I gotta say...it sounds like you have a GREAT mom. Like, for real. She straight up gave you the info you needed and took you on trips to discover who you were. That's huge.
He is. :) I love the cute things he says at the beginning of some of his videos. I watch for his amazing personality. What an impressionable human being, right?
Sam Switz I just discovered you and you are awesome. I’ve also been following a British FtM, Jamie Dodger, and he has had bottom surgery and seems really happy. Are you interested in bottom surgery, not interested, or is it more of a cost thing? Keep spreading positivity and love, and good luck on your music career! Don’t be afraid to post songs or even snippets of songs here.
I am a gay man and damn you are so hot. Still way too young.🤣 really I just want to tell you how I love you. You are such an amazing inspiration for young trans kids with confusion about how to get to through something so difficult. You are doing a service for these kids that are terrified.
I love how you mentioned that your environment helped. My environment in the Midwest was very sexist and not lgbtq friendly as other places. After I traveled to San Diego and LA for the first time, I kept coming back. The energy was incredible! No one CARED that I looked like “a girl in guys clothing.” I never looked back. I realized that the west coast had been my home the whole time. Much love!! Thank you for sharing!
I'm coming out to my mom and I'm making notes to explain to her better, I've been online for hours now, looking for articles and videos. I really think this is great to explain to my mom, thank you for making this. I really think it might help
One video that was super validating for me [even if it's very depressing/triggering] is JessieGender's video about puberty. I think she explains how traumatic it can be in a way that anyone could be able to imagine. Focusing on how shitty it is isn't always the right way to go about it, but it's very real for most of us & I just appreciate how well she articulated herself.
for me, it was this femboy energy. i never felt female femininity because i over emphasized it like a stereotypical drag queen or something.. over time ive hit myself with toxic masculity to only realize that: hey whats wrong with being a femboy 🙃
My birthday is July 10th. Best day ever!!! Apparently for you, too. Omg, my son has a million stuffies. As a toddler, he'd take a doll or a stuffy from a shelf at a shop and carry it around through the whole store. He'd always call them his little brother🤣 Now he's such jock'ish looking guy with his manly voice and being all big but he'll carry one of his stuffies around...they stay in the car while he's at school so they don't get lost. Please, please, boys and men, keep your stuffies. They enjoy your company.
I am struck by this young man's outer beauty as well as his inner beauty. He is an amazingly good looking guy and his beautiful eyes are mesmerizing. Plus he has such a positive outlook on life and a beautiful energy. I hope he stays happy all the days of his life. ♥️
Im a year in.... social transitioning and I still doubt myself, I still am as scared and confused as ever, just less than the start, but Im still uncertain. (I have stuffed animals btw, but of course Im ftm... not cis. ftm with quesitonmarks tbh.... I have my prescriptions for T laying in the corner for weeks now.... not done anything.)
I worked with female bodybuilders for 20 years and can tell you all the ones I know have long term problems from steroid use (a few even died in their 40’s). And these women took time off the drugs each year. If you can pass as a male with just top surgery, voice coaching and some weight training to muscle up (genetic females can gain plenty of muscle without drugs btw) then take that route. Remember, you can’t become an actual man, it’s impossible, but if passing as one is the only way to give you what you need to be happy in life do the least amount of drastic things to achieve that.
AceOfHearts... hate to break it to you but if a FTM is injecting testosterones such as testosterone enanthate, testosterone cypionate, testosterone propionate and many others they are using steroids or more correctly anabolic-androgenic steroids. The same drugs used by bodybuilders and other athletes. All steroids have some anabolic (muscle building) and androgenic (virilization, voice deepening, body hair) effects. The testosterone injectables are amongst the strongest steroids there are and have many side effects even for males... continuous use on a female body absolutely will cause many problems over the long term.
JWB671 what exactly are these problems that you keep talking about? There are trans men that have been on T for a couple decades and the only problems they’ve had is vaginal atrophy which can be fixed with estrogen cream on the area or a hysterectomy.
@AceOfHearts I really don't see the issue with Jerry's comment OP said they were concerned a out transitioning, Jerry said hormones are not to be taken lightly (which they certainly aren't) Transisiting is a serious decision and I agree we should support people that decide to do it but if someone isn't sure they absolutely should take time before doing anything with hormones. All you have done is state Jerry is wrong, called him ignorant, accused him and attacked his character. I dont see a counter argument here
Doubt is normal in anyone. You just have to ask yourself is this what i want. You can even pause everything if you arent sure. Stop any transition for a bit to adjust or self evaluate. Doing it all at once can be scary.
Sick shirt! It's cool to see the different processes we all take. I'm starting up going to see a therapist again to work through those worries and pressures, so I can get there too. Thanks for making this man, I'm pumped for you and for the future!
So... im a "gay" female and i told my mom that i was trans and she took it very horribly. She made a lot of offensive jokes about me and kinda just played with my feelings. And when i say she played with my feelings, she said i could get a haircut and we told almost everyone and then she told me i couldnt and made more offensive jokes. So, after me being so sure that i was trans, after what she said, everything in my life kinda changed. I feel very uncomfortable and im super confused. I think some part of me doesnt want to admit that im trans because of the things she told me..
Kai Redd You don’t mention your age but our brains don’t finish maturing until about age 24, 25. Think about how you reasoned at age 6, and age 10, and age 14, and 18... and how different your thoughts, ideas, ability to comprehend were (especially to understand longer term outcomes of present day decisions.) I’m so sorry your mom is being unkind. She will not always be in a position to impose her discomfort on you. Hold on to those who care for you even when it’s difficult. If you decide to explore transitioning look very carefully at both sides; those who are content with their transition and those who become dissatisfied and detransition. Also look into the lifelong health consequences and take them seriously. When we are young we mostly don’t believe any of the ‘bad’ outcomes will be us (the invulnerability of youth.). But all statistics are based on real people. Take your time and each day find 3 things to be grateful for in your current life and situation. I wish you the best.
This definitely helped me want to keep looking at people’s transition story’s. Thank you for being one of the brave people who feel comfortable sharing their experiences. ❤️❤️🏳️🌈😍🥰
I was normal I wore girls clothes and stuff but when I was 9 I wanted flannels. I'm very protective and protected girls at school. I have a very dominant personality and I feel I can treat my friend better than her husband. I have certain preferences as a man does and I just felt that I was a butch lesbian but now I'm not sure...as for the name my name is Karen but I like Kameron.
Sam, did you have any high school buddies that you were able to share your journey with or at least talk to as you went through this? Did you have a beastie of any kind, and how did he or she react?
this is all way to accurate for me! Im on that waiting list for the genderpsychologist for almost a year now! a year left to wait.. I CANT WAIT!! and also i subscribed like 2 days ago! and i felt special when you started thanking the new subs :D
I also grew in a place where I didnt think about gender, and it only hit me that there were different genders when everyone started hitting puberty lol
That's amazing and I wish I could've had something like that in my childhood and not because I'm transgender because I'm not but because even without actually identifying as something else the standards my gender put on me were something I just didn't like. The idea of boys liking cars and fighting stuff and girls Barbies, pink and make up Actually used to terrify me cause everyone thought it was such a natural thing and since I didn't like the people who saw it that way, I thought that if I liked anything similar to what they told me I should like I would basically be the same as them and I didn't want to be like them so I was kinda toxic about anyone liking these colors or tipicaly feminine stuff...? even if I didn't always express that out loud I just really felt like rejecting that whole heartedly. Also it was absolutely IMPOSSIBLE to go to a place to buy shoes and find shoes that neither had pink, violet, glitter, Princesses, flowers ribbons shiny fake stones or anything quote on quote "for girls" or "girly" on them. And the boys ones also just had to have "boys stuff" on them and I hated that and my mom just wanted to get it over with and buy me new shoes so I wouldn't walk around with the Same ones for years till they were completely worn off but I guess having to indirectly label myself even with the shoes I wore was just maddening to me, and so we would search for hours and even then the only ones I found just had to have a purple streak and ballerina form, and with this I don't mean she forced it on me that was just literally the least girly thing for girls my age I could possibly find in there that didn't come from the boys section and therefore had cars on it. To be honest I have no idea of why they just HAD to promote the same stuff for all girls and boys seperatly like bruh there are so many more colors other than pink or red and dark blue, and even if you use this colors why do you have to attach a label on them and make them automatically for specific genders? I might have had a lot less problems with that growing up if there hadn't been any labels on those colors I might have even owned pink stuff by my own choice without feeling repulsed inside cause I thought I was some kind of thot or something. Also I kept promising to myself I would never get myself a boyfriend or be in relationship cause I couldn't stand the idea of that tipical princess prince or teenage relationship and literally none of the guys around me was understanding or nice or anything even close to that to me or any girl or in general mostly so just waiting until a alright person or as in stories for girls in that age commonly portrayed some random good looking dude who just happens to set their eyes on me popped out of nowhere seemed like such a stupid thing to me specifically because I did hope for that a bit internally since they make it out to be such a pleasant thing to go through but I was pretty sure I'd end up disapointed anyway because it's not like I was a Disney Princess and I didn't look like one either or act like one so there was no reason that would happen to me. And I dunno it was just the fact being female and male just was portrayed always in some kind of box like behaviour I knew I didn't exactly fit into both when it comes to the female side or things or the male side of things. So I just felt like I fit in nowhere and I kind of also didn't. And that made me hate female standards just as much as it made me envy everyone who fit into them cause that just made their life easier according to what I thought. And I'd really really love to think that if I had been born as a dude my life and character and way of viewing things wouldn't be all that different cause I think the person comes before their gender. But I probably really wouldn't have been the same at all in many ways, because the way everyone treats you does make a difference and being a guy would've brought entirely different complexes I would have felt like I had to fit in to then being female was and that just makes me sad cause why can't everyone just enjoy what they like without having to be labelled? What does it matter if we are in end all human, can't a color just be a color and a toy just a toy? I guess that's just something that messed me up a lot when young so yeah as previously said I'm genuinely jealous.
@@Art-enjoyer_Fern Yeah, I think that's sadly why trans is such a trend these days, especially for girls. People just can't admit they're less different than boys than they think, because of marketers and crap. I'm tired of "Girls are not boys. Therefor they must be super different. Let's slap a bow and pink on them in every cartoon!" Just stop. Look at the identity crises people are having as a result. Getting body parts chopped off etc. Ridiculous. People never understood what being a girl meant.
Dude, you have this energy that makes me think we would be such good pals! Big love bro! Also, you look like Ryan Gosling, but much better-looking just saying ...
It can be difficult enough trying to figure out if you're gay. I can only imagine what it must have been like for transgender people a couple of generations ago.
I'm not going to be able to start working toward physically transitioning for about another 2 years (when I turn 18), but I plan on transitioning my senor year. however all of the collages I'm going to be applying for are out of state. so, how would I go about getting t after I've moved? (I feel like this is a dumb question but I've been wonder about this for a while now)
You're lucky people didn't react badly. I'm not sure if I'll ever come out, but if I do I'll need a new support system cause it's very likely my family won't support me and they might even reject me.
Early on I was very similar. I grew up in a very gender neutral kinda? Place so nothing was forced on me. I used to wish and even pray (I’m not even religious) to be a boy. Just to wake up as a boy, and that was happening as early as I can remember. When I was around 8/9/10 I used to ask to watch transgender documentaries with my mum because I seemed rly fascinated (kinda) by it but I hadn’t made the connection that that was me until I was around 12
I’m having a really hard time trying to figure out if i’m trans or not. He/him pronouns feel really good and I want to be a guy so bad, but I feel like i’m faking it because I liked and still like “girly” stuff and the signs that i’m trans have only just started. I don’t feel THAT uncomfortable with my body but I also wish I had a flat chest and no curves because it would make me feel better. Does anyone have any advice?
Hi! I know there's no need to hurry about making 100% sure you're trans, taking testosterone etc but what about the changes of testosterone? The older you are, the less changes that t will cause you. I'm already 20 and I've just come out and it stresses me out! :(
How do you know if your cis or transgender?? Hi, my name is Jordan and I’m 18 years old. I started questioning my gender around the beginning of 7th grade. I got my period the month before I was supposed to start 7th grade. Getting my period threw me off and made me really uncomfortable. I never could put my finger exactly on why I felt so weird but the way that people were treating me and the way my body was changing, I hated it to say the least. I remember finding out was transgender meant in like the 10th grade but I didn’t really think much of it. It wasn’t until I turned 17 and was a junior in high school that I really began to ask myself if I was transgender female to male or not. I began to wear more guy clothes and wanted a haircut. I went to therapy and concluded that I just liked to wear men’s clothes because they were more comfortable. Then, in my senior year of highschool my gender spun out of control. By the time I was to graduate high school, I had no idea who the heck I was. My mind was always all over the place. I had mental breakdowns a lot and sometimes for no apparent reason. I started to feel really insecure and wanted to get back into therapy since it has previously helped me before. So there I was, back in therapy after I graduated high school. I told my therapist exactly how I had been feeling and we had come to the conclusion that I was probably transgender female to male. For the next six months I identified as transgender female to male. It was hard sometimes and I had a lot of doubt but I pushed through it. However, now my thoughts on my self are very different. I no longer feel like a man or want to be one. The thought of growing facial hair makes me want to literally cry and I actually can appreciate my breasts and love them because they make me feel feminine and make me feel like a woman. I couldn’t imagine transitioning into a man, mainly because I would miss my current body and feel quite out of my element in that type of body. But it’s like now I am so dang confused! Was the whole feeling like a transgender man just a phase?? How do you know if you are cis gender?? How does one tell if they are transgender?? I actually want to be my assigned gender at birth and have so much self love for myself that I never had before. I really do feel like a girl, inside and out. Does this mean that I’m really a cis gender female?? Please leave me your thoughts and advice below, any and every comment of advice is very much appreciated trust me!🥰❤️💓
i am not sure whether i AM trans or not but i have a strong feeling i may be ...though i feel im not as trans as others meaning i cant be because i feel different from other people like me.....
I have stuffed animals but I've had them since I was born, they remind me of past trauma but I don't want to get rid of them, but I really need to get new ones...what would yall do? XD
Colorism is disgusting. I'm Dark Skin, discriminated against when accessing appropriate healthcare such as accessing T and etc. And it's from all types especially from so-called social justice warriors. Seems to mi, wanting to Iive fully as a decent man, straight man at that, triggers.
Me making exuses: I think I'm transgender but I like boys I cant be trans and gay Me finding out the differences between sexuality and gender: 😐well now I understand
I gotta say...it sounds like you have a GREAT mom. Like, for real. She straight up gave you the info you needed and took you on trips to discover who you were. That's huge.
Ashley Turner she’s amazing 😭😭💙
This guy is a beautiful person inside and out.
All for a few hair on my face don't be fooled these trans here are not being all honest about it say it all guys please! Transmen here who needs no t!
@@loganfarrugia3827 what are you saying?
Amanda Lochmann I think you commented on the wrong channel
He is. :) I love the cute things he says at the beginning of some of his videos. I watch for his amazing personality. What an impressionable human being, right?
Amanda Lochmann. Where do you see a woman?
I love your excitement and enthusiasm in your videos. So much energy
Aww thank you 💙💙
Sam Switz I just discovered you and you are awesome. I’ve also been following a British FtM, Jamie Dodger, and he has had bottom surgery and seems really happy. Are you interested in bottom surgery, not interested, or is it more of a cost thing? Keep spreading positivity and love, and good luck on your music career! Don’t be afraid to post songs or even snippets of songs here.
I thought it was a weight thing too I would workout twice a day to meet my goals but I was never happy. So crazy when u finally realize it
Me too, I developed a really severe eating disorder that couldn't be helped until I started testosterone
You remind me of Jake Gyllenhaal in this video
Steruset Better than Jake.
Right?
He does
I am a gay man and damn you are so hot. Still way too young.🤣 really I just want to tell you how I love you. You are such an amazing inspiration for young trans kids with confusion about how to get to through something so difficult. You are doing a service for these kids that are terrified.
Aww thank you my friend. I hope these can help them 💙💙
@@SamSwitz how old are you?
dats kinda strait
no thats very much gay
My brother has stuffed animals don’t worry. And he’s in college :)
I have a dog and Disney's Stitch.
Yeay, stuffed animals...
And I'm turning 40 in a few days.
I love how you mentioned that your environment helped.
My environment in the Midwest was very sexist and not lgbtq friendly as other places.
After I traveled to San Diego and LA for the first time, I kept coming back.
The energy was incredible! No one CARED that I looked like “a girl in guys clothing.” I never looked back.
I realized that the west coast had been my home the whole time.
Much love!! Thank you for sharing!
I'm coming out to my mom and I'm making notes to explain to her better, I've been online for hours now, looking for articles and videos. I really think this is great to explain to my mom, thank you for making this. I really think it might help
One video that was super validating for me [even if it's very depressing/triggering] is JessieGender's video about puberty. I think she explains how traumatic it can be in a way that anyone could be able to imagine. Focusing on how shitty it is isn't always the right way to go about it, but it's very real for most of us & I just appreciate how well she articulated herself.
for me, it was this femboy energy. i never felt female femininity because i over emphasized it like a stereotypical drag queen or something.. over time ive hit myself with toxic masculity to only realize that: hey whats wrong with being a femboy 🙃
My birthday is July 10th. Best day ever!!! Apparently for you, too.
Omg, my son has a million stuffies. As a toddler, he'd take a doll or a stuffy from a shelf at a shop and carry it around through the whole store. He'd always call them his little brother🤣 Now he's such jock'ish looking guy with his manly voice and being all big but he'll carry one of his stuffies around...they stay in the car while he's at school so they don't get lost. Please, please, boys and men, keep your stuffies. They enjoy your company.
This was a great video man, super insightful :P I’m a new subscriber btw ✌🏼
ayyyy! Thanks so much AJ, that means a lot!!💙
I am struck by this young man's outer beauty as well as his inner beauty. He is an amazingly good looking guy and his beautiful eyes are mesmerizing. Plus he has such a positive outlook on life and a beautiful energy. I hope he stays happy all the days of his life. ♥️
Im a year in.... social transitioning and I still doubt myself, I still am as scared and confused as ever, just less than the start, but Im still uncertain.
(I have stuffed animals btw, but of course Im ftm... not cis. ftm with quesitonmarks tbh.... I have my prescriptions for T laying in the corner for weeks now.... not done anything.)
I worked with female bodybuilders for 20 years and can tell you all the ones I know have long term problems from steroid use (a few even died in their 40’s). And these women took time off the drugs each year. If you can pass as a male with just top surgery, voice coaching and some weight training to muscle up (genetic females can gain plenty of muscle without drugs btw) then take that route. Remember, you can’t become an actual man, it’s impossible, but if passing as one is the only way to give you what you need to be happy in life do the least amount of drastic things to achieve that.
AceOfHearts... hate to break it to you but if a FTM is injecting testosterones such as testosterone enanthate, testosterone cypionate, testosterone propionate and many others they are using steroids or more correctly anabolic-androgenic steroids. The same drugs used by bodybuilders and other athletes. All steroids have some anabolic (muscle building) and androgenic (virilization, voice deepening, body hair) effects. The testosterone injectables are amongst the strongest steroids there are and have many side effects even for males... continuous use on a female body absolutely will cause many problems over the long term.
JWB671 what exactly are these problems that you keep talking about? There are trans men that have been on T for a couple decades and the only problems they’ve had is vaginal atrophy which can be fixed with estrogen cream on the area or a hysterectomy.
@AceOfHearts I really don't see the issue with Jerry's comment
OP said they were concerned a out transitioning, Jerry said hormones are not to be taken lightly (which they certainly aren't)
Transisiting is a serious decision and I agree we should support people that decide to do it but if someone isn't sure they absolutely should take time before doing anything with hormones. All you have done is state Jerry is wrong, called him ignorant, accused him and attacked his character. I dont see a counter argument here
Doubt is normal in anyone. You just have to ask yourself is this what i want. You can even pause everything if you arent sure. Stop any transition for a bit to adjust or self evaluate. Doing it all at once can be scary.
Sick shirt! It's cool to see the different processes we all take. I'm starting up going to see a therapist again to work through those worries and pressures, so I can get there too. Thanks for making this man, I'm pumped for you and for the future!
Harry aw that’s so awesome dude!! Congrats!! Yea just takeeee your time, and everything will eventually figure itself out perfectly:( you got it!💙👏🏼
I absolutely love Your energy, it feels like there's light coming out of You.
This made me so happy I'm 15 and I'm transgender and my name is Sam to 😭
That smile 🙈
So... im a "gay" female and i told my mom that i was trans and she took it very horribly. She made a lot of offensive jokes about me and kinda just played with my feelings. And when i say she played with my feelings, she said i could get a haircut and we told almost everyone and then she told me i couldnt and made more offensive jokes. So, after me being so sure that i was trans, after what she said, everything in my life kinda changed. I feel very uncomfortable and im super confused. I think some part of me doesnt want to admit that im trans because of the things she told me..
Kai Redd You don’t mention your age but our brains don’t finish maturing until about age 24, 25. Think about how you reasoned at age 6, and age 10, and age 14, and 18... and how different your thoughts, ideas, ability to comprehend were (especially to understand longer term outcomes of present day decisions.) I’m so sorry your mom is being unkind. She will not always be in a position to impose her discomfort on you. Hold on to those who care for you even when it’s difficult. If you decide to explore transitioning look very carefully at both sides; those who are content with their transition and those who become dissatisfied and detransition. Also look into the lifelong health consequences and take them seriously. When we are young we mostly don’t believe any of the ‘bad’ outcomes will be us (the invulnerability of youth.). But all statistics are based on real people. Take your time and each day find 3 things to be grateful for in your current life and situation. I wish you the best.
Sam, When I come out my family and friends were like ok, we love you for you. I believe every family should be that way.
This definitely helped me want to keep looking at people’s transition story’s. Thank you for being one of the brave people who feel comfortable sharing their experiences. ❤️❤️🏳️🌈😍🥰
Oh wow, I see a very handsome gentleman 👀
I was normal I wore girls clothes and stuff but when I was 9 I wanted flannels. I'm very protective and protected girls at school. I have a very dominant personality and I feel I can treat my friend better than her husband. I have certain preferences as a man does and I just felt that I was a butch lesbian but now I'm not sure...as for the name my name is Karen but I like Kameron.
Sam, did you have any high school buddies that you were able to share your journey with or at least talk to as you went through this? Did you have a beastie of any kind, and how did he or she react?
Just found your channel yesterday. You seem like a sweet person so I subscribed!
I used to live in Vista and loved going to Carlsbad Beach at night! 💕
Really proud of how far u have come
Thank you for sharing Yr story creating trans visibility and awareness
You happened to pop onto the "recommended" page, so i watched. ...and indeed.....you are one freaking handsome man!
I love your videos! Thanks so much for making them!
this is all way to accurate for me! Im on that waiting list for the genderpsychologist for almost a year now! a year left to wait.. I CANT WAIT!! and also i subscribed like 2 days ago! and i felt special when you started thanking the new subs :D
Great video and I am sure you are educating many people including me. Thank you.
Love the stuffed animals man. You are amazing and this video was really helpful and validating for me.
I also grew in a place where I didnt think about gender, and it only hit me that there were different genders when everyone started hitting puberty lol
That's amazing and I wish I could've had something like that in my childhood and not because I'm transgender because I'm not but because even without actually identifying as something else the standards my gender put on me were something I just didn't like. The idea of boys liking cars and fighting stuff and girls Barbies, pink and make up Actually used to terrify me cause everyone thought it was such a natural thing and since I didn't like the people who saw it that way, I thought that if I liked anything similar to what they told me I should like I would basically be the same as them and I didn't want to be like them so I was kinda toxic about anyone liking these colors or tipicaly feminine stuff...? even if I didn't always express that out loud I just really felt like rejecting that whole heartedly. Also it was absolutely IMPOSSIBLE to go to a place to buy shoes and find shoes that neither had pink, violet, glitter, Princesses, flowers ribbons shiny fake stones or anything quote on quote "for girls" or "girly" on them. And the boys ones also just had to have "boys stuff" on them and I hated that and my mom just wanted to get it over with and buy me new shoes so I wouldn't walk around with the Same ones for years till they were completely worn off but I guess having to indirectly label myself even with the shoes I wore was just maddening to me, and so we would search for hours and even then the only ones I found just had to have a purple streak and ballerina form, and with this I don't mean she forced it on me that was just literally the least girly thing for girls my age I could possibly find in there that didn't come from the boys section and therefore had cars on it. To be honest I have no idea of why they just HAD to promote the same stuff for all girls and boys seperatly like bruh there are so many more colors other than pink or red and dark blue, and even if you use this colors why do you have to attach a label on them and make them automatically for specific genders? I might have had a lot less problems with that growing up if there hadn't been any labels on those colors I might have even owned pink stuff by my own choice without feeling repulsed inside cause I thought I was some kind of thot or something. Also I kept promising to myself I would never get myself a boyfriend or be in relationship cause I couldn't stand the idea of that tipical princess prince or teenage relationship and literally none of the guys around me was understanding or nice or anything even close to that to me or any girl or in general mostly so just waiting until a alright person or as in stories for girls in that age commonly portrayed some random good looking dude who just happens to set their eyes on me popped out of nowhere seemed like such a stupid thing to me specifically because I did hope for that a bit internally since they make it out to be such a pleasant thing to go through but I was pretty sure I'd end up disapointed anyway because it's not like I was a Disney Princess and I didn't look like one either or act like one so there was no reason that would happen to me. And I dunno it was just the fact being female and male just was portrayed always in some kind of box like behaviour I knew I didn't exactly fit into both when it comes to the female side or things or the male side of things. So I just felt like I fit in nowhere and I kind of also didn't. And that made me hate female standards just as much as it made me envy everyone who fit into them cause that just made their life easier according to what I thought. And I'd really really love to think that if I had been born as a dude my life and character and way of viewing things wouldn't be all that different cause I think the person comes before their gender. But I probably really wouldn't have been the same at all in many ways, because the way everyone treats you does make a difference and being a guy would've brought entirely different complexes I would have felt like I had to fit in to then being female was and that just makes me sad cause why can't everyone just enjoy what they like without having to be labelled? What does it matter if we are in end all human, can't a color just be a color and a toy just a toy? I guess that's just something that messed me up a lot when young so yeah as previously said I'm genuinely jealous.
@@Art-enjoyer_Fern Yeah, I think that's sadly why trans is such a trend these days, especially for girls. People just can't admit they're less different than boys than they think, because of marketers and crap. I'm tired of "Girls are not boys. Therefor they must be super different. Let's slap a bow and pink on them in every cartoon!" Just stop. Look at the identity crises people are having as a result. Getting body parts chopped off etc. Ridiculous. People never understood what being a girl meant.
Dude, you have this energy that makes me think we would be such good pals! Big love bro! Also, you look like Ryan Gosling, but much better-looking just saying ...
you are amazing and a very attractive young guy, don't let others put you down !
This helped so much thanks for sharing its helping more people day by day!
Fun fact! You took your first testosterone shot on my birthday lol...... you're such an amazing person, love your upbeat positive attitude! 😊
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and giving so much of yourself. It is very much valued and appreciated!
Namaste
It can be difficult enough trying to figure out if you're gay. I can only imagine what it must have been like for transgender people a couple of generations ago.
I’m a trans girl and I think you are so freaking adorable
I'm not going to be able to start working toward physically transitioning for about another 2 years (when I turn 18), but I plan on transitioning my senor year. however all of the collages I'm going to be applying for are out of state. so, how would I go about getting t after I've moved? (I feel like this is a dumb question but I've been wonder about this for a while now)
We are from the same area of San Diego, and I started testosterone the same year as you.
You're very handsome! Thanks for making this video. Definitely know to go slow and not to rush into hormones
Thank you for this. You are teaching me so much that I haven't known. I need this.
You're lucky people didn't react badly. I'm not sure if I'll ever come out, but if I do I'll need a new support system cause it's very likely my family won't support me and they might even reject me.
I hope you will find a peaceful environment
omg! you got your first t shot on my birthday :)
Dude I feel you on the workout thing , I thought it was a weight thing lol but it wasn’t
Greetings from Ireland. You are an inspiration Sam. 😀
Bless your heart. You are a very beautiful Guy!! Peace and love your hair ❤️
This just needs a ❤️! ❤️❤️❤️
you live where I live im so confused and could use some guidance
Early on I was very similar. I grew up in a very gender neutral kinda? Place so nothing was forced on me. I used to wish and even pray (I’m not even religious) to be a boy. Just to wake up as a boy, and that was happening as early as I can remember.
When I was around 8/9/10 I used to ask to watch transgender documentaries with my mum because I seemed rly fascinated (kinda) by it but I hadn’t made the connection that that was me until I was around 12
Thankyou for sharing ur story it has truly aided me
Hi Sam. Enjoy your channel
Aww thank you so much!💙
Bros majestic
Very beautiful and handsome guy ❤️😘🥺
Only Love... Giddy up...
I'm Trans too
You look like you born man Iam so Happy for you!
where can we check out more of your music?
I’m having a really hard time trying to figure out if i’m trans or not. He/him pronouns feel really good and I want to be a guy so bad, but I feel like i’m faking it because I liked and still like “girly” stuff and the signs that i’m trans have only just started. I don’t feel THAT uncomfortable with my body but I also wish I had a flat chest and no curves because it would make me feel better. Does anyone have any advice?
thanks for this video, I can relate
Aww so cool 💙much love!
Love how cheerfull u are ! Tnx for being u !! 😏😍
Hi! I know there's no need to hurry about making 100% sure you're trans, taking testosterone etc but what about the changes of testosterone? The older you are, the less changes that t will cause you. I'm already 20 and I've just come out and it stresses me out! :(
How do you know if your cis or transgender??
Hi, my name is Jordan and I’m 18 years old. I started questioning my gender around the beginning of 7th grade. I got my period the month before I was supposed to start 7th grade. Getting my period threw me off and made me really uncomfortable. I never could put my finger exactly on why I felt so weird but the way that people were treating me and the way my body was changing, I hated it to say the least. I remember finding out was transgender meant in like the 10th grade but I didn’t really think much of it. It wasn’t until I turned 17 and was a junior in high school that I really began to ask myself if I was transgender female to male or not. I began to wear more guy clothes and wanted a haircut. I went to therapy and concluded that I just liked to wear men’s clothes because they were more comfortable. Then, in my senior year of highschool my gender spun out of control. By the time I was to graduate high school, I had no idea who the heck I was. My mind was always all over the place. I had mental breakdowns a lot and sometimes for no apparent reason. I started to feel really insecure and wanted to get back into therapy since it has previously helped me before. So there I was, back in therapy after I graduated high school. I told my therapist exactly how I had been feeling and we had come to the conclusion that I was probably transgender female to male. For the next six months I identified as transgender female to male. It was hard sometimes and I had a lot of doubt but I pushed through it. However, now my thoughts on my self are very different. I no longer feel like a man or want to be one. The thought of growing facial hair makes me want to literally cry and I actually can appreciate my breasts and love them because they make me feel feminine and make me feel like a woman. I couldn’t imagine transitioning into a man, mainly because I would miss my current body and feel quite out of my element in that type of body. But it’s like now I am so dang confused! Was the whole feeling like a transgender man just a phase?? How do you know if you are cis gender?? How does one tell if they are transgender?? I actually want to be my assigned gender at birth and have so much self love for myself that I never had before. I really do feel like a girl, inside and out. Does this mean that I’m really a cis gender female?? Please leave me your thoughts and advice below, any and every comment of advice is very much appreciated trust me!🥰❤️💓
This is something that you have to explore.
SAM you are gorgeous inside and out! You have a very lucky partner.
#goals
#exactlywhatIwantinapartner
Thanks to testosterone, you’re now a tenor. It’s great that you have supportive people.
I'm in love Sam the Man....A millf in waiting.
I always played the dad in house
Deep
Your are looking good and better over time.
Lol I'm one of those men who have stuffed animals lol 🤣🤣
Hey Sam, loved your video. Know anyone who has transitioned in their 40's?
i am not sure whether i AM trans or not but i have a strong feeling i may be ...though i feel im not as trans as others meaning i cant be because i feel different from other people like me.....
you are so beautiful honestly
He’s so lovely! 😊
San Diego represent! You are stereotypical SoCal 😂
*sitting beside my giant collection of stuffed animals, living as an open FTM* 😊
i never wanted to play with boy toys and stuff but now i feel like i’m in the wrong body. is that okay?
I don't think toys marketed to certain genders by greedy businessmen are good indicators of anything..............
Such a gorgeous guy 😍
I have the same giant stuffed Ikea dog you have, no lie.
Sam is the sexiest man, as cis gendered gay man I am betting my credentials on this FACT.
We need like a sexy calendar with just Sam.
You're correct, you lost your credentials as a gay man. And nobody is "cis".
@@bbmusclebottom8 arent you just pleasant
@@bbmusclebottom8 what's wrong, bored?
@@bbmusclebottom8 why not focus on the compliment and need for a calender of Sam? That's right...because how else could you feel relevant or anything?
@@bbmusclebottom8 also, the comment is a week old, did you really scroll to find something to be problematic about? Do you have that much free time?
I think I’m in love
you look great. good luck to you.
I have stuffed animals but I've had them since I was born, they remind me of past trauma but I don't want to get rid of them, but I really need to get new ones...what would yall do? XD
I know I'm transgender but I don't know how to come out
How did your dad feel about getting a son?
Colorism is disgusting. I'm Dark Skin, discriminated against when accessing appropriate healthcare such as accessing T and etc. And it's from all types especially from so-called social justice warriors. Seems to mi, wanting to Iive fully as a decent man, straight man at that, triggers.
Can I ask how tall you are?
SIR, You very handsome man. I love your eyes very sweet , attractive. From AUSTRALIA.
You're a man I really want to be friend.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I learned transgender pride flag
You look like my dad's best friend
Handsome
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Was it weird for you when the called you he/him at first?
Me making exuses: I think I'm transgender but I like boys I cant be trans and gay
Me finding out the differences between sexuality and gender: 😐well now I understand
You’re so cute
Sam you are so sweet
I wonder if he would date a transwomen
Ahhh ... success