@@pakamatpakamat8199 they do dear just sit with them talk to them nicely they might b angry harsh at you but later they will realize it and make a good decision for you inshallah indeed it's all in Allah hands he does what is right but we are unable to or don't want to understand ❤️
Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet said:“There are two statements that are light on the tongue, heavy on the scales, and beloved to the Most Merciful: Subahana Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhana Allahi Al-`Azeem (Glory and praise be to Allah, Glorified is Allah, the Most Great.)” (Al-Bukhari)
This mufti really is a blessing for our young generation. But the very sad thing is that most of the parents that he is addressing don’t understand english. They need this explanation in their mothertongue. There is hardly a mufti who tells this in Urdu, Hindi, Punjabi, Bangla, Pashto etc Most of the parents listen to maulvis who preach ask your kids but kids are not allow to say uff and will go to hell if they don’t obey their parents. And this last sentence is used better to say misused in the marriage situation.
@@huzainbinmasood6840 may Allah forgive you for slandering. Marriage is a very important part of Muslim life, something that affects your entire life. And thus, it is a very important topic that must be talked about
@@huzainbinmasood6840 another very rude comment if you don’t agree with the mufti don’t watch any of these videos but please don’t fill the comment box with these awful remarks for rest of people to read
The term love marriage has become a misnomer... for example if i want to marry someone but I don’t want it to b called a love marriage because the name is already perceived negatively by people. I wish marriage of choice has any respectful name now...
@Asad are u kind of wrong in sense brother what do you think only you are Muslim and the rest of earth is atheist. Like come on grow up and wash your mind.
The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: It is as if I had been called and I answered, that I have left among you the two weighty things, one of which is greater than the other, the Book of God and my family, my family, so see how you left me in them, for they will not separate until they return to me at the Basin. [Sunan An-Nasa'i Hadith 8148]. Where are you from? And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: The people of my household are like the Ark of Noah: whoever boards it is saved, and whoever stays behind is drowned. [Al-Mustadrak on the Two Sahihs, Vol. 2, p. 373, Hadith No. 3312, chapter on the interpretation of Surat Hud].
Amazing guidance....Attention to all parents.... Every parent should n must look into it for their children's welfare. MAY ALLAH SWT guide all parents n grants ease n peace in our children's marriage. Aameen.
Thank you.....and lets pray that all respected boomer parents accept this, bcoz they already know it but just dont want to accept it for whatever reasons.
@@huzainbinmasood6840 I think mufti must make a video on fools and tag you in it but brother before replying read the comment properly. May Allah keep you in good ...Ameen.
It’s easy to pick on what’s wrong and what’s not going well in life but it takes firm faith in the Almighty to see positive vibes in everything. Unfortunately, most tend to focus on flaws. We have become expert nitpickers overlooking the good in most things. Change your outlook.
Brothers and sisters just get married you don't know how long this pandemic it's going to last I would love to get married but I have bigger problems please make dua for me I live life day by day
The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: It is as if I had been called and I answered, that I have left among you the two weighty things, one of which is greater than the other, the Book of God and my family, my family, so see how you left me in them, for they will not separate until they return to me at the Basin. [Sunan An-Nasa'i Hadith 8148]. Where are you from? And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: The people of my household are like the Ark of Noah: whoever boards it is saved, and whoever stays behind is drowned. [Al-Mustadrak on the Two Sahihs, Vol. 2, p. 373, Hadith No. 3312, chapter on the interpretation of Surat Hud].
I told my parents about the person i liked and they made me leave that person ,just because they think it won't work and i Don't understand and they know whats better for me
This Rabbana dua is mentioned from Surah Furqan (chapter 25) ayat 74. in Arabic with transliteration and English translation: رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Transliteration: rabbana hablana min azwaajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama BENEFITS OF RABBANA HABLANA MIN AZWAJINA DUA (WHEN TO RECITE) Here’s a list of benefits from reciting this dua. It can also provide a good context for when someone would say this supplication. Asking Allah for a righteous life partner. Asking Allah for obedient children that are good positive influence on others. Dua can also be recited for married couple looking to get pregnant and have beautiful babies. Or can be recited when you are pregnant and want to ask Allah for a safe pregnancy and a healthy new born. I hope this helps you on your own personal journey to learning about Islam. May Allah give you and others every success in their search, insha’Allah.
@Asad shut up your crossing the line 🤢🤦 dude is there really nothing else to do expect telling shits like this in every comment you don't even know how much pain they all are carrying stop telling shits if u don't understand anything 🙏
@Asad Astagfirullahaladzim... stop, man... why did you comment this? I feel like I've seen you before somewhere (though I'm not fully sure)... May Allah SWT give you hidayah...
Janati is someone who takes on someone needy janati is someone who honours and respects who they have ended up with take it as Allah’s will and give it a go parents are no longer forcing marriages what’s the point when two people who have a personality clash and they just end up divorcing parents are learning the hard way
The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: It is as if I had been called and I answered, that I have left among you the two weighty things, one of which is greater than the other, the Book of God and my family, my family, so see how you left me in them, for they will not separate until they return to me at the Basin. [Sunan An-Nasa'i Hadith 8148]. Where are you from? And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: The people of my household are like the Ark of Noah: whoever boards it is saved, and whoever stays behind is drowned. [Al-Mustadrak on the Two Sahihs, Vol. 2, p. 373, Hadith No. 3312, chapter on the interpretation of Surat Hud].
I'm half West African and half Arab. I liked someone, but when I tried to talk about him to my parents, they shut me down because he's South Asian -_- and their second reason is that I'm "too young" to get married. I'm 19.
@@HackneyGalE5 I wasn’t planning to get married, I just wanted my parents to give me permission to only get to know him first because I don’t talk to him. That’s all. I’m actually planning to get married at maybe 21-23 years old, inshallah.
In my case its really different the person whom I like is less educated than me n iam well qualified Alhamdulillah he is poor and I am rich Alhamdulillah the only thing I liked about him was his deen 😞 I don't know what to do so I left it to Allah fatawakkal Alallah 🤲🏻
@@elite2153 May Allah SWT make everything easy for all us, guide us to the right direction and bless us with spouses that will bring us closer to him. Ameen.
Instead of engaging oneself in a 7araam relationship, one should discuss with their parents and convince them that one want's to marry Him or her as early as possible. However, one fails to do so most of the times because they fear the reaction of parents and the outcome.
May be this is useful for our motherhood but not our life now, may allah ease our path🤲. Im the one who is forcing myself to marry someone for mother choice. I don't know this is considered as a forced marriage or else, but iam struggling with my own happiness, pls pray for all🤲
The Prophet PBUH adviced us to look at this standarts if you want to marry a woman: 1st: You look at her deen 2nd: You look at her Family/Tribe 3rd: You look at her wealth 4th: You look at her Beauty Follow his advices and I can promise you that your marriage will be a successful one. Peace!
In India our children are more concerned about the ban of burkha in educational institution. Please pray. I am afraid this might be the beginning of akhirah. I am not capable to face akhira nor my generation is.
It is true ,but elders also know that love is blind, if the child wants to marry for supporting someone in the Ummah it's his personal choice that he can do even by marrying their parents' choice too. Children may fall into deception, they take things at face value not knowing what's going in other people's hearts. They might be dealing with evil person and because they're in love they can't understand that.
I wish you could tell my parents this. They are only rejecting my choice because they belong to a certain city and they have not inherited as much money from their ancestors as has my family . I pray to Allah every day that Their hearts are softened and they look beyond the notion that “love marriages are not successful “ and that “what will so and so say” only so their reputation is not damaged. My parents are really Islamic but they still think that what people would think or say is more important than how their own daughter would feel or what is her wish. They do not even want to meet the family. I’m being forced to be presented like a puppet in-front of aunties coming in search of a rishta. May Allah guide them. I only wish for someone to talk sense into them or better, if Allah guides them and softens their hearts. InshAllah. Ameen.
Woah. How relatable ! Except other rishtas bc I clearly said i wouldn't marry anyone besides him, being in same scenario from 2 years with continuous struggles of him and mine and my family never visited them or tried to know them. Congratulations to my beloved parents bc their daughter is now dealing with major depression and will commit suicide any time sooner now and the love of her life got engaged a few days ago. How devasted !
@@MisaHalit I’m so so sorry to hear that. May Allah heal you and give you sabar. Please don’t think about suicide and stuff. These thoughts cross my mind as well. So very often. But for me, there’s still hope. His family might still convince mine. Please do pray for my Khair. I’ll pray for you ♥️
@@ramshaak3122 May Allah create ways for you to get married to the one you desire. Ameen 💕 Tbh I don't want to heal. These 2 years the only thing I sticked to is ALLAH. Making endless duas and not missing a single night for tahajjud begging and crying in sujood. I have seen miracles on the way. And you know what ! Even if the world goes against me ! I won't stop believing that Allah will soon grant me my wish and I'll get married to him. Idk what ways Allah will help me through but i trust Him more than anything. Allah has shown me signs ! No power in this world can stop Allah ! He is Qadir. My dear 💕my advice for you is to pray tahajjud every single night ! Cry and beg. Make duas and duas and duas. And see how miracles happen. I'm not giving up at this moment. Allah brought me here, and Allah will grab my hand and fly me to my desired place once I pass my test. Lots of love and prayers 💕
@@MisaHalit Ameen InshAllah. Allah indeed has the most mysterious ways of healing us and giving our heart’s desires. I believe if created love among two people, he will eventually bring down all the hinderances that come along. May Allah grant you happiness and give you all that you pray for. Ameen. And yes, InshAllah I will pray tahajjud regularly now. ♥️
I tried to convince my parent to marry my relative whom we know personally unfortunately my parents consider it as a sin as she’s 8 months elder than me and she’s more qualified than me I don’t know how to convince them
Imo parents use religious as a tool to control us so if I were you I would Make the argument of “Prophet ﷺ and Hazrat Khadija R.A 😊 Good Luck, Allāh ki aman
@@zohebansari994 I know right. But my parents declined cause the person's family isn't that wealthy enough. Status matters in some people's eyes. But I'll keep praying to Allah for our togetherness. Maybe later in life there will be a possibility
@@asraahmed328 sometimes I don't understand parents logic that if boy is rich means her daughter going to live happily 😂 stupidity ...... Then this happen in my family too, and I literally hate this, love between couples is more than money, yes money important but not everything........ Hope u will get your love in future sister inshallah
That's what I'm going through, and it's so exhausting. Sometimes it makes me so sad to face the reality of this world... Why do they have to make it so hard???
i belong to a caste that won't let me marry outside. THEY'RE LITERALLY MUSLIMS AND THEY FOLLOW THEIR OLD HINDU TRADITIONS WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE. I FEEL SO LEFT OUT SEEING ALL MY FRIENDS GETTING MARRIED TO MUSLIMS COMING FROM DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS. YA ALLAH GIVE THEM HIDAYAH
Some parents dont wanna hear such and those who hear will not obey Allah's command...Allah says clearly in surah noor verse 32 'marry the unmarried among you. If they should be poor Allah will enrich them from his bounty' but parents will think more on this 'log kya kahenge' what society will tell about us and this is one type of 'shirk' coz u r pleasing People your job is to please Allah swt
A.o.A sir is Software engineering and web development halal ? And its earning if we make softwares or websites of Halal things..can i chose it as a career?
Sir, i want to ask u something plz tell wt should I do if I want to marry non Muslim but that's person is ready to accept Islam with heat but maybe my parents never accept that person wt to do
I don't know... I don't even know what to think anymore... As if the life that I am treading through tells me that no girl would ever love me... I don't know what to feel anymore... It feels awful all the time thinking about this non-existent love of human... Most probably love has died down... Most probably it stops after my parents... I never found one... No matter what I do... No matter whom I tried... No girl that I used to fell for would want me anyway... Efforts are meaningless... I want to find a love and to be loved (human marriage). But I never found any... Maybe love has already really really has died down and stops during my parents era and does not continue to me. So now... I don't know what to feel anymore... It's heart ache to see everyone else somehow found their love one where as for me... Only loneliness love me. Laughable isn't it? Too many rejections. To the point I can no longer believe that there is a girl that I fall in love and that girl would also fall in love back to me. So before anyone judge me or anything... Let me say something: If any of the girl that I fell for would want me as well... I would have gone to her parents and do as what religion has taught. And then bring my parents... Well you guys know the drills. I'm not going to date or anything... I just want to find someone whom I can fall in love which will so feels the same to me. But without her own consent... There's no reason to go to her parents. Even if I can get her father's consent. It's pointless. It's meaningless... There's no reason to marry a girl that never wants me. It would be the very first sign of failed marriage and I know that no one wants that...
The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: It is as if I had been called and I answered, that I have left among you the two weighty things, one of which is greater than the other, the Book of God and my family, my family, so see how you left me in them, for they will not separate until they return to me at the Basin. [Sunan An-Nasa'i Hadith 8148]. Where are you from? And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: The people of my household are like the Ark of Noah: whoever boards it is saved, and whoever stays behind is drowned. [Al-Mustadrak on the Two Sahihs, Vol. 2, p. 373, Hadith No. 3312, chapter on the interpretation of Surat Hud].
I would love to contact you and want you to help me on, my parents don't seem to understand I have found someone , who I wish to marry they are more focused on culture and age , they talk about them having more knowledge because they are older and so forth.
Love marriages are NOT haram. The Prophet (saw) said in an authentic Hadith, “nothing is seen for the lovers except like marriage”. From sheikh Albani. Meaning that the best thing for two people who love each other is marriage. So to all parents/guardians of children, LET THE CHILDREN MARRY WHOM THEY LOVE! Because love is a blessing and a Rizq only from Allah alone!☝️none of us control it!!! The Prophet (peace be upon him) said when describing Khadijah (RA), “indeed I’ve been blessed with her love.” So this is a CLEAR CUT PROOF that being in love with someone is NOT haram. SO LET THE LOVERS GET MARRIED!
In my case its really different the person whom I like is less educated than me n iam well qualified Alhamdulillah he is poor and I am rich Alhamdulillah the only thing I liked about him was his deen 😞 I don't know what to do so I left it to Allah fatawakkal Alallah 🤲🏻
In my case its really different the person whom I like is less educated than me n iam well qualified Alhamdulillah he is poor n Alhamdulillah iam rich what I really liked about him was his deen 😞 I don't know i left it to Allah fatawakkal Alallah🤲🏻
Sir i like my cousin and i told my mother about it and my mother agreed to it but her mother doesn't want to marry her daughter in family what should i do???❤️
In my case its really different the person whom I like is less educated than me n iam well qualified Alhamdulillah he is poor and I am rich Alhamdulillah the only thing I liked about him was his deen 😞 I don't know what to do so I left it to Allah fatawakkal Alallah 🤲🏻
@@elite2153 dear you are right on your site but as a Muslim we should not judge someone by their education money or looks yeah you like him on him iman and taqwa that's good so ask him to send his parents to your home and then you too ask your parents that you like him. Of course parents do anything to make their children happy so try to make them understand with love and patience i pray you get the best you deserve ameen❤️
@@hypergaming277 Jazakallahukhaira believe it or not ur words ur words gave a lot of hope i was so disturbed i wasn't able to study 🥺 May Allah reward you with the best in both the WORLDS aameen 🤲🏻
@@elite2153 ameen dear never loose hope in Allah remember Allah has the power to do anything it's just he test our patience and taqwa so be strong always keep believing in Allah in yourself and in your love inshallah you will be together soon and have a great life ahead ❤️
Jazakallahukhair but What about those parents who do agree at their early stage and try to make all this in halaal way but their kids go back because of some dumb reasons ...now what should parents do .""Parents are human "" they are like SAME human being like others...these kids should not play with THEIR PARENT'S feelings as wellllll even they did try to make you happy and fixing all stuff .Do say something about this as well .Don't play with your parents hearts..my thoughts changed because of this.Parents should be strict and not soo much flexible with them. They just kill these respectable polite beautiful feelings about all this marriage thing of their kids .Parents like us want to see their kids happy in their lives with the person they want to be .Here they disappoint their families parents and just say to each other to BREAK UP and all done ...even no family problem from both sides .all messed up in my brain .
Salam mufti menk. I have a question that no one has answered for me and I hope you can inshallah. Can a person fight a jin whilst being possessed? Please answer mufti menk Salam
Mufti sir in Bangladesh...We boys have to get a Good GOVT Job for marrige .Before that No one cares about us...Our loves and likes doesn't matter to anyone...its like in oder to become a human being... We need a Govt job🤧🤧
The Disappointing thing is parents don't hear thing like this.
You love someone sister?
@@pakamatpakamat8199 they do dear just sit with them talk to them nicely they might b angry harsh at you but later they will realize it and make a good decision for you inshallah indeed it's all in Allah hands he does what is right but we are unable to or don't want to understand ❤️
Well we can change things ourselves moving on, for the future of our Ummah
My mom told me first settled yourself and then think of marriage ....
@@khadijabegum4333 And your mom is right
Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet said:“There are two statements that are light on the tongue, heavy on the scales, and beloved to the Most Merciful: Subahana Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhana Allahi Al-`Azeem (Glory and praise be to Allah, Glorified is Allah, the Most Great.)” (Al-Bukhari)
This mufti really is a blessing for our young generation. But the very sad thing is that most of the parents that he is addressing don’t understand english. They need this explanation in their mothertongue. There is hardly a mufti who tells this in Urdu, Hindi, Punjabi, Bangla, Pashto etc
Most of the parents listen to maulvis who preach ask your kids but kids are not allow to say uff and will go to hell if they don’t obey their parents. And this last sentence is used better to say misused in the marriage situation.
A very good observation.... and only mufti can translate it to them, not us...🙏
This Mufti is full of sexual power coz he's only obsessed with marriages. I wonder how many wives does he have.... 1000?...10000? 😮
@@huzainbinmasood6840 may Allah forgive you for slandering. Marriage is a very important part of Muslim life, something that affects your entire life. And thus, it is a very important topic that must be talked about
@@huzainbinmasood6840 another very rude comment if you don’t agree with the mufti don’t watch any of these videos but please don’t fill the comment box with these awful remarks for rest of people to read
@@sarahkoser let them read I love trolling wannabe or already couples
In Asia ,it's a big Headache......🤦
More so in India and Pakistan.
The term love marriage has become a misnomer... for example if i want to marry someone but I don’t want it to b called a love marriage because the name is already perceived negatively by people. I wish marriage of choice has any respectful name now...
@@fahadyousufmir8479 yeah that quite true actually....👍
Don't forget Bangladesh if typical aunt's and uncles hear the word "Love Marriage" they would definitely give a look.
@Asad who said that bro I myself is a Bengali and I'm also a Muslim
@@mehrabahmedjoy5377 ohh....I missed it..
Never mind anyway...🤦
Parents need to hear this 😊!!!
@Asad being a Muslim doesn’t mean having a specific skin colour or nationality please fear Allah and stop spamming and upsetting people
@Asad Lets all just be kind to one another! :)) Please! :))
@Asad are u kind of wrong in sense brother what do you think only you are Muslim and the rest of earth is atheist. Like come on grow up and wash your mind.
and poison their children"s food that's better, isn't it?
@Asad people like you don't come under Muslim category 🤢
Please do make dua for me and my friends to pass exam!! :(( May Allah bless you all!!! :))
@Asad lmao what 😂😂
@Asad 😳 astagfirullah
@Asad Astagfirullahaladzim... that's not funny, man...
Mee too, my exams are on 28th August 😅😅
Its true sometimes parents compare their childrens to someone else and the children already know that child is worst than what they think
The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: It is as if I had been called and I answered, that I have left among you the two weighty things, one of which is greater than the other, the Book of God and my family, my family, so see how you left me in them, for they will not separate until they return to me at the Basin. [Sunan An-Nasa'i Hadith 8148]. Where are you from? And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: The people of my household are like the Ark of Noah: whoever boards it is saved, and whoever stays behind is drowned. [Al-Mustadrak on the Two Sahihs, Vol. 2, p. 373, Hadith No. 3312, chapter on the interpretation of Surat Hud].
This hurt sooooo bad Ik
@Asad astagfirullah May Allah guide you to make nice duas and wish people well
Yess it is true it happened to me🥺
WHAT A TIMING MUFTI SAHAB.. just your video came at the correct time when i was about to tell about the girl to parents
Hey did u say to ur parents? Iam in same situation cana u help me pls
@@habibabilepasar7175 firstly share this video to your parents..
@@momomiyas4333 ill be thrown out of the house
Did ur parents agreed to ur love maariage?
@@momomiyas4333 can u please tell me how will they react if i share such videos with them?
Amazing guidance....Attention to all parents....
Every parent should n must look into it for their children's welfare. MAY ALLAH SWT guide all parents n grants ease n peace in our children's marriage. Aameen.
For my parents not having the same origins is a perfect reasons to say no 🤦🏽♀️
Liked it alot ...cos most parents don't even understand to the reality .
Thank you.....and lets pray that all respected boomer parents accept this, bcoz they already know it but just dont want to accept it for whatever reasons.
جَزَاكَ اللَّهُ خَيْرًا
My Honourable Mufti Ismael Menk
I appreciate thanks for teaching us ,may Allah reward you the best..Ameen 🙏
I hope my loves parent's would have listened it once 🔥💔
then they'll ship you with angel of death while you're in your sleep and mufti making video about it like that person died during honeymoon
@@huzainbinmasood6840 I think mufti must make a video on fools and tag you in it but brother before replying read the comment properly. May Allah keep you in good ...Ameen.
@@huzainbinmasood6840 rude comment please fear Allah 🤲
@@sarahkoser I fear Allah but I love to troll wannabe brides/grooms
@@huzainbinmasood6840 ???
It’s easy to pick on what’s wrong and what’s not going well in life but it takes firm faith in the Almighty to see positive vibes in everything. Unfortunately, most tend to focus on flaws. We have become expert nitpickers overlooking the good in most things. Change your outlook.
Brothers and sisters just get married you don't know how long this pandemic it's going to last I would love to get married but I have bigger problems please make dua for me I live life day by day
May Allah bless u mufti menk and all mudlum ummah 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
I invite everyone to listen the holy Quran🌷🌸🍒
The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: It is as if I had been called and I answered, that I have left among you the two weighty things, one of which is greater than the other, the Book of God and my family, my family, so see how you left me in them, for they will not separate until they return to me at the Basin. [Sunan An-Nasa'i Hadith 8148]. Where are you from? And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: The people of my household are like the Ark of Noah: whoever boards it is saved, and whoever stays behind is drowned. [Al-Mustadrak on the Two Sahihs, Vol. 2, p. 373, Hadith No. 3312, chapter on the interpretation of Surat Hud].
Need this in malayalam...😭
Shariya 👍
I told my parents about the person i liked and they made me leave that person ,just because they think it won't work and i Don't understand and they know whats better for me
In my family i don't even guts to make a conversation about this. As a daughter It's very difficult for me.
@Asad ???
@Asad what's wrong with you dude 😐🤦
@Asad Are u high bro? Or just a typing error?
@Asad 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Asad Astagfirullahaladzim... stop commenting things like that, man... that's not cool...
Masha-allah..a very good speech...thank you a lot Mr Muftimenk you always here for the best advice ❤️❤️Allah protect us
OMGGGGGG..... this man speaks so realistic.!!!!!
Sir please add subtitles on your video because we're not understanding clearly
Mansha allh wallhi sheikh you have helped us a lot my allah reward you in Dunya and akhira
Have been listing to you since long. Really feel like you are a rahama to ummah. May Allah (S.W.T) grant you long blessed life.
Love From Bangladesh.
May Allah choose the right person for our children
This Rabbana dua is mentioned from Surah Furqan (chapter 25) ayat 74. in Arabic with transliteration and English translation:
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: rabbana hablana min azwaajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama
BENEFITS OF RABBANA HABLANA MIN AZWAJINA DUA (WHEN TO RECITE)
Here’s a list of benefits from reciting this dua. It can also provide a good context for when someone would say this supplication.
Asking Allah for a righteous life partner.
Asking Allah for obedient children that are good positive influence on others.
Dua can also be recited for married couple looking to get pregnant and have beautiful babies.
Or can be recited when you are pregnant and want to ask Allah for a safe pregnancy and a healthy new born.
I hope this helps you on your own personal journey to learning about Islam.
May Allah give you and others every success in their search, insha’Allah.
I wish every parents think like you...you are great father 🌹,may Allah bless you with peace & wisdom
then you'll be among thousands of wives coz mufti marries everyday
@@huzainbinmasood6840 stop talking like a nonsense,he doesn't not marry everyday...
@@sajidarahaman736 almost everyday he uploads topics related to marry I wonder how much sexual power this guy have 😂
@@huzainbinmasood6840 so what???this is highly required tropic , important for modern society
@@sajidarahaman736 bullshit topic who sys marriage is important, marriage is just the lust of sick people
I hope my parents would heard it once! 💔
@Asad shut up your crossing the line 🤢🤦 dude is there really nothing else to do expect telling shits like this in every comment you don't even know how much pain they all are carrying stop telling shits if u don't understand anything 🙏
@Asad 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm rolling tbh you're the only reason I come here looking for the comments bro👍
@Asad Astagfirullahaladzim... stop, man... why did you comment this? I feel like I've seen you before somewhere (though I'm not fully sure)... May Allah SWT give you hidayah...
@@huzainbinmasood6840 Dude, I don't think that's funny, man...
@@farranasution4068 I think it's funny for wannabe couples 🤣
Sir u r a blessing for us...I mean for this era ...may Allah swt bless u in best possible way in this dunya & in the hereafter as well... Ameen ❤️
Janati is someone who takes on someone needy janati is someone who honours and respects who they have ended up with take it as Allah’s will and give it a go parents are no longer forcing marriages what’s the point when two people who have a personality clash and they just end up divorcing parents are learning the hard way
Jazakallahukhaira sheikh for speaking on such topic 😇😇😇❤️❤️❤️
Masha Allah.. Right time right message... Alhamdulillah
The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: It is as if I had been called and I answered, that I have left among you the two weighty things, one of which is greater than the other, the Book of God and my family, my family, so see how you left me in them, for they will not separate until they return to me at the Basin. [Sunan An-Nasa'i Hadith 8148]. Where are you from? And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: The people of my household are like the Ark of Noah: whoever boards it is saved, and whoever stays behind is drowned. [Al-Mustadrak on the Two Sahihs, Vol. 2, p. 373, Hadith No. 3312, chapter on the interpretation of Surat Hud].
Thank you for explaining this issue in such a beautiful way 👍♥️♥️♥️
I'm half West African and half Arab. I liked someone, but when I tried to talk about him to my parents, they shut me down because he's South Asian -_- and their second reason is that I'm "too young" to get married. I'm 19.
Maybe wait a few years. 19 is very young.
@@HackneyGalE5 I wasn’t planning to get married, I just wanted my parents to give me permission to only get to know him first because I don’t talk to him. That’s all. I’m actually planning to get married at maybe 21-23 years old, inshallah.
Dont rush give them time you are young and thy are concerned inshAlla if its meant to be it wwill happen
I am Hindu and I like mufti menk. His thoughts are amazing. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
😊😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You don't need to be muslim to watch Islamic videos brother!!!
May Allah guide you to the ultimate truth brother.
So true the children at going to live the life together not the parents
Im literally in the same issue with my parents, because they don’t like the man’s sister😭 how can I go about it?!
In my case its really different the person whom I like is less educated than me n iam well qualified Alhamdulillah he is poor and I am rich Alhamdulillah the only thing I liked about him was his deen 😞 I don't know what to do so I left it to Allah fatawakkal Alallah 🤲🏻
@@elite2153 May Allah SWT make everything easy for all us, guide us to the right direction and bless us with spouses that will bring us closer to him. Ameen.
@@wally7439 aameen ya ukhti may Allah bless us with best and Khair for all of us aameen ❤️ 😊
@@elite2153 Maa Shaa ALLAH.
May ALLAH gives toi help.
So do 2 rakaats and pray ALLAH to enlight your parents.
@Alaa Sleam Jazakallahukhaira kaseeran for your advice 💐
Instead of engaging oneself in a 7araam relationship, one should discuss with their parents and convince them that one want's to marry Him or her as early as possible. However, one fails to do so most of the times because they fear the reaction of parents and the outcome.
May be this is useful for our motherhood but not our life now, may allah ease our path🤲. Im the one who is forcing myself to marry someone for mother choice. I don't know this is considered as a forced marriage or else, but iam struggling with my own happiness, pls pray for all🤲
Thank you so much mufti uncle for this lecture
Salam o alaikum mufti menk!
Well said sheikh ❤️MashaAllah 😇
Thank you mufti
I am 13. Why am i watching this?!!! 😅Maybe because i love hearing mufti menk
سبحان الله I have face with this problem
Very well said😢
Supperb nicely explained!!
The Prophet PBUH adviced us to look at this standarts if you want to marry a woman:
1st: You look at her deen
2nd: You look at her Family/Tribe
3rd: You look at her wealth
4th: You look at her Beauty
Follow his advices and I can promise you that your marriage will be a successful one. Peace!
@wιngenιх yes you are right🙌🏻
The beauty of the face fades away as agr passes only the beauty of the soul remains the same💙
@wιngenιх The Heart beauty is the Deen. The prophet classed body beauty as the 4th standart, meanwhile Deen, or Heart beauty, as 1st.
@@the17th17 I understand brother 👏
What bout men ?
In India our children are more concerned about the ban of burkha in educational institution. Please pray. I am afraid this might be the beginning of akhirah. I am not capable to face akhira nor my generation is.
Masha Allah!
It is true ,but elders also know that love is blind, if the child wants to marry for supporting someone in the Ummah it's his personal choice that he can do even by marrying their parents' choice too. Children may fall into deception, they take things at face value not knowing what's going in other people's hearts. They might be dealing with evil person and because they're in love they can't understand that.
Then maybe they aren't even mature enough to get married if that's the case
@@alishbaahmad2613 no it's not the case, if you can marry the one you love, and your parents approve it's all good Alhamdulillah.
Mashallah ❤❤❤
Mufti Saheb you just made my day Thank you
I wish you could tell my parents this. They are only rejecting my choice because they belong to a certain city and they have not inherited as much money from their ancestors as has my family . I pray to Allah every day that Their hearts are softened and they look beyond the notion that “love marriages are not successful “ and that “what will so and so say” only so their reputation is not damaged. My parents are really Islamic but they still think that what people would think or say is more important than how their own daughter would feel or what is her wish. They do not even want to meet the family. I’m being forced to be presented like a puppet in-front of aunties coming in search of a rishta. May Allah guide them. I only wish for someone to talk sense into them or better, if Allah guides them and softens their hearts. InshAllah. Ameen.
Woah. How relatable !
Except other rishtas bc I clearly said i wouldn't marry anyone besides him, being in same scenario from 2 years with continuous struggles of him and mine and my family never visited them or tried to know them. Congratulations to my beloved parents bc their daughter is now dealing with major depression and will commit suicide any time sooner now and the love of her life got engaged a few days ago. How devasted !
@@MisaHalit I’m so so sorry to hear that. May Allah heal you and give you sabar. Please don’t think about suicide and stuff. These thoughts cross my mind as well. So very often. But for me, there’s still hope. His family might still convince mine.
Please do pray for my Khair. I’ll pray for you ♥️
@@ramshaak3122 May Allah create ways for you to get married to the one you desire. Ameen 💕
Tbh I don't want to heal. These 2 years the only thing I sticked to is ALLAH. Making endless duas and not missing a single night for tahajjud begging and crying in sujood. I have seen miracles on the way. And you know what !
Even if the world goes against me ! I won't stop believing that Allah will soon grant me my wish and I'll get married to him.
Idk what ways Allah will help me through but i trust Him more than anything. Allah has shown me signs ! No power in this world can stop Allah ! He is Qadir.
My dear 💕my advice for you is to pray tahajjud every single night ! Cry and beg. Make duas and duas and duas. And see how miracles happen.
I'm not giving up at this moment. Allah brought me here, and Allah will grab my hand and fly me to my desired place once I pass my test.
Lots of love and prayers 💕
@@MisaHalit Ameen InshAllah. Allah indeed has the most mysterious ways of healing us and giving our heart’s desires. I believe if created love among two people, he will eventually bring down all the hinderances that come along.
May Allah grant you happiness and give you all that you pray for. Ameen.
And yes, InshAllah I will pray tahajjud regularly now. ♥️
@@ramshaak3122 indeed. Not having a single doubt on this !
Jazak Allah 💕
I am form Bangladesh
Sad thing is parents just ignore all of this
I invite everyone to listen hadith 🌍🌎🌏
Please make dua for me🥺my parents are forcing me to get married to someone else
May you get married to the person whom you like aameen 🤲🏻
@Asad your soo rude 😤
@Asad spammer
Be brave and talk to them
They can’t force you unless you let them. You have to be firm and refuse and tell them forced marriages are not allowed in Islam.
I tried to convince my parent to marry my relative whom we know personally unfortunately my parents consider it as a sin as she’s 8 months elder than me and she’s more qualified than me I don’t know how to convince them
Imo parents use religious as a tool to control us so if I were you I would Make the argument of “Prophet ﷺ and Hazrat Khadija R.A 😊 Good Luck, Allāh ki aman
I invite everyone to listen beautiful recitation of The Holy Quran
Itni c bat kisi k baap ko samj ajay to kia hi bat h.... Unko bs wahn tak deen nazr ata h jahan tak unka matlb ho bs...
Love from Bangladesh ❤❤❤
@Asad May Allah guide you
@Asad stop being racist
I really want to introduce the person of my interest to my parents. May Allah make it easy for me. May Allah make my parents understand💗
U both Muslims??
@@zohebansari994 yes
@@asraahmed328 then I feel nothing wrong, in my family if 2 partner belong to Islam, then it does not matter it is love marriage or not ........
@@zohebansari994 I know right. But my parents declined cause the person's family isn't that wealthy enough. Status matters in some people's eyes. But I'll keep praying to Allah for our togetherness. Maybe later in life there will be a possibility
@@asraahmed328 sometimes I don't understand parents logic that if boy is rich means her daughter going to live happily 😂 stupidity ...... Then this happen in my family too, and I literally hate this, love between couples is more than money, yes money important but not everything........ Hope u will get your love in future sister inshallah
I can’t tell my story here 🥲
Assalamu Alaikum
Allah SubhanAllah
Alhamdulillah
Sallallah Allaih Wassalam
Inshallah. MashaAllah
Fact is some parents are so absorbed in cultural issues such as caste they don’t consider anything like this.
Exactly
This is common among pakistan and north indian Muslims...
That's what I'm going through, and it's so exhausting. Sometimes it makes me so sad to face the reality of this world...
Why do they have to make it so hard???
i belong to a caste that won't let me marry outside. THEY'RE LITERALLY MUSLIMS AND THEY FOLLOW THEIR OLD HINDU TRADITIONS WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE. I FEEL SO LEFT OUT SEEING ALL MY FRIENDS GETTING MARRIED TO MUSLIMS COMING FROM DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS. YA ALLAH GIVE THEM HIDAYAH
Some parents dont wanna hear such and those who hear will not obey Allah's command...Allah says clearly in surah noor verse 32 'marry the unmarried among you. If they should be poor Allah will enrich them from his bounty' but parents will think more on this 'log kya kahenge' what society will tell about us and this is one type of 'shirk' coz u r pleasing People your job is to please Allah swt
A.o.A sir
is Software engineering and web development halal ? And its earning if
we make softwares or websites of Halal things..can i chose it as a career?
Yes of course its halal
Assalamualaikum i invite everyone to gain more knowledge about Islam 🕋🕋❤️
Someone send this video to my mom😭
And now the world is such is such that parents try to choose for their children and in the end children disobey them
shukran mufti I need ur help and guidense .my husband want to get married to a woman with 5 kids but his not earning enough for both families
Did you really say ,,my husband wants to get married"????
@Asad This Is not something to joke about😐
Hope my girl’s parents would listen this 😥
Sir, i want to ask u something plz tell wt should I do if I want to marry non Muslim but that's person is ready to accept Islam with heat but maybe my parents never accept that person wt to do
My mom worry a lot about anything.....i neva disclose anything to her because I don't wana her stress
I understand my mom the sama trust in Allah
I like my cousin sister but i am unable to talk to anyone about that what i dooo
Alhamdulillah ❤️❤️❤️😍
Masha Allah
I don't know... I don't even know what to think anymore...
As if the life that I am treading through tells me that no girl would ever love me...
I don't know what to feel anymore... It feels awful all the time thinking about this non-existent love of human...
Most probably love has died down... Most probably it stops after my parents...
I never found one... No matter what I do... No matter whom I tried... No girl that I used to fell for would want me anyway... Efforts are meaningless...
I want to find a love and to be loved (human marriage).
But I never found any... Maybe love has already really really has died down and stops during my parents era and does not continue to me.
So now... I don't know what to feel anymore... It's heart ache to see everyone else somehow found their love one where as for me... Only loneliness love me. Laughable isn't it?
Too many rejections. To the point I can no longer believe that there is a girl that I fall in love and that girl would also fall in love back to me.
So before anyone judge me or anything... Let me say something:
If any of the girl that I fell for would want me as well... I would have gone to her parents and do as what religion has taught. And then bring my parents... Well you guys know the drills. I'm not going to date or anything... I just want to find someone whom I can fall in love which will so feels the same to me.
But without her own consent... There's no reason to go to her parents. Even if I can get her father's consent. It's pointless. It's meaningless... There's no reason to marry a girl that never wants me. It would be the very first sign of failed marriage and I know that no one wants that...
May Allah make it easy for you Brother
@@jasmine_edification aammiinn... Thank you.
Awwwww ❤️
Would u go with a girl that was a warrior type u know mafia
@@mashpotatoe1744 ha? Meaning?
In my family I don't have permission to talk.
Ya Allah Forgive Us
I’m in love with the shoverma.
The Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: It is as if I had been called and I answered, that I have left among you the two weighty things, one of which is greater than the other, the Book of God and my family, my family, so see how you left me in them, for they will not separate until they return to me at the Basin. [Sunan An-Nasa'i Hadith 8148]. Where are you from? And he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family, said: The people of my household are like the Ark of Noah: whoever boards it is saved, and whoever stays behind is drowned. [Al-Mustadrak on the Two Sahihs, Vol. 2, p. 373, Hadith No. 3312, chapter on the interpretation of Surat Hud].
Lmaoo
I’m in love with falafel 😫
I would love to contact you and want you to help me on, my parents don't seem to understand I have found someone , who I wish to marry they are more focused on culture and age , they talk about them having more knowledge because they are older and so forth.
Love marriages are NOT haram. The Prophet (saw) said in an authentic Hadith, “nothing is seen for the lovers except like marriage”. From sheikh Albani. Meaning that the best thing for two people who love each other is marriage. So to all parents/guardians of children, LET THE CHILDREN MARRY WHOM THEY LOVE! Because love is a blessing and a Rizq only from Allah alone!☝️none of us control it!!! The Prophet (peace be upon him) said when describing Khadijah (RA), “indeed I’ve been blessed with her love.” So this is a CLEAR CUT PROOF that being in love with someone is NOT haram. SO LET THE LOVERS GET MARRIED!
Ameen 🙏
I am the child watching dis. My parents dont want to have me involved in anything das why.
In my case its really different the person whom I like is less educated than me n iam well qualified Alhamdulillah he is poor and I am rich Alhamdulillah the only thing I liked about him was his deen 😞 I don't know what to do so I left it to Allah fatawakkal Alallah 🤲🏻
@Asad astagfirullah 😱
Can you give some nasseha to my parents.!!.
In my case its really different the person whom I like is less educated than me n iam well qualified Alhamdulillah he is poor n Alhamdulillah iam rich what I really liked about him was his deen 😞 I don't know i left it to Allah fatawakkal Alallah🤲🏻
Masha allah
Sir i like my cousin and i told my mother about it and my mother agreed to it but her mother doesn't want to marry her daughter in family what should i do???❤️
In my case its really different the person whom I like is less educated than me n iam well qualified Alhamdulillah he is poor and I am rich Alhamdulillah the only thing I liked about him was his deen 😞 I don't know what to do so I left it to Allah fatawakkal Alallah 🤲🏻
@@elite2153 dear you are right on your site but as a Muslim we should not judge someone by their education money or looks yeah you like him on him iman and taqwa that's good so ask him to send his parents to your home and then you too ask your parents that you like him. Of course parents do anything to make their children happy so try to make them understand with love and patience i pray you get the best you deserve ameen❤️
you shouldn't worry about getting married ever
@@hypergaming277 Jazakallahukhaira believe it or not ur words ur words gave a lot of hope i was so disturbed i wasn't able to study 🥺 May Allah reward you with the best in both the WORLDS aameen 🤲🏻
@@elite2153 ameen dear never loose hope in Allah remember Allah has the power to do anything it's just he test our patience and taqwa so be strong always keep believing in Allah in yourself and in your love inshallah you will be together soon and have a great life ahead ❤️
Mashaallah
Jazakallahukhair but What about those parents who do agree at their early stage and try to make all this in halaal way but their kids go back because of some dumb reasons ...now what should parents do .""Parents are human "" they are like SAME human being like others...these kids should not play with THEIR PARENT'S feelings as wellllll even they did try to make you happy and fixing all stuff .Do say something about this as well .Don't play with your parents hearts..my thoughts changed because of this.Parents should be strict and not soo much flexible with them. They just kill these respectable polite beautiful feelings about all this marriage thing of their kids .Parents like us want to see their kids happy in their lives with the person they want to be .Here they disappoint their families parents and just say to each other to BREAK UP and all done ...even no family problem from both sides .all messed up in my brain .
Subhan allah
Salam mufti menk.
I have a question that no one has answered for me and I hope you can inshallah.
Can a person fight a jin whilst being possessed?
Please answer mufti menk
Salam
Please see this,
Please!
Mufti sir in Bangladesh...We boys have to get a Good GOVT Job for marrige .Before that No one cares about us...Our loves and likes doesn't matter to anyone...its like in oder to become a human being... We need a Govt job🤧🤧
Lmao same in India lol
It's not easy with somali parents
@Asad you do realize not all somalis are pirates right
@Asad how rude and despicable Allah swt has made all equal and beautiful
@@sarahkoser 😊
Early here today
@Asad wow
@Asad if there is nothing nice to say please refrain from commenting
@Asad rude
@Asad people like you don't come under Muslim category🥱🤢
@Asad who are you to decide that 😆😆🤦