Developing Emotional Intelligence

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @DocSnipes
    @DocSnipes  Год назад +1

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  • @billthelen6524
    @billthelen6524 Год назад +7

    Thank you Dr Snipes for your knowledge on emotions and for sharing this with us. Emotionally, I'm a wall. Quite often, I'm afraid of my emotions. I don't know how to feel good. I have been taught that to know our emotions we have to first name them. Thanks for explaining how to name our emotions and how to learn the function of our emotions. I'm afraid of getting to know my emotions. Usually my emotions are wrapped up in anger. Thank you for teaching us what emotional intelligence is. 1) to name the emotion, 2) to know the function of the emotions, 3) to learn the triggers of our emotions. Winnie the Pooh characters give us good examples of different emotions. Distress tolerant thoughts and activities are excellent techniques for handling the emotions. Thank you again Dr. Snipes for your teaching on emotions.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Год назад +2

      You’re so welcome, Bill. I hope you know how grateful I am for you and how blessed I feel to help you in your journey. As you know, Anger is the Fight part of our threat response system. It acts like a bulldozer and pushes people away but does nothing to resolve the underlying issue.
      You have to take a look at what is underneath that anger. What is the threat that your body is trying to protect you from?
      Once you have identified that, other issues, issues related to why you are afraid to show weakness can be dealt with. Remember, you have to deal with all emotional aspects of a situation.

    • @billthelen6524
      @billthelen6524 Год назад

      @@DocSnipes
      Thank you Dr. Snipes. ☺️ You have helped me to grow by leaps and bounds.

    • @dr_candiru7817
      @dr_candiru7817 Год назад

      @@DocSnipesthanks for sharing this.

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen8140 2 года назад +6

    The ability to bounce back from stressors and insight/ judgment.

  • @LawNerdAmber
    @LawNerdAmber 2 года назад +10

    a skill i was not born with. THANK YOU Doc Snipes!!!!

  • @beatlessbeauty1106
    @beatlessbeauty1106 Год назад

    Doc Snipes asks a very key question @8:38 mark....I would say adjusting verbiage accordingly will help to identify and determine nuances in emotional feeling and expression ....to be "eager" about something is very different than feeling anxious
    There are so many nuances to explore regarding the topic overall

  • @andrewlowe2962
    @andrewlowe2962 2 года назад +9

    Your easy to understand, thanks for keeping it simple. Great information and is being used, can’t wait to hear more.

  • @JJ-rp2df
    @JJ-rp2df 2 года назад +3

    Great insights to self awareness, overcoming trauma and key tools.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching.

  • @erezcohen5453
    @erezcohen5453 2 года назад +3

    Thanks Dr for a very kindly presentation.

  • @cliffordedwards9833
    @cliffordedwards9833 Год назад +1

    I learn a lot from your teaching, the explanation is eloquent and I just love listening to you, I certainly learned a lot. English is so important to me, Thanks.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Год назад

      You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it?

  • @trysmarter1014
    @trysmarter1014 2 года назад +1

    I watched the scorpion trailer...now I gotta find the show. 🤦🏽‍♀It's on Prime with ads, if anyone is curious.

  • @universallove3673
    @universallove3673 2 года назад +11

    What are the affects of living in fight or flight for over 12 yrs?

    • @vasantipunchoo3699
      @vasantipunchoo3699 2 года назад +8

      Or for 40 yrs

    • @dr.mahmoodmoothedath8814
      @dr.mahmoodmoothedath8814 2 года назад

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    • @dr.mahmoodmoothedath8814
      @dr.mahmoodmoothedath8814 2 года назад

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    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 8 месяцев назад

      It’s very individual…but consider what would you do with the information if you could get it? Often, we focus on anything but feeling the feelings we need to feel.
      Trying to figure out the effects of living in fight/flight for a long time isn’t solution oriented.
      What can you do now, today, to calm your nervous system? What habits can you do daily to cultivate a sense of calm? How can you face the loss/grief of all that has happened (including being in sympathetic nervous system activation for so long)?
      Those questions, and solutions that come from them, are where your empowerment is. That’s where healing and regulation will come to be your norm.

  • @wenmcbrainvansandt5240
    @wenmcbrainvansandt5240 2 года назад +1

    This has been our subject for a couple weeks of how to teach our clients at a rehab. Mesa Arizona

  • @dddamaged7501
    @dddamaged7501 2 года назад +3

    My POV, tigger is high in openness to experience, piglet is highly neurotic, rabbit is disagreeable. Flavour of the month, the big 5.

  • @nathanluebke6253
    @nathanluebke6253 2 года назад +1

    I had never heard of the word "hinky" until today and I am very grateful ❤

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching!

  • @moniqueabundance
    @moniqueabundance 2 года назад +6

    Appreciate you Dr. Snipes. Amazing. Wishing you all the very best in life ❤

  • @theoneinhidingart6164
    @theoneinhidingart6164 2 года назад +5

    You're badass doc 🤘 Thanks for teaching us.

  • @JocelynMathisSmiles
    @JocelynMathisSmiles 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Dr. Snipes.

  • @foxie8638
    @foxie8638 2 года назад

    This should be part of teaching in school, the sooner the better.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      That would be great by me! :) Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @Ģúṣťâvő-e5e5f
    @Ģúṣťâvő-e5e5f 2 года назад +1

    This is mind blowing 🤯

  • @musicanovas6
    @musicanovas6 2 года назад +8

    🙏🏽🧡🙏🏽🧡🙏🏽🧡 .I am praying for everyone who needs a Miracle. Only God can do the impossible, He can make a way when there seems to be no way. Today I pray God touches your health, your home, your family, your faith, and your finances. God bless you Amen!

    • @AllahuAkbaruKabirah
      @AllahuAkbaruKabirah Год назад

      You are right But God is one not 3 and Jesus PBUH is his slave and messenger God has no son and Muhammad is his slave and last messenger for all people God has sent the Quran as a light for guidance and it's the last book ,read it may Allah guide you to the truth

    • @gSWG3R
      @gSWG3R Год назад +1

      You're both hilarious.

    • @iCodeForBananas
      @iCodeForBananas 11 месяцев назад

      God is dead HAIL SATAN

  • @MT-tj8bw
    @MT-tj8bw 2 года назад +5

    I’m midway through this video and it’s already so great. I wanted to make sure I commented and thanked you for making this before I forgot. Great work!!

  • @Mari3.14
    @Mari3.14 5 месяцев назад

    You are amazing, Dr Snipes! Thank you for this video, this is very helpful!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you. You’re most welcome

  • @beatlessbeauty1106
    @beatlessbeauty1106 8 месяцев назад

    Near the @8:28 portion , you make a key point about differentiating the feeling of "anxiousness" vs "eagerness"... many people confuse the two terms in colloquial exchange

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you. I appreciate you watching the video

  • @Amanda-vn1hy
    @Amanda-vn1hy 2 года назад +2

    This is a great topic. 👍

  • @cliffordedwards9833
    @cliffordedwards9833 Год назад

    The proper using of the word emotions and understanding,my emotions and anger is as a result of my feeling. High emotional intelligent person can understand someone emotions easily.Dr Snipes this word ROYALTY. A lady asked a man a question, what royalty about you?Dr Snipes as a english teacher please how would you reply to this question. I await your response, Eddie.

  • @universallove3673
    @universallove3673 2 года назад +5

    Poor emotional reactions have got me in a whole lot of mess with the law 😒😪

  • @MontyCerf
    @MontyCerf 9 месяцев назад

    Great information. Thanks for sharing!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  9 месяцев назад

      You’re most welcome

  • @MorethanwordswithB
    @MorethanwordswithB 2 года назад +2

    Borderline Personality Disorder is my vulnerability. This video was very informative. Thank you.

  • @gracemaina9240
    @gracemaina9240 2 года назад

    My favourite topic. Watching from Kenya. Thank you Doc

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching in Kenya! :)

  • @Sam_1964
    @Sam_1964 2 года назад

    Thank you. This is amazing presentation

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      You're very welcome! Thanks for watching.

  • @daisyduke4640
    @daisyduke4640 2 года назад +2

    Great video, as usual 💪⭐

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 2 года назад +1

    This is a terrific presentation , Thank you!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @winfridahbanda5739
    @winfridahbanda5739 2 года назад

    Thank you very much for this presentation

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      You are very welcome

  • @1432amer
    @1432amer 2 года назад

    Oh wow, thanks for responding to my request Doc Snipes 😊

  • @dbuck1964
    @dbuck1964 2 года назад

    Thank you! Your videos are changing my life.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      Awesome. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

  • @MeganS1995
    @MeganS1995 Год назад +1

    Thanks for all of your effort in helping others grow and heal! I also found it pretty charming when you said you listen to hardcore metal--that was a bit unexpected, hehe

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Год назад

      You’re so welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it?

  • @ROB7002
    @ROB7002 2 года назад

    Dr snipes is the best. Thank you for the content and charm!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching.

  • @DAClub-uf3br
    @DAClub-uf3br Год назад

    I didn't understand your explanation of why we have grief. If we didn't have grief what would we be missing out on?

  • @GremlinSpike69
    @GremlinSpike69 2 года назад

    I think the problem is that we confuse the warning of the threat for an actual threat!

  • @reddy5985
    @reddy5985 2 года назад

    Thank You 🙏

  • @sheldajacques2562
    @sheldajacques2562 2 года назад

    Thank you so much

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      You're most welcome

  • @kirstinstrand6292
    @kirstinstrand6292 2 года назад

    Growing up, I got a slap on my face every time I made a snide comment. Now I get slapped down by low EQ scores! 😁 or cry 🤔

  • @anju8376
    @anju8376 2 года назад

    OMG YAS DR. SNIPES 🤘🏾😸🤘🏾 so i gotta know-what kind of metal do you listen to?? i love that you listen to metal omg

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад +1

      Five Finger Death Punch, Disturbed, Theory of a Deadman, avenged seven fold, Tremonti. Halestorm. "I Like it Heavy" ;) What about you?

  • @adelacozlac366
    @adelacozlac366 2 года назад

    A great video, as usual!

  • @lindasharpe7039
    @lindasharpe7039 2 года назад

    You can have our chipmunk 🐿. ☺

  • @USMARSHALL2011
    @USMARSHALL2011 2 года назад

    Cool

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching.

  • @BW-eb8or
    @BW-eb8or 2 года назад +2

  • @-TheRealThing-
    @-TheRealThing- 2 года назад

    What the heck are you listening to?! Cannibal Corpse?? 🤣

  • @wordsarealive
    @wordsarealive 2 года назад

    #

  • @Tsun_Wu_Kong-Hanuman
    @Tsun_Wu_Kong-Hanuman 2 года назад

    Samjh Rahe ho...
    I don't give. A shit who you know... Simple..

  • @wrightdavid5737
    @wrightdavid5737 Месяц назад +1

    Thank-you Doc Snipes

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Месяц назад

      You’re most welcome! I am grateful to be of service and I appreciate you watching the video