You'll Never Forget This Story (LIFE CHANGING)

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2020
  • Son Teaches Mom A Life Lesson YOU WILL NEVER FORGET (The Story of 2 Brothers) Download or stream it now on EVERY good music platform, or here: iamfearlesssoul.com/son-teach...
    Film By E.T. Rouleau / e.t_rouleau
    Cast:
    Older Twins - Darren George - / dazgeorge
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    "The mother of the twin goes to visit her son in prison ... and she asks the son...“How did you end up like this?”
    Angered at her question, he responds:“My father was an alcoholic… what choice did I have!!!?”He blamed his father for how his life turned out. After all, he was the role model for such behaviour.
    On the way home the mother went to visit the other twin...This twin’s life turned out a bit different.He has never touched a drop of alchohol in his life, he is happily married, with 2 beautiful children and lives a very happy, successful life. The mother asks this son: “How did you end up like this?”
    He responds:“My father was an angry alcoholic... what choice did I have?”
    “I didn’t want that life for myself... I remember watching him thinking ‘That will never be me!’ No matter what - I wanted the opposite for my life and my kids lives!”
    The moral of the story?
    It doesn’t matter what happens to us - it only matters what MEANING we give to what happens to us - that is what shapes our lives. That is what shapes who we will become.
    We can choose to blame other people and the world for where we are in life… or who we become... like the brother in prison... or we can see the negative things in our lives as a blessing... as guidance for what we do not want for our life…."
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  • @FearlessSoulOfficial
    @FearlessSoulOfficial  4 года назад +62

    What did you learn? Comment below.

    • @blankface3423
      @blankface3423 4 года назад +6

      Yes! Same situation but different ways of seeing things. Poor kids....how can they be able to even handle this. But the one who really handles life sanely are the most sensitive ones. ❤️

    • @subashbose7216
      @subashbose7216 4 года назад +3

      We want to think about our life and cross check it, learn from the past backgrounds and start good thinking.
      Once Buddha said "What you think u become " and that is the point.
      Overcome the past present situations and take strong decision and go for a good future life 😎

    • @user-jt5ir9sl9t
      @user-jt5ir9sl9t 4 года назад +2

      That @Fearless Soul is a legend in motivating!!!

    • @hridyarajesh8442
      @hridyarajesh8442 4 года назад +1

      Very heart touching motivation

    • @Super12801
      @Super12801 4 года назад +2

      I think there is more to what we judge. We all have different personalities and respond differently. Also who is to say the path we are suppose to walk in this life, who here knows the lesson our souls are here to learn. And in this story where were the people in the boys life seeing one son being negatively effected by his father. Was there No one to help him rise above. Or was he judged the bad son and no one tried to guide him in a positive way.

  • @mrs.zebafatima704
    @mrs.zebafatima704 4 года назад +33

    *I also grew up with lot of difficulties. Nobody in my family is educated except me. Nobody went to university except me. I never wanted to be like them. My parents and siblings are pessimistic, fighting with each other always, blaming to each other always. Yes I continued my education in such a hostile environment because I had no option to go anywhere but live with them. I started finding opportunities. I got many scholarships. I topped in my district. I topped in my economics department. I did MBA and secured a job. I left job and started preparing for civil service exam and I qualified the exam. Now I am a deputy collector in Bihar, India. Since I was watching all these hostile behaviour in my family I suffered a lot with mental and physical issues. I went to doctors and got treatment and I'm now healthy, wealthy and having a loving, descent and well behaved husband. This is all because I never stopped dreaming of a life that I wanted to live. Now we are planning to have a child. We are dreaming to set up our own business and factories to create jobs for the jobless. Since me and my husband both are MBA and experienced in corporate life,we both are very good at business therefore we will be helping our local people with permission of my government to establish Micro small and medium scale enterprises.*
    *I'm always greatful to Almighty and I feed the hungry people always. I never chose illegal ways of getting success. I never went to illegitimate path. I always believe that Almighty wants me to strong this is why I faced a lot of challenges in my early life. I have got such such a beautiful family after getting married that is totally opposite of my parents. My father in law is a doctor and he treats patients free many times. He feeds the hungry people. He helped many people in the time of pandemic and lockdown. My life is very beautiful and I'm the most happiest person on the planet earth. I'm enjoying and living my beautiful life with my beloved husband. I'm thankful for all the blessings around me. I'm surrounded with right and good people. I'm surrounded with prosperity, abundance and peace. I get respect in society and I respect others. I live in large, spacious, beautiful, peaceful home with endless happiness. I always welcome happiness, goodness and prosperity. I'm now a wealthy woman. I'm a kind hearted and soft spoken person. Thank you for reading my comment. I wish you all the best in your life, career and relationship. Thank you for all the blessings.*

    • @aqsamehak5323
      @aqsamehak5323 4 года назад +2

      Masha Allah 💞
      Allah kare aap dono hamesha esi hi khush rhe 👌💕
      Stay blessed appi😊
      Aur dua karein k mn bhi aapki trh apne goals ko Achieve kr paun. Aameen😊

    • @mrs.zebafatima704
      @mrs.zebafatima704 4 года назад +1

      @@aqsamehak5323
      Mai Farz Namaz, Farz roze kabhi nahi qaza karti hu. Har Jummah ko asar se maghreb ke darmyaan duaein karti hu. Mujhe Allah se jo bhi chahiye chhoti ya badi un sabko maine journal me likh lia hai aur har Jummah ko pure yaqeen ke sath duaein karti hu. Mai apna affirmations roz likhti hu. Mirror ke samne khadi hokar rozana apne affirmation repeat karti hu. Fajar ke waqt sokar uth jati hu aur 10 baje raat me so jati hu. Allah halaat tabhi badalta hai jab hum badalna chahe. Aur museebat chahe jaisi bhi aaye hamesa shukr karte rahna chahiye. Thoda waqt lagega, ho sakta hai saal lag jaaye lekin waqt aisa badalta hai ke zindagi khushiyo, kamyaabio se bhar jati hai. Kabhi bhi aisa kaam na karna jo Allah ko pasand na ho. Jaha tak ho sake logo ke sath achha suluk karna. Gunah kia ho ya na kia ho lekin Istighfaar pabandi se parhna. Allah apko kaamyaabi ata kare, zindagi ki sari khushiya de aur apke liye aasaanyian kare. Aameen

    • @zowia4134
      @zowia4134 4 года назад +2

      @ zeba Fatima, what a wonderful story.
      I really proud with Almighty God!!

    • @aqsamehak5323
      @aqsamehak5323 4 года назад +2

      @@mrs.zebafatima704 thank you soooo much aapi for ur such beautiful advices and blessings 💕💕💕
      Khuda aapko apni amaan mai rkhe😊

    • @sashilata7546
      @sashilata7546 3 месяца назад

      Great sister

  • @anyasilka2325
    @anyasilka2325 4 года назад +89

    I chose to be better than my dysfunctional toxic parents: to be responsible, empathetic, ethical, hard working, with integrity, honour and truth. Thank God....Amen.

    • @charmycree2024
      @charmycree2024 4 года назад +4

      Amen!! I choose as the same as you....positivity & being grateful & blessed...always!!

    • @viceroybear6298
      @viceroybear6298 4 года назад +2

      Then you should be ever wary of the red flags you just posted,you can try your best but you were programmed in wired for the first seven years by your parents

    • @anyasilka2325
      @anyasilka2325 4 года назад +2

      I am FULLY aware! They died when I was in teenage years and I have wonderful Godparents, et al and in a Profession I enjoy.

    • @animegothvampire1999
      @animegothvampire1999 4 года назад +1

      me too

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 3 года назад +1

      Behavior can be unlearned, esp. in adulthood when one has to accept full responsibility for what you think, say, and do. If you, as a child, saw deception in a parent and knew it was wrong, you can choose right then and there NOT to lie. Parents were good role models in the sense that they showed you what NOT to do in life. In all things be grateful.🙏

  • @royalreviews5270
    @royalreviews5270 4 года назад +5

    I didn't grow up with a very happy childhood thanks to my mom, but I really should thank her for showing me what not to do and make the same mistakes she did

  • @MotivationToMovegoal
    @MotivationToMovegoal 4 года назад +30

    Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.

  • @C97B00
    @C97B00 4 года назад +21

    In this early morning i just finished brushing and turn on my phone .... this video appears in the notification bar and i click immediately without delaying a sec. Now i'm I'm crying ... i don't even know why?.... Thank you so much for giving us strength and positivity.❤ this video gives us a wonderful lesson " whatever the situation is , that thing that matter is our interpretation of that situation " .

    • @sumamb8444
      @sumamb8444 3 года назад

      aww...💗💗💗✊💪

    • @sumamb8444
      @sumamb8444 3 года назад

      stay strong dear!lots of love from India

  • @trinasky8591
    @trinasky8591 4 года назад +15

    As a mother this made me ALMOST CRY!😞 HIT HOME HARD💯😳THANK GOD MY SON CHOSE TO SEE IT AS A BLESSING❤

  • @shaheerafarvin7728
    @shaheerafarvin7728 4 года назад +27

    It doesn't matter what happens to us. Only matters what meaning we give

    • @supriyadutta6302
      @supriyadutta6302 4 года назад +1

      That's true

    • @victory9015
      @victory9015 4 года назад +1

      Somebody become drug addicts , somebody become succesfull!

  • @missmimi6817
    @missmimi6817 4 года назад +10

    I wish I could show this video on a big screen to the people of my town. Here most women follow onto the path of their mothers. Men are a replica of their fathers. I could of turned out bad or led same life as my parents. But I made a choice and have no regrets. You always have a CHOICE☺

    • @sarahseely2529
      @sarahseely2529 Год назад

      Yes, you can, kinda. Memorize and learn this story, make it your own and create a place, or go to women and share the message. You are stronger than you know, sister! You can do it. As a woman, I believe in you!💪💪❤️❤️💯

  • @lydia_jaay
    @lydia_jaay 4 года назад +28

    It's almost my birthday and I've been searching for a good reason why I should continue with my life... This story gives me more confidence to push forward

    • @houo_o7987
      @houo_o7987 4 года назад +6

      YOU CAN DO IT, YOU GOT IT

    • @mornettepotgieter3034
      @mornettepotgieter3034 4 года назад +3

      Yang Gang, Happy Happy Blessed Birthday. You are here on this earth because you are precious and have a Devine life purpose. Have you listened to Wayne Dyer ( I AM ) on RUclips , all his messages are powerful and life changing.
      Sending you rainbows and rainbows of loving energy, strength, blessings and light. 💖

    • @mildlytoxicfrogjuice
      @mildlytoxicfrogjuice 4 года назад +3

      many people are feeling similar and many more can connect with something in their lives and rocket out of depressive feelings. power to you

    • @Nikolebichon
      @Nikolebichon 3 года назад +2

      May the best possible future become your present. Love ❤️

  • @robinvogt1472
    @robinvogt1472 4 года назад +8

    this hits home with me my dad was a drinker step mother was 7 days a week drunk she hated me and my sister and i swore i would never hurt my child when i had one and i stuck with that i chose a good path my sister chose the path of drug abuse men abuse even hit her child thank you for this post because its true we cant blame others for the reason to act a certain way i know pain and hurt and never wanted to be that way

  • @lilamnbdh967
    @lilamnbdh967 4 года назад +11

    Thank you so much Fearless Soul , it’s a very touchy story. It’s so important to learn from the hard lessons in our life, no matter the circumstances ,believe in yourself ,never give up , in the end there’ll always be blessings !!

  • @jenniferguadilla
    @jenniferguadilla 4 года назад +2

    Yes that is true it's up to us if what we want to be come.. Not every one can see negative happen in life turn to be a blessing.. Some see it that way that is a blessing and they grew happy and successful in there life..for me we need to learn how to forgive and forget and always pray and ask God to heal you and guide you through you're path. 😊

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад +73

    "If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind."
    --Shannon L. Alder

    • @mgA757
      @mgA757 4 года назад +4

      Thanks.. That was a great message. Last night, I had been crying so badly thinking about what others did to my heart. I also thought that someday they too will suffer for their deeds. I got your comment at the right time.😍😍

    • @indiracamotim2858
      @indiracamotim2858 4 года назад +1

      Thank you for this quote. 🌺

    • @alysiamerdavid-wasser9165
      @alysiamerdavid-wasser9165 4 года назад +1

      Wow! That is profound!! Thank You for sharing that; it shifted my perspective instantly!!!💗

    • @mckayolsen5381
      @mckayolsen5381 4 года назад +1

      I see your quotes on every video I watch and I love them

    • @thunderzagario7215
      @thunderzagario7215 3 года назад

      I'm sorry but i didn't really understand how, can you please explain?

  • @droptozro
    @droptozro 4 года назад +8

    I had a wife and young child(and one on the way) in 2015. We owned a small bare property basically bought with tax money 'refunds,' yet still owed about another $12k on it. We saved up the 2015 tax money and were going to build a small 800 sq ft home on it and I was going to finish it out. I paid the builder half down(almost $5k) of our only saved funds at the time, close to living paycheck to paycheck yet with no debt besides the property. I was going to pay the other half with a credit card and finish up the basic needs of the house on it and then pay it all off. Perfect plan, right?
    Well the literal day before the builder was supposed to start I called him to make sure plans were in order since I had to prepare the site. I got a voicemail message saying to contact his lawyer as he's filing for bankruptcy. Bankruptcy with my money! Bankrupt with my last $5k! No house built, no nothing. No money to even get another apartment(since we had confirmed we were going to move). That was it. I blamed myself for not seeing the preliminary signs. I blamed myself even though I'm not the one who went bankrupt. I blamed myself so I could take responsibility and fix the problem rather than just blame the builder.
    We scrambled to get another apartment to work with us and wait on a payment for last month's rent. We sold the property to get some of our money back out. I started going to work 6-7 days a week for a year and we built up enough to buy another property with a small house on it. Once in the house I continued working 50-60 hours/week and built up an emergency fund(which was a great aid during this pandemic). We started investing in the market and just this last May hit a huge milestone positive net worth! It took about 2 years to recover from my mistake and another 2 to put a monetary foundation under my family. But we did it. We started a small business too in 2019. We did it because of the horrible thing that threw our lives into chaos back in 2015. We chose. So can you!
    This video is dead on---how do you look at your problems? As opportunities/challenges to grow? Or just events that happen to you to beat you down?

    • @akshayrawat1916
      @akshayrawat1916 4 года назад

      Proud of you brother!!

    • @supriyadutta6302
      @supriyadutta6302 4 года назад

      You are a really strong person
      proud of you👏👏

    • @iistoyanova7876
      @iistoyanova7876 4 года назад

      Well done🍀🙏 GOD bless you and your family 🍀never give up,you know!!!🍀in my 50's. I am working 70 hours per week...and i am happy 🍀I am just praying, god to bless me with good health🍀everything else i can achieve by myself🍀

  • @toshawebster8408
    @toshawebster8408 4 года назад +1

    Fearless soul your such comfort born & raised in a wild country area where is no light or running water my two heldest brother had to take care of me & my younger brother cause my parent could not afford it my dad was a drunker & smoker my mom is a christian until this day they did not make us hungry grow up in a discipline home but being through ruff times i know how to adjust myself to highs & lows so nothing to be ashame of where your coming from it helps to be a better person today that's why I'm always thinking big dreams It MIT seems hard you have to keep going & don't give up it is possible when god's in it .have a lot to say but feeling to stop here .Have a bless day

  • @user-qx1gq6zv5f
    @user-qx1gq6zv5f 4 года назад +9

    HOW DO YOU KNOW TO SEND THESE MESSAGES EXACTLY AT THE RIGHT TIME ? WOW!

  • @kelleybright3113
    @kelleybright3113 4 года назад +4

    My son king 14 has taught me more in his little time than u kno god knew i needed this young stud..thanks in advance 4 all

  • @soumyashambhavi1646
    @soumyashambhavi1646 4 года назад +4

    Thank u fearless soul.i really needed it. There is a so much of negativity in my surrounding , where I live and I used to think how can I remain positive when there r negative people around me ,when I m in terrible phase of my life . This video is helpful for me as it will help me understand no matter how much negativity is around me I chose to b positive and see good

  • @drpaulaod
    @drpaulaod 4 года назад +18

    Fearless soul seems to know when I need it.....🥰
    Às if my angels know...👼👼👼👼👼👼👼👼👼

    • @kelleybright3113
      @kelleybright3113 4 года назад +1

      All the time huh lol im with u
      He knows when we need it thanks in advance father god

    • @Prince_ee
      @Prince_ee 4 года назад +3

      Perfect timing. I desperately needed that.

    • @kelleybright3113
      @kelleybright3113 4 года назад

      @@Prince_ee me2 glad im not alone

  • @Ho_Hong
    @Ho_Hong 4 года назад +5

    Oh wow... it really touch my feeling coz what I’ve been through was exactly like this video. It’s a matter of what we choose to be and it will bring you to someone’s path or your new trail.

  • @watumnjangu8312
    @watumnjangu8312 4 года назад +2

    Wonderful brother who never chose to drink alcohol.
    One of the greatest saying goes as "being born in poor family doesn't matter but what matters is who you have come as you but not the family where you were born "

  • @soulman.9835
    @soulman.9835 4 года назад +3

    As a child I had a father who was a drunk and a gambler, he was also a very angry man, he was also physically and verbally abusive. I remember thinking once, I would love to se him kiss my mother. My mother looked and was, worn out. I swore never to be like him..forward a few years, I myself became a heavy drinker, short tempered and could sometimes be verbally abusive to my two sons. Then one day I realised, I had become what I swore I would never be...I had become, in part, like my father.That was when my life changed. I stopped drinking. I also realised that the choices I had made was the problem. No one else but me was to blame for my situation. To cut a long story short, I am 70, now, and for most of my adult life, I have served others. I was selfish, that also I left behind. I am far from perfect, no one ever is..I do have my faults..but I know what they are, knowing that, I can change them also. You are never to old to learn.

  • @phillippsdowning5700
    @phillippsdowning5700 4 года назад +6

    OMG this story is totally about me and how my life was, until I decided to embrace recovery 11 years ago, and since my life has been nothing but incredible. Thank you this video is so powerful

    • @telepathtee50
      @telepathtee50 4 года назад +2

      Me too...it spoke volumes- I was misdirected, misaligned, drinking & being abusive to the person I said I loved - been in recovery one year to date!

  • @mgA757
    @mgA757 4 года назад +10

    I learnt that problems are the necessary components of our life. It is what makes our life complete. But our perspective matters. If we have a positive attitude towards our problems, definitely we will end up as a VICTOR; or else our life will be like that of a VICTIM. The choice is ours; whether to end up like a victim or like a warrior.
    It does not matter what happens to us.. It only matters what meaning we give to what happens to us.. Make correct choices..

  • @joegongora2200
    @joegongora2200 4 года назад +6

    One thing that has baffled many psychologists especially the ones that analyze criminal behavior. If there were children that were part of psychological or physical abuse. They wonder why some children turned out bad and why others didn't. Especially if they part of the same household or if the went through something similar in another household. Everyone has choices to make in one's life by carrying your own load. Or you can go through life feeling sorry for yourself by always blaming others. We all have choices to make in life and it's up to us to make the right ones.

  • @bryanabyndloss6136
    @bryanabyndloss6136 4 года назад +4

    your story only matters If u WIN;SO WIN!

  • @gregoryborowski6012
    @gregoryborowski6012 4 года назад +2

    Seen that in my life but i came out okay ! God has been my only strength ! And watching others make mistakes also . Love this video because its a good lesson .

  • @hetalkhatri8018
    @hetalkhatri8018 4 года назад +5

    Yes, so WHAT WE CHOOSE : WE BECOMES ! 🙏🙏👍👏👏👏👏😍POWERFUL MESSAGE ! THANKS FOR THE VIDEO! 🙏❤😊

  • @kaifi7
    @kaifi7 4 года назад +6

    It was reality of my life that other people distracted me from achieving my goals. But now I understand I simply should have ignored them not my goals. I chose wrong.

  • @sarasaba92
    @sarasaba92 4 года назад +5

    All of us are given the right to choose how we want to live by GOD , those who say we don't have a choice or we didn't have choice I think they are cowards all they do is blame OTHERs even though somewhere deep down they know they had a choice but they acted like they didn't maybe because they didn't wanted to take a risk because they were afraid.
    Either ways all of us are given a right to choose so choose the path that you want to choose not what others tell you to choose
    after all we all have one LIFE so live it to it's FULLEST so we don't end up regretting anything in the end.😉😉

  • @takecareoftheplanetforourc1916
    @takecareoftheplanetforourc1916 4 года назад +5

    It is so true, My father taught me bad or good, they are your teacher in life. They show you how good become and how bad become in the future, So it is up to you to choice and follow which one. And learn to appreciate both, if not have bad is not have good. Give respect, they both is our teacher.🙏🙏🙏

  • @aracelyd.6455
    @aracelyd.6455 4 года назад +4

    What did you learn? Well as a woman, over the past years I’ve learned it’s better to leave behind the person that cause me damage.🕊 What do you choose? We can be a victim of life or the victor. For long time I’ve accepted being the victim but 3 years ago I chose to be the victor. Thank you Fearless Soul for sharing this powerful video, God bless everyone.🧚‍♀️

  • @iradelkhan2186
    @iradelkhan2186 4 года назад +1

    I learnt that i should see a blessing in every challenge i face.

  • @thelearner1982
    @thelearner1982 4 года назад +5

    This is really really true!! I have experienced this, I grew up listening, girls are only made to serve mans and their families, they have no right to live... Even when I used to score good in my exams, I saw their weird faces saying,"Whatever u do, at the end of the day, u r a women"...and it used to hit me so hard!!! But then I decided, I will not be ever ever and ever have useless, baseless thinking in my life, I decided that "Time" will gonna answer them...
    I aspire to become the best version of myself, no matter how many times and how negative things I see and listen in my life, I would do I really want to!!!

  • @agneseandreocci8301
    @agneseandreocci8301 4 года назад +1

    To be a victor, for having a chance to help others to freely chose to be who the y are ment to be:victors; without let themself ruining by their past. I love you Fearless soul 💕

  • @ireneassenga9949
    @ireneassenga9949 4 года назад +1

    That's very strong
    I choose to see Blessing in everything and not mess in everything
    I choose to be a victor in every situation and not a victim
    And am so happy and greatful am always a winner

  • @StinnerV
    @StinnerV 4 года назад +6

    Light over Darkness

  • @ShreyaEby
    @ShreyaEby 4 года назад +4

    I choose to move forward in my dream.....whatever happens or comes on the way.... I believe with God everything is possible...

  • @MeetPatel-cn8oh
    @MeetPatel-cn8oh 4 года назад +1

    We can see good in everything and blessed our self and everyone suffer something in life but we have that power that change our destiny see everything learn from everything and be that person who inspire many people 👍

  • @Maram-study
    @Maram-study 4 года назад +2

    Greatest word thank you so much ❤️❤️

  • @nithunphilipthampy2017
    @nithunphilipthampy2017 4 года назад +1

    thank god for having struggle right now..it will sure change in future

  • @fated3553
    @fated3553 4 года назад +2

    Learn from your mistake and move on better life. Doesn’t blame anyone. You make your own decisions for life...

  • @fondoffilm
    @fondoffilm 4 года назад +2

    What I learnt from my mistakes that never blame others and live your life in present not in future. Nobody knows, what will happen... So, Spend your time with positivity Enviornment..

  • @hectictrolls6176
    @hectictrolls6176 4 года назад +5

    Best line , we can be the victim of life or the victor , now choice is upto u .

  • @terrellolsen3059
    @terrellolsen3059 4 года назад +1

    So true on so many levels I am an alcoholic and an addict with just over 2 1/2 years sober now it easy to play the victim but I've learned that the only one that sees yourself that way is you everyone of us has so much potential in this life we just have to see it in ourselves
    My favorite saying is
    If you don't like something change it. If you can't change it. Change the way you look at it

  • @angelramcharan4861
    @angelramcharan4861 4 года назад +22

    Wow that's powerful 💯

  • @jordanbird5617
    @jordanbird5617 4 года назад +23

    The bottom line is CHOOSE THE PATH THAT WILL GUIDE YOUR FUTURE AND REMEMBER ALWAYS VISUALIZE FIRST FOR WHAT TO DO WITH YOURSELF BEFORE TAKING IT TO ACTION!😇🙏🙌💪👍👏📈📉

    • @thunderzagario7215
      @thunderzagario7215 3 года назад +1

      I like how the stonk emoji went up, and then down.
      *stinks*

    • @jordanbird5617
      @jordanbird5617 3 года назад +1

      @@thunderzagario7215 thanks

  • @mildredsierra5013
    @mildredsierra5013 4 года назад +1

    When we learn that Life happens for us not Too us and we use our free will to do good and Love we are masters of our life.

  • @portraitdigitalphotostudio4159
    @portraitdigitalphotostudio4159 4 года назад +3

    I can learn from this experience

  • @normancowal8269
    @normancowal8269 3 года назад

    WOO that was deep Thank you.A blind man can see.

  • @sahabatperjalanan433
    @sahabatperjalanan433 4 года назад +1

    thank you so much for reminding me. God bless all the team

  • @Prince_ee
    @Prince_ee 4 года назад +3

    Thank you. Powerful story. I am glad that I found this channel. 💙💙

  • @abdul-q-khan
    @abdul-q-khan 4 года назад +1

    Life is not bed of roses.
    Only a good driver can handle ups and downs of life.
    If they have aboard next to them a good hearted one that's plus point.

  • @EDUSHARE-mk1fw
    @EDUSHARE-mk1fw 4 года назад +1

    Children will follow their parents' footsteps as they see and hear from childhood, becoming a system of values, a system of beliefs and opinions.
    but once we are 7 years old we can build our values, beliefs and views.
    what we need to do next is change our values, beliefs and views.
    All about our choice

  • @connywisen9869
    @connywisen9869 4 года назад +1

    Life is all about choices and consequences. 🙏

  • @charlescollins9413
    @charlescollins9413 3 года назад +2

    I’m a twin and my father was an angry abusive alcoholic. He died from it. I followed my fathers path for years now i no longer have any addictions. My brother has never drank or touched drugs.

  • @marytrue1837
    @marytrue1837 4 года назад +5

    My father drank everyday while I was growing up. My husband drank himself to death. I found him dead on the floor. And as if I haven't been through it enough. Now my son is doing the same.

  • @neomileft3409
    @neomileft3409 4 года назад

    May God bless all of you more.

  • @DRealLuhchopakaLuchoppa
    @DRealLuhchopakaLuchoppa 4 года назад +1

    It made me cry I'm a Twin who wanted my dad to stop doing his habits for as long as I can remember & this is so my life going to prison and Blaming ma pops fah ma Failure's but Diz message is so Deep
    Great video 👍

  • @kcmacneil9008
    @kcmacneil9008 4 года назад +4

    It’s that simple. See the light side in things or the dark. The choice is yours Luke.

  • @indiracamotim2858
    @indiracamotim2858 4 года назад +4

    Don’t let the horrors of what happened to you define who you will be. The choice of who become, is always yours.

  • @buzani_ndhlovu
    @buzani_ndhlovu 3 года назад +1

    Thank you, you just saved my life 💆👼👼👼

  • @monikaraut1341
    @monikaraut1341 4 года назад

    ''By throwing challenges, life only tests whether we deserve for that!!!....''👍👍

  • @blankface3423
    @blankface3423 4 года назад +1

    Fearless Soul.❤️❤️❤️

  • @amankumarkanth
    @amankumarkanth 4 года назад +2

    It is upto our choice that leads us to a better future or the hell of our life.

  • @captainls9511
    @captainls9511 4 года назад +7

    If you are working on something exciting that you really care about, you don’t have to be pushed. The vision pulls you.
    - Steve Jobs

  • @Rohit-sh9rq
    @Rohit-sh9rq 3 года назад +1

    A priceless message

  • @mayureshjadhav811
    @mayureshjadhav811 4 года назад

    Find good in every situations,look for miracles you find them✌️

  • @rhodoralimjoco9571
    @rhodoralimjoco9571 4 года назад +1

    Choose the right thing.

  • @sunlee3555
    @sunlee3555 4 года назад +1

    the narrative you tell your self. the story you tell yourself; defines your life and destiny

  • @tongtas1827
    @tongtas1827 4 года назад +2

    What did I learn from this story? If the world I live in is my alcoholic, abusive father, then I have two choices to live my life. I can blame everything surrounded me and become the first brother, or I can learn from the tough situation and go in a different direction as the second brother did. Umm, It's easy. I pick the second choice and starting from now. Thanks for the lesson! 🙏

  • @love-light369
    @love-light369 4 года назад +5

    Everything is neutral... Until we choose to give meaning 💕

  • @tomasmieger6826
    @tomasmieger6826 4 года назад +1

    Top speech.

  • @mariogarcia620
    @mariogarcia620 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful.

  • @reynahecto08
    @reynahecto08 Год назад

    Tama...ikaw lamang at walang sinuman ang gagawa ng sarili mong kapalaran..

  • @YuTuebUser
    @YuTuebUser 4 года назад +1

    Got an observation to share n question to ask.
    1. Yes it's difficult and heart wrenching for the kids to watch their dad behave the way he did.
    2. But then the wife n kids n other family shud n cud ve "helped" the dad to come out of the chronic drinking ???
    Often times I feel that we leave a family member to "Repair themselves on their own" , "to fend on their own" .
    If that is the case then what is a family ??
    Here the other family members cud have helped the dad to get treatment for his drinking problem. That cud ve saved the family , kind of support each other n set an example for young kids . Helping the dad find cure for his drinking and abusing ways ....... wud have impacted the kids a million times more then the lessons they learnt due to abusive dad.

    • @joebloggs619
      @joebloggs619 4 года назад

      Good intentions but easier said than done when you are caught up as part of a dysfunctional family where addiction rules. You have to ask why people get attracted to such addictive partners. It is often because, though they may not do drugs or alcohol etc themselves, their own depressive, obsessive compulsive nature woul have drawn them to such addictive types as alcoholics, drug addicts, sex addicts etc. The worse the addict gets, the more depressed their partner gets, to the point where they end up paralyzed by their depression, as happens with this personality type, often.They just cannot go anymore. Inert. Like dead. Unable to help themselves, let alone anybody else, like their out of control kids or drunken etc partner. It's a downward spiral that gets worse over yime, without external, uninvolved, emotionally detached intervention and it drags other people fown with it. Into a big black hole. The external intervention, by force if necessary, is vital to break this downward destructive spiral and force the addict to get help eg if Police get involved and he is charged, the court can order they un dergo compulsory therapy for their anger, PTSD which often causes addictive violent behaviourds, alcohol, drugs etc abuse or face long jail terms. It's not easy. And people cannot do it alone. They need intervention. Once the addict is away, getting rehabbed, the other depleted family members can start to recover. The thing with drugs and alcohol addiction is that it is not just the addict who needs therapy. Those around them are also affected by the drugs or alcohol and will need help and therapy to recover from it.I have seen some useful "work books" that the kids or spouses of alcoholicscan do exercises from, like self help, to recover from such abuse privately, if it is too traumatic yo see a therapist about getting help. If you do the tasks required, they do help people. But you have really got to want to get over it all. Be very determined. And just do it. Crazy as it seems. Some of the best such self help therapy books have been written by people who were victims of abusive alcoholic or drug addicted parents themselves and suffered much. To They know what they're talking about from personalexperience.

  • @maemilev
    @maemilev 4 года назад

    *Amen to the imprisonment!*

  • @LuckyLucky-rw6qh
    @LuckyLucky-rw6qh 4 года назад +1

    Tolerate bad example and choose positive life.
    Move on.
    And Go on.

  • @eliasalcantara9537
    @eliasalcantara9537 4 года назад

    This is just like a parable like if Jesus taught a new parable through this guy!

  • @peterknaus9440
    @peterknaus9440 Год назад

    As the son of an alcoholic father, this story has always been the anchor in the morning.

  • @paulfalchi8084
    @paulfalchi8084 4 года назад +1

    I chose life over death almost 10 yrs ago. If anybody should be doing dope it's me; I never took so much as a drink. Faith in God and the Universe allowed me to suffer with alacrity. I'm finally Happy every day no matter what happens. Life!

  • @lillyofthevalley208
    @lillyofthevalley208 4 года назад +1

    Only the best! ❤

  • @dinkuremohammed3517
    @dinkuremohammed3517 2 года назад

    I like to listen to this every morning to help

  • @adenikeoparinde8936
    @adenikeoparinde8936 Год назад

    This story teaches me alot l hope to become a better person thank you for this motivational video. God bless you

  • @jeanyannickngonoonana3061
    @jeanyannickngonoonana3061 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for that lesson, it's very interesting. I also think that, we always have the choice.

  • @avinashshinde9310
    @avinashshinde9310 4 года назад +1

    Wow What a Beautiful Mesg 🤗 💖 thank you 🙏

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад +4

    "We are all hypocrites. We cannot see ourselves or judge ourselves the way we see and judge others."
    --José Emilio Pacheco

  • @RaviKant-gh4fi
    @RaviKant-gh4fi 4 года назад +1

    Thanks a lot

  • @primeeffectable
    @primeeffectable Год назад +1

    Wonderful history 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @yacinetv5354
    @yacinetv5354 4 года назад +4

    💓💓💓💓💓💓

  • @jayanti_das01
    @jayanti_das01 4 года назад

    Yes if anyone can change our life than look into the mirror 💯✌

  • @mukarjid7142
    @mukarjid7142 4 года назад +2

    Wow ❤️❤️❤️

  • @2sylviana2
    @2sylviana2 4 года назад

    Absolutely gorgeous work! Thank you 💚

  • @vsedits46
    @vsedits46 3 года назад

    It's the better for our life's 😉....be calm and be success for joyfull Life's....... Learn you self's ........ What do you decide.......✌️

  • @charithdesilva8682
    @charithdesilva8682 3 года назад

    Thanks.

  • @amelamal8694
    @amelamal8694 3 года назад +1

    Very impressive! MashaAllah

  • @vk-we7rb
    @vk-we7rb 4 года назад +1

    Thanks.👌

  • @vuzok_
    @vuzok_ 3 года назад

    The best motivational video I've ever watched and heard!

  • @jameswilson5891
    @jameswilson5891 Год назад

    Thanks a lot!