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Not your friend, kid, but always your ally!
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- Опубликовано: 15 авг 2024
- This is a sequel to the video "I'm not your friend, kid! Because I love you." • I'm not your friend, k...
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This is so good! Love your examples of how you can be both strict and empowering/loving with kids. I'm a teacher and I can tell within the first week of school which of my student have "friends" raising them, and which ones have real parents who are actually doing their job correctly.
After coming soon to the end of raising four sons (youngest is in his senior year of HS), and now getting to enjoy the blessing of two young grand-kids (we are young grandparents ourselves lol), I could not agree with you more on the advice you've given in these past videos!!! We have also been in ministry for 25+ years, and I can't count how many times I've had to tell fellow youth ministers over the years this same advice -- we are not their friend, we are their pastors. Thanks for articulating all of this in a fun, yet clear way!
You are a comedic genius and, obviously, a mastermind parent! You had me laughing, but, also rethinking my prenting strategy in a friendly, non-confrontational way. Thank you for these videos! Hilarious as well as enlightening.
"How old is your child? An hour?!" 😂😂😂I love her!!
Dear God, you have such a gift for articulating and explaining parenting wisdom in a very clear, engaging way. Keep 'em coming!
I once made this point on social media in response to a post that read, I and my daughter are best friends (father posted). He appeared to be in his 30's and she about 12 yo. Immediately I thought, why don't you have friends your own age? I understand love them, like them and enjoy them but best friends? Needless to say the father lashed out in anger and explained how well adjusted everyone was and suggested I should mind my business. I wasn't surprised or offended by his response mostly because I don't have the tact and easy going personality you have.. ....Excellent video, thanks.
A, you are hilarious. B, you are correct. C, I LOVE YOUR HOODIE!!! Where did you get it!? D, can't wait for more videos!
A. Thank you. B. Thank you. C. Modcloth.com D. Thank you. :)
I'm not a parent, and I'm not completely sure I will ever be one, but your videos are awesome. Subscribed. If I ever find myself in a situation where parenting advice will be relevant, I know where to go.
A wine milkshake will ALWAYS be relevant.
Love this, thanks for your direct approach. "If parenting isn't hard then you're doing it wrong" lol btw your hair is amazing in this video
You are a wise woman, Kristina. Bravo!
Your such an inspiration! I'm young parent of two and I'm constantly being told by other parents and my friends that I'm "two hard" on my older child, she's almost two and that I should be more of her "friend". It's not about friendship it's about love and respect. And theirs no age to start that your suppose to stay consistent throughout their life! Keep making these videos. I watch them on the days I feel like giving up like honestly
A REAL mother and parent ! Thank you for making these videos . I saw a piece about your videos on Yahoo so hopefully more people will see it .
I don't even have kids because I know the struggles all too well and you my friend, are hilarious and right on point! I love you!
Everything about this is YES.
Except - I couldn't help but think about all the possible desperate emergency situations that would need me to literally wipe my friends' butts. That's going to stick with me for a while.
I can not get enough! Yes ma'am!! It's like u live inside my head! I currently have teenagers... they know I got their back but also know they have responsibilities to the family. Thank you for showing people reason!!!💖💖💖
This is going to sound really messed up but I got validation as a parent when my 18 year old son and I had a massive blow out, like I mean he had his fist clenched at me so I put him against the wall and held him there till he calmed down, blow out. At the end of it, he grabbed me and hugged me so hard and told me he loved me. When he was little and in to his teen years (before it became uncool to hug his mom) after every time out or other parenting moment we always hugged it out so he knew I had his back and would love him no matter what.
You're amazing and your hair is always amazingly curled
I love your videos! finally someone that makes sense "to me" and is funny at the same time. thank you!
Your youtube channel is like a class for parents. I'm not kidding when i tell you that every time I watch a parenting video of yours, I think: Okay, this is going to help me be a better mom. THANK YOU!
I like your style of being a mom
You are a breath of fresh air in this crazy world, thanks for posting this you are so right
You should write a book. Or speak at parenting conferences. You have a very entertaining way of delivering some serious truth.
Good idea, Springfield!
Welp, check and check! At least four years later...
I need for you to post videos every day ! Thank you 😊
I'm guessing the two people who gave this a thumbs-down are 10-year-olds. (?)
You mean 6...
Yeah I’m 10
Yes! I am so glad I found your videos. I love this! Thank you for posting videos like this. I needed to watch this today.
I had this moment the other day. baby teething, two eldest (12and5) arguing over everything and hubby working late. I am hiding in the kitchen with tooth ache and my son tells me " you are the best mother ever, we push your buttons and you love us. you are the best mother ever cause when you want to beat us you dont" our families number one rule is no smacking. we have never smacked and I needed that at that moment. so I put the wine back in the fridge and made them dinner.
If I wasn't married, I'd marry you in a heart beat. As a teacher who works with kiddos who have emotional and behavior disabilities every parent needs to hear this and take this to heart.
I love you! Your so real and incredibly funny.
Kristina you're definitely onto something! Finally a content creator with ... well content. Keep up the great work!
Kristina! Just stumbled onto your channel. You're rad! Thank you for understanding and spreading the word on the difference between empowering children vs letting them do whatever they want. Awesome!!!
Found your channel last night through a Facebook post, and I just want to say that I want to emulate your style of parenting as my 4 month old grows older. You're awesome! Thanks so much for posting videos like this!
same!!
me too!!
as a first time mom, I value your advice so much. thank you and keep the videos coming!!
My mum was always my parent until I reached about 18, then she became my best friend and she does confined things in me and vise versa, we are very close However I do agree that whilst they're growing, learning and finding their feet you can't be friends but an ally x
The follow-through process is essential. That's the technique used by Cesar Millan, the Dog Whisperer.
Loved your first vid and love this sequel! You're honestly amazing and are so right! I'm annum who clogs and have 6 kids, 3 girls (twins who are 13 and a 2 year old) and three boys aged 8,6,4- you are spot on ! Love to you! Giving kids what they want when they want it just sets them up for falls later on in life when things don't go their way xxx
That was ment to say- I'm a mum who vlogs!
As a single FULL TIME mom I get ya sister and I agree with you 150%! You rock and love your character!
I don't have a kid myself, but I am definitely showing your videos to my brother and sister in law who are newly parents! Keep up the good work!
I LOVE THIS WOMAN'S DIRECTIVE....
You articulate these intricacies of child-raising so well! Totally stole the "You are bbq sauce!" thing from your son and use it with the kids I work with. :-) Thanks for posting!
you're so amazing thank you for being an inspirational parent you are so great thank you for sharing
I wish she cud b my best friend!
OK so I'm not a parent, but wow your advices are brilliant and exactly what I was telling my mother when I was babysitting my siblings when I was younger. I'm def keeping your advices for the future!
I totally love you!!!!
This is perfect. You are wonderful. :)
this is meant as a huge compliment....you look like Sandra Bullock and Hallow Berrys love child....you are so pretty...
hallie* stupid phone
You're amazing ! Bless you
Parenting 101 for real!.... 🔼⬆⏫
You are so right. You are one of the only really good , healthy mothers left out there. Do you educate your children by your instinct or did you read also some books? I think you are fantastic!
Please please input Caption. Thank you. Have an awesome day. 😊
i love your videos
Big applause! I couldn't agree more, I just hope I'll be able to do it when I'm in the situation! :)
i totally agree,,,you're great!! love your video
Can I love you and laugh and not be a mom? Yes, yes I can. Can I enjoy and understand while still being single? Yes, yes I can. I've been around too many people who have completely given into their kids, abdicated parenthood... they can't even control their dogs! I on the otherhand have an adorable four legged dog who every one marvels at, even the trainers at Petsmart and Petco... why? SPENDING TIME TEACHING THEM TO DO THE RIGHT THING. BTW - I'm a screenwriter and we should talk! ;-)
Old wine in new pipes! But I like Your performance :-) Thanks also for inspiring moments!
oh that's so great! more videos about how to reach this consequensce (when a child feels that way and also says(!) that& wow). That's so amazing!))
and i also wish to feel the same way with myself
Hello from Greece. Oh my God ...so hard indeed!!!! I agree with you ....kee up the good work.....
hahahah I fricken LOVE YOU!!!!!!
Watching this video all I hear are the exact same words my mom told me as I grew up. I was always annoyed and thought her words and actions were unfair. But now I can say I'm a well adjusted adult soon to have my own family and see how right her words are. Your video put a smile on my face. Hope more parents watch this and take notes!
love this! ahhh so glad I found you :)
I have a request for you if your still reading the mags in this video I would really like to see a video over of your thoughts on how to be a parent to a kid that's had a rough life from parents that weren't there for them being adopted by loving parents IMO you would have to be friends at the beginning but I just wanted to know your thoughts
Thank you. I needed to see and hear this. Signed, Your New Fan!
Im so glad that Im not the only one! it seems some times that this view of parentig is lost
I feel prepared to be a fun parent to my children without being harsh or controlling,,,thankyou Kristina #kenyanlove
YEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSThank you!
Do you have bloopers? That'll be fun to watch.
Hard for a female, but I, a man, just did what a father does that females often times care not to do. Our current society is indicative of the fact that women, the primary care givers, are getting it all wrong in multiples.
Well said...Brava!
Love it!
truth! I could go for a wine milkshake right now...lol
I've been with my fiancee for 3 years going on 4 and I have to agree with you I wasn't a parent before I really got to know who I now call my daughter because getting involved with my beautiful soon to be wife that at the time had a 9 yr old I had to be her friend first that way me and my Lil girl could learn each others ways after a certain amount of time she started seeing me more as a parent and less as a friend so I guess what I'm trying to say is it depends on the circumstances of the parent
you are amazzzzzzzzzinnnnnngggggggg
I have a question 4u Kristina. How is it that you have figured it out when other women as well as men have NEVER E V E R figured it out????
You go girl!!!! Are we related?
I love you!
I wish my mom was like this. I constantly doubt that she loves me and accepts me.
Bravo!
I'll be good for my mum because it's hard!
hilarious! loveee haha
I love your channel. Connected with you immediately.
The 22 dislikes are most likely from kids
Ally?? I think you mean Allied
Ally (noun)- al-ahy - a person or group that gives help to another person or group; supporter
(Source: Merriam-Webster's Learner's Dictionary)
i'M MY CHILD'S MOM AND TEACHER!
in spanish pleaseeeeeee
Funny. Very hot.
I'm sure I would yell at me a lot though