Yea, my personality is too much for most people. My friends and family usually call when they want a problem solved quickly. I thought I found love once, but it was more a result of circumstances. I don't think I will be loved, and I am okay with that.
Ryan Duncan thats not true. It is certain that our personality isnt that common but that is the point ! What makes you a human version of limited edition. I thought most of entps would consider themselves fascinating,,, entps are unlikely to be replaced by others. I assume you’ll also be the kind.
Jessica Vivian oh i got it. Maybe that would be the reason why i treasure my bf so much when im in a relationship. (I never met someone who would try to fix me off or persuade me. )I guess thats because they were a few people who treated me as ME, my self. Well i think just a few persons enough for me. I cant afford more. Loved by my best ones and loving them, giving the best things, is my ideal dream life. I always imagine and depict my future life with my husband mr unknown..! ‘Love of my life’ imagination as a child still remains. haha
@Jessica Vivian Exactly, I consider myself to be rather popular despite lacking real intimate relationships. The few woman that have liked me, ended up liking me for my problem solving ability. Once I solved their problem their fascination, they no longer put up with my personality quirks. The other type wanted me to abandon my education or career and become stagnant, something I cannot do.
the way to an ENTPs heart is through their brain. To get there, simply: - win an argument. (I once went out with a guy that would sometimes prove me wrong, and it would make me see him as an intellectual challenge, I loved it) - make them laugh, and laugh with them - say interesting things (my favorite type of person is the person who always has something smart and interesting to say, no matter the subject) - challenge them (I’m very competitive, and I love to compete with a guy in mind games or charades, it’s sooo fun) - be there when they wanna talk (you know when u learn something totally random yet fascinating and you’re like “who can I tell it to?”. Be that person I can tell it to) - never judge them (this guy was so crazy he wouldn’t even find it weird when I said the craziest of things, and I loved the freedom it gave me, it’s rare to find that) - be impulsive with them (ENTPs might be like “hey I know it’s 4 am but do you wanna go out... like now” and if you’re up for being like this with them, then they’ll love you) - finally, don’t ask too much emotionally (we are very loyal, very supportive and we’ll always be there for you, but, to me at least, when a guy starts to ask me to show emotions and affection, I run away. We suck at emotional vulnerability, but just because we don’t usually say how we feel doesn’t mean we don’t feel it)
That is very enlightening, those describe my bf to almost perfection. But he's kind of outspoken about his feelings, but in a embarrassed cute way. Me being an incredibly clingy INFP find those little moments of verbal sings of affection the cutest
As a ENTP I get really irritated by secretive people. Secretive is not worth my time imo. I can talk to other people who happily will give me information about them and actually develop a relationship. What is actually extremally attractive is being avialable and insightful.
Me too. I had a friend who would lie about literally everything, down to the most mundane things, just to keep the truth a secret. It was baffling and off-putting.
@@AlextheENTP what the actual fuck honestly........ I also had a friend that was like that he is an isfj and bruh he lied so much I dont know what is true and what is wrong now insane-
The hardest part is just being ourselves around others. Most other personalities find SOMETHING about us that they not only find annoying, but will try to actively stifle. Whether it's debating for fun, arguing passionately, throwing crazy ideas at you constantly, there is always something someone finds grating. So a lot of us grow up feeling like something is wrong with the world...why would we second guess ourselves, we're awesome. but seriously, it does leave us feeling pretty shit, and we hate holding back. If you can handle ALL of us, and NOT take it personally....we'll be your ally for life.
Same! Sometimes I forget to filter my abstract thoughts around people and they look at me like I’m insane. My sister is an ENFP and she happily rolls with whatever crazy concept I’ve created.
AAAA!! my best friend is an INFJ and she told this to me it made see another perspective to our personality. ENTPs truly can act as a safe spot (not in the sense of stable of course) because I find us to be overly open to many qualities of humans. and I feel the same for INFJs It feels safe to let the ENTP thrive next to y'all
ENTP here. Laugh with me, make me laugh, have an open mind, be curious and thoughtful. In spite of what everyone seems to think, I don't want to do all the talking. Show me that you have your own perspectives on the world around you, but don't crumble when I question the logic of them. I want the same in return. And for the love of God, NEVER let me "win" an argument. If you're right, show me. EDIT: I do love to be right, so being proven wrong is actually very important to me. While it may hurt me in the moment, I'd rather address it and adjust, than go through life continuing to be wrong.
ENTP is the type of person who cause the chaos and manageable to escape the chaos alone while everyone is still doomed in chaos. I just love that feeling of causing chaos. Yes I am ENTP and open to talk shit about everything.
I read this description of "ENTP at a party" - Starts a massive debate, then drifts off to some other area of the party, leaving everyone in the first space still fighting. Hehehehehe, trueeeee.
i am entp and i agree... when a girl plays hard to get i am completely turned off... if a girl is always available thats the most attractive thing ever ... if the girl is not genuinely "hard" and tries to do games like "i will wait 30 minutes before every reply" that is when i completely move on...
This makes me feel really good cause I was doubting the effectiveness of me being available to an ENTP I like, when it’s just the truth. He can join me when he wants to 😂 usually scarcity is the valuable thing but I guess I’m making the right moves naturally. Validating lol 😌
ENTP here and yeah, I can get bored from people pretty fast, especially if I know everything about them. But do you know what will bore me even more than knowing every about the other person? Knowing nothing about the person, which is why it sucks when people hold back who they are. Don't create a mystery around yourself, it just annoys people. Be yourself and embrace that and if it fits the ENTP will stay ;)
- y a y o - entps can be easily a mystery themselves tho. personally speaking, i find it VERY hard to open up, i mean, about my feelings. im not trying to keep things from you to keep you interested, I just suck at emotional vulnerability.
Hmm I disagree. My INFJ friend ( I love her) keeps an air of mystery to her and darn do I literally worship the girl. Sure giving away nothing is annoying but giving a little and then knowing when to stop is infuriating in all the right ways. I reread this and realize it sounds kind of sexual. It's not. Or maybe it is. I'm in a relationship so best not to think about it. I also agree with another comment here about people who dig around in my head. I enjoy reciprocated intrest and equal work for the digging I do.
I definitely agree. If someone is too quiet it’s annoying as well. It’s too much effort and they’re probably boring anyways. If they don’t want to interact with me I just leave them alone.
ENTP here- I laughed through this entire video. When I took the MBTI test, there was a question like "Do you find yourself losing your possessions often?" After reading this question, I panicked and began looking around my office. I visually located my wallet, my phone, sun glasses , and my shoes. With a huge sigh of relief, I returned to the MBTI test and answered 'No' to the question as to whether or not I frequently lose my things as I obviously just found all of my things. Pretty sure it was not an ENTP that designed the test questions Nice video.
The question should be "Do you ever find yourself looking for something you already have on your person, e.g. you're talking on the phone and can't find it?"
An ENTP would have come up with the idea for the quiz, told at least 5 friends, secured hosting for a website, built the first three questions and then have gotten a wayyy better idea for a new project before he/she actually finished building the quiz. 😂
i’m an entp and earlier i said to my friend “i love chaos and i don’t mind anyone as long as they can keep up with it” so,, the stability one hit the nail on the head
Lemme share you some interesting fact about ENTP. ENTP's behavior is rather random but easy to distinguish, especially when it comes to relationships. Here's are good sign of ENTP who have interested on you : randomly bothers you, even tease with humorous wit, not intended to hurt you, but to create a conversations. Bad sign: When they say something like following as a reply;"Sure/ok" We never agree upon something that easy, we ENTP are the type that willing to end the conversation with "OUR/ENTP" opinion. If you heard ok that easily from them, it is likely to mean "not my problem/not interested" They will come forthwith something if they like you or something. Or extremely quiet.
You danced around something important in your first bit. Be available but not clingy/needy/demanding. ENTPs have an existing catalog of friends in an existing rotation of sorts. If you demand too much time right away, you won’t be able to compete for value with the existing social hierarchy. Ergo - you’ll get ghosted. I also disagree with the “withholding” approach as we are highly intuitive and too much focus on “mystery” will quickly start to feel like a mind-game or general dishonesty. I WILL know everything (meaningful) about you in a very short time. Keep an ENTPs interest by being good at conversation and an expert in something the ENTP has only marginal interest in. One of my besties is a very accomplished nurse. I never want to be a nurse, but I never get tired of her stories about weird conditions and crazy patients 😂. Also - you CANNOT be too serious. ENTPs will finds the humor in ERRYTHANG, so if you don’t want your shitty day turned into a punchline, do NOT call an ENTP. And if you’re too uptight to laugh at “serious” topics, you and your ENTP friend/crush - prolly not a good match🤷🏼♀️
if you can't laugh at yourself.....then you're prolly not an ENTP. had a serious work injury last week. kept sneaking in, 'go easy on me, i have brain damage'.
agree! but it’s also important to have some common knowledge so you can exchange experiences, insights, options,… but yeah definitely i’m so interested in stories from other professions and it was also my med friends that came to my mind first 😂
a lot of other entps here have being mentioning that hiding who you are is a real put off in any relationship and i do agree with that, but at the same time, there’s a difference to just not revealing parts of yourself and hiding it. one of the best relationships i have ever been in was with someone who’d accidentally show parts of themselves that were almost contradictory to their other parts (e.g. going from a shy stable person to suddenly having an overexcited outburst of emotions that would be otherwise, completely unpredictable). it was less like they were playing a game with me and more like they were discovering themselves, and i was there to witness it. sometimes it would just be things they never thought to be important to mention, other times it was something they didn’t even realise and because of that, it was damn near impossible to predict it until it happened. hiding creates feelings of dishonesty and manipulation, but discovering things or just being a layered person creates feelings of wonder and interest.
Very interesting point. Depending on the time in a person's life you meet them in, they could be discovering themselves. In fact relationships often reveal us to... ourselves more than anyone ~ Nathan
I have ISFJ friends and I love the fact that the contrast in our personalities and points of view teaches me a lot about being empathetic, patient and less impulsive. But tbh, an ISFJ for my life partner? I'll say we are definitely not meant to be.
@@imakro69 I'm an ENTP guy who's dating an ISFJ since 2 months, before that we've been living together as friends for more than a year, probably one of my biggest and hardest relationship challenge tbh. I've learnt a lot from her, we managed to get things balanced gradually, but sometimes if felt like hell to me. That was a very mixed experience, very interesting but also complicated. I love her yet she can annoy of irritate me way too quickly, but she's also a very veryy good listener and is always here whenever I wanna talk about news ideas, theories, my characters and their stories, she responds quickly and always seems interested, her devotion is what I appreciate the most in her. She sometimes overreact and is too emotionally involved to me, but she became more stable at my side and I learnt to be more patient and kind when she goes through hard feelings. She also brang stability and organisation where everything was just a huge mess at my place before she came. I often tire her with my impulsivity and sudden desire to go out to a new place randomly to hike or stull like that, without planning anything, walking and climbing a lot during one day only, yet it always happened well as if it was perfectly planned, at the end of the day she's exhausted (while I got overdrive energy) but also always surprised how the day was outstanding, and always tells me "how the hell do you do that all the time, and still this was one perfect vacation day, best memories" lol. Even if that's probably too much to handle for her sometimes, she doesn't complain and tries to follow me in my craziest ideas the best she can, that's adorable. I need to take distance and spend time with myself only from time to time, and I don't know how this will evolve, but I'm curious to foresee if this will workout, and where it will take us. Sorry for the life talking, just wanted to share my views!
@@U-237 hope it works out, but does not sound harmonious, which I believe is very important to ENTP. My best friend an ENTP married an ISFJ...and though its a 'financially stable' relationship on paper, they can't stand each other. :( Of course all types can work, some just take more work than others.
My grandmother is an isfj and I feel a special bond with her. My best friend is also an isfj and my soulmate but I could never see her and I together. It’s funny cuz Im taurus and they’re also my opposite sigh (Scorpio). ENTP’s opposites are ISFJs, what are the odds of that?
@@U-237 How did it go? Are you still together? l am an ISFJ who has a crush on an ENTP. We met 3 years ago and my first thought of him was "we are like living in different worlds". l also had some really big problems to deal with at that time so l managed to keep myself out of falling for him by reminding myself my first thought of him. Through 1.5 year of online learning l couldn't see him. l thought l was done with this feeling till we got into same class this year... Now, l have accepted my feelings and l am trying to get closer to him. Well, l am not the stereotypical ISFJ and pretty willing to spend time with him. l don't know how to express but l really do admire and care him. l want to observe and explore him. I definitely don't want the connection between us to be like just lovey-dovey thing but something we could learn from each other and grow together. l really cherish that feeling and l don't care much about what mbti says about our compatibility anymore. But since it's an input/information which is actually rare (to find isfj-entp relationships), l would be glad if you see my comment and answer it. 🥺
My advice for seducing an ENTP 1. Be earnestly flattering and say what you like about your ENTP 2. Ask your ENTP about their hobbies and listen to the answers, offer your own thoughts about them and ask questions 3. Tell your ENTP about your interests and ideas with complete honesty - Not just what you like, but why you like it 4. Offer some challenge to what your ENTP says. Don't just be agreeable all the time 5. Be direct and honest with your ENTP about what you want and how you are feeling if it is important, if you are coy, they will just be coy back to you The real hook: Tell your ENTP how important and helpful they are to you. This is the way you can truly manipulate them to stick to you like glue.
entp here. honeslty everything you said was absolutely spot on I couldn't believe how close to home all this was. although i could never tolerate a typical isfj they are terribly predictable and boring (sorry) I do think we much prefer every n type over any s type
I’m an open minded person and I think every other personality types can have their advantages to a relationship and there’s no ideal pattern. But as an ENTP what I hate the most is being micromanaged and intrusiveness. I hate it I hate it I hate it! I hate it when my romantic partner expects my whole world to be all about them. My individiuality can never touched, ever. In my defense ISFJs are absolutely a bad idea for ENTPs. They might be sweet people but we’re not meant to be together for obvious reasons.
I'm an ENTP. I'm under the impression that an Se user could satisfy my inferior Si better that an Si Dom. An INTJ for example. Me talking to an ISFJ just feels like mirroring each other (because Ne/Fe) or red-pilling, deconstructing their beliefs (when using Ti). Talking to an ISTJ seems like a banter about how things are meant to be done and how I don't care about it, especially then you can think of instances where the routine wouldn't work and why (Ne VS Si conflict basically). In both of these situations someone has to compromise their Ne or Si while in an ENTP-INTJ interaction there is no need for a compromise, since the same functions are not used. Personally interactions with SJs are bearable, with SPs satisfactory but with NJs amazing. These are my assumptions and I might be wrong though.
MrMarks101 Not sharing any valued functions with someone (INTJ) gets really old after a while if you’re trying to maintain a close relationship. Si doms appreciate the Ne assistance, it adds novelty and release from their otherwise rut-laden life. Ni doms want the rut. Their rut is the best and only rut. All of the Ni they do will be in service to that rut they selected. Ne will be like a fly buzzing around their head to be swatted away. As ENTPs age, we care less and less about Se and more about Si. Ni doms will be the opposite. I’m middle aged and having a conversation with an INTJ I know is a constant battle. It may be interesting, but he keeps trying to turn everything back towards his central idea. I’m trying to get him to see how his focus is too narrow and he hasn’t considered enough other possibilities. Sometimes he is just wrong and he can’t adjust. Neither of us feels satisfied. If I had to live with that, what would eventually happen is that I would stop trying. INFJ would be better for sure. However, my aunt is ENTP and my uncle is INFJ, married 50 years, and I see him devalue her Ne all the time as flighty and call her out constantly for her weak Si. My ISTJ husband on the other hand, because he values Ne, has actually gotten more balanced over the years. Tug of war over Ne-Si issues is basically nonexistent. I do get what you’re saying about the topics of conversation. Not really ones for discussing ideas. I have to go somewhere else for that, and that’s a big compromise for sure.
@@karenv2815 Wow, how insightful, Karen! Really appreciate your input and analogies. Totally understand the Ni narrow-mindedness you mentioned. Gonna keep this in mind for sure :)
Honestly, if I sense that someone is holding back information on purpose, just to play games I get annoyed big time. But I have to add that it depends on how you bring it across and on what subject you try to play games. Great content though :D
I get annoyed as well. However, I’ll still always find out the information just to show that I can, then move on. It’s probably one of my biggest flaws. I am too prideful to let a supposed challenge slide, even if it’s incredibly stupid.
Yes exactly, just be open but keep a little mystery and when around us let us be and we’ll fall … if there is chemistry very quickly, If not try to help create it and let’s see
So... what I'm getting from this is to just be myself, which is what I do anyway, lol. (INTJ) Funny thing is, I got drawn to one (and visa-versa) before I even had an interest with MBTI. Been together for 6 years, so the shadow-types thing works I guess (even though it wasn't directly discusses here). I had a good friend before him that was similar personality to him as well. I like a good cheeky bastard I can exchange friendly sass with or have actual deeper conversations with and not feel the pressure of judgement I get with some other sorts that makes me shut down. One (silly) example of interactions... I'm often reminding him to eat and sometimes he'll tell me he's having his first meal late in the day just to get some amusement from my reaction, like questioning why he does this to himself and to eat sooner. I'm very different in that my bio-chemistry affects my mood when I'm hungry. He'll sometimes taunt me because apparently I'm "cute when grumpy" to which I reply with a glare, grrr, and nip on the cheek. "Ow, cannibal..." (Mind you this is not everyone, but is me and my sweetie.)
I am currently wrestling an INTJ into an inevitable relationship and it is just about the most fun I’ve ever had. We are just ourselves, talk endlessly, and couldn’t tell you what we talk about. Ridiculousness and seriousness from one minute to the next. Vicious teasing until we run out of energy and, sigh, just gush at each other sometimes to the point of tears. It’s disgusting in all honesty. I find her adorable when she’s on the attack, she finds me idiotic, and I have literally threatened cannibalism of the face. You are not the only ones who are privy to this particular flavour of the universe’s expression of itself. Life affirming.
@@sugglew That sounds awesome. Yeah, you know what's up. Depending on how far you might go with the face slobbering, there's a game I haven't had to experience in quite a while. (Like way long ago, & pre-covid days.) The horrifying random game of tongue in the head-hole. It is exactly what it sounds like. For all I know, maybe you've already played this. If not, I'll leave that up to you to gauge whether or not you'll be facing negative repercussions. Just eh... brush your teeth first and if she wears makeup, avoid that. (You want laughter and squealing, not pissed off & murder.) ...just feeling a bit evil today. lol
That's sweet... I'm INTJ (doubtful cz i dont relate to the stereotypes on the internet but the functions make sense) and I find myself attracted to Ne and Ti users a lot as well.. A lot of my friends are INxP or ENxPs as well. It's a weird match on face value but is so much rewarding. :)
I didn't find out I was an ENTP until my early 40's. It explains so much. My biggest complaint is the fragility of others when it comes to big ideas. Seems like I'm alone when it comes to outside the box thinking.
Me as an ENTP with an ISFJ wife can tell you we work in tandem, we find support our areas of opportunity in the other's strengths, she takes advantage of my creativity and problem solving skills, and I rely on her when I need to stick to a plan or remain stable at an activity. whant maybe no one tells you is that is a long term development, we've been together for 13+ years and it has been the last 3 on which we've made a great breakthrough, specially after I gather the strength to open to her about my feelings (and specially at that time, the depression I was going through) so, this is my testimonial
My bf notice right from the start (when we were still friends) that engaging at debates and discussion with some depth always makes me sync with him somehow. And that's how him seduced me, watching together series and movies that opened the door for debate afterwards. KKKKKKKKK
I’m an ENTP and nothing makes me more agitated than when someone withholds basic information about themselves, if you are gonna use that strategy, give them enough of you to appreciate, enough to work through mentally and chew on, and nothing more for a while.
Oh my gosh the "always remind them of a few simple and easily overlooked things..." actually asking that question, checking, rather than challenging... 100%! That'd SO work on me haha. Where can I find someone who does this? Hubba hubba.
It’s always great to hear when people find the information in the video accurate! As for where you could find someone who does that… That’s a problem you might have to solve yourself! ~Nathan
This is true. For the last three years I loved thus girl who had qualities I didn't. As an ENTP I'm all over the place and she had it all together. That attracted me so much.
maybe its just the tenants and not the type. My mom is an ISFJ and we really dont share many topics to talk about. But if some intuitive were to try to imitate an ISFJ, that'd be cool
I'm a INFP dating an ENTP. For me, I'm very open with my thoughts and how I am, so he knows how I'm, but what I think makes him not bored is the fact that I'm a weirdo and do unexpected things, even for me hahaha I agree with the disliking of being hard to get. He for sure likes that we make time for each other. He need for sure someone telling them to take care of themselves... He was crazier when young, I've met the mellowed version of ENTP, and I'm glad because I like the stability. But of course, I didn't fake anything in order to make him like me, it just happened
@Alena Zelentskaya hi! Well, as Nathan said, ENTP likes to talk. Maybe my bf is a bad example because we may talk too much about nasty stuff (literally, like farts and stuff xdd). But i think they appreciate people who don't try hard to be someone else and enjoys talking about different things. But, I would suggest talking about a topic you can talk about knowledgeably so they don't always dominate the conversation (as you may imagine, I'm very knowledgeable about farts...jk, we talk about other deep shit... Sorry, I had to xd) So being outspoken! Also, there are other advices from ENTP that I think could be more helpful than what I said knowing nothing about both of you
I'm an ISFJ and my boyfriend is an ENTP. We've been together for 4 years now and we click quite well. I love his easygoing attitude and him showing me different perspectives on things that stress me out or just in general. He told me he likes that I take care of him (sometimes give him a kick in the ass so he actually does something) and that I'm nice to everyone :)
@@heatherbryant4197 True! I am very self aware, which helps and I also watched c.s. josephs video on how to type anyone myself and came to the same conclusion.
@@juuuus Interesting. So I'm curious, do you agree with Chase's typing methodology but not his theory of compatibility? Because according to him, an ISFJ would be most compatible with an ESFP.
Yes that I'm not so sure about. A friend of mine is an ESFP, I don't have to see her every month. What triggers me is that for her, logic doesn't seem to be important, she only accepts logic if it alignes with what her ego wants at the moment, so an emotional selection. She doesn't seem to care if she runs over other people as long as it's beneficial for her. And before I hurt her Fi by me showing her why it doesn't make sense, she protects it by looking down on me with her illogic. Also she rather believes what is commonly known or infront of her eyes, can't think for her own. Quick to judge. Then there are the talks about the repeating drama, I know that drama is the fuel to her life. It's a lot of gossip and a waste of time. I just see little growth. Why am I still friends with her? She does reach out to me regularely but I do appreciate that she is such a welcoming person and is interested in hearing about a variety of topics even if it's in a very shallow way. I can talk to her about easy, trendy topics, she is people loving and joins in on anything. I can learn to live in the moment and to be a little more reckless from her. Btw, I did grow up with an ISTJ father who had studied philosophy and raised me with a lot of Ti knowledge. Also I have an INTP sister, she cleans all my data, and an ISFP sister who tought me that Fi isn't selfishness.
I had an isfj friend who I adore. She's adorable and hardworking but didn't have the same polarizing attraction that the INFJ in my life had. Mainly because I do like to go back and forth but she genuinely was pretty neutral about everything, because well, ne is her last function in the stack. So, we had a class and she was so sweet so of course she was endeared to me. One of two sensor friends I had and truly cares about but even then I didn't keep touch with them after. The isfj because she literally doesn't have social media and sees family on weekends. So maybe it was also circumstance.
That phone call anecdote was spot on! I (INTP) have not once called by best friend (ENTP) in the 13 years I've known her! I can always expect a call almost daily.
*be Stable and embrace the chaos* me, an INTP-T, absolutely FUELLING my ENTP-T mate's ideas with chaos, and filming him dig a septic-hole booby trap on the beach. wait for a few hours, one person finally steps into it (thankfully the thing was a bit too strong, so he didnt fall). then starting to convince him that we should dig trenches there and reenact afghanistan.
Entertaining commentary, lovely accent. ENTP's do not 'like' the chaos other personalities inconsiderately create. Compassionate, ethical, solutions to craziness should not cast off. Grateful for your social intelligence.
Being an ENTP in the middle of corona pandemic in Czech republic I can actually confirm the stability in chaos thing. I can sense people hating me for my calmness. I make it worse by constantly talking about me enjoying lockdown. Am I a bad person?
I met an ENTP accidentally and accidentally did all the stuff in the video and somehow got that ENTP lol. He said he was surprised that I could finish his sentence before him finishing his sentence and that I had a mysterious vibe around myself. I felt weird typing that. I'm an INFJ btw.
What do you think about INFJ + ENTP? I've always found myself attracted to the ENTP types and my current bf is ENTP. I noticed that he's not so great with communication and doesn't talk much though. I would love to hear from him without waiting hours upon hours for a reply. I've gotten to the point where I just don't text him anymore. But if he texts me, I'm always quick to respond and am always there for him, just wish he was the same with me.
“Talk” does NOT equal “text” or “messaging” to an ENTP. We get submersed in doing what we’re doing in the moment. Your text message is an interruption. We’ll look at if we even get a notification - usually turned off - and based on how emergent the message is, we’ll respond in kind. And no - we don’t want to have long drawn out texting/messaging “conversations.” Share our immediate space - get our undivided attention. But we will NEVER be that person just waiting for our boo to text. If that’s what you need in a relationship, find a different personality type. If he’s not talking your ear off in person, he’s just not that into you 😬
It's the weirdest pairing. I connected WAY too deeply with an INFJ. It almost connects too well. Ya'll INFJs have, if not more, about the same number of issues as we do. You just hide it better. Sure, your type is the pinnacle of intellect. You make amazing conversationalists too. But your type fear confrontations, and we ENTPs THRIVE on it. You gotta understand how damaging that is for a relationship. My advice is to communicate honestly, and TRY to meet each other half-way. The "INFJ ghosting" is legendary. And it's HARD for me to understand that someone would find so much about me irritating, but carry on pretending otherwise until they just decide to disappear without warning. I know this doesn't address your problem directly, but you NEED to tell us things. We're emotionally dense. Our empathy is off the charts, but our filter just isn't there, and we aren't exactly closely studying your subtle facial features to see how you handle our off-the-cuff 15 minute rants. If something about what we said or didn't say bothers you, communicate it. ENTPs take a little more effort in that area, but it IS our weaker area, and it takes many years to grow it out.
Quick quiestion: if an entp isn't asking you questions at all, does not reply to anything you tell abt yourself and only replies to the questions you ask. Can i conclude that he's not interested at all? Infj asking. (Just wanting to make sure lmao)
Good day to you Nathan, and all readers, I'm pretty sure you're an INTP. An INTP with a rich treasure box of Ti-Si Personality observations. Thanks for sharing with us. Tarik (INFJ)
a hard to get or distant girl is an extreme turn off ... i dont know ehy its the norm to be attracted to that ... i prefer an affectionate , always available & yes a clingy one ... (the type that is clingy by always wanting to be with me & engage with my interests ... not the one that wants to give up my interests for her sake type of clingy ... i hate the second type)
I always watch these videos, change my mind about my type, watch your videos about them, and then change my mind again and come back here not remembering a thing about what you said, so I watch them again only to remember everything just seconds before you say it.
I'm INTP. My best friend is ENTP and we get along perfectly. I can fully use my Ne with her and not be shy to be talkative, funny and even goofy. I can openly express my minds and thoughts. My boyfriend is also ENTP, sometimes debates with him can be annoying since he rarely agrees with me and would continue to talk even when for me subject is done. Still, I think it is a good combo, we both like learning new things, discover world, coming up with new ideas and debate about abstract views.
Hello! INTP here in a long running romantic-like entanglement with an ENTP. It is highly recommended that you pursue a friendship or any kind of relationship with an ENTP. They will enjoy being openly honest with INTPs and not have to put on masks. The talks are never dull but also will test your reasoning stamina because they will reason that they're not debating, it's a discussion, but if you can veer them into discussing more about possibilities in concepts more than reasoning who's right, it will be enjoyable.
I am an ENTP. My best conversations I have with an INTP friend. We often talk all night long about different themes and at the end of the night we come back to an conclusion for our first topic. That´s very satisfying. But for spontaneous, funny activities or exploring the outside he isn´t open about.
@@srijan666 INTP/INFP are the best for ENTP. they are patient enough and actually act like they like spending time with such an argumentative person :D
Some of the better MBTI content I have seen in awhile. I am an pretty classic ENTP Curious about your thoughts on this. I notice when I like a song, I will play it non-stop until I am bored of it. I dont think this is particular to ENTPs but are we more prone to this behavior?
I can only speak for myself, but being an ENTP in a long-term relationship with an ISFJ, I can tell that it can work, but it's not anything close to ideal. Sparks do fly more often than not and, usually, for very dumb things, like chores, routine, schedules, staying in the comfort zone, to name a few. So yeah, it doesn't come without it's fair share of compromise and diluted wine from both sides, but it IS possible. Just not ideal.
I concur! I am married as well to an Isfj. I've known him so long as to he is more like family than a lover. If it weren't for him being absolutely in love with me, I dont think this would work. I have waves of emotion to love him and then want to escape. I am wise enough to know that marriage evolves but at times I feel like he is a ticking clock moving backwards.
Omg this is so true, I had been attracted to this guy for like 3 years (he is an ISFJ) and we ended up dating and I really liked him but then as you said, things started to get boring and I didn't know why (at that moment) all he did collided with everything I believed in or was. In the end, I dumped him and not in a nice way because he didn't want to let go lmaoo. Now everything makes sense HAHAHHAHAHHHA
That's a good tip and all but I feel like if you're willing to show me that confidence and allow some of your adventurous side out, we could be great together. If I feel like you aren't willing to try some things that you do to interest me it feels a little like you're faking it. But you're right about the contacting others. I usually initiated all the times me and my friends would hang out or call but if I saw that eventually they didn't make any effort to do the same at least a handful of times, I start to question if I'm the one wasting my time and I just leave if I'm not shown anything that proves me wrong. Many old friends are now just old friends because I didn't feel that reciprocation, though I don't like being texted every day, I expect someone to actually seek my attention. ...I'm not an attention hog or anything, I swear! xD
Can’t speak for everyone but I find that with girls that are considerably extroverted, we kinda just suffocate eachother and there’s never any quiet moments because one of us is always talking
I was with an INTJ and it crashed and burned HARD. It seemed great at first but the I and the J got harder and harder to overcome. Part of that could also be the male/female dynamic. Introverted men really seem to struggle long term with Extroverted and intellectual women. Especially a J. If he’s not as outgoing as you, he at least needs to feel smarter than you. I think the ENTJ will still have some ego issues, but at least he should stand up for himself a little more and getting him to go out and do things with you won’t be such a struggle.
So from the INTJ and ENTJ I have in my life, here’s what I’ve observed: with each pairing, there’s a very quick and apparent connection that comes from being NT. The early identification of this is the catalyst and motivation to explore a deeper relationship. Intellectual conversation becomes the norm and both parties are very happy to have found someone worthy of this type of conversation. The J types are much more structured and practical which is attractive and pretty valuable to the ENTP. Going into contrasts, I find the INTJ is much more patient with the ENTP and much more willing to either discuss or lend an ear to thoughts and ideas with little practical value as opposed to the ENTJ who is much more focused on reaching goals and doesn’t like to be slowed down or distracted by such ponderings. But to the strength of the ENTJ, sharing in extraversion with the ENTP allows for more social stimulation and spontaneity outside of the home which is quite fulfilling to the explorative ENTP. The INTJ is much more reluctant to take part in the ENTPs wild ideas and lust for social interaction and would much rather just stay at home and keep to themselves. And finally, I believe this is subjective to the person but I find INTJs are more grounded in realism and quite pessimistic in their view of the world which can bring the ENTPs mood down but also lend frank objectivity when the ENTP lacks it whereas ENTJs are more positive, seeing the world as their oyster where nothing is impossible and if you really want something then you should go after it no matter the odds which can inspire the ENTP but also lead them down detrimental paths.
ENTJ could be too agressive to the ENTP in terms of high expectations on organization and performance. INTJ's focus more on their own goals, while ENTJ 's are more worried about the "team". INTJ's are more private and for some ENTP's that may be a problem, but for others, that like mysterious and complex people that can be a turn on. Of course, ENTJ's being extraverted that means they are going to spend more time with their ENTP partner, and with INTJ's ENTP's need to give them enough space and time to be alone. Even though there's a common stereotype that says that INTJ's are close-minded and because of that they can't argue with ENTP's because ENTP's will get easily frustrated. I think that that stereotype is bullshit, cuz judgemental is not the same as close minded. With all that, I'm sure either an INTJ and ENTJ could make an ENTP happy, it only depends on the personal needs of each ENTP in particular.
super accurate vid hahaha this is an instructions manual on how to get me to like you a lot for a long time - my bf has been dropping his "editions" once a year - it's crazy how effective it is 😂😂😂 5 years tgt and counting
I'm trying to find out if I am an ENTP. Is it normal to get extremely frustrated an obsessed by people changing something about themselves? If it is a haircut, taste in music or whatever and you need to find out why they changed it?
As an ENTP, the types I tend to fall for the most are IxFJ, IxFP and ENTP. INFJ cause we are alike but different. We generally tend to value similar things in life. INFJs are usually so wise and interesting, which I find very attractive. ISFJ because we're alike but different. We share all our functions, but upside down. This means that we're able to understand each other but still find a lot of interesting differences between each other. In terms of IXFP, it's their Fi that can sometimes be so attractive. They tend to know who they are and what they like and usually live by that. They're usually very passionate about the things they like and that is one of the most attractive things to me. It's something that I lack but wish I had. But most times, I wouldn't date my ISFP crush. We're too different and I just don't think we'd be a good fit. I love people who are like me and that's why I love my fellow ENTPs. I love listening to their ideas and opinions and comparing them to mine, which could lead to some new interesting ideas to form. We don't see the world as black or white, and a black or white point of view is one of the most unattractive things to me.
I love someone who can argue with me, not only that, I love people who fuel constructive arguements. Example: I (ENTP) was studying electromagnetic induction today and said, "What if we made cars with electromagnets? No need for charging or refueling" (I don't know much about them i'm just trying to get through my a levels) and my teacher (ESTJ) decided to entertain that, asking questions about how I'd start the car in the first place because of current and some ish but gave up after 3 minutes. VERY unsatisfying.
It is nice when someone purposefully does these things. It is maddening when then are just being themselves and you just can’t help or figure out😭 How rude!!!
Mostly accurate, though it would be a bad idea to withhold information that can be used as talking points. You want to maintain their peak interest in the conversation for as long as possible by introducing new topics just as the previous one start to slow down. Once every topic's been talked about, keep them in rotation, with more emphasis on the best ones. Lastly, be hyped/energetic about your own interests as ENTPs can, uniquely, imagine the potential of having the same interest and suddenly become obsessed with it out of nowhere. Despite what Socionics or MBTI theory says about us being compatible with ISFx, they are by FAR the worst types for compatibility. Of course, there are many exceptions. They are just so low energy and so void of any curiosity, they're like pets, at best. They may be nice, but unless they have exceptionally high energy and IQ for their type, they are COMPLETELY incompatible.
I ❤️ me some ISJ! I just learned MBTI a few years ago, so I never was aware that I was seeking Si, yet I always did that. Married to an ISTJ and made a career in an SJ-dominated field. And I attract ISFJ friends like a magnet - always have. As for ESJs - meh...
I could debate you, myself and anyone else for hours about how I don’t like to talk. If you listened and had an open mind, I wouldn’t have to relentlessly challenge it! Me - every conversation.
As an ENTP the last one is very useful for me to maintain interest for someone im currently dating 😅 I am trying to figure this person quickest and easiest way by make him take the personality test. Now this is very beneficial so it is easier to approach but. As said in this vid, I might get bored right after so better not 😂
Im an ENTP learning how to seduce myself since Ive accepted that nobody loves me
Alena Zelentskaya me either~ my fellowssss~!
Yea, my personality is too much for most people. My friends and family usually call when they want a problem solved quickly. I thought I found love once, but it was more a result of circumstances. I don't think I will be loved, and I am okay with that.
Ryan Duncan thats not true. It is certain that our personality isnt that common but that is the point ! What makes you a human version of limited edition. I thought most of entps would consider themselves fascinating,,, entps are unlikely to be replaced by others. I assume you’ll also be the kind.
Jessica Vivian oh i got it. Maybe that would be the reason why i treasure my bf so much when im in a relationship. (I never met someone who would try to fix me off or persuade me. )I guess thats because they were a few people who treated me as ME, my self. Well i think just a few persons enough for me. I cant afford more. Loved by my best ones and loving them, giving the best things, is my ideal dream life. I always imagine and depict my future life with my husband mr unknown..! ‘Love of my life’ imagination as a child still remains. haha
@Jessica Vivian Exactly, I consider myself to be rather popular despite lacking real intimate relationships. The few woman that have liked me, ended up liking me for my problem solving ability. Once I solved their problem their fascination, they no longer put up with my personality quirks. The other type wanted me to abandon my education or career and become stagnant, something I cannot do.
the way to an ENTPs heart is through their brain. To get there, simply:
- win an argument. (I once went out with a guy that would sometimes prove me wrong, and it would make me see him as an intellectual challenge, I loved it)
- make them laugh, and laugh with them
- say interesting things (my favorite type of person is the person who always has something smart and interesting to say, no matter the subject)
- challenge them (I’m very competitive, and I love to compete with a guy in mind games or charades, it’s sooo fun)
- be there when they wanna talk (you know when u learn something totally random yet fascinating and you’re like “who can I tell it to?”. Be that person I can tell it to)
- never judge them (this guy was so crazy he wouldn’t even find it weird when I said the craziest of things, and I loved the freedom it gave me, it’s rare to find that)
- be impulsive with them (ENTPs might be like “hey I know it’s 4 am but do you wanna go out... like now” and if you’re up for being like this with them, then they’ll love you)
- finally, don’t ask too much emotionally (we are very loyal, very supportive and we’ll always be there for you, but, to me at least, when a guy starts to ask me to show emotions and affection, I run away. We suck at emotional vulnerability, but just because we don’t usually say how we feel doesn’t mean we don’t feel it)
THIS all of this.
Thank you for putting this into words. ENTP guy here and I can tell you, it applies and is astoundingly accurate.
That is very enlightening, those describe my bf to almost perfection. But he's kind of outspoken about his feelings, but in a embarrassed cute way. Me being an incredibly clingy INFP find those little moments of verbal sings of affection the cutest
This^^^^^, all of it, yessss
Sooo accurate for me too!
As a ENTP I get really irritated by secretive people. Secretive is not worth my time imo. I can talk to other people who happily will give me information about them and actually develop a relationship. What is actually extremally attractive is being avialable and insightful.
Omg so truee
I hate when people don't open up to me
@@hisokamorow9358 I never trust them
@@nothinglastsforever0000 why
Me too. I had a friend who would lie about literally everything, down to the most mundane things, just to keep the truth a secret. It was baffling and off-putting.
@@AlextheENTP what the actual fuck
honestly........
I also had a friend that was like that he is an isfj and bruh he lied so much I dont know what is true and what is wrong now
insane-
The hardest part is just being ourselves around others. Most other personalities find SOMETHING about us that they not only find annoying, but will try to actively stifle. Whether it's debating for fun, arguing passionately, throwing crazy ideas at you constantly, there is always something someone finds grating. So a lot of us grow up feeling like something is wrong with the world...why would we second guess ourselves, we're awesome. but seriously, it does leave us feeling pretty shit, and we hate holding back. If you can handle ALL of us, and NOT take it personally....we'll be your ally for life.
Niveous23 I don’t remember typing this.....
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
true... especially it's tricky to keep your self-esteem growing up with sensors...
Very true... we are awesome
@@andrewpartin1751 uP
Im an INFJ and I really love ENTPs
Its like I just like how they exist and I dont feel the need to walk on eggshells around them
same samee
Same! Sometimes I forget to filter my abstract thoughts around people and they look at me like I’m insane. My sister is an ENFP and she happily rolls with whatever crazy concept I’ve created.
We love you, too. 🤗
AAAA!! my best friend is an INFJ and she told this to me it made see another perspective to our personality. ENTPs truly can act as a safe spot (not in the sense of stable of course) because I find us to be overly open to many qualities of humans. and I feel the same for INFJs It feels safe to let the ENTP thrive next to y'all
Isn't the INFJ "the kindred spirit" of the ENTP?
ENTP here. Laugh with me, make me laugh, have an open mind, be curious and thoughtful. In spite of what everyone seems to think, I don't want to do all the talking. Show me that you have your own perspectives on the world around you, but don't crumble when I question the logic of them. I want the same in return. And for the love of God, NEVER let me "win" an argument. If you're right, show me.
EDIT: I do love to be right, so being proven wrong is actually very important to me. While it may hurt me in the moment, I'd rather address it and adjust, than go through life continuing to be wrong.
Me as an ENTP: "MANN, I'M RIGHT AGAIN. GAAHHHH *upset*"
Everyone else: "isn't being right a good thing???"
@@DarkFoxV lol you get it.
ENTP is the type of person who cause the chaos and manageable to escape the chaos alone while everyone is still doomed in chaos.
I just love that feeling of causing chaos.
Yes I am ENTP and open to talk shit about everything.
GANG
What's your opinion about the reason for human being?
@@ghostriderlucas who says there is a reason?
@@ghostriderlucas REPRODUCT
I read this description of "ENTP at a party" -
Starts a massive debate, then drifts off to some other area of the party, leaving everyone in the first space still fighting.
Hehehehehe, trueeeee.
Me a talkative yet awkward INFP with an ENTP crush: yes finally
Perfect lol! ~ Nathan
You are so blessed!
Ive been married to an ENTP for 10 years
My best friend who understands me best is ISFJ!!! We had our hard times but after 16 yrs of friendship we read each others minds
U can try lol but tbh as an entp Im alwyas kinda repelled by that kinda ppl 😂 no offense though, surely there's a million ways Im wrong in this take
i am entp and i agree... when a girl plays hard to get i am completely turned off... if a girl is always available thats the most attractive thing ever ... if the girl is not genuinely "hard" and tries to do games like "i will wait 30 minutes before every reply" that is when i completely move on...
This makes me feel really good cause I was doubting the effectiveness of me being available to an ENTP I like, when it’s just the truth. He can join me when he wants to 😂 usually scarcity is the valuable thing but I guess I’m making the right moves naturally. Validating lol 😌
ENTP here and yeah, I can get bored from people pretty fast, especially if I know everything about them.
But do you know what will bore me even more than knowing every about the other person?
Knowing nothing about the person, which is why it sucks when people hold back who they are. Don't create a mystery around yourself, it just annoys people.
Be yourself and embrace that and if it fits the ENTP will stay ;)
Idk man I like a mystery
- y a y o - entps can be easily a mystery themselves tho. personally speaking, i find it VERY hard to open up, i mean, about my feelings. im not trying to keep things from you to keep you interested, I just suck at emotional vulnerability.
Hmm I disagree. My INFJ friend ( I love her) keeps an air of mystery to her and darn do I literally worship the girl. Sure giving away nothing is annoying but giving a little and then knowing when to stop is infuriating in all the right ways. I reread this and realize it sounds kind of sexual. It's not. Or maybe it is. I'm in a relationship so best not to think about it. I also agree with another comment here about people who dig around in my head. I enjoy reciprocated intrest and equal work for the digging I do.
@@sophia1851 허ニ 써ン
I definitely agree. If someone is too quiet it’s annoying as well. It’s too much effort and they’re probably boring anyways. If they don’t want to interact with me I just leave them alone.
ENTP here- I laughed through this entire video. When I took the MBTI test, there was a question like "Do you find yourself losing your possessions often?" After reading this question, I panicked and began looking around my office. I visually located my wallet, my phone, sun glasses , and my shoes. With a huge sigh of relief, I returned to the MBTI test and answered 'No' to the question as to whether or not I frequently lose my things as I obviously just found all of my things. Pretty sure it was not an ENTP that designed the test questions
Nice video.
Bro im a Entp and he is absolutely right. I laughted to 😂😂😂
The question should be "Do you ever find yourself looking for something you already have on your person, e.g. you're talking on the phone and can't find it?"
Ha! That's great.
An ENTP would have come up with the idea for the quiz, told at least 5 friends, secured hosting for a website, built the first three questions and then have gotten a wayyy better idea for a new project before he/she actually finished building the quiz. 😂
This was the most inferior Si thing I've ever heard in my life. Definitley an ENxP.
i’m an entp and earlier i said to my friend “i love chaos and i don’t mind anyone as long as they can keep up with it” so,, the stability one hit the nail on the head
Yes it’s such a nice complementarity! ~ Nathan
Love the fact that you have Seven who is also an ENTP as your profile pic 👑
Albedo
Lemme share you some interesting fact about ENTP.
ENTP's behavior is rather random but easy to distinguish, especially when it comes to relationships.
Here's are good sign of ENTP who have interested on you : randomly bothers you, even tease with humorous wit, not intended to hurt you, but to create a conversations.
Bad sign: When they say something like following as a reply;"Sure/ok"
We never agree upon something that easy, we ENTP are the type that willing to end the conversation with "OUR/ENTP" opinion. If you heard ok that easily from them, it is likely to mean "not my problem/not interested"
They will come forthwith something if they like you or something.
Or extremely quiet.
Absolutely correct
You danced around something important in your first bit. Be available but not clingy/needy/demanding. ENTPs have an existing catalog of friends in an existing rotation of sorts. If you demand too much time right away, you won’t be able to compete for value with the existing social hierarchy. Ergo - you’ll get ghosted. I also disagree with the “withholding” approach as we are highly intuitive and too much focus on “mystery” will quickly start to feel like a mind-game or general dishonesty. I WILL know everything (meaningful) about you in a very short time. Keep an ENTPs interest by being good at conversation and an expert in something the ENTP has only marginal interest in. One of my besties is a very accomplished nurse. I never want to be a nurse, but I never get tired of her stories about weird conditions and crazy patients 😂. Also - you CANNOT be too serious. ENTPs will finds the humor in ERRYTHANG, so if you don’t want your shitty day turned into a punchline, do NOT call an ENTP. And if you’re too uptight to laugh at “serious” topics, you and your ENTP friend/crush - prolly not a good match🤷🏼♀️
if you can't laugh at yourself.....then you're prolly not an ENTP. had a serious work injury last week. kept sneaking in, 'go easy on me, i have brain damage'.
I agree totally with the "be available but not clingy" part, and yes we have an existing catalog of friends on rotation lolol.
This!!
@@aznrhmn catalog of friends on rotation
agree! but it’s also important to have some common knowledge so you can exchange experiences, insights, options,… but yeah definitely i’m so interested in stories from other professions and it was also my med friends that came to my mind first 😂
a lot of other entps here have being mentioning that hiding who you are is a real put off in any relationship and i do agree with that, but at the same time, there’s a difference to just not revealing parts of yourself and hiding it. one of the best relationships i have ever been in was with someone who’d accidentally show parts of themselves that were almost contradictory to their other parts (e.g. going from a shy stable person to suddenly having an overexcited outburst of emotions that would be otherwise, completely unpredictable). it was less like they were playing a game with me and more like they were discovering themselves, and i was there to witness it. sometimes it would just be things they never thought to be important to mention, other times it was something they didn’t even realise and because of that, it was damn near impossible to predict it until it happened.
hiding creates feelings of dishonesty and manipulation, but discovering things or just being a layered person creates feelings of wonder and interest.
Very interesting point. Depending on the time in a person's life you meet them in, they could be discovering themselves. In fact relationships often reveal us to... ourselves more than anyone ~ Nathan
Please make this “Seducing the...” for each personality type. Interesting stuff.
I need a seduce the Entj episode
@@joaopedroaguiarfmatos1473 did you seduce an entj now ?
ENTP is the best MBTI type
- ENTP
As an ENTP I second this
as an infp yes 😴
I have ISFJ friends and I love the fact that the contrast in our personalities and points of view teaches me a lot about being empathetic, patient and less impulsive. But tbh, an ISFJ for my life partner? I'll say we are definitely not meant to be.
I can't imagine how it can work, cause this type can infuriate me in 10 seconds or less
@@imakro69 I'm an ENTP guy who's dating an ISFJ since 2 months, before that we've been living together as friends for more than a year, probably one of my biggest and hardest relationship challenge tbh. I've learnt a lot from her, we managed to get things balanced gradually, but sometimes if felt like hell to me. That was a very mixed experience, very interesting but also complicated. I love her yet she can annoy of irritate me way too quickly, but she's also a very veryy good listener and is always here whenever I wanna talk about news ideas, theories, my characters and their stories, she responds quickly and always seems interested, her devotion is what I appreciate the most in her. She sometimes overreact and is too emotionally involved to me, but she became more stable at my side and I learnt to be more patient and kind when she goes through hard feelings. She also brang stability and organisation where everything was just a huge mess at my place before she came. I often tire her with my impulsivity and sudden desire to go out to a new place randomly to hike or stull like that, without planning anything, walking and climbing a lot during one day only, yet it always happened well as if it was perfectly planned, at the end of the day she's exhausted (while I got overdrive energy) but also always surprised how the day was outstanding, and always tells me "how the hell do you do that all the time, and still this was one perfect vacation day, best memories" lol. Even if that's probably too much to handle for her sometimes, she doesn't complain and tries to follow me in my craziest ideas the best she can, that's adorable. I need to take distance and spend time with myself only from time to time, and I don't know how this will evolve, but I'm curious to foresee if this will workout, and where it will take us. Sorry for the life talking, just wanted to share my views!
@@U-237 hope it works out, but does not sound harmonious, which I believe is very important to ENTP. My best friend an ENTP married an ISFJ...and though its a 'financially stable' relationship on paper, they can't stand each other. :( Of course all types can work, some just take more work than others.
My grandmother is an isfj and I feel a special bond with her. My best friend is also an isfj and my soulmate but I could never see her and I together. It’s funny cuz Im taurus and they’re also my opposite sigh (Scorpio). ENTP’s opposites are ISFJs, what are the odds of that?
@@U-237 How did it go? Are you still together?
l am an ISFJ who has a crush on an ENTP. We met 3 years ago and my first thought of him was "we are like living in different worlds". l also had some really big problems to deal with at that time so l managed to keep myself out of falling for him by reminding myself my first thought of him. Through 1.5 year of online learning l couldn't see him. l thought l was done with this feeling till we got into same class this year... Now, l have accepted my feelings and l am trying to get closer to him. Well, l am not the stereotypical ISFJ and pretty willing to spend time with him. l don't know how to express but l really do admire and care him. l want to observe and explore him. I definitely don't want the connection between us to be like just lovey-dovey thing but something we could learn from each other and grow together. l really cherish that feeling and l don't care much about what mbti says about our compatibility anymore. But since it's an input/information which is actually rare (to find isfj-entp relationships), l would be glad if you see my comment and answer it. 🥺
My advice for seducing an ENTP
1. Be earnestly flattering and say what you like about your ENTP
2. Ask your ENTP about their hobbies and listen to the answers, offer your own thoughts about them and ask questions
3. Tell your ENTP about your interests and ideas with complete honesty - Not just what you like, but why you like it
4. Offer some challenge to what your ENTP says. Don't just be agreeable all the time
5. Be direct and honest with your ENTP about what you want and how you are feeling if it is important, if you are coy, they will just be coy back to you
The real hook: Tell your ENTP how important and helpful they are to you. This is the way you can truly manipulate them to stick to you like glue.
this is to all ENTPS: i love you all!! 💗💖love yourselves too and make sure ur living ur life to the fullest, whatever that means for u 😾
entp here. honeslty everything you said was absolutely spot on I couldn't believe how close to home all this was.
although i could never tolerate a typical isfj they are terribly predictable and boring (sorry) I do think we much prefer every n type over any s type
Dont think many of them would wanna tolerate you either tbh
shut up ur just salty he never replied to ur comment
The S stands for Sorry
It depends
I think the ISFJ would bore me senseless.
I don't know yet if I'm an ENTP, but my boyfriend seems to be an ISTP and let me tell you, it's interesting.
I’m an open minded person and I think every other personality types can have their advantages to a relationship and there’s no ideal pattern. But as an ENTP what I hate the most is being micromanaged and intrusiveness. I hate it I hate it I hate it! I hate it when my romantic partner expects my whole world to be all about them. My individiuality can never touched, ever. In my defense ISFJs are absolutely a bad idea for ENTPs. They might be sweet people but we’re not meant to be together for obvious reasons.
I'm an ENTP. I'm under the impression that an Se user could satisfy my inferior Si better that an Si Dom. An INTJ for example.
Me talking to an ISFJ just feels like mirroring each other (because Ne/Fe) or red-pilling, deconstructing their beliefs (when using Ti).
Talking to an ISTJ seems like a banter about how things are meant to be done and how I don't care about it, especially then you can think of instances where the routine wouldn't work and why (Ne VS Si conflict basically).
In both of these situations someone has to compromise their Ne or Si while in an ENTP-INTJ interaction there is no need for a compromise, since the same functions are not used.
Personally interactions with SJs are bearable, with SPs satisfactory but with NJs amazing.
These are my assumptions and I might be wrong though.
Yes...I agree with this. An INxJs Se will satisfy us
Can verify!
MrMarks101 Not sharing any valued functions with someone (INTJ) gets really old after a while if you’re trying to maintain a close relationship. Si doms appreciate the Ne assistance, it adds novelty and release from their otherwise rut-laden life. Ni doms want the rut. Their rut is the best and only rut. All of the Ni they do will be in service to that rut they selected. Ne will be like a fly buzzing around their head to be swatted away. As ENTPs age, we care less and less about Se and more about Si. Ni doms will be the opposite. I’m middle aged and having a conversation with an INTJ I know is a constant battle. It may be interesting, but he keeps trying to turn everything back towards his central idea. I’m trying to get him to see how his focus is too narrow and he hasn’t considered enough other possibilities. Sometimes he is just wrong and he can’t adjust. Neither of us feels satisfied. If I had to live with that, what would eventually happen is that I would stop trying. INFJ would be better for sure. However, my aunt is ENTP and my uncle is INFJ, married 50 years, and I see him devalue her Ne all the time as flighty and call her out constantly for her weak Si.
My ISTJ husband on the other hand, because he values Ne, has actually gotten more balanced over the years. Tug of war over Ne-Si issues is basically nonexistent. I do get what you’re saying about the topics of conversation. Not really ones for discussing ideas. I have to go somewhere else for that, and that’s a big compromise for sure.
@@karenv2815 Wow, how insightful, Karen! Really appreciate your input and analogies. Totally understand the Ni narrow-mindedness you mentioned. Gonna keep this in mind for sure :)
MrMarks101
For me, Any type
As long as they are a respectful person is able to be my friend
I have a lot of diversity in my friend circle
Honestly, if I sense that someone is holding back information on purpose, just to play games I get annoyed big time. But I have to add that it depends on how you bring it across and on what subject you try to play games. Great content though :D
I’m so good at getting info!!!!
I get annoyed as well. However, I’ll still always find out the information just to show that I can, then move on. It’s probably one of my biggest flaws. I am too prideful to let a supposed challenge slide, even if it’s incredibly stupid.
"Knock" ....i feel your pain. My ENTP friend video chats whenever she needs to talk, VIDEO CHATS... i don't even answer phonecalls from other people
BAH HAH HAH!!!!! I feel your pain. Er, challenge. I feel your challenge.
Yes exactly, just be open but keep a little mystery and when around us let us be and we’ll fall … if there is chemistry very quickly, If not try to help create it and let’s see
So... what I'm getting from this is to just be myself, which is what I do anyway, lol. (INTJ)
Funny thing is, I got drawn to one (and visa-versa) before I even had an interest with MBTI. Been together for 6 years, so the shadow-types thing works I guess (even though it wasn't directly discusses here). I had a good friend before him that was similar personality to him as well. I like a good cheeky bastard I can exchange friendly sass with or have actual deeper conversations with and not feel the pressure of judgement I get with some other sorts that makes me shut down.
One (silly) example of interactions...
I'm often reminding him to eat and sometimes he'll tell me he's having his first meal late in the day just to get some amusement from my reaction, like questioning why he does this to himself and to eat sooner. I'm very different in that my bio-chemistry affects my mood when I'm hungry. He'll sometimes taunt me because apparently I'm "cute when grumpy" to which I reply with a glare, grrr, and nip on the cheek. "Ow, cannibal..."
(Mind you this is not everyone, but is me and my sweetie.)
I am currently wrestling an INTJ into an inevitable relationship and it is just about the most fun I’ve ever had. We are just ourselves, talk endlessly, and couldn’t tell you what we talk about. Ridiculousness and seriousness from one minute to the next. Vicious teasing until we run out of energy and, sigh, just gush at each other sometimes to the point of tears. It’s disgusting in all honesty. I find her adorable when she’s on the attack, she finds me idiotic, and I have literally threatened cannibalism of the face. You are not the only ones who are privy to this particular flavour of the universe’s expression of itself. Life affirming.
@@sugglew That sounds awesome. Yeah, you know what's up.
Depending on how far you might go with the face slobbering, there's a game I haven't had to experience in quite a while. (Like way long ago, & pre-covid days.) The horrifying random game of tongue in the head-hole. It is exactly what it sounds like. For all I know, maybe you've already played this. If not, I'll leave that up to you to gauge whether or not you'll be facing negative repercussions. Just eh... brush your teeth first and if she wears makeup, avoid that. (You want laughter and squealing, not pissed off & murder.)
...just feeling a bit evil today. lol
@@LooneyTiksCrap “you want laughter and squealing, not pissed off and murder”. This is amazing ha ha ha.
That's sweet... I'm INTJ (doubtful cz i dont relate to the stereotypes on the internet but the functions make sense) and I find myself attracted to Ne and Ti users a lot as well.. A lot of my friends are INxP or ENxPs as well. It's a weird match on face value but is so much rewarding. :)
神秘感不是重點，重點是要讓他們看到你是有成長的潛力，並且有可以和entp起互相督促成長的能力的話會更好。我喜歡總結entp為"慕強"。
I didn't find out I was an ENTP until my early 40's. It explains so much. My biggest complaint is the fragility of others when it comes to big ideas. Seems like I'm alone when it comes to outside the box thinking.
Me as an ENTP with an ISFJ wife can tell you we work in tandem, we find support our areas of opportunity in the other's strengths, she takes advantage of my creativity and problem solving skills, and I rely on her when I need to stick to a plan or remain stable at an activity. whant maybe no one tells you is that is a long term development, we've been together for 13+ years and it has been the last 3 on which we've made a great breakthrough, specially after I gather the strength to open to her about my feelings (and specially at that time, the depression I was going through) so, this is my testimonial
My bf notice right from the start (when we were still friends) that engaging at debates and discussion with some depth always makes me sync with him somehow. And that's how him seduced me, watching together series and movies that opened the door for debate afterwards. KKKKKKKKK
I’m an ENTP and nothing makes me more agitated than when someone withholds basic information about themselves, if you are gonna use that strategy, give them enough of you to appreciate, enough to work through mentally and chew on, and nothing more for a while.
Oh my gosh the "always remind them of a few simple and easily overlooked things..." actually asking that question, checking, rather than challenging... 100%! That'd SO work on me haha. Where can I find someone who does this? Hubba hubba.
It’s always great to hear when people find the information in the video accurate! As for where you could find someone who does that… That’s a problem you might have to solve yourself! ~Nathan
Thank you, if I had an ENTP to seduce, I will refer back to this video.
im an ENTP and I'm so into this.
This is true. For the last three years I loved thus girl who had qualities I didn't. As an ENTP I'm all over the place and she had it all together. That attracted me so much.
Duality sounds good in theory but is bad in practice
maybe its just the tenants and not the type.
My mom is an ISFJ and we really dont share many topics to talk about.
But if some intuitive were to try to imitate an ISFJ, that'd be cool
@@interycreeper1152 same
I'm a INFP dating an ENTP. For me, I'm very open with my thoughts and how I am, so he knows how I'm, but what I think makes him not bored is the fact that I'm a weirdo and do unexpected things, even for me hahaha
I agree with the disliking of being hard to get. He for sure likes that we make time for each other.
He need for sure someone telling them to take care of themselves...
He was crazier when young, I've met the mellowed version of ENTP, and I'm glad because I like the stability.
But of course, I didn't fake anything in order to make him like me, it just happened
@Alena Zelentskaya hi! Well, as Nathan said, ENTP likes to talk. Maybe my bf is a bad example because we may talk too much about nasty stuff (literally, like farts and stuff xdd). But i think they appreciate people who don't try hard to be someone else and enjoys talking about different things. But, I would suggest talking about a topic you can talk about knowledgeably so they don't always dominate the conversation (as you may imagine, I'm very knowledgeable about farts...jk, we talk about other deep shit... Sorry, I had to xd)
So being outspoken! Also, there are other advices from ENTP that I think could be more helpful than what I said knowing nothing about both of you
What do u mean in your comment about disliking hard to get? ENTPs don't like that or?
@@redhead_in_florida ah, no, I was talking about what he said in the video. Nathan said that usually ENTP liked you don't play the hard-to-get card
As an ENTP you just described my dream friend
I am an ENTP and LMAO the way this guy talked about my personality type made me feel like a friggin genius
I'm an ISFJ and my boyfriend is an ENTP. We've been together for 4 years now and we click quite well. I love his easygoing attitude and him showing me different perspectives on things that stress me out or just in general. He told me he likes that I take care of him (sometimes give him a kick in the ass so he actually does something) and that I'm nice to everyone :)
It also sounds like you typed yourself correctly, which is less common than one might think!
@@heatherbryant4197 True! I am very self aware, which helps and I also watched c.s. josephs video on how to type anyone myself and came to the same conclusion.
@@juuuus Interesting. So I'm curious, do you agree with Chase's typing methodology but not his theory of compatibility? Because according to him, an ISFJ would be most compatible with an ESFP.
Yes that I'm not so sure about. A friend of mine is an ESFP, I don't have to see her every month.
What triggers me is that for her, logic doesn't seem to be important, she only accepts logic if it alignes with what her ego wants at the moment, so an emotional selection. She doesn't seem to care if she runs over other people as long as it's beneficial for her. And before I hurt her Fi by me showing her why it doesn't make sense, she protects it by looking down on me with her illogic.
Also she rather believes what is commonly known or infront of her eyes, can't think for her own. Quick to judge.
Then there are the talks about the repeating drama, I know that drama is the fuel to her life. It's a lot of gossip and a waste of time. I just see little growth.
Why am I still friends with her?
She does reach out to me regularely but I do appreciate that she is such a welcoming person and is interested in hearing about a variety of topics even if it's in a very shallow way. I can talk to her about easy, trendy topics, she is people loving and joins in on anything.
I can learn to live in the moment and to be a little more reckless from her.
Btw, I did grow up with an ISTJ father who had studied philosophy and raised me with a lot of Ti knowledge. Also I have an INTP sister, she cleans all my data, and an ISFP sister who tought me that Fi isn't selfishness.
I had an isfj friend who I adore. She's adorable and hardworking but didn't have the same polarizing attraction that the INFJ in my life had. Mainly because I do like to go back and forth but she genuinely was pretty neutral about everything, because well, ne is her last function in the stack. So, we had a class and she was so sweet so of course she was endeared to me. One of two sensor friends I had and truly cares about but even then I didn't keep touch with them after. The isfj because she literally doesn't have social media and sees family on weekends. So maybe it was also circumstance.
That phone call anecdote was spot on!
I (INTP) have not once called by best friend (ENTP) in the 13 years I've known her! I can always expect a call almost daily.
i am an infp that falls in love with entps too easily..
That’s a dangerous game to play, albeit a fun one… ~ Nathan
Chaos is awesome, every time I go out if something goes wrong I'm happy, it bring adventure in the everyday life and I live for it. Cheers by an ENTP
I have an ESFJ friend that does those surprise trips. She hates it when I figure the mystery out...maybe I should act dumb 😂
Nathan Glass
She calls me her nemesis
As an INFJ, I find them get more and more interested in me as time passes by (until I doorslam them ofc).
This was spookily accurate, damn. Dont expose me like that!
*be Stable and embrace the chaos*
me, an INTP-T, absolutely FUELLING my ENTP-T mate's ideas with chaos, and filming him dig a septic-hole booby trap on the beach.
wait for a few hours, one person finally steps into it (thankfully the thing was a bit too strong, so he didnt fall). then starting to convince him that we should dig trenches there and reenact afghanistan.
Entertaining commentary, lovely accent. ENTP's do not 'like' the chaos other personalities inconsiderately create. Compassionate, ethical, solutions to craziness should not cast off. Grateful for your social intelligence.
Glad you enjoyed the video and thank you for this comment! Feel free to check out the other ENTP videos on this channel should you wish ~ Nathan
Being an ENTP in the middle of corona pandemic in Czech republic I can actually confirm the stability in chaos thing. I can sense people hating me for my calmness. I make it worse by constantly talking about me enjoying lockdown. Am I a bad person?
I met an ENTP accidentally and accidentally did all the stuff in the video and somehow got that ENTP lol. He said he was surprised that I could finish his sentence before him finishing his sentence and that I had a mysterious vibe around myself. I felt weird typing that. I'm an INFJ btw.
What do you think about INFJ + ENTP? I've always found myself attracted to the ENTP types and my current bf is ENTP. I noticed that he's not so great with communication and doesn't talk much though. I would love to hear from him without waiting hours upon hours for a reply. I've gotten to the point where I just don't text him anymore. But if he texts me, I'm always quick to respond and am always there for him, just wish he was the same with me.
Is his communication better in person?
“Talk” does NOT equal “text” or “messaging” to an ENTP. We get submersed in doing what we’re doing in the moment. Your text message is an interruption. We’ll look at if we even get a notification - usually turned off - and based on how emergent the message is, we’ll respond in kind. And no - we don’t want to have long drawn out texting/messaging “conversations.” Share our immediate space - get our undivided attention. But we will NEVER be that person just waiting for our boo to text. If that’s what you need in a relationship, find a different personality type. If he’s not talking your ear off in person, he’s just not that into you 😬
It's the weirdest pairing. I connected WAY too deeply with an INFJ. It almost connects too well. Ya'll INFJs have, if not more, about the same number of issues as we do. You just hide it better. Sure, your type is the pinnacle of intellect. You make amazing conversationalists too. But your type fear confrontations, and we ENTPs THRIVE on it. You gotta understand how damaging that is for a relationship. My advice is to communicate honestly, and TRY to meet each other half-way. The "INFJ ghosting" is legendary. And it's HARD for me to understand that someone would find so much about me irritating, but carry on pretending otherwise until they just decide to disappear without warning. I know this doesn't address your problem directly, but you NEED to tell us things. We're emotionally dense. Our empathy is off the charts, but our filter just isn't there, and we aren't exactly closely studying your subtle facial features to see how you handle our off-the-cuff 15 minute rants. If something about what we said or didn't say bothers you, communicate it. ENTPs take a little more effort in that area, but it IS our weaker area, and it takes many years to grow it out.
Quick quiestion: if an entp isn't asking you questions at all, does not reply to anything you tell abt yourself and only replies to the questions you ask. Can i conclude that he's not interested at all? Infj asking. (Just wanting to make sure lmao)
Being ENTP myself to the cor ei can only praise this level of analytical accuracy
really fcking well done
I (ENTP) have a huge crush on an INTP. Actually kept my interest for months now. So hard to crack. So much fun!
Good day to you Nathan, and all readers, I'm pretty sure you're an INTP. An INTP with a rich treasure box of Ti-Si Personality observations. Thanks for sharing with us.
Tarik (INFJ)
Nathan must actually know his type. He’s seducing us all by being mysterious about it.. ;D
@@NathanJGlass yess u are .. it's pretty obvious
as an ENTP I can tell: the easiest way of seducing entp is being an ENFP
ENFPs are fun as long as they’re not stupid
@@AubreeGames sometimes they're so stupid i LOVE that
Hey don't us like this😂
Trueee
a hard to get or distant girl is an extreme turn off ... i dont know ehy its the norm to be attracted to that ... i prefer an affectionate , always available & yes a clingy one ... (the type that is clingy by always wanting to be with me & engage with my interests ... not the one that wants to give up my interests for her sake type of clingy ... i hate the second type)
I always watch these videos, change my mind about my type, watch your videos about them, and then change my mind again and come back here not remembering a thing about what you said, so I watch them again only to remember everything just seconds before you say it.
I am entp my wife is isfj. We have 26 years of marriage. I can honestly say we challenge each other for 26 years.
Watching this to stroke my ego -ENTP
I feel like i (intp) would get along great wit entp, the way u described it seems like fun
I'm INTP. My best friend is ENTP and we get along perfectly. I can fully use my Ne with her and not be shy to be talkative, funny and even goofy. I can openly express my minds and thoughts. My boyfriend is also ENTP, sometimes debates with him can be annoying since he rarely agrees with me and would continue to talk even when for me subject is done. Still, I think it is a good combo, we both like learning new things, discover world, coming up with new ideas and debate about abstract views.
Hello! INTP here in a long running romantic-like entanglement with an ENTP. It is highly recommended that you pursue a friendship or any kind of relationship with an ENTP. They will enjoy being openly honest with INTPs and not have to put on masks. The talks are never dull but also will test your reasoning stamina because they will reason that they're not debating, it's a discussion, but if you can veer them into discussing more about possibilities in concepts more than reasoning who's right, it will be enjoyable.
We are
I am an ENTP. My best conversations I have with an INTP friend. We often talk all night long about different themes and at the end of the night we come back to an conclusion for our first topic. That´s very satisfying. But for spontaneous, funny activities or exploring the outside he isn´t open about.
@@srijan666 INTP/INFP are the best for ENTP. they are patient enough and actually act like they like spending time with such an argumentative person :D
As an ENTP with a ISFJ partner i found this very interesting as most things I have come across indicates that we are a bad match.
Some of the better MBTI content I have seen in awhile.
I am an pretty classic ENTP
Curious about your thoughts on this. I notice when I like a song, I will play it non-stop until I am bored of it. I dont think this is particular to ENTPs but are we more prone to this behavior?
As an INTJ, I can tell you we fall into the same behaviour, so perhaps that habit is not related to personality types.
I can only speak for myself, but being an ENTP in a long-term relationship with an ISFJ, I can tell that it can work, but it's not anything close to ideal. Sparks do fly more often than not and, usually, for very dumb things, like chores, routine, schedules, staying in the comfort zone, to name a few. So yeah, it doesn't come without it's fair share of compromise and diluted wine from both sides, but it IS possible. Just not ideal.
I concur! I am married as well to an Isfj. I've known him so long as to he is more like family than a lover. If it weren't for him being absolutely in love with me, I dont think this would work. I have waves of emotion to love him and then want to escape. I am wise enough to know that marriage evolves but at times I feel like he is a ticking clock moving backwards.
Thank you! My crush is an ENTP and I'm an INTJ, so I have that stability and mystery!
Omg this is so true, I had been attracted to this guy for like 3 years (he is an ISFJ) and we ended up dating and I really liked him but then as you said, things started to get boring and I didn't know why (at that moment) all he did collided with everything I believed in or was. In the end, I dumped him and not in a nice way because he didn't want to let go lmaoo. Now everything makes sense HAHAHHAHAHHHA
Your description of me creeps me out all over again every time you upload a video about this type. Really good.
Make one about ISTP please!
As an ENTP I am shocked how you have just exposed my process of thinking lol
That's a good tip and all but I feel like if you're willing to show me that confidence and allow some of your adventurous side out, we could be great together. If I feel like you aren't willing to try some things that you do to interest me it feels a little like you're faking it. But you're right about the contacting others. I usually initiated all the times me and my friends would hang out or call but if I saw that eventually they didn't make any effort to do the same at least a handful of times, I start to question if I'm the one wasting my time and I just leave if I'm not shown anything that proves me wrong. Many old friends are now just old friends because I didn't feel that reciprocation, though I don't like being texted every day, I expect someone to actually seek my attention.
...I'm not an attention hog or anything, I swear! xD
If you want me to reject you so fast, play games of keeping secrets.
How different would an ENTP+INTJ vs ENTP+ENTJ interaction/relationship be?
Can’t speak for everyone but I find that with girls that are considerably extroverted, we kinda just suffocate eachother and there’s never any quiet moments because one of us is always talking
Tbh as an ENTP i dont like dating other NTs or Sensors ... i only wanna date NFs... especially INFJs
I was with an INTJ and it crashed and burned HARD. It seemed great at first but the I and the J got harder and harder to overcome. Part of that could also be the male/female dynamic. Introverted men really seem to struggle long term with Extroverted and intellectual women. Especially a J. If he’s not as outgoing as you, he at least needs to feel smarter than you. I think the ENTJ will still have some ego issues, but at least he should stand up for himself a little more and getting him to go out and do things with you won’t be such a struggle.
So from the INTJ and ENTJ I have in my life, here’s what I’ve observed: with each pairing, there’s a very quick and apparent connection that comes from being NT. The early identification of this is the catalyst and motivation to explore a deeper relationship. Intellectual conversation becomes the norm and both parties are very happy to have found someone worthy of this type of conversation. The J types are much more structured and practical which is attractive and pretty valuable to the ENTP. Going into contrasts, I find the INTJ is much more patient with the ENTP and much more willing to either discuss or lend an ear to thoughts and ideas with little practical value as opposed to the ENTJ who is much more focused on reaching goals and doesn’t like to be slowed down or distracted by such ponderings. But to the strength of the ENTJ, sharing in extraversion with the ENTP allows for more social stimulation and spontaneity outside of the home which is quite fulfilling to the explorative ENTP. The INTJ is much more reluctant to take part in the ENTPs wild ideas and lust for social interaction and would much rather just stay at home and keep to themselves. And finally, I believe this is subjective to the person but I find INTJs are more grounded in realism and quite pessimistic in their view of the world which can bring the ENTPs mood down but also lend frank objectivity when the ENTP lacks it whereas ENTJs are more positive, seeing the world as their oyster where nothing is impossible and if you really want something then you should go after it no matter the odds which can inspire the ENTP but also lead them down detrimental paths.
ENTJ could be too agressive to the ENTP in terms of high expectations on organization and performance. INTJ's focus more on their own goals, while ENTJ 's are more worried about the "team". INTJ's are more private and for some ENTP's that may be a problem, but for others, that like mysterious and complex people that can be a turn on. Of course, ENTJ's being extraverted that means they are going to spend more time with their ENTP partner, and with INTJ's ENTP's need to give them enough space and time to be alone. Even though there's a common stereotype that says that INTJ's are close-minded and because of that they can't argue with ENTP's because ENTP's will get easily frustrated. I think that that stereotype is bullshit, cuz judgemental is not the same as close minded.
With all that, I'm sure either an INTJ and ENTJ could make an ENTP happy, it only depends on the personal needs of each ENTP in particular.
I’m an ENTP and you literally just described my type. I feel incredibly read 💀
super accurate vid hahaha this is an instructions manual on how to get me to like you a lot for a long time - my bf has been dropping his "editions" once a year - it's crazy how effective it is 😂😂😂 5 years tgt and counting
I'm trying to find out if I am an ENTP. Is it normal to get extremely frustrated an obsessed by people changing something about themselves? If it is a haircut, taste in music or whatever and you need to find out why they changed it?
As an ENTP, the types I tend to fall for the most are IxFJ, IxFP and ENTP.
INFJ cause we are alike but different. We generally tend to value similar things in life. INFJs are usually so wise and interesting, which I find very attractive.
ISFJ because we're alike but different. We share all our functions, but upside down. This means that we're able to understand each other but still find a lot of interesting differences between each other.
In terms of IXFP, it's their Fi that can sometimes be so attractive. They tend to know who they are and what they like and usually live by that. They're usually very passionate about the things they like and that is one of the most attractive things to me. It's something that I lack but wish I had. But most times, I wouldn't date my ISFP crush. We're too different and I just don't think we'd be a good fit.
I love people who are like me and that's why I love my fellow ENTPs. I love listening to their ideas and opinions and comparing them to mine, which could lead to some new interesting ideas to form. We don't see the world as black or white, and a black or white point of view is one of the most unattractive things to me.
I love someone who can argue with me, not only that, I love people who fuel constructive arguements.
Example: I (ENTP) was studying electromagnetic induction today and said, "What if we made cars with electromagnets? No need for charging or refueling" (I don't know much about them i'm just trying to get through my a levels) and my teacher (ESTJ) decided to entertain that, asking questions about how I'd start the car in the first place because of current and some ish but gave up after 3 minutes. VERY unsatisfying.
Great stuff, man. Color me seduced. 😆
"ENTPs just... love to talk" - is it just me or has he said it tiredly (is tiredly even a word?)
Even if I saw what you were doing with this stuff I would still want to be BFFs out of sheer admiration for the social gymnastics.
It is nice when someone purposefully does these things. It is maddening when then are just being themselves and you just can’t help or figure out😭 How rude!!!
yeah it’s important to make yourself available but you also need to be a good engaging conversation partner otherwise it’s pointless
Mostly accurate, though it would be a bad idea to withhold information that can be used as talking points. You want to maintain their peak interest in the conversation for as long as possible by introducing new topics just as the previous one start to slow down. Once every topic's been talked about, keep them in rotation, with more emphasis on the best ones. Lastly, be hyped/energetic about your own interests as ENTPs can, uniquely, imagine the potential of having the same interest and suddenly become obsessed with it out of nowhere.
Despite what Socionics or MBTI theory says about us being compatible with ISFx, they are by FAR the worst types for compatibility. Of course, there are many exceptions. They are just so low energy and so void of any curiosity, they're like pets, at best. They may be nice, but unless they have exceptionally high energy and IQ for their type, they are COMPLETELY incompatible.
just be trustworthy and make me comfortable
Im an ENTP and i always find myself orbited by ISFJs and ESFJs. More by ESFJ. There is an ESFJ that hunts me down if I dont go see her twice a week
Truthful Kindness here (INTP) with ENTP husband of 30 years.
I ❤️ me some ISJ! I just learned MBTI a few years ago, so I never was aware that I was seeking Si, yet I always did that. Married to an ISTJ and made a career in an SJ-dominated field. And I attract ISFJ friends like a magnet - always have. As for ESJs - meh...
The mystery thing you describe trying to portray comes natural to infjs
Edit: I apologize for being another infj bombarding the comments
When you started to speak about "the danger" part, I was like I hate you and laughed at the same time, you are on the spot with that part.
I could debate you, myself and anyone else for hours about how I don’t like to talk. If you listened and had an open mind, I wouldn’t have to relentlessly challenge it!
Me - every conversation.
3:34 I've never thought about these.
Awesome, thanks man
@@NathanJGlass I was just kidding
Me, and ENFP attracted to an ENTP: oh shit I also have inferior Si 👁👄👁
Infj next please
As an ENTP the last one is very useful for me to maintain interest for someone im currently dating 😅 I am trying to figure this person quickest and easiest way by make him take the personality test. Now this is very beneficial so it is easier to approach but. As said in this vid, I might get bored right after so better not 😂
This sounds so fun -infp
Admiration... just admiration.