Ghosting versus Twin Flame Separation
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024
- There is a big difference between being ghosted and entering into a Twin Flame separation! In this video, I explain to you why Twin Flames will never ghost you, and who you are dealing with instead within the Soul Family.
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My Twin Flame said to me: “we are too different, you are too spiritual” only to message me 11 days later saying: “I had a dream about you that you weren’t OK. Are you OK now?” As if that isn’t spiritual 😅
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I have ghosted him for a year. But he knows why. I told him that i didnt think such a strong connection should be breadcrumbed. And i dont want to be in his life while he is with someone else. I dont think i have become a runner. It felt like our frequency was no longer the same and it was keeping me unhinged when i stayed in touch.
That is an immature move to ghost another person. Ghosting is a sign that you have issue with clear, direct and honest conversations. And likely difficulties wirh facing conflicts. Ghosting creates more mistrust and anxiety. It's selfish and unfair to ghost people.
If he is with someone else, keep your dignity and stop contact
@@JPcommunicates Why do you have to give the comment in a judgmental tone ; if she has a communication problem you have a bigger problem believing yourself to be a God 😂.
You know best. Good for you for that boundary
@@evellymartinez31 thank you. To be clear there was no communication problem. I had a few long honest talks with him about why I thought it best we were not in contact. His karmic was insecure about our friendship. There is quite an age gap between us. He wanted to stay with the karmic and still have me in his life. And yet there was no equal give and take. It was all wrong. But he kept on messaging me. And i just stopped answering. I feel good about it and am doing well in life finally. The whole thing made me grow spiritually for which I am thankful. 🙏 everyone’s experience is different. In life Ive learnt it is sometimes the most loving thing to put up boundaries and sometimes to completely cut ties. To try and be the bigger person when that is not what your soul needs to learn is counterproductive. Each person learns what it is right for them.
Its impossible to hate your twin, think nasty of them, or feel truly unwanted because you know your twin had no malicious intentions because they are the universe. A gentle or not so gentle reminder to remember who you are & to champion your inner strengths to rise your vibrations to your higher self. She makes me want to meet her at the same level. Our best self. But the separation can push you to every stage of grief.. even anger. I'm very thankful for your videos, Alexx. Take care 💜
P.s One of my favorite artist covered ' Sun to Me' by Zach Bryan. after hearing you say thats what your twin called you- struck my heart! My twin is like a sunflower to me.. and she asked how i knew that was her favorite flower 😏
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He told me that I am a "blackhole." And I should not waste my precious life after him, once before we went into separation. And we came back together on the exact time of the eclipse on April this year after that 😁 pure magical timing.
Sounds like he got self-worth issues. That is a common theme with people. Clear, honest communication is the key.
@@JPcommunicates yes, my core karmic lesson is self worth, so it should be the same. 😁
I gave my Twin Flame an 8 day grace, then when he finally contacted me I gave him heck saying he failed my human connection “test” he replied, we don’t play these human games, we are bonded and if I ever need him, he will be there for me in any such support he can give. We call what we have as an inter dimensional connection that most here would not understand 💗
This is so spot on of my experience. I just left my person because he’s so good looking, and although I’m considered good looking, I feel he’s too hot to hold. And I gave him that reason and now he won’t speak to me. And my lesson is self worth! And when he related something about people asking, why her? Oh handsome king, I was like I’m out! I’m not even going to wear makeup anymore. Screw it. I don’t need to compete or worry I’m not as good looking as he is. Hell no.
Interesting. Is your Core Karmic lesson self-worth or self-love?
Maybe both? He is an identical version to my soon to be ex husband. Treats me like gold. We do all the same things together. Both Virgo’s. Except with the husband his porn addiction was too much for me to bear, it made me feel I wasn’t enough. Now this one comes along, and he’s so hot, and I may not be as hot…common theme for sure. Which it means, I wish I knew. More than that, I wish I was cured.
I love this video for two reasons.
1. I feel less alone in hearing the ridiculous justifications all runners have said. My twin has never verbalized feeling “less than” me, but has said things like “I thought you were out of my league ” prior to running. And even “you’re going to resent me since I come with so much baggage (kids).” I don’t mean to assume to what his ego needs, but this definitely mirrors my own core karmic lesson of self worth as his running in turn, triggers my own abandonment issues.
2. It’s actually beautiful (and hilarious) to see how to NONE of the justifications actually matter a great deal to the chasers- in my opinion, proof that there’s no egoic reason for loving your twin.
Is it possible for you to be a pillar for me/ your followers? Cause it’s insane how you know exactly when to post what is needed! Goosebumps Alexx❤
Same same same here! Exactly what I was thinking
Aww, that's very sweet. Remember that you are the universe and manifesting what you want to hear at the times you're ready to hear them. I'm glad the video resonated.
@@wearethesamenergy : you resonate. ☺️♥️ #IAm
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Just finished reading your book. I feel so much wiser,calmer and more balanced in my being.
Also, no more fear of anything; only trust in IAM.
I do have two questions:
Is it possible to be on a TW journey and not have met a FF?
And
Is it necessary to have the same north and south nodes as your TF?
And also: when is the second book coming out? 👌🩷
@@MWD1987 I'm so glad you liked the book! 🙏 You do not need to have had a False Flame by any means. It is not necessary to have the same North and South nodes as TF
"You are the purest soul I have ever seen" or "There is sooooo much love around you! " - Leaving me 😮, and wandering why has he spit out those sentenses out of the context. 😂
New subscriber here 😊.
Greetings from ILLINOIS 🇺🇸😊
Look how cute you are! Love the hair.
Perfect timing and insightful, as always!
His reason: "I just wanted you to leave me alone." 😢
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I will love to see video about spiritual bypassing.
Yes! It's on my list
Alexx, your book is amazing thank you so much. I first came across your videos maybe three years ago. Went down many rabbit holes. I deeply resonate with your videos This is the best You tube channel i have come across.. Now, i get why understanding, "The Soul Family" is crucial. Showing me everyone plays a part. Grateful for all that you do. My life has changed so much 😊 since meeting my TF 2022. I thank my higherself every day.
Wow, thank you so much for your support and your words! I'm so glad everything resonates with you, and I'm so excited for you and your journey! 💜🙏
I think the runner wants everything… they want you around and they want to continue whatever they want and they will not compromise even if you did. And the thing is if you stay around they will not respect you or your time or be there for you if you want to connect. The chaser stays because they don’t love themselves enough to let go. Which eventually the runner would let go and the chaser would awaken. All the time and sacrifice would feel like it was for nothing. And the journey into self love begins. I don’t want to allow my twin to comeback after they got married. And it feels like it’s all in my head sometimes. the dreams, the telepathy, and my twin stalking me 24/7 got really annoying. Like you don’t want to be with me and you don’t want to let me go. It’s too much. 3 years no contact now and have my twin blocked on everything. And I don’t feel the emotional connection now. It’s way better that way. I’m achieving more stuff in my life. Emotionally balanced. Glowing and growing on all levels. No more excuses for bad behaviour even if they are your twin. We deserve better.
Happy for you
That´s what he said to me...I would deserve better and he is not willing to compromise and tons of other stupid stuff 🙄 but you miss the fact that the tf situation is designed from above. They have to talk shit and reject you, that´s what they signed up for...to wake you up
That is all rubbish. Everyone has needs and wanting something is the same ok with needing. It just makes you aware of your person and it's good to know all that because then you can express all that to others and express your boundaries. This whole mentality to blame and shame another person is learnt and toxic behaviour. When you keep up cultivating just kind of mentality you keep people out of your life and aren't ever able to create solid and trustworthy relationships. What is interesting in this comment section that a lot of people mainly look for faults in someone else instead of reflecting on their own person, on how they interact with others, what they tell someone and how. It's really alarming that a lot of people here aren't self-aware nor willing to face themselves honestly nor are anyhow authentic as a person.
Self-love has nothing to do with staying around another person and being open to listen. Self-love isn't depending on anything. Beside it's all about self-acceptance of everything what and who you are. Being there for someone, receptive and welcoming is what connections are all about. You create healthy relationships by being in the moment and by being present. That doesn't mean that you overextend yourself. You do it because you can and because you want to. The idea of chaser and runner is conflicted because non of that actually exists. Those are natural behaviours which refer to different human nature/natural behaviours which are primal. Somwone runs when they are scared or when they anyhow overwhelmed. People can also run in the sense of shutting down. That is all a coping mechanism. Like freezing as well. Chasing is actually refering to classical male behaviour when it comes to courting. On the other side it's chasing learnt as a pattern when someone has the needs to express themselves and want to be heard/seen. Everyone is both in different settings depending their experiences in life. All that is natural and understandable. But not everyone is probably able to understand it because they are more focus on their own person or occupied with certain concepts which they never question.
The twin flame experience is all about getting to know who and what you are. For getting to know yourself, you need to face yourself. And that can be terrifying because not everything on yourself is fancy and comfortable at least for some people but all that defines you as a person and by facing yourself, you become very self-aware and able to step into that life you ever wanted. Because it's right there.
A twin flame connection is dope because you yourself can't no longer run from yourself. You are confronted with everything the other one triggers in you. Although a lot of people can trigger you and you can learn about yourself in many different ways.
What I really enjoy at this connection is the intensity and even that it feels sometimes scary. But that isn't a hindering. On the other end of fear is my dream come true even when I haven't ever know what my dream is. I'm going to know.
@@JPcommunicates I understand your concern but you can´t understand this topic if you haven´t experienced it, you can´t compare it to normal karmic relationships, it´s a spiritual thing
@@danalana111That doesn't sound like a twin flame connection. Nor as a mature connection. That sounds like kindergarten talk. Besides tell you mainly those people you deserve better, who aren't into you but into something what they project into you.
we had a 2 year 2 months long physical separation with mine between end of june 2021 to august 2023. when he was able to come back after all that time, he said he couldn't do it sooner cause around the beginning of the separation he felt a spiritual pressure from me towards him. that the intensity of his feelings didn't match mine. and then a year later, he didn't feel like he was ready/had the courage and bravery to come back. my twin is an incredibly spiritual masculine, he was this way right from day one, so turns out he also assessed the whole process. just like you said, he always, always had a reason. even though it sounded like excuses at the time
and now, he is married to a karmic soulmate since last December. I am moving on, meeting up with new people. no matter what, feels good to be open to new experiences in life. 😊
Thanks for explaining, actually true my twin flame gave me an explanation.. simply I can't do this ,I can't commit in fact he was so honest that it hurts .
It’s weird I can’t commit to my twin flame and I’m often brutally honest with her but my soul yearns for her but my soul also knows it won’t work long term romantically……So it’s confusing.
This is so true. My twin's reasoning for separation made absolutely no sense. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. And he still wanted to be friends and get together as usual. Nope. (In hindsight, before running off with his karmic, he wanted to take me anywhere I wanted or needed to go. We had even made plans for outings). I just let him go without tears or drama.I was too flabbergasted to even be upset until later when it actually dawned on me what was happening.
In addition, my intuition has told me unasked that my twin feels I will always be a part of his life no matter what.I still think of him so I know he feels me energetically. I am working on taking my energy back. I have made progress with inner work, but still have to get into that Satori state.
There isn't anything such as karmic connection. Nor anything such as false twin flames. There are just people who act on certain patterns which are either cope mechanism or learnt patters which give them a sense of security. That you are writing sounds like you don't operate through your heart but deciding after what you have been told, with your head.
When this person runs away with another person, it's likely not a twin flame nor anyone who is actually interested in your person. You might reflect on what attract you towards him. How do you feel? How he makes you feel. When you feel mainly bad. He isn't your twin flame. Then you got an emotional attachment towards him which triggered a past experience in your consciousness which is value to look at. Self-reflection is the key to understand your own motivations, intentions and your whole person better.
@@Flufero23you can't take your energy back because you can't even give your energy away. You can only spend your time with others intentionally which can feel exhausting when you don't take care of yourself. No person can take your energy because you are energy, as everything is energy as well. Energy doesn't dissapear. It's just transmuting. You are always in charge of your own person and it's also you who decide for yourself. Blaming another person for your own choices is immature and toxic.
When I say I am taking my energy back I mean I am stopping my "push" energy. I am ceasing to think of my twin so much. Of course he will continue to cross my mind from time to time. I have never blamed anyone for my choices. Toxic? Immature? Where did all that come from??
Actually, my twin flame connection coincides with what several coaches whose videos I watch and whose books I read have to say about the twin flame connection. I follow closely two spiritual teachers with much experience. They resonate with me. In doing hours of inner work mostly in solitude each day for a year, I have learned quite a bit about the twin flame connection. Of course I'm no expert. In addition, as I stated, I have learned a lot from these teachers' videos. That said,I feel I am in a position to know my twin after more than four years with him. I also know my own heart (and head), especially after heart center activation. IMO, it is very egoic of you to assume so much from comments without even knowing me. Just sayin'.
Me: "So why did we stop communicating?"
The twin: "To spare you"
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Oof, that's rough. Perfect example of justification!
Ghosted but 3ven throughout always reaches out during holidays etc
Hi! Love this video❣️
Do you have any video’s about how to move forward without your TF? I’m really trying to, but my Ego is going crazy, I think haha.
"Twin Flame Separation (an Important Message)," "What is Twin Flame Union Like (in the 5D)," and the series on my website called "Non-Attachment and Union"
@@wearethesamenergy thanks🙏
A video right when I was wondering about it. Alexx you are always on time. Mine just gave the reason for our separation and after months we have very lil conversations going on here and there. I just want to be happy with or without him now but is on a limbo
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Love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Finally, all makes sense! Alexx, thank you. Can you provide more info on separation?
What about it? I have a lot on my Twin Flames playlist
@@wearethesamenergy Thanks Alexx for asking. The TF separation is so huge that there are more things to cover... I d love to hear about destiny vs. fate, collapsing timelines, things to learn (your experience) during it and leading from karma to dharma. Also: Is TF in union a signature of the last incarnation on Earth?
Next week my video being released is on things the Twins learn in separation. It's a reading from my book, actually!
I have never been given a direct reason why he stops communicating. I just intuitively understand it. I understand that he only wants to be available to me when I'm available. When I have been with a karmic or soulmate, he's bowed out and let me have that experience without his direct influence. The only exception was when I had a dream that we were together and he rescued another woman, only to tell me that was the woman he was marrying. I kept feeling this pull to contact him, but he'd moved so I called his dad's house. My twin flame called me days later, and, in the middle of a great reunion conversation, told me he needed my address because he was getting married (soul mate). We talked a few times after that, but when he got married, I did the same for him.
I remmber my twin said : you are too tender too pure .. you deserve to be with someone else
then disapear for 5 monthes .. then contact me agine saying he bought a new instrumant 🤣
My twin said I am on my way.
And said I love you like on the second day of us meeting!
Then disappeared then came back and said he was working to be”” then he said he wanted to make a house with me!
We talked for a few weeks and the. Just stop!
About 24 days 0 contact and today he sent me a random message!
It is really hard but I think know that I understand more I don’t worry!
Also my heart chakra is always feeling like a little pulling sensation!
I am trying to learn and grow but I don’t know what to go!
Just try to calm the Ego down and relax, be with yourself. The next steps will come to you without you needing to control them.
Hey alexx me again!! Great video!!!Been in separation on and off for idk how long this time feels like less sad but also numbing in a way and maybe that he never was my tf to begin with as what he said to me last time felt like he was sure about it and wanted to leave as he saw no future with me and was much open to being with someone else while ig saying things like idk if how long it will take for me to be in a relationship ever or idk if the emotional feelings are there to convert this into something stable and that they cant be exclusive all of these sound more shallow and selfish to me and idk if a true tf would do that even if they dont ghost you and give an explanation but are so sure they cant see a future with you maybe its not fear and running but actually what he feels for me ig and i mean maybe he isnt my tf and just another toxic karmic i mean to get over so idk if i am stuck and i don’t understand how to go about this…?
She’s ghosted me again it’s frustrating but got to be patient but she’s sending me her emotions physically and emotional her pain I’m feeling it too
He said that I deserve to be loved and I give him a sense to his life right before separating from me for the first time! But it didnt take long, he came back. LOL
What are the divine femine karmic lessons
If ghosting doesn't occur with twin flames, then what is the runner, the DM, doing in the runner/chaser dynamic? Isn't the runner, who abruptly leaves and cuts off communication, ghosting?
They will give a justification prior to running
@@wearethesamenergydoes it always play out as a “break up”? My person is always very busy and goes silent, but is very receptive when I reach out, and always gives me a detailed explanation of why he’s so busy lol. But it always ends with him saying he wants to see me soon.
@@Gigi-sz8ns Sounds like a Soulmate
He said i got a to high vibration he is not even spiritual, that shocked me.
Gotta say .....I have been ghosted many many many times...but after six years I considered that he might actually always come back ...then I discovered TFs.
Mine had an elaborate defense and explanation. About why he needed a partner who lived closer rather than cross country when I hadn’t even asked ..like he was explaining it to himself so strange
I truly think my sp is my twinflame. Just a feeling. I’m the runner ,,, because of all my wounds from the men that were in my life (dad, brother , male crushes) they all treated me like crap and didn’t love me,, I really don’t want to go through that again. So I’ve been working on self love and self worth. And trust he will come in at the right time.
What's an sp?
I got several really silly excuses as to why and each one made no sense to the one before. And the fact that he still wanted occasional contact with me afterward made it make even less sense. But once his new girlfriend started harassing me and he “tried” to apologize for it, I said couldn’t keep up with the casual contact knowing he had said things about me to his girlfriend that weren’t true as well as others in order to keep her from being jealous. I just wanted him to acknowledge how I had been wronged. He has pretty much disappeared from my life since, which is almost two years 😢
Gave me a reason , justified his separation with a stupid remark about me having to many emotions for him , havent spoken for 8 months but he came back in moth four constantly watching my stories for a whole month and then dissapeard again 😂what is this whirlwind oh and the dreams are something else ,always wake me up and i feel as if ive touched him for real so i know i am dreaming with him not of him i can tell the difference because my mind gets a feature wrong when hes just a dream but when we meet in dreams its so perfectly him . I hear him sometimes too and for some reason i know i will.see him again
Could you please guide me on how to transcend the duality and egoic constructs of poles of being? I'm intuiting very deeply about the superficialities of duality, but not yet being able to learn to transcend it. (I know this is not the topic of the video)
I suggest watching some videos on my Ego playlist. I also have a series on my website called "Non-attachment and Union" that is all about this
@@wearethesamenergy Thanks.
The question should be: “How do you stop this Twin Flame nonsense that desperate/limerent people cling to”. 😼
My twin said: „it feels so good to be seen… but how can you be seen by someone that is just not… on the same wavelength?“ he meant that he cannot see me the way I see him and its partially true
You sure that's what he meant? Objectively reading this tiny snipped from an outside perspective, it reads as "I am seen by you and wish you could feel seen by me, but you are so far 'above' me on wavelengths, that no matter how much I see you, you wouldn't be able to tell."
@@wearethesamenergy maybe….. will dwell on this, thank you 😊
Well my twin flame ghosted me a lot within the last 10 months BUT I never felt ghosted. We were in separation and oddly I could feel and tell the difference. Every woman before I felt ghosted but with her it was like she still alive right next to me even before I realized what was going on. Even my karmic or fake twin I met 11 months before she ghosted me and I felt ashamed abandonment and I even told her off. Then the karmic or whatever it is popped back in my life days after meeting my twin flame. It was the oddest thing then she ghosted for 6 weeks again. She is the very last woman that has ever affected me and now when a woman ghosted me am like whatever and just block them and move on with life even if she had to pull the separation/ running card I knew she would be back and always will.
Ghosting doesn’t affect me anymore and now that I met my twin flame I see everything different. Am back to my mind set is I don’t care about the outcome and if a woman is meant to be with me it will happen. If not she will disappear. I don’t like sparks as I require deep down connections. My twin is one of the few I have ever had that deep connection with and the only one I never felt judged by and could be 100% me and she will be able to handle everything
Well, I went back home and reached out 2 weeks beforehand and broke the silence/separation after 10 months of no contact.. he immediately replied and said he would get coffee... then got closer to the date. I was home and he started pulling away, messages only every couple days, then finally said nearing the end of my time he couldn't make it and it would be awkward... but had no hard feelings and wished me well. This message came exactly when i was sitting in the spot we first locked eyes 30 years ago. I'm not kidding. My friends told me to forget him and called him a coward. To stop wasting my time... all I wanted to do was clear the air and awkwardness.
Were you looking for closure?
@wearethesamenergy That’s actually a tough question to answer. I think the whole year since I reunited with him after 28 years or so since we last saw each other, I've been wanting closure. The ruminating/obsession/darknight/kundalinirising/purgation/catharsis/growth/silent divorce with my daughter's father for a year/feeling so alone and empty with no friend to talk to has been so much... looking back, all this stuff I see coming from that first time I sabotaged our date after we were together at the dance, before that, being in a picture together, touching his hand and seeing all the tough lessons I've been through since I ruined everything with him. I had forgotten my whole life from that point on when I took the drugs.. I had left his side and wrecked myself without reason. He left me that night, and we only bumped into each one time about a year later, and I was already married to a karmic. Then, for him to come into my life last year out of nowhere and be a man I could talk to, trust, feel supported by, and to fel my chakras awaken. Not to be able to physically see him or touch him. It's complete torture. To question this dynamic I have with him if it's real or just imagined, to question my own sanity. Then, not to be able to follow through or get relief. It's too much. So maybe I do want closure. He obviously won't give me what I want - either way, and I'm torn up about it.
@wearethesamenergy Or did he give me closure when he said he wished me well and no hard feelings on his part? I'm so naive or in denial, maybe. Is that closure?
I know you're a deep thinker, so I challenge you to sit with yourself and figure out what you really wanted when you say you wanted to "clear the air and have no awkwardness between you." If you think you know the answer, ask "why?" and go deeper. Go all the way down until you can't go any further. See what you come up with.
@wearethesamenergy Thank you Alexx. I'll do that. ❤️
Recently my DM (at this point I don't even deny anymore) has told me that despite not beeing the "best friend he could be", that I am cute, kind, a light in his life, that he cherishes that I care for him and that I make him feel good when his days are bad, he told me all that just before disappearing once more...Its very tiring sometimes
Sometimes, for people like me, just knowing the world twinflame leads to a more chaotic state of mind. Having experienced very unexpected images, messages, and dreams , which shows some scenes of past lives with the person, and Kundalini activation...it's really hard to acknowledge the person is not your twinflame. To my knowledge, we are living in a time of Awakening, lots of people are experiencing this supernatural and hard_carried experience... and i think the term *twinflame* will be less influential over time as many more are getting to know what spiritual awakening actually means in our 3D lives. ^^ I have been ghosted, and finally, I accept that he's not my twin. His behavior is somewhat peculiarly suspicious, there's nothing more left for me to do to check if he's the one. Fortunately he made me free of lots of burdens that I've borne on my shoulders for many years by myself in the context of societal duty as a mother, wife, and a woman and let me recognize and enjoy what self_ love and unconditional love is. It was really challenging and blessing experience of my life. This can't be forgotten forever.
Do you have any videos on the divine masculine and feminine energy and how it relates to Twin Flames? I remember watching a video, and I could be mistaken, but I feel you mentioned that the divine masculine and feminine energy didn't play a role or something like that.
Yes, "DF and DM aren't Real"
@@wearethesamenergy I just finished watching the Netflix series about that group TFU, and the two people who run it seemed to use DM and DF to coerce their followers into making drastic unhealthy changes to their lives. There were a lot of red flags in that series.
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Downloaded the video to watch it in class as there is no connection there 😅as i only trust you on this but a little confused today…need a little advice…i dont know if this person is my tf anymore …What if they say we just want different things arent on the same frequency ever but maybe is ready to keep me around some way or other but not give me a proper relationship isnt that convenient and not running away as a tf but maybe just as someone who i cant or am not meant to be with as how you mentioned they say things like you are my sun and you show light and everything else he doesn’t think i am above him he just thinks we are different and dont vibe and never have in so long and also never could be in a proper relationship was always on and off and if he couldn’t for so long why would he and he said dont ever let someone dim your life i just cant he with you and also said even with the last separation i realised more than commitment issues maybe i never saw you as someone i could be with cause we are not compatible but still maybe sometimes also wants physical benefits out of it or keep me as a friend which i cant be and isnt that more of a selfish karmic trait..but and also tells me its not healthy for us to talk and we shouldn’t isnt that confusing and selfish and also maybe genuinely he finds someone better and feelings for me were not enough and never will be so never was a tf even if he didn’t ghost me? What does this mean? I mean could be karmic or toxic and thinking of it as a tf might be harmful…would do you think this is and i can do?
I'm sorry, I don't understand your question
@@wearethesamenergy i just meant to ask if the do justify their reason of separation but say that they (after all that both have been through) say something like dont have maybe the emotional feelings enough to connect or be in a relationship does that not make them maybe a karmic cause they want to keep you around but also say and look out for other people and leave for good when they find so… you have mentioned a tf runner runs out of fear but yes he justified after going and coming but also said something like he doesn’t think he has that emotional and friendly enough band-with and feelings for me so idk if thats a tf anymore cause a runner would run out of fear whereas he was saying he doesn’t feel so and calm about it as well and okay with losing me and this is on off dragging could be maybe not a tf as well right? I could really use some guidance and clarification as i am truly feeling confused and anxious…help me?
According to you, what is the difference between a Karmic who never leaves complete and a twinflame who does the same?
I would suggest reading my book.
Question: you wrote if you return to a person or lesson that you've already overpowered energetically, the univer will have something to say.
What do you mean overpowered energetically?
Is it possible there are exceptions to this rule? Based on circumstance and/or runners fear of confrontation and expressing what they’re feeling?
A justification is a fear of expression of what they're feeling.
In your opinion, will the justification always be verbal prior to running?
@@Gabmarsi How would a justification be given if not verbally?
I was often told (verbally) how he didn’t feel “good enough” for me when we initially got together prior to separation, but didn’t explicitly state that this was the reason for his running. There was no blocking or complete cutting off of communication, and we never go long without checking in on each other. The “reason” for our apparent separation is due to distance and him having to prioritize his kids.
@@Gabmarsi Is your Core Karmic lesson self-worth?
What if you didn’t ask for an explanation and neither of you reached out again? Recently came back in contact after 10 years
That would be a Karmic most likely
He once said to me: the princess and the beggar.😢 In fact he was my king. But wouldn't believe me.
What is your book called please. Is it on audible?
"The Soul Family: a Guide to Karmic relationships, Soulmates, Soul Tribes, and Twin Flames." It's not on audible though
@@wearethesamenergy thank you for replying x
Hello there, is it possible to have a relationship with your TF without actually being in one formally in the 3D world?
What would a "relationship" look like, then?
Woah! So mine is not a twin!?!? He is a strange karmic!?!? 😮😅
My twin flame is so negative. Doesn't try to change. What should I do ?
I've tried no contact, even blocking. I'm tried
Nothing you can do. That is their lesson to learn. You just take care of yourself.
@@wearethesamenergy should I let him go from my life as his his behaviour, aura is too negative for me & it's shaking my positivity levels... It's been 10 years.. Please suggest ma'am 🙏
Before my DM went quiet (1yr ago) he said he could " feel it changing" meaning he was getting feelings. (It was a no strings attached situation) He reaches out but its egoic i keep polite and brief. How do i figure my core wound? I probs just need to watch more videos. Watching these videos seems to tap into a kind of vulnerability which makes it a little bit more reluctant to tap on a video. Like you speak to our inner child or something. You're so safe it makes the vulnerable want to come out?
I have a video "The 3 Core Karmic lessons" that you can watch. And I'm glad the videos are resonating!
Apparently I gave her anxiety and stress and had to block and stop talking to me
Is it possible that you enter a separation after meeting your twin(if at all) just once?
Once, sure, but it's not common. There will definitely be some separations, if there are none, it's not a TF
I think I was the runner because I felt like my TF was too good for me but then I saw my TF suffering so I became the chaser and
she became the runner but now I’ve become the runner again. But is it normal for the runner to go thru the dark night of the soul or the chaser?
Please watch "Twin Flame Role Reversal," "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family," "What are Karmic Relationships," "Karmic versus Twin Flame," and "Twin Flame as a Tool of Manipulation."
Don't know if you covered this are karmic relationships vice versa or only sometimes or only one sided
All Soul Family relationships go both ways!
@@wearethesamenergy okay thank you
They do ghost!!!
Thank you!!!! My thoughts exactly
@@ImaGold-n8p your absolutely right it’s frustrating there ghost you it’s as if where ready and there not ready spiritual
@@ImaGold-n8p she ghosts me but also I feel her pain physically and emotional 😭 and there very strong early on I felt tears coming down my face out of the blue
@@garyparkin2143 you cannot help them. You “help” when you meditate, take care of yourself, develop yourself.
@@ImaGold-n8p thank you
Does the explanation always come before the leaving or at times after coming back? So in my case, this has been going on for almost 40 years. When we were young (teens and 20's) he would disappear without explanation, but give me one upon return. I know that sounds like a karmic. Now that we are older and more mature, he constantly gives me the weird explanations.
There will be justification prior. There will be actual reason after.
My person is currently not texting me🙄
I asked him last week how he was doing and he replied,he‘s not ok….i asked why and iff he want‘s to share.i told him a bit how i was and i have not heard from him ever since….
We‘ve been seeing eachother for over a year now but he‘s still in his karmic relationship (they have 1 child) and he keeps saying things like,i hope the future will be different blablabla.
He‘s always been very busy with work and life chores and we didn‘t spend much time toghether on the whole expect the 2 week vaccation 3 weeks ago in his country.
He has been running and pursueing me,its confusing.
When we meet the chemistry is so strong and we bond and connect and then he falls off the map again.
He once said,we are trapped in the matrix….well,looks like its the case again👀
I am not saying that I know what your situation is, but it does sound like a Karmic...only because it reminds me very strongly of a very important Karmic I had in my own life (who threw me into my severe Ego Degradation) many, many years ago.
Can the justification for pulling away be something unrelated to the connection? We had agreed to meet after what feels like an energetic disconnect but it fell through as he had an emotional breakdown in front of his family. Prior to the energetic disconnect however, he said he can’t believe someone like me likes him. Hence I’m confused between the justifications for the energetic and physical separation.
Ooh, that's very interesting. How do you know he had "an emotional breakdown," and what makes you so sure that is unrelated to the connection?
@@wearethesamenergy He texted that to explain why he’s unable to meet and we got on the phone for a bit where he opened up. No heated arguments or anything, but I haven’t heard from him since and decided to stop initiating any contact. I’m not sure that it is unrelated to be honest, haha. Cognitively I’m confused but there’s also a peculiar sense of acceptance. It’s a strange new feeling and I thought I might find some clarity here and in this timely video you released.
What happens when they say something like you are the most compassionate person, i cant imagine what else i would need from a relationship but i just dont feel the connection enough to be in a committed relationship even after more than 2 years of on and off? And very calmly say i think i need more in a relationship and dont feel those intense emotions for me and wants more so maybe with someone else will be better…is that fear based or truly what they feel and are not a tf runner and maybe another soul family member or karmic?
This person has told you many times (according to your comments) that they do not feel strongly enough about the connection between the two of you to be in a relationship. A Twin may justify their running based on fear, but they will never say they don't feel strongly enough.
@@wearethesamenergy he mentioned how needs more of a friend and we arent that and have never been in 2.5 years so cant be he said he had those feelings earlier now with time doesnt ig and doesn’t know if he will in the future at all have them to commit…so i couldn’t be in a limbo and called it off yet again… so what does that state? I dont understand…he isnt my tf then?
That doesn't matter if someone is a twin flame or not. Ghosting is an attitude which people do who has issues with frontation and clear communication. Or they do it because it's easy. It's rubbish to compare that with twin flames because ghosting is ghosting. There is no difference.
Dear Ma'am, Somethings when done in time is always good. She is a LEO, I'm Aquarius. We had a great relationship, when she Ghosted me. I have strong understanding she is my TF, I am bombarded with signs and synchronicities for long now. For a year I was so depressed that I had to take psychiatrist help and wanted to committee suicide. Now I'm good when I realized that It's my life. I have to take care of it. No one is responsible. No matter if she is My TF or not, I don't want her now. I just want to live my life peacefully. If she comes its actually I will close my doors. There is a good saying, " If They Love you You'll know, If they don't You will be confused". She has enough time to do and enjoy her life. If I were priority I should have been known by now.
This video is spectacular ; but I disagree with you ; I did ghosting ; because I had been in the connection for months and literally super strange things were happening to me part of the twin flame journey and with this person we dated and then I found out he was dating several people at once ; we lived far away from each other so i asked God for forgiveness because it was a lot but my heart was already very broken and i did not want to enter again in a relationship where i must explain to a man how to behave so i left a zero contact without telling him anything , “my justification “in this case was and still being ¿why should i teach someone how to treat a person? if the least one should know is about respect but of course not all people are like me ; so I ghosted him and after that I do not do more if not to receive signals about this person then they already diminished but still continue to appear and the conversations of why were given telepathically ; then why say that there is no ghosting in a twin flame connection ? It is your truth ; not the truth of all twin flames.
If this is true im the run and yes i want to be heard after 15 yrs. I l9ved her and i fekt like shit. We were teenagers. I had a horrible life and felt like i was not goid enough the energy was too much and it scared me. I coukd see the love and feel it and it scared me even though i felt it first i belive. I ran for 15 yrs and all of a sudden I think of her learn about TF . Ive been spiritualy connected to my soulmate and karmic. Yoy make us runners spund so bad. Mam i didnt have a dollar to get back to her and mt brother is mentally sick and was kicking me out. I was a teenager! Graduating and going in to the harsh as world after living a shitty child hood. I loved her belive me, and i new it would be amazing but my fears made me run. Litterly.. i ran for the trolley. Poor girl was going to reveal her love. She still loves me. I seen it in her eyes years later. But 11 yrs with my soul mate now and i have grown so much, spiritually and mentally. I still need more growing. We are not that bad just life is Fd up. Well at least in my situation. Pluss in my defence im trans and she was staright. I have a feeling shes still staright, but still loves me. I ran and i felt like an ass hole ok, because deep down we both new we loved each other. I was a teenager afraid of life having nothing to offer. Btw my life got worst for 3 yrs. I learned alot from karmic relationship. Its all real. I had visions and predictions! My soulmate is well the best thing to happen to me in 11 yrs. I just want my TF to know that she did nothing wrong. I was the one who got scared by the energy my desire for her and my insecurities got the best of me.
BTW I think I'm the chaser now 😔
Then tell her and see what happens
I have a question about manifesting your twin Flame. Do you manifest them at the time of meeting them, or at the beginning of our incarnation? Can you say that every relationship and choice I've made in my life has led me to my TF
Your Ego has not manifested them, you as the universe have manifested them, so it's not such a simple answer I can give to your first question. I would encourage you to read my book so you can read the actual scientific elements of all of this. Regarding your second question, yes! This is where I suggest doing a timeline/Soul Family map to show how large decisions you've made and people you've met have led you to the Twin. It helps to see interconnectedness.
@@wearethesamenergyI'm currently reading and I'm on page 86. I just finished Quinn's story. So, are the scientific elements you're referring to at the beginning of your book, or have I not reached that part yet?
@@taylorlancaster4544 At the beginning of the book, but also when you get to the Twin Flame part 🙂
See, this honestly leaves me confused. I was 100% positive he was my twin. Others have acknowledged that type of connection between him and I. However, all I got was “ I have a guilty conscience” and then silence. My friends did some digging and found out. He got back with his karmic ex and I have not heard from him since it’s almost been a year and I’m pretty positive he’s still with her.
So according to this video, he is more of a soul tribe? Or karmic relationship? Bc there’s question that he’s my other half so I’m confused. 🤔
I cannot tell you who this person is in your Soul Family based on this comment, nor what "I have a guilty conscience" means as it's out of context reading it. I would just suggest watching videos and having an open mind on other Soul Family members and seeing what resonates.
That's not quite true. in fact, what we say to the other person at the beginning is exaggerated: hormones, love, surprise, but it is true in opposition to us. it turns out that in relation to the other person you are more loving, more open to others. Runners seriously see and know their own flaws: we are mature people and we see the good and beautiful sides of the other twin
So you're telling me that the person who made indirect contact twice by phone after 14 years is just a karmic. Wow lol The reason I say that is because I never got a reason from them like "you're too good" or "you're a bright light" The y just completely panicked and was sangry at me. And I didn't even know why back them.
Are you in separation now?
No, I've been in Union with myself and my 3D manifested Twin for over 2 years.
@@wearethesamenergy what Is the motivation for the separation now? Kind of you used to much lower energy?
@@wearethesamenergy I felt I was connected with you only in the three videos where you are together. now I feel distortions and I prefer to follow only those who are in union. I went through it too and made videos, then I stopped because I felt that I should first be in union in all dimensions before proceeding
I think it´s a bit confusing to say they will never ghost you. They do after giving you the explanation why they can´t be with you. My tf situation completely exploded (like an atomic bomb) after a short time of closer contact. He wanted to offer me a friendship so I was more than pissed and hurt which I let him know, cause I felt this friendship offer was a lie. He was totally different than he was before. He also said that I wouldn´t deserve someone like him and that he normally wouldn´t miss out to have only sex with someone, but we would burn everything to ashes if we had (I think that´s why it´s called twin flame in english :)). So I wrote him several messages, which was too much for him. He told me to stop this in a very desperate and threatening way and hung up the phone. Since then he ghosts me..he acts like this never happened. He only says Hello when he passes me by sometimes and sometimes he completley ignores me and doesnt even look at me
That's not ghosting. You had an argument before and ended the relationship and he told you straight out that he wanted to cease communication.
My tf ghosts me without any explanation. but I know it's tf.
They do ghost! Absolutely.
@MSP2104 but mine "without explanation" versus what she's saying in the video that they will always give explanation otherwise it's karmic.
So what if they tell you they are going off grid for awhile
That's not justification or ghosting.
What if they ghosted you for 3 days? 😂 I sent the most vulnerable message during a separation stage (one of many) and took her 3 days to reply something very vague 😑 that she’s not intending to not not answer but it’s complicated for her too. I was like complicated? That’s all she’s got? I opened up my heart to her and that’s what she gives me? I took that as being completely ghosted.
If you were already in separation, not responding is not ghosting.
@@wearethesamenergy that's clarifying
TF and a dismissive attachment style = complex
Or what about a TF with APD and MDD…