My mom also dated very wealthy affluential people. She was usually in love big time. They’d take her to their banquets where the women were wearing designer clothes. She never asked for anything and they rarely gave. She’d buy her own dress for $30 and look better than the rest because she was gorgeous. Her last rich fiancé bought her a stunning engagement ring. She went in to have it cleaned and they told her it was fake. My mom also saw these same men driving around town with their new, more materialistic women. DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO. Yes, you’ll get rich men, but billionaires and many wealthy men can care less about you. Never try to be the woman who doesn’t expect anything, just serves the man. They will think of you like they do business- you’re a gorgeous girl at a cheap price, it’s a good deal and they will take advantage of it. What use is a billionaire if he ignores your needs? Is he just your ego boost? Sounds ridiculous to me.
THE MOST INTELLIGENT COMMENT HERE!!!👍👍👍 WHY DATE A RICH MAN WITHOUT EXPECTING HIM TO PROVIDE FINANCIALLY?! I made the same mistakes like your mom, i was genuine, caring about their personality not money, never asked anything. +intelligent with 2 higher educations, 5 foreign languages, beautiful body and face. They enjoyed it a lot, boosted their ego. Later i found out these men were providing with huge amount of money for other MORE MATERIALISTIC women))) And i received a bare minimum. Lesson learned- Never waste your time for free with affluent men☝
3000 billionaires world wide with an average age of 67 and less than 300 under the age of 50. Makes me wonder when all these women claim to date billionaires.
I dated a rich guy, and he said he knew I was genuine, and he knew I wasnt with him cause of his money, these guys are SMART. ive also won a big amount of money all at once so I experienced feeling "rich" and it taught me alot of things, how to read people and made me smarter and I learned how to be around people who TRULY care about you and not just for superficial reasons.
What she is saying is not true. I mean honestly, what does a hermes bag cost? It's really nothing. Ask all you want and if you are worth it, you can get as many as they are willing to sell you.
This video on billionaires really got me thinking! It’s crazy how much their mindset aligns with investing. Staying calm during chaos, knowing when to hold on, and resisting the urge to react impulsively-those are key in both love and finance. Who knew that dating could teach us so much about patience and discipline? It’s a wild ride, but I’m here for it
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time .
Until the Fed clamps down even further I think we're going to see hysteria due to rampant inflation. If you are in cross roads or need sincere advise on the best moves to take now with financial markets will be best you seek a fin-professional with fiduciary responsibilities who knows about mortgage-backed securities for proper guidance.
There are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’Rebecca Nassar Dunne” and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.
Yall trust me when I say this -- usually billionaires are around OTHER billionaires or multi-millionaire, they're not around "people trying to take their money", that might be true for nouveaux riches self made millionaires but the reality is that all billionaires are old money! So no, you won't "stand out" by trying to "make them save money" lmao I guarantee you they're not trying to save money, do you have any idea what one single billion represents, yet alone multiple billions?? The average millionaire is closer to zero than to one billion. So if you meet a so-called billionaire who's greedy then they're just not an actual billionaire in most cases. Billionaires are completly disconnected from our reality, they don't even know how much a water bottle costs lol
It’s not entirely true. I have also met many millionaires and they really are stingy lol. Sometimes paying 20$ more for any job they want done is tooooooooooo much for them. HAHAHA
@@moonarium57 You can be absolutely sure, that Bezos, Branson and Musk know how much a bottle of water cost. It´s the rich kids, with a few millions from daddy, who don´t.
@@Don_Turbulento76 No they don’t ☠️ They genuinely don’t. They maybe knew that 30 years ago but not anymore. And either way I assure you your typical billionaire isn’t a tech CEO (whose billions are their business’ net worth and not exactly their personal fortune anyway)
This video is more about cultivating self worth and substance than dating a billionaire. It hits on creating value, which is what everyone wants, a billionaire, too. It also touches on the traps and games and power plays that some wealthy men play. Also, mental health. Learn to love yourself and heal from your traumas, fears and self doubt. Great video. Thank you.
Yes, the title should be different. I guess she wanted views… this is more about self-development and creating value and beautiful life for YOURSELF. So, you don’t need a billionaire 😀
I’ve never dated a billionaire, but I did date one that had a net worth about 500 million (so pretty much the same in terms of lifestyle) and while the lifestyle is great, there is alot that comes with the territory of dating a very wealthy man that did not appeal to me. For one, very powerful men tend to be on the controlling side and your always going to have to cater to their schedule and timeline, they also have alot of obligations and time for you can take an back burner. I’m glad I didn’t end up with that one. My current partner is a dentist, and while he’s not super rich, he doesn’t have a Type A personality (we are much more compatible), and lifestyle is much freer. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. It might be cliche but “money can’t buy you happiness” is the truth. compatibility cannot be controlled, and the likelihood that you’re going be compatible with one of the few billionaires out there, well, it’s not that likely 🤷🏻♀️. we all have to live and learn though.
Dayymm can you explain further about his lifestyle? I also dated powerful and rich men, like RICH and sometimes (maybe cause I came from a really poor and marginated background) it felt unreal to me the way they lived. Yep, they were controlling and possessive too, I wonder if some way too much money ruined their love perception. I'm also happier without them haha
Have you ever noticed how someone like Nastya just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!
Hey guys I see a lot of negative comments on here .. but what I got out of this video was a a very positive message .. she is basically saying to get to know who you are first and align to the highest version of yourself then it truly doesn’t matter who is next to you .. billionaire or not .. cause your energy is filled with such a magnetic aura that it just doesn’t matter anymore ! Thanks for this positive message ❤️
1. be honest and always stay humble regarding their money 2. be kind to everyone 3. become a woman at peace 4. never lose desire to grow and learn 5. know your boundaries (ability to stand up for yourself)
Chatgpt tells me there are like 90 billionares under the age of 40 in the whole world. And I assume many of them are already in relationships. Honestly, I don't believe these claims like "I only dated billionares" from like, normal people
bro if it was women that look like prime Adriana Lima or something it might be believable like if you were a top model 0.1% in looks and successful yourself... but random 6/10s dating billionaires just lmfao like what are we even talking about man
My richest clients in (high class) escorting always negotiated the most and about ridiculous small amounts of money like taxi cost. Whereas the lower income guys were the most generous. Of course there are exceptions in both groups but this has been the general trend. Most of the time I was happy to have a loving and caring family/partner and a medium amount of money instead of being a billionaire or a billionaires wife. Money can set you free and reduce stress/worries/anxietey...until it is too much money. Then it is the opposite.
to be honest let's stop romanticizing rich men let's start focusing on our own success and money a rich man won't save you no one will save you only YOU can save yourself you know what's more dangerous than a dusty? a rich man who have all the money and power to control you and trap you
While many wealthy men are in happy marriages, and most don’t seek to control their partners, it’s important to focus on creating balanced and respectful relationships. It’s not just about money but about mutual respect and personal autonomy. Rather than worrying about extremes, we should all aim for relationships that empower both partners to thrive.
I thought you were going to give advice thats specifically about dating billionaires but this is very general advice that applies to every man in every socio economic class
@@CinemaDoll137you should watch if you have time. The information she gave are super precious and it will help you in the long run with your self confidence. ❤
It’s funny how rich people want someone for their soul, yet they all care about money. Isn’t it hypocritical of them to judge you because you like the life style they’re offering. The key factor here is to give them something they don’t have, and use something they have so it’s a fair exchange. But later they will go for someone with money,because money is their #1 choice.
Exactly!! To me personally, I have figuered out that it actually is about avoiding a true relationship with actual co-dependence. They like to give to people that don‘t need it and deny it people who need what they have and ask for it openly, like they want a woman that doesn‘t need their money and give her more but they deny women that openly need something who could provide for them. Basically they want un-conditional love like for a child despite being adults.
The moment you generalize, you have lost the argument. And “rich people are bad"/"the rich only care about money" is not the reality, it is a subjective interpretation of an internalized fear of inadequacy. This is the the truth. The truth is, there are all sorts of people - many rich people are good. Many poor people are bad/lazy/jealous and ironically, care more about money than rich people.
@@InnahKostova-yg9es never said bad or good , it’s the motivation behind each person’s actions. I never said rich are bad or rich are good. I said person with money who is motivated by money.
Be kind and make your own money. pretty much it. Took me over 50 years to learn this, and to learn how easy it is to make money with the right mindset. You are in control of your life ladies!
Well, i expect appreciation for my time, regardless of wether he's a billionaire or not. I'm not hyper materialistic, but i do give hints here abd there and sometimes straight up ask. It has always worked for me and i won't change that. I also don't care if a person is a president, ceo or regular Joe, i will let you know at all times what i think and feel. I don't lower my standards and morals for anybody. I'm not only beautiful, i'm very intelligent, open to learning more and am very aware of the game of life and how people operate. This message is for women who still believe that you can manipulate a man into liking or loving you. You don't have to be mean but please do voice your needs and expectations. If he's true, he'll stay. A good man will study and ask how he can make your life easier.
Once I dated a rich man, I truly loved him and never expected any benefits from him. He said he felt good when beside me. He never bought me anything, but flowers 😂 Some men are just greedy regardless their wealth
@@shiningstar6470 yea exactly and in the video shes saying that they dont have to owe women anything etc but then dont expect anything from a woman as well whether its doing work like at home or intimacy
@@Parakeet-e8v nobody owes anyone anything but it’s a natural thing to show affection that way. It’s one of the love languages. Him having sex with u doesn’t mean anything. He was just horny
God gave us a special skill that is revealed when the time is ripe. He did not give is the spirit of fear, but the spirit of power, love, and a sound mind. The world and satan can throw their stones, but that’s a detour to where God calls us. Like Esther who is humble and leans on God in the hardest of times when she had no control on her own life decisions yet she saved many lives by submitting to where God placed her. We can change so many lives by simply being loving and kind to a stranger. Trust His process. God always makes a way. Give your stress and tears to the Lord,pray, and believe he is working. We also have at least 2 angels assigned to us so we can command them to work on our behalf.
You don't have to stress out to feel motivated to create big things. I'm building a business empowering women to prepare for birth without fear - this is a huge dream of mine and has been for a long time, but I show up each day and calmly put pieces in place so I can serve with impact. It's about mindset.
A good man will spend for you no matter rich or poor. I dated a rich man. He asked me if I wanted to go for coffee and we went and later I heard he complained about me not paying for my coffee. How he wasn't even embarrassed to complain to someone else about it is beyond me.
Exactly. Men value beauty and youth while women value stability (generally). Unless the man isn't shallow, then I see it as a fair exchange that a wealthy man who wants a beautiful woman must realize that comes with a cost. I say this because I see dudes who feel entitled to be with and xes young beautiful women by still want to hold her to some sort of moral standards that he doesn't hold himself to. It's like you both together for shallow reasons, so stop fooling yourself. I am not saying that I like this with this, but knowing this exchange, I can't blame a woman for leaving a wealthy guy who won't spend on her. Not saying he needs to be a completely spendthrift, but if he's a multi millionaire or multi billionaire and he is really tightfisted, then I can't blame the girl for leaving.
@@tarag7292 i had left a wealthy man who won't spend on me. He still wanted to touch me, yet won't spend anything. Come on. He was 30 years older and playing games, LOL. He is still single and looking for 35 year old, while he is 70, who won't task him for anything and just loves him. Why isn't he dating women of his OWN age though? For love, not beauty or youth.
0:24 - I didn't watch the video further than to that statement but I wonder: Does any man or woman with common sense really assume that a billionaire man has no more expectations on a woman other than to look good? Even a broke man knows that the beauty of a woman doesn't tell much about her other qualities.
you were born yesterday? Men go ONLY for looks.If you pretend to be smart that's a good skill to have. But looks are #1 don't ever listen to a man telling you otherwise since that will be a lie.
@@Clockthat_tea4 Imagine being rich doesn't suffice. Imagine the girl above was looking for other qualities and/or better match. Envy doesn't look good on you.
I have watched so many videos on similar topics, but something always felt off or superficial. But *your* words touched my soul in a way I can’t describe. You remind me of what true confidence and kindness look like. Unlike many influencers who push manipulative tactics and losing our essence as women, you remind us that being ourselves is enough-kindness, confidence, and authenticity are our true power. I felt so emotional listening to you, and for the first time in a long while, I felt precious, confident, and seen. Thank you for being a light and for spreading wisdom with such a genuine heart. I appreciate you so much, and I truly wish you the best in everything. ❤️
They have wives and they're in relationships. MOST OF THEM BUILT THEIR WEALTH WITH THOSE WIVES, WHEN THEIR WIVES LOVED THEM WHEN THEY HAD NOTHING. THEY HAVE KIDS WITH THESE WIVES AND SOME HAVE GRANDKIDS! THOSE WITH SECURE RELATIONSHIPS, AS IN GIRLFRIENDS MAKE BABIES TO AVOID HIGH TAXES. I'm in the investment finance industry to know that no wealthy man is lonely, we investment bankers are the people who secure their loved ones safety nets or else they wouldn't be millionaires and billionaires as high-income tax earners for long. MONEY DON'T GROW ON TREES FOR THEM TO BE MILLIONAIRES AND BILLIONAIRES, they need responsibilities to secure their net worth, wives and children are their financial safety nets. They pay therapists if they want to talk. What they want from attractive young girls is what's between their legs, like an expensive cuisine, they like tasting and paying for it.
To young girls.Unless she is married with a rich man deeply in love with her, don't believe her. You can check in long history, were there any insta influencers had a stable marriage with a rich man? What you need to do is work hard, study, then go to school with future rich men, date them and find one really gets along with. A lot of them are smart and a lot of them are from rich family. That's it. Be their equal, care more of their character instead of their money.
Don’t compete with them. Add value to their life as a woman can do, but don’t think you must become the men you want to marry, because that will repel good men.
@@yuriy5376 Not Rich kids school but there are certain colleges most of the kids are from pretty good family. Be there equal means you are as smart as them.
You are mistaken. This is not just for billionaires. All men look for these qualities in a woman for marriage. It’s just really sad that women have become so low and corrupted that they are opposite to these qualities. This used to be the standard for most women.
@@maryamkhan1019 2 completely nonsensical responses. RUclips is a video platform, so what? You don't need to be a billionaire to be moral, intelligent or have common sense. You are low and corrupted because you are the opposite of what a good woman is. A good woman is sacrificial not a gold digging, transactional narcissist. You should improve yourself out of love for your (future) husband, not for money or gifts.
@@maryamkhan1019 Btw, not all her advice was sound. Even her advice was corrupted with feminist poison. You should actually be very dependant on each other, that's what makes a great marriage that lasts. And no, you as a woman should not be materially ambitious like a man, you should be ambitious about kids and family. Succes is different between men and women.
I tried to be the peace and I was for a while, even when he cheated. When I needed him when I was pregnant, he wasn’t there. He still wanted me to be his peace when I didn’t have one. I am a 7 year yogi. College educated. Track runner since highschool. Learned Buddhist practices. None of this helped in this situation. An angel cannot live in hell.
But the angels that forsook their first estate ( habitation).. Their orriginal forms disregarded..they rebelled and fell..and hell is what shall hold them.
Honey, were you dating or serving those men? Everything you’ve said has the goal of satisfying the man and trying to keep him with you. Find the right one and you’ll not need to play all these “be peaceful with him because he is stressed” games.
Fr that point threw me off. It's a two way street, a partner regardless of gender or economic status should make you feel at ease. Weird of her to bring up succesful women and how they stay peaceful and then turn around and say "if the man is succesful he is allowed to be stressed" lol
ya the entire video is basically "how to twist and contort myself to make rich men like me." low value much? and I guess dating rich men is something to brag about and then say don't expect anything from them and they don't have to provide for their ladies lmao
As a man, I pity your husband/boyfriend. This woman in the video tells you exactly what men look for in a woman. And your narcissistic self can’t see the wisdom in it. You have been trained to be the opposite of what men desire in a woman.
As a man, I pity your husband/boyfriend. This woman in the video tells you exactly what men look for in a woman. And your narcissistic self can’t see the wisdom in it. You have been trained to be the opposite of what men desire in a woman. Loving someone makes you want to make the other happy and serve them.
what is the point of being with a rich guy if you cant take their money?? i can get a nice guy anywhere .. if i have to be financially independant .. why bother with a rich guy?? it seems like double the work for nothing?? I dont get what the benefit for ME is?? rich men are not better men at all unless they give me something other men dont.. they are NOT the prize they are my bad luck .. just being honest. if a rich man expects ME little old ME to protect his money etc .. fuck that .. if he isnt going to make my life easier .. bye.. i can get a better looking nicer guy who has a normal income and be happier.. im not going to work to be the best version of myself just to be with a man .. the best guy for you accepts you as you are.
Honestly theres no point in dating men at all. Even if hes giving you money its at a price, and if at the end of the day i need to earn my own money so that this rich guy doesn't leave me for a young girl, or that maybe in bad situations hes business fail, or he ends up dying fast etc. Then whats the point? Its almost as if dating an average guy. No money no honey
No, he doesn’t. He doesn’t owe them luxury. He must provide and protect for their survival, but not to spoil them to the point that they become rotten.
The comment I was looking for. She talks like being provided for is a priveledge when it is actually his duty if he is couting you. This woman doesn't think like a wife, she thinks like a girlfriend who is trying too hard to please, impress and not appear like too much trouble to the billionaire man who she percieves to be the prize in the relationship, why they will always just see heras girlfriend and not wife. This video just prove that pichmeishaness is not reserved for the lower class but alive and well even among upper circles.
U had me at the first half lmao, western modern dating has become so weird and demeaning to women cuz of pickmes like this.. If you're with with a rich man, and he loves u why not spoil u any man in his right mind who appreciate his woman would love to give her the world.
right?? what's the point of dating an old billionaire (cause let's one honest most billionaires are old af) if he doesn't spoil you and take care of you? like wtf?
Yeah as a woman, I never understand why women throw themselves to the stingy rich guys. What he has has nothing to do with you. What he does for you that would count. Any lovable man who is either middle class or rich will care for his woman. I'm not rich but never lack of money, whenever I need it.
@@Parakeet-e8v thats kind of transactional. im all for being generous and caring with girls, but intimacy is not a credit that you cash in when a guy does enough for you. intimacy is a given, its a necessary component of a relationship. taking it away will cause a romantic relationship to cease to exist. so whether someone is spoiling or generous with their partner is irrelevant to giving them intimacy in return. intimacy is equal, something that both partners benefit from. guys give it just as much as girls, like sex is too. if someone is giving intimacy they can expect it in return. that being said, if a guy isnt generous or caring you can leave or be upset with that. of course. but intimacy has nothing to do with that. its important to separate that quality from other qualities or else the relationship can and will fall apart after becoming more transactional.
You live in a different universe. Elon Musk is a billionaire. How does everything you told apply to him? I like the type of woman you described but men do not need them. The more money a man has, the more spoiled the woman he wants.
i was rooting so hard for you but this is the ultimate boss level pick me girl. I'm saying this as a girl in her 20s in manhattan who also dates wealthy men. The whole video was "I'm not like other women. I'm better." But the advice you're giving is like emma chamberlain podcast vibes (shallow revelations but to you they seem revolutionary).
Wow what an interesting point of view you two have towards her content. Sounds like, if you’d actually applied any of her advice, you’d both hate less. Good luck with such snooty and quick judgement. I thought everything she had to say was sound and very on point, and I’m a guy. You girls should learn to stick together and not go out of your way to try and point out each other’s flaws, as that in itself is ‘pick me’ behavior.
@@maehmoodreza8260 she is her competition cause they both date rich men so she couldn't just pass by. and the fact that all she heard was "I'm not like other women. I'm better" means that she does feel inferior to her and the other one is actually better lol.
I appreciate this video. Nastya is not entirely wrong but, in my experience, it's way more complicated than this. I've worked with a decent amount of millionaires and billionaires in New York when their health was not good. All I can say is that this is a very complicated, cut throat type of world. It's far more difficult to navigate than most people will ever understand.
As a man I agree with the last line. I think loyalty and true love and matching core values are important. There are more important things than money. If you don’t have those in place, it’s like a luxury car without wheels or a steering wheel.
If u aren’t interested in money, clout, status, then why do u only date billionaires? Wouldn’t a well intentioned professional be enough? I think you’re pretty transparent, you’re not in line with your intentions.
Why wouldn't she? If you're not only interested in looks, why do u keep trying to conquer the prettiest girl in the room Men want the best for them but again a woman can't do the same🙄 spare me
@@jamilyc.3602I don't think your argument works the way you think it does. Men trying to conquer the most beautiful women is purely for the sex and admiration of their buddies. That's the male equivalent of women chasing money. Both are superficial.
I love that you say that being kind is a skill! That's such a beautiful way of looking at it. Because then being kind is something you can practice and get better at every day.
I have to say out of all the videos I have seen about dating affluent men this one I truly appreciate this the most! The fact that you consistently emphasise that women should have a successful and ambitious life for themselves and that you should be educated and independent is so important, because you're not teaching women to be dependent and reliant on men to be able to live a luxurious or even comfortable lifestyle. I also loved that you started off by stating your appearance should be the least interesting things about you and there should be intellectual depth to you and you need to be grounded yourself. You're really reminding us that we're more than our appearance. Thank you for mentioning "setting boundaries", as women we feel that if the man is wealthy or if he can provide then we are obligated to relax our boundaries and just give ourselves over because he is giving you everything. Love this video. 10/10 Nastya!
She is wrong for that. She gave great points, but still toxic feminists lies were slipped in . Do no focus on masculine success. Success for a woman should be measured in being how great of a mother / wife she is. And for the love of God, do not think you need to be independent. If you want a lasting marriage, be very dependent on each other. It’s what makes you matter to each other.
@@williamwallace410 absolutely but those are natural developed qualities and you need to be a working woman in this day and age because life is expensive. I believe once you become married then you can promise motherhood and being a wife since you can't do that when you're single (if that makes sense). Myself for example I know I want to be a godly wife and mother but because I'm singe I am still a godly working independent woman, but I can accomplish being a godly wife and motherhood when I become one
@@williamwallace410I don't know if you're a man or not, but if you're a man what do you think as a man is the way to make him know I am a great mother and wife if we didn't get married yet and didn't have children..? I can't show these values and advantages of me until we get married.. so what's your advice?
''live laugh love'' basically. got it. I'm sorry but all rich men I've gone on dates with where huge megalomaniac narcissists... some of them smart, yes. I'd say mainly ambitious and educated, more than smart. but it takes a special kind of (bad) man to suceed in this society. I'm not saying all of them are horrible, sure. Just most of them. Not sure you know what you're talking about.
Since when is dating multiple men an accomplishment? I could somehow understand how being married can be treated as an accomplishment, because at least the man is committing to you. But again, having been married and divorced multiple times is also a questionable achievement…
i believe her because even if there are only 3000 billionnaires, the list only includes self made billionnaires. however most billionnaires her age are born billionnaires. i also think she delivers a good message to women and girls seeing the videos she's made and she looks very sincere
00:19 💡 The speaker highlights that beauty alone won't keep wealthy men interested; other qualities are key. 01:09 💰 Wealthy men value women who help them manage money rather than spend it. 02:18 👜 Men give gifts out of love, not obligation, and expecting material things can damage relationships. 02:59 ❤️ Wealthy men desire genuine love, not to be treated as wallets. 03:06 😊 Being kind to everyone, regardless of social status, is crucial for building lasting relationships. 05:03 🌍 Staying grounded and treating everyone equally, whether on a private jet or subway, is an essential trait. 05:19 🧘 A calm, peaceful woman who can offer emotional stability is highly valued by wealthy men. 07:11 🧠 Intelligence, ambition, and thirst for knowledge are extremely attractive traits. 09:05 🎯 Having personal goals and growth is important for sustaining interest and respect in a relationship. 09:52 🛡️ Confidence and the ability to set boundaries are essential to avoid being taken advantage of. 11:22 🚩 Trust your gut and address anxiety or discomfort in relationships. 12:05 🏃♀️ No amount of wealth can make up for being trapped in a relationship where you're unhappy or disrespected. 12:25 🌟 Focus on becoming the kind of woman that a billionaire would want to marry, rather than just seeking wealth.
The biggest turn off for me is to hear men mention they have money, and complain about their ex's. It makes me think that is all they have to offer and they are emotionally unavailable in relationships in general.
Once a married millionaire tried to hit on me and another girl and it was just so disgusting. He put his arm around me and I pushed it off. He also invited me to his house and I heard from friends that his house was a huge mansion. I told him to find someone else to invite.
I doubt you ever dated a multi millionaire, maybe some guy doing great and trying to pass as a very rich man at best. Rich powerful men usually will never tell you they're rich because they don't need to, you can see it clear as crystal they have a lot of money, their cars, houses, etc... not a single word is needed about it and neither they complain about their ex's because most of times they were the ones that dumped their good girlfriends. My past girlfriends were great to me and I have nothing to complain about them, I just didn't see a marriage in the future as they did so I decided to stop wasting their time and broke up with them for their own good. By the way I think only LOSERS complain about their ex's because a relationship is a choice and it's dumb to complain about your own choices. If somebody tells me how bad their ex was I instantly say something like "so why you wasted so much time with them? It's free world, you should not complain about your choices but learn from them and not repeat it but if you do, the real problem is probably you and your poor choices that you keep repeating it!".
I don't know about the US, but....I'm from Turin (Italy) I have a working class background, but I went to school with the upper class and aristocracy. I can name drop, but I won't, however if you search most influential companies in Turin you will be able to understand to whom I'm referring to. Since I was a pre teen I witnessed a specific phenomenon, namely this specific social stratum aims at entering relationships with people from the exact same circle. I had a classmate and she was truly beautiful BUT she didn't come from their same background. I witnessed the same thing in the UK, let's assume you are an outrageously beautiful waitress, a guy who is in finance or even studying at top unis will never and I repeat never take the mentioned waitress seriously. On the other hand, self made people want to see you are hustling your way through building up a career, they don't want someone scrounging off their hard earned money. Let's now examine other Nordic countries and again you will notice that those men (especially in their prime) are not going to be your walking ATMs, especially because northern European women are oftentimes proud of their independence. So culturally speaking you will be off the chart. I think that the desire to marry off a wealthy person based on the women attraction rate, might occur in certain areas of Italy, and possibly the US. However, all those craps are ridiculous, in fact beauty depreciates with time and you will find yourself being on the fence, always guarded because there is plenty of younger fishes out there. Hence get a grip.
In the US people are increasingly unlikely to date and marry outside of their own social class. Marrying outside your wealth bracket is unlikely if you are poor and rare if you are rich.
@@erikw.418 understandably so, I shared what I witnessed throughout the years in different regions to debunk all those gold diggers and their messages. It's much better to invest in some sort of education, having a good attitude and knowing how to run a household...again beauty depreciates over time plus you are confirming that one's social class plays a part in the dating value market (even in the US).
@@erikw.418 I think in the US, most date in their social class and try and date above as well. The problem lies in the fact most of those in the lower social class looking to date upwards don't put in the work to better themselves or further themselves when trying to date wealthier individuals and they have the gall to go on social media and say they will only date guys with a 6+ figure salary. Meanwhile they are obese (and most wealthy people find it unattractive and unhealthy), and who knows what kind of mental illnesses they have going on.
I agree with you. All my uncles that happen to be rich, are married to women that come from already rich backgrounds, are extremely successful in their career or come from the same workfield...
Rich people date rich not because of discrimination but because that's their area of circle. Can you see yourself dating a celebrity? First you need to be under their radar and for that to happen you need to be in the area under their vicinity. Second reason why you should date your social class not because of somekind of classism, caste system, but because different levels of people offer things differently. Same reason why a middle class wouldn't date a beggar, rich class won't date a middle class or lower class cause those class under them would expect to solve their financial problems instead of solving it themselves. Rich people want to keep their wealth.
So true. People that look down apon others regardless of weath, status, or judgement truely are the poorest in the world. Being nice to everyone is gods gift ❤
even if this wasn’t true, she said things that are important even if you’re single and want to remain single. Being kind to everyone, stand up for yourself, not caring only about superficial things, is always a thing that you should do. That’s what matters.
Finally an authentic video. This pulled up in my feed as i was looking for classic style inspiration. I am a widow married 30 years to my high school sweetheart. The key to us was authenticity, communication and acceptance. Kindness is important as it promotes peace and love. We supported one another as we grew,we laughed at our flaws and always held hands. Your heart is a beacon to your true character. If it is open and tender then so will your relationship. If it is one sided ,angry and selfish then so will your relationship. Speak kindly and kindness will chase you! Never linger in the dark always find a solution to whatever life dishes out. I had a beautiful and successful marriage beause of this and more. Your video was wonderful and thank you for the genle reminders to all of us who seek more meaningful and thoughtful relationships.💞🙏🏻🙂
Men with money can be disproportionately obsessed with it and paranoid about being taking advantage of. Maybe some are generous but they can also be REALLY frugal and expect their wife or girlfriend to be ok with cheating, on their part, not the other way. I’m not saying it’s always like that, but it’s not completely rare. So be your own sugar daddy and see and date people who look for a partner in life not someone that has money.
The experience of convincing someone to invest and then facing a loss reminds us that failure is often a stepping stone to greater opportunities and growth.
Apart from the naivety in some remarks as to what most of billionaires cherish (it's power and control, and not the humble girls with heart) if you want to be happy in life - stay away from the billionaires and millionaires - there are hardly any happy of them !
You have beauty and they have money, and both of you have what attracts the other. The point is not to be too obnoxious about it. Hopefully both of you learn to go deeper and experience real love, which is giving unconditionally. The reality of all love relationships is that they are all transactional, more or less, and there is nothing wrong about that, it is a given-take most of the time in this life, it is just designed this way. Love relationships should be a way to learn more about ourselves and the other, and how to make our intentions and love more pure. That is what is really precious, not just expensive things.
Most difficult part of my job working for a wealthy person was managing his girlfriends, never letting them know about the others and he always had at least six.
Nastya this video just made me mega respect you. Especially about being kind. The wealthier the circle, the nastier the people are. I have met them, and Im still on the bottom, climbing up. Everything you said is accurate
1) if you have to save money then why did you only date billionaires? 2) I don't have to cook or clean either but it's kinda expected, same goes for men and providing specially the ones who have that kind of expectation 3) why are you dating men who are so busy to spend time with you so he can make money but he doesn't even wanna spend on you as a sign of appreciation to your patience?!! Isn't that being unkind yo yourself? Very contradictory! Wealthy men are not easy to be with! There are normal men out there who are way easier to be with. This world is not black and white, there is a gray too which is normal men with normal income. Nothing wrong with that. You can only be with a billionaire if you truly love them. If you can take away the status will you still love them?
She makes really good points, but where are the billionaires now in her life? Why didn't she get married with one of them? Could it be that in the end she got pumped and dumped by all those billionaires? And now that she is older she doesn't qualify to be with any of them? What happened???
The only thing I don’t understand is why everyone is looking for a billionaire. Message is wrong. Nothing is given for free. You have to pay everywhere. Dating a billionaire- you will have to pay
the women who advocates for dating millionaires and billionaires and have "dated" them know this but they conceal it they are not gonna say online what they did to get him to "spoil" her like maybe escorting? or something similar you know I mean if that's what they want whatever but some women don't like this and young girls who are listening to them think they can just be flown out to places for free someone needs to explain to them there's no free lunch especially with rich men
There are tons of them out there but also magnificent mega-rich men..of course, no need to emphasize they are rare as diamonds and competition is insane around them.
@@michellemdelara9117that has been my observation too. Rich men usually have short attention span, and get easily bored when it comes to dating. He is not going to wait for your personality to shine through, when so many beautiful women are competing for the attention of an eligible billionaire.
Thank you for your video. It truly resonated with me… five years ago I was diagnosed with chronic anxiety, this “sickness” it destroyed me and I had to build myself from scratch. I still have a long way to go. It was lovely to watch your video, and see I’m on the right path. I’m grateful. 😊
@@nastyaswanmind If you're authentic and I'm not saying you are or are not, why don't you do a video letting us know: How many billionaires have you been with? How long were you with them? Why did it not work out? That would be a great reveal!!! I like what you did in this video but from the comment section you left some of us wanting more.
@@marcbee1234I think it's important to consider Divine timing and who's actually meant for you Lots to demystify Best wishes and good luck to everyone
Finally someone who can summarize the simple truth on this topic in a short video. KUDOS Nastya, also becasue you can talk in clear language and you're able to comme straight to the point. Also... I think, that if we forget for a moment that you are speaking about billionaires, the basic principled might just apply to any relationship where one person is significantly more wealthy than the other person. If I have less and respect what my partner has build, try to be supportive, I love my partner's soul and as a person, then I will put love and connection first and all the rest will naturally be in balance. If I would go ahead thinking of all the stuff 'we' could buy or I want to have now that somehow money is nearby.....eeeuuuuhhhh then things will become earlier or later problematic in my relationship. It is not about rich or not, it is about ... if your aim the other person or do you get hypnotized by what the other person has? People thrive through love and authenticiy always is my experience. If we stick to that, want this first, give this first... we all have a good chance towards a fulfilled life... 💖
I think everything you said is applicable to healthy relationship with every person, regardless of their status or wallet. Relationships should be build based on mutual respect, genuine interactions and care (that both genders express in different way). This materialistic approach promoted by social media and “men marry bi*ches” concept is literally killing modern relationships😢 If more people would understood your message we wouldn’t have such a big relationship crisis.
As a guy who married a rich woman, it's surprisingly so different what rich women want compared to the men. I had to put in quite an effort but it's been 4 years now and life is blissful and super fun - vacations, shopping and not a thing to worry about. I wish all of you luck, try marrying rich.
1. Be honest and stay humble, especially with money. 2. Be kind to everyone you come across. 3. Peace of mind, calmness (creates a peaceful environment) 4. Being intelligent and thirsty for knowledge (want to learn, grow, and have goals) 5. Confidence is key! (Know your boundaries). **Learn to be a person who will fall in love with you, and the life you're living.
She is not at all wrong BUT Let’s go deeper than the superficial money and achievements and unpack profile of men she is discussing. The manipulation should be obvious in them seeking to groom control and mold a young woman to their preferences. I’m talking from experience. These people are intelligent enough to leverage everything they have plus life experience against you. Being in an engagement like this completely ruined my life and the power dynamic was traumatizing. Cheating is very common when they make it up to a certain caliber and from myself and hearing from others expect controlling behavior as well. You have to be young, look flawless, complete, be classy, deal with competition. In the worst possible case senario you are just there to attune to their needs, serve as an object and as a utility to do their tasks. In my case it took years before that played out. You are walking into their world which they run. Do not listen to these influencers promoting a “soft life” please. They are not even scratching the surface. Watch Breeny Lees video on this. Nothing is free. You will pay for it in one way or another
This is so accurate! The young girl in the video is delusional and doesn't know her value, exactly how wealthy men like their prey! For me if tangible money is not being offered I have no business putting up with wealthy predatory men!
Theres absolutely no soft life under these men. Also good luck at age 40, when you grow old and these men want someone else. Theres almost no use for men if they can't give you money and you need to somehow "please" them. If thats the case then why even date?
I’m dating a very handsome rich successful man. And I carry all of these qualities. I’ve learned over time being more soft and feminine and always showing him my love. And he loves me just as much.
You work for 40yrs to have $1M in your retirement, meanwhile some people are putting just $10K in a meme coin from just a few months ago and now they are multimillionaires.
I want to compliment you, you have said it all. I am a little business owner and I really want to expand my business to the next level by making myself an investor but I really don't know how to go about it..
Ive got all the qualities you mention yet i am invisible to wealthy men because i lack physical beauty and when you are physically not beautiful you won't get noticed and you won't get into the door.
@Alex-bl8uh Obama was not wealthy when he met Michelle nor was he at the top of his game. She was actually above him, position wise when he started at the law firm she was at. She helped him build what he has- his family, his career and he probably would not be where he is if it wasn't for her.
@femfiore yes so that's the lesson. This might be a good strategy ;) But honestly even when he may have been not so wealthy I just can't understand his choice but whatever🤷♂️^^
Why are women making it like dating a rich guy is equivalent to getting a PhD?? Ladies, never rely on a man for money or status because that man can walk away at any given time and trust me, men with money will have more respect for a woman with a career than some gold digger.
I am dating a girl who looks better than the girl in the video and I straight up told her everything about myself authentically. I have a good job and ambition but I am probably never going to be rich or whatever. I am not looking for a golddigger, I am looking for someone who is sweet and has a good personality. Her personality is great and the fact that she looks cute is a bonus. I carry her emotionally as I have been through a lot, so I know a lot. She is happy to support me, when I need help or understanding. Everybody should date authentically, it makes dating a lot easier and more fun because you'll find someone who cares about you and not your stuff. She thinks I am prince charming
She did not date "billionaires" there are not enough of them ;) even if she would accept men old enough to be her grandfather . That said, she makes some good points for women dating decent men (forget about being especially wealthy), and I like her point about boundaries 9:48 and how to express them in a firm but gracious manner.
hey! i love the truth you have said. and it makes me so happy to see theres someone with the same principles i have. it all starts within ourselves! sending you light girl!!
yea exactly men shouldnt expect anything from a woman as well whether its doing house works or intimacy i hate how these women take sides of men which makes the other women suffer
@@Parakeet-e8v Exactly. A wealthy man wants a woman for her beauty, youth, and xes. So yes you should expect something in return. The problem is that these wealthy men want to only put the moral expectation on the women while he keeps his entitlement, no matter how depraved, towards the woman or women he wants. Not all, but a lot of these men aren't keeping you around if you don't look good. They expect from you while they expect you not to expect from them because that's wrong.
Girl...Im Brazilian and i found your chanel today...and im so in love with your ideas, some hours and you give so many insights! Thank you, i will stay here :)
She might attract attention from older men through sex, but that doesn't automatically qualify her as the woman he envisions marrying. Because what captures a man's attention is not always the same thing that captures his heart.
My mom also dated very wealthy affluential people. She was usually in love big time. They’d take her to their banquets where the women were wearing designer clothes. She never asked for anything and they rarely gave. She’d buy her own dress for $30 and look better than the rest because she was gorgeous. Her last rich fiancé bought her a stunning engagement ring. She went in to have it cleaned and they told her it was fake. My mom also saw these same men driving around town with their new, more materialistic women. DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO. Yes, you’ll get rich men, but billionaires and many wealthy men can care less about you. Never try to be the woman who doesn’t expect anything, just serves the man. They will think of you like they do business- you’re a gorgeous girl at a cheap price, it’s a good deal and they will take advantage of it. What use is a billionaire if he ignores your needs? Is he just your ego boost? Sounds ridiculous to me.
none of this happened
I agree
THE MOST INTELLIGENT COMMENT HERE!!!👍👍👍
WHY DATE A RICH MAN WITHOUT EXPECTING HIM TO PROVIDE FINANCIALLY?! I made the same mistakes like your mom, i was genuine, caring about their personality not money, never asked anything. +intelligent with 2 higher educations, 5 foreign languages, beautiful body and face. They enjoyed it a lot, boosted their ego. Later i found out these men were providing with huge amount of money for other MORE MATERIALISTIC women))) And i received a bare minimum. Lesson learned- Never waste your time for free with affluent men☝
It just tells me your mom is very bad at reading people ;-)
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3000 billionaires world wide with an average age of 67 and less than 300 under the age of 50. Makes me wonder when all these women claim to date billionaires.
And almost 90% of them are already married 😂
Well, in certain countries, 1 million dollars will make you a Billionaire in local currency, so technically, she might not be wrong. Lol
Dreaming is free 😁
Cause these are fake vids to get clicks for wannabe gold diggers..lol
@@SaffariRose looooollll
I dated a rich guy, and he said he knew I was genuine, and he knew I wasnt with him cause of his money, these guys are SMART. ive also won a big amount of money all at once so I experienced feeling "rich" and it taught me alot of things, how to read people and made me smarter and I learned how to be around people who TRULY care about you and not just for superficial reasons.
why not marry a rich guy
Bc he was already taken
@@umm3766it is his choice to propose
What she is saying is not true. I mean honestly, what does a hermes bag cost? It's really nothing. Ask all you want and if you are worth it, you can get as many as they are willing to sell you.
What to say to you I did not understand. #nidhikapoor
This video on billionaires really got me thinking! It’s crazy how much their mindset aligns with investing. Staying calm during chaos, knowing when to hold on, and resisting the urge to react impulsively-those are key in both love and finance. Who knew that dating could teach us so much about patience and discipline? It’s a wild ride, but I’m here for it
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time .
Until the Fed clamps down even further I think we're going to see hysteria due to rampant inflation. If you are in cross roads or need sincere advise on the best moves to take now with financial markets will be best you seek a fin-professional with fiduciary responsibilities who knows about mortgage-backed securities for proper guidance.
Could you possibly recommend a CFA you've consulted with?
There are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’Rebecca Nassar Dunne” and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.
Thanks for this. Found her and looked through her credentials before contacting her. Once again many thanks.
These advices are the bare minimum when it comes to be a good person, regardless who you are dating.
ya exactly! isn't being kind being a human? it doesn't matter who you're dating..
Oh god,yes,thank you for your comment that may make others look into the mirror.
When a woman loves a man, she always do this thing and postures. Its natural. Its not for bilionaries, its for all men you love.
exactly
Best comment.
Yall trust me when I say this -- usually billionaires are around OTHER billionaires or multi-millionaire, they're not around "people trying to take their money", that might be true for nouveaux riches self made millionaires but the reality is that all billionaires are old money! So no, you won't "stand out" by trying to "make them save money" lmao I guarantee you they're not trying to save money, do you have any idea what one single billion represents, yet alone multiple billions?? The average millionaire is closer to zero than to one billion. So if you meet a so-called billionaire who's greedy then they're just not an actual billionaire in most cases. Billionaires are completly disconnected from our reality, they don't even know how much a water bottle costs lol
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It’s not entirely true. I have also met many millionaires and they really are stingy lol. Sometimes paying 20$ more for any job they want done is tooooooooooo much for them. HAHAHA
@@missblessedasmr I’m talking about billionaires not millionaires
@@moonarium57 You can be absolutely sure, that Bezos, Branson and Musk know how much a bottle of water cost.
It´s the rich kids, with a few millions from daddy, who don´t.
@@Don_Turbulento76 No they don’t ☠️ They genuinely don’t. They maybe knew that 30 years ago but not anymore. And either way I assure you your typical billionaire isn’t a tech CEO (whose billions are their business’ net worth and not exactly their personal fortune anyway)
This video is more about cultivating self worth and substance than dating a billionaire. It hits on creating value, which is what everyone wants, a billionaire, too. It also touches on the traps and games and power plays that some wealthy men play. Also, mental health. Learn to love yourself and heal from your traumas, fears and self doubt. Great video. Thank you.
Great Video, indeed! ❤I share that perspective 😊
Yes, the title should be different. I guess she wanted views… this is more about self-development and creating value and beautiful life for YOURSELF. So, you don’t need a billionaire 😀
I’ve never dated a billionaire, but I did date one that had a net worth about 500 million (so pretty much the same in terms of lifestyle) and while the lifestyle is great, there is alot that comes with the territory of dating a very wealthy man that did not appeal to me. For one, very powerful men tend to be on the controlling side and your always going to have to cater to their schedule and timeline, they also have alot of obligations and time for you can take an back burner. I’m glad I didn’t end up with that one. My current partner is a dentist, and while he’s not super rich, he doesn’t have a Type A personality (we are much more compatible), and lifestyle is much freer. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. It might be cliche but “money can’t buy you happiness” is the truth. compatibility cannot be controlled, and the likelihood that you’re going be compatible with one of the few billionaires out there, well, it’s not that likely 🤷🏻♀️. we all have to live and learn though.
Dayymm can you explain further about his lifestyle? I also dated powerful and rich men, like RICH and sometimes (maybe cause I came from a really poor and marginated background) it felt unreal to me the way they lived. Yep, they were controlling and possessive too, I wonder if some way too much money ruined their love perception. I'm also happier without them haha
Have you ever noticed how someone like Nastya just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!
I totally agree with you!
I actually finished that book 2 weeks ago. Tactics are crazy good. I like it so much. Would also really recommend it!
Thanks
im checking that out now
Thats the e-book right?
Hey guys I see a lot of negative comments on here .. but what I got out of this video was a a very positive message .. she is basically saying to get to know who you are first and align to the highest version of yourself then it truly doesn’t matter who is next to you .. billionaire or not .. cause your energy is filled with such a magnetic aura that it just doesn’t matter anymore ! Thanks for this positive message ❤️
Yes!!
If it doesn't matter who is next to you... then why is she only dating billionaires? 🤷
@@ChihiroOh everyone is a “billionaire” they just don’t know it yet 😜
@@kashalyam7071 yet she also stated at the beginning that she only dated billionaires? 🤔
@@giulias.5104 it’s all good everyone has a “type” but the main point is to take good care of yourself 🥰
1. be honest and always stay humble regarding their money
2. be kind to everyone
3. become a woman at peace
4. never lose desire to grow and learn
5. know your boundaries (ability to stand up for yourself)
Chatgpt tells me there are like 90 billionares under the age of 40 in the whole world. And I assume many of them are already in relationships. Honestly, I don't believe these claims like "I only dated billionares" from like, normal people
If you go to where rich people go and you're an attractive woman, you'll find it much easier to mingle with them
bro if it was women that look like prime Adriana Lima or something it might be believable like if you were a top model 0.1% in looks and successful yourself... but random 6/10s dating billionaires just lmfao like what are we even talking about man
@@etizzei1 true
She slept with some rich guys and most likely none of them where that rich. She says dated but you should read slept.
Ignorance is a choice
My richest clients in (high class) escorting always negotiated the most and about ridiculous small amounts of money like taxi cost. Whereas the lower income guys were the most generous. Of course there are exceptions in both groups but this has been the general trend. Most of the time I was happy to have a loving and caring family/partner and a medium amount of money instead of being a billionaire or a billionaires wife. Money can set you free and reduce stress/worries/anxietey...until it is too much money. Then it is the opposite.
to be honest let's stop romanticizing rich men let's start focusing on our own success and money a rich man won't save you no one will save you only YOU can save yourself you know what's more dangerous than a dusty? a rich man who have all the money and power to control you and trap you
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Yea most of them are old pedophiles. If they are 50 with a 21 year old.
Yes! Thank you!
While many wealthy men are in happy marriages, and most don’t seek to control their partners, it’s important to focus on creating balanced and respectful relationships. It’s not just about money but about mutual respect and personal autonomy. Rather than worrying about extremes, we should all aim for relationships that empower both partners to thrive.
FINALLY! *A woman with sense!* Thank you!
There are very few billionaires and even fewer who are single. Stop the cap
this applies to normal men too!!!
Exactly
There are many billionaires (even one billionaire counts) and no they don't need to be single to date a beauty:) too powerful to be loyal 😂
@@nanaildar91 Only 756 in the U.S., 14% of them women and the rest mostly married men.
@@nanaildar91 Smart girls don't waste their prime, fertile years with a man without a commitment to marriage.
You've dated billionaires as much as I've landed on a moon.
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“Dated celeb” = pump n dumped
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She needs to define the word "date".
I thought you were going to give advice thats specifically about dating billionaires but this is very general advice that applies to every man in every socio economic class
thanks for saving me 13 minutes
@@CinemaDoll137you should watch if you have time. The information she gave are super precious and it will help you in the long run with your self confidence. ❤
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She wants everyone to know she has 'dated' very wealthy men. Ego trip.
It’s funny how rich people want someone for their soul, yet they all care about money. Isn’t it hypocritical of them to judge you because you like the life style they’re offering. The key factor here is to give them something they don’t have, and use something they have so it’s a fair exchange. But later they will go for someone with money,because money is their #1 choice.
I have seen that...yeap
THIS
Exactly!! To me personally, I have figuered out that it actually is about avoiding a true relationship with actual co-dependence. They like to give to people that don‘t need it and deny it people who need what they have and ask for it openly, like they want a woman that doesn‘t need their money and give her more but they deny women that openly need something who could provide for them. Basically they want un-conditional love like for a child despite being adults.
The moment you generalize, you have lost the argument. And “rich people are bad"/"the rich only care about money" is not the reality, it is a subjective interpretation of an internalized fear of inadequacy. This is the the truth. The truth is, there are all sorts of people - many rich people are good. Many poor people are bad/lazy/jealous and ironically, care more about money than rich people.
@@InnahKostova-yg9es never said bad or good , it’s the motivation behind each person’s actions. I never said rich are bad or rich are good. I said person with money who is motivated by money.
Be kind and make your own money. pretty much it. Took me over 50 years to learn this, and to learn how easy it is to make money with the right mindset. You are in control of your life ladies!
Please share your tips and what mindsets? Do you just put in SP 500 or certain Vanguard fund? Treasury stock, High yield savings?
Well, i expect appreciation for my time, regardless of wether he's a billionaire or not. I'm not hyper materialistic, but i do give hints here abd there and sometimes straight up ask. It has always worked for me and i won't change that. I also don't care if a person is a president, ceo or regular Joe, i will let you know at all times what i think and feel. I don't lower my standards and morals for anybody. I'm not only beautiful, i'm very intelligent, open to learning more and am very aware of the game of life and how people operate. This message is for women who still believe that you can manipulate a man into liking or loving you. You don't have to be mean but please do voice your needs and expectations. If he's true, he'll stay. A good man will study and ask how he can make your life easier.
Amen, Nina!
Once I dated a rich man, I truly loved him and never expected any benefits from him. He said he felt good when beside me. He never bought me anything, but flowers 😂 Some men are just greedy regardless their wealth
He isn't rich because a miser is always empty inside. He might as well be a bum on the street.
@@jessicahitchens6926 well your video was about money people 😁
It’s crazy how men would pay for escort or for se* but are stingy towards a woman that genuinely cares or loves them . I really can’t understand that
@@shiningstar6470 yea exactly and in the video shes saying that they dont have to owe women anything etc but then dont expect anything from a woman as well whether its doing work like at home or intimacy
@@Parakeet-e8v nobody owes anyone anything but it’s a natural thing to show affection that way. It’s one of the love languages. Him having sex with u doesn’t mean anything. He was just horny
how can you be ambitious, driven, building something and calm, not stressed and peaceful to be around at the same time? genuinely wondering
They want a dream.
@@gabriellabrito8134I wish I could be that person, and not be on a verge of nervous breakdown from working 24/7 lol
This is me. You described me to a T. 😂 I am not yet a billionaire but people like this do exist. It's called mania and depressive episodes 😂
God gave us a special skill that is revealed when the time is ripe. He did not give is the spirit of fear, but the spirit of power, love, and a sound mind. The world and satan can throw their stones, but that’s a detour to where God calls us. Like Esther who is humble and leans on God in the hardest of times when she had no control on her own life decisions yet she saved many lives by submitting to where God placed her. We can change so many lives by simply being loving and kind to a stranger. Trust His process. God always makes a way. Give your stress and tears to the Lord,pray, and believe he is working. We also have at least 2 angels assigned to us so we can command them to work on our behalf.
You don't have to stress out to feel motivated to create big things. I'm building a business empowering women to prepare for birth without fear - this is a huge dream of mine and has been for a long time, but I show up each day and calmly put pieces in place so I can serve with impact. It's about mindset.
Sweetie, marry one and then we will take notes.
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Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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your comment makes me vomit.
What's the point of dating a rich man if you don't use his money. Its like dating a pretty girl u cannot touch. What nonsense.
To brag about it later.
A good man will spend for you no matter rich or poor. I dated a rich man. He asked me if I wanted to go for coffee and we went and later I heard he complained about me not paying for my coffee. How he wasn't even embarrassed to complain to someone else about it is beyond me.
Exactly. Men value beauty and youth while women value stability (generally).
Unless the man isn't shallow, then I see it as a fair exchange that a wealthy man who wants a beautiful woman must realize that comes with a cost.
I say this because I see dudes who feel entitled to be with and xes young beautiful women by still want to hold her to some sort of moral standards that he doesn't hold himself to. It's like you both together for shallow reasons, so stop fooling yourself.
I am not saying that I like this with this, but knowing this exchange, I can't blame a woman for leaving a wealthy guy who won't spend on her. Not saying he needs to be a completely spendthrift, but if he's a multi millionaire or multi billionaire and he is really tightfisted, then I can't blame the girl for leaving.
@@tarag7292 i had left a wealthy man who won't spend on me. He still wanted to touch me, yet won't spend anything. Come on. He was 30 years older and playing games, LOL. He is still single and looking for 35 year old, while he is 70, who won't task him for anything and just loves him. Why isn't he dating women of his OWN age though? For love, not beauty or youth.
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0:24 - I didn't watch the video further than to that statement but I wonder: Does any man or woman with common sense really assume that a billionaire man has no more expectations on a woman other than to look good? Even a broke man knows that the beauty of a woman doesn't tell much about her other qualities.
you were born yesterday? Men go ONLY for looks.If you pretend to be smart that's a good skill to have. But looks are #1 don't ever listen to a man telling you otherwise since that will be a lie.
My ex fiancé was a multimillionaire and all your points are spot on … they were things I’ve noticed and learned in my relationship too.
Why didn't it make it to marriage may I ask?
Was? Lol what happened
i need some tea on this one
@@tresjolieme81right like why you couldn’t keep him at home😂? Why would someone listen to anything you have to say🙄girl bye
@@Clockthat_tea4 Imagine being rich doesn't suffice. Imagine the girl above was looking for other qualities and/or better match. Envy doesn't look good on you.
I have watched so many videos on similar topics, but something always felt off or superficial. But *your* words touched my soul in a way I can’t describe. You remind me of what true confidence and kindness look like. Unlike many influencers who push manipulative tactics and losing our essence as women, you remind us that being ourselves is enough-kindness, confidence, and authenticity are our true power. I felt so emotional listening to you, and for the first time in a long while, I felt precious, confident, and seen. Thank you for being a light and for spreading wisdom with such a genuine heart. I appreciate you so much, and I truly wish you the best in everything. ❤️
Thank u so much🥹💗
@@nastyaswanmindwhy none of the married you and second did you date for real or u were escort. I am asking bxz not everybody is a sheep
Also a lot of these powerful men are extremely lonely so being that person that they can talk to and laugh with can mean more to them than you know
They have wives and they're in relationships. MOST OF THEM BUILT THEIR WEALTH WITH THOSE WIVES, WHEN THEIR WIVES LOVED THEM WHEN THEY HAD NOTHING. THEY HAVE KIDS WITH THESE WIVES AND SOME HAVE GRANDKIDS! THOSE WITH SECURE RELATIONSHIPS, AS IN GIRLFRIENDS MAKE BABIES TO AVOID HIGH TAXES. I'm in the investment finance industry to know that no wealthy man is lonely, we investment bankers are the people who secure their loved ones safety nets or else they wouldn't be millionaires and billionaires as high-income tax earners for long. MONEY DON'T GROW ON TREES FOR THEM TO BE MILLIONAIRES AND BILLIONAIRES, they need responsibilities to secure their net worth, wives and children are their financial safety nets. They pay therapists if they want to talk. What they want from attractive young girls is what's between their legs, like an expensive cuisine, they like tasting and paying for it.
Yes!! They are so lonely
Who cares.
That's how courtizanes were trained too
Really? Many weathy people I know have tons of friends
To young girls.Unless she is married with a rich man deeply in love with her, don't believe her.
You can check in long history, were there any insta influencers had a stable marriage with a rich man?
What you need to do is work hard, study, then go to school with future rich men, date them and find one really gets along with. A lot of them are smart and a lot of them are from rich family. That's it. Be their equal, care more of their character instead of their money.
Don’t compete with them. Add value to their life as a woman can do, but don’t think you must become the men you want to marry, because that will repel good men.
@@williamwallace410didn’t mean to compete with them, but Financial independence is important .
Character over chemistry indeed
"Go to the rich kid school anf find a man who has rich parents"..."Be their equal"...lol, how did even fit these two things in a single statement 😂
@@yuriy5376 Not Rich kids school but there are certain colleges most of the kids are from pretty good family. Be there equal means you are as smart as them.
what I take from this is nothing because it sounds like a headache to improve yourself for the sake of a man who owes you nothing even with billions.
for real lol like at this point I'll be the rich man
You are mistaken. This is not just for billionaires. All men look for these qualities in a woman for marriage. It’s just really sad that women have become so low and corrupted that they are opposite to these qualities. This used to be the standard for most women.
"Women have become so low and corrupted" meanwhile I'm literally laying in bed watching youtube
@@maryamkhan1019 2 completely nonsensical responses. RUclips is a video platform, so what? You don't need to be a billionaire to be moral, intelligent or have common sense. You are low and corrupted because you are the opposite of what a good woman is. A good woman is sacrificial not a gold digging, transactional narcissist. You should improve yourself out of love for your (future) husband, not for money or gifts.
@@maryamkhan1019 Btw, not all her advice was sound. Even her advice was corrupted with feminist poison. You should actually be very dependant on each other, that's what makes a great marriage that lasts. And no, you as a woman should not be materially ambitious like a man, you should be ambitious about kids and family. Succes is different between men and women.
I tried to be the peace and I was for a while, even when he cheated.
When I needed him when I was pregnant, he wasn’t there. He still wanted me to be his peace when I didn’t have one.
I am a 7 year yogi. College educated. Track runner since highschool. Learned Buddhist practices. None of this helped in this situation.
An angel cannot live in hell.
Lol 😂.
But the angels that forsook their first estate ( habitation).. Their orriginal forms disregarded..they rebelled and fell..and hell is what shall hold them.
Honey, were you dating or serving those men? Everything you’ve said has the goal of satisfying the man and trying to keep him with you. Find the right one and you’ll not need to play all these “be peaceful with him because he is stressed” games.
Tell me you didn't watch the video without telling me -_-
Fr that point threw me off. It's a two way street, a partner regardless of gender or economic status should make you feel at ease. Weird of her to bring up succesful women and how they stay peaceful and then turn around and say "if the man is succesful he is allowed to be stressed" lol
ya the entire video is basically "how to twist and contort myself to make rich men like me." low value much? and I guess dating rich men is something to brag about and then say don't expect anything from them and they don't have to provide for their ladies lmao
As a man, I pity your husband/boyfriend. This woman in the video tells you exactly what men look for in a woman. And your narcissistic self can’t see the wisdom in it. You have been trained to be the opposite of what men desire in a woman.
As a man, I pity your husband/boyfriend. This woman in the video tells you exactly what men look for in a woman. And your narcissistic self can’t see the wisdom in it. You have been trained to be the opposite of what men desire in a woman. Loving someone makes you want to make the other happy and serve them.
what is the point of being with a rich guy if you cant take their money?? i can get a nice guy anywhere .. if i have to be financially independant .. why bother with a rich guy?? it seems like double the work for nothing?? I dont get what the benefit for ME is?? rich men are not better men at all unless they give me something other men dont.. they are NOT the prize they are my bad luck .. just being honest. if a rich man expects ME little old ME to protect his money etc .. fuck that .. if he isnt going to make my life easier .. bye.. i can get a better looking nicer guy who has a normal income and be happier.. im not going to work to be the best version of myself just to be with a man .. the best guy for you accepts you as you are.
Lol I shouldn't be laughing but damn! yall are so damaged.
Honestly theres no point in dating men at all. Even if hes giving you money its at a price, and if at the end of the day i need to earn my own money so that this rich guy doesn't leave me for a young girl, or that maybe in bad situations hes business fail, or he ends up dying fast etc. Then whats the point? Its almost as if dating an average guy. No money no honey
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what rich guy would want a narc woman around him to waste his money
yeah same. I’d rather date a nice loyal guy around my age bracket who has a normal income and wants to lead a normal life.
When you are truly kind, you have to protect your energy too, because a lot of people want to use your kindness.
I only saw 3 minutes of your video and have a question to you. So you only date billionaires. No one asked you to marry?? 🤔 who are you to them ??
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This is the sad irony of her video.
Only broke girl run to marry anyone😂
Maybe those “billionaires” were married millionaires
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1:54 a married is obligated to provide for his wife and children. He owes them financial support to his best ability and protection.
And there are a ton that don’t do that but find ways not to pay.
No, he doesn’t. He doesn’t owe them luxury. He must provide and protect for their survival, but not to spoil them to the point that they become rotten.
financial support is not berkin bags, jimmy chu shoes and penthouses.
The comment I was looking for. She talks like being provided for is a priveledge when it is actually his duty if he is couting you. This woman doesn't think like a wife, she thinks like a girlfriend who is trying too hard to please, impress and not appear like too much trouble to the billionaire man who she percieves to be the prize in the relationship, why they will always just see heras girlfriend and not wife. This video just prove that pichmeishaness is not reserved for the lower class but alive and well even among upper circles.
The best way to catch a rich man is to be successful yourself.
U had me at the first half lmao, western modern dating has become so weird and demeaning to women cuz of pickmes like this.. If you're with with a rich man, and he loves u why not spoil u any man in his right mind who appreciate his woman would love to give her the world.
well if the guy is not spoiling [in a right meaning] the girl then he shouldnt expect anything from her as well like intimacy etc
right?? what's the point of dating an old billionaire (cause let's one honest most billionaires are old af) if he doesn't spoil you and take care of you? like wtf?
@@nanomia im pretty sure all billionaires in existence are older, except maybe a few that were spontaneously lucky.
Yeah as a woman, I never understand why women throw themselves to the stingy rich guys. What he has has nothing to do with you. What he does for you that would count. Any lovable man who is either middle class or rich will care for his woman.
I'm not rich but never lack of money, whenever I need it.
@@Parakeet-e8v thats kind of transactional. im all for being generous and caring with girls, but intimacy is not a credit that you cash in when a guy does enough for you.
intimacy is a given, its a necessary component of a relationship. taking it away will cause a romantic relationship to cease to exist. so whether someone is spoiling or generous with their partner is irrelevant to giving them intimacy in return.
intimacy is equal, something that both partners benefit from. guys give it just as much as girls, like sex is too. if someone is giving intimacy they can expect it in return.
that being said, if a guy isnt generous or caring you can leave or be upset with that. of course. but intimacy has nothing to do with that.
its important to separate that quality from other qualities or else the relationship can and will fall apart after becoming more transactional.
You live in a different universe. Elon Musk is a billionaire. How does everything you told apply to him? I like the type of woman you described but men do not need them. The more money a man has, the more spoiled the woman he wants.
She just never dated billionaires 😂 the advice she gives is like my mom used to tell me when I was 15 😂
@@jenniferbrown3782I find her classically beautiful
i was rooting so hard for you but this is the ultimate boss level pick me girl. I'm saying this as a girl in her 20s in manhattan who also dates wealthy men. The whole video was "I'm not like other women. I'm better." But the advice you're giving is like emma chamberlain podcast vibes (shallow revelations but to you they seem revolutionary).
Yeah that's the vibe I got too after 30 seconds
If a chick is high IQ and decent to good looking in NYC this stuff is not exotic
Wow what an interesting point of view you two have towards her content. Sounds like, if you’d actually applied any of her advice, you’d both hate less. Good luck with such snooty and quick judgement.
I thought everything she had to say was sound and very on point, and I’m a guy.
You girls should learn to stick together and not go out of your way to try and point out each other’s flaws, as that in itself is ‘pick me’ behavior.
@@maehmoodreza8260 she is her competition cause they both date rich men so she couldn't just pass by. and the fact that all she heard was "I'm not like other women. I'm better" means that she does feel inferior to her and the other one is actually better lol.
@@jonebize13huh?
giving advice and ending it with "they will never let you go" when all you've dated is billionaires and they all let you go....
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OMG LOLOLOLOL
They probably all died because most billionaires are over age 70. So they technically didn't let her go.
I appreciate this video. Nastya is not entirely wrong but, in my experience, it's way more complicated than this. I've worked with a decent amount of millionaires and billionaires in New York when their health was not good. All I can say is that this is a very complicated, cut throat type of world. It's far more difficult to navigate than most people will ever understand.
Can you elaborate?
@@goddessglow6996 I’ll be discussing this topic on my channel, but not for a while.
@@goddessglow6996 I’m tired of people being drawn in by this stuff and not understanding how it really works.
As a man I agree with the last line.
I think loyalty and true love and matching core values are important.
There are more important things than money. If you don’t have those in place, it’s like a luxury car without wheels or a steering wheel.
Here's a short list of what's more important than money:
Health
Love
Respect
If u aren’t interested in money, clout, status, then why do u only date billionaires? Wouldn’t a well intentioned professional be enough? I think you’re pretty transparent, you’re not in line with your intentions.
Why wouldn't she?
If you're not only interested in looks, why do u keep trying to conquer the prettiest girl in the room
Men want the best for them but again a woman can't do the same🙄 spare me
@@jamilyc.3602 it makes no sense
@@jamilyc.3602I don't think your argument works the way you think it does. Men trying to conquer the most beautiful women is purely for the sex and admiration of their buddies. That's the male equivalent of women chasing money. Both are superficial.
Yeah inconsistent bullsht
Ladies, BE the Billionaire instead of dating one
I love that you say that being kind is a skill! That's such a beautiful way of looking at it. Because then being kind is something you can practice and get better at every day.
I have to say out of all the videos I have seen about dating affluent men this one I truly appreciate this the most! The fact that you consistently emphasise that women should have a successful and ambitious life for themselves and that you should be educated and independent is so important, because you're not teaching women to be dependent and reliant on men to be able to live a luxurious or even comfortable lifestyle.
I also loved that you started off by stating your appearance should be the least interesting things about you and there should be intellectual depth to you and you need to be grounded yourself. You're really reminding us that we're more than our appearance. Thank you for mentioning "setting boundaries", as women we feel that if the man is wealthy or if he can provide then we are obligated to relax our boundaries and just give ourselves over because he is giving you everything.
Love this video. 10/10 Nastya!
She is wrong for that. She gave great points, but still toxic feminists lies were slipped in . Do no focus on masculine success. Success for a woman should be measured in being how great of a mother / wife she is. And for the love of God, do not think you need to be independent. If you want a lasting marriage, be very dependent on each other. It’s what makes you matter to each other.
@@williamwallace410 absolutely but those are natural developed qualities and you need to be a working woman in this day and age because life is expensive. I believe once you become married then you can promise motherhood and being a wife since you can't do that when you're single (if that makes sense). Myself for example I know I want to be a godly wife and mother but because I'm singe I am still a godly working independent woman, but I can accomplish being a godly wife and motherhood when I become one
@@williamwallace410I don't know if you're a man or not, but if you're a man what do you think as a man is the way to make him know I am a great mother and wife if we didn't get married yet and didn't have children..? I can't show these values and advantages of me until we get married.. so what's your advice?
''live laugh love'' basically. got it.
I'm sorry but all rich men I've gone on dates with where huge megalomaniac narcissists... some of them smart, yes. I'd say mainly ambitious and educated, more than smart. but it takes a special kind of (bad) man to suceed in this society. I'm not saying all of them are horrible, sure. Just most of them. Not sure you know what you're talking about.
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1000% She is a kid, clearly doesn’t know what she is saying but eventually will pay the price for this stupidity.
Since when is dating multiple men an accomplishment? I could somehow understand how being married can be treated as an accomplishment, because at least the man is committing to you. But again, having been married and divorced multiple times is also a questionable achievement…
i believe her because even if there are only 3000 billionnaires, the list only includes self made billionnaires. however most billionnaires her age are born billionnaires. i also think she delivers a good message to women and girls seeing the videos she's made and she looks very sincere
00:19 💡 The speaker highlights that beauty alone won't keep wealthy men interested; other qualities are key.
01:09 💰 Wealthy men value women who help them manage money rather than spend it.
02:18 👜 Men give gifts out of love, not obligation, and expecting material things can damage relationships.
02:59 ❤️ Wealthy men desire genuine love, not to be treated as wallets.
03:06 😊 Being kind to everyone, regardless of social status, is crucial for building lasting relationships.
05:03 🌍 Staying grounded and treating everyone equally, whether on a private jet or subway, is an essential trait.
05:19 🧘 A calm, peaceful woman who can offer emotional stability is highly valued by wealthy men.
07:11 🧠 Intelligence, ambition, and thirst for knowledge are extremely attractive traits.
09:05 🎯 Having personal goals and growth is important for sustaining interest and respect in a relationship.
09:52 🛡️ Confidence and the ability to set boundaries are essential to avoid being taken advantage of.
11:22 🚩 Trust your gut and address anxiety or discomfort in relationships.
12:05 🏃♀️ No amount of wealth can make up for being trapped in a relationship where you're unhappy or disrespected.
12:25 🌟 Focus on becoming the kind of woman that a billionaire would want to marry, rather than just seeking wealth.
The biggest turn off for me is to hear men mention they have money, and complain about their ex's. It makes me think that is all they have to offer and they are emotionally unavailable in relationships in general.
Once a married millionaire tried to hit on me and another girl and it was just so disgusting. He put his arm around me and I pushed it off. He also invited me to his house and I heard from friends that his house was a huge mansion. I told him to find someone else to invite.
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That’s bragging, in their language. They feel good that they could do it, they aren’t complaining, they’re gloating.
I doubt you ever dated a multi millionaire, maybe some guy doing great and trying to pass as a very rich man at best. Rich powerful men usually will never tell you they're rich because they don't need to, you can see it clear as crystal they have a lot of money, their cars, houses, etc... not a single word is needed about it and neither they complain about their ex's because most of times they were the ones that dumped their good girlfriends. My past girlfriends were great to me and I have nothing to complain about them, I just didn't see a marriage in the future as they did so I decided to stop wasting their time and broke up with them for their own good.
By the way I think only LOSERS complain about their ex's because a relationship is a choice and it's dumb to complain about your own choices. If somebody tells me how bad their ex was I instantly say something like "so why you wasted so much time with them? It's free world, you should not complain about your choices but learn from them and not repeat it but if you do, the real problem is probably you and your poor choices that you keep repeating it!".
I clicked on this video not because I want to date but because I wanted to hear you out and I don't regret it at all it was a pleasure
I don't know about the US, but....I'm from Turin (Italy) I have a working class background, but I went to school with the upper class and aristocracy. I can name drop, but I won't, however if you search most influential companies in Turin you will be able to understand to whom I'm referring to. Since I was a pre teen I witnessed a specific phenomenon, namely this specific social stratum aims at entering relationships with people from the exact same circle. I had a classmate and she was truly beautiful BUT she didn't come from their same background. I witnessed the same thing in the UK, let's assume you are an outrageously beautiful waitress, a guy who is in finance or even studying at top unis will never and I repeat never take the mentioned waitress seriously. On the other hand, self made people want to see you are hustling your way through building up a career, they don't want someone scrounging off their hard earned money. Let's now examine other Nordic countries and again you will notice that those men (especially in their prime) are not going to be your walking ATMs, especially because northern European women are oftentimes proud of their independence. So culturally speaking you will be off the chart. I think that the desire to marry off a wealthy person based on the women attraction rate, might occur in certain areas of Italy, and possibly the US. However, all those craps are ridiculous, in fact beauty depreciates with time and you will find yourself being on the fence, always guarded because there is plenty of younger fishes out there. Hence get a grip.
In the US people are increasingly unlikely to date and marry outside of their own social class. Marrying outside your wealth bracket is unlikely if you are poor and rare if you are rich.
@@erikw.418 understandably so, I shared what I witnessed throughout the years in different regions to debunk all those gold diggers and their messages. It's much better to invest in some sort of education, having a good attitude and knowing how to run a household...again beauty depreciates over time plus you are confirming that one's social class plays a part in the dating value market (even in the US).
@@erikw.418 I think in the US, most date in their social class and try and date above as well. The problem lies in the fact most of those in the lower social class looking to date upwards don't put in the work to better themselves or further themselves when trying to date wealthier individuals and they have the gall to go on social media and say they will only date guys with a 6+ figure salary. Meanwhile they are obese (and most wealthy people find it unattractive and unhealthy), and who knows what kind of mental illnesses they have going on.
I agree with you. All my uncles that happen to be rich, are married to women that come from already rich backgrounds, are extremely successful in their career or come from the same workfield...
Rich people date rich not because of discrimination but because that's their area of circle. Can you see yourself dating a celebrity? First you need to be under their radar and for that to happen you need to be in the area under their vicinity. Second reason why you should date your social class not because of somekind of classism, caste system, but because different levels of people offer things differently. Same reason why a middle class wouldn't date a beggar, rich class won't date a middle class or lower class cause those class under them would expect to solve their financial problems instead of solving it themselves. Rich people want to keep their wealth.
Didn’t realise Billionaires had such low standards.
So true. People that look down apon others regardless of weath, status, or judgement truely are the poorest in the world. Being nice to everyone is gods gift ❤
even if this wasn’t true, she said things that are important even if you’re single and want to remain single. Being kind to everyone, stand up for yourself, not caring only about superficial things, is always a thing that you should do. That’s what matters.
What she says are basic things, a matter of common sense.
Finally an authentic video. This pulled up in my feed as i was looking for classic style inspiration. I am a widow married 30 years to my high school sweetheart.
The key to us was authenticity, communication and acceptance. Kindness is important as it promotes peace and love. We supported one another as we grew,we laughed at our flaws and always held hands. Your heart is a beacon to your true character. If it is open and tender then so will your relationship. If it is one sided ,angry and selfish then so will your relationship. Speak kindly and kindness will chase you! Never linger in the dark always find a solution to whatever life dishes out. I had a beautiful and successful marriage beause of this and more.
Your video was wonderful and thank you for the genle reminders to all of us who seek more meaningful and thoughtful relationships.💞🙏🏻🙂
Men with money can be disproportionately obsessed with it and paranoid about being taking advantage of. Maybe some are generous but they can also be REALLY frugal and expect their wife or girlfriend to be ok with cheating, on their part, not the other way. I’m not saying it’s always like that, but it’s not completely rare. So be your own sugar daddy and see and date people who look for a partner in life not someone that has money.
This is a scam, she just want high end brands promo
lmao that doesn't make it a scam. Thats called a hidden motive. Which is totally allowed.
@CRYPTOGUYRY thanks for your comment!
@@priscilaagui6963 My pleasure. Thank you as well Miss. Good day
The experience of convincing someone to invest and then facing a loss reminds us that failure is often a stepping stone to greater opportunities and growth.
Apart from the naivety in some remarks as to what most of billionaires cherish (it's power and control, and not the humble girls with heart) if you want to be happy in life - stay away from the billionaires and millionaires - there are hardly any happy of them !
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So why are you still single? Were you attracted the wrong billionaires?
You have beauty and they have money, and both of you have what attracts the other. The point is not to be too obnoxious about it.
Hopefully both of you learn to go deeper and experience real love, which is giving unconditionally.
The reality of all love relationships is that they are all transactional, more or less, and there is nothing wrong about that, it is a given-take most of the time in this life, it is just designed this way.
Love relationships should be a way to learn more about ourselves and the other, and how to make our intentions and love more pure.
That is what is really precious, not just expensive things.
Most difficult part of my job working for a wealthy person was managing his girlfriends, never letting them know about the others and he always had at least six.
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Lmao what do you work in ?
Nastya this video just made me mega respect you. Especially about being kind. The wealthier the circle, the nastier the people are. I have met them, and Im still on the bottom, climbing up. Everything you said is accurate
1) if you have to save money then why did you only date billionaires?
2) I don't have to cook or clean either but it's kinda expected, same goes for men and providing specially the ones who have that kind of expectation
3) why are you dating men who are so busy to spend time with you so he can make money but he doesn't even wanna spend on you as a sign of appreciation to your patience?!! Isn't that being unkind yo yourself? Very contradictory!
Wealthy men are not easy to be with! There are normal men out there who are way easier to be with. This world is not black and white, there is a gray too which is normal men with normal income. Nothing wrong with that.
You can only be with a billionaire if you truly love them. If you can take away the status will you still love them?
yes girl, I was thinking also about this: at the end we all are human beings and everything in this life is possible babe. well said!!!
Nice! But let’s start thinking more from the women side. What should men do to win over a woman.
Strong, smart, caring, funny, wealthy, respected, tall, brave.
She makes really good points, but where are the billionaires now in her life? Why didn't she get married with one of them? Could it be that in the end she got pumped and dumped by all those billionaires? And now that she is older she doesn't qualify to be with any of them? What happened???
Probably. They only used her. But maybe she used them too. lol cmon! lol
Yes
Yep exactly. It would be sad but that's what happens
@@missblessedasmr great point!
The only thing I don’t understand is why everyone is looking for a billionaire. Message is wrong. Nothing is given for free. You have to pay everywhere. Dating a billionaire- you will have to pay
the women who advocates for dating millionaires and billionaires and have "dated" them know this but they conceal it they are not gonna say online what they did to get him to "spoil" her like maybe escorting? or something similar you know I mean if that's what they want whatever but some women don't like this and young girls who are listening to them think they can just be flown out to places for free someone needs to explain to them there's no free lunch especially with rich men
@NM68971 Love and the memories I have will never be bought. You cannot buy that.
You most certainly pay with broke & broken ones too
I once dated a very rich guy but the unkind and rude person was himself. So I stopped seing him, sad but real
There are tons of them out there but also magnificent mega-rich men..of course, no need to emphasize they are rare as diamonds and competition is insane around them.
Golddigger
@@michellemdelara9117that has been my observation too. Rich men usually have short attention span, and get easily bored when it comes to dating. He is not going to wait for your personality to shine through, when so many beautiful women are competing for the attention of an eligible billionaire.
True no one likes to be with a conceited jerk
Beauty makes men stare,Behaviour makes them stay
She didn’t stay actually… they are all her exes😂
@@Butterflieslove2 because she has multiple options,those aren’t valuable for her as they are not scarce
These are just advices for a life well-lived full of healthy relationships with others and yourself - no billionnaire necessary:)
She has no idea how men actually think .
And that's why she's still single
I LOVE how you show the product information!!! Thank you! Love this format. GREAT advice too!!! 💖
Do you have any proof you dated billionaires?? And dating and getting married are not the same thing. Sorry but I can't play along
Thank you for your video. It truly resonated with me… five years ago I was diagnosed with chronic anxiety, this “sickness” it destroyed me and I had to build myself from scratch. I still have a long way to go. It was lovely to watch your video, and see I’m on the right path. I’m grateful. 😊
Knowing all of this I wonder why your previous relationships didn't work out
People sometimes don’t match, you know?
@@nastyaswanmind If you're authentic and I'm not saying you are or are not, why don't you do a video letting us know:
How many billionaires have you been with?
How long were you with them?
Why did it not work out?
That would be a great reveal!!! I like what you did in this video but from the comment section you left some of us wanting more.
@nastyaswanmind I'm not coming for you though lmao just genuinely curious, sorry if it came across as rude
@@marcbee1234I think it's important to consider Divine timing and who's actually meant for you
Lots to demystify
Best wishes and good luck to everyone
Finally someone who can summarize the simple truth on this topic in a short video. KUDOS Nastya, also becasue you can talk in clear language and you're able to comme straight to the point. Also... I think, that if we forget for a moment that you are speaking about billionaires, the basic principled might just apply to any relationship where one person is significantly more wealthy than the other person. If I have less and respect what my partner has build, try to be supportive, I love my partner's soul and as a person, then I will put love and connection first and all the rest will naturally be in balance. If I would go ahead thinking of all the stuff 'we' could buy or I want to have now that somehow money is nearby.....eeeuuuuhhhh then things will become earlier or later problematic in my relationship. It is not about rich or not, it is about ... if your aim the other person or do you get hypnotized by what the other person has? People thrive through love and authenticiy always is my experience. If we stick to that, want this first, give this first... we all have a good chance towards a fulfilled life... 💖
I agree when you said our bodies know better than us. The anxiety thing is real. Don’t ignore that ever. Stay aligned to yourself ❤
I think everything you said is applicable to healthy relationship with every person, regardless of their status or wallet. Relationships should be build based on mutual respect, genuine interactions and care (that both genders express in different way). This materialistic approach promoted by social media and “men marry bi*ches” concept is literally killing modern relationships😢 If more people would understood your message we wouldn’t have such a big relationship crisis.
As a guy who married a rich woman, it's surprisingly so different what rich women want compared to the men. I had to put in quite an effort but it's been 4 years now and life is blissful and super fun - vacations, shopping and not a thing to worry about. I wish all of you luck, try marrying rich.
You sound like a golddigger. I hope you married your rich wife because you love her....not because of her money
Do explain…
@@williamwallace410 yes, please!
try marrying rich is terrible advice dude
1. Be honest and stay humble, especially with money.
2. Be kind to everyone you come across.
3. Peace of mind, calmness (creates a peaceful environment)
4. Being intelligent and thirsty for knowledge (want to learn, grow, and have goals)
5. Confidence is key! (Know your boundaries).
**Learn to be a person who will fall in love with you, and the life you're living.
Just be available. For a billionaire, time is the most valuable thing, not money. When he needs you, be there.
She is not at all wrong BUT Let’s go deeper than the superficial money and achievements and unpack profile of men she is discussing.
The manipulation should be obvious in them seeking to groom control and mold a young woman to their preferences. I’m talking from experience. These people are intelligent enough to leverage everything they have plus life experience against you. Being in an engagement like this completely ruined my life and the power dynamic was traumatizing. Cheating is very common when they make it up to a certain caliber and from myself and hearing from others expect controlling behavior as well. You have to be young, look flawless, complete, be classy, deal with competition. In the worst possible case senario you are just there to attune to their needs, serve as an object and as a utility to do their tasks. In my case it took years before that played out. You are walking into their world which they run. Do not listen to these influencers promoting a “soft life” please. They are not even scratching the surface. Watch Breeny Lees video on this. Nothing is free. You will pay for it in one way or another
Is jarring that those behaviours are covered by the the nice stuff
So while you're at it, build yourself a future and get out when you realize that you're with a narcissist. But don't generalize.
Do you have any kids?
This is so accurate! The young girl in the video is delusional and doesn't know her value, exactly how wealthy men like their prey! For me if tangible money is not being offered I have no business putting up with wealthy predatory men!
Theres absolutely no soft life under these men. Also good luck at age 40, when you grow old and these men want someone else. Theres almost no use for men if they can't give you money and you need to somehow "please" them. If thats the case then why even date?
Your single and none of them married you so your an escort
you're*
and you are a sour grape 😂
that's some hater stuff you got right there, sheeesh!
I’m dating a very handsome rich successful man. And I carry all of these qualities. I’ve learned over time being more soft and feminine and always showing him my love. And he loves me just as much.
Same as me
There are people growing up in an unhealthy household but still the most kindest people on earth! It's a choice to be kind to everyone ♡
You work for 40yrs to have $1M in your
retirement, meanwhile some people are putting just $10K in a meme coin from just a few months ago and now they are multimillionaires.
I want to compliment you, you have said it all. I am a little business owner and I really want to expand my business to the next level by making myself an investor but I really don't know how to go about it..
imagine investing in Btcoin earlier.... You could have been a multi millionaire precently
@@dustireller3953 You are right. Been thinking of going into gold and cyptocurrency
Assets that can make you rich
*FX
*Btcoin
*Stocks
*Gold
*Real estate
You’re right but a lot of people remain poor due to ignorance
Ive got all the qualities you mention yet i am invisible to wealthy men because i lack physical beauty and when you are physically not beautiful you won't get noticed and you won't get into the door.
As a dude I would like to think so, but obama has shown otherwise. ☠
@Alex-bl8uh Obama was not wealthy when he met Michelle nor was he at the top of his game. She was actually above him, position wise when he started at the law firm she was at. She helped him build what he has- his family, his career and he probably would not be where he is if it wasn't for her.
That's why become yourself rich (if you want to)
@@Alex-bl8uhobama married his old ex-male friend ☠️ they're different because they new each other for a long time ago
@femfiore yes so that's the lesson. This might be a good strategy ;)
But honestly even when he may have been not so wealthy I just can't understand his choice but whatever🤷♂️^^
1:06 More like "next for them." Loyalty and marriage are the most valuable things, not status and luxury.
Why are women making it like dating a rich guy is equivalent to getting a PhD?? Ladies, never rely on a man for money or status because that man can walk away at any given time and trust me, men with money will have more respect for a woman with a career than some gold digger.
I am dating a girl who looks better than the girl in the video and I straight up told her everything about myself authentically. I have a good job and ambition but I am probably never going to be rich or whatever. I am not looking for a golddigger, I am looking for someone who is sweet and has a good personality. Her personality is great and the fact that she looks cute is a bonus. I carry her emotionally as I have been through a lot, so I know a lot. She is happy to support me, when I need help or understanding. Everybody should date authentically, it makes dating a lot easier and more fun because you'll find someone who cares about you and not your stuff.
She thinks I am prince charming
She did not date "billionaires" there are not enough of them ;) even if she would accept men old enough to be her grandfather . That said, she makes some good points for women dating decent men (forget about being especially wealthy), and I like her point about boundaries 9:48 and how to express them in a firm but gracious manner.
whatever u just said, is correct for any other man. not just billionaires
hey! i love the truth you have said. and it makes me so happy to see theres someone with the same principles i have. it all starts within ourselves! sending you light girl!!
Thank u my girl💗
@@nastyaswanmindVast majority of billionaires are psychopaths & sociopaths!!!
Lol does it? If the goal is to get a billionaire husband then you're just an unpaid actress until you meet him.
You say that these Men don't owe Woman anything, then go off listing everything Woman should do for Men. 😂
yea exactly men shouldnt expect anything from a woman as well whether its doing house works or intimacy
i hate how these women take sides of men which makes the other women suffer
real she's like trying so hard to be picked by old billionaires
@@nanomia some women are just idiots and becuz of them the other women are judged wrongly smh
@@Parakeet-e8v Exactly. A wealthy man wants a woman for her beauty, youth, and xes. So yes you should expect something in return. The problem is that these wealthy men want to only put the moral expectation on the women while he keeps his entitlement, no matter how depraved, towards the woman or women he wants.
Not all, but a lot of these men aren't keeping you around if you don't look good. They expect from you while they expect you not to expect from them because that's wrong.
@@tarag7292 agreed
Girl...Im Brazilian and i found your chanel today...and im so in love with your ideas, some hours and you give so many insights! Thank you, i will stay here :)
Stop lying to women it doesn’t matter men are going to do what they want regardless of advice u give
why aren't you married to a billionaire though?
Ouch!
Exactly 🤷♀️
She might attract attention from older men through sex, but that doesn't automatically qualify her as the woman he envisions marrying. Because what captures a man's attention is not always the same thing that captures his heart.
Bc she was an escort isn't that obvious?
Why should she be married?