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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024
  • My entire transition from the beginning to the end, testosterone, top surgery, bottom surgery, new birth certificate, everything.
    Follow me on Insta: / jammi.dodger

Комментарии • 16 тыс.

  • @katerineella274
    @katerineella274 3 года назад +4970

    I am a 67 yr old woman, I'd like to thank you for sharing your experience as it has been helpful in helping me to understand. You are a lovely person. I wish you a long happy life.

    • @alexanderengh3128
      @alexanderengh3128 3 года назад +156

      Awe this is so cute

    • @prometeusz614
      @prometeusz614 3 года назад +4

      @abby mckenzie No they aren't lmao

    • @wpcgg7786
      @wpcgg7786 3 года назад +75

      Live long and prosper, good woman!

    • @viktor2434
      @viktor2434 3 года назад +54

      We wish a good long life too Katerine

    • @ines22LR
      @ines22LR 3 года назад +11

      @@prometeusz614 abby’s comment got deleted i think, what did she say?

  • @RuthCuadrado
    @RuthCuadrado 4 года назад +4214

    A few things... and i hope none are offensive:
    - he looks so much happier as a man
    - he also got super handsome.
    - love the gf!

    • @bepisguy6963
      @bepisguy6963 4 года назад +208

      None of them are offensive at all

    • @CassyBug
      @CassyBug 4 года назад +175

      I honestly think the happiness he feels being male now adds to his handsomeness

    • @RuthCuadrado
      @RuthCuadrado 4 года назад +44

      The Number One Myme You never know. While I love equality and gender identity gaining ground, it does scare me to death that there’s a minority really looking for any excuse to feel offended, or to use you lack of understanding of a topic to accuse you of anti trans, anti gay pr anti whatever.

    • @missKryssie93
      @missKryssie93 4 года назад +14

      Agree with all points!!

    • @queenfan45
      @queenfan45 4 года назад +46

      You can see his smile get wider and wider in each video, he now seems to have a permanent grin.

  • @espen990
    @espen990 4 года назад +5982

    I'm a cis guy and I can't relate to your experience, but watching your journey and seeing how much it means to you makes me so grateful that we live in a world where this is possible, and I wish every trans person can one day become their true selves. When you got your new birth certificate I couldn't help but cry together with you.

    • @saragarofano9727
      @saragarofano9727 4 года назад +156

      Precious comment

    • @espen990
      @espen990 4 года назад +199

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss I'm a cis guy since I identify as male and was assigned male at birth. Jamie is a trans guy since he identifies as male but was assigned female at birth.

    • @espen990
      @espen990 4 года назад +86

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss Being virtuous takes some effort, Jizz Boss.

    • @jakethereaper8899
      @jakethereaper8899 4 года назад +59

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss cisgender is an actual gender, look it up

    • @mykelmicalromance
      @mykelmicalromance 4 года назад +88

      @@jakethereaper8899 it's not actually a gender, it just describes someone who identifies as what they r biologically

  • @soup331emd5
    @soup331emd5 Год назад +409

    The way your whole demeanor changes as soon the facial hair comes in is insane. Like your skin finally fits.

  • @armita1501
    @armita1501 4 года назад +2922

    That girl is a KEEPER. she was there for him from start to finish. honestly goals

    • @jhowardsupporter
      @jhowardsupporter 4 года назад +5

      Thats a HE. They are men trapped in womens bodies so prefer to be referred to as men.
      EDIT: I've never gotten this many likes before. Thank you so much.

    • @armita1501
      @armita1501 4 года назад +193

      @@jhowardsupporter I was talking about his girlfriend lol

    • @sophiedallariva5006
      @sophiedallariva5006 4 года назад +62

      GasoLINA INK! They were talking about the girlfriend

    • @HypnoticPsychic87
      @HypnoticPsychic87 4 года назад +5

      @@jhowardsupporter The girlfriend wants to be a he as well?

    • @rajab4187
      @rajab4187 4 года назад +1

      Him or her

  • @sammiemicheals474
    @sammiemicheals474 4 года назад +1988

    My boyfriend just took his first dose of T today. I am overwhelmed with gratitude to be alive, loving him, with all these resources and all these amazing people by our side. We've been crying all day, he is bright and perfect

    • @Acetronomy
      @Acetronomy 4 года назад +90

      I know this comment was 3 weeks ago, but I gotta say I'm so proud of him, and you for being so supportive. I can imagine that first day is probably one of the happiest days of a trans persons life!

    • @sammiemicheals474
      @sammiemicheals474 4 года назад +56

      @@Acetronomy Thank you so much for your comment!! ❤️ One month on T, yesterday! Every little change is beautiful and watching him become more comfortable as the days pass are a true blessing!!

    • @VixAnathem
      @VixAnathem 4 года назад +33

      I had just managed to stop crying from the video and your comment reopened the floodgates! Damn you wholesome stranger! Congratulations

    • @ceceliakittyface5301
      @ceceliakittyface5301 4 года назад +21

      I felt the exact same way when my ex/best friend got his first dose. Sent me a pic and I was so happy for him ❤️

    • @lmaolini
      @lmaolini 4 года назад +5

      I wish you all the best♥️

  • @whisperingintothevoid
    @whisperingintothevoid 3 года назад +6792

    I'm in tears. Literally. My 7 year old wanted to know why, so I showed her. She said, and I quote, "he's getting happier and happier!" I wiped my tears and said, "exactly."

  • @lottawisdom50
    @lottawisdom50 Год назад +199

    I’m 60 yo, happily married for 30 years to the man of my life but this video made me smile and feel so happy. May your life continue to be blissful.

  • @ИяЧекотина
    @ИяЧекотина 4 года назад +16898

    Dude his girlfriend (wife) had been with him all his way, that’s amazing

    • @Surdeigt
      @Surdeigt 4 года назад +747

      Indy WHY ARE YOU HERE? Fekking troll, do you search up channels just to be a douche? Do something productive with your life. Read a book or something.

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz 4 года назад +790

      @@Indipuk lmao what the fuck does that mean? she's his GIRLFRIEND not his LESBIAN, please learn basic english if you want to act like a smartass

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz 4 года назад +635

      @@Indipuk you can't just assume her sexuality and thoughts:
      1. she could be pansexual
      2. some people date transexuals AND still identify as heterosexuals, for them if their partner looks/acts as their preferred gender then they actually are that gender, they don't necessarily need to be born that way

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz 4 года назад +292

      @@Indipuk yeah sure just go ahead and do the thinking for the whole world as you do for yourself cause that always works lmao

    • @Maya-ht9tm
      @Maya-ht9tm 4 года назад +456

      @@Indipuk He literally had bottom surgery but go off I guess. Also don't speak for his girlfriend. You don't have the right to do that.

  • @anewbeginningquinn
    @anewbeginningquinn 4 года назад +10584

    Nobody mentionned his girlfriend? She was there from beginning to end, this is amazing. Such a loving person

    • @sweeneyteng6658
      @sweeneyteng6658 4 года назад +331

      I'm waiting for the wedding video 😁

    • @ingridarros5377
      @ingridarros5377 4 года назад +94

      True love

    • @pteroglosis
      @pteroglosis 4 года назад +255

      I'm still crying when he proposed her marriage...

    • @MelJennette
      @MelJennette 4 года назад +158

      Yeah. He’s so fortunate to have such an amazing partner standing by him through the process.

    • @skadi6750
      @skadi6750 4 года назад +270

      @WingsOfTruth Every time you are in a mood to be an asshole, you can just...choose not to be an asshole, you know?

  • @RolandReaves
    @RolandReaves 3 года назад +1161

    The fact that I'm not seeing as many hate comments really makes me happy, I'm glad society is more accepting now.

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves 3 года назад +14

      @Zara Gupta I feel so bad for you.

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves 3 года назад +12

      Nice copy-paste by the way

    • @PilkScientist
      @PilkScientist 3 года назад +21

      @@RolandReaves I like how this fuck also mentions him having functioning breasts and ovaries. Like this isn't a video that specifically shows the surgeries in which those were removed. Hopefully he gets banned or whatever, so we can go back to good vibes

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves 3 года назад +1

      @@bienemats Ikr

    • @amelieweatherill9615
      @amelieweatherill9615 3 года назад +2

      @Zara Gupta shut he doesn't even have those things

  • @tinyluv
    @tinyluv Год назад +531

    started crying when he kneeled down, hoping every trans person can find the love that we deserve ❤

    • @MasculineGuruu
      @MasculineGuruu Год назад

      You’re a comedian
      Is this really that overwhelming or did getting away from god made your gay mind function at this level of stupidity?

    • @amanuelkassahun893
      @amanuelkassahun893 11 месяцев назад +6

      the love that you looking for is found in Jesus

    • @coda6797
      @coda6797 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@amanuelkassahun893stop it. If people want to be preached to they can go to church. Comment sections are not the place for that

    • @slavishentity6705
      @slavishentity6705 11 месяцев назад +22

      ​​@@amanuelkassahun893*in the Flying Spaghetti Monster

    • @aidensudeyko183
      @aidensudeyko183 11 месяцев назад +11

      It was beautiful ❤ and same everyone in the community and everyone else deserves to find the love of their life.

  • @normalhuman1368
    @normalhuman1368 4 года назад +3190

    You can literally see how he gets happier and happier over the years and it's freaking amazing to watch.

  • @guy_onfire
    @guy_onfire 3 года назад +4303

    “Hey my name is Jamie and this is my girlfriend.”
    Captions:
    “Hey my name is Jamie and this is my government.”

    • @goldegreen
      @goldegreen 3 года назад +200

      Mayor Jamie

    • @renmei.
      @renmei. 3 года назад +161

      @@goldegreen or even better, president jamie :D

    • @harlow8979
      @harlow8979 3 года назад +102

      Jamie owns the government. He lost it due to a secret ploy undisclosed in media. So he lost grasp but is slowly regaining his power behind the scenes.

    • @lavender9844
      @lavender9844 3 года назад +27

      Jamieland!

    • @ballpointpen7728
      @ballpointpen7728 3 года назад +13

      @abby mckenzie He's a trans man, Jamie and Shabba are a happy couple.*

  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd 4 года назад +1889

    My son is trans and even just registering him as his proper gender in high school made such an enormous impact. He is a different kid. I am so happy that you are finally where you want to be 100% including the birth certificate. Bravo to you sir. As E.E. Cummings wrote - it takes a lot of courage to grow up and become who you really are.

    • @slushu_6865
      @slushu_6865 3 года назад +86

      Your son is so lucky to have a parent like you!

    • @SandiByrd
      @SandiByrd 3 года назад +68

      @@slushu_6865 Thank you very much for that. I can also say I am so lucky to have a teen like my son

    • @moth6966
      @moth6966 3 года назад +7

      @Zara Gupta she never said her son was into women though

    • @moth6966
      @moth6966 3 года назад +21

      @Zara Gupta also from what I understand ur transphobic, so no hate, you do you, but I was just wondering why do you have a problem with people being happy and how does it affect u in any way?

    • @dasharooisthebest4162
      @dasharooisthebest4162 3 года назад +29

      Can you please be my parent 🥺? My mom's super transphobic 😔

  • @bunny6820
    @bunny6820 2 года назад +959

    Mtf trans here, this gives me hope, and gives me realistic expectations of how long it's gonna take and of being awkward early on, thank you so much

    • @FoxofNothing
      @FoxofNothing 2 года назад +54

      Still you should know that sadly your way as trans woman will be a bid harder :/
      Even more when you started to hit puberty already
      I still wish you the best and hope you can go your way to happiness has fast as possible

    • @goddesssabrina1405
      @goddesssabrina1405 Год назад +18

      Hi there! I’m also MTF trans and this video is so helpful for a realistic timeline and I love Jamie’s content. We’ll get through this together sis!

    • @shakinglikemilk6222
      @shakinglikemilk6222 Год назад +22

      Remember, puberty in general is awkward! Plenty of cis people have an awkward phase once they go through puberty, even figuring out their style and what type of person they want to be and how they want to look like. Don't put too much on pressure on yourself

    • @thesnek7036
      @thesnek7036 Год назад +17

      Before I knew what mtf trans was I just read it as mother frickin trans

    • @recklessstaghomestead
      @recklessstaghomestead Год назад +9

      Don't get bogged down with timelines and expectations. You are doing it and that is exciting. This is the beginning of the rest of your life and everything else will fall into place.

  • @krell.1415
    @krell.1415 4 года назад +6255

    It's so weird seeing him pre-transition, because my brain is wondering where the beard is.

    • @justeundonut-moi.7979
      @justeundonut-moi.7979 4 года назад +70

      Same 😂

    • @scofieldvictoria
      @scofieldvictoria 4 года назад +115

      I kept wondering when the beard would come

    • @OffSatan
      @OffSatan 4 года назад +28

      Your profile pic looks familiar somehow, can't quite put my finger on it though. Is it from some weeb game or something?

    • @sarafernandezfuente5168
      @sarafernandezfuente5168 4 года назад +31

      he wouldn't have beard anyway, he was just a boyy hahaha

    • @efeyzee
      @efeyzee 4 года назад +16

      Yeah and like what are those two bumps on Jamie's chest?

  • @jaygordon7613
    @jaygordon7613 3 года назад +915

    I'm so happy for Jammidodger. From the time I was a child, I knew that I didn't 'feel like a girl', though born with female genitalia. Having been born in 1956, nothing was really known about being transgender, and most adults believed it was 'just a phase' for a girl 'being a tomboy'. As a very young child, my mother insisted on dressing me in frilly dresses and patent leather shoes. I was told to sit quietly while my brother and cousins were outdoors being rambunctious during family holiday visits, and I loathed it. As soon as focus was redirected, I was off sneaking some of my brother's jeans and a tee and tennis shoes, dressing in them, putting my head under the faucet to straighten out the curls, and outside playing, and it always brought me a world of hurt when the relatives went home.
    Dress code at school was dresses or skirts and blouses for girls, with no exception. I was thrilled when preparing to start high school because the dress codes loosened, and I could finally wear jeans or cords to school. I still had to wear a dress or skirt on Sundays, because the Mormon church requires it for girls and women. How I envied my brothers their suits and ties, or even slacks, white button down shirts and ties. And the Mormons are extremely non supportive of LGBTQ or non binary people. I did what I was pretty much forced to do, under the circumstances of when and how I was raised, and I married a man when I was 24 years old, and gave birth to a son. I've remained married, and my husband and son both know who I am, and how I am. I've lived a lie for decades, but I do love them both and would never leave them. And so I've never been able to live my authentic life.
    I'm filled with pride and happiness for every Trans person who moved heaven and earth to achieve their dream, to be who they were. Whoever you are out there, I love you and support you, and rejoice in your happiness and successes, and weep when so many people are cruel, vindictive, and dismissive.

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 года назад +26

      @abby mckenzie Jamie is bi and so is shaaba and Jamie is a man

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 года назад +43

      @shawkat zaman Nope. Menstruation isnt exclusive to women. And not all women menstruate

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 года назад +30

      @Antonio Aight? And plenty of AFAB people cannot menstruate. Idk what your point is

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 года назад +12

      @Antonio Fertile female*. Are you a doctor?

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 года назад +20

      @Antonio Neither of them are lesbians

  • @allissondiego1989
    @allissondiego1989 4 года назад +7457

    I know nothing about gender transition, I Just want to see people happy. This video brings me joy.
    Edit: Guys, it's been many years since I posted this comment. Today I know a thing or two about gender transition and I don't support any irreversible procedure like puberty blockers or surgergy. Especially in minors. I still want people to be happy like before.

    • @AvitalShtap
      @AvitalShtap 4 года назад +34

      Allisson Diego Awww ILY allisson!!

    • @vixymix101
      @vixymix101 4 года назад +113

      If you wanna know more I can give insight.
      You see, trans people suffer from gender dysphoria, the only way to calm it is to transition to their prefered gender. So basically, transitions cure their dysphoria (not fully but so much of it) so in short, they become much more happier when they transition

    • @кислотныйапокалипсис
      @кислотныйапокалипсис 4 года назад +14

      @@vixymix101 dysphoria must be treated psychologically/psychiatrically at first, but under the pressure of lobbyists and pharmaceutical companies, who having billions of dollars for selling meds & operations the process of getting those ridiculously simplified. Why nobody cures people with suicidal thoughts by just letting them commit one? Because it won't solve the main problem . Gender is enormously fluid concept and building anything on it, especially in society, where gender roles, sexism, misogyny are still everywhere is literally dangerous and destructive, especially when definition of gender changes by the needs of those, who have profit

    • @vixymix101
      @vixymix101 4 года назад +116

      @@кислотныйапокалипсис if you'd actually bother to know the only way to properly fix the issue is to work to get a body you are comfortable in.

    • @linanicolia1363
      @linanicolia1363 4 года назад +4

      The suicide rate is over the top. Often, the changes are not working well and complications prevail. They do it because it is available and actually now, it is also " fashionable ". Years ago, girls who thought they wanted to be guys, were labeled "tomboys" ; they got over it, when their natural hormones kicked in. We had one cute little lesbian girl who decided she was going through the change. She did the testosterone, cut her breasts and had an hysterectomy. Nothing below. She/He became unreliable, as he could not show up for work, on time but made excuses about some personal issues. By then he was visibly a guy, with lots of tattoos , whiskers and a deep voice. He got hooked on hard drugs and died, crossing a busy street. We do not know if it was suicide or just confusion. He was a mess ! Why did he not stay a girl with the homosexual tendencies ? We did not care, as we loved him either way. It is OK to be gay ! I see a phobia with transgenders who would prefer to be seen as " normal ", so they may actually be homophobes, we enable to make such radical changes. The surgeons make money......Hospitals make money. So, we go full speed ahead. Destroy functioning body parts for dubious results and see how far we can go with this, when people are dying of starvation, somewhere on the planet, not having enough food to survive. Here, we worry about complying with the issue of expandable sexual identity. Is that off the chart ? Priorities in the wrong places.

  • @willsolacemahsaamini8681
    @willsolacemahsaamini8681 2 года назад +404

    Many people have already said this but anyway, I can’t even think how people can ever be against this. You can see how happier and confident Jamie gets as the video progresses. His reaction to the gender recognition birth certificate was too wholesome. And the proposal 😭
    I smiled the entire video. And Shaaba stayed all the while. THIS IS TOO SWEET.

    • @Helena-ox7cr
      @Helena-ox7cr Год назад +3

      Well he is lucky because he is tall with wide body structure. Who knows perhaps he is chimera having both sexes in various places.
      But it is clear not everybody can pass even with hormone therapy. For some reason Jamie's shoulders are wider. I thought hormones can not affect the skeleton with. Hmmm.

    • @A.leaf.in.a.flower.garden
      @A.leaf.in.a.flower.garden Год назад

      ​@@Helena-ox7crMate, working out can widen your shoulders, just like it can alter other aspects of your body. Not to mention, testosterone changes the fat distribution and allows for muscle mass to be gained easier, which would make his shoulders wider even easier.
      Don't know if you're trying to make some kind of conspiracy, but there is none, just biology.

    • @cukka99
      @cukka99 Год назад

      Why is anything you said relevant? What matters is that practically all trans people who desire transition are happier with transition. The fact that some are luckier than others doesn't change this. The fact that they are happier after (versus before) is all that matters (to us as outsiders). @@Helena-ox7cr

    • @ArDeeMee
      @ArDeeMee Год назад +6

      Oh, the sexism towards short men and tall women is real…
      Not you, op, you‘re cool.

    • @josiewagner8631
      @josiewagner8631 9 месяцев назад +9

      @@Helena-ox7cryou don’t have to pass a test; (especially from a cisgender person), in order to stay out of the storm of hate under the Transgender umbrella. People like to think they are “better “ than most other animals; with rights and privileges, but for Transgender people we often are treated worse than a rabid dog.
      We don’t resort to hate or violence in general, when describing a dog.
      You never hear most people get on the floor of the Capital Building and say that we need to legislate against Poodles because they aren’t real dogs. A German Shepherd is a dog but not a Chihuahua. No we just consider them a different kind of dog. And most people give their dogs and cats the same types of surgeries that are similar to the type that are some of the first surgical treatments that we as consenting Transgender adults have done if we are considering transitioning in this binary obsessed world. We don’t perform trans surgery on children, and you don’t have to have surgery to be standing under the Trans umbrella. My only wish is that one day the storm will pass and the rainbow 🌈 is bigger and brighter than ever……

  • @svd8187
    @svd8187 4 года назад +23863

    Maybe this is odd to say - but this video to me doesn't look like a ftm transition but rather the journey of a teenage boy growing up.

    • @jesstv3029
      @jesstv3029 4 года назад +324

      I totally agree with this.

    • @talbrami
      @talbrami 4 года назад +525

      It's kind of both

    • @themousethatroared3371
      @themousethatroared3371 4 года назад +474

      I agree. Its like watching a grandson growing up. (I'm that old. lol)
      Love that his family was so supportive!

    • @lucaswolf8117
      @lucaswolf8117 4 года назад +379

      I also think from the very beginning he looked more like a guy than a girl, despite the female clothing

    • @Valentin-oc5nh
      @Valentin-oc5nh 4 года назад +43

      Minna Figgs I think it is kinda both

  • @EloLeChan
    @EloLeChan 3 года назад +1677

    God, when he looks up from his certificate, all teary-eyed, and then he smiles and quietly goes "...male"
    That hit me so damn hard-
    Jammi my feeling aaaa

    • @user-hp9is2el7r
      @user-hp9is2el7r 3 года назад +6

      @Zara Gupta shut up

    • @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292
      @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 3 года назад +32

      @Zara Gupta The fact is that you are not a woman because you have female chromosomes and / or female genitalia. The difference between gender and sex is not very clear to you. Gender is not physical, he is a boy, despite not having been born with male genitalia. If you don't agree, shut up, he went through a big fight, don't be disrespectful.

    • @Lena-xl3ph
      @Lena-xl3ph 3 года назад +6

      @Zara Gupta murder on my mind

    • @Lena-xl3ph
      @Lena-xl3ph 3 года назад +15

      @@naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 well said.
      Zara Gupta is making me want to end my existence being transphobic in every single sub-comment. How much time does she have on her hands 😭💀

    • @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292
      @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 3 года назад +4

      @@Lena-xl3ph Thanks, and yeah, I don't understand why people keep thinking like that... Also, hope u are okay 💖

  • @18937charlotte
    @18937charlotte 4 года назад +1247

    This honestly had me in tears. As a cisgender woman, I can only imagine how horrible it must be to feel like you were born or straight up being born in the wrong gender, especially in this society. The journey taking so long and entailing so many difficult procedures must have filled you with despair on the way from time to time, and I am baffled at your strength! And that makes it all the more beautiful and amazing how well your transition has turned out! You look amazing, brother!

    • @yusufgazi7
      @yusufgazi7 4 года назад +5

      Can cis men take testosterone?

    • @felix121984
      @felix121984 4 года назад +2

      You are not female ! You are male period !

    • @PavementRyan
      @PavementRyan 4 года назад +16

      Especially if your parents are religious and are extremely transphobic and you’re in deep gender dysphoria

    • @annaquattlebaum3415
      @annaquattlebaum3415 4 года назад +27

      felix121984 who are u talking to bruh

    • @mr_sugas_fire3015
      @mr_sugas_fire3015 4 года назад +25

      Anna Quattlebaum
      Lmao i dont think they know what cisgender means 😂😂😂

  • @lemongreed7916
    @lemongreed7916 2 года назад +1044

    I'm a hetero cis woman and I never understood trans people feelings and always wondered, did they really need transitioning? Seeing this video I know now - yes. It is beautiful. I'm so glad for you. I literally started crying when you started crying over your birth certificate. Just seeing a man become what he was always meant to be. I'm also amazed that you have such a supportive family and girlfriend. Aand I must note - I think you are lucky to be naturally tall :)

    • @patriotkoblensky9478
      @patriotkoblensky9478 Год назад +10

      SILLY that is so silly

    • @CharityApple07
      @CharityApple07 Год назад +66

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 Yes, expression of emotion and empathy that is used to answer a question with nothing but emotion is silly! So so so silly. How could this person see the story of emotional parts in media play out behind their tears if they're crying! Truly a Bateman Moment!

    • @CharityApple07
      @CharityApple07 Год назад +34

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 But Jamie doesn't seem sick in the beginning, and he doesn't seem very sick while crying happily (a very deserved emotion) opening his new birth certificate legally stating him as male over eight years later. How would it make you nauseous-levels of sick?

    • @VeraEdelman
      @VeraEdelman Год назад

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 I legitimately have no idea what the fuck you’re trying to say

    • @patriotkoblensky9478
      @patriotkoblensky9478 Год назад +1

      @@VeraEdelman and i the same about you

  • @roy_theruler8132
    @roy_theruler8132 4 года назад +764

    Bro, this isn’t just a transition video, this is a damn glow up vid too!! So happy for you!

    • @rhodoraescalona6441
      @rhodoraescalona6441 3 года назад +2

      Yeah

    • @nageen.
      @nageen. 3 года назад +8

      @no name no name *he, and he is a bro. get your transphobia outta here

    • @selma7452
      @selma7452 3 года назад +9

      @no name no name He is a man and if you don’t respect that than get your transphobic ass out of here :)

    • @lilithic6337
      @lilithic6337 3 года назад +4

      @no name no name do you have a kink or smt for embarrassing yourself like that

    • @roy_theruler8132
      @roy_theruler8132 3 года назад

      @@rameenmujtaba9752 Yes yes it is, because she is a queen

  • @idkwhattoputhere5578
    @idkwhattoputhere5578 4 года назад +1280

    When he proposed, everyone liked that

    • @jordanjoy9040
      @jordanjoy9040 4 года назад +1

      she..not he...

    • @idkwhattoputhere5578
      @idkwhattoputhere5578 4 года назад +48

      @@jordanjoy9040 let’s play would you rather! :D would you rather educate yourself or keep your goddamn mouth shut?

    • @amywonderland9297
      @amywonderland9297 4 года назад +31

      @@jordanjoy9040 Why are you here if you're just going to do shit like this? That's just cruel! You've actively searched for this kind of video just to use the wrong pronouns? What? Nothing good on telly, so you thought being a dick on someone's very inspiring, brave and wonderful journey was a better use of your time? On behalf of everyone here, Fuck off.

    • @idkwhattoputhere5578
      @idkwhattoputhere5578 4 года назад +6

      @@bmw_m4255 lol

    • @ja97417
      @ja97417 4 года назад

      Not me

  • @eeeezypeezy
    @eeeezypeezy 4 года назад +920

    I'm a cis gay man and I absolutely adored this compilation. It made me so emotional to see how much LIGHTER you looked after your transition was well underway. Even setting aside the more obvious and dramatic physical changes, the difference in the look in your eyes drives it home better than any words could just how fucking important it is that trans and gender nonconforming people be seen and recognized and celebrated for who they *really* are. You're a great communicator of your experience, and we're lucky to have you putting it out on the internet like this.

    • @cappnawshumxderp3661
      @cappnawshumxderp3661 4 года назад +12

      eeeezypeezy THIS COMMENT. Is everything

    • @patrickv.3979
      @patrickv.3979 4 года назад +3

      I second this on every detail! This is so interesting for me, as a cis gay man, and I'm happy I found him a few weeks ago.

    • @seanmartin1212
      @seanmartin1212 4 года назад +1

      eeeezypeezy
      , I love your comment. It is so spot on.

    • @Transpenguincy
      @Transpenguincy 4 года назад +1

      eeeezypeezy bless you sir

  • @inkycreeper250
    @inkycreeper250 Год назад +72

    Im a transmasc, and since I’m still dependent on my parents and living in a *rather* not lgbtq friendly environment, sometimes somethings in life really discourages me. There’s even times where im actually feeling pretty hopeless. This video really inspired me, really. It’s always these types of videos and stuff that gives me hope and encourages me to keep going and fighting for a brighter future. Thank you, Jamie.

  • @wonderwharf
    @wonderwharf 4 года назад +764

    I'll never forget that line from B99 when Captain Holt goes: "Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place." I've never seen your videos before but this made me tear up!! MASSIVE love from Portland, OR :)

  • @shiruki8974
    @shiruki8974 4 года назад +4870

    I think it's safe to say we all cried at the certificate part

  • @carsoogie
    @carsoogie 3 года назад +1117

    i lost it at "i now have two balls. i have balls."
    but seriously, congrats man. wishing you love and all the best!!

    • @tupespa
      @tupespa 3 года назад +13

      samee 💀

  • @mattbosley3531
    @mattbosley3531 2 года назад +188

    I don't know exactly how a trans person feels, but as a gay male who hid behind a mask until my twenties because my parents were ultra religious and considered being gay a sin that would send you straight to hell - I think I can imagine, just a little. Being something you're not every day is difficult and painful.

    • @passionate_possum_pal
      @passionate_possum_pal 2 года назад +39

      @@ahahuehafook4207 he is a man, what's a man, and will always be a man. The difference from him in the past and him now, is that he is happy living is who he truly is. He's happy in his body and he's happy in his life.

    • @jamsistired
      @jamsistired Год назад +19

      @@ahahuehafook4207 I think you should maybe stop raining on the parade

    • @eddieworkman5855
      @eddieworkman5855 Год назад

      some people only get sex changes if there gay as they want to be straight

    • @dragosrandomstuff9261
      @dragosrandomstuff9261 Год назад

      @@ahahuehafook4207 how does he look like a woman
      Tell me

    • @itsjustme4848
      @itsjustme4848 Год назад +6

      @@ahahuehafook4207 if you check chromosomes you’re correct. In pretty much every other way, you’re wrong.

  • @sillystringeater
    @sillystringeater 4 года назад +364

    I never never cry but.. when he started crying and said "male.." in the birth certificate bro I started tearing up

  • @sammichbread
    @sammichbread 4 года назад +1511

    "my name is... jamie"
    the hesitation... i felt that... for me it's like "t..this is my name but am i allowed to call myself that"

    • @nicholasrobertson4200
      @nicholasrobertson4200 4 года назад +65

      I feel that. I only just came out to the world on Wednesday, and yesterday I introduced myself as Nick for the first time, and while it felt amazing, it also felt like I shouldn't call myself that yet. I don't know. It was weird.

    • @lucamorgi8064
      @lucamorgi8064 4 года назад +27

      I felt that. The first time introducing myself as Luca I was so excited

    • @zApple769
      @zApple769 4 года назад +6

      @@nicholasrobertson4200 ♥️♥️♥️

    • @zApple769
      @zApple769 4 года назад +6

      @@lucamorgi8064 ♥️♥️♥️

    • @sammichbread
      @sammichbread 4 года назад +12

      congratulations luca & nick!!! :D
      i came out to my mom last year but it kind of feels like she's just shoved me back into the closet tbh ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @chaosnoelle
    @chaosnoelle 4 года назад +709

    My brother is trans. I feel so sad for him when I see all these transitions on RUclips. His psychologist ruined everything for him, and now he is unable to get testosterone and so there's no hope for surgery. He is an adult now and still looks so young. I know how much it tears on his self esteem that he has no facial hair and still has to deal with his feminine features. I will never lose hope he will one day get approved for testosterone..

    • @majcios-zt5ci
      @majcios-zt5ci 4 года назад +83

      I hope that he will stay strong and get better one day

    • @plestrange511
      @plestrange511 4 года назад +66

      Wishing him the best & he's lucky to have such a supportive sibling!

    • @vanessawestbrook9846
      @vanessawestbrook9846 4 года назад +45

      I know this might be overstepping boundaries but I was wondering how did his psychologist mess it up for him

    • @chaosnoelle
      @chaosnoelle 4 года назад +124

      @@vanessawestbrook9846 It's alright :) Going to a psychologist is the first step to your transition (at least where I live) because they have to judge wether you are 'actually trans' or not. If they decide you cannot transition, that's the end of your journey for then. Without the 'Go' from a psychologist, you can't get access to hormone therapy.
      My brothers psychologist didn't understand that he needed time to open up, so she instead decided that he was not cooperative and judged him based on the fact he didn't talk much in the first sessions. She was a dick to him and denied him access to testosterone.
      Now, my brother is so discouraged he hasn't tried again... And it's harder to get approval for Testosterone after you already got a 'no'.

    • @vanessawestbrook9846
      @vanessawestbrook9846 4 года назад +66

      @@chaosnoelle I hope he doesn't get discouraged and that he finds a better psychologist hopefully one day he'll get testosterone wishing him the best

  • @lilybliblablubb5023
    @lilybliblablubb5023 2 года назад +328

    It's so weird seeing him in his female body, but as the video progresses, he becomes more and more himself, the one he wants to be, the one we know, and that's pretty awesome

    • @kiedisboughen5318
      @kiedisboughen5318 Год назад +12

      He still looks kinda masculine in his before pics

    • @basilishot336
      @basilishot336 Год назад +9

      @@kiedisboughen5318it just looks like him with long hair and no beard to me

    • @PostalFerretWithRum
      @PostalFerretWithRum 11 месяцев назад +1

      "her" "she"

    • @catbunny4785
      @catbunny4785 11 месяцев назад +13

      @@PostalFerretWithRumhow many people in your life actually love you?

    • @acidsprinkl3r8744
      @acidsprinkl3r8744 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@PostalFerretWithRum Get that stick out your butt or leave

  • @cupofbees9413
    @cupofbees9413 4 года назад +1948

    Everyone in the comments is talking about crying once he got the birth certificate and i thought i wouldn’t cry. Guess who’s sobbing

  • @anastasia.00
    @anastasia.00 4 года назад +995

    When he started crying because of the birth certificate 😭😭 I'm so so happy for you!

    • @kellyriddell5014
      @kellyriddell5014 4 года назад +34

      He seems so sweet. I'm so glad he's happy. Also he and his girlfriend (or wife, not actually sure if they've gotten married yet) seem wonderful for each other.

  • @owenjames877
    @owenjames877 4 года назад +517

    My pre T ass sitting here crying over this- one day all I'll have left to change is my birth certificate. Knowing that is somehow crushing and exciting simultaneously, because it feels so far away but will be so sweet. At 6:50 he says "male" with such emotion, its like a triumph, a relief. So touching.

    • @maddiedraws5777
      @maddiedraws5777 4 года назад +12

      Good luck! I'm rooting for you :D

    • @owenjames877
      @owenjames877 4 года назад +6

      @@maddiedraws5777 Thank you!!!

    • @maddiedraws5777
      @maddiedraws5777 4 года назад +7

      @@owenjames877 You deserve it!!!

    • @linanicolia1363
      @linanicolia1363 4 года назад +12

      The sex is in your DNA, not on a piece of paper after some possibly botched surgical procedures. Who you are is not defined by your sex but by your mind !

    • @MrGameManIsCool
      @MrGameManIsCool 4 года назад +5

      lina nicolia it’s to help with things like gender dysphasia and stuff

  • @m68lanc
    @m68lanc 2 года назад +40

    I’m a foster carer and we need to be prepared to support our young people as they go through so many stages of self discovery, your story has helped me get a better understanding of something I honestly found difficult to connect with. I know your transition story will help me better support a young person who is dealing with the same thing, thank you for opening my mind and hopefully making me a better foster carer.

  • @elliotpeters2054
    @elliotpeters2054 4 года назад +416

    This was absolutely magical to watch. I'm a cis guy, and I just turned twenty this year, and honestly, I'm really feeling the emotions of leaving my teenage years behind and growing up. Jamie's journey is such an inspiration to all young men, cis or trans, who are coming into their own and finding who they were always meant to be. Thank you for being such an inspiration. I'm subscribed.

    • @mettapeachhead2076
      @mettapeachhead2076 3 года назад +12

      You are lucky that Zara Gupta hasn't replied to you

    • @thatstarperson7789
      @thatstarperson7789 3 года назад +4

      @@mettapeachhead2076 yeah

    • @darrya8637
      @darrya8637 3 года назад +4

      @@mettapeachhead2076 fr they are in every comment section

    • @casualfanboy16
      @casualfanboy16 3 года назад

      I found Jamie through a One Topic collab video. Subscribing to his channel was a great choice.

    • @Lena-xl3ph
      @Lena-xl3ph 3 года назад +1

      @@mettapeachhead2076 lmao hahaha the best thing I’ve seen all day she is so annoying
      Edit oh no she’s here but at least it’s only one comment

  • @Mark-oz7vp
    @Mark-oz7vp 4 года назад +815

    Who else started to cry, when he opened the letter? I have to say: I'm a Transman to and I haven't started transition yet and I hope it will all go well.

    • @mightbeavampire
      @mightbeavampire 4 года назад +25

      good luck on your personal transition
      i don't cry but i was showing my brother(trans man) and he was crying and i couldn't make sentences (my version of crying)

    • @Mark-oz7vp
      @Mark-oz7vp 4 года назад +10

      @@mightbeavampire thank you, I think I can need all the luck I can get.

    • @aligershon
      @aligershon 4 года назад +6

      @M End I wish you the best of luck.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 4 года назад +7

      Good luck! ❤️🙏🌈

    • @oibruv3889
      @oibruv3889 4 года назад +1

      Good luck

  • @peapotfairy
    @peapotfairy 4 года назад +214

    Um, can we talk about how well done this video is? I scrolled for a while and was surprised that I saw no comments about the fantastic edits and clip choices. The rewind was super cute and really creative. Aside from the overwhelming joy I felt in watching the story and the relief of seeing the bookend on Jami's transition, he has a real talent with storytelling through video. This was great all around.

  • @macatacwarrior7204
    @macatacwarrior7204 Год назад +156

    i broke out into a huge grin when you started talking at the 3 month update because i started to hear your iconic voice
    i’m proud of you, man

    • @markpetrov9476
      @markpetrov9476 Год назад +7

      Same. I'm yet to start T but this makes me really hope that my voice would start changing soon enough after I do start. Coz I feel like it's one of the biggest parts of my own dysphoria

    • @nikumotosama4075
      @nikumotosama4075 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@markpetrov9476Well, I hope your transition goes well bro 😊 rootin for ya!

    • @cvVampria
      @cvVampria 7 месяцев назад

      @@markpetrov9476 Hey, how has it been for you? Did you start T already? And if so, how'd your voice evolving? ^^

    • @markpetrov9476
      @markpetrov9476 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@cvVampria I didn't because of the messed up laws making it even harder to get. frankly illegal for a trans diagnosis, but I had my gender marker changed so to acces it I can get a prescription as if I'm cis but have an imbalance. But I don't want to risk going on t and then having my doc suddenly backpedal. Coz y'know it's not too safe for allies. But I got hope. A bit of it at least. Got to move in with a couple trans gals and that helped with coping.

    • @jasonnicholasschwarz7788
      @jasonnicholasschwarz7788 6 месяцев назад +1

      The voice is really amazing, he's so lucky it turned out that way, also a real Adam's apple, I don't know how he pulled that off :)) He never looked like a girl/woman to begin with, so his chances to turn out to look that great were very high from the start. And finding your soulmate on top of all that...he sure is one lucky bastard!:) When I look at the early pictures of your relationship I am getting past-life connections here. She might have been your mother in a previous life, honestly, the way she looks after you and everything. LIfe's such a miracle.

  • @nicholaswhitby3124
    @nicholaswhitby3124 4 года назад +408

    You helped me understand what "Transgender" meant and come into my own identity as a transguy, not to mention I used a lot of your advice and hacks, and seeing someone I look up to finishing their journey to happiness in their self is so so great. Love you Jamie ❤️

    • @jamsquan9415
      @jamsquan9415 4 года назад +11

      Casper Whitby for real, jamie was a big part in the beginning of my personal transition, seeing a british guy who i’m very similar to made all the difference back then. i fully sobbed during this video which i did NOT expect, i had to keep taking my glasses off lol. it really touched me and gave me back some hope in a way i didn’t expect. lovely video ❤️

    • @user-rn3mq5tl8y
      @user-rn3mq5tl8y 4 года назад +2

      @@jamsquan9415 me too, good to know I'm not the only brit here

  • @Midnight_Luv_
    @Midnight_Luv_ 4 года назад +789

    I know I'm late, but I only found Jamie recently.
    As a trans male, I find this video absolutely wonderful. My parents don't call me their son or use my name, Jake, and it's going to be *years* before I'm able to start T. But Jamie has came so far and I love him so much. He gives me hope in the world that maybe someday I'll be like him. Accepting parents and loving friends.
    Jamie, thank you so much for giving me hope in this dark world that one day I'll find the light. I love you so much. Thank you.

    • @melonelle7539
      @melonelle7539 3 года назад +34

      Hope you have a wonderful future ahead of you Jake! Stay strong!

    • @j_fenrir
      @j_fenrir 3 года назад +40

      Hey Jake. My best friend, Jeb, is also constantly misgendered and deadnamed by their parents and I have seen how horrible that is to face. I just want you to know: I accept you, I respect you and I support you. No matter how many times people disregard who you are - just know that the microscopic stringy bits in your cells' nuclei don't define you. They never will. You define yourself.
      All the love and support for the future 🧡

    • @Midnight_Luv_
      @Midnight_Luv_ 3 года назад +22

      Omg, thank you guys so much. That means so much to me. This is why I come to supportive YT channels all the time. The community are the most amazing people ever. I hope it gets better for Jeb!!

    • @itz_crystalgalaxyuwu
      @itz_crystalgalaxyuwu 3 года назад +19

      Hey Jake,
      I just want you to know that I support you and I'm proud of you for coming out and being yourself. It's really sad that your parents don't accept you and love you. It's really sad and even disrespectful that they deadname you and don't accept the fact that you want to be called Jake.
      I don't really know what I should say to make you feel better or help you but just know that I support you. Know that I'm proud of you. You're amazing, strong and very brave. I'm so proud of you! I know I've said that a few times already but I really am!
      You can get trough this, I'm sure. Stay strong!
      Moonꨄ︎

    • @Midnight_Luv_
      @Midnight_Luv_ 3 года назад +5

      @Zara Gupta I can't tell who you're talking about. Are you talking about me?

  • @oscarvasquez5431
    @oscarvasquez5431 3 года назад +3496

    My kid is going on testosterone by the end of the month and I looked to see what to expect. Thank you for sharing as I help and support my son.

    • @porcelaincats86
      @porcelaincats86 3 года назад +285

      You're a great parent :)

    • @saturn___
      @saturn___ 3 года назад +197

      your such a good parent, tell him i said congrats :]

    • @greego5952
      @greego5952 3 года назад +9

      @TheSnailestOfThemAll I only stated my opinion and I am not saying that their decisions were wrong.

    • @ashtr333
      @ashtr333 3 года назад +63

      you’re a great parent :)

    • @odette5031
      @odette5031 3 года назад +61

      @@greego5952 you can’t go on T if you’re underage, get your facts right before you comment

  • @kathryn939
    @kathryn939 Год назад +42

    The tears of opening the new birth certificate were immediately contagious, and then the outro mirroring the style of the intro?? No hope, I am a puddle of tears

  • @boredweegie553
    @boredweegie553 4 года назад +1295

    My son is FTM and has same boyfriend for 7 years now..From way before...So proud of him ♥️well done you too 👌♥️

    • @jm7804
      @jm7804 4 года назад +119

      Elaine, your son is lucky. That kind of support doesn't come along too often.

    • @jm7804
      @jm7804 3 года назад +45

      @Zara Gupta you're an idiot...thanks for sharing

    • @user-en2hu6wp7p
      @user-en2hu6wp7p 3 года назад +39

      @Zara Gupta fuck you, *he* is not elaines daughter *he* is elaines son.

    • @twentyeight602
      @twentyeight602 3 года назад +20

      @Zara Gupta Jeez what's your problem?

    • @rosie5348
      @rosie5348 3 года назад +2

      You look good Btw

  • @sobennison7344
    @sobennison7344 4 года назад +5703

    No one:
    Jammie: I am going to make everyone cry their eyes out.

    • @youdonthavetoknow5265
      @youdonthavetoknow5265 4 года назад +21

      yep... literally cried my eyes out... thanks Jammi...

    • @burreal9916
      @burreal9916 4 года назад +12

      Why am I cryin in the club rn

    • @petitmeowmeow
      @petitmeowmeow 4 года назад +27

      *passes tissues around*

    • @IPONJ
      @IPONJ 4 года назад +6

      Mission accomplished.

    • @sloan_kooshan
      @sloan_kooshan 4 года назад +5

      Needless Pictures I KNOW RIGHT 😭😭😭😭

  • @fairy5668
    @fairy5668 3 года назад +1012

    AHHH SOMEONE MUST HAVE CUT ONIONS WHEN JAMIE OPENED THE ENVELOPE BC I CANNOT CONTROL MY TEARS

    • @5ft2mikahakkinen
      @5ft2mikahakkinen 3 года назад +25

      Those damn onion cutting ninjas!

    • @francesatty7022
      @francesatty7022 3 года назад +24

      jamie: starts crying
      me: starts crying

    • @henessy.-.45
      @henessy.-.45 3 года назад +9

      Same.. And Im not easily emotional

    • @MintMaxer
      @MintMaxer 3 года назад +8

      It was me, i was cutting the onions

    • @fairy5668
      @fairy5668 3 года назад +5

      @@MintMaxer LMAO ty for fessing up

  • @wikihowtobreathe
    @wikihowtobreathe 2 года назад +37

    "Feeling complete". Jamie, this is such a wonderful thing to hear, it literally brought tears to my eyes. It's so complicated to feel complete, just in general, but you feel complete, you're confident in your identity, you can move on. I can't explain how touching this is for me to hear. I discovered your channel today and ended up scrolling through your videos, until I stopped by this one. How I wish everyone in the world could understand how mesmerizing this is. Thank you for sharing your story. Much love from your new subscriber 🤍

  • @Luubelaar
    @Luubelaar 3 года назад +511

    I'm a cis-het woman who has always identified as female, so I have zero idea of what it's like to be trans and the struggles trans people go through... and this video was one of the most wholesome and uplifting videos I've ever seen.
    Just seeing the joy in your face the more masculine you became was so beautiful.
    That moment of overwhelmed happiness when you got your certificate was so raw, I teared up a bit too.
    I'm so happy for you that you can truly be yourself.

    • @alicedefrance4411
      @alicedefrance4411 2 года назад +12

      When we begin our transition, it is often an immense happiness that sets in, we feel we are changing little by little ^_^ But what can spoil everything is what is called "ordinary transphobia" mainly, physical violence, aggression, and worse, are fortunately punctual (and even then, not always...) ''Ordinary'' violence is therefore ''jokes'' like ''I am a combat helicopter'' and all the variations, questions that are too intimate, because we are seen as ''things'' and not human beings deserving respect and benevolence; it is also the remarks behind our backs, the refusal of jobs, housing, while until the visualization of our identity documents before the legal change... more or less rapid change depending on the country, and sometimes impossible . I live in France, and until 2017, to change the M to F on the identity card, the judges could require (and systematically did) proof that we were operated on at the genital level, with a minimum size for , I quote, ''to allow penetration'' (even if we explain to them that it does not concern us! ), and the second objective in the requirement of these surgeries was to castrate us...
      One last example : a student doctor, when he leaves my room, said ’’all these are hiv positive whore ’’ ....

  • @kookiedough2004
    @kookiedough2004 3 года назад +260

    Seeing his smile grow lil by lil is the most beautiful thing

    • @kookiedough2004
      @kookiedough2004 3 года назад +8

      @sylvia basrami it's his:)

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves 3 года назад +8

      @sylvia basrami If you want to spread hate, go on twitter. Stay the fuck out of here.

    • @bean5157
      @bean5157 3 года назад +6

      @mel deq I think I'll have to correct you.
      *his :)
      like come on what good are you doing by spreading hate? who hurt you?

  • @arielpintar8146
    @arielpintar8146 4 года назад +341

    6:45 I started crying, and I don't cry often, but this got into my heart

  • @anarchy90210
    @anarchy90210 22 дня назад +3

    i'm a young transmasc kid and to see your transition start to finish makes me so incredibly happy and gives me so much hope. i really really really wanna start T and get top surgery and you have given me hope that i'll finally look how i want to. thank you and good luck!

  • @marino1526
    @marino1526 4 года назад +311

    I'm a cis man and I strongly support trans people. I'm autistic and know many trans people who are.
    After seeing lots of transphobic and TERF comments on the Internet, it's so heartwarming to see this wonderful video and those supportive comments!

  • @juicecarton5076
    @juicecarton5076 4 года назад +303

    This made me cry, I feel like a proud dad even though I’m only 14

  • @uniqueusername_
    @uniqueusername_ 3 года назад +604

    I’m transgender, pre-everything medically but not in the closet, and this video made me cry.. seeing how happy you are and hoping that I can do (some of) these steps... it hits so hard.

    • @bumble1303
      @bumble1303 3 года назад +16

      Aw good luck with your transition 😊

    • @uniqueusername_
      @uniqueusername_ 3 года назад +7

      @@bumble1303 Thank you! That’s really sweet.

    • @Schnort
      @Schnort 3 года назад +5

      I'd love to hear some news!

    • @michaelfairbairn4283
      @michaelfairbairn4283 3 года назад +6

      Wishing you much happiness in your transition! I'm so glad things are starting to get better for my trans brothers and sisters.

    • @SpringStarFangirl
      @SpringStarFangirl 3 года назад +1

      Good luck, friend!

  • @NeroAlexander28
    @NeroAlexander28 2 года назад +49

    I am a Cis gay man that had no fucking idea what it is to be Trans, so what am going with this is I want to thank you and Shaaba from the bottom of my heart for sharing this journey. I personally have learned so much, still have ways to go I feel very ignorant in a lot of stuff when it comes to my own community (Queer) But watching this video made me cry from joy and I am so truly happy for you both. Wish you two all the best and thank you!

  • @DJDNDK
    @DJDNDK 4 года назад +886

    After creeping thru the comments, i have concluded that the haters manifest themselves in the replies more than in the actual comments.

    • @Tendo641
      @Tendo641 4 года назад +159

      because they're too much of wusses to have their shitty opinions that easy to find.

    • @mollytovxx4181
      @mollytovxx4181 4 года назад +164

      @@Tendo641 Nah I think they are hijacking popular comments because their terrible opinions don't get boosted by enough likes to be seen on their own.

    • @Tendo641
      @Tendo641 4 года назад +81

      @@mollytovxx4181 that does sound more plausible, actually.

    • @olive7195
      @olive7195 4 года назад +20

      SCREW YOU... just kidding :))

    • @olive7195
      @olive7195 4 года назад +21

      I definitely agree though.

  • @laurelcook9078
    @laurelcook9078 3 года назад +4173

    The way your girlfriend became a kangaroo when you proposed was magical 😂

    • @acebucky3293
      @acebucky3293 3 года назад +54

      Are you Aussie by any chance😂🤣

    • @siasblacktwinsister285
      @siasblacktwinsister285 3 года назад +39

      LMFAO it's so cute

    • @standardhuman8675
      @standardhuman8675 3 года назад +55

      She BOUNCE

    • @PmpknHead
      @PmpknHead 3 года назад +45

      @Antonio Shaaba is beautiful you’re just an asshole 💛
      Edit: he deleted the comments, yay

    • @ummmmmmmmmmmm4293
      @ummmmmmmmmmmm4293 3 года назад +24

      @Antonio don't comment on people's bodies and weight, she didn't ask you

  • @beckyc8104
    @beckyc8104 4 года назад +415

    Its stuff like this that makes me clueless how anyone can be transphobic! Why wouldn't you want to see people being as happy as Jamie was opening that certificate! If transitioning can make someone so happy and so much more comfortable being their true self, why would anyone be against that?!

    • @BLZ231
      @BLZ231 4 года назад +39

      Ignorance and religious indoctrination. They just don’t understand, and in some cases they don’t want to understand.

    • @lorriecreamer7218
      @lorriecreamer7218 4 года назад +29

      @@BLZ231 well said, and unfortunately very true. I’m 67 and don’t have a problem with it at all, but most people in my family and my husband’s family are totally freaked out by things like this. That makes me so sad.

    • @trademarkt
      @trademarkt 3 года назад +8

      @Zara Gupta ive seen your other comments saying how hes homophobic or something (oh btw youre absolutely wrong) and even if he was (he isnt) youre not any better by being transphobic by replying to the moms in the comments telling them that their sons are girls

    • @sammiemicheals474
      @sammiemicheals474 3 года назад +11

      @@trademarkt zara has over 400 transphobic comments report everything they post

    • @gaminggoldyhasABANDONED
      @gaminggoldyhasABANDONED 3 года назад +6

      @Zara Gupta oh come on, you're being transphobic on other comments too? Don't you have anything better to do?

  • @KatCrunch13
    @KatCrunch13 Год назад +43

    Its so cool to hear his voice become more and more like yhe one we hear now. So happy for him!

    • @TheLuckyCop
      @TheLuckyCop 11 месяцев назад +3

      @user-vw1yz3cb3l "the trans agenda" I'm not even gonna read that shit just by those three words alone

  • @concept5631
    @concept5631 3 года назад +4643

    Jamie: **comes out as Trans**
    Jamie's Dad: *I fail to see how this is a fucking problem.*

    • @kendallope
      @kendallope 3 года назад +242

      Sobbing...very jealous. Those are gosh darn great parents, I’m so happy he has them. 😭😭😭this is beautiful

    • @fillipetheclown2343
      @fillipetheclown2343 3 года назад +42

      damn I wish

    • @Lucy-lg4so
      @Lucy-lg4so 3 года назад +35

      @shawkat zaman but Jamie doesn’t menstruate

    • @seymonmerit7309
      @seymonmerit7309 3 года назад +30

      @shawkat zaman Calm down, TERF bot

    • @CainXVII
      @CainXVII 3 года назад +93

      My mom told my dad I wanted to be a boy. He responded "having to shave is a bother."

  • @mjcoteco7781
    @mjcoteco7781 4 года назад +368

    Imagine not knowing a person but still crying over their joy because you've been watching them so long. The internet is weird.

    • @heroofpots4428
      @heroofpots4428 4 года назад +9

      Marina Coteco that’s what jamie’s video’s’ll do to ya lol. He’s such a compassionate person the empathy just wears off on everyone

  • @papertowels2332
    @papertowels2332 3 года назад +2337

    I’m ftm trans and I couldn’t stop crying during this video. I want this. I want it so bad I’m so happy for him

    • @papertowels2332
      @papertowels2332 2 года назад +72

      @@emenemett no need to apologize, you’re all good.
      Because an afab (assigned female at birth) person does not naturally produce testosterone, they’ll need to keep taking T for their entire life if they want to keep their appearance- stopping it would result in facial hair stopping growing, breasts beginning to form again, etc.
      Also, someone doesn’t need to take T shots only, many use other forms such as pills or gel- Jamie for example switched to gel not too long ago.
      Hope this answers your question!

    • @emenemett
      @emenemett 2 года назад +13

      @@papertowels2332 Thank you! 😁

    • @TobyTedTalks
      @TobyTedTalks 2 года назад +38

      @@emenemett testosterone is a lifetime thing that you take, but it’s not needed to be trans. And it’s not rude! I appreciate you trying to learn 💕

    • @NeonSolo
      @NeonSolo 2 года назад +26

      You'll have it one day, don't ever give up. Don't ever stop fighting for your happiness and your freedom to express yourself however you so choose. You're amazing and valid even pre-transition.

    • @joeytwoeyes
      @joeytwoeyes 2 года назад +29

      that's actually not exactly how it works: testosterone doesn't affect breasts once they've grown in (once once you've had them removed, estrogen won't bring them back) and things like facial hair and voice are permanent changes. but some changes, like fat redistribution and muscle growth, aren't permanent and will revert. but facial hair sticks around :)

  • @cameron_was.here27
    @cameron_was.here27 8 месяцев назад +3

    Omg when Jamie started crying I immediately started balling my eyes out. maybe it's just the testosterone and all the new hormones in me rn but either way I am so beyond happy for him and I can't wait to get there one day.

  • @existenceispain_geekthesiren
    @existenceispain_geekthesiren 4 года назад +1926

    I’m
    I’m crying
    No kidding
    This is amazing
    I’m a cisgender woman, but this is probably one of the most joyful things I’ve seen

    • @rcps3166
      @rcps3166 4 года назад +15

      What is cisgender.
      -from a bisexual niebour:)

    • @existenceispain_geekthesiren
      @existenceispain_geekthesiren 4 года назад +39

      Raquel Perez Straight but with gender. You’re a girl (or a boy), you’ve always been a girl (/boy), mentally and physically, no confusion. Hope this helps :)

    • @rcps3166
      @rcps3166 4 года назад +14

      @@existenceispain_geekthesiren oh thanks it did

    • @tjltl
      @tjltl 4 года назад +10

      Raquel Perez Being not trans or starting the gender you were at birth

    • @cozmicfreak
      @cozmicfreak 4 года назад +4

      IM CRYING SM TOO

  • @babzm.1666
    @babzm.1666 4 года назад +799

    You are TRULY an inspiration to all of us, even a trans girl like myself. Keep being you because it’s beautiful as hell.

  • @markharrisllb
    @markharrisllb 4 года назад +443

    I’m an old straight cis northern male and I was damn near in tears when you got your birth certificate.

    • @chimav
      @chimav 3 года назад +16

      we need more man like you, thank you

    • @mettapeachhead2076
      @mettapeachhead2076 3 года назад +7

      @Zara Gupta My brain hurts reading that

    • @mettapeachhead2076
      @mettapeachhead2076 3 года назад

      And everything else you said

    • @avni202
      @avni202 3 года назад +3

      @Zara Gupta stfu

    • @iam_sherlocked8421
      @iam_sherlocked8421 3 года назад +2

      @Zara Gupta well, you're obviously too young and transphobic to be in youtube.

  • @Summer-isnotcool
    @Summer-isnotcool Год назад +7

    This is such a feel-good video for me. Like, literally, I sometimes re-watch this when I'm having a bad day. It makes me so happy to watch Jamie become more and more confident and happy at every step. He's such a great guy and I'm so happy for him and I'm so grateful to be living in a world where we can make this happen. ❤

  • @kaitlyn3920
    @kaitlyn3920 4 года назад +833

    "Hey guys."
    *"I have two balls now."*

    • @Lu4455
      @Lu4455 4 года назад +73

      “He’s two plums heavier!”

  • @SuriOokami
    @SuriOokami 3 года назад +241

    I see a person getting progressively happier and happier and it makes me want to cry.

  • @puddinken_
    @puddinken_ 4 года назад +247

    I’m a trans boy who’s just 4 months in testosterone and I wanted to say that watching this made me cry so much. It’s amazing seeing the results of T over the months and how without realizing, you just start feeling more and more like yourself.
    I wanted to thank you for making this video, cause it really helps people like me that have just started the journey, and sometimes it gets a bit hard to believe that you’ll actually be past the hardships and be very comfortable with yourself and happy.
    So thanks thanks and a thousand thanks and i am so happy for you and for all the trans people that have been through this journey as well. You’re all precious and I love you. Really.

    • @puddinken_
      @puddinken_ 4 года назад +5

      Sharkface thank you so much for your words🥺🥺 they made me so happy

    • @aakritidhiman1506
      @aakritidhiman1506 4 года назад +5

      I'm so happy for you!!! I wish you all the best for your journey ahead!!!

    • @puddinken_
      @puddinken_ 4 года назад +4

      aakriti dhiman Thank you:((( really, this is so sweet, i am so thankful:(

    • @LittleIcarus
      @LittleIcarus 4 года назад +2

      Good luck on your journey :D

    • @puddinken_
      @puddinken_ 4 года назад +2

      Trash thanks so much!!! all the comments are so nice thank you, really... yall pure souls!!!

  • @AnAbsurdistFemaphrodyke
    @AnAbsurdistFemaphrodyke Год назад +47

    I am so happy that you have been allowed to be who you are. I wish you happiness, health, wealth and safety for life!

  • @user-xu4kp3dc2x
    @user-xu4kp3dc2x 4 года назад +1097

    The ninjas are cutting onions again.

  • @alexu8708
    @alexu8708 3 года назад +1319

    This made me cry. How any parent can turn against a child who is FINALLY secure and happy and confident with who they are is beyond me. I'm overjoyed for you. I'm proud of any of you kids out there who are working towards becoming your authentic selves. Bless all our trans family and I hope for safety, wellness, happiness, and wholeness for all of you. So much love, an old Mom. :)

    • @eternallustformedusa4844
      @eternallustformedusa4844 2 года назад +58

      as a trans kid who’s mom thinks being trans is caused by satan, this comment made me cry. thank you for being such a kind and loving parent. your children are so lucky.

    • @dodgey6827
      @dodgey6827 2 года назад +31

      @@eternallustformedusa4844 I hope you can get out of your transphobic household before anything too bad happens 😞

    • @cooxlpearz6824
      @cooxlpearz6824 2 года назад

      But money doesn’t buy anyone happiness??? If you think you can give unsafe drugs to small children then there is something you’re missing. And the word authentic doesn’t match at all. More like… hmm… *it’s a delusion*. There is *nothing* authentic about people even starting to think that they can change their biological sex, then falsely boxing and carving to modern humanity what either a Man or a Woman is. Shit- when did science or common sense exist? I’m sorry, but I just have to explain what’s on my mind. Reply if you want to- but don’t start shit.

    • @normajeanray
      @normajeanray 2 года назад +4

      @@dodgey6827 she didn't say her parents feared it(that's what phobia means- fear) They just don't believe it's from God who made her female at birth(or vice versa). I'm sure her parents love her. They just don't believe the delusion. Everyone has a right to believe what they believe without being bullied. We can all get along even if we don't agree with someone else's beliefs.

    • @jihancafe
      @jihancafe 2 года назад +9

      @@normajeanray wtf

  • @thekathrynwest
    @thekathrynwest 4 года назад +2458

    I’m totally not crying when he starts crying about his birth certificate

    • @dariennewilson9982
      @dariennewilson9982 4 года назад +19

      I had to pause to compose myself

    • @javiaib9791
      @javiaib9791 4 года назад +5

      @R A He*

    • @thekathrynwest
      @thekathrynwest 4 года назад +15

      R A the whole point of this is transitioning from female to male hence male pronouns. If you’re here to start a fight over something as petty as pronouns, I’ll go ahead and call you out and tell you to stop trolling people videos looking for something

    • @turtlepenguinXkizuna
      @turtlepenguinXkizuna 4 года назад +4

      I cried in the original video and thought I was cool and prepared and stuff this time but nope

    • @Yaeka
      @Yaeka 4 года назад

      100% I'm crying at work, dammit.

  • @waterdragon2224
    @waterdragon2224 2 года назад +29

    I’m continually learning about the trans community. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. It really helps a cisgender like myself understand things a lot more. Getting your certificate was very emotional to watch. I’m so very happy that you’ve been given your true identity and feel confident and comfortable in your own skin. That’s a beautiful thing. ❤
    I have enjoyed the videos I’ve seen so far. You’re a lovely man. ❤

  • @tinabarlage4219
    @tinabarlage4219 4 года назад +482

    Why doesn't RUclips have a damn "love" button. I want to do way more than "like" this.

    • @alinorafoster
      @alinorafoster 4 года назад +3

      you can favorite and hit that bell icon!

  • @unfututufu1
    @unfututufu1 3 года назад +404

    I'm so surprised how as species we made this possible, yeah clown fish can do it naturally but we developed the knowledge to make it possible. This guy always makes me happy how he smiles

    • @StarshipGRanger394
      @StarshipGRanger394 3 года назад +49

      @@keyboarddancers7751 they’re talking about the specific fish, ya know clownfish like from finding Nemo

    • @clairejohnson7809
      @clairejohnson7809 3 года назад +14

      @@keyboarddancers7751 it’s a fish though

    • @bookishwriter9460
      @bookishwriter9460 3 года назад +15

      @@keyboarddancers7751 That's the trivial name of the species, how else would they have called it? They could have called it "Amphiprion percula" but no one would have understood it. I think this is one of the really⁹⁹⁹ rare cases where a boomer would be right by saying "You gen z people are offended by everything even if it's not actually offensive."
      Maybe it would have been better to compare it to another animal that is able to switch between sexes, but I don't know if there are any.

    • @aoibhie1208
      @aoibhie1208 3 года назад +8

      @@keyboarddancers7751 yeah no as a trans guy that didn't offend me. They literally just said the name of an animal. They weren't even comparing us to an animal, they were just stating that animals could transition naturally.

    • @tamplushboy8452
      @tamplushboy8452 2 года назад

      @@keyboarddancers7751 snowflake

  • @drksidhe69
    @drksidhe69 4 года назад +1400

    When he looked up with those big puppy dog eyes at receiving his gender change certificate and started crying. I wanted to hug him badly. So I paused the video and hugged my fiance instead

    • @SeymourDisapproves
      @SeymourDisapproves 4 года назад +6

      I love him so much 😢

    • @trexisback843
      @trexisback843 4 года назад +6

      yees exacly my thoughts those eyes owq cutie-cute

    • @drksidhe69
      @drksidhe69 4 года назад +14

      @Nala Mc are you trying to be insulting??? Jamie is a male. If you cant use the correct pronouns then go find another chanel to troll

    • @vendetta720
      @vendetta720 4 года назад +13

      Nala Mc Nope. He. And forever will be. (:

    • @wyverntail1811
      @wyverntail1811 4 года назад +15

      @Nala Mc No, I'm sorry. It doesn't matter what gender someone was born as. No normal human being can look at a man with a full beard, and deep voice and decide to call him "she". Fuck off.

  • @2dots3dote26
    @2dots3dote26 2 года назад +21

    Nothing can compare to that RAW emotion of finally being recognised. I teared up when you got your birth cert I wish you all the best Jamie

  • @ohursoflirty-johnnysuh5475
    @ohursoflirty-johnnysuh5475 3 года назад +230

    Whenever I get really down about well just being trans lol and not transitioning yet (I'm only 15) I come back to videos like this they just remind me that it won't allways be like this

    • @lovingCJ3
      @lovingCJ3 3 года назад +21

      Hi! I wish you luck with your future transition and I hope you become free to be and express yourself the way you want to

  • @mikathepenguin3686
    @mikathepenguin3686 4 года назад +486

    I‘m so happy that you made it through all of this i‘m literally crying and i hope i can make it that far someday

  • @10minutesofheechul58
    @10minutesofheechul58 4 года назад +179

    I've been having a really hard time crying at anything since I started testosterone but this made me cry my eyes out... I've only been watching your videos for a couple months but you've always made me feel so welcome and comfortable with myself and it's helped me be happier, it helped me come out, you just really are an inspiration to me and seeing you so happy makes me feel happy as well and gives me hope for my future.

  • @CatherineWayland
    @CatherineWayland 8 месяцев назад +2

    I can't believe that I never watched your complete transition video before. It's amazing! I love how supportive your parents have been, and of course, with the amazing Shaaba by your side throughout. You are all ambassadors for trans education and acceptance in a world which needs to do better. I love the way you are so candid about your experiences, even when they are difficult or painful, but always excited to move forward in your journey. And now you have reached where you wanted to be and radiate happiness. Long may it continue!

  • @soumiu.8264
    @soumiu.8264 3 года назад +593

    Bro can we just agree how damn handsome he is????

  • @BekkiUndSo
    @BekkiUndSo 4 года назад +308

    This might be a weird thing to say, but as someone absolutely scared of surgeries, seeing his top surgery scars is so comforting because they look so good and so well done, it really gives me hope for if I decide to go that route myself 🥺

    • @grimnott
      @grimnott 3 года назад +8

      I agree, and it's surprising to know that even his had some problems yet still turned out fine! :o

    • @orionmicropop1512
      @orionmicropop1512 3 года назад +5

      @Zara Gupta Not sure why you felt the need to include your pronouns here, but sure, everyone will be happy to use she/her pronouns for you!
      Also, I totally agree with you, Bekki UndSo, this comforts me a lot. I'm terrified of surgeries, too :'D

    • @orionmicropop1512
      @orionmicropop1512 3 года назад +10

      ​@Zara Gupta And it seems you will always be ignorant, no matter how much smarter you claim to be.

    • @Lena-xl3ph
      @Lena-xl3ph 3 года назад +4

      @Zara Gupta fuck off

    • @rebeccaarias.
      @rebeccaarias. 3 года назад +2

      @@orionmicropop1512 what did it say they deleted the comment

  • @mademoisellemorte6066
    @mademoisellemorte6066 4 года назад +3055

    Im so dumb i forgot jamie was trans and i was like woah he has a really pretty sister

  • @evatrost1750
    @evatrost1750 Месяц назад +1

    I just stumbled over your account a few days ago and I watched this video just now.
    It made me so emotional and happy for you seeing your transition.
    Thank you for being so open about everything. It puts you in a very vulnerable position and I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate your openness very much.
    As a cis woman I learn so much from your videos and they help me educate myself a lot. My daughter has friends that are trans (all pre T because their still quite young) and I try to educate myself as much as I can. Cause I don’t want to accidentally offended them or say something that hurts them.
    So again thanks for all your much appreciated content and openness! I am sure it means a lot to so many people for so many different reasons.

  • @nanibgalthelinguophile
    @nanibgalthelinguophile 4 года назад +281

    I used the thumbnail to explain transitioning to a coworker of mine, she said “He is so handsome!” You’ve got fans in Japan.

  • @KANGAXRUU
    @KANGAXRUU 4 года назад +654

    i keep saying “aww” every 2 seconds

    • @KANGAXRUU
      @KANGAXRUU 4 года назад +28

      now im crying

    • @mrdedenne9714
      @mrdedenne9714 4 года назад +11

      I thought you wrote "eww" and i was prepared to throw hands

  • @FullCircleStories
    @FullCircleStories 4 года назад +392

    "There's nothing else to do" Right on Shaaba, BUT I think there is one more thing to do: go out there and live your life to its absolute fullest! You've already done more in 8 years than most do in your life! So I hope you two are the happiest ever moving forward

  • @sarahnorton9757
    @sarahnorton9757 8 месяцев назад +1

    4 year old video popped up on my recommended. This is beautiful to watch. To see you flourish and the support from your family and wife is amazing. I’m a mum of 3 boys and I just hope as they grow they know I will always be there for them whoever they become, whoever they love I will always be their champion. Thank you for sharing this journey x

  • @simply.me.
    @simply.me. 4 года назад +502

    Alright. I'm cis lesbian but I'm honestly in tears of joy. I wish everyone who has this need had access to proper medical help and family support

  • @FeralRabidCrow
    @FeralRabidCrow 3 года назад +977

    This video is just so inspiring and emotional for me, I'm 15 and pre-everything, and this just makes me feel so excited about one day too completing my own transition

    • @eggranaway
      @eggranaway 3 года назад +21

      @@wghmnb9136 go cry somewhere on your own, you’re bumming out our whole area

    • @pathevermore3683
      @pathevermore3683 3 года назад +5

      @@wghmnb9136 LMFAO. triggered "lolz" are hilarious. Cry more for me!

    • @eggranaway
      @eggranaway 3 года назад +3

      @@wghmnb9136 thanks

    • @kingcharizardakaCX
      @kingcharizardakaCX 3 года назад +3

      Same

    • @NeonSolo
      @NeonSolo 2 года назад +11

      You're valid now and one day, hopefully, you'll feel content in your post transition body. Good luck to you, you're stronger than me and all the other cis people out there.

  • @RalphCahill
    @RalphCahill 4 года назад +308

    I'm not crying. You're crying. Okay... we're both crying.

  • @MatthewDonovanAU
    @MatthewDonovanAU Год назад +155

    This is so beautiful.
    You are beautiful.
    Thanks for your openness and bravery you gorgeous person.
    I know you’ve made a difference ❤

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 Год назад +1

      no

    • @queerautist99
      @queerautist99 Год назад +12

      @@shanen28 😐

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 Год назад +1

      @@queerautist99 she wasted her beauty nothing good about that.

    • @Izzy-wl7gl
      @Izzy-wl7gl Год назад +20

      @@shanen28 I don't think he cares what you think about his appearance, he's happily married and many people disagree with you

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 Год назад +2

      @@Izzy-wl7gl she’s a woman woman woman ✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️♥️♥️♥️♥️