If You Think They Are Holding You Back: WATCH THIS (Toxic Family and Friends)
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- If You Think They Are Holding You Back: WATCH THIS (Toxic Family and Friends)
What did you learn from this story of the boy and his mentor? How do you deal with toxic family or friends?
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"“No one can drag you down without your consent”
“They might be saying a lot of things, that might not be a great way to support you. But it is still YOU who decides how YOU feel about the situation."
"You can be angered by their words, or choose a different meaning. You can be angered by their lack of parenting ability, or choose to be compassionate, knowing they can only parent at the current level they are capable of. Knowing if they knew better, they’d do better.”
“They might be thinking some things, or maybe they aren’t - maybe you are overthinking what they might be thinking, and in your overthinking, you are creating negative energy that otherwise would not be there."
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So, how can YOU IMPROVE, yourself, so nothing anyone says, or does, has the power to disturb you?
Doing meditation,ignoring their negativity and watching your videos is works for me and I try to be busy with myself 💖
We must all keep our power and to not let other people dictate your life. I always say that not to take anything personally because the "way people treat is is not a reflection of is, but them." Thank you for sharing this inspirational video. Blessings to you 🙏❤️🙏
Thankyou fearless soul❤️
I have put it in the Lord's hands. I trust that he's got this. Though things that are said sometimes comes with a punch
Stop ✋ worrying about what others think 💭 of YOU.
It’s so nice when toxic people stop talking to you. It’s like the trash took itself out
Yes, when they stop talking to you or they decided to take a hike. 1 shouldn't cry or worry about them especially when they don't care about you.
I laughed and cried at the same time.
Total.agree
My husband has stopped talking to me and this is exactly how I feel...
@@kimchiplee Enjoy your new found peace
Don't let anyone's ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be.
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Ignorance is the biggest issue because ignorant people tend to be very unconscious and not self aware. But you are definitely right! Those people must be kept at a distance. There is no other way.
But i need my family's support a lot. But, i didn't have any. 😭
thankyou
Easier said than done
The most difficult challenge is living with a toxic family .. if there's any young parents in here Please create a healthy environment for your kids, cs having love,kindness and support inside the family is a true blessing...
I m someone who has never had the chance to live that, i know how the other side feels.
Hey dude i can feel you because when i read your comment right now , i felt it. I am currently going through the same situation, i am too dealing with a negative family. And one thing i tell you is that BE STRONG, focus on your journey, make it magical and just ignore the toxic family members. I know it would be hard. But you have to do it. They feel blessed by our attention
Yesss. My parents are major jerks 😣 but the thing is, they are hurting me unintentionally. They're hurting me and don't realize it. They care for me in some way but whenever I talk about it with my mum she says to me am I going mad or what 🤦♀️
@@arianagrandefan2765 i feel sad for you. I hope things will get better in your life. In my case i have 8 members living in my family, so basically its so chaotic. My aunt and cousin lives with us and i say you one thing my aunt is a witch. She literally kinds of sparks arguments in the house the entire time when we are all doing our own work and everything is going smoothly. Like when i have exams and stuff to submit she will hide my books and stationery... And on top of that she will not accept her mistake and instead blame on me for being careless...... She also troubles my mom and my real younger brother,, seeing my mom in pain because of my aunt makes me more sad... I hope you understand in what situation i am in. But now i have made my mind to STAY FOCUSED ON MY GOALS AND MAKE MY JOURNEY MAGICAL. WORK HARD AND GET OUT FROM THIS HOUSE WHICH SEEMS MORE LIKE A JAIL FOR REAL AND LIVE MY DREAMS.
@@gaurihadavale8648 yess, work hard and get out of that hell asap. And don't even think of your aunt. Karma will get her
@@arianagrandefan2765 yeah that's what left in our hand. Just focus on your own life and work hard. IGNORE THE NEGATIVE PEOPLE, IF YOU ARE GIVING THEM ATTENTION YOU ARE KIND OF BLESSING THEM
My dad is always controlling my life. Ambitions, Marriage, Clothes, Food, etc. He tries to brainwash me all the time and embaressess me in front of others that I failed his ambitions. No matter what I do its never enough for him. He always despises me and to maintain his image he always ridicules me and resents me so that his image is always good and mine goes down.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I feel you and I feel sorry for you.
Bro same problem with me toii
Where are u from?
@@sonalikumari9422 India, Mumbai
My family is so toxic...I'm the only one making sacrifices but I'm treated the worst...I've done enough for others..its time for me now..God sees everything..my heart is huge but its time I use my energy on me now
Feeling in the same way. Always thinking of others and at the end all I feel is exhaustmant.
You are the best ok you can do lot better than your family god trust you 👍
a dead person is no longer a drain.
Same God definitely got us though 💪🏾♥️
I have also been caring for the family and making sacrifices but I think I should care for myself now
Overthinking really sucks
I am always lost in my overthinking world 😔
Most of the negative things which u r thinking might really not happen to you
U2 and im praying it away 2day...im no victim My god has been faithful .i must ALWAYS REMEMBER
@@deepthirao9456 right
Try journaling and write the things that occupy your mind, meditate and practice keeping present by focusing on what your feeling, be a witness to your thoughts instead of being consumed. Tiny steps and you will get there.
better days are coming.
Moral to the story is not allowing neg to drag you down. Focus on your own journey
No, plan accordingly n runaway from negativity
It is easier said than done!
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@@angeladoval2371 100% true
It’s hard to just ignore abuse.
That's the thing...It takes practice and if it's physically you must call out for help.
I don't think this video is about abuse. If it was, it would be very bad advice and very victim blaming.
@@jpwall In my opinion ... it is.
yeah, if i reach out for help theres a chance i lose a place to sleep in.
I have to have my headphones on 24/7 to avoid the noise and later on trauma
Never give up.
Be right.
Don't fall into the traps of this world.
And...
The time from which we are going through... Is the most difficult.
Every type of negativity, wrong things, and immoral things are happening...
This is the time where we need to understand ourselves.
I would love if you people stay connected with me.
Thankyou.
@Samantha I want to say that do what is right.
I mean we should do what is right, not what is wrong, even if it is a tradition or culture and Even if the whole world is against us.
If we feel some thing is wrong, we should not support it even if everyone is supporting that.
Thankyou.
Thanks so much...
Thank you
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Even if everybodie is doing it...... doesn’t mean is right....
Indeed, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Do not let negative or toxic people rent space in your head. Raise the rent and kick them out 🖖
Yes no one except the fucking family
Love this!
How can we avoid that consent if we living in one roof with them(toxicfamily). You love them so much but they dont love you enough. Easy to said than doing it. The foods, the cooked, the place all of that is come from that toxic family, yes they gave you but they want you stuck without have any improvement in life. You think that kind people dont exist?
i swear man people likee this don't understand that the family gets abusive and manpulative and youre stuck there and dont have any other option...
Whoever reading this, God knows what you are facing through, he heard your cry, He is going to deliver you. Just trust in him. Amen
Amen 🙏🏽💙❤
Amen❤
Amen
Amen
Thank you Amen 😭
Amen. This is exactly what I was just saying to a friend of mine. Your circumstances are just 10%. Our attitude is truly 90%. Being calm is one of my super powers. Thank you Jesus for setting me Free ❤️🙏❤️
Lucky
@@kelleybright3113 I am blessed. Thank you Jesus. 😁
I dont agree with you, you are feeding your friend toxic positivity and are gas lighting her to be honest....That whole life is 10% and your attitude is 90%, is bullsh*t🤣
A lot of people from horrible families and poverty would never agree with that statement.
However i do agree that you have to fight to get yourself out of whatever rut you are in....🌺
U r unique in your way....we need not allow others opinion in ur way...
False because their thoughts become your thoughts. Think of it as this way. You have 24 hrs in a day do you really want to see this in your life everyday while you could of been doing doing other things. Suppressing your memory is bad for your health
@@watsonanthony8438 u are so true!! I'm with u!
It's easier said than done that you are responsible for your feelings and emotions. It hurts when the people who should stand by you end up betraying you. You might have others who understand you but you always expect your family to be good to you.
Yes sir.. You 100% right. Thats what i'm going through. No matter how smart or tough you are you always consent what your family though about you. And hope they support you. But they dont . even they wont me to get married, to have girlfriends,. Not support my music talent.
I just had a fight with my mom and she discouraged me a lot. This video helped me a lot.
The one reading this
You are phenomenal my friend. you are not alone. You are Loved. You are beautiful, we are all connected through our pain, and in our pain we come out stronger. For all of you hurting inside, for all of you wanting to scream, to jump, to cut, to fall, to pull the trigger,- for all of you who can't do it anymore, I'm here and I pray for you. *Hug if needed - take care of yourself and stay safe❤.
Thanku and if u wana raise the roof im here 4u send laugh love hugs and chai tea
😥 thank you for your kind words
Thank you for your wonderful words.
🌬🙏🏾🙏🏾
thank you this helped me when my parents are divorcing thank you
I do have a family, not my own parents but some others, they are freaking toxins to me. They will demotivate you, demean you and everything that will take you down. But don't u dare give up. I'll teach them a hard lesson with my success. The got small minds, radiate negativity. They are to be thrown in dustbin.
Same here, I would like to share something, since childhood they demotivate me i was not allowed to participate in any school activities, in these 16 years the thing I have got is only beatings, negative vibes, discouragement.
@@vaishnavijadhav6105 sad to hear that but one thing that we all humans have got is the will to change. Fighting is in our blood. Keep fighting 💪
@@shubhamsinha5689 hello Sir, can you show me a bit solution how to exit from toxic family..
@@wankamalstory you know what, it's been 2 years since I wrote that comment. And now the situation is getting Harder than what I felt 2 years ago. I'm literally cutting off everyone slowly. It's a gradual process. Whenever I go around them, I can feel the negative energy. I'm a kind of psychic, so I believe I can see through the lies, get to the bottom of the matter. No matter if they are your family members, never tolerate the abusive relationship. What I think how to do this and I have been doing -:
You have to be independent, I don't know if you're working, I'm not yet, but I am sure things are going favorable for me now.
Never seek their help. Do things yourself. There are many beautiful humans to help you. But I never go back to those people for help who I know never really want good for me since I started knowing a little about this short and beautiful and people ruin the whole thing. And so you don't.
Walk away from them. Do something meaningful. Be busy in your life doing Great things for you. Stay happy and never allow them to take control of you. I know it's hard. But believe me, it's all just in the head. Train your mind to serve you.
Now, Whenever I go to them, what happens is they keep nagging about why I don't call them, they will say, you're against the culture, society.. they will literally make you feel you're worthless. Even though, you know you have quite good standards in you're life but a narcissist will always try to take control of you. They are great liars, manipulators. Regardless of how nice they have been to you in the past, how nice you all talked about things, but once you hit a certain you get tired of unhealthy connections, whether it be people or things. I think there's only one solution to all this-
Improve yourself spiritually, it's peaceful. You'll know that things Don't matter. Time goes on. Get a job somewhere where these people don't exist. There's a lot of things which you can do, do what you think is best for you. But always remember, you matter, your beauty matters. These people are there for a reason, they teach a lot about this life. Stay blessed. Know that you're only that matters, so never ever let someone put you down with their cruel words. Just cut them off. They will know, you're not going to tolerate their mean behaviors. And when you are successful, it will irritate their demons. Just wait and put the hard work in 😅. Teach them the tough lesson. Life is short. I hope you get the message. You can ask further if you wish so❣️
@@shubhamsinha5689 this comment helped me a lot. Thank you. Everything you said is true. They are like vampires and at some point over the years you always knew and see it but because you are so accustomed to this your whole life you keep reverting back to them to gain that false sense of safety and security but the minute you start branching out to do what YOU want .. or the minute you some autonomy against what THEY want for you- all their niceness goes out the window and you remember your attempts to distance yourself before and how you failed!! It won’t end- you cannot explain or try to convince them of any of your reasons or try to get them on board with you because they will tear your down and tell you how wrong you are and even worse they start to threaten you by saying how they will abandon and withhold love and the relationship with you- which triggers the initial wound we developed in childhood WHICH SOMEHOW RAN OUR ADULT LIVES! Enough . The cycle will continue unless you make a real energetic break as if they died and you move on with your life. 🙌🏼♥️
Sometimes.. Family really drags down a lot! We need to be strong to overcome negative people in our life!
Love yourself. Don't let other people opinions get inside your head. Do what u want to do... Dream Big. Make your parents proud and your enemies jealous. Good days to come...just be patient. 🌺
They are holding me back because I am letting them.
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You aren t letting them. You just need their money to live and that s why you can t have a beginning, because they don t let you have the money to go somehwere else and start something you love
@@yvcore6529 Exactly.
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, thank you Jesus
people like us who experiencing this hateful situation I pray one day we will be one genuinely independent.. so cheer up! just do what matters and don't let stupid people around you destroy your inner peace and dignity
I have a goal to accomplish this year. I am working hard every single day. But my family don't support my goals. They don't understand how important that goals is for me. They tell me negative things everyday.
'Oh you are working too much, you won't achieve this goal, it's very hard and...'
It's so hard when the closest people to you in your life don't support you to get what you want and you have to push yourself alone everyday. But i don't stop, i don't quit, i keep working harder and harder and i will get to that target.
I needed this. The society you grew up in will only want you to succeed in their level. That's why Im ignoring everyone now and finding my path. They gaslight me and say toxic things to me but I just ignore them. This shows that they got too comfortable with seeing me at rock bottom my whole life. So now that I'm fighting for myself it scares them so they try to make me look bad but I know the truth will one day come out. I just hope I'll get to where I want to be and get out of this toxic family( they're not my family just cause they're blood. The things they've given me I could've given myself if they didn't hold me back. 27 years a slave to the wrong people. Sometimes they threaten to kill me and tell me I'll end up as a housemaid but idc. God is punishing them. They are self destructive and soon they will be wiped out of this planet.
🙌🏼you’re not alone in this… I hope you were able to overcome this two years later…
I always wondered why every time I went around my family why they would speak so disgusting and mean to me but then I realize it’s just a reflection of how they feel about themselves
I needed this gentle reminder. Thank you, Fearless Soul! You helped save me from killing myself a few months ago. “Never giving up” just showed up one day and I listened. For the next week I continued to listen everyday, even multiple times a day. It’s still my go to on a bad day. I’ve shared it with friends and family that have been struggling or know about my own struggles. I’m so grateful to still be here and I’m doing the best I can, one day at a time. I look forward to the positive nudges in the right direction and again, thank you! 🌸 I am the creator of my destiny!
Ooooo like that, I can feel your pain but dude I hope you're cure now ,and never give up go ahead
Never give up.just keep on praying.God loves you.
🥰😊🥰😊🤗💕💕💕💕 I'm so happy to read this! We need you😁
@@shaikhsafat8870 🤗💕
@@msd4304 🤗💕
I love this word ' YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR DESTINY '
I agree with most of this but when you're being used and abused, manipulated, scapegoated, and you see them treating siblings differently, it isn't all in our heads and that is a major challenge. This should he addressed in a video. Because it's saying here basically that it's all in our heads when we know better. BUT we can CHHOSE to walk away from the family. When they really disrespect, demean, degrade, bully, intimidate and coerce, it's the only thing you can do.
🌾Couldn't agree with you more, if you've been brought up in a toxic family the fear & negativity is bred into you, if you're been compared "Unfavourable" to you're overbearing brother or sister by a Narcissist Mom who put you down & Kept pointing out faults in you that turned out to actually be hers! { I discovered when l grew up } you're mind is conditioned to believe it's all true, no amount of positive thinking worked! until l found Jesus, 🙏
This message hit at the right time..... THANK YOU
May the UNIVERSE bless the team in all further missions!!!
I agree. The words used are so powerful that my mind realizes how powerful it is. It influences the outside world we live . It ignites realities. And so therefore use it to ur advantage. Love this video.
i agree my parents were splitting up an this has helped me
If one lives with a parent or adoptive parent like a grandparent and they're narcissistic or controlling. If one is of age perhaps over 18 one might need to move out of the house. If you've seen the movie, " Throw Mama From A Train " now you know what I'm talking about. When this type of parent becomes older they become more combative. That's because they feel they're losing control and they're doing what it takes to regain it once again. One has a right to live one's life instead of having someone to dictate to you how you should live your life. Your parents lived their lives and did their thing , why not You ? Because if you can't talk to such a parent on account they drop down to the floor and pretend they've always fainted. It's best to separate from them because they're toxic. You don't want to do anything to them you might regret later.
Ever since was a child my father say am a failure in life he embarrassed me front of siblings. Am tired of the bad words am tired. I graduated with a honors my own say they don’t know what they doing to even consider me to be in the honor society list. But I know my story will change one day and my light will shine bright.
This is great motivation for us all. We need it during these times in 2020.
True
2020 has proved to be the worst year for me , i lost everything , my unfaithful husband to another woman, whos now pregnant with my husband's baby , lost all the fanily i had behind his lies , covid19 almost took my sister's life , my sweet dog died , i cant sleep at night. Meditation often relaxes me mind because im often crying. Motivation is really whats needed now. Thank you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@brendawrightel7432 You didnt lose everything you're still alive and things will get better.
@@therealmotivator4U Thank you , its still good in the world 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@brendawrightel7432 You're welcome. I have been through some things as well. So keep your head up. You're about to have great things happen in your life 👑
There's a reason why I chose ' Loneliness ' as my lifetime companion . Because if you're alone , no one will be there to hurt your feelings or play with your emotions . And thus , you can smile until your very last breath .
You're not alone x
It's better to not feel anything than feel negative emotions
There a lot to learn here .. Aged 60 nearly, I've experienced lots of 'put downs ' and 'disappointments' 'let downs' negativity in my surroundings and direct family . My parents are passed now, and I avoid my sister at every opportunity to the point I don't contact her anymore. I will not participate in verbal Abuse and patronising behaviour. I'm slowly learning to love me in hopes someone to love will love me back .
what you think about others you think about yourself. so start taking responsibility for your thoughts and feelings and let the love flow through every cell of your body and spread it to the world
So called “family” Is something else. A strong situation to let go of. Something (though toxic in your rearing) that’s keeping you down (broke favors in-between to keep you locked-in), being raise with them (& not under the best most positive circumstances), & so forth in order to keep you down: This-A psychology. I’m at the point where I have to let go to succeed, unleash my potential
I aspired to move out of my family house this year, but everything collapsed and became uncertain for me when the pandemic hit. Now I'm still struggling with such circumstances as I realize I barely have the freedom I need to lead a proper adult lifestyle, not that my family is toxic, they're fine and all, I just hate my living conditions and it stresses me how bad I've had it or why I haven't moved out years earlier. I understand this idea of 'Self Peace' and the concepts of the video highlighting Frankl's revelation of 'The last of Human Freedoms' and as much as I can't control many situations outside myself I'm still struggling regardless, even if this all does pass with time.
Where you able to leave ? I’m dealing with the same I’m 25 and unable to mature because of my situation I’m so upset all the time cause I feel stuck and also stressed cause I didn’t reaalize my family member is abusive and narcissist till now
Whoever is trying to set you up against your family, that is the true evil. Family is the most important, whoever is trying to separate you from your family that is the real enemy.
In some cases you have to let go of your family
This from a 30 year old man who’s completely destroyed and broken psychologically, emotionally and financially. Please just whatever they do don’t let it get to ur mind whatsoever because its so strong that it could change ur whole physicality if it enters deep enough. No one cares about you truly and the ones who do wont let you taste this in the first place. Discipline ur emotions and just forget people and move towards the noblest goal this can possibly be. And most importantly never go against god’s path and even if u sin repent immediately for those sins would be one hell of a major setback if not dealt with immediately and properly. I wish you all all the best in life. I hope I don’t end mine anytime soon.
it's not easy when youre being infantilised, and the energy of the surroundings are holding you back with the self doubt and fear louder in your head, because you feel powerless
How ironic i was just spending my last day worried or concerned about ppl &mess im allowing 2 move me..it stoped 2day im my own warrior
That’s the spirit!! 👏🏽😊
@@ursulashabalala ikr gota start some wher
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It's not easy to have a broken and a toxic family. I was taught to be independent and be alone. Handling the negativity that keeps swallowing me inside. I cried a lot, asking myself if do I deserves this?! Sometimes I'm thinking to give up, but what will happen to my future if even I will give up on myself.
Now, even though it's getting harder everyday I still fight not for anyone but for myself 💪💪💪❤️
I still have Problems with my Family while living them. they judge. criticize. don't seem like they want me to learn how to do things for myself! and I'm a young Adult myself !
Move from negative people, including from your family. When somebody tells you or shows you you're stupid every day, you end up believing it. ;)
Whoever is reading this
May all your dreams come true 🤗
My family always draggs me down but i watched this then now i know how to control myself
Yes your family will get jealous and even try to stop you. Even your own family. Ditch all toxic family immediately. Even sleep in a national forest rather than being around bad people.
Whoever reading this, I pray you would have great vision and excitement about your future. God has wonderful plans for you, and He will give you the grace to fufill them all! Amen ❤💕 Amen.🌻
"Are they really dragging you down? Or are you allowing whatever YOU THINK they are thinking of you to drag you down?"
Seriously this question I feel related😥
It's better for me to have nobody to talk to than to have family who are only dismissive and deliberately hurtful. I just left an abusive relationship that nearly killed me, given me physical and emotional scars and my family say they don't care what happened to me, they don't want to hear about it and I don't deserve respect. Of course I do, I am a human being who deserves love and respect as much as everyone else. I have been bullied all my life and if finally supporting myself/standing up for myself makes me a b*tch then so be it. I am kind to people, I am a good person, I am smart enough and I am proud of myself, even if nobody else is.
‘Maybe you do have to distance yourself from some toxic people in your life, now or plan for it in the future...but...you should focus on improving yourself..’
No, you f****** need to distance yourself ASAP, Because they WILL drag you down no mater how positive you are trying to be. No need to improve yourself, just run.
These two things are not mutually exclusive. One way or another, one leads to the other, so you pretty much have to do both.
*May anyone who reads this, may God always have happiness in his life. He has never been in any difficulty. He fought the struggles and got peace and happiness in his life.*
Now I understand what I went through with my family the abuse and control I experienced as Jesus opened up my eyes they are broken and hurt individual and I cant change them only Jesus can all can do is pray and ask you Jesus to bless and protect them and move on with building my life with Jesus and with the help of my church community and I ask god to help me to forgive those used in my family by the enemies of my soul as Jesus forgave so I have to make that decision of forgiveness and move forward building my life and walking In peace and love and forgiveness daily
Nothing is impossible,
the word itself says ‘I’m possible.’
Love this 😊
I been thru alot of negativity but I kept myself positive. My dad is very toxic to me then fake friends that I cut off were toxic. Alot of toxic people talk me down but I always be myself I create my own reality I make focus on my life path so I kept doing md
You can't love anybody if you don't live yourself. #1 way to love yourself is by separation from what hurts you. With Love
🌺 Determined to Rise
We can't no matter how hard I tried daily deal with abusive parents ,fake friends,😒😒
I had toxic people in my life for 6 fucking years toxic bf, toxic bestfriend, toxic friends, even at some point i became completely familiar and habitual with narcissism around me..lately i realised this was all happening with mr because i am having a toxic relation ship with myself and that is why i kept on attracting them...and i am grateful everything is peaceful now , because i love myself😊
There are just horrible people no matter how you improve yourself
I can tell I’m going love this one already. Much gratitude for putting it out there, Stacy
Same
Where focus goes, energy flows! We're all on a journey. 😊
Went through the (w)hole toxic negativity from family, it is an abyss of destruction. They’re still in it, alcoholism primarily, I quit drinking, and enjoy my life immensely without them.
been doing it for years, resisting all the negativities and protecting my boundaries yet no source of energy is unlimited. we all become drained after sometime. Loosing the protective charm is hard, it feels like dragging into a blackhole. Going on and on with negativities and finally realizing it is destroying you; it sucks. Picking up again is harder, building a stronger shield is harder yet there is no other way out :/.
Wow, This really resonated with me so well. This year my aunt tried to put me thru legal issues within the court system. Saying I was the one showing my lil cousin a bad road. While I was the one trying to get him on a better path. I couldn’t expose what he was doing to the family so I kept on taking the heat for his mistakes until she crossed the line and went to the courthouse. Now she manage to buy people like she always does with money and turn the page on me again with their toxic manipulation. I peeped that & had to distance myself completely away from them. My feelings of being betrayed and lied upon my name in order for them to cover their mistakes and put dirt on my name so they can shine was an awful feeling. Until this video. Thank you.
Real talking about that praise God hallelujah glory to God 😇🙏🏼📖 amen
I took out my curtain off the window so there could be more sunlight and more than twice the amount of air coming in my room. Make your room your sanctuary, people! Love you all!
AMEN AMEN AMEN AGAIN, THIS MESSAGE IS THE TRUTH, NO OBSTRUCTION SHALL BLOCK MY PATH, GOD MADE ME GREAT & THIS TOO SHALL PASS!💯🙌🏾
Story of my life please 🙏 for Me. Thank you im tired of living with a fake dysfunctional toxic family.
Great advice! When I take time to pray & meditate, I am much calmer & happier.
Turning off the news is a great start.
So truly said when your internal is at peace no one can disturb you. 🙏🙏
If I go my own way, I get called hard-headed and feel like I am cursed because my mother will tell me that I am so into what I want and I will fail and I'd be miserable.
Having a big family sucks. Having people around you who only communicate problems without any solutions suck. Having people around you who argue when you present a solution to their problems suck. Walking away and blocking phone numbers of those people is a breathe of fresh air. It takes time but eventually you'll get over the pain of cutting " loved " ones off. YOUR VIBE ATTRACTS YOUR TRIBE
Y'know I live in an African family and whenever I cry they always shout and shame me, from now I'll let no one shame me down
i still believe that anyone can rise above their current level of care and compassion irrespective of their intellectual capability and when a family member does not behave in a caring or thoughtful manner, this is what hurts me.
life is about falling down and getting up . It doesnt matter how many times u fall down its about how many times u get uop . So if there is any kid out in there who is benn said by a parent or a teacher u cnt do a thing , No dont listen to them . cse the true failiure in in life is not trying at all - CM PUNK 💖
My parents always fight...
My brother is annoying... Always tease me... My brother and father always fight...i have lots of dreams...
Nobody support me... Drag me down... I'm helpless... But i love them eventhough they hate me...
But they are ruining my life...
It affect my mental & physical health... I beg them stop fighting ...
But they dont care...
I have no friends... Bcz of depression i cant talk to people... I keep a distance to my toxic family members...but they drag me into problems... Im tired...if any parents watching this...
Please dont do this to your children 🙏
I don't know yet how I can improve, but now I know that my family ISN'T dragging me down! Thanks Fearless Soul 🙏
Talking without thinking and realizing what is soul.. soul is like lies nobody seen. If all of you, must talk with shown proof is not imagination and only million words the power of truth must seen.
I still think the student was right too. The family was indeed dragging him down, because "your family dragging you down" shouldn't be yet another challenge you have to fight in life. Everybody knows what a family is supposed to behave like through conditioning and now social media, bit how many families actually ARE a supportive family instead of a restrictive, controlling one?
I am continuing to work on myself , I have come a long way since I have reached out to get help and I was so fortunate to have had a fantastic councilor - mentor. I am so proud of Me 🥰
When I broke up with my fiancé my mum said she's lucky god saved her from me. This is 7 months after I left everything to come stay with my mother while she was in a coma, all while I'm trying to run a 6 fig business from home. Sometimes its best to just leave people.
My mom is always sick with negative thoughts. I can't handle the situation anymore. It is not possible with negativity all around but can't leave her alone.
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Not letting anybody get in the way of me & God including family! He comes first ❤️
In short, don't allow others to control you,your actions and your thoughts. In order to mange your internal state at peace, we all should improve our emotional quotient.We should be able to manage where to express our emotions and our overthinking abd where to not and how much to take any event personal!!! People with high IQ can't make the best if they have no high EQ because such people have to pass through emotional breakdown and that will drain their energy! Its a work of whole life to be strong emotionally than these trivials will not matter!!! But don't loose hope always try to do your work harder and harder,one fay you will be surprised by your strength inshallah!!!
It’s scary how much accurate this is to me just today, Thank you so much and all the team behind this channel, thank you so much for helping millions of souls to heal 🙏🏻💙🍀
My family told me to consider myself an "orphan" when I needed them the most and didn't need anything from them but asking about me. I therefore moved on and I am living as an orphan as they want me to be. I
Toxic family just ruined everything in my life....
Society is a bunch of lies, agreed upon.
We should unlearn those lies for a better quality of life
Greetings from Nigeria
With all that is going on in this world right now.. We all need to stay focused and move forward and don't look back or what is going on in our environment. Do what is in front of you and don't look to the left or right. We also need to keep saying positive affirmations to our selves. Like; I can do this.. every journey begins with the first step. I am capable.. I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me.. I am a winner and I will achieve my goals.. keep going.. keep moving forward. Also, if you are with someone that is abusive... stay away from them as much as you can. Repeat the opposite of what they say to you inside your head when they are abusive. Make a plan and keep moving forward. God doesn't make trash.. you are unique; a one of a kind. more precious then gold.. destined to do great things. Keep learning.. keep loving.. keep moving forward. God bless.
This is the best lesson I have heard from a long time, and that video save my life! Thank you very much!
I always had negative thoughts about my parents, but after watching this video it really turned my world upside down, I’m really thankful for this video, thank you so much 😊🥲
This is sooo accurate for me. My family are so toxic I became one myself
Who here have parents that don't support your interests and what makes you happy. "Oh you still playing video games it's time for you to grow up" or "Aw boy you cant do that, you need to go to school to this or that" or "You went to school for this you need to stay doing that." Yea I heard all three from both parents in the same house whole.
I didn't fully enjoyed High school because they didn't like me being myself, they would rather me be like them. They controlled where I was all the time, my hairstyle, my dress style, my personality, and my life. My dad don't care that I'm interested in carpentry or mechanics and never let's me help or teach me about it. My mom always want me to stay inside to clean the house when I like to be outside alot. My dad stop letting me cut grass so the only thing I was really doing was moving around in and out the house alot and they telling me to stay in one spot.
We'll I finally moved out and still can't find courage and motivation to do what what to do because they broke my brain. I been welding since I was in 10th grade and yes I love it but when I think about the welding machine I want, I think about they BS excuses to why I cant get one. "Oh we don't have a plug" we'll get one and I'll pay for it. That been the excuse since I was in high school. "Oh no you gone make the grass catch on fire" I've been here that one for 2 month now.
I've graduated in 2020 and they still don't care and support my interest and I don't know what to do with my life now. I been fight my mental health since high school and and I just turned 20 in July. Half of myself says "Just let everything go" and the other half be like "You can do anything you want if you start now." Yea well I still have a barrier I can't get passed and everyone around me life is progressing and mine is falling apart.
My mom keep saying the devil keep messing with my head and I need to come to church but the church is same as them. Nothing but hypocrites and judgmental people who says it in your face in church. So I stop going. I got Locs in my head I'm now a thug my mom said. I like built my own PC but I wasted all my money dad said and non of them care that I did anything I enjoyed.
I don't if I'll make it long enough to have a wife and kids or if I will. I just feel stuck like I was 3-4 years ago.
I alsp graduated in 2020. My whole family are against what opportunities i want to take. Their eyes are completely rotten. I'm the child that doesn't follow rules because i'm perspicacious, unlike them i actually take a step back and analyse my life.
These parents are scared and too arrogant. They don't understand the type of economy we live in and still living in the past. I hope you continue your journey to become as healthy and wealthy as you want to be and then help others.
@@TRAYDA23 They don't want to understand this new generation and the opportunities we see because its always go get a job and save for retirement. I hope you achieve all the goals you set for yourself.
@@kidlo2050 Exaclty that. I believe we shouldn't try to escape the darkness but instead take this opportunity to realize we are called to be immersed in darkness so we can shine. Let's call it a test. When everyone is against you but God is for you and knows your hearts intentions, then that's where we'll find our purpose and assignment.
aye and thanks, i wish the same for you too fren.
I hate no one. My father loves me dearly, and I know that. He believes in me. But what hurts me about him is, whenever I talk about or show my family what I LOVE, he critisizes it, diminishing it, he doesn't realize it, but everytime he does, he dims the light of my spirit. And I feel so lost. And hurt.
It's all what you make it I get stuck in my head too but you cant make people act the way you want it's impossible they can only do they're best your just looking to deep into something that's not worth your worry stay on your square never budge or let what anything anyone says or does affect the vibe in your square remember you have to work hard for what you want but you cant be negative to get it because once once you get it your still the same pesron so choose your mind state I hope this helps someone out who needs it
"YOu DeCidE thE MEANing of each situation!!"
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If people are dragging you down it Must be they see that you are above them. No one who is above you could drag you down. They can only lift you up so the next time you hear someone tell you that you are worthless it's because they are down and want to rdk8e you on the same level as them. They just give you confirmation that you are doing well. Humbly tell them thanks and move on. Good financial position is good but if a petson doesn't feel good about his/herself a gutter rat is in a better position.
i have toxic family members who somehow ignored me because i was single. I have started to think that something is wrong with because my family members ignores me. I tried to respect them etc. they just didn't appreciate it. Then after i started to treat them like they treated me just as a test. I found out in this test that they were treating me like that only because they really wanted to controll me. They are controll freaks. So these kind of people they will always find a way to controll you, so you can't really win againts these people. Only way to win is focusing your life and your health. This is what im doing all the time.
I even put pressure on myself finding a women in my life just to be accepted to my family members. I'm a such a idiot!!
Can't stop crying