a deep dive into "love triangles"

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  • Опубликовано: 16 июн 2024
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    Twilight, The Hunger Games, every Young Adult book ever...what do they have in common? The notorious love triangle! With the popularity of love triangle film Challengers, I thought that it's about time we revisit this lovely trope.
    00:00 intro
    1:57 historical love triangles
    8:39 young adult love triangles
    21:08 messy love triangles & challengers
    24:48 touching corners
    sources:
    George Sand and the nineteenth-century russian love-triangle novels, Dawn Eidelman (1994)
    LOVE TRIANGLE IN SERBIAN NARRATIVE PROSE OF THE 19TH AND FIRST DECADE OF THE 20TH CENTURY, Tatjana Ivanović (2011)
    Wuthering Heights, Emily Brönte (1847)
    Eclipse, Stephanie Meyer (2007)
    Challengers is a killer love triangle romance that hates love, Jackson Weaver, CBC News (2024)
    ‘Challengers’ Stars Put New Spins (and Slices and Volleys) on the Love Triangle, Kyle Buchanan, The New York Times (2024)
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Комментарии • 538

  • @AJ-bk5qj
    @AJ-bk5qj 23 дня назад +1583

    love triangles are more interesting when EVERYONE is attracted to each other instead of 1 person interested in 2 ppl

    • @smolexfundie6458
      @smolexfundie6458 23 дня назад +139

      right!! I want less love “triangles” and more love triangles with strong possibilities of becoming a throuple 😂

    • @darkmatter9651
      @darkmatter9651 23 дня назад +54

      I guess thruples dont appeal much to me as a person so I tend to enjoy love triangles in their 'classic' form. But I can get why this is appealing

    • @DarthSnugglePuss
      @DarthSnugglePuss 23 дня назад

      You should read A Chorus of Dragons by Jenn Lyons.

    • @nobitches707
      @nobitches707 23 дня назад

      I feel like people don't know what a triangle looks like. To have a love triangle you need A in love with B, B in love with C and C in love with A. Perhaps everyone in love with each other. But if A is in love with B & C and B & C are in love with A then *that's not a love triangle*! That's a love corner!

    • @zofiabochenska1240
      @zofiabochenska1240 23 дня назад +2

      Any recommendations?

  • @youdontgettotellmeaboutsadd
    @youdontgettotellmeaboutsadd 23 дня назад +1293

    I remember reading a tumblr post that said that love triangles are never actual triangles without gay characters, and that the majority of so called love triangles in fiction are actually love corners and usually the woman is backed into it.
    Lovely work as always Leoniee

    • @PeriluneStar
      @PeriluneStar 23 дня назад +56

      Lol that's so true- That's why I was always confused by them, because there is a gap in the triangle lol

    • @nichoudha
      @nichoudha 23 дня назад +7

      That's nonsense.

    • @PeriluneStar
      @PeriluneStar 23 дня назад +88

      @@nichoudha no, it's like- if you wanted to draw an actual triangle with the characters that like each other, it would just be a line between the girl and 1 guy, and a line between the girl and the other guy. The only way to complete the drawing of a triangle is to draw a line between the two guys.

    • @Arawn505
      @Arawn505 23 дня назад +21

      Yeah, I've always felt the same, where is the third line of this triangle! I've gotten used to the term and know what is meant, but it's nice to see this called out

    • @Tojeaux_
      @Tojeaux_ 23 дня назад +13

      Except "Love triangle" as literally 3 characters in love is just taking the term literally when its a Relationship diagram that is 3 people instead of 4 or more. This is just tumblr ignoring where/why its called a love triangle when the relationship triangle was to explain How each character relates to one another not that the 3 are explicitly in love. Like the line between the two men is usually "Rival" which is boring, and really standard, so theoretically using the triangle model you were supposed to fill the last leg with something interesting so the Guys/Women(if this is 2 women and 1 man) have something Between them as well. And in the twilight case it was the inherent Tension between Vampire and Werewolf on top of them being romantic rivals for bella.

  • @ponyoholt1846
    @ponyoholt1846 23 дня назад +572

    One of the best things my sister ever said was “ if jacob was obsessed with bella bc of her kid being his soulmate shouldn’t he also be obsessed with edward?”

    • @adaaaa6642
      @adaaaa6642 21 день назад

      Sorry to tell you but that is wrong. Male sperms are not like female eggs which are from birth.

    • @jacforswear18
      @jacforswear18 21 день назад +23

      Only for about… 2 months according to the average life span of a sperm. Way shorter if he was “relieving” himself regularly. Eggs all form prior to birth, sperm have a much much much shorter life cycle.

    • @elle8786
      @elle8786 20 дней назад +40

      I figured he was, but he confused the mad attraction for hatred because of internalized homophobia

    • @jaginaiaelectrizs6341
      @jaginaiaelectrizs6341 18 дней назад +10

      ​​@@jacforswear18 Except, he's a vampire, so his sperm has basically been cryogenically frozen since he was turned until the act of physical intimacy essentially thawed him out. Also...given Edward's characterization as personally uninterested in anything to do with love or s*x before Bella suddenly changed that, I doubt he'd ever once "relieved" himself either.😅😅 🙃😶👀 😅 Loll
      It's fantasy fiction, it doesn't have to be realistic. 😂
      (Also, every guy and gal is each born with a set number of germ cells that will eventually mature throughout their lifetime into either eggs or sperm, so the genetic bits of them that will eventually potentially contribute to baby making are there all along in every fertile human.)

    • @jaginaiaelectrizs6341
      @jaginaiaelectrizs6341 18 дней назад

      ​@@elle8786 Same!

  • @clemoswin
    @clemoswin 22 дня назад +178

    Actually, I like the love triangle in The Hunger Games, because it makes sense. It's not just a girl hesitating between the bad boy and the sweet guy, it's Katniss hesitating between two ways of living her life. (and of course I'm talking about the moment she begins to have feelings for Peeta, because at the beginning of the story it's not a love triangle at all, it's just Katniss trying to survive)
    EDIT : I wrote this comment before getting to to the point in the video when you said basically the same thing ^^

  • @AJ-bk5qj
    @AJ-bk5qj 23 дня назад +601

    mako/korra/asami are the blueprint of love triangles touching corners

    • @veronika4870
      @veronika4870 22 дня назад +6

      yessss

    • @alicedalexandrite
      @alicedalexandrite 22 дня назад +1

      Perfect example

    • @lnt305
      @lnt305 21 день назад +25

      I really like that since it takes place over years, it is really cemented because they both gave dating Mako a serious shot only to realize they just didn’t work as a couple

    • @random-zz8ut
      @random-zz8ut 20 дней назад +1

      from what show/movie/book?

    • @alicedalexandrite
      @alicedalexandrite 20 дней назад +5

      @@random-zz8ut it's from the Legend of Korra (the avatar universe)

  • @LoraK31
    @LoraK31 20 дней назад +100

    Sense8 went past having implied tension between the two options in a love triangle and opted for making them a throuple, and I'll always love that show for it 😂

    • @Eris_Norregard
      @Eris_Norregard 16 дней назад +6

      I love Sense8 with a burning passion and this is one of the many reasons. I also love how the Lito/Hernando/Daniela situation was resolved, I know she wasn't actually a romantic partner but she was still a part of "them" and I love that, I always had a thing for unconventional ships.

  • @luvmeday
    @luvmeday 23 дня назад +220

    Omg Leonie the Jacob and Edward edit I’m cackling

  • @vyn409
    @vyn409 23 дня назад +256

    a 30 minute video essay by leonie on a friday evening? yes please

    • @Arawn505
      @Arawn505 23 дня назад +5

      What a great start to the weekend!

  • @mariagrundner5532
    @mariagrundner5532 23 дня назад +134

    I loved the love triangle in Clockwork angel, because as you explained in the end, it was a real triangle, the boys being parabatai and their relationship predating Tessa, and all three loving each other, not more than any of the other ones ♥️ super recommend, my absolute favourite books of all time

    • @blackk_rose_
      @blackk_rose_ 23 дня назад +17

      If they had lived in modern times (and Jem hadn't become a Silent Brother and lived a normal Shadowhunter life instead), they would've ended up in a poly relationship for sure. They would've moved into the same place and raised kids together and they would've all been so happy with that set up! Even though Will and Jem were never romantic, it's clear that jealousy between them was only the case when it was clear only one of them could be with Tessa. But if there had been the possibility of them both being with her and her loving them equally, they would have been happy with that for sure.

    • @BleistiftSchwert
      @BleistiftSchwert 22 дня назад +1

      Yes!!! 🥺🩷

    • @JAAAY62
      @JAAAY62 20 дней назад +1

      Yes!! I love all of them so much.

  • @joa2332
    @joa2332 23 дня назад +211

    the infernal devices has the best love triangle ever and the corners do touch so 🤷‍♀️ welcome back herongraystairs

    • @as_strong_as_we_are_united
      @as_strong_as_we_are_united 23 дня назад +2

      yeeessss!

    • @acotog9319
      @acotog9319 23 дня назад +7

      i couldn’t get over the pseudo incest plot line though

    • @wardaibrar9715
      @wardaibrar9715 23 дня назад +15

      @@acotog9319 that was the mortal instruments

    • @acotog9319
      @acotog9319 23 дня назад +2

      ⁠@@wardaibrar9715 yeah it’s a prequel, isn’t it? it gave me the ick, so i abandoned the series. and the writer.

    • @wardaibrar9715
      @wardaibrar9715 23 дня назад

      @@acotog9319 yeah but you can read the infernal devices without reading mortal instruments, i havent read it either. THE INFERNAL DEVICES SLAYS THO YOU'RE MISSING OUTTTT

  • @stutipathak1128
    @stutipathak1128 23 дня назад +53

    She is, by the day, beginning to look more and more like a fantasy princess. Only me?

  • @makebablondell3177
    @makebablondell3177 23 дня назад +113

    when a love triangle is done well such that both of the love interest are on equal footing and neither is preferred by the author and given special preference (more sweet scenes with the lead)!
    I eat it up

  • @lesliwilliams6684
    @lesliwilliams6684 23 дня назад +138

    This was a great video, but I'm kinda baffled that 'the vampire diaries' universe was not mentioned ONCE. Like it's so popular and Elena Gilbert is a prime example of how when the main character isn't passive and finally makes a choice, she is villainized and despised by the audience. I'm not even a delena fan, but the way the fandom spent years critising Elena for not making a choice, and then immediately turning on her when she does was genuinely baffling😅❤

    • @sunrisefun
      @sunrisefun 21 день назад +4

      Right! I was waiting for her to talk about TVD. When I think about love triangles, this is the what immediately comes to mind!

    • @taylorparis7228
      @taylorparis7228 20 дней назад +1

      Thought the same thing.
      I love Elena forever🥰💞

    • @Talia778
      @Talia778 20 дней назад +6

      Idk if it’s cus I’m a late fan, but i think everyone hated her by the end bc she wasn’t a very good friend. She made everything abt herself and was just very annoying. Even as a Stephan lover, I didnt hate her bc she chose Damon, I just hated the way she’d whine all the time 💀 even tho I know she want through it in the show, by the end every single character had been traumatized so her problems didn’t seem novel anymore. I didn’t really like Damon tho so I did think she was kinda stupid for choosing him. But I know plenty of Damon lovers that also didn’t like her.

    • @jaginaiaelectrizs6341
      @jaginaiaelectrizs6341 18 дней назад

      My people!😁😁😂💖💖💖

  • @junychup
    @junychup 23 дня назад +80

    I watched Past Lives (and adored it, can't wait to rewatch it already) and it's a great example of how the love triangle serves the narrative, as you assumed. The choice between Nora's childhood best friend from Korea (Hae Sung) and her husband in Canada (Arthur) represents her struggle with identity as a Korean immigrant. Although she is content with her life in Canada and is much more used to the Canadian culture than the Korean one, there is always this sense of "what if I had stayed" and longing to reconnect to her Korean identity. The movie explores these relationships so beautifully and with a lot of care, it's definitely worth watching!

    • @analuh7
      @analuh7 21 день назад +6

      And I see the story more about letting go. Because the choose was long made but it’s hard to let go of the what ifs and Hae Sung represents that to her.

    • @UnfortunateArchives
      @UnfortunateArchives 16 дней назад +3

      Exactly this! As someone who has also felt stuck between two cultures before I found that movie so beautiful and heartbreaking because of how well it represented that the choice went far beyond being between two men.

    • @jilliannessstirling5680
      @jilliannessstirling5680 8 дней назад

      Loved Past Lives too! Just for clarity, Nora’s family left Korea for Toronto, and then when she was pursuing her career as a writer, she went to school in New York. She wanted to stay and so Arthur kind of proposed to both keep her in the relationship because he loved her and simplify her citizenship process so she could stay in New York. This adds an extra element to the relationship dynamics, because there are moments when you feel both Arthur and Nora’s tension around the thought “Did we marry out of love or administrative necessity? Did we actually pick or settle for each other?” While Hae Sung and this alternate reality sort of loom over them.

  • @chloemiller9170
    @chloemiller9170 23 дня назад +81

    King Arthur has one of the biggest betrayal love triangles of any of them! Gwen, Lancelot, and Arthur have one of the most tortured love triangles. It's definitely the first thing I think of with a love Triangle.

    • @Peace65483
      @Peace65483 21 день назад +6

      Not completely the same thing, but have you should read legendborn!

    • @christineranderson2892
      @christineranderson2892 9 дней назад +1

      Came looking for this comment! She said she was going to talk about love triangles from history, and this was the first one I thought of!

  • @nanidice
    @nanidice 23 дня назад +92

    I don't comment on videos often, but that sponsor love-circle deserves its own highlight

  • @BleistiftSchwert
    @BleistiftSchwert 22 дня назад +31

    This video made me realize how much I want to live in the Blue Twilight Filter

  • @Mina-hm2og
    @Mina-hm2og 23 дня назад +35

    A video essay about a trope I absolutely loathe? Pass. A video essay about a trope I absolutely loathe by Leonie? YES PLEASE!

  • @wikiratas
    @wikiratas 21 день назад +15

    There is a spanish trilogy from 2005 called Memorias de Idhún with a love triangle that got resolved with the female main character ending in a relationship with both of the guys (under their knowledge). It permanently altered the brain chemistry of the teenagers who read it, we remember it fondly and it even got an animation adaptation of the first book 4 years ago

  • @ShikiPirs
    @ShikiPirs 23 дня назад +31

    Well, in BOOKS both Hunger games and Twilight series had everything explained about their love triangles, Bella was never back-and-forth, she always wanted to be with Edward, and in case with Katniss it wasn't even a love triangle really, Katniss never misled any of the boys, she never said YES to any of them in the first place (until the end of Mockingjay where she decided to be with Peetah) while figuring out what love even is during the first 2 books

    • @arityler1793
      @arityler1793 23 дня назад +14

      THANK YOU! The entirety of the love triangle in twilight is Jacob just dismissing Bella’s own thoughts and opinions and gaslighting her into thinking she doesn’t know her own mind. Not because he’s bad, but because he’s a stupid 15 year old boy!!!

  • @raisamedeiros4024
    @raisamedeiros4024 23 дня назад +47

    Thank you for mentioning George Sand! She is so influential and has many amazing books, but doesn’t get enough love! Her novel Mauprat actually inspired Wuthering Heights. Think Catherine and Heathcliff but healthier and they both learn and grow as a result of their relationship. There’s a love triangle in it too.
    Also, I think The Phantom of the Opera has one of the best love triangles of all time!

  • @ddodigidrebeyli8783
    @ddodigidrebeyli8783 23 дня назад +35

    That romantic montage of Jacob and Edward of them, I can't stop laughing. Know that I will be back for that part several times

  • @thoughtsofabookaholic777
    @thoughtsofabookaholic777 20 дней назад +12

    I think a love triangle that was PERFECT was the infernal devices trilogy one. Like it made the most sense and it was so heartbreaking but satisfying.

  • @radix2830
    @radix2830 23 дня назад +67

    15 years ago I asked myself: Who is it going to be?
    These days its just: Why choose?😅 Catherine was right all along.

  • @LovelyDray
    @LovelyDray 21 день назад +27

    I hate love triangles with a passion but maybe it‘s bc I can never only see it from the female lead‘s perspective but also from the male‘s, like how heartbreaking would it be to love a woman who can‘t decide on which guy to choose and is drawing the decision out for multiple books. I would always wonder if she truly loved me since she couldnt really decide. Also, I‘m a sucker for grand romances and how unromantic is it to imagine them telling their grandkids „well yes I really didnt know who to pick but luckily it turned out alright!“

  • @elineallthefeels9906
    @elineallthefeels9906 23 дня назад +12

    THAT EDWARD/JACOB MONTAGE I'M S C R E A M I N G

  • @astra1971
    @astra1971 20 дней назад +41

    the infernal devices will forever have the best love triangle imo. it was so revolutionary for its time, like in 2010 nobody really explored the whole “touching corners” situation so it was such a innovative concept for the time. and i mean the yearning, the love, the sacrifices, the angst??? incredible, simply incredible. also thank you for mentioning serbian literature, never thought i’d hear about my country in a video about love triangles 😭

    • @theaterkidd302
      @theaterkidd302 17 дней назад +4

      Jem, Will, and Tessa are the best! Agreed

  • @emilia7114
    @emilia7114 23 дня назад +19

    I like the idea of touching corners, but one of my favourite teenage love triangle was the one in the vampire diaries, where two love interests were brothers… but it does explore different aspects like brother rivalry and having to choose what’s more important - love or family. The same theme happens in the summer I turned pretty

  • @cker-cu7tu
    @cker-cu7tu 22 дня назад +9

    I really, really recommend "past lives". The relationships were beautifully written and acted, but it was so much more then "who will she choose". It was about the life she wants, the person she herself needs to be. And the way the regisseur was able to capter that... it was melancholic, but oh so beautiful. I seldom have seen a movie that tell his story through silence that meaningfully.
    (And I really appreciated that we as the audience never disliked her husband. An other skript would made him into the bad or at least the boring one. But the characters just stayed true to themself.)

  • @rosefairyy
    @rosefairyy 19 дней назад +4

    cabaret 1972 has such a good example of a love triangle. it basically just devolves into a messy terrible bisexual throuple and i love it for that

  • @joncarrier3853
    @joncarrier3853 23 дня назад +9

    I always thought of the love triangle of more of the main characters into turmoil with their own thoughts and feelings than about choosing between two partners. That is why it works in a young adult setting, as people are still trying to figure themselves out and dont know what they want.

  • @lauf22
    @lauf22 22 дня назад +5

    There was these fantasy trilogy very popular in Spain when I was in highschool with a love triangle that actually lead to an open relationship and at the time I was shocked that was even an option (she was supposed to choose!) but not I think back and I love that the author showed that other types of relationships are possible.
    If anyone is curious the books are called memorias de idhun and the author is Laura Gallego

  • @theoriginal4ever7
    @theoriginal4ever7 22 дня назад +18

    My favourite love triangle, and the only one in which I ever loved all three pairs (as friends or lovers), is Cassandra Clare's The Infernal Devices. Will, Jem, and Tessa's love for each other was beautiful. The (platonic) love between Jem and William is so special, and how their story is woven together is truly a masterpiece. Clare's best work by far.

    • @user-fp2ce2zm3b
      @user-fp2ce2zm3b 18 дней назад +2

      Me too, I always also found it refreshing that Will and Jem both talked to eachother and were like 'I love her, but I'm fine with you being with her.'

  • @abbiehannah_
    @abbiehannah_ 23 дня назад +17

    Girl I am so disgustingly obsessed with your hair! It’s so prettyyyy omfg!❤ And it perfectly suits your face shape

  • @Itzaric
    @Itzaric 19 дней назад +3

    This is so on topic for me. I'd been thinking this past week about how to write a love triangle, but when I was scrounging my brain for any story I could use as reference for what I want, I realized that I've never genuinely enjoyed a love triangle in any type of media before. I think it's that personally, even thinking about having to choose between two people makes me stressed as hell. I think I will just go the poly route lmao

  • @samanthaanker3896
    @samanthaanker3896 23 дня назад +12

    I loved Iron Widow!! The love triangle in that book becoming a true triangle was such a pleasant shock. I'm so excited to see where the second book goes, if it ever comes out.

    • @rain2986
      @rain2986 22 дня назад +3

      I do kinda wish we saw more of how the guys developed feelings for each other though. When told through solely Zetian's POV, it felt pretty sudden, but that's the pitfall of first person limited, I guess. Hopefully they get more screentime together in the sequel.

  • @astronot92
    @astronot92 23 дня назад +7

    The love triangle in Past Lives is done so well that you will be BAWLING

  • @FMFF_
    @FMFF_ 13 дней назад +1

    I am so glad i watched this because it finally gave me the definitive answer for why i never saw Jacob as a serious option for Bella. Its 100% because he represented her staying human and it was made clear in every book that Bella wasn't meant to stay human. Conflict after conflict, the 3 hunters, Victoria's army, the f'ing Volturri, and her own thoughts on fitting in with others. Eveything pointed to her turning into a vampire, so everything pointed to Jacob not being a real contender. I always focused on how Jacob just got worse as a character after turning into a warewolf, but even ignoring that, i dont think I'd ever see her pick him when Edward&vampirism is an option.

  • @iveuteen
    @iveuteen 11 часов назад

    love triangles are always “guy that’s obviously going to end up with the main character and other guy that’s just there to create conflict but is never actually an option”

  • @malihar7
    @malihar7 21 день назад +5

    your videos feel like well written research papers and I cannot describe how much I love that

  • @Littleghostman4
    @Littleghostman4 23 дня назад +69

    I have to admit something... love triangles are in my top 3 favorite tropes.

    • @curlyheadpigeon
      @curlyheadpigeon 23 дня назад +1

      Can you recommend me some love triangle books? ☺️

    • @Littleghostman4
      @Littleghostman4 23 дня назад +3

      @@curlyheadpigeon Well theres a i few i've read and a few i've not, so i'll make a list here, explaining about them.
      Twilight series, the classic love triangle, quite outdated though.
      the summer i turned pretty, a summer coming of age story, but very drama filled.
      shatter me, a slight love triangle, dystopian book.
      the hunger games, a classic dystopian.
      thats all i can think of at the moment, but all of these are young adult (13 - 18) age range, since i am in that age group.
      EDIT: also most of these are side plots, except twilight and the summer i turned pretty.

    • @corau.3454
      @corau.3454 22 дня назад +3

      If you want an older ya fantasy rec with a good love triangle. I would recommend „Touched“ by Corrine Jackson.
      The love triangle is 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻
      But check the TW or come back here, so that i can write you the CW because it actually has some darker themes (i dont think too dark to not be considered YA but they are def in there)

    • @rain2986
      @rain2986 22 дня назад +2

      @@curlyheadpigeon Recently read Only A Monster by Vanessa Len and its sequel Never A Hero. The love triangle seemed a bit cliche at first but it was executed so beautifully in conjunction with the series' overall themes that I'm eager to see how the author finishes it in the finale! Bonus points for being an incredibly well-done enemies-to-lovers/lovers-to-enemies with both love interests for once, and plenty of angst!

  • @justwonder1404
    @justwonder1404 23 дня назад +7

    I feel like there was a lot of this sentiment about female leads having to be flawless that you mention in discussions about The Hunger Games. I remember comments about how "Peeta deserved better" because Katniss dared to have doubts, care about her childhood friend and generally not be in the headspace to shower him with love. By the YA standards, she was "messy" because she wasn't just a passive observer of two boys fighting over her. I can't say I like love triangles per se, but it was well done in THG.
    P.S. also, you look so good in this color.

    • @tsifirakiehl4250
      @tsifirakiehl4250 14 дней назад +1

      Yeah, I feel like female characters just can’t win. If she has any flaws at all, she’s mercilessly bashed for them, but if she is the flawless being she’s expected to be, she gets just as much hate, if not more. I do understand that it’s possible to overdo it on the flaws and accidentally make a character much less sympathetic than intended, and I understand that perfection is boring and it’s hard to care about a character who never gets to mess up, but most of the time, female characters are getting bashed for issues that absolutely no one would mind a male character having. “Ugh, she’s so perfect with her super spy skills and all the hot guys fawning over her-“ James Bond’s a handsome super spy with a new hot girlfriend every week, and no one complains about him being too perfect. “How dare she act so cold to her love interest at the beginning of the story-“ I guarantee half of the romance section of your local bookstore will feature male leads who start out just as cold if not colder to their love interests, and everyone swoons over them. A lot of fandoms have some serious internalized misogyny to address.

  • @Khestri_
    @Khestri_ 23 дня назад +14

    Wuthering Heights is one of my favourite novels and hearing Bella Swan also loved it genuinely killed a part of my soul. The lengths I have gone to NOT to relate to her and now this??

    • @tsifirakiehl4250
      @tsifirakiehl4250 14 дней назад +2

      If it helps, Bella makes it quite obvious that she doesn’t understand the actual point of the book, and honestly might not even have read the whole thing. She sees tortured, passionate love and swoons at how romantic it is, but she doesn’t seem to realize that it’s not being framed as a good thing, that these lovers, with all their dramatic passion, aren’t precious sweethearts who you want to see ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after together. They’re deeply flawed, toxic people, and they’re hurting each other and everyone around them. Bella doesn’t seem to get that just because the characters are in love doesn’t mean their romance is a good thing.

  • @ShikiPirs
    @ShikiPirs 23 дня назад +36

    Cassandra Clare's Dark Artificies' love triangle with Kristina-Mark-Kieran is my favourite (cause they are all in a relationship with each other by the end of the 3rd book)

    • @as_strong_as_we_are_united
      @as_strong_as_we_are_united 23 дня назад +12

      it´s kind of hot, but mine favorite is still Will Tessa and Jem. I wish she did them having polyamorous relationship too

    • @ShikiPirs
      @ShikiPirs 23 дня назад +6

      @@as_strong_as_we_are_united well< at least Tessa has a life with both of them in a row (kinda) which almost never happens with love triangles, quite a unique case here)

  • @rissa6125
    @rissa6125 22 дня назад +3

    it’s crazy you posted this when u did cause I just got to the part in Iron Widow where Zetian goes “a triangle is the strongest shape.” god bless Xiran Jay Zhao

  • @dark_quEEnisCringe
    @dark_quEEnisCringe 23 дня назад +2

    I was binging your videos today and just now the gods have added to the playlist!

  • @ladypterodactyl5044
    @ladypterodactyl5044 18 дней назад +1

    honestly, you sold me that jacob-edward montage. them getting together with bella would still be a better ending than jacob imprinting on a freakin baby.

  • @HannahBearclaw
    @HannahBearclaw 23 дня назад +5

    I LIVE for your deep dives/video essays!

  • @Victoria-ju4ni
    @Victoria-ju4ni 23 дня назад +1

    I was so excited to see Challengers content from you I wasn't even a LITTLE bit ready for you to discuss thoughts I've had for YEARS about the surprising potential / tension in Twilight

  • @mirandagallegos9369
    @mirandagallegos9369 15 дней назад +1

    this vid was literally so so good 🎉 like I’m obsessed

  • @anemelo-tsourekaki
    @anemelo-tsourekaki 23 дня назад +1

    Woohoo!! These video essays always make me happy ^ ^ Thank you!

  • @tsifirakiehl4250
    @tsifirakiehl4250 14 дней назад +2

    I’ve never really liked the “Oh no, A and B both love C! Who will C choose?” type of love triangle because most of the time, it’s immediately obvious which love interest C’s going to end up with. They’ve already made their choice, so why are they still screwing with the other one’s heart? The first two seasons of Bridgerton fell into this hard-anyone with a brain could see that Daphne would pick Simon over Fredrick in season 1, and that Anthony would pick Kate over Edwina in season 2, but they just kept dithering long after the choice was clear. Season 3 did it a lot better in my opinion-it was obvious that Penelope would pick Colin over Lord Debling, but Lord Debling noticed it. Lord Debling-who sadly has yet to get a first name-realized that Penelope had made her choice and it wasn’t him, so, with a level of grace and maturity almost unheard of in this series, he stopped courting her and encouraged her to pursue the relationship she actually wanted.

  • @May8Day
    @May8Day 23 дня назад +2

    Challengers is SO GOOD and what a good opportunity to the video, I love it.

  • @as_strong_as_we_are_united
    @as_strong_as_we_are_united 23 дня назад +15

    My favourite love triangle is "The infernal devices" - it was the most respectful and heart breaking YA love triangle I encountered! But it was the opposite of messy. But still, I can´t get over it, was crying through books 2 and 3. And later in other series Cassie Clare dives into polyamorous love triangles too

  • @ReadingNymph
    @ReadingNymph 21 день назад +1

    You're essay videos are always so well done, the work you put into them really shows

  • @jaginaiaelectrizs6341
    @jaginaiaelectrizs6341 18 дней назад +1

    Amazing video and excellent thoughts, as always!👏🏻👏🏻💖💖💖

  • @nataliemae08
    @nataliemae08 23 дня назад +7

    your hair is so gorgeous!!🤍🤍

  • @caseycollins4886
    @caseycollins4886 21 день назад +2

    THANK YOU for outing Wuthering Heights and exposing it for what it is; or rather, what it is not: namely, a romance 😂

  • @katdance2106
    @katdance2106 20 дней назад +1

    I adore your deep dive videos like this 💕

  • @valentinaperezalonso3314
    @valentinaperezalonso3314 5 дней назад

    Loved this! Great video as usual❤

  • @emilycranford2699
    @emilycranford2699 19 дней назад +1

    This was such a fun video!

  • @maaripoim9049
    @maaripoim9049 22 дня назад +1

    Oh I love your videos, Leonie. Just love them.

  • @ValieNion
    @ValieNion 10 дней назад

    In The Wheel of Time Rand has a relationship with 3 different girls, but two of them are really, really close friends apart from him, and it's kind of a consensus in the fandom that the girls have more chemistry with each other than with Rand, and I agree, and I love that.

  • @bells_29
    @bells_29 21 день назад +1

    this is such a random request, but seeing you talk about challengers really makes me want more movie recommendations from you!! I'm struggling lately to find good films that I enjoy! I loved this video, the Edward/Jacob edit was gold 👌

  • @kcaudill23456
    @kcaudill23456 19 дней назад +1

    Loved this as always ❤

  • @Fairysnuff91
    @Fairysnuff91 4 дня назад

    Heartbreak high has a 3 person love triangle where everyone is involved. It’s a good show.

  • @palkoeszter5766
    @palkoeszter5766 22 дня назад +2

    This is a so well constructed video, congrats, I loved it!
    I'm also a fan of loop and I'm so jealous that you have the switch, I've been eyeing that one so much.
    And lastly I just wanted to say that you look so beautiful in this video, you're always beautiful but aspecially now, luv ya❤

  • @THExLIFExISxTOxSHORT
    @THExLIFExISxTOxSHORT 14 дней назад +1

    omg the twilight edit in the end had me in tears...amazing

  • @morganjamie1171
    @morganjamie1171 22 дня назад +1

    Excellent deep dive as always

  • @itssimplylolaASMR
    @itssimplylolaASMR 23 дня назад +2

    running for my cup of tea and my bed to watch another of your videos ❤❤

  • @JonanEu
    @JonanEu 23 дня назад +1

    Thank you for the video. 💓🌱

  • @user-fe5om9bk2h
    @user-fe5om9bk2h 23 дня назад +1

    It felt like years without one of your videos.
    Wish you a wonderful day Leo!!

  • @tempest-tom9180
    @tempest-tom9180 23 дня назад +3

    I respect the transition to the ad👌😌

  • @mattogie
    @mattogie 23 дня назад +2

    YOUR HAIR LOOKS SO CUTEE

  • @osirismind
    @osirismind 21 день назад +1

    Another banger video essay! Loved it!
    Now I really wanna watch "Challengers" 👀

  • @valentinabuhin3123
    @valentinabuhin3123 19 дней назад +2

    This was the smoothest advertisement I've ever seen

  • @Six-of-Crows
    @Six-of-Crows 23 дня назад +2

    I love every video you make, thank you so much making the world better. You are an inspiration and have helped me reach my goal of becoming an author. A friend who I am no longer friends with recommended your channel and I'm so glad I gave it a try!

  • @kasafusutan
    @kasafusutan 23 дня назад +1

    THANK YOU for making me watch Challengers wtf
    Didn't wanna watch it and didnt know about it's popularity but this is EXACTLY what I want out of a love triangle. Legit sat there with my mouth open at the end.
    Been working on a story that also involves a triangle where everyone's attracted to each other and damn, that movie did it so well!? The subtext!??
    Leonie your video kinda changed the way I approach my own story anhd love triangles in the future.
    Amazing as always

  • @moniquebaham
    @moniquebaham 23 дня назад +1

    I love your deep dive videos! ❤

  • @rom.na005
    @rom.na005 23 дня назад +1

    I saw the notification and in a second played it!
    First of all I love your videos and your taste in books
    Also, you look so cute with this hairstyle🩷

  • @ioanadima8750
    @ioanadima8750 20 дней назад +3

    yesss i was waiting for you to mention iron widow

  • @pallavikrishnan8660
    @pallavikrishnan8660 23 дня назад +1

    It's my birthday🎉... I feel so lucky starting my day watching your video❤Love ya, Leonie !❤️

  • @bhargavii.r
    @bhargavii.r 23 дня назад +3

    i can't wait to watch this! i love your channel and your takes on everything. not to mention, your voice is so soothing, i could listen to you talk for hours :)

  • @malihar7
    @malihar7 21 день назад +1

    that was a fun way to advertise, looped me in for loop 💪🏻

  • @nadiranotnadhira1498
    @nadiranotnadhira1498 23 дня назад +1

    i love this series so muchhhhh💖

  • @iusmsh
    @iusmsh 23 дня назад +2

    Omg, it was an unpredictable pleasure to see Loop as a sponsor of this video! 😍🔥

  • @siivikichno
    @siivikichno 23 дня назад +1

    Hi ❤️ love your videos. You have inspired me to read more fantasy

  • @elyzabeth5671
    @elyzabeth5671 18 дней назад +1

    Your hair is absolutely gorgeous:3

  • @madruga_13
    @madruga_13 19 дней назад +2

    This girl is very good at what she does. I have 0 interest in the kind of literature she covers and I love her essays.

  • @dominoday26
    @dominoday26 23 дня назад +2

    Challengers is really one of the best movies I have seen in a long time. Fully agree with you, it shows how to do it right.

  • @maja_ksiazkoholiczka3508
    @maja_ksiazkoholiczka3508 23 дня назад +1

    Amazing video as always, Leonie ❤️ Apart from the examples of books people already mentioned in the comments, I would add that Conversations with Friends Sally Rooney has an interesting love triagle plotline (although it's a bit of a square?). All of the characters do bad things (a bit like in Challengers) and it's very messy but also in a way I can understand (not excuse) their behaviour

  • @draganazoric6356
    @draganazoric6356 19 дней назад +1

    As a Serbian who loves your content I did not expect a shoutout today hahah

  • @iradivochaya1414
    @iradivochaya1414 5 дней назад

    Netflix series "Absolute Beginners" is the best representation of a love triangle. It's the realest coming of age story for me

  • @jaginaiaelectrizs6341
    @jaginaiaelectrizs6341 18 дней назад +1

    I really appreciate you pointing out that triangles are often symbolic representations of themes!😊 Some people really do be think so literally and non-literarily, sometimes.

  • @smolexfundie6458
    @smolexfundie6458 23 дня назад +1

    This is so funny!! I literally starting rereading Twilight last night! 😂 I’m in the perfect headspace for a dive like this. ❤

  • @lilyzeller1388
    @lilyzeller1388 23 дня назад

    past lives is one of my favorite movies of all time, definitely a must watch!! i love the way it explores the emotions each of the characters are feeling, the dialogue is so beautiful and intricate and honest

  • @orlaithdirac5669
    @orlaithdirac5669 22 дня назад +2

    Great video! I always thought that many characters such as Raoul de Chagny, Ashley Wilkes and Edgar Linton were quite similar before I discovered that there is a trope called love triangle

  • @tetitous
    @tetitous 6 дней назад

    As I tend to say, it's better when a triangle actually triangles. Personal current favorite love triangle is the one in shouwa genroku rakugo shinjuu, it's wild and messy in the best of ways

  • @loonatic7610
    @loonatic7610 23 дня назад +5

    i personally really like the love triangle(s) in the raven cycle! i think the tension and dynamics between the characters are all done really well, especially for ya fiction.

  • @badtiimes
    @badtiimes 23 дня назад

    omg Leonie i missed you sm! you look so nice!