The High 5 Habit | Mel Robbin’s
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- Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
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I just watched a video recently of someone talking about someone they knew who had committed suicide, they said “He was a good guy, I mean the greatest. He would always show up for you. That is what makes me so angry, he didn’t show up for himself” so I have been asking “how can I show up for me?” This is such a great place to start.
Oh this hit home, I haven’t had friends in like over 5 years. I feel, I just hurt anyone I talk to. In all honesty I just want to bring a little joy. The more I do, the more I’m the bad guy. I’ve tried to end myself many times but I’m to weak to even do that. People have punched me in the face, I just smile and ask wants wrong. They spit in my face, I smile and ask if they are ok. Some people find joy in other’s happiness. I feel I do the opposite even for myself, I just want to end the suffering for the people around and even for me. (Don’t reply, don’t say anything. I just wanted to vent out) everyone around me hears the opposite. I just want the peace of saying something and being heard without a comment back, or a reply. Just been heard. I’m to weak end myself so don’t worry, I’m stuck here. Haha if you read this, sorry to waste your time and I hope life brings happiness, peace, and greatness to all. (I’ll probably delete this) even if I tell the people to their face they won’t believe it, just know I tried I really did. Sorry if I’m the bad guy. Sincerely a nobody
Yes, vitally important. Taking better care of self intentionally.
Started crying before she said the 2nd reaction. I just want to heal from all this pain inside...
You alright? You're not alone. Be strong even though it's hard, but try and find something that makes you happy
Someone recently has come into my life. Last week, they sent me a video of someone learning to live with adhd. As I know I’m undiagnosed. I felt heard and supported and seen. It’s usually me doing that kind stuff for others. I just burst into tears and felt a sense of peace wash over my heart, that someone showed me they cared about me and wanted to help me because I’m struggling.
Thank you for this ❤
GIVE ME WHAT I WANT 🙏 AGAIN AND AGAIN ...
So much love!
Thank you ❤
Ya know once you just start lookong at yourselfnin the mirrior, im not talkong about doing this ...just looking at youraelf. Seeing you standing in front of your self eye to eye. He sees what you see. Before you do her exersixe take 5 extra mins to just look at yourself and ask....what do you see. I say this because yoi cant ask what someone needs if you havnt stopped to take a look at them. We never stop to look at ourselves, only everyone else around us. ❤✌️
Be intentional with what you do
I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror but now I am the mist beautiful person in the world
This ❤
Look to God, not yourself. "Lean NOT on your own understanding."
That is psychotic
You’re sure its not a you thing? I could do this idk how much it would help. But if you would go into pure cringe that’s a huge signal that its a you thing
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Please no "they"!
Mirror crap
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“How can I show up to him or her or they” you had to have the they in there? She already mentioned both genders. If I was there, I would question her language.
At least by using “they” she’ll get it out to more people to love themselves.
Simp brainwashing.
woman science
So u don’t wanna take care of yourself?
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Really? Supporting and being there only for yourself above everyone else is the *opposite* of what we're doing right now? In today's society?
To anybody reading this comment: to be truly happy, let go of yourself. Human beings are meant to serve, protect, and support others. Don't look in a mirror and say "How can I live for ME today?" look at the world around you, which is self-absorbed and superficial, and think about what you can do for your fellow man. It's the only way to save mankind from its own hedonistic destruction.
Don't be selfISH, be selfLESS
It’s not being selfish to take care of yourself. Even on a plane if it’s going down they say to help yourself first so you can help more people. You cannot expect yourself to give love to others when you haven’t given it to yourself. Being selfish and giving yourself love are antagonistic. Being selfish is chasing greed or superficial things or getting quick dopamine at the expense of others. Giving yourself what you NEED and giving yourself love is something SO little people do. You matter just as much as everyone else. The only person you can help everyday for the rest of your life is yourself, so why don’t you?
@@tinocabral4201 I disagree. To your first point, I don’t think its exactly a 1 to 1 parallel between the mirror analogy in the video and the plane analogy you stated. One of them is a life or death situation and is done for more practical reasons, the other is the opposite of practical and is intended to combat a perceived lack of self care in society.
This brings me to your second point. Giving yourself what you “need” and giving yourself love are things that people do too much. Maybe it’s a perspective issue, but from my point of view, I see absolutely no regard for others in current society. Chasing greed, superficial things, or getting quick dopamine at the expense of others are all symptoms of the “myself comes first” mindset that is so prevalent in today’s society (at least Western society).
I don’t think the only person you can help every day is yourself either. While it may not be the same person every time, there will always be someone in need. I’m not saying you shouldn’t take care of yourself, I am saying that the only thing people care about is themselves and it all starts with looking at yourself in the mirror and deciding that you are more important than everyone else.
@@FlippyD1998 I can agree with most of what you’re saying. I do think tho that most people who are selfish nowadays also lack actual self care is what I was trying to get at. They don’t truly give love to themselves they just are selfish in the wrong ways. There’s always room for both though like you said. There is 100 percent not enough selflessness today but I also think there’s not enough actual self love and care, just plain disregard for others and more ego than anything
@@tinocabral4201 I can get behind this take.
You're weird