As a cis woman, we are taught never to feel you deserve more. That is a hard lesson to unlearn. I deserve what I want. ♥️ Great message you are giving. 😊
@@awesomedirt3 Thx man it was a long time ago, but yea I was attached by 7 guys because a gang leader's girlfriend told them I was a really a girl. Not trying to scare anyone...just saying I know it has happen to some others and be careful who you tell.
You are a very fortunate person, Sam, because you seem to have had all the necessary ingredients in life to have become a very mentally healthy and kind person - ingredients that unfortunately many people have lacked. Plus you are lovely and adorable. When / if you find your person they will be very lucky to have you!
Sam, I love that you use, "I personally". I am trying to get my friends to use "I personally" because people like you are taking ownership in their values.
Whenever I say "I personally" in German, my grandma who was a german and history teacher back in the day, she gives me a 10 hour essay about how that makes no grammatical sense xD
Agree 100%. It’s so hard to love other people before we love ourselves, and we all deserve to uphold standards and reject anything less than what we deserve. I also agree that being upfront ASAP is super important. It can be the hardest part about dating as a trans individual, but it’s actually so much better to be authentic and honest right away rather than suffer with heart break. The best people are the ones who come through and love us for all that we are. ❤️
Sam, you are an inspiration not just to the trans and gay community but to the stright community to. If people loved like you do the world would be a much better place. Let people be who they want to be and let them decide what is right for them. It's bigoted people who think they have the divine right to impose their way on people who show more love and respect than most. The gay and trans communities generate more love and respect them most. I hope you find a person like yourself to love for eternity. You are one of the most nicest and sexiest guys!! X
Hi I've been Trans ftm for over 5 years. My partner passed away 2 years ago. She accepted my change totally. Now I'm in the no confidence area. Having doubts of ever dating a woman cis or Trans that understands and accepts me. I'm in my 60s and I've had no surgeries but my body looks male. Advice for your thoughts.
I just want to say you’re an adorable human being and I’ve been binging your content. Even though I’m a cis person, your content is just really engaging.
@@adamant6184 Well, like any "CIS" (I would suspect) we're trying to educate ourselves. But, mostly Nikkie Tutorials reccomends Sam, AND Sam is damn cool. 😊
Adam Ant why shouldn’t we? Didn’t know we were gatekeeping trans creators😐 personally, I’m researching for a book I’m writing. I don’t wanna write about a trans character without hearing actual trans men’s thoughts and views.
Clarence Davis III I really don’t want to throw shade on him as it has nothing g to do with the fact of him being trans or not , it’s just that I do not like the attitude ... maybe he comes across so cocky because he is actually the opposite and uses that attitude as a shield but , for me , it is off putting . Just sayin
camila x castillo I dint really pickup on cocky so much as confidence in oneself.After living a false life for years in the wrong body it must truly liberating and ego boosting to FINALLY have your body match your self.
Legit- cis woman late 30s here and though I considered myself an ally I never thought I would actually date a trans man-- but wow was I wrong! My boyfriend is trans and he's absolutely THE BEST ❤
Solide advice, esp about being wholesome person and communication. More examples wouldn’t hurt 😏 I would add - ask questions. And put some humour in your coming out, it always better to make it less serious and dramatic
Your advice is dead on. Don't go looking for another person to complete or fix you. Don't go looking at all if you are unhappy. No one wants to be around someone unhappy, including other unhappy people.
Would you ever date a guy? Or, you strictly only into girls? I'd love to meet a transgender person to date that wants a guy. I love your videos. I've followed you from the very beginning. I love you dearly.
Imagine being able to match your hoodie with your eyes like dat
I’ve been binge watching your videos all day. Something about your personality, it’s very magnetic to watch. Also, you’re handsome af😍
FaithWithFi me toooo! He's so hot
Same!!!
Sam is finee
As a cis woman, we are taught never to feel you deserve more. That is a hard lesson to unlearn. I deserve what I want. ♥️ Great message you are giving. 😊
@Jack Black it's auto correct bro. 🙄
I was beat up pretty badly when I lived in Hollywood so I'm still pretty cautious no matter where I go.
Hunter Young dang sorry to hear that man hope you can feel safe again
@@awesomedirt3 Thx man it was a long time ago, but yea I was attached by 7 guys because a gang leader's girlfriend told them I was a really a girl. Not trying to scare anyone...just saying I know it has happen to some others and be careful who you tell.
You are a very fortunate person, Sam, because you seem to have had all the necessary ingredients in life to have become a very mentally healthy and kind person - ingredients that unfortunately many people have lacked. Plus you are lovely and adorable. When / if you find your person they will be very lucky to have you!
Sam,
I love that you use, "I personally". I am trying to get my friends to use "I personally" because people like you are taking ownership in their values.
Whenever I say "I personally" in German, my grandma who was a german and history teacher back in the day, she gives me a 10 hour essay about how that makes no grammatical sense xD
I’m getting Matthew McConaughey dazed and confused vibes 🤩
I’m 100% smitten by you. Have been bingeing your vids. You’re astronomically blowing my mind! Why are you so perfect?
Awww thank you love!💙
Agree 100%. It’s so hard to love other people before we love ourselves, and we all deserve to uphold standards and reject anything less than what we deserve. I also agree that being upfront ASAP is super important. It can be the hardest part about dating as a trans individual, but it’s actually so much better to be authentic and honest right away rather than suffer with heart break. The best people are the ones who come through and love us for all that we are. ❤️
Sam, you are an inspiration not just to the trans and gay community but to the stright community to. If people loved like you do the world would be a much better place. Let people be who they want to be and let them decide what is right for them. It's bigoted people who think they have the divine right to impose their way on people who show more love and respect than most. The gay and trans communities generate more love and respect them most. I hope you find a person like yourself to love for eternity. You are one of the most nicest and sexiest guys!! X
Hi I've been Trans ftm for over 5 years. My partner passed away 2 years ago. She accepted my change totally. Now I'm in the no confidence area. Having doubts of ever dating a woman cis or Trans that understands and accepts me. I'm in my 60s and I've had no surgeries but my body looks male. Advice for your thoughts.
I just want to say you’re an adorable human being and I’ve been binging your content. Even though I’m a cis person, your content is just really engaging.
Sam, I think for me as a "CIS" person, those dating tips work for us too. I really appreciated stressing the need for love for yourself.
Why do cis women watch transman vids lol
@@adamant6184 Well, like any "CIS" (I would suspect) we're trying to educate ourselves. But, mostly Nikkie Tutorials reccomends Sam, AND Sam is damn cool. 😊
Adam Ant why shouldn’t we? Didn’t know we were gatekeeping trans creators😐 personally, I’m researching for a book I’m writing. I don’t wanna write about a trans character without hearing actual trans men’s thoughts and views.
Dating as a trans man is very difficult! Good video my guy! 🕺
Thanks my dudeeee!
Thank Goodness I Don't Have To Go Through That Again!!! I have been with my partner for over 10 yrs.👍😎
Great Video!!! Thanks Sam!!!!
Looking good Sam, the facial hair is coming in nicely ✌🏻
Thanks for the uplifting video xx
Love the stache looks good bruh! 💪💯
You have a beautiful soul. Thanks for being amazing and upfront about everything
Very good advice. Such wisdom from someone so young! You have gorgeous eyes btw.
You're not only passing but you're so attractive therefore I don't think you have trouble dating 😘
You the best man! 👍 transguys are more caring and loving.
Early!!! 😍 and so handsome 😍😍😍
Comment Section:Sam you’re so Hot
Sam:Hmmm,I have a new video idea
Clarence Davis III I really don’t want to throw shade on him as it has nothing g to do with the fact of him being trans or not , it’s just that I do not like the attitude ... maybe he comes across so cocky because he is actually the opposite and uses that attitude as a shield but , for me , it is off putting . Just sayin
camila x castillo I dint really pickup on cocky so much as confidence in oneself.After living a false life for years in the wrong body it must truly liberating and ego boosting to FINALLY have your body match your self.
Legit- cis woman late 30s here and though I considered myself an ally I never thought I would actually date a trans man-- but wow was I wrong! My boyfriend is trans and he's absolutely THE BEST ❤
Solide advice, esp about being wholesome person and communication. More examples wouldn’t hurt 😏 I would add - ask questions. And put some humour in your coming out, it always better to make it less serious and dramatic
As always a wonderful wise and articulate sharing.
Thanks dude good advice
Thank you Sam for the inspiration! I love your channel!
Dude. I just met this smoking hot guy. He’s trans, and I am ENAMORED. He’s hot. And sweet. I’m gonna ask him out. I just know the parts so well.
Much love Sam!!
Just started watching your videos, you are so adorable. 🤩
😍😍😍thank youuu!
ALMOST AT 10k boi!!!!!
To make it clear, you are a very good looking man but my humble opinion you look so so so SO much better as a brunette 😍😍😍
Your advice is dead on. Don't go looking for another person to complete or fix you. Don't go looking at all if you are unhappy. No one wants to be around someone unhappy, including other unhappy people.
Would you ever date a guy? Or, you strictly only into girls? I'd love to meet a transgender person to date that wants a guy. I love your videos. I've followed you from the very beginning. I love you dearly.
Very late, but gender identity does not equate to orientation. If that were so, gay people wouldn't exist
You are an attractive creature😍
You look so much like Aaron Taylor-Johnson (the actor)! D:
Kattaliit Rosenørn Løvstrøm Sam looks better
@@sailorsenshi4504 yes he does indeed
! *w*
You look so much like my first boyfriend that I ever had it's scary. But also a good thing to because he was really cute😁
So handsome!😍
Dating apps have been shit for me. It's frustrating.
You are awesome!
Wow. Sam is amazing.
Thank you for video.
Awesome vid fella x
Ugh, marry me already.
sretesh hari You must be such a nice person to be around. Glad to know I’m the sad one.
Some great advice 👍
I’m in love with you 🥰
Great commentary
Thx dude!
You’re amazing
You’re so cute x
Love your videos +
when u say adios 😍😍😍
Sam, you're soo handsome. I love your sweet honey eyes. Love you.
Trans is A ok 😁🌈
Fit 👌🏻🙏❤️
Why do you look like Justin Bieber
I'm in love with you
😍
Ure soo fine ❤️❤️❤️
Handsome. But are you in a bathroom?