the club.
This is why some Eastern cultures have got this right. Granted some may take it to far, such as Saudi Arabia and Afghanistan, but on the whole the culture of women dressing modestly is more prevalent in the east. Part of my family is Pakistani and I went there once, all women dressed modestly without being forced to do so. This is true for Vietnam, Cambodia, India, Sri Lanka and many African nations too.
If society requires something of you, you might not feel as if you are forced, but there is social pressure. That social pressure was removed for so long, in Western countries, that many people do not respond well to any form of negative judgement or being told that there are consequences for certain behaviours.
As a woman, this is 100% true. I think something that got missed is how women tie their personality & values to their clothes far more than even the most effeminate men. For those still in the marketplace, they are constantly evaluating their looks and comparing it to any other woman (whether or not they're truly competition) with far more scrutiny than men do. The whole "I'm dressing like X for myself!" BS can also go into the "we're not stupid" category. Even wearing a baggy t-shirt and levis has a subconscious social purpose to it. They knew what they were doing before they had even bought those clothes, and are now trying to gaslight anyone who doesn't shower them with pretty lies they want to hear. Peak feminine hubris is demanding to be treated with the same reverence as mother mary whilst dressing & behaving like the harlot at the well.
Clothes are tied to personality, good one. I will also add that they are tied to how you want to be seen, which in this case means getting a lot of attention, even if it's sexual attention.
Good video overall. One critique (because this is the internet), I'm not sure if "have some other dude's baby in your body" are the most accurate words to use. We don't want our wives to cheat on us, even if they don't get pregnant. In the past, this may have simply been about having some other dude's baby, now it's also about respect as well.
He’s saying the reason why you feel that way about your wife cheating is because we spent thousands of years evolving in a format where sex=baby. You don’t not want your wife to cheat for just no reason it’s because your ancestors all had to make sure it was their own genes that were being passed on and not another male’s
@@PARAN0IDxGERBIL right, and I acknowledged that's where not wanting our wives to cheat started from, and that in modern times the reasons have evolved from simply not wanting to raise a child that wasn't biologically ours, to other reasons. Our wives won't get pregnant from kissing other men, and I still think we wouldn't want them doing that.
He's saying it because its the most clear and impactful way to say it. If you just talk about respect then people can argue 'I still respect you, I just want to have some fun on the side, what's so bad about that'. He's slamming the point home so there is no confusion!
I agree with everything he said, the only unacceptable time to ask a women what was she wearing is when she tells you she was SA'ed, nothing justifies sexually assaulting someone, no matter what she was wearing.
I'm a woman, but more a tomboy than lady. Thank you so much for this and being willing to judge and render a negative verdict. I also appreciate your drawing skills. I hope that you and your male viewers find your kind-hearted, hard-working, supportive wives.
3:01 This is just cap. There ARE no women that dress like that and never cheat, because getting attention is the whole POINT. For a woman, it always comes down to "can I be happy with my current bf or is this guy looking at me a better option?" ALL that has to happen is for the guy to be a better option, something she just can't pass up. If you're an average guy with a loyal wife and Henry Cavill is interested and pursuing your wife - 100% YOU DON'T HAVE A LOYAL WIFE.
What women also miss is that dressing immodestly is not purely the on/off for men pursuing them. It's a specific type of attention they get exponentially more of when dressed a certain way, because dressing in a way that is sexually provocative will -- get this -- *provoke a sexualized response* . A woman can very, very easily dress in a way that is classy and modest, and very frequently this makes her far more attractive as a person rather than as a sex object, because men are not mindless drones. "I dress this way for me" "real man don't care" "insert feminist cognitive dissonance" are all lies people tell themselves.
I dig your logic man. You got smarty-brains. 🧠 Conversation around the topic gets difficult for me to remember the conclusions I've learned from the channel, but these breakdowns are super helpful. ☕
This dude took "do I need to draw you a picture" to a whole new level
I mean, it turns out that the answer is: "YES!"
The thing is: he draws them, explains it concisely, tries to educate. And niggas *still* have the audacity to disagree with him
HAHA
@@marlom7882 You should be able to criticize anything in a constructive manner. Calling him names his not an argument though (referring to the video)
@@marlom7882it’s easier to fool someone than it is to let them know that they’ve been fooled
Dress like a firefighter, get treated like a firefighter. Dress like a nurse, get treated like a nurse. Dress like a 304, get treated like ... a wife?
lol, these women are so dumb!
An interesting thing to remember now is that most nurses are also 304s. Some of the biggest
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@@blacklikethesun it always ben like that! lol!!!
@@blacklikethesunheard that as well. And if it's true for nurses it's probably true for any female dominated field that regularly interacts with successfull men
“You can only hang around the barber shop for so long before you wind up getting a haircut”
Bingo
I think of jackass where they sneak up to their buddies heads and take a clump off 😂
@@chrisl676 I think you just drew a inavertent comparison to rape
lol okay, I guess that's how it works? Barbers run around looking for hair to cut like a hair-predator.
@@jamesrussell2936 did you mean to respond to someone or can you just not comprehend the analogy?
Paternity fraud should be a felony and carry a jail sentence
prepare to be shocked when you find out women will still carry chad's baby in prison
Sounds like justice to me
The country would collapse from population decline.
well, woman being the majority voters got rid of that. We can all thank democracy for that. Even better places like france have banned paternity tests where when you go into a country to get your kid tested and the french gov finds out you will get over 2 years prison. Meanwhile rapists and murders get probation in france.
That is where the west is going so buckle up cause it will get far worse
The first country to do the opposite of France and implement what you said or at least SOME kind of guard trails or consequences for paternity fraud (such as automatic paternity testing every child before the father is required to sign the birth certificate) will have very strong families and be destined to be one of the world's strongest countries on a per capita basis.
I'm a woman and I agree. You don't even give anything up by dressing modestly. You can look cute/beautiful/sexy while looking like you respect yourself if you look at all of the different styles available.
You give up attention. Just not the kind of attention you really want or for the people you want it from.
Yes! I'm a woman and I completely agree with the video. It's a shame that these days women are being encouraged to do whatever they want without consequences and not being taught taking accountability. Young girls will later regret doing what they did and it might be too late.
@squarecracker on the contrary. She gets the kind of attention from the kind of people she wants, presumably, not the one night stand kind of attention.
It's an interesting phenomenon. When a girl respects you, she dresses modest in public. But when you're home 😏
@@Musipict Nope! I had two mother figures growing up-- my mother, who was kind, smart, meek, and dressed modestly. Then there was my stepmother-- she was younger than my parents and followed the stereotype-- dressed revealingly, loud/rude, was physically and verbally abusive toward her stepkids, golddigger, cheated on my dad. Stepmother also always tried to force my sisters and I to wear more revealing clothes as teens to fit in more with her and her friends I guess, so our rebellion became to wear bigger and heavier clothes. We were definitely those kids in long pants and hoodies in 100F weather, out of spite...
My dad later came to his senses and divorced my stepmother, but unlike my mother, who took nothing and rebuilt herself (she increased her work hours and later bought herself a house), my stepmother used the leverage of her one child to take everything-- the house my dad had bought back in the 80s (with my mother, though her name was no longer on it), alimony payments, ridiculously high child support payments that caused him to lose his business, too. My dad was a fool for divorcing my mom over what was likely postpartum depression without having tried therapy and maybe getting mom on medication, but he was twice the fool for thinking some younger, hot, underdressed woman would be into him for any reason except his money. When I see underdressed women outside, I assume they're usually selfish in some manner, and I've felt that way from a pretty young age.
Technically what she thought she was saying "My choice of clothes don't define me, my personality, values, etc. define me." not realizing that her choices are both indicative of them and part of them (choices are a part of values).
Yes, dressing provocatively is a low moral value action in itself.
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Sorry, but you understand who is a prostitute, who is a priest and who is a monk just by their outfit, so yes, outfit often defines who you are, deal with it.
Choices come from values. What kind of idiot says, "I value you, I just don't make choices that reflect that"? What good are you then?
But vvomen love attention tho so u can’t necessarily get them to stop dressing like hoochie mommas 🙂
You can say you’re an Astronaut, but if you don’t go to space, it’s bs
But if she connects to cosmic energy, isn't that essentially being an astronaut...? 😂
I bet she has made it possible for a lot of potential astronauts to be shot into space.
I'm an astronaut!
You do know this can be applied as: "You might dress slutty, but if you're not being passed around you're not a slut" right?
that was the plot of a regular show episode i believe
Lets face it, she just means she wants to keep doing stuff without any consequences or judgement. Literally an overgrown child. Fathers don't get paid nearly enough to raise this.
Yep that’s 99.99999% of vvomen.. leggo 🚀
I have three daughters, was a stay-at-home father for ten years. None of them are like this but they understand the attitudes and only use the language ironically.
BTW i didn't get paid at all, I worked the nights for less pay than i could otherwise get, the payoff is three young women who are humble but expect the world to treat them well.
@@xyaeiounn yeah I was just pointing out fathers are not nearly as respected or valued as much as mothers. other countries where men are respected daughters are less likely to be this way
@@siaowun9418 literally prove it
@@Dreweybabynah its not, man. More like... eh like 80% I'd guess. Its just that most of the women you see out and about or on social media are in that 80%. A lot the good ones are depressed and stuck at home. So they can be difficult to find. You can find decent women in normal places that people go like the grocery store, doctors office, working, some kind of good hobby like outdoorsy type stuff or a book club. Even on dating apps, though it's like one in 200, there are decent women. Just find one where they don't have any photos showing off their TnA's, shows some hobby, and their bio is just normal and no red flags. They're out there bro it's just difficult it really is. The women with souls suffer the same way we do cuz most dudes are jaded pron addicts.
We have no way to know what you think except by OBSERVING YOUR BEHAVIOR
I am a woman and everything you said was spot on. My sisters used to make fun of me for not dressing like these women in the video or going out to clubs, if you go there dressing like that, you're opening yourself to scenarios you may not want or be comfortable with. You don't go out to these places to get a long term relationship.
Very true. I kinda see it like this, women are marketers, men are salesmen. Who ever puts their advertisements in the best spots, has the best sales. Who ever has the best sales pitch makes the most deals.
@@chrisl676dating is just like sales
Curiously, what eventually happened to your less modest sisters in relation your outcomes?
You talk like you truly are Wifey material, congratulations. My wife thinks the same way
You are wifey material...
I’m a wife and mother to sons. These women don’t seem to grasp that women, as a whole, are not “standing in solidarity” with them. Heck, I’ll be raising my sons to determine what a good woman is, and what a “304” is. I would be devastated if my sons ended up enmeshed with women like these.
And the powers that be are trying their very best to prevent mothers from doing that. Even if you are a housewife, the vast majority of children in the West spend more time learning about the world from their teachers at school (a feminist stranger that could have 100% opposite beliefs to your own that rewards masculine girls but punishes masculine boys), their friends, and social media.
@@GengoSenmon I homeschool my children. They participate in sports, and we have friend groups with children whose parents are sane, stable, and rooted in reality. And we use poorly behaved children that interact with our boys as a tool to learn from. Lot’s of family discussions when our 7 year old neighbor, already given a smartphone by her durpy parents, instructed our son to “just sneak it” when he told her he wasn’t allowed to watch watch whatever it is she brought up on her phone. Sorry, but I’m never going to sacrifice my children to avoid the honest truth: this little girl is being raised poorly, her parents don’t want to spend time with her so they give her a constant distraction, and what kind of kid goes to a playground to sit and watch a video on their phones?! Truth is, my kids are learning kids like her need to play with kids like her, and kids like my sons can play with kids like them. I’m not raising my neighbor’s kid and she already told my son to lie to me. Oh believe me... I do not play.
They may not get any alternatives to "women like these" coz thats at least 97% of whats gonna be out there when they grow up
Ah you’re that kind of moms💀💀
@@mariam-ci5hh 100% that kind of MOM - no whhh oars for my boys. And it is not “moms”, that’s plural and it’s singular. 😬Not looking good for you.
I met my wife in the middle of a forest. Yes, really. It was the first day of muzzleloader season and I hear a shot, followed shortly by a nice 8 point coming in to view. I realized right away it was wounded with one hell of nice vitals shot, and therefore I decided to be a good sportsman and not shoot it myself. It dropped a couple seconds later. I got down (no way I was getting anything there with fresh blood) and soon this redhead comes along trailing it. The muzzleloader was almost as tall as her. I congratulated her and was about to ask if her dad or someone was coming when she whips out her knife and sets to gutting it. Okay, this girl is awesome. She apologizes for messing up my hunt, and I said no problem, I was heading out anyway. She asked me if I could give her a hand dragging her back and the rest is history, they say.
She’s never been in a club ever. She wants to hike, find mushrooms, hunt and fish. That’s when I knew I was down for this girl. Few males under the age of 50 hunt, well, except me.
The man's version of The Disney Princess. Well done Prince Charming.
My sister has a story like this. She has an etsy business where she sells jewelry made of animal bones. She is a very pretty girl and doesn't present outdoorsy at all. One night she found a dead deer out in the sticks and was sawing it's head off to turning into a home furnishing. A redneck boy pulled up to here and said 'oh lord, i might have to ask for your number'.
just be a hunter theory?
@@_khaine Maybe! There are more women hunters every year, it seems like. Even as the number of hunters decreases. Just a couple weekends ago I saw a 20-something woman walking in the state game lands at 630 am with her bow on her back.
Granted, most of these girls are country girls, and a different breed. You kind of have to snatch them up quick.
@@squarecrackerand? Did she married to that redneckboy?
Dude the cube makes so much sense. I’ve been making 2x2fu and I’ve been imagine how it would look like in 3D. That makes SO MUCH sense.
now, time for 4d!
As a woman, it's wild to me that there are women who don't think their choices are worth being judged. Not fixable to tell them.
It's profitable to tell women exactly what they want to hear. Well, it can't last forever, they are bound to wake up at some point and realize nothing is going their way.
You're right most of this content is more useful to men to become aware of the current state of society and develop a healthy strategy for their life and what to expect.
Feminist brainwashing.
the problem with that is they're taking "dont care about what others think about you" to the next level. at least care a little
@@tevno9693 Yes. Agreed. Sadly to their own pain.
"Dont judge me" the go-to line for cheating women.
"Trust me" the go-to line for all liars.
Those type of women the angry response to them having to face the reality of their poor choices is always "incel", "insecure", "small dick energy". The bad ones all think and act the same. They've went through life with everyone sucking up to them and never challenging anything they say or do. Being hit with that is legitimately a shock to many of them. Still good women out there, just a lot of toxicity. Its so important to be an informed, aware, mindful man in these times. Know the risks you're getting into, know what to look for in a good person with good character. Really hope you continue, love your content. You understand humans and relationships at such a deep core level its insane.
So you were hurt and it struck u nerve huh
@@chullupa did you even watch the video?
@@chullupa also the funny thing is you literally just proved his point. hilarious
So you are so pressed you double replied to defend your buddy
@@chullupalittle girl is butthurt lmao 🤣
You should become a university lecturer. The way you explain the material is so simple yet detailed.
I'd think current universities are the last places who would allow such discourse to propagate. Then next thing you know the media twist his words and he gets in a lot of trouble. Here he can have anonymity
@@Mister_9the system has a script and educators and academia at large have to follow it or be defunded and ostracized
This is probably a thesis. He’s working on, the humorous, but legitimate thing that he is putting good work into.
It’s humorous and sad at the same time. This is the world we live in.
Yeah, maybe in a more ideal world that would be cool; to be able to take a class on human relations like this, however, nowadays all of the colleges are so overly "politically correct" that anything or anyone saying anything even remotely close to the actual truth about stuff like this, is immediately shut down, banned, or hidden, basically because most average people, especially most women, simply cannot handle the real truth about themselves or their typical behaviors!
you got the spirit, but a uni is the last place this should be. even if this was a class most students wouldn't attend. they cry about genders and politics or that they can't do taxes. well they teach taxes and nobody goes. the admins require diversity and sex harrassment classes and everyone hates them
"Decisions determine destiny"
As a lady, I totally agree but I can't even tell this to other ladies or I'll just be called a 'pick me'.
can you explain what a "pickme" is? I'm pretty ignorant on this topic.
@@novikane14 "Pick me" is basically the opposite of a bitter victim.
What's so bad about being a "pick me"? They basically acknowledge that you have the traits that would make guys pick you. It sounds like a praise, not an insult 😂
@@alwaysright3943 ohh, so it's kind of like a cuck or nice guy?
@@novikane14 What is the male equivalent of someone who fulfills his reproductive goals? More of a Chad than a nice guy.
"No one is immune to temptation" is absolutely critical
They use this narrative to trick top men into getting in relationships with them. Same for saying bodycount doesn't matter. They want both, to act like this and still get married to a top guy, then move on when he gets boring. They want everything without limitations.
Like "acting like a 304 doesn't diminish my value, there's nothing wrong with me. Please pick me Mr. top guy, pick me". That's basically what they're saying. And if you say otherwise they get really angry because you're waking the top guy's eyes to her manipulations. Many top guys get tricked into ignoring the red flags and fall for it.
Women seem to be their own worst enemies. It's like jack nicholson's character says in As Good as it Gets regarding writing female characters, "I write a man, then I take away all reason and accountability"
you always have to take their word for the bodycount thing. hitting the club and dressing like a stripper is very much measurable.
@@jamesjonnes I mean tbf. Being a hoe doesn't diminish their value, because everyone has different standards. Hell I'd even argue that being a hoe gives you a much better chance to get what you want. Clearly works as if it didn't people wouldn't do it for so long.
@@cassu6 It doesn't diminish their chances only because 304dom has been normalized by them saying that it doesn't diminish their value, such as in this video. Still, it brings many headaches for the guy who enters a relationship with her.
Dude I was JUST thinking about adding a Z-axis for morality to zones and I click your page & see you did it already. Both really impressed and sad I didn’t call it sooner
This guy is always gonna be a step ahead, until he's not, by choice or otherwise, and then it's your turn to carry the torch.
@@Idothinkysaurus Guess I better start now, don’t wanna wait for him to stop.
@@HoodedSpidey And THAT is the spirit of progress!
Couldnt be said any better, if a guy dresses like a felon he will be immediately judged as a felon on sight, if a guy dresses like nerd people will assume hes a nerd... not a felon. Its funny that most of the important women in my life told me that you will be treated the way you are dressed (If i dress like a bum, i will be seen as a bum) but this message didn't seem to reach the people that needed to hear it the most.
This is SOOO important. It should be a requirement for all girls to watch and understand in middle school
"No one is immune to temptation" is so important.
There's this concept in christianity that the best way to beat temptations is to avoid exposing yourself to it. If you need to trust her to fight the temptation of other men looking at her body every day, then it's just a matter of time
It's such an important concept because it applies to everything. For example, that's how addicts recover. Not by resisting temptations, but by creating situations where they don't even have to
Yeah, that's really important. Also, many people say I would not do X, but in reality they have never be tempted by X.
@@miguelaguilar5115 I'm not Cristian but can you give me more brief about this?
That's probably one of the reasons why christianity is failing in the west. "Resisting" temptation by pretending it's not there only bottles it up and causes it to froth over, rather than understanding it and not being tempted to begin with. The denial of one's own humanity is not a good thing.
Ah, the INCEL attack, the modern woman's defense mechanism when they don't bring anything to a relationship and attack trying to make themselves feel better.
Before incel they used to call men who upset them virgins. The same type meaningless insult.
Insecureties say a lot about people
its shows the arrogance and narcissism. Their best insult they have is "you dont get womans attention".
Simp for me, or you're an incel!
Funny enough this guy only talks about thots which is what incels hate. Normal women don't behave like them.
Maybe this explains why gaslighting is at an all time high. At least in my surrounding..
"Read the map, learn the map, love the map" reminds me of a saying in Magic the Gathering "Reading the card explains the card" LOL
That credo seems somewhat different (more positive) from MtG's take on "read the fucking manual", but I can see where you're coming from.
Fun happens when you can explain what the cards do together. Synergy is born.
As someone who plays MTG even the cards can do a poor job of explaining themselves
True, hahaha, that's the joke I guess, that "OH YEAH? READING THE CARD, EXPLAINS THE CARD"@@brandonarmstrong2053
"There is no limit to the size of your hand" --Library of Leng
It's like a house that is sold, but the "For Sale" sign is still on the lawn
Seeing wome as purchasable objects. Lovely.
IE most "committed" western women.
@@anthill1510 There's something called an analogy. Learn english.
@@anthill1510 Where you got this from is beyond me... serious reading skill issues.
@@anthill1510 he never said that, women actions say that, which speak louder than your waste of breath words.
2:24 Should add here that it's not about temptation, but about the reason she invites more attention in the first place. She doesn't need to be tempted because she's already looking. She doesn't need to "give in" she needs to find the guy she's looking for.
that means she doesn't like you so much but she can settle with you ( thats a strategy she will play good for you but still look around for what she wants. You are her back up plan when things go wrong) and keeps looking for a better than you .
Pain. Anguish even
Suffering, some would call it
This is so true I cannot express it in words. I'm a guy and if I see a hot girl who dresses sexy, I will NEVER approach her because my thoughts about her are like "oh she's hot...she probably has a lot of suitors...not a wife material, not interested, I'm looking for a serious relationship." And I will be much more willing to court a girl of average appearance who dresses unprovocatively. That's why, the only men this type oh girls get are men who sleep around.
A reasonable assumption to make these days.
But didn't men always want beautiful women in order to raise their status?
And how would I be able to love a man who chose me because he thought I had fewer options, not because he finds me irresistible?
@@fran791 Once upon a time before birth control and social media was a thing, a beautiful woman wasn't necessarily an absolute liability spreading her legs everywhere. They also seek attention all the time. That's pretty much what happens very often now.
And then women love more the men that have more options, is that any more fair?
There are always strings attached to "love", stop thinking it's this ideal concept. Just like how body count can be a deal breaker from the start.
@@Leonhart_93 I was asking for a clarification: do men prefer beautiful women or average women who are modest?. Because on one side I hear about men wanting the hottest women, the ig baddies, but on the other hand I hear men wanting women who are not noticed by other men
@@fran791 Good question, although it's not complicated at all since men are simple. The answer is that they put women either in the "fun" only category, or "wifey material" category. For the first category personality and her past are almost irrelevant, and for the second category personality and her past are more important than looks, as loyalty is absolutely mandatory.
But of course, beauty as well would be ideal, only that it's a pipe dream in the age of social media and attention seeking.
Not gonna lie, getting to read hate comments for a video like this would be extremally entertaining
Just confirming everything he says
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The girl that I'm talking to sent a couple of your videos with me today. We both agree with the points you have presented in your vids. And I as a woman, totally agree with this video.
My man just releases banger after banger. Really glad that I found your channel so early in its path to becoming viral.
This dude is going to go places. Seriously. Nothing from his videos but strait unadulterated facts , that will hit so hard peeps won’t be able to unsee it.
Thank you for making this. I'm a woman and absolutely every aspect of this is true. More women need to hear it no matter how uncomfortable it is.
It’s honestly annoying how easily women get made uncomfortable
Went to a Bible college. Freshman gym class the prof dared to say, "and ladies, you need fitness too, you know, for the benefit of your husbands" (just like men should do fitness) and the girls circled the f*cking wagons. Fat girls, skinny girls, all of them. "How dare you suggest women should give af about their body for the sake of a man! (their future husbands). You're supposed to judge the inside not superficially!"
Mind you, this was back in the early 2000s before the third wave had crested. At the time (unfortunately I only thought it instead of saying it) I thought exactly what you said: your choices do define you.
Land whale? Poor self-control, addictive eating disorder, possible emotional imbalance. Lack of enthusiasm for corrective behavior (exercise/diet).
More makeup than a Barbie? Egotistical/vain, seeking male attention/lust.
Slutty clothes? Do we really need an explanation here? Etc.
Times change. People don't.
I agree with everything you’ve said. A persons choices and behavior are always consistent with their true nature, if they don’t like what they’re projecting it’s because they’re in denial about their true nature.
This video is pure gold, thanks dude. You save me from spoil my life
What’s worse is that they completely agree that what a man wears has determination on if a MAN is HUSBAND material
I'm a woman and I agree to this. I'm always consious of the attention i get from what I wear. I'm aware that other people will find me beautiful in the clothes that I feel beautiful in. I wear the 'unattractive/ practical clothes' to places I don't want attraction from guys like the gym or my university. I go there to concentrate and not anything else... I wear 'attractive clothes' to parties or when I'm going out.
That being said I'm not saying dressing attractively is an invitation for harassment. That's the creep's problem. Attention and compliments can be given without being creepy and are always appreciated. But thinking dressing attractively won't get you any attention is being somewhat delusional. I know when I want attention and I dress accordingly...
Also what women don't get, is even if they DON'T dress 'attractively', they'll still get a ton of attention from guys, because a lot of men don't particularly like a lot of makeup/revealing clothes. Just because you have no makeup, your hair up, t-shirt and jeans, that doesn;t make you immune from male attention.
So true. Men don't want to invest in a bad investment (aka garden tool)
Great video. On another note, becoming a trad husband or a trad wife is not something you can do overnight, it takes years of practice--and if you've spent your whole life clubbing and drinking and partying, you have to unlearn all of those bad habits before you can even begin to build new ones. A woman who's spent her whole life seeking the company and attention of men isn't going to become "wife material" suddenly when she meets Mr. Right, even if she wants to. The same is also true for men of course, a guy can't spend his whole life smoking weed and watching p*rn then suddenly become a good masculine husband once he meets the right girl, but I don't see men demanding that women put up with these behaviors in the same way entitled women are doing.
Yeah, I'll take smokin' weed, drinkin' coffee, and watching p**n over dealing with a modern woman, thankyouverymuch! 🤑
What is “trad”?
@@jmsnsagetraditional
@@desmonides thanks
"A woman who's spent her whole life seeking the company and attention of men isn't going to become "wife material" suddenly when she meets Mr. Right, even if she wants to." - She will if she's a transactional and manipulative person. Strangely, the essentially 'good' ones won't be able to adapt. I've seen male friends struggle with the transition from skirt-chasing dog to stable man.
I would literally buy a book with all your maps and explanations.
Im pretty sure he sells one.
Dude you’ve gotten me to reevaluate myself being above this kind of thing. Like thinking about it, yeah I probably have done this stuff before and I shouldn’t be so high and mighty that I don’t care what she’s wearing when I talk to her. Thanks for calling me out man.
don't submit to group-think. it will make you miserable. but definitely be aware of what people who cannot think for themselves follow.
Jack Nicholson on women...
“I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability".
I said that out loud to myself today as I was walking downstairs for my morning heroin
@@hoe_math
lol
Jack Nicholson didn't say that. The character he was playing said that
@@npc7679
And who was that character played by?
Whose lips did that come out of?
Whose vocal chords made the vibrations necessary to utter that message?
Thanks for taking time away from your pride parade to comment!
Heh.
the 'church to club axis' ... I burst out laughing when I heard that!
I’m a woman and 100% agree
" how I feel about myself defines me" seems to be the thinking of the ages.
You've gotta provide source material yo!! Please help a sister deep dive. Thank you.
my ex wanted me to trust her but all her choices were sussy, always engaging other men in inappropriate conversation, showing cleavage on days to work where she was going to train new sales men, DM's literally asking her for sex. It really was insulting. After a good talk and her refusal to respect me as her man I had to show her the door. She was infuriated. I hope she sees this video. Someone should send it to her.🤣
Well done man. Indifference is the only answer to these harpies.
Salute 🫡 to you for respecting your self. It seems almost completely unavoidable that most relationships for men they will be forced to choose between your dignity and self respect or becoming a doormat for a disrespectful woman. Culturally men are disrespected so I see no reason for things to improve anytime soon
You are doing an insane job bro. Big big respect to your expansion on these topics in such details and your efforts in this movement to spread a higher order awareness regarding the relationship dynamics
I'm reminded of that Dave Chappelle skit where he does the impression of a scantily dressed woman. "Just because I am dressed this way does not make me a whore!" "But you do you look like one!"
"But you are wearing a whore's uniform"
Appearances and reality sometimes differ remarkably. People are too fast to jump to conclusions.
"All right, ladies, fine. You are not a whore. But you are wearing a whore's uniform.”
"...but you are wearing the uniform!"
this dude is the final logical bosss.... you broke EVERYTHING DOWNN...I LOVE IT
finding this channel makes me feel happy that I stay to myself human are very complicated. and this just explain all the stuff I feel and no one wants to speak on
Bro you've struck gold with this channel, well done! So informative and entertaining at the same time, without spending a fortune on production. Bravo!
M/F Dynamic Masterclass going on at this site! Great material! Insightful & entertaining!! Keep it coming...
As a person with very low social skill/awareness, this is such helpful content. Thank you so much, keep it up!
This is turning into one of my favorite channels. I am obsessed with charts and graphs.
This might be the best channel on RUclips.
I love your content. It's very logical, and it's very applicable. It's like all of the unfinished strings of logic that I've used to try and explain my preferences in women, but the whole picture. I appreciate your videos.
This is my pregnant 19 yr old sister, she has absolutely no clue how bad she messed up and how she is to perceived by other dudes, she thinks she’s gonna get right back to it, doesn’t understand that she’s blacklisted herself from 90% of guys and will have to hide it to get any attention outside of one night stands
The front part of the brain doesn't fully develop until mid 20s. Not condoning bad behaviour but it would explain why she doesn't understand the full consequences of her choices.
The programming runs very deep.
@@alyssawoodman
people understand the basic consequences of having sex from a young age if they were raised right
But for women specifically, when they don't have their family involved in their choices of who they are with, they can be screwed a lot because those types of women are easily love bombed by bad men and things like that
than why are they allowed to vote?@@alyssawoodman
@@alyssawoodmancope
I am an older woman. This video is truth. Know the map.
Dear "mathematician", I thank you very much for your great education and rise of awareness of the gender dynamics!
I’ve always been in the quadrant with modesty and church… been happily married for 11 years.
Lots of work went into making it that simple.
You can find one thats never cheated, but youd be hard pressed to find one thats only cheated once.
In a comedy sketch a kniwn comefian spoke of this. A guy dressed like a cop got approached by a woman frantically telling him she was robbed. The man dressed like a cop said, "Jyst cause I'm dressed a certain way, doesn't mean I am a certain way".
Dave Chappelle in his stand-up, not a sketch.
OMG you have completely decoded what I always knew was true about the women I referred to as "Wifey.". But I could never really explain it verbally. That wifey energy is always preferred for any serious, long term relationship.
I’m so disgusted by these women.
I notice the ones in their 30s get resentful when you don’t want nothing too do with them and won’t rescue them from bad life choices
If women are calling you an incel you know you have gotten to the truth.
incel has just become an insult against men they dont like. It has no meaning anymore.
if she calls you an incel it's because you're doing something wrong.
Of course. You will have noticed that there is so many women calling attractive men "incels" when they say something uncomfortable. Happens all day long.
That implies that actual incels are right tho since actual incels are definitely also called that.
Just tell 'em "Nah, I'm a D-cel. _Deliberately_ celibate. I'm not even touching that much concentrated crazy.
I'm a woman and I agree. Can you make one of these for "Husband Material" ? Please 🙏❤️
I doubt there will be such a content. I would like to see some balance and variety here too, like yourself. But from patterns, I see in this channel, the "hoe" word is used only in context of women, and men are shown more as victims of women.
I do not deny that there are many examples of female manipulation etc. I've seen such examples and see this as a problem. And I've seen examples of manipulative attitude of men towards women, and see this as a problem too.
Although, the person appeals to common sense, and awareness, his content looks to me a rather one-sided view of reality. If someone notices and focuses attention on one part of something complex, can one teach others about awareness by providing such example?
Thinking further, perhaps there is some kind of resentment towards women, and author expresses this through sarcasm. What confuses me is that this sarcasm is perceived by the public as presenting the unbiased essence of reality.
This resentment, of course, is purely author's business. Until he begins to spread his mood in the world as "things really are". What may contribute more to bias, mutual disrespect, mutual grievances between men and women, which perceive such content. Although, perhaps, this is the author’s goal.
@@anastasiakriuchkovska2204 The channel certainly dips its toes into the redpill mindset at a minimum, but there are some valuable ideas in there as well. Like anything you see, hear, or read, it is up to you to decide what is valuable to you and leave the rest.
@@anastasiakriuchkovska2204 i agree
That is based on the premise that life is 'fair', that humanity is divided evenly 50/50.
It has no reality outside of the belief. In reality, women have a lot of power. So much so, that in only a few decades, we have undone what thousands of years of culture tried to achieve; understandable and enjoyable relationships.
Of course, that thousands of years failed, but whatever it did achieve is now gone.
A very small percentage of men still have power.
So when you want a "husband" material video, consider it's really just a way of saying that those few with all the power should be nicer, good, faithful guys.
@@BudoReflex yes we women have "all the power" mwahaha. We are taller on average, have more muscle mass, exhibit riskier behavior and we "terk ur jerbz" 😂 mhmm no bitterness and bias from you.
Simply a brilliant video
I always considered immodest clothing as putting a woman at risk of sexual aggression I never thought that it was exposing women to the temptation to cheat.... This video really helps me understand other women.
this channel is pure gold
The culture is finally starting to heal itself! Videos like this reinforce the true importance of values not only men but women as well because we both seem to have gotten misguided lately and both need readjust our priorities because we do need one another and can make each other’s lives full of love and mutual respect.
Nah we got a long way to go it actually needs to get much worse before it gets better. Economists predicting by 2030 half of marriage aged women will be single. Women are getting worse and men thanks to alternative media are wising up. When women view 80 percent of men as undesirable that's not the culture healing😂. The most sensible way to do marriages going forward IMO is to have pre negotiated marriage contracts and outline conditions agreeable by both on all important matters. If one party wants to leave without a good reason they should not be rewarded. Far less marriages would happen as most of the ones that are done simply for wealth accumulation would go away. However the ones that do would happen for the right reasons. As a society we need to be incentivizing good moral upright behavior and punishing the bad which honestly will take care of most of the problems.
If this guy ever sold his charts and graphs like those college course quick reference things I'd buy any and every single chart he made
The description box comment is gold: "Young women often use black magic word tricks to make you think that reality isn't what you're looking at right in front of your eyes. When you're all grown up, you know that what you see is real and what people say isn't (necessarily)." and I'll repaste it here in case somebody missed it.
This might be his best video.
3:02 This was a really great point. I used to be trusting of women that I dated in this way, until one cheated on me after going out. Then I realized just because I can trust myself or can be trusted with that level of risky behavior, doesn't mean that everyone is built the same way. Most people won't ignore the temptation if someone hits on them.
One of the best indicators of determining whether a woman is likely to cheat or not -and thus a wifey material- is if she likes attention from other men, it's in their nature yes, but constraining that desire is a good indicator.
Just another female who agrees! Love your content, keep doing what you’re doing!
Ma bro !! That’s beautiful break down . Respect for your work
Love your material and humor so insanely much. I'd support / pay a monthly fee for access to your perspective and knowledge.
The respond to shaming was 10/10
The Marine corps would literally pay you to give this brief on bases to try to stop their Marines from marrying strippers and all the problems that causes the command.
They won't listen unless you give them some crayons to eat
If you think male sexual aggression isn't high at church, you haven't been paying attention. It may be more subtle or even stealth, but it's definitely strong there. Every single woman in church, even if she's still in the youth group, will absolutely back me up here.
You know what, I can't even being to argue about that, cause I think you're right. But insinuating that it's as high as at the club is something else entirely.
But the environment isn’t there to amplify the possibility of a sexual encounter the way a nightclub is.
Thank you! Came here to say that he clearly has never been to church as a woman.
@@regalsylvester Oh, but it is a really good environment to groom young women. With all the god-given authority men have in the church in general and the pastors especially. They just play a longer and more insidious game than the guys in the club.
@@anthill1510 you could say that for any environment. Schools, military, churches, workplace. None of those places are geared for sexuality.
This is why some Eastern cultures have got this right. Granted some may take it to far, such as Saudi Arabia and Afghanistan, but on the whole the culture of women dressing modestly is more prevalent in the east. Part of my family is Pakistani and I went there once, all women dressed modestly without being forced to do so. This is true for Vietnam, Cambodia, India, Sri Lanka and many African nations too.
If society requires something of you, you might not feel as if you are forced, but there is social pressure. That social pressure was removed for so long, in Western countries, that many people do not respond well to any form of negative judgement or being told that there are consequences for certain behaviours.
Please 🙄
Your manner of speech delivering this is hilarious! My compliments! 😂
This is hilarious and also 100% truth at the same time. (Girl here)
"YOURE JUST INSECURE HURRR"
Did you know that shaming language is a woman's evolutionary reasoning to get her way?
did you know that evolutionary psychology has no basis in reality and is used mostly by males to reinforce their misogyny?
As a woman, this is 100% true. I think something that got missed is how women tie their personality & values to their clothes far more than even the most effeminate men. For those still in the marketplace, they are constantly evaluating their looks and comparing it to any other woman (whether or not they're truly competition) with far more scrutiny than men do. The whole "I'm dressing like X for myself!" BS can also go into the "we're not stupid" category. Even wearing a baggy t-shirt and levis has a subconscious social purpose to it. They knew what they were doing before they had even bought those clothes, and are now trying to gaslight anyone who doesn't shower them with pretty lies they want to hear.
Peak feminine hubris is demanding to be treated with the same reverence as mother mary whilst dressing & behaving like the harlot at the well.
Clothes are tied to personality, good one. I will also add that they are tied to how you want to be seen, which in this case means getting a lot of attention, even if it's sexual attention.
What’s your real point with this though? It doesn’t sound specific to women at all. Yes perception is important to people.
Good video overall. One critique (because this is the internet), I'm not sure if "have some other dude's baby in your body" are the most accurate words to use. We don't want our wives to cheat on us, even if they don't get pregnant. In the past, this may have simply been about having some other dude's baby, now it's also about respect as well.
It's both, but paternity fraud is worse
He’s saying the reason why you feel that way about your wife cheating is because we spent thousands of years evolving in a format where sex=baby. You don’t not want your wife to cheat for just no reason it’s because your ancestors all had to make sure it was their own genes that were being passed on and not another male’s
@@PARAN0IDxGERBIL right, and I acknowledged that's where not wanting our wives to cheat started from, and that in modern times the reasons have evolved from simply not wanting to raise a child that wasn't biologically ours, to other reasons. Our wives won't get pregnant from kissing other men, and I still think we wouldn't want them doing that.
No need for pedantry, the man chise is words for brevity
He's saying it because its the most clear and impactful way to say it. If you just talk about respect then people can argue 'I still respect you, I just want to have some fun on the side, what's so bad about that'. He's slamming the point home so there is no confusion!
I agree with everything he said, the only unacceptable time to ask a women what was she wearing is when she tells you she was SA'ed, nothing justifies sexually assaulting someone, no matter what she was wearing.
I'm a woman, but more a tomboy than lady. Thank you so much for this and being willing to judge and render a negative verdict. I also appreciate your drawing skills. I hope that you and your male viewers find your kind-hearted, hard-working, supportive wives.
3:01 This is just cap. There ARE no women that dress like that and never cheat, because getting attention is the whole POINT. For a woman, it always comes down to "can I be happy with my current bf or is this guy looking at me a better option?" ALL that has to happen is for the guy to be a better option, something she just can't pass up. If you're an average guy with a loyal wife and Henry Cavill is interested and pursuing your wife - 100% YOU DON'T HAVE A LOYAL WIFE.
The ones that dress like that and don't cheat are the ever dwindling number that bother to break up with you before they fuck your replacement.
What women also miss is that dressing immodestly is not purely the on/off for men pursuing them. It's a specific type of attention they get exponentially more of when dressed a certain way, because dressing in a way that is sexually provocative will -- get this -- *provoke a sexualized response* . A woman can very, very easily dress in a way that is classy and modest, and very frequently this makes her far more attractive as a person rather than as a sex object, because men are not mindless drones.
"I dress this way for me" "real man don't care" "insert feminist cognitive dissonance" are all lies people tell themselves.
your whole comment basically tells why males ARE mindless drones.
I dig your logic man. You got smarty-brains. 🧠
Conversation around the topic gets difficult for me to remember the conclusions I've learned from the channel, but these breakdowns are super helpful. ☕
You killing it!!!! I think you found your purpose in this life!!!! The breakdown is always satisfying and entertaining!! Oh man!!!!! Keep um coming!!!
Actions speak a LOT louder than words. What you wear and do matters a LOT more than what you say or feel.