What Made Him Bad In Bed? | ShxtsnGigs Podcast
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What Made Him Bad In Bed?
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If we’re past foreplay and head and just going for the nut, 7-10 mins is fine. We also get bored if you long it out. Having multiple rounds is better than a prolonged bang sesh.
Absolutely 😊
Completely agree
Exactly!!
Yep
Multiple Rounds is the Motive
I’m glad women are being honest about this. The worst thing is when you’re really feeling a guy and think the chemistry is great, only to find yourself laid up under struggle strokes. One dude I used to date would shake so violently when he climaxed I thought he was having a seizure.
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😂 “struggle strokes” 🤦🏽♀️ 😂😂😂
This comment is wild 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
☠️💅🏻
After 12 mins reality has already set back in and I’m mentally scanning my refrigerator to see what I forgot at Trader Joe’s
😅😅 so true
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Yes! SAME!
Yes girl 😂
Anything over 20 minutes we are sitting there thinking what’s wrong with me and why can’t I make him get off😂
I am dying 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I know!!!!! 😂
Nbs lmaooo 🤣🤣🤣
Sometimes we just need to flip a switch tbh like if we don't want to and are enjoying it we won't get off so honestly I'd take that as a compliment
Exactly be having thinking on others things other than sex
"No wonder women are sick of us"
😂😂😂
Poor upper body strength is genuinely hilarious 😆
when it's your man it's not 😂😂
Even 13yo me would be laughing. ☠️
@@Alicia_j Get the women to do the work, let's see them struggle. 😂😂
That took me out I was laughing and coughing gasping for air 😂😂
@@jonathanxavier2026Good thing women have superior lower body strength
"You're too coherent, I don't like it" 🤣🤣🤣
“Opened his eyes while kissing”… how did you know?
fax 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Bars 😂
Reminds me of Bruno Mars song. I said exactly thing, your eyes was open too.
The First Lady didn’t hold back no sugarcoating at all 🤣🤣🤣
Poor upper body strength 😭😭
For a minute I was waiting for Mitchell to come in with a fire roast about Obama lol. 😅
She must have been writing down every man dems fuck up
@@petzpastelpalace bruh im dead at ur comment lmao
In a relationship, months in, that 20+ mins is if I’ve got a drink in me and it’s the weekend. 10 mins is more than enough to execute the mission.
30-40 min strong.
Thank you! These folks kill me with all this "marathon every night type" nonsense. On & on until the break the dawn ... man that's in a song, I gotta work tomorrow.
Yesss
@@aaz.4040 20
@@YellowPaint100 I'm LITERALLY laughing out loud!!! This was HILARIOUS!!
“Let me find my cadence” is top tier jokes 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“1v1 of anything for 20 mins” I’m screaming, he is a walking intrusive thought 😂😂😂😂
It's really not about the time ... We just want to make it to the finish line 😂
Yea same for me too!! If you can make me finish more than once during the sesh than that’s even better
BIG FACTS!!!!
Amen to you 🙌 totally agree
FACTS!
FACTS!!!
anything after 20 minutes is madness and James is right, it gets boring
Yep, things start chafing down there. 😂
We going for 33mins
when the pum pum turnt up, you can forget it's been an hour already sometimes 🫣😩😭
We been going like 2hours at some point 💀 but 30 minutes minimal
It's awwwwful you have to start to fake 🤥
I agree with James. 20 minutes is TEWWW much! 😩😂 I’m tired and bored at 15 and want you to finish quickly before you see it on my face. The acting ends dead at 20mins, I can no longer fake the excitement 🤣
Took me 27 years to learn that the screaming is the fake part, and the quiet moans are the real part. 🤦🏾
Y’all love y’all’s performances. 😂
I need a sweatshirt that says, “that’s jokes” 🤣
The perpetrator is frozen in bed, watching this episode thinking
"At least I'm not that bad. "
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
100%
Iwe jemimah 🤣🤣 dead ass!
Dead ..lmfao
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Fuhad's been so much happier since he quit his job, it actually brings the pod up to 11/10
Right dude! I’m super happy for him❤
what did he do before?
@isa dakosta I think he worked in hospitality, a manager in a club/ restaurant, or something like that
heart goes out to him ❤love seeing his joy 😊
This is crazy cuz I've been married for 11 years, and our quickie is 20 mins 😩😂 i showed the responses to my husband and he was just as flabbergasted as i was... our average is like 40 mins to an hour (not counting foreplay).
Same. 45-1 hour is standard.
2.5 longer 5-7 hour all nighter.
A quickie is anything 2-20 minutes
How?
Naaayymmsaayynn!! 😂😂😂😂 I was LOOKING for this comment 🥹😂 if my husbands MINIMUM ain’t a cool 45 mins ION WANT HIM, it’s supposed to be a whole experienceeee what y’all meaannnn MINUTES?! 😂😂😭😭😭
Your guy has no feeling in his piece
When I thought this I just thought something was wrong with me and I have too much energy and expect too much 😂😂😂😂😂😂 But lemme wait when I get older.. I’ll see how it feels then.. The reason I look at it like that long is because time flies when you’re having fun 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Freaking lost it at "yeah let me count my cadence" lmfaoooo 😆😂😂
If she's too coherent that's more of a reason to listen to what she's saying. You ain't doing it right fam.
James is spot on! After 15-20mins, I’m like we got work in the morning, kid(s), etc I’m making my to do list in my head and wanting sleep. Now after I get some sleep, if you wake me back up it’s game on 😂
With me it’s diffrent lol if u start in time I’m fine but if it’s too late this is def me lol, however when I’m sleeping, let me sleep!! Lol 😅
Exactly this. Plus I don’t care how good you think you are, I don’t want my cervix smashed for anything longer than 15. It can turn a good session to a bad one real fast.
@@JustMe-vs1kjno
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😭😂 the neck grip & shaking
Poor uper body strength Sent me to the GULAG!🤣
The gulag????? LMBOOO - your imagination is top tier
THE GULAG 😂
Gulag ykno 🤣
And I'm out here capable of holding them up hahahaha
😂
I think going for rounds is the best. Taking little breaks in between so the guy can catch their breath, do what they need to do, reload for the second or 3rd round. But a round (to me) should not last more than 20 mins because then I just start focusing on the tv 😂
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Lol exactly.
Then I tap him on the shoulder and say thank you 😭😭😭
Exactly rounds. But I’ve literally smashed for an hour before and not one time did we get bored. We were both goddamn sore after tho 😅😂❤
Right!
Not the drink in the belly, lol.
James kills me
these are actually killing me idk how we as women deal with all this without breaking out in laughter
My guy said “ You too coherent and I don’t like that .” 😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯
Okay Bill Cosby 😂
@@dreamgirlspirituality1807 TED BUNDY 😂😂
❤❤❤ I feel this on so many levels. Vanilla people wouldn't understand.
It's actually so good and refreshing to see man speak about oral sex so openly. From school days and within the black community its defo a very hush, unspoken about topic which is dead cos we all adults and its a big part of sex for a lot of people 💯 👏🏾
Maybe black American community but in the Caribbean sex talk in all it's forms is normal
Normalize the lip service, and all servicing of all lips.
my body count is in the double digits, and my fiance is BY FAR the best I've ever had when it comes to foreplay!!!
he has literally made me climax 6 times in one session.
😊😊😊😊😊
and also the only man I have EVER felt comfortable talking about sex with.
but we're also extremely open and honest about our thoughts, flaws, and opinions, whereas most people would judge us.
yeah we're not like most people!!!
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@@alanaterrel9914 I'm in the UK not America so I don't know about over there (although they seem to talk about oral sex more than the UK) and I would also say the Caribbean community I know in England... And back home don't speak about eating out a woman, a woman giving man head yes but a man going down in a woman no, it's still seen as a taboo ting. From my observations anyways 🤷🏾♀️
I’ve literally just found these guys, and mans on the right looks like Drake every time he throws back his head and laughs 🤣 anyway, love the genuine laughter ! Love the content ! Kudos
“You’re too coherent.” Hahaha brilliant
When your young you swore that the 15mins was an hour. Now your all grown and know what time really looks like 🤣
Lmao, facts
Exactly! It’s always been around 15-20 minutes…we just never noticed until we got older.
Facts. That what people need to look at
Can’t say I relate 💀 guess I’ve been lucky
Can’t say I relate either… longest I ever had sex for was 14 hours… yea, I took time stamps while looking over at the clock periodically. I also ate Cheezits and drank a coke… mid act… these days I’m lucky if sex only last 30 minutes. One time I had this girl suck me off for an hour to no avail. She was AMAZING at it. Just didn’t happen. Idk. Maybe I’ve got nerve damage or something but I wasn’t always like this, once upon a time, a little over a decade ago when I lost my virginity, I only lasted maybe 5 minutes… ☠️
Leaning on the breasts had me weakkkkk out the gate 😂😂😂😂
“Lean on me, when you’re not strong…” 🎶 😂
@@reesejohnson2788😂😂😂
20 minutes?! My head is blown right now because apparently I have been accustomed to waaaayyy longer than 20 minutes and the standard session length for me is at least a couple of hours. I've been encountering these "10-20 minute" people as of lately and i'm always left deeply unsatisfied.
Deluuuuusssuional 😂😂😂😂😂 u guys delivery at the end had me rolling
I died when he said “Let me find my cadence”😂
Followed by sticking the tongue out to the side, counting loud and concentrating really hard. 😂❤️
DIED I tell you 🤣
James is hilarious
Yes!😂😂😂
Rightttt lol
I think that 20 mins max is fine! I get bored and tired as well after that. I’ll be thinking “For goodness sake, just finish already!! I’ve done all I can do to help!!” However, I love 7-10 min sessions so we can both go multiple rounds!!
What about ur satisfaction? Do you just care about his ?
@@james9468 Yeah, obviously! 🙄 But, if I’ve done all that I can to help him get there and he still hasn’t, then it’s ok. We can take a break and try again later. Plus, this comment is old. Why are you replying just now?
Not everyone watches the vid when it comes out.
I doubt he saw ur comment, waited a couple months, them came back just to reply to ur comment.
@@rogueknight5984 I know, but I felt like he was asking me that coming from like I didn’t care about my man and his satisfaction.
@Kaleigh Almond I get that and I also think that was his intention, I'm only referring to the last part.
“When it’s bed time… I’m tired” BAHAHA I FEEL THAT😂😂😂😂😂
This is one of my favorites for sure!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I died 🤦🏻♀️🤣🤣
Me and my boyfriend have 5-10 minute nights and we also have 2-3 hour nights. 5-10 minutes is when we're tired and want to please each other before we sleep. 2-3 hours is when we have more time to be alone and really do what we want however we want.
2-3 is still crazy to me lol but I get where you’re coming from. Those longer times for me mean for intimate time and not just a quickie
@@jacmar16I feel like 2-3 is not that long when you are doing foreplay and the general build up to the sex part of the night
@@jacmar16 how can it be long and a quickie at the same time…
@@Uunidentifiedd what are you talking about?
I always assume that when people say 2-3 hrs they mean rounds… cuz the only time Ive had sex for that length of time was rounds, and in between we are conversing, putting something on the tv or enjoying each others company, till we get going again.
Im I off on that?
I remember my ex drank some dumb tonic drink when we was at uni. That's my leg was cramping and everything. This dude wouldn't give up until he was going to nut. This dude was dripping of sweat and not give up. Then he took out a asthma pump. I didn't know he even had asthma, if he passed out or his heavy ass collapse on me. I still take the piss out that situation 17yrs later.😂
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Not him taking out an asthma pump🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
Natalie, what the actual fuck! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is funny. FML😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
thats borderline rape
Hollering at "Let me get my cadence!" 😂
I remember having to lie to my ex and tell him I wasn’t into oral sex because he didn’t know what he was doing, it was so frustrating that was the only way I could get him to quit trying
My ex literally placed an open mouth on the bone part and moved his head around. I was so frustrated 😂 gtfome
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@@nicolelollipops8268Wait 😮😂😂😂
so you didnt give him feedback or maybe comunictaed your preferences ? youre just as bad as a partner as he was... thats really on you
So why didn't you just tell him what to do? That's the point of being vulnerable with your partner in the first place lol
8-10 mins is good timing… I’ve done had some bomb ass 3-4 min sessions/ quickies it depends on chemistry, comfortability, and the type of relationship it is honestly
Love me a good 3 minutes to start lol… then the second round it’s going to that 10 minutes or more !
Thought bashing the cervix was the height of eroticism (it wasn't), and he didn't listen when I tried to gently point out that "Ow!" is not a sign things are going well.
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Lmao 😁 🤣 😁
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😬 as young men, especially black communities before we even start fucking the music and our peers teach us to "beat it up" it's only when we mature and have some real conversations with females that we learn that is not the case.
As a happily married man, and years of learning each other, quality over quantity is always best. It's all about getting her there for me, and if done right, doesn't need to be a long time.
I APPLAUD THE WHOLE GIVING HEAD BIT BECAUSE YES IT IS STANDARD ❗️
the cadence bit had me dying lmfao
7-10 minutes is definitely the best. Because instead of one LONG boring ass sesh, you can do multiple fun ones🤷♀️
Does the 7-10 mins include foreplay?
But what if he just *can‘t* finish that quick?
@@keithmurray3827no that's foreplay and stuff. 7-10 minutes includes the actual intercourse and all its positions that you enjoy
@@keithmurray3827 I personally wouldn't count the foreplay into it but also the penetration part of sex doesn't have to be rushed. Its genuinely okay if guys cant last that long as its not something they can help but there's other ways to extend the session for both yours and hers pleasure. I cant speak for all women but myself and other women I know are used to men who wont even kiss us after we give them head, so the biggest pleasant surprise is if they pull out mid stroke to go down on us ladies. To me personally it shows a level of maturity and confidence which ofc are attractive traits. Good way to keep the motions going while also giving yourself some extra time
From past experience, 15-20ish? Over 30 doesn't feel like he has stamina, it just feels like he's not into you
I mean, you could take over to give him chance to rest as I imagine most people would be getting tired after 30minutes of doing all the work and I imagine getting tired would also delay the pleasure for someone.
If you wake me up I need you to hurry up so I can get some more sleep lol 5-10 mins is fine but if any longer I need water breaks 😂
Then don't have sex with that person. Why are u having sex with someone ur not into????
@@eprahs1 Again? Or in general? She only know when he lasted 30+ minutes
@@meepmeep3308 in general. That's a waste of time
It's when you have both reached the end, whoever finishes last is when your done but if your changing positions and slowing down when you need to to keep it going longer that works well.
The moment James stared clapping his hands, I started dying!
5-10 minutes (not including foreplay) is cool for me...bc I get bored too 😂
That’s what I was going to say
Same here
100% …more than 10 mins. I’m fed up. As long as I’ve come at least once.
I guess I need just a little bit more than 5 to feel satisfied.
I’d rather 1 satisfying round where I’m left exhausted after rather than multiple rounds where I may/may not finish 🤷🏻♀️ a good 25 mins, cuddles & fall asleep
Facts. I'd say foreplay for the first 20 minutes, then smash for a hour.
If it’s a long session, you weren’t really ready for sex.
Well too bad because most men don’t last anywhere near that long
That's what I was thinking. In 7 mins there's no way I'd be having an orgasm...
8-15 minutes is good as long as we both have a good time 😂
The head conversation triggered me 😂
10/12 mins is about right, if I've finished during foreplay then find your 4 min cadence baby it's a home run 🤣
i also have no clue how can men change like this right away . he was always the best for me in bed but now he's definitely getting worse . luckily i bought natural aphrodisiacs spanish fly for him and yeah great results
thx for this, really. it's a bit of true that we are getting worse in bed and i was looking for something for years and this spanish is really world for me.
"You're too coherent, I don't like it." I LOLed. Talkin bout don't talk too much during sex.
I literally spit on the intro 😂 I love this show. It’s stupid!! Lol
That first dude, if he ever finds out about that he's jumping of a bridge.... 😂
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Bruh,he knows. He was there 😂
As a lesbian listening to this my thoughts & prayers go out to all heterosexual women out there 🙏 🤣
😂 thank you we need it
I was looking for thisssss. They are saying 20 mins but im like yall dont got 4 2 hours????
This is why I cannot be a lesbian. No way you all over me for more than 45mins total. The constant touch would annoy the hell out of me.
Please continue praying for us 🤣🤣😑😑
Sooooo all the pressure is on men? Why wouldn’t u as a woman just get on top?lol oh yeah that’s WORK lol and I could throw prayers up for all men who aren’t being wanked by men due to women on women knowing how to please the SAME SEX!! You don’t even count and your prayers are in vain😂😂
Aye tryna find the “Claps per minute” is wild
Lady here....I love you guys and I almost fell off my chair when he was like, "Let me find my cadence"
It`s a broad range for me. Anywhere from around 15 - 30 mins is a good amount of time. Gotta consider the fact that you might spend anywhere from 5 - 7 mins in a position & if both parties are participating in waist activities, sometimes it's so good that you don't notice that 15 mins has passed
Word!!!
"Poor upper body strength" 🤣😭💀
That took me out 😂😂
The last guy i was with lasted for a whole hour and i wasn’t bored but i was tired and lightheaded and honestly just wanted to go home 😭💀
Fuhad’s “slow and deep” stirred me 😅
It’s so interesting listening to discussions about sex between two men. I’m so used to the female point of view. Entertaining and informative!
Im with James. If we're having just actual sex from start to stop, 7-10 minutes is fine. We get bored AF too lol
I don't, if it's good it's good😅
@@girafficationzone9521 yes who is getting bored of sex with a nice body, or a body of a woman you love?
These guys are my new favorite pastime 😂
7:35 10 mins with good aim you're a beast... Too good
This one time, about 35/40 minutes into shagging, he asked me if I was enjoying myself and I replied I stopped enjoying myself twenty minutes ago. He didn't believe me and thought I was joking. "No seriously I can't feel my legs, nor my vagina anymore, I feel like a trampoline!". He still thought I was joking. In the end I was begging him to finally finish. It was horrible.
I am wheezing, are you for real!?
Exactly!!!!!!!
@@tuneabd5781 unfortunately yes I am. That's why size doesn't matter. In my opinion it's all about the same wavelength and the right connection.
@@natashadaniels2562 I guess you had similar experiences. I'm sorry for that.
Why did you allow that to happen to you?
Let me find my cadence absolutely finished me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“23…ED…and was delusional about it” took me out! 😂
A smooth 7 minutes is ideal. Im early 30s, im tired....lets have a good fun time but we gotta get up for work in the morning.
Comparing how long 20 mins feels vs other activities is something I did ALL THE TIME before I was diagnosed with ADHD. Once I was medicated, I understood time for the first time in my life. It is so worth seeking a diagnosis … you don’t know until you know.
What meds do u use? I’m going in for a formal diagnosis soon. My informal one showed I’m highly likely. Also, did u find urself being more productive? Procrastinating less?
@@ms.hjohnson6820 everyone is different. They key is to find the right kind and dose. I started with Vyvance, but I didn’t like the way I felt when it wore off. Mydayis was great, but new insurance won’t cover. So, now I take extended release Adderall which works pretty well. I noticed a difference in my productivity immediately. When I was diagnosed, I decided to give meds a two week trial. Once I was on them and realized what I had been contending with, I never stopped taking meds
This is facts! I take Adderall myself for ADHD now. I remember when I first started taking it and it would take me 3 hours to complete my homework. After Adderall it took me 45 minutes at most. I was so mad because I didn't get diagnosed until it was 27! I graduated college with a 4.0. 🥲
@@indiashante1560 I was diagnosed at 42 and was a teacher married to a special ed teacher. I hope that makes you feel better. Lol
@@indiashante1560 CONGRATS!!
I enjoy realistic takes on sex...thank you gentlemen.
No way yall givin every bihh head 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that was the best sarcasm ive heard in my life 3:56
Can't lie I'm glad to see that people are having these conversations now. I remember back at school, old friends would talk about head etc and some would say they'd never...
I hope to god they were lying
thats their boundary and thats ok
@@marvin2678 I guess, but those same guys would call girls uptight for not giving head
I just found this channel and I love it, these guys leave me laughing for a good 10 mins after I've watched the whole video. I subscribed after I watched them the first time.
In a happy relationship, 5-10 minutes each time, but multiple times throughout the week. Anything longer and I get bored. The occasional lazy Sunday is when I might want to go longer than 20 minutes and/or multiple rounds in a day.
You 10-15 minutes before my legs start to hurt 😂
I would say that I don't think that much about time, its the quality i care about mostly. So everything goes as long as it's not too long. Rather have 5 amazing minutes than 30 boring ones. As long as we are both in to it and having fun :)))
My last relationship, the whole process was an hour at least for us, eye gazing too. I guess the connection made it last like that
Hopefully your new man doesn’t see you openly missing your ex on RUclips comments
@@michaeljara7156 what if she’s single now? 😂
Last relationship...not current relationship?🤣🤣🤣
@@jessicamoore9398 and your point
@@micah7817 😂😂😂😂
Cracking up as soon as James said “I compare it to other stuff” 😂 so funny guys! This Patreon shizz is juicy ❤️
She gave the formula for how to calculate the time needed. Foreplay and girth matter the most, then overall affection and at least muttering that the experience is special. The right amount of any combination of those and 10mins is obviously good and could even be less if the top two are prioritized.
8:00am, Monday morning and this came up in my time line...bye, let me go work
8-12 mins. I prefer rounds too.
Y'all are hilarious, I just found you. New subbie💁🏾♀️
10-15 minutes is fine. Anything longer than 20 minutes I feel like they’re not attracted to me. I prefer multiple short rounds then a drawn out session
after the first round, every other round just doesn't feel nice,
@@urstube6901 for men or women?
@@individualwoman8427 I'm speaking for myself as a man
4:42 This was a shank, stab, shank, stab, then twist kind of comment 🤣🤣
I'm laughing so hard. Like I know how to play soccer ⚽️ 😂😂
"Let me find my cadence" FLOORED ME!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Time wise: to me personally is quality over quantity.
I've had like 5-10 min sessions where I've came like 5 times and that shit got me smiling the whole next day.
And I've had like 30 mins sessions where it was less than memorable ...so honestly it depends.
Any longer than 20 mins and I'd feel like planning dinner for tomorrow in my head ❤
I love this channel I’m glade they pop up on my yt
I don't think there is a right or wrong amount of time for sex. I think you can't discount foreplay or stopping to switch to things other than intercourse because sex should be an experience and be based on what each of you is feeling good doing in that moment. I've had sex that was great that lasted 5 minutes because the build up was awesome or it was a cheeky quick one, and I've had sex that was great that lasted an hour because we switched and swapped and did other things and both came more than once. There is no 'right' length of time, it is all about the moment and bringing pleasure to one another.
The last guy I was with only cared about making me ! At least 3 times…. An hour later I’m telling him I’m tired he’s saying one more time… no lie I nearly fell asleep 😂😂
Did this recently but to be fair she’s older than me and had been talking mad the day before. 4 climaxes later and we both fell asleep. We talked last week and she admitted she almost fell asleep but I kept her active.
“ You are too coherent and I don’t like it “ 😂😂😂😂😂
“Let me find my cadence” 😂😂😂