This Is A Safe Space! - Men Sharing Hilarious Heartbreak Stories | ShxtsnGigs Podcast
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This Is A Safe Space - Men Sharing Hilarious Heartbreak Stories
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"my boss sent me home cause a tear dropped in the soup" 😂😂
Gold! 😂
sadness soup!
Lool the soup is marinated in sadness 😂
Tear drop soup.
Its a sad soup 😂
If u never felt heartbroken, you've never experienced the full potential of r&b music.
😂😂 fax
Shit i aint trying to either
Real talk 😂
Not the Kelly picture 🤣
This one right here
My man that got sent home for crying in the soup made me almost fall out my damn chair😂😂😂😂 chin up buttercup 😂
Right 😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🥴🤣🤣🤣
Buttercup lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She said let it go like a disney princess. I'm deceased💀💀💀✌🏿✌🏿
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I didn’t realize I was in love with this girl till she broke up with me, over miscommunication tbh, and wouldn’t hear me out. I didn’t just cry, I completely shut down. Would randomly think of her for years. Then one day we met again and started talking as friends, then hung out and the flames immediately flames and we kissed and started dating again. Now we’re married 4 years and barely argue bc we both worked on communication, honesty, and improving with compromise.
Nice story.
So she broke up with you fucked a bunch of other men and came back because you're a nice guy 😂😭
@@gurayyildiz475 jezoise 😂
@@fromabove422 tell me I'm wrong 😂
This is so beautiful 😍 so happy it worked out
I cried in Ikea after a breakup. Lol I was helping my best friend shop for a bedroom set with her husband. I set down on a mattress to test it and just broke down lol
Wow hope you are feeling better now, courage !!!
Whew, that's rough. Someone said "marriage" in a conversation and I almost lost it after a breakup. Hope all is well now.
I am all good now. My friends just happened to be in town right after it happened. Like 3 hours after it happened. They were trying to get my mind off of it. This was about 5 years ago so I am alot better.
😢
Is it safe to laugh about it now? When I was going through a breakup and crying uncontrollably, I stopped and laughed at how ridiculous it was. It took a while to come out of the sad period of time though. Happy you’re doing better! ❤
The gas lighting by his mates is a double hit. Trust issues forever after that one
Damn
Facts
Fr
He needs straight therapy, I have never heard anything so horrid in my life!
That one was really sick
The dude with the girlfriend that had sex with ALL his friends....
How did he find that many "ain't shit" people at one time? Normally, a person has one or two dirt bags in their midst at a time. But somehow this poor guy gathered a lifetime's worth of buttholes into one situation. He needs some discernment and fast.
#BlessHisHeart 💔💔💔💔
I think he was just a nice guy they saw that and took advantage of him. Awful what they did but they sounds like the type of folks to not give a damn.
As they say "love is blind" lol. He knew, had a gut feeling, he was told about it before, he saw her behaviour with him and he still stayed with her. He was so desperate that he ignored the red flags before. That's how. The nice guy syndrome.
@@TheMediaMachine "Love is blind" lol It doesn't help when your mates tell lies to your face and gaslight you just to get your girl behind your back, does it? Friendship is blind too.
Dude is an asshole collector
@@Flesh_Wizard
150% truth!
🤯🤯🤯🤯
“i was down bad but it was all lies” james 😂😂😂
It wasn’t real….🤔
Infatuation
Don't worry I believe your the tooth fairy. 😆👼
Felt that 😂
Guilty 😂
Man the friends gaslighting him was soo fricking sad. God I hope the dude is with better people now. Yikes, people suck sometimes.
Na you attract what you are. He probably deserves it
The “let me read it again, James…because it baffled me, too” SENT me!!😂😂
What kind of stroke leaves you on the floor crying?. I can't breathe. These stories are outrageous but James and Fuhad's laughter is so freaking contagious.😭😭😭. I take it back the bow wow story had me on the floor.
This Era of dating is legit disgusting. There's men n women cheating on their partners that starts the whole cycle of them becoming heartless n end up doing it to the next smh 🤦
Well said.
Let the games begin 😂
People been cheating tho….I’ve heard stories of peoples grandmas and grandpas
How cute you think it's new
This era?!? This has been going on for forever! It’s just that we have the internet now to share stories and out people. 😩🤷🏽♀️
This break up stories is what we call in Kenya... " character development" experience.
😂😂😂😂
Lol
🤣🤣🤣
😂 😂 😂 😂
Yani tumejaa kila mahali
Making a dude pass out between sets at the gym… ruthless. You know how hard it is to find a good gym and she just ruined that place for em
I just read this as they got to this one 🤣🤣
😭😭😭
say word😂
Completely destroyed the REAL “safe space” 😂
I don’t think I have been loved this much ...911 ambulance 🚑,passing out, starring at nothingness,...🥺wow I pray all these men get the love they deserve ❤
They’re just dysregulated
This was about 2 months after the break up, I was sitting the Bus Station waiting for my bus and the public radio decided to crank out a song I had picked out to propose to her but this was before the break up. It was "our song" and I knew every single flipping word of the song. When it got to the part where I had planned to get down on my knee I burst out crying, in a bus station full of strangers.
Awwwwww
thank you for this! My husband just announced he's divorcing me. I was blind sided (still am), I wish I would've been dramatic and passed out like the guy in the gym! Thanks for the laugh during my current heartbreak!😀
The "love of my life" dumped me after a couple of years and then started dating a new guy after a couple of months. I cried everyday for 5 months and had to go on anti-depressants. When I found out he's a cheater my depression suddenly disappeared for some reason. It will be years until I'm truly over her though.
Damn I'm glad you out that depression cloud at least
The grandfather and lil bow wow concert took me out. What grandfather would have that as a dying wish. That’s game right there😂😂😂
He thought of something quick before dying 💀
That whole 3 month pregnant thing had me space out for a sec. Then realized I think she did it because she thought she could basically cheat as much as she wanted too raw without any concequences as she's already pregnant to her husband/bf. Extreme amounts of sex after finding out your pregnant is what you usually do with the person that got you pregnant in the first place. She had other plans......
that’s what i was thinking
Not true STDs are a greater concern
I thought it was a kink
Did she not realize if she caught a STD that baby will be born with it or even die from it...
I hope he got a paternity test. F that. Poor bloke 😮😢
CRYING IN THE SOUP 😂 THE SOOOUUUUPPPPPP
I screamed pls🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
Ah that poor lad who was gaslit by his mates and his girl. That's so sad. I hope he is OK. I don't think someone would ever trust again after that. Quadruple whammy.
This is the first podcast starring men that I'm subscribed to. I like the way you guys tell the stories from men and women without malice. It's just hilarious and reminds me that we're all just humaning to the best of our capacity. Also makes me happy to be single lmao 🤣 good job you guys 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I love the way these two love each other. You can see how much James hated to see him hurting.
They really do!
I like how it all started with "This is a safe space" 😂😂😂
The one about the guy who was betrayed and gaslit by his gurl and "friends" is just heartbreaking. So awful and traumatic.
Watching these makes me really wanna tread more than lightly into a relationship now. Makes me question just how much more perceptive I have to be in order to know she’s loyal
It’s really interesting to hear guys’ experiences on breakups and terrible exes considering I’ve only heard women experiences…it’s wild to say the least 😂
You essentially have to have a 6th sense. And if you're not a good listener, better start practicing now.
I feel like there are red flags to this kind of behavior. They have to be unbelievably selfish the whole time but the guys in these scenarios were seeing it thru rose colored glasses and hoping those red flags weren't a sign at something worse
@@chanellovvesyou simpler explanation is that these types of women are just good at lying and manipulating
You can’t really, it’s much harder to read woman as compared to men. You may see the red flags or you may not. Dude I am a woman and even I couldn’t read other women around me. It’s only after someone tells me about their actual behaviour when I start to slightly see the difference in fiction and reality. Many women only show you what you wish to see in them.
Sincerely,
A Woman
For those that don’t know Panera is an American restaurant that’s basically a cafe and they serve a lot of soups and breads, so he was probably preparing a soup and the tear dropped in it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
They serve over priced hospital food. And I love it
@@christellefrancios2038😂😂
Sitting in a panera eating and laughing with this video and just got to part about the tears in the soup
"She belongs to all of us" 😂😂 James nooooo 💀🤭
Don’t EVER look at your phone in the gym 😂
It’s so sweet that they know each other’s heartbreak moments
As a woman, we do not claim the cheaters/users. Women AND men, have your fun out of relationships with whomever you want but if you are in a relationship and can't stay loyal.. be honest and end it. These poor dudes and what they must have gone through but still, the soup line had me crying with laughter.
I want to hear James and Fund's most painful breakup stories
staxx had me crying😂😂 also damn i related harddd when james said once the breakup was done with it feels like whatever its just the idea of losing them part that hits
"let me read that again James because it baffled me too" 💀
their laughs are contagious!! 😂😂
after watching this….i can confidently say I’ve never been in love 😂😂 cause the passing out and sobbing ting is wild 😂😂😂💀
Some of these guys got some movie-level drama in their lives😂 They should write a book or somethin
The way they be talking and laughing, is this really a safe place?😂😂😂
These heartbreaks are brutal!!! I’ve come to the conclusion that heartbreaks are not for men. This part of life ain’t for us.
😂😂
Bro!
Partly why the su1c1de rate is almost 2x higher
This why u have to turn emotion dial.down to 1
As a women, some of these are funny; however, I can’t imagine ever doing that to a man. No one deserves to be treated like that.
I promise you some guys do n much worse.
@@arewahaircaretv8718 not an excuse
@@arewahaircaretv8718wow Gaslighting what else do you expect from women now.
@@arewahaircaretv8718 Cheating whilst 3 months pregant? Tell me if a man can do that 🙄
You don't necessarily show at 3 months when your pregnant. My first pregnancy I didn't show until 6-7months along, and I went out to everything social related, dancing, you name it, all the way to the end. My boyfriend and his friends would laugh every time someone would try to hit on me. And when I tell them I am pregnant they didn't believe it. And the second time around lol the only reason people knew is because we revealed we were expecting again at our 1st one's 1st bday party, while being 6 months pregnant again. One thing men forget too, is you could have some serious morning sickness and loose so much weight and don't gain it until the end sometimes.
By the way, I am 5ft2 and 110lbs during my pregnancy I only started showing at 6 almost 7 months pregnant. I was actually able to hide the pregnancy for about 7 months. I started to show at the end of august and was due end of September but no one knew I was pregnant all summer. I actually have photos from July of that year and my stomach was flat so definitely possible that she was just able to hide it
I was going to work and didn’t start showing till 6 months.
I’m on the thicker side 5’7 170lbs and I didn’t start showing until 5 months more like 6. Now I’m 4 months and just chilling. No one knows I’m pregnant I’m seeing how long it’ll last 😂
Doesn’t even matter she could hide it, WHY DID IT HAPPEN?!!! lol like who cares if she was showing, point is she was hoeing
I had twins and didn't show till i was about 5 months
Have you got Instagram or where i can see, I always find it hard to believe when people don’t show pregnancy signs after 5months
7:41 "She's not your girl bro" 😅😂 then, "She belongs to all of us" 😂😂😂
Trust me you don’t wanna know how it feels! I used to cry so hard I would throw up
It hits different
My homie said, “damn, I ain’t ask for a boat ride wit your crying ass” got me rolling
A teardrop in the soup is crazy 😂🤣
"Let it go," "on a Frozen thing" omg
Was having a rough evening & randomly came across this video & it instantly cheered me up. Hate to know people went through these horrible things but the commentary was hilarious. Thank you! 🇧🇸🤍
“They organize breaks”🤣🤣🤣
I am currently going through a breakup and I’m heartbroken. This is making me laugh thank you guys
James humming I’ll be there is taking me TF out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂 He cried into the soup
I'm not over the guy that was gaslit by his 'friends' and that ex girlfriend of his😭💀
I came back from my cousin's funeral having messed up my phone the previous night I used my other cousin's (deceased's brother) phone to call my girl tell her I'm coming back. I was proper feeling the shock of seeing my close family in that kind of emotional anguish.
So I got back home, girl told me she coming in two days to see me. I thought it was to like show love, get the t-shirt with his face on it that I got her specifically, a little extra cash wouldn't hurt, coz she support me right.
When we sat down she started doing the shifty eyes thing... Bro she didn't even have to say it.. but she still said she can't be with me anymore... Legit felt the floor open up the way my heart sank.
I doubt I can trust a woman like that ever again. That shit stays with you for life.
RIP Neville
Women ☕
@@mmn7209 women can have nothing and be something; men have no inherent value beyond what they can physically and tangibly return to another person.
I just want to hug these guys. It physically hurts to hear these ppl be sad like this
If I seen a dude crying at the range I’m definitely calling the manager 😂😂😂😂
3:32 Fuhad saying ‘hold on’ 😂😂😂 killed me
Y’all accent, slang and jokes make it sooooo much better! Obviously from the US! ❤❤❤
I'm just WAITING for them to talk about the elephant. THAT WOULD BE SUCH A GOOD EPISODE 😂😂😂
you mean the one that killed a woman and turned up at her funeral?
@@soaf1985 YEAH THAT ONE. I have been reading about it all over Twitter.
Like really
Like they say "An elephant never forgets" 😊
no way he started crying because he saw someone acting like his ex😭😭 lmao like I hope to fall that hard😂
I couldn't watch my favorite RUclipsr because they reminded me of my ex
My girl broke up with me. I was getting ready to drive up to her uni to see her and try n get her back.
I walk back into my room but remembered I needed something out of the bathroom as well. In my haste and flustered self I ran into the half open door, then into the wall, back into the door, into the wall. I must have repeated the cycle 5 times, banging my head on the surfaces every time before I finally stopped and took a breath.
My friends I was depressed for 5 years after that day 🤣
This perspective is interesting. When I broke up with my bf, I was well and truly done. There wasn't a reason, it wasn't his fault, it just wasn't enough. Most girls ask for a break at this point thinking they'll have a chance at a better guy and still have a fallback in case it doesn't work. But if you're not satisfied with your man and you'd rather play games and have it both ways, grow up.
Only a dumbass would get back with a woman after they “take a break”.
"It just wasn't enough"
"chance at a better guy"
"fallback incase it doesn't work"
woman moment ☕️
@@ChristAcolyte jfc you fighting for your life in all these comment replies calm down
@@ChristAcolyte This person was advocating against it why are you starting drama everywhere 😂
@@ChristAcolyte You'll heal someday. Hopefully. Until then, don't cry in anyone's soup, ty.
"A tear dropped into the soup" 😭
12:00 was jokes omg!! I love it when these two wheeze together!!😂😂
Last time I cried was when my role model and grandfather passed, he was a real man's man. Tow truck driver in Houston, punched an ostrich, looked like an Italian mob boss. Miss you pawpaw
Sounds like joey diaz without all of the drugs and crime
Why am i laughing this hard to their pain?🤣😅, oops a tear has fell in my tea, from laughing too hard
"Safe space"🤣
The most hilarious part of these videos is both of them laughing 😆
Lmaooo it was the tear in the soup for me. I love the wild rice soup!!!
I love how he has to start over every tweet 😂😂😂💙💙
You guys never fail to make me laugh. love you guys😂😂
We definitely organize the break. We actually call it when the plan is in order😂😂😂😂😂
The way James gets shocked 😂😂😂
I related to some of these and I’m a bisexual woman 🤣🤣. Girls are heartless when they want to be done with you.
yeah. and then they wonder why men become violent psychopaths.
After my ex broke up with me I got into habits I never had ie drinking and hooking up. I felt myself unraveling more and more and I've always been strong and got over things but I couldn't get over that and I decided I needed therapy and antidepressants before something in me permanently break. This was in 2021..
2023 I'm good, even better due to me seeking the help. I am more comfortable and love myself truly and what I realized that if I was in therapy and on meds before my ex, I wouldn't have dated him.
Moral of the story... Heartbreaks hurt, and the mind is fragile, so take care of yourself.
the lil bow and the grandfather. lollllllllll.🤣🤣🤣🤣
You guyses podcasts have really been helping me thru it . 😂😂😂😂
my best ''ive been down bro but it was all lies'' 😅😅😅
Thats a lie.
Neither men nor women have the monopoly on being an asshole. I really wish ppl would stop taking sides as though one gender is somehow the better human. Assholery is an all inclusive personality trait. All humans feel emotional pain and carry around past trauma! We should all engage with one another under that premise. Just thought I'd mention that because a lot of ppl seem surprised that men would cry after a breakup as if women are the only ones that have bad experiences in relationship. It doesn't make sense to me that is even a valid thought for anyone.
as a black man myself, growing up over the years, to be a strong hardworking man, learn to stop demanding sympathy from others, when things don't pan out towards your way, learn to hold yourself accountable, and learn to be independent, if a woman dumps you, hey its your own fault, you didn't choose right, and you didn't learn the aspects of life being a strong independent man, you guys have to grow up
I just found you all and I am so glad I did. I love you guys!!!
That camera angle on Fuhad is looking juicy!!!!!!!
Gotta go into work soon… definitely will be a good day thanks to y’all!!!🧡
Damn, I didn't think the meme about men being completely broken by a breakup while women are completely fine with a new haircut, would be so damn true! 😂
These two crack me up every time and I love their relationship too, theyre good vibes!
I need more of this stories!!😂
Just found this video and wanted to share
I was leaving for the marines and my girlfriend at the time thought it would be a good idea to make me watch Dear John before I left for boot camp. I should’ve known something was up when I stopped receiving letters from her. I get back home in time for her birthday (I planned it out to surprise her). My FATHER pulls me aside on my first night back before I went out with my friends and shows me screenshots of my ex with another women that she posted on her IG while I was GONE. My young and dumb self still went to her house for her birthday and forgave her….🤦🏻♂️
fast forward 2 months and I was away again across the country and I was getting my first tattoo and she texts me telling me that she wanted a break while I’m mid sesh on the table.. after I paid I sat outside on the parking lot crying while my friends were getting their tattoos. I road back with them to the barracks and I was silent the whole ride back 😭
I have since moved on and I’m in a very happy healthy relationship with the one I told her not to worry about
This just shows that there are some horrible people out there causing people some serious hurt. Absolutely disgraceful.
Fuhad and James are the perfect people to tell tea to 😅 they would understand the assignment and give you the reactions you’re looking for! 😂
Staxx clearly doesn't know where her bread is buttered. Missed opportunity for staxx.🤣😆
These are so sad, sweet, and funny at the same time
And CRAZY. I forgot crazy. Some have got to be made up right? Are there really this many scandalous people?
Not I stumbled walking out...😂😂 That's crazy
girls care less when a relationship ends because we can tell where it’s going and we detach ourselves from that situation before they can even catch on. i do it unknowingly like ik i do it but not until after ans i put the dots together. i’ve been better with communicating how i’m feeling so i don’t do that and thank goodness i’m still in my relationship with my bf almost a full year of talking and we’ll be one year of dating in september
It’s because you aren’t providers or protecters . Losing your girl is like losing a child to a man.
@@SimonKnight1023 girls can be providers.in fact I’ve been the main provider in every single one of my relationships because I’m happy working and their happy working on their dreams. I’m also bisexual and I’ve protected my girlfriends in the pasts so wrong.
@@Jasmine-bn9ex You’ve provided food, shelter , gifts and protection for men in exchange for sex and maybe some domestic duties?
@@SimonKnight1023 no not for sex I’ve actually been abstinence since I was sa’d I provided that so they could work on their dreams or whatever they needed to do thank you very much.
@@Jasmine-bn9ex Oh shit what’s up
? I have dreams too, Jas.
Y’all are hilarious and these stories are even funnier/ tragic/ wild😂😂😂 new subscriber
I love these two.....love from Kenya ❤
(Let me preface by saying i am a divorced 50yo single mother to 4 grown men)
I raised my sons to be gentleman. If you ask a woman out, it's your obligation to pick up the tab BUT I also told them that if they want to meet good women who will be equal partners in any relationship they have, they should never pay or buy them things that they demand. In the past girls have asked them to pay for their nails, their hair, their rent, their car payments etc. They took my advice to heart and went through a lot of women who expected them to be their own personal ATMs. The first time a woman would ask them to pay for something other than dinner if they had been asked out, would get dropped. They are now all with really good girls who support and respect them. Only one of their girls have ever cheated on them or done them dirty. The girls that they're with now are strong independent woman with good jobs, good morals and respect for my boys who can take care of themselves but they know that my sons have their backs just like they have theirs. If you guys want good girls and a committed relationship this is the way to go. If you just want a bunch of hos that you can get off with, keep paying for their luxury items and expect to be cheated on. And then don't act shocked when she dumps you cuz some other guy can buy her more/better things. Relationships are not a monetary transaction. They should be based on mutual love and respect.
Woah, single mother with good advice. Ok nice to see some change.
@@mmn7209 my ex wasn't a PARTNER he was like having another child and he didn't half my worried or work load he doubled it. I refused to raise my boys to do that. I raised them to take care of themselves. They learn how to do laundry at 10, every night all four of them help me cook dinner, they learn to be handy at just about everything because I made sure they spent time with their grandfather and their uncles. And I told them straight up if you ever get married and your partner comes to me and tells me that you're not pulling your weight you'll have to answer to me. Because I'll be damned if I let four men out into the world who don't understand what it means to be a partner. That when she needs help you get her back and when you need help she's got yours. That's why marriages don't last. Shit gets hard and everybody just gives up. I wanted out at year five and I waited until year 13 because I did not want my kids growing up without a dad but when you beg your partner for things to change and you go to marriage counseling and you do everything you're supposed to do to make it work and they are the ones choosing not to do their share then you have to make a choice. Are they being a good example for the kids that you have and if they are not and they are not willing to change then they are the problem and they need to go. But I'll be damned if I have my kids act like that.
I been in that break situation. It makes it worse when you find out about it all after she wants to get back with you and that this is the same friend she told you not to worry about every time you knew something weren't right.
This is kind of nice to hear, cause I don't really see heartbroken men, like guys don't come to me to vent about it, and the few hearts I've broken obviously didn't come to me about it. It gives me hope that men can feel emotion. I think the issue is in how they deal with their feelings though, turning to anger or suppressing their emotions. They harden their hearts and it messes them up for the next person they date.
what?? Read that back to yourself
Pause....
Ur a heartbreaker?
@@peterkallon5496 this chick is 🤪 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This video should tell you why men don't vent to you or your exes. We obviously feel shit, but when women have shown you that they don't give a fuck numerous times, why show be vulnerable?
And if you know you have broken hearts, why would you need hope that men feel emotion?
@@chewdoom8415 for a long time I thought men are emotionless but obviously you’re in your feelings so I’m learning
This guys are the best i swear