To Be A Softer, Feminine Woman: Practical Ways I Have Softened Myself

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  • Опубликовано: 10 июн 2024
  • Today I am sharing 8 practical ways that I have learned to soften myself over time, and live a softer more gentle life that glorifies God.
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    #feminine #feminineenergy #femininity

Комментарии • 64

  • @m_jay5
    @m_jay5 22 дня назад +13

    I'm so happy to see there's still feminine women left out there, as a man I just started wearing sport coats, dress pants and suits again recently and instantly felt more masculine

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  22 дня назад +2

      Ooooo I love that!

    • @m_jay5
      @m_jay5 20 дней назад +3

      @@AnnaDysert Amen! We need the return of Ephesians 5 men and Proverbs 31 women

  • @annielumpkins7840
    @annielumpkins7840 Месяц назад +25

    My heart has softened so very much this year, Glory to my Jesus ❤️

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +3

      We couldn’t do it without Him!

  • @rfoley402
    @rfoley402 Месяц назад +8

    I cry at baptisms too. They can be complete strangers. Thank you for sharing this important aspect of being a daughter of Father God. Femininity has been lost in so many ways. Be blessed.

  • @pawsation7719
    @pawsation7719 Месяц назад +8

    Im so happy I came across your channel, I was praying for guidance. I became so ghetto and ungodly wife with my bitterness, blaming my thyroid and hormones for outbursts. This channel is so gentle and beautiful.

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      Praise God! I’m grateful He found me worthy to help you ♥️

  • @aysu3541
    @aysu3541 Месяц назад +8

    I've always felt ashamed of being 100% financially supported by my husband, while also becoming more home and family-oriented and peaceful, thanks to that support. After watching your video, something just clicked, and I'm looking at this from another perspective. Maybe this feeling of shame is exactly what Satan wants to create in us, so that we cannot fully embrace or enjoy our husband's leadership in our marriage and discover our own role as a helpmeet (which is God's original plan for us.)

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +4

      I’m so sorry you’ve been led to feel that way. Society absolutely wants us to be ashamed. Like “oh you’re just a mom” and “you stay at home all day - what do you do?” But there is nothing more important than raising our children to be godly and nothing separates, stresses, and divides the foundations of a home more than two overworked people. I honestly find myself so much more attracted to my husband knowing he is loving and providing for me and my children. I’m excited that the veil is being lifted for you ♥️

    • @nafeesadamier7592
      @nafeesadamier7592 Месяц назад

      Amen

  • @simplified_faith7545
    @simplified_faith7545 Месяц назад +7

    I resonate so much with everything you described. What beautiful and practical ways we can soften ourselves in a world demanding us to be hard. Thank you for this video!

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching and listening in ♥️

  • @victoriaprince15
    @victoriaprince15 14 дней назад +1

    God has softened my heart, helping me to forgive and think of my own ego less often! I love this change! Also, funny enough, I have been embracing streetwear MORE as of late. It actually helps me feel more feminine in that I have a sense of style that allows me to escape the temptation to dress immodestly. For example, I have a hard time feeling put together if I am not showing skin. But, as a dancer, the streetwear style allows me to feel comfortable and put together while covering up. Now, when getting dressed, I can focus on cool color combinations as opposed to how "sexy" my body can look. I feel MUCH more feminine because I put time into my appearance without dressing provocatively. Very interesting to hear others' perspectives on this!

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  13 дней назад

      I love that!! God works on us all individually in different ways ♥️

  • @angelaa.7352
    @angelaa.7352 24 дня назад +2

    Love this dress!

  • @lilila2584
    @lilila2584 18 дней назад +2

    I just found your channel and led me to other channels as well. I know exactly why the timing. I have such an internal fight right now. I bought the whole “feminist” movement since I was little… and I’m talking about the latest movement. It’s just soooo in me but now I know it’s all been a lie. I’ve been struggling with this for a couple of years now and I just don’t know what to do. But these videos and podcasts are helping me so much! ❤ thank you 🙏

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  18 дней назад +3

      It sounds like the Lord is really pursuing you. Keep asking Him to help you. He is an incredible way maker ♥️ I’m grateful he saw me fit to be a vessel to help you. I’m really glad you are here!

    • @lilila2584
      @lilila2584 18 дней назад

      @@AnnaDysert thank you ❤️ happy to be here!

  • @alangiles776
    @alangiles776 Месяц назад +5

    Anna, I know that I don't know you but you come across as a soft and feminine woman through the screen. I think we are all judgemental about people we don't know, especially online.
    I hope your weekend is good. 🙏

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +2

      Thank you! I was not always this way and I could not have done it without the Holy Spirit working on me every day ♥️

  • @doralanders1870
    @doralanders1870 Месяц назад +3

    Hi Anna your words of wisdom
    Is always touching and makes one search there heart and see the way they represent Christ by there dress and actions. In word and thought ...thank you for sharing your Heart with everyone ...may God continue to bless and lead you in all his
    Ways ...

  • @JEU4328
    @JEU4328 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts on becoming a softer, more feminine woman. Your insights are beautiful and very inspiring. You are a lovely example to all women.

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much. I’m so grateful that you found them helpful ♥️

  • @aproverbshome173
    @aproverbshome173 Месяц назад +4

    We all struggle. Today I was hurt buy someone who has treated me bad for a while. I started praying for the person I feel so much better. Thank you for sure. The Lord is my strength.

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +1

      Amazing! It can be really hard sometimes ♥️ we really couldn’t do it without Him!

    • @aproverbshome173
      @aproverbshome173 Месяц назад

      @@AnnaDysert Amen!

  • @kimdavid4979
    @kimdavid4979 Месяц назад +1

    Wonderful video, inspiring! Even at my age I still speak sometimes (most times ) before checking in to see if it’s thoughtful or necessary. God has been dealing with me in this area lately. Thank you for the reminder. ❤

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      It’s a hard practice for sure!

  • @kate_700
    @kate_700 Месяц назад

    So much yes to all of this. I agree with you. Especially on point one.

  • @angelaa.7352
    @angelaa.7352 24 дня назад

    So happy to find this channel. ❤

  • @claudiao.
    @claudiao. Месяц назад

    I love,love,love it. you are so right.God bless you 🙏

  • @stacysmith4087
    @stacysmith4087 Месяц назад

    I love your examples!! They are so very helpful. Thank you for your channel. I always look forward to your vidoes!🥰

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      I’m so glad you got something out of it. Thank you so much for coming back time and time again ♥️🤗

  • @Keeplifesimple0000
    @Keeplifesimple0000 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you Anna for sharing some practical ways that you do and did to soften your heart!!! You are so beautiful insight out!! God did His beautiful work in your heart and it is such an encouraging testimony to all! I thank God for such a beautiful sister in Christ that He sent into my life to inspire me to continue embracing femininity. You are a gem!🤍 God bless you!!
    P.S. i am working on transitioning into more dreses, you are my true inspiration 🌸

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +1

      I said this earlier but I’m grateful God even found me worthy to help or inspire you! He is still at work ♥️

  • @mmarisz
    @mmarisz Месяц назад

    Just wanted to say that when you give examples of yourself I notice that we are extremely similar❤ This video and your other video’s have been very valuable to me! Thank you for sharing this sister 🙏🏼

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      I love that. God is good about bringing his people together. Looking forward to growing with you, sister! ♥️

  • @ThunderAndLife
    @ThunderAndLife Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for your content, your videos are always a pleasant and gentle reminder of the things that are important and that I need/want to be focusing on ❤

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      I also need the reminder ♥️ it’s why I make the videos.

  • @user-ms8sq7rw4r
    @user-ms8sq7rw4r Месяц назад +1

    This is amazing, I am journaling your words so I can work on softening❤ thank you

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +1

      I’m grateful God even found me worthy to help you with that ♥️

  • @julie-laurebernard3278
    @julie-laurebernard3278 24 дня назад

    Thank you for this video, it is inspiring ❤ 🙏

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  24 дня назад

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it! 🥰

  • @SeasonallyMe
    @SeasonallyMe Месяц назад

    Hello! This is a wonderful video it was refreshing to hear someone mention the struggle with swearing as it's really the one area that's hardest for me. Could you expand on or give us some tips on what you did to change that? Thx❤

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      I really just slowed down and thought about what I was going to say before saying it. It was very hard. I also prayed often that the Lord would take the desire to swear away from me. I think He certainly did more than me ♥️

  • @susanbuckley4153
    @susanbuckley4153 Месяц назад +1

    Everything you said was so true 😘… sometimes I find when I’m around people that bring the worst out in me.. I don’t feel as feminine as I should :(((

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      I feel the same way. That’s why it’s so important to surround ourselves with godly women to keep us accountable ♥️

  • @gamingisabellajones6880
    @gamingisabellajones6880 Месяц назад

    I love this video.

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you! I’m so glad!

  • @nafeesadamier7592
    @nafeesadamier7592 Месяц назад +1

    Hi Anna👋Thank you for sharing 💐I stop wearing 👖out...I subscribe 😊

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      Wonderful! Welcome! I’m so happy you are here 😊♥️

  • @MichelleMom2My3bl3ssings
    @MichelleMom2My3bl3ssings Месяц назад +5

    Good video Anna. I used to just tell the truth without regard of how it might sound. I didn’t realize I was really rough around the edges. Speaking with love and kindness is something that I do now. If I feel that what I have to say may come out wrong, then I don’t or I at least tell the other person my thoughts are coming from a place of love. Blessings

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      Isn’t it funny how we used to pride ourselves on being that person too? A little humility goes a long way!

  • @angelaa.7352
    @angelaa.7352 20 дней назад

    Cursing is so so hard. I hate hearing it and I hate when I do it. I do not understand why this is so hard for me!

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  19 дней назад

      You are not alone! It’s so normalized and very hard to get away from.

  • @reneecrotty6910
    @reneecrotty6910 Месяц назад

    Hi! Lovely video! Where did you buy this dress? x

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you! The brand is flying tomato. It’s an older dress so I don’t believe it’s available on their site anymore, but definitely worth checking them out!

    • @reneecrotty6910
      @reneecrotty6910 Месяц назад

      @@AnnaDysert Thank you darling! Great video xx

  • @yap4808
    @yap4808 Месяц назад

    Ive never felt so feminine in my entire life,till today, when i tryed a dress on❤ i have NEVER done the swirl that girls do in a dress and today was the first time for me,i felt soo feminine and nice 😂 im almost 34(i say 24 because till last year i was in a very dark place and it began 2014-i feel like i was in a nightmare-so im yet 24 🫶🏼😁)

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      Oh my goodness! So grateful you are back to YOU 🙌🏻 that is wonderful! Thank you for sharing!

  • @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607
    @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for sharing . This is my first video of yours I’ve seen and it was just what I was looking for . I’ve not worn a dress for 30 years but last year I brought quite a few and people definitely respond to it even though I have an eating disorder and I’m big..I was longing to dress more feminine because I’d got frumpy during the lockdowns . I was scared to wear a dress because of my size but I just decided if I look frumpy I might as well look frumpy in a dress…but I actually don’t now that I’ve worn them 😀 .
    I have also been trying so hard to not swear..my problem is if I say drop something I will mutter a horrible swear word..it’s more of a quick fire reaction and I am trying to replace it with one word that will automatically come out so it will be like a habit..hopefully . How do you try not to quick fire swear ? I’ve looked for videos and actually it’s been all men..you are the first woman I’ve seen mention it .
    I’ve 👍🏻🔔 and look forward to watching your other videos . Tracey. 🇬🇧💛🤍

    • @AnnaDysert
      @AnnaDysert  Месяц назад

      That is wonderful! I think we all got a little complacent in our sweat pants and lounge wear 2020. We are all sinners so what matters is that we are really trying to be better! I’d be flat out lying to you if I said I also did not quick fire swear occasionally - especially if something really hurts! I’m working on it and I pray that the Lord remove that temptation from me. As far as just casually cursing, I’ve finally gotten rid that from my life and it took so much time and patience. I’m so excited that you are here and we can learn together ♥️

    • @KellyS_77
      @KellyS_77 Месяц назад

      Embrace the frump!! Nothing wrong with looking a little frumpy, but I bet you actually don't.