Omgggg, this made me laugh so hard! I never realized I canNOT answer that question about why I love my twin. When you asked the question, I just laughed at the realization. 😂 So interesting. Thank you for this 🙏
Between all the pain, separation, come and go…I have no idea why I love this man so f-ing much. 😅 we don’t even know all the things about each other… but moth to a flame. This journey is so not for the weak.
when you asked what i love about them. I LITERALLY say it’s not a feeling it’s the person. and i LOVE HER i can’t even explain that. it’s not because of anything they offer me. i just love THEM.
SAME... i could try to justify and find qualities obviously, but the truth is deep down there's a bottom level of irrationality. it's just unconditional love
I had to start asking archangel Michael to put up protection from any and all influences three times a day because I felt he was influencing me to go back to chasing after I had finally understood I needed to stop. I can still feel him on a spiritual level but no longer get hit so hard with out-of-the-blue influences
You just summed up my personal experience on this journey with such accuracy it almost feels like you are just talking to ME! Everyone who believes themselves to be on the TF journey should watch this. Thank you for all you do!
@@humanactivated1017I would really like to know the truth. 😊 You need to theorize a bit so as not to succumb to some illusion and destroy your life. I'm really looking for the truth. I'm not in a relationship with him and I won't be.
Yeah, it happens although I’ve heard it’s pretty unusual. However I think most twins should be with the other half the issue is who puts in the work to make that happen.
I love him for his kindness, his gentle stroke, his tender touch. He’s very loving and empathetic. He’s considerate and his smile lifts me up and his eyes kiss my soul. He’s so sweet. He has a masculine energy that is subordinate to the feminine energy. I also love him bc of his realness. HES vulnerable with me. He knows I can see his imperfections. He has 6 kids, five women. We laugh about it bc he has a 7 year old and he’s 46…inside joke. All the others are grown except the last two In his flaws and trials and tribulations he still smiles and takes care of all of his kids!!! I LOVE that about him. His trials remind me of a King David type He’s searching for love and gets easily distracted with himself Whatever he’s doing to cause him to not stay in relationships is boggling me He wants to be on some king behavior but I think he’s tired of it He cried in my arms, I love him bc he’s authentic and lovely laced in so many flaws Yet, he still commands respect I love him for him I love the way he makes me feel but his ambiguous communication and fear causes me to doubt. Yesterday I decided to stop chasing him He’s so frustrated with life and exhausting works every single day, two jobs yet I think he is struggling with leaving his wife bc he confided that he loves her but she’s more of his friend. He went 365 days of no sex until me In love him for helping me feel loved and love again He also gets on my nerves 😁 too Is that normal? Being in the separation stage is teaching me how to self reflect and helping me to see me and what I need to heal Rather he comes back or not, I needed to heal from so much of what my husband is putting me through I am done done with my husband, he won’t let me go Won’t sign the papers- he sucks the life out of my soul with his abuse Yes, we still are married and I’m not ashamed of that bc marriage doesn’t mean love It’s not the right time and I surrendered to the truth of he can’t love me rn bc I feel his pain When he says “I’m exhausted” I feel it in my soul It’s bigger than being exhausted from outer work, it’s an inner work So now he’s running and I stopped chasing him He told me that “how do you know that we weren’t meant to meet and then reconnect two years later”? Idk I’m so scared and full of fear bc I think I pushed him away I’m working on it Maybe I did bc I told him to go love his wife as best he could and take care of his house bc I don’t want to hurt her I asked him why he stepped out and he said bc they are just friends and she wanted a baby and he gave her one He’s easily influenced by “love” 😂 Been married twice and engaged once where he current wife is the one he broke off his engagement for All of this I figured out just listening to him He told me one day how he misses his dad so much and he is certain if he was still here he would not have “all these damn kids” I see he is lonely, fragile, loyal to an extent but yea that’s why I love him
You are a life saver❤I’m not going to talk about what I went through with my TF, but it has been 3 years of horrific fights with me ego. You and Kurt Johnson are the best TF coaches
Haha I also love the crazy fuck up 😂 and felling my ego getting scattered - crawling around but then rising in Selflove… I love beeing confronted by myself
You have just started on your journey, I can tell. I was like you once. But as time goes on (years) and your twin flame still is not learning their lessons, hurting you and still not ready to be with you, it makes you angry and tired; it’s the same thing over and over with them. It goes nowhere. You realize you have wasted your time on someone who refuses to get their stuff together, and you’re not wasting any more time on them.
TBH, I don't wish that I wasn't in the twin flame journey, ever. I love it, especially the pain and the subsequent glory it accompanies. It's vivacious. It opens the eyes with the decree of god, so why wouldn't you ever wish to be on this voyage?
I thought I would watch several videos to answer this question but there is no need to go further. Everything you said resonated with me and explained what I have been trying so hard to explain to myself. Thank you thank you my over analytical Libra mind can accept this🥰
For me personally, I feel I have grown and evolved a lot with my high level soulmate. He helps me accept parts of myself that I feel ashamed of. Since being with him I have learned to quiet down the ego more whereas being obsessed with my twin and holding onto the connection while he ran for 9 years was nothing but filled with suffering. Perhaps everyone has different journey and perhaps not all soulmate will feed your ego. Some might actually grow and evolve with you. My twin is still in his karmic journey, learning lessons and we have had very few 3D interaction. I felt called to let go of this connection as I felt so suffocated holding on and didnt let go till he got married. I cannot connect with the thought that soulmates will always feed your ego and keep you in that ego filled mindset. Maybe since your twin and you arent ready (for their own reason), a soulmate might be better suited to help support your growth in the current lifetime if your higher self feels that to be right for you I realized I replied to the choosing a soulmate here instead of the other video. As for this video, yes if I could do it all over again I wish I wasnt on a twin flame journey. I wish I had prioritized myself instead of running after a man for 9 years of my life. Its no journey for the faint hearted. I will always have love for him but I have lost all desire to unite with him in this life. My soul feels we are content in our soulmate connection, in many ways I felt my soulmate was far more evolved and emotionally mature than my twin flame. I think he is choosing to stay in the karmic journey and I think I am choosing to grow with the man who is choosing to grow with me. Thats what feels right at this moment. Maybe in next lifetime we might be more ready for this challenging journey. Maybe this life will prepare us.
When it comes to the TF journey, you have really helped me align with my higher self. I have a small channel myself and I include your lessons and a link to your video (TF or obsession) as well. I hope it reaches those who need to hear from you ❤ Love and light to you ✨
I love this video so much! It helped me, but i also realized i can’t answer all of the questions with black and white answers. I’m still learning about my person and the journey we are on. I’m so intrigued to learn more. I plan on buying your book. Thank you!🙏 🤍
I finally unrestored what you said,thank you so much for your help..I never met my twin physically as you say I wasn't ready and I think I am still not .I always wondered why it didn't work out ? The universe through me in many karmic relationships over and over ..I just didn't get it .the last karmic relationship was painful although it was a friendship.I learned the lesson I finally had no resentments or regret I am just grateful for the lesson that this woman thought me .I went through my all relationship literally wrote all the names and I found the same lessons over and over .I have no fear of more karmic or soulmates If my higher self thinks I still need more slaps 😂 I am ready.thank you for your videos.
I’m actually dealing with a high level soulmate and a twin. I cannot agree with you more. It’s funny how the universe intricately weave my faith to have them both at the same time. No sexual things going on yet with both. It’s crazy and mind bugling, that these stuff could really happened. I feel happier when I’m with my soulmate and my twin like what you said cut my existence with a jagged knife…. Just wow, now I know I’m not crazy or just assuming. Thank you 🙏♥️
@kolbypugh475 I think @Boba_Cat161 means they've got both a Twin and a Soulmate (two separate people) in their life right now. Meaning, dating two different people.
My twin is everything I said I didnt want after ending my long term relationship 😂 Everything I judged from my upbringings conditioning she is. It's hilarious - the universe is comical-due to the break down of my ego I understand now what unconditional love is - I love her and always will regardless. It is not comfortable- every 3d challenge is there - people do not approve - it's so intense I got ejected twice already. Jagged like a chainsaw 😂. Interestingly - she seems more comfortable around me and I am just wanting to run hide - energetically I long for her ❤ I am writing a book because it's been wild + is actually hilarious! A literal rainbow burst out over my head once when I was near her + I just died of embarrassment. Now Im finding peace + look forward to facing her yet again - because now I have faced myself - the reflection will be different 🎉
So, I've thought for a while that I'm married to my soulmate and that the other "great love" of my life is my twin flame. After this video, I'm still sure that's correct. Although, the first time I heard my twin flame talk, I literally sat up and looked at him because I felt like I knew him...somehow. It didn't feel past life...just a connection. And when we were together, alone, it felt like the world just went away. There was a sense of peace, but I always journal about how, with that peace there's a "hum of electricity." I always refer to my husband as "my cozy fireplace" and my twin flame as "my lightning bolt"--now I know why.
I've not had a Twin Flame connection as far as I'm aware of. I've had a past soulmate I had to let go of as he had frustrated me a lot but had a very special connection and that special comfort. Felt like knew forever and can't explained.. Like before time. Now someone new I might have found a soul mate connection with. Sadly couple hour drive distance. But soon as we hugged.. I felt safe and comfortable. The two us seem to have the best chemistry I've had with anyone. Definitely a lot that we agree to and relate a lot and much interest relations yet ofc each unique. Can't wait to see where things go. But I really do feel very connected after that 10 hour date!
I believe we have a twin flame whom we love but our soulmate is whom we can’t live without. You will drown. They are who you want. I see a twin flame as a brother or sister ..
Spiritual twin you show them who they are in spirit, that's why soul mates are more family based as in siblings, whilst twin flames have differences so that's why there's sometimes a spiritual battle isn't really the same as the physical
I only say help inside my heart and speechless when she ask what do you want and need from my her, I have no need, and she cries, and my heart say help 😂😂😂 like a cat meowing heeelpp
Hi, thanks again for a wonderful video! I have a few questions: 1) What do you mean by 'Union with the Self' / what is 'the Self'? (the Higher Self/the Universe?) 2) Can you explain a 'soulmate plus karmic' (or do you have videos about this)?. And thank you for explaining why we love this person (our TF). I could never, and still, not answer that question for myself.. I thought that something must be wrong. Your explanation on this gives a feeling of relief. And do you have a video about dealing with triggers in a Twin Flame connection or will you be making one?
Ack, I replied to this and for some reason it didn't get posted, so I hope it doesn't post twice. These are great questions. 1) My videos "The Purpose of Twin Flames," "What Does TF Union Feel Like (in the 5D)?" and "Twin Flames: Look at the Macro" should all explain this. 2) I do not have a full video on Soulmate + Karmic, but I explain a lot about them in my book (which is also about your first question). But they're basically a Soulmate base with Karmic tumultuousness on top. 3) What do you mean by "dealing with triggers" specifically?
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you for your explanation and the tips!❤️ By 'triggers' I mean the strong emotions that arise (and the obsessive thoughts that arise from them), within and outside the interaction with my TF. I feel like I often get stuck in these strong and overwhelming thoughts and feelings. Somehow I believe that they can also be important 'messengers', pointing out where I still need to heal and love myself more. I now also practice meditation and mindfulness. But I still find it difficult to deal with a 'trigger' / to get ‘unstuck’ from the feelings and thoughts, and to learn the possible lessons from it (?). Do you know which tools or practices I could use? And why does it feels like my TF is the person who triggers me the most?
Okay, you're about to hear a loooooot of conflicting information out there about this journey, so just remember to take a breath and ground yourself. Find a few people who teach about them who you like, and know you have a community of support here!
I'm so sorry for your loss. No, they cannot be the same. I talk about intricate differences and details in my book if you're interested in going deeper
Now i know why im crying buckets of tears , this piece of crap twin flame shit has me considering just ending up myself! So frustrating and hateful relationship, i really pray and hope i can get rid of this twin flame
Namaste Alex, Can you please talk about twinflames and birthcharts?🙏 How does it feel when you separate from your twin? Thank you for All the wisedom 🙏
I would love to talk about Twin Flames and natal charts, but it's too dense of a topic and I am not a professional astrologer. I talk about natal charts a lot in my book, though. Regarding how it feels when in separation from the Twin, I would suggest going through my Twin Flames playlist and watching a bunch of them.
Correct me if I'm wrong, a soul mate is a member of the soul family. There can be many souls in the soul family and each member is called a soul mate..Am I right? Pls help in understanding this too - do we always feel the strong connection with every member of the soul family or only some members? Could u pls make a video on soul recognition in TF or this can happen with soul family too..
I would suggest watching my videos "What is the Soul Family?" Part 1 & 2, also "The Purpose of Twin Flames," then just go through my playlists. Or, my book explains everything in greater detail
When the runner feels comfortable or "safe" around us and believe that they have known the chaser is that just them feeling the self? He said he already knew me. And i just thought he was crazy, but that was in the beginning before i awakened.
The Runner usually feels safe or "at home" at first (I talk about this in my videos "The Twin Flame 'Stages'" and "Meeting the Twin Flame"). However, "knowing the person" usually points to a Soulmate + Karmic
Im just seeing this! He did say he felt safe and that i would be perfect if i was not so mean. Wanted the relationship first and ive had all the signs and connection energy. But the self love for no reason and enlightenment isnt triggered by soulmates, right? Even if he is a soulmate+karmic it doesnt matter.
My twin flame is a hot mess & I’m full of love & hate. It’s brutal! However, we’re in different countries & loving the separation because it’s too intense. 😂❤
Would soulmates mirror in their thoughts (with no way of knowing what the other person thinks and does)? Even something like thinking about joining a monastery, so not a fairly common thought.
I have questions…😅 Can a childhood BFF be my TF? Been BFFs for over 23 years. Met at church. Even his mother and my aunt (like my mother) thought we would be together one day, but his mother was against it. Mind you, we never had a romantic relationship mainly because I now realized I was the runner, but it was obvious we had a special bond since the age of 13. We both married young (been married over 14 years) and have children (he even named one after me). We kept in touch, but barely, but out of respect for our spouses. Even after moving to another state 9 years ago. Even been through several times of lengthy separations but seem to always find our ways back to each other as if there hasn’t been a connection gap/breaks throughout the years. We’ve always had a “secret” romantic connection but never really openly expressed to each other or anyone and acted on it since we married others. We recently found/realized we are going through the same difficult situations in our marriages (almost like a mirror situation) and feel we’re at the end of the line. And even like that, we don’t say anything about getting together, cause deep down inside we know we need a break to heal. We both know we have a special/deep connection, a different kind of love that will transcend any distance, time and our spouses. I learnt that my spouse is definitely and absolutely my soulmate, but I’ve been yearning for a more deeper connection for the past nearly 4 years, feeling the emptiness cause I know I’m not where I’m supposed to be. 😢 In the past 4 years I’ve had what I could only explain as my spiritual awakening and I don’t find any spiritual connection with my spouse, whom I love so much. I guess I’m hoping to get some clarification or even validation. 🤷🏼♀️
@@wearethesamenergy I guess I still have so much to learn. 🤦🏼♀️ Perhaps he’s not out there for me during this lifetime. But then, why the longing and yearning?
Hello Alexx love if you can answer this as i havnt seen anywhere When i met my last love We felt our hearts vibrate together at the same time Just before we were departing We both mentioned it to each other It felt in the body and out of the body at same time Have you heard of this Can you tell me what it could be or means
Why would the heart chakra be activated ? I feel it happened to remind our egos there is something here This has attributes of twin flame i see from your videos That comment the chainsaw yes And when asked why do you love me i just said i love.. YOU also Or is it just personal thing Thank you for response❤
This was 4 and half yrs ago We met for 6 months of intensity and extreme ups n downs It hasn't felt right to meet someone else I do my research and I feel the inner alchemy Maybe I'll look for guidance when you reopen books
Wow. OK. Great video.. Yes, I am with my twin flame then I recon.. My soul mate, (is there just one? Hope not) passed away just recently. I couldn't feel attracted to him physically unfortunately and he had a lot of health problems. I had been attracted to him once. We were together before I went to Uni.. Now in my early 40s, have a beautiful son (luckily, not with my twin flame) but, strangely enough, I feel my twin flame is my son's soul father then. Madness.. He's very, very, triggering to me and almost got him to move out once.. Very attracted to one another physically. He's very funny, very arrogant and very triggering.. Yes, I love him. Why?😮😅
When I paused the video to answer the question, I thought, because he’s beautiful like me. Then I unpaused and agreed with all of your answers. Funny thing is he is all those things but I didn’t think of not one of those answers on my own. 😫 this journey sucks and it’s affecting my parenting. I binge watch your content in my free time to have a better idea of what I need to do but I’m still uncertain.
💔💔 I'm sorry you're having such a rough time on your journey. I'd be happy to put you on my waiting list for a consultation if you'd like. Just send an email via my website.
Umm there seems two theories of twin flame: That it is absolute pain (like this one) and that it is the greatest union there is. I lean on the latter theory, since twin flame should be better and higher version of soulmate...? I mean this whole pain theory sounds like it is rather a karmic relationship - and what about old soul TFs?
Not all Karmic relationships are painful by any means, and the Twin Flame journey is considered painful based on how the Ego interprets things and how much control it has.
@@wearethesamenergy So it could be entirely possible that there isn't much or any drama between twin flames based on how much they have worked ego? Or if there is (self-)doubt it is very subtle? I mean something intuitively tells me it could be possible and also if tf really is one's mirror and there isn't much or any shit to face, how intense the connection could then be? I mean maybe I am being too idealistic, but seeing this world resembles the movie idiocracy more and more maybe believing in a beautiful dream however improbable isn't so bad...
My wife feels like she has met her twin flame because shes explained how her body feels like she was having a orgasm just by being around him. She cheated on me with him and i am learning about all of fhis after and i have been completely heartbroken ever since and this new info about twin flame is depressing in my end. I love her so much. She has labeled me as her soulmate but i have been telling her before her encounter with her tf about the same feelings i feel with her and how the energy with her feels so unreal that I cant explain it. Ive realized that she has been blocking me out because of the reality of the 3D realm, family, kids and eveyday life in general. My love for her is undeniable and she knows this and feels the same way for me. This relationship we have on my end has never been from a physical aspect and i have explained this to her many times over our seven years of marriage. I really dont know how to exept how shes feeling about what it is she going through because of her past experiences putting a wall on our relationship and being with her so called tf she was free from all of what is reality of what is going on in our connection. Thats why i feel like this is an excuse more than anything else. Very confusing and sad. Our story goes back 20 years and we always kept on finding ourselves together again without effort until we said enough is enough and started our beautiful connection thats why this is all so confusing to me.
💔💔💔 I'm so sorry to hear you're having such a hard time on your Soulmate journey. I talk about everything you just said in many of my videos, so I'd first go watch Soulmate ones and then move onto Karmic and Twin Flame ones 🙏
If you meet your twin flame in this lifetime, based on what I've read and heard, it means you are on a journey to learn one of two core karmic lessons. So, is it possible to have met your twin flame in a previous lifetime without realizing they were your twin flame, or without having learned your core karmic lessons in that previous incarnation?
I can talk with my twin for hours and hours.. and the sex its unbelievable extraordinary!! We are in the separation face.. but it's been amazing.. we both love to go deep in conversations and makes ourselves uncomfortables too but understanding ego and not letting us drive by it... i understand about soulmates but finding my twin it's been beyond all the wonders in the world.. ❤ with all the triggering included (im scorpio so i love go deep 😅)
I think he is a twin flame. There are so many similarities that go on and on, and can't be coincidences. Very strange to me. I "accidentally" manifested him. We worked together. He was a co-worker/friend and not my type until the heart center activation when I " fell in love" with him. I don't know why I love him. I just do. We had a connection for four years, but I never felt at ease even though I knew he cared for me. He very slowly pulled away. He triggeted me in ways I thought were really dumb and annoying. Funny thing, after ego death I love him even though he dumped me for the karmic. NC for five months.Any other man would have been on my s**t list. I have continued focusing on my spiritual journey even though he crosses my mind from time to time.
Very similar to me. only a large age difference and attachment to old relationships preclude continuation. the first person I "forgave" so easily. Love from space straight from the heart chakra. Simply. but if I'm being honest; he had a nice sexy chest😜
Yes. I am 7 1/2 years older than he is, but we look the same age. We are old folks.I had a karmic ( a player) cheat on me when I was young. I kicked him to the curb and never looked back.
Hi Alexx!!! Thank you so much for your videos! 💞 I have a question: Could you go through the dark night of the soul after meet a soulmate? Thank you!!!
I love him for his kindness, his gentle stroke, his tender touch. He’s very loving and empathetic. He’s considerate and his smile lifts me up and his eyes kiss my soul. He’s so sweet. He has a masculine energy that is subordinate to the feminine energy. I also love him bc of his realness. HES vulnerable with me. He knows I can see his imperfections. He has 6 kids, five women. We laugh about it bc he has a 7 year old and he’s 46…inside joke. All the others are grown except the last two In his flaws and trials and tribulations he still smiles and takes care of all of his kids!!! I LOVE that about him. His trials remind me of a King David type He’s searching for love and gets easily distracted with himself Whatever he’s doing to cause him to not stay in relationships is boggling me He wants to be on some king behavior but I think he’s tired of it He cried in my arms, I love him bc he’s authentic and lovely laced in so many flaws Yet, he still commands respect I love him for him I love the way he makes me feel but his ambiguous communication and fear causes me to doubt. Yesterday I decided to stop chasing him He’s so frustrated with life and exhausting works every single day, two jobs yet I think he is struggling with leaving his wife bc he confided that he loves her but she’s more of his friend. He went 365 days of no sex until me In love him for helping me feel loved and love again He also gets on my nerves 😁 too Is that normal? Being in the separation stage is teaching me how to self reflect and helping me to see me and what I need to heal Rather he comes back or not, I needed to heal from so much of what my husband is putting me through I am done done with my husband, he won’t let me go Won’t sign the papers- he sucks the life out of my soul with his abuse Yes, we still are married and I’m not ashamed of that bc marriage doesn’t mean love It’s not the right time and I surrendered to the truth of he can’t love me rn bc I feel his pain When he says “I’m exhausted” I feel it in my soul It’s bigger than being exhausted from outer work, it’s an inner work So now he’s running and I stopped chasing him He told me that “how do you know that we weren’t meant to meet and then reconnect two years later”? Idk I’m so scared and full of fear bc I think I pushed him away I’m working on it Maybe I did bc I told him to go love his wife as best he could and take care of his house bc I don’t want to hurt her I asked him why he stepped out and he said bc they are just friends and she wanted a baby and he gave her one He’s easily influenced by “love” 😂 Been married twice and engaged once where he current wife is the one he broke off his engagement for All of this I figured out just listening to him He told me one day how he misses his dad so much and he is certain if he was still here he would not have “all these damn kids” I see he is lonely, fragile, loyal to an extent but yea that’s why I love him
Baby idk who in the hell would want this TF journey! This is not for the weak!
Omgggg, this made me laugh so hard! I never realized I canNOT answer that question about why I love my twin. When you asked the question, I just laughed at the realization. 😂 So interesting. Thank you for this 🙏
Shes gorgeous and i love her personality, but i can't describe her personality... lol she's sweet???
Between all the pain, separation, come and go…I have no idea why I love this man so f-ing much. 😅 we don’t even know all the things about each other… but moth to a flame. This journey is so not for the weak.
when you asked what i love about them. I LITERALLY say it’s not a feeling it’s the person. and i LOVE HER i can’t even explain that. it’s not because of anything they offer me. i just love THEM.
SAME... i could try to justify and find qualities obviously, but the truth is deep down there's a bottom level of irrationality. it's just unconditional love
One other thing I have noticed is that even if I'm not thinking of my TF, he's still there in the background somewhere.
I had to start asking archangel Michael to put up protection from any and all influences three times a day because I felt he was influencing me to go back to chasing after I had finally understood I needed to stop. I can still feel him on a spiritual level but no longer get hit so hard with out-of-the-blue influences
Yeah, all the time.
can't escape from it, nor should we want to escape.
You just summed up my personal experience on this journey with such accuracy it almost feels like you are just talking to ME! Everyone who believes themselves to be on the TF journey should watch this. Thank you for all you do!
I agree with 💯, I’m dealing with a high level soulmate and a twin at the same time… I can tell the difference…
@@Boba_Cat161 Seems you people are just throeizing sbout twin flame and just dont know the truth.
And what is the truth@@humanactivated1017
@@humanactivated1017I would really like to know the truth. 😊 You need to theorize a bit so as not to succumb to some illusion and destroy your life. I'm really looking for the truth. I'm not in a relationship with him and I won't be.
Your twin flame can also be your soulmate. Mine is.
Yeah, it happens although I’ve heard it’s pretty unusual. However I think most twins should be with the other half the issue is who puts in the work to make that happen.
I was looking for this response
How’s it going now
I love him for his kindness, his gentle stroke, his tender touch. He’s very loving and empathetic. He’s considerate and his smile lifts me up and his eyes kiss my soul. He’s so sweet. He has a masculine energy that is subordinate to the feminine energy. I also love him bc of his realness. HES vulnerable with me. He knows I can see his imperfections. He has 6 kids, five women.
We laugh about it bc he has a 7 year old and he’s 46…inside joke. All the others are grown except the last two
In his flaws and trials and tribulations he still smiles and takes care of all of his kids!!! I LOVE that about him.
His trials remind me of a King David type
He’s searching for love and gets easily distracted with himself
Whatever he’s doing to cause him to not stay in relationships is boggling me
He wants to be on some king behavior but I think he’s tired of it
He cried in my arms, I love him bc he’s authentic and lovely laced in so many flaws
Yet, he still commands respect
I love him for him
I love the way he makes me feel but his ambiguous communication and fear causes me to doubt.
Yesterday I decided to stop chasing him
He’s so frustrated with life and exhausting works every single day, two jobs yet I think he is struggling with leaving his wife bc he confided that he loves her but she’s more of his friend. He went 365 days of no sex until me
In love him for helping me feel loved and love again
He also gets on my nerves 😁 too
Is that normal?
Being in the separation stage is teaching me how to self reflect and helping me to see me and what I need to heal
Rather he comes back or not, I needed to heal from so much of what my husband is putting me through
I am done done with my husband, he won’t let me go
Won’t sign the papers- he sucks the life out of my soul with his abuse
Yes, we still are married and I’m not ashamed of that bc marriage doesn’t mean love
It’s not the right time and I surrendered to the truth of he can’t love me rn bc I feel his pain
When he says “I’m exhausted” I feel it in my soul
It’s bigger than being exhausted from outer work, it’s an inner work
So now he’s running and I stopped chasing him
He told me that “how do you know that we weren’t meant to meet and then reconnect two years later”?
Idk
I’m so scared and full of fear bc I think I pushed him away
I’m working on it
Maybe I did bc I told him to go love his wife as best he could and take care of his house bc I don’t want to hurt her
I asked him why he stepped out and he said bc they are just friends and she wanted a baby and he gave her one
He’s easily influenced by “love” 😂
Been married twice and engaged once where he current wife is the one he broke off his engagement for
All of this I figured out just listening to him
He told me one day how he misses his dad so much and he is certain if he was still here he would not have “all these damn kids”
I see he is lonely, fragile, loyal to an extent but yea that’s why I love him
True !!!!!! its a Hard Path Twin Flame Journey..Very..Hard..
You are a life saver❤I’m not going to talk about what I went through with my TF, but it has been 3 years of horrific fights with me ego. You and Kurt Johnson are the best TF coaches
🙏🙏
Where did you land now after 3 years of this process?
I have to disagree about not wanting to be on a twin flame journey. Its been crazy. Its been hard...but amazing 😂
Same, understanding the whole phenomenon helps to see the cosmic beauty of the journey ( it's so messed up tho😂)
Haha I also love the crazy fuck up 😂 and felling my ego getting scattered - crawling around but then rising in Selflove… I love beeing confronted by myself
You have just started on your journey, I can tell. I was like you once.
But as time goes on (years) and your twin flame still is not learning their lessons, hurting you and still not ready to be with you, it makes you angry and tired; it’s the same thing over and over with them. It goes nowhere.
You realize you have wasted your time on someone who refuses to get their stuff together, and you’re not wasting any more time on them.
TBH, I don't wish that I wasn't in the twin flame journey, ever.
I love it, especially the pain and the subsequent glory it accompanies.
It's vivacious. It opens the eyes with the decree of god, so why wouldn't you ever wish to be on this voyage?
I thought I would watch several videos to answer this question but there is no need to go further. Everything you said resonated with me and explained what I have been trying so hard to explain to myself. Thank you thank you my over analytical Libra mind can accept this🥰
Karmics and Twinflames are more similar then Soulmates and twinflames
100
For me personally, I feel I have grown and evolved a lot with my high level soulmate.
He helps me accept parts of myself that I feel ashamed of. Since being with him I have learned to quiet down the ego more whereas being obsessed with my twin and holding onto the connection while he ran for 9 years was nothing but filled with suffering.
Perhaps everyone has different journey and perhaps not all soulmate will feed your ego.
Some might actually grow and evolve with you.
My twin is still in his karmic journey, learning lessons and we have had very few 3D interaction.
I felt called to let go of this connection as I felt so suffocated holding on and didnt let go till he got married.
I cannot connect with the thought that soulmates will always feed your ego and keep you in that ego filled mindset. Maybe since your twin and you arent ready (for their own reason), a soulmate might be better suited to help support your growth in the current lifetime if your higher self feels that to be right for you
I realized I replied to the choosing a soulmate here instead of the other video.
As for this video, yes if I could do it all over again I wish I wasnt on a twin flame journey. I wish I had prioritized myself instead of running after a man for 9 years of my life. Its no journey for the faint hearted. I will always have love for him but I have lost all desire to unite with him in this life. My soul feels we are content in our soulmate connection, in many ways I felt my soulmate was far more evolved and emotionally mature than my twin flame. I think he is choosing to stay in the karmic journey and I think I am choosing to grow with the man who is choosing to grow with me. Thats what feels right at this moment. Maybe in next lifetime we might be more ready for this challenging journey. Maybe this life will prepare us.
When it comes to the TF journey, you have really helped me align with my higher self. I have a small channel myself and I include your lessons and a link to your video (TF or obsession) as well. I hope it reaches those who need to hear from you ❤
Love and light to you ✨
Aw, that's very awesome, and thank you for sharing my content! All of my best and highest vibrations to you! 🙏
I love this video so much! It helped me, but i also realized i can’t answer all of the questions with black and white answers. I’m still learning about my person and the journey we are on. I’m so intrigued to learn more. I plan on buying your book. Thank you!🙏 🤍
I finally unrestored what you said,thank you so much for your help..I never met my twin physically as you say I wasn't ready and I think I am still not .I always wondered why it didn't work out ? The universe through me in many karmic relationships over and over ..I just didn't get it .the last karmic relationship was painful although it was a friendship.I learned the lesson I finally had no resentments or regret I am just grateful for the lesson that this woman thought me .I went through my all relationship literally wrote all the names and I found the same lessons over and over .I have no fear of more karmic or soulmates If my higher self thinks I still need more slaps 😂 I am ready.thank you for your videos.
Thanks for sharing your knowledge ❤ can't wait to find out why tfs can’t have kids together)
My request list is currently about 6 months long, but it's on there
@@wearethesamenergywe will stay tuned))
I’m actually dealing with a high level soulmate and a twin. I cannot agree with you more. It’s funny how the universe intricately weave my faith to have them both at the same time. No sexual things going on yet with both. It’s crazy and mind bugling, that these stuff could really happened. I feel happier when I’m with my soulmate and my twin like what you said cut my existence with a jagged knife…. Just wow, now I know I’m not crazy or just assuming. Thank you 🙏♥️
@kolbypugh475 I think @Boba_Cat161 means they've got both a Twin and a Soulmate (two separate people) in their life right now. Meaning, dating two different people.
@@kolbypugh475 Ah. No, it's not. It's one or the other 🙂
I am facing the exact same situation at the moment. It seems that the universe wants us to create a poly relationship. 😂😂😂😂😂
My twin is everything I said I didnt want after ending my long term relationship 😂 Everything I judged from my upbringings conditioning she is. It's hilarious - the universe is comical-due to the break down of my ego I understand now what unconditional love is - I love her and always will regardless. It is not comfortable- every 3d challenge is there - people do not approve - it's so intense I got ejected twice already. Jagged like a chainsaw 😂. Interestingly - she seems more comfortable around me and I am just wanting to run hide - energetically I long for her ❤ I am writing a book because it's been wild + is actually hilarious! A literal rainbow burst out over my head once when I was near her + I just died of embarrassment. Now Im finding peace + look forward to facing her yet again - because now I have faced myself - the reflection will be different 🎉
Thank you
I got it, thats why they dont last:
Twin Flames...Soulmates do...
So, I've thought for a while that I'm married to my soulmate and that the other "great love" of my life is my twin flame. After this video, I'm still sure that's correct. Although, the first time I heard my twin flame talk, I literally sat up and looked at him because I felt like I knew him...somehow. It didn't feel past life...just a connection. And when we were together, alone, it felt like the world just went away. There was a sense of peace, but I always journal about how, with that peace there's a "hum of electricity." I always refer to my husband as "my cozy fireplace" and my twin flame as "my lightning bolt"--now I know why.
Love it!!!!!! Its True!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've not had a Twin Flame connection as far as I'm aware of. I've had a past soulmate I had to let go of as he had frustrated me a lot but had a very special connection and that special comfort. Felt like knew forever and can't explained..
Like before time. Now someone new I might have found a soul mate connection with. Sadly couple hour drive distance. But soon as we hugged.. I felt safe and comfortable. The two us seem to have the best chemistry I've had with anyone. Definitely a lot that we agree to and relate a lot and much interest relations yet ofc each unique.
Can't wait to see where things go. But I really do feel very connected after that 10 hour date!
Hi Alexx🤩
Can you please explain what you mean about the phrase “when you meet the twin, it’s game over”?
You generally don't want to be with anyone else once you've met the Twin
I believe we have a twin flame whom we love but our soulmate is whom we can’t live without. You will drown. They are who you want. I see a twin flame as a brother or sister ..
Spiritual twin you show them who they are in spirit, that's why soul mates are more family based as in siblings, whilst twin flames have differences so that's why there's sometimes a spiritual battle isn't really the same as the physical
Hello 👋 Why is personal consultation not available? Is it something with my browser, or it’s for real?
My books are closed currently
I only say help inside my heart and speechless when she ask what do you want and need from my her, I have no need, and she cries, and my heart say help 😂😂😂 like a cat meowing heeelpp
yes it’s game over 😂
Hi, thanks again for a wonderful video! I have a few questions: 1) What do you mean by 'Union with the Self' / what is 'the Self'? (the Higher Self/the Universe?) 2) Can you explain a 'soulmate plus karmic' (or do you have videos about this)?.
And thank you for explaining why we love this person (our TF). I could never, and still, not answer that question for myself.. I thought that something must be wrong. Your explanation on this gives a feeling of relief.
And do you have a video about dealing with triggers in a Twin Flame connection or will you be making one?
Ack, I replied to this and for some reason it didn't get posted, so I hope it doesn't post twice. These are great questions. 1) My videos "The Purpose of Twin Flames," "What Does TF Union Feel Like (in the 5D)?" and "Twin Flames: Look at the Macro" should all explain this. 2) I do not have a full video on Soulmate + Karmic, but I explain a lot about them in my book (which is also about your first question). But they're basically a Soulmate base with Karmic tumultuousness on top. 3) What do you mean by "dealing with triggers" specifically?
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you for your explanation and the tips!❤️
By 'triggers' I mean the strong emotions that arise (and the obsessive thoughts that arise from them), within and outside the interaction with my TF. I feel like I often get stuck in these strong and overwhelming thoughts and feelings. Somehow I believe that they can also be important 'messengers', pointing out where I still need to heal and love myself more. I now also practice meditation and mindfulness. But I still find it difficult to deal with a 'trigger' / to get ‘unstuck’ from the feelings and thoughts, and to learn the possible lessons from it (?). Do you know which tools or practices I could use? And why does it feels like my TF is the person who triggers me the most?
@@Tiilii1997 Are you new to the TF journey?
@@wearethesamenergy Yes, I think so! I discovered all this just 4 months ago, short after my TF and I separated
Okay, you're about to hear a loooooot of conflicting information out there about this journey, so just remember to take a breath and ground yourself. Find a few people who teach about them who you like, and know you have a community of support here!
Can you do a video for widows and widowers who have lost a twin or soulmate in thus incarnation?
It's actually coming out Wednesday!
Is it possible to be with a twin flame that is also your soulmate???
I just lost my husband and I had traits, signs and alike of both being the case.
I'm so sorry for your loss. No, they cannot be the same. I talk about intricate differences and details in my book if you're interested in going deeper
Omg. Jagged like a chainsaw !!! Yes.
Can somebody get me out of dis twin flame i cant take it anymore
what if I found a soulmate during TF separation ??
"Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame"
Now i know why im crying buckets of tears , this piece of crap twin flame shit has me considering just ending up myself! So frustrating and hateful relationship, i really pray and hope i can get rid of this twin flame
You might want to watch "Twin Flame versus Karmic"
Awesome video!!! ❤
Game over ❤
I am able to answer the question why i love my best friend..I have a lot to say .but I have zero answer when it comes to my twin
I have a question 😊🙏🏻
Namaste Alex,
Can you please talk about twinflames and birthcharts?🙏
How does it feel when you separate from your twin?
Thank you for All the wisedom 🙏
I would love to talk about Twin Flames and natal charts, but it's too dense of a topic and I am not a professional astrologer. I talk about natal charts a lot in my book, though. Regarding how it feels when in separation from the Twin, I would suggest going through my Twin Flames playlist and watching a bunch of them.
@@wearethesamenergy
Thank you Alex; I will ✨🍀
Correct me if I'm wrong, a soul mate is a member of the soul family. There can be many souls in the soul family and each member is called a soul mate..Am I right?
Pls help in understanding this too - do we always feel the strong connection with every member of the soul family or only some members?
Could u pls make a video on soul recognition in TF or this can happen with soul family too..
I would suggest watching my videos "What is the Soul Family?" Part 1 & 2, also "The Purpose of Twin Flames," then just go through my playlists. Or, my book explains everything in greater detail
Very interesting video today. 🤔
When the runner feels comfortable or "safe" around us and believe that they have known the chaser is that just them feeling the self? He said he already knew me. And i just thought he was crazy, but that was in the beginning before i awakened.
The Runner usually feels safe or "at home" at first (I talk about this in my videos "The Twin Flame 'Stages'" and "Meeting the Twin Flame"). However, "knowing the person" usually points to a Soulmate + Karmic
Im just seeing this! He did say he felt safe and that i would be perfect if i was not so mean. Wanted the relationship first and ive had all the signs and connection energy. But the self love for no reason and enlightenment isnt triggered by soulmates, right? Even if he is a soulmate+karmic it doesnt matter.
So what’s the best type of mate
"Best" is subjective. So what's the "best" for your Ego and what will make you grow, learn, and expand?
I prefer my soulmate then
Never wanna meet my twin :)
My twin flame is a hot mess & I’m full of love & hate. It’s brutal! However, we’re in different countries & loving the separation because it’s too intense. 😂❤
Would soulmates mirror in their thoughts (with no way of knowing what the other person thinks and does)? Even something like thinking about joining a monastery, so not a fairly common thought.
Yes, Soulmates can have the same thoughts. They're very prominent in Ego, which are thoughts
@@wearethesamenergy ah, interesting! It’s been a bit weird and I was really hoping not to have met my TF to be honest. Not in this time especially
Can soulmates be best friends? I mean not just romantic partners
Absolutely
John Deacon and his wife, Veronica are soulmates, NOT twin flames 💅🏻👗👠💍
How do you know all that?
Jagged like a chainsaw💀RIP
I have questions…😅
Can a childhood BFF be my TF?
Been BFFs for over 23 years. Met at church.
Even his mother and my aunt (like my mother) thought we would be together one day, but his mother was against it. Mind you, we never had a romantic relationship mainly because I now realized I was the runner, but it was obvious we had a special bond since the age of 13.
We both married young (been married over 14 years) and have children (he even named one after me).
We kept in touch, but barely, but out of respect for our spouses. Even after moving to another state 9 years ago. Even been through several times of lengthy separations but seem to always find our ways back to each other as if there hasn’t been a connection gap/breaks throughout the years.
We’ve always had a “secret” romantic connection but never really openly expressed to each other or anyone and acted on it since we married others.
We recently found/realized we are going through the same difficult situations in our marriages (almost like a mirror situation) and feel we’re at the end of the line.
And even like that, we don’t say anything about getting together, cause deep down inside we know we need a break to heal.
We both know we have a special/deep connection, a different kind of love that will transcend any distance, time and our spouses.
I learnt that my spouse is definitely and absolutely my soulmate, but I’ve been yearning for a more deeper connection for the past nearly 4 years, feeling the emptiness cause I know I’m not where I’m supposed to be. 😢
In the past 4 years I’ve had what I could only explain as my spiritual awakening and I don’t find any spiritual connection with my spouse, whom I love so much.
I guess I’m hoping to get some clarification or even validation. 🤷🏼♀️
No, that's a Soulmate
@@wearethesamenergy I guess I still have so much to learn. 🤦🏼♀️ Perhaps he’s not out there for me during this lifetime. But then, why the longing and yearning?
Can ya twin flame hurt you? Anyway shape or form or soulmates
Please watch videos on my Karmic playlist
@wearethesamenergy thank you
Holy Cow. I had it wrong all along
Make sure to watch my other one: "Twin Flame versus Karmic" 🙂
Hello Alexx love if you can answer this as i havnt seen anywhere
When i met my last love
We felt our hearts vibrate together at the same time
Just before we were departing
We both mentioned it to each other
It felt in the body and out of the body at same time
Have you heard of this
Can you tell me what it could be or means
Biologically, heart beats sync up naturally when you're around someone, especially touching. Energetically, it's the heart chakra being activated.
Why would the heart chakra be activated ?
I feel it happened to remind our egos there is something here
This has attributes of twin flame i see from your videos
That comment the chainsaw yes
And when asked why do you love me i just said i love.. YOU also
Or is it just personal thing
Thank you for response❤
This was 4 and half yrs ago
We met for 6 months of intensity and extreme ups n downs
It hasn't felt right to meet someone else
I do my research and I feel the inner alchemy
Maybe I'll look for guidance when you reopen books
Wow. OK. Great video.. Yes, I am with my twin flame then I recon.. My soul mate, (is there just one? Hope not) passed away just recently. I couldn't feel attracted to him physically unfortunately and he had a lot of health problems. I had been attracted to him once. We were together before I went to Uni.. Now in my early 40s, have a beautiful son (luckily, not with my twin flame) but, strangely enough, I feel my twin flame is my son's soul father then. Madness.. He's very, very, triggering to me and almost got him to move out once.. Very attracted to one another physically. He's very funny, very arrogant and very triggering.. Yes, I love him. Why?😮😅
There are many Soulmates. You can watch my Soulmate + Soul Tribe playlist to learn more about them
Twin Ghosting!!!!!!!
omggggggg
When I paused the video to answer the question, I thought, because he’s beautiful like me. Then I unpaused and agreed with all of your answers. Funny thing is he is all those things but I didn’t think of not one of those answers on my own. 😫 this journey sucks and it’s affecting my parenting. I binge watch your content in my free time to have a better idea of what I need to do but I’m still uncertain.
💔💔 I'm sorry you're having such a rough time on your journey. I'd be happy to put you on my waiting list for a consultation if you'd like. Just send an email via my website.
Umm there seems two theories of twin flame: That it is absolute pain (like this one) and that it is the greatest union there is. I lean on the latter theory, since twin flame should be better and higher version of soulmate...? I mean this whole pain theory sounds like it is rather a karmic relationship - and what about old soul TFs?
Not all Karmic relationships are painful by any means, and the Twin Flame journey is considered painful based on how the Ego interprets things and how much control it has.
@@wearethesamenergy So it could be entirely possible that there isn't much or any drama between twin flames based on how much they have worked ego? Or if there is (self-)doubt it is very subtle? I mean something intuitively tells me it could be possible and also if tf really is one's mirror and there isn't much or any shit to face, how intense the connection could then be? I mean maybe I am being too idealistic, but seeing this world resembles the movie idiocracy more and more maybe believing in a beautiful dream however improbable isn't so bad...
My wife feels like she has met her twin flame because shes explained how her body feels like she was having a orgasm just by being around him. She cheated on me with him and i am learning about all of fhis after and i have been completely heartbroken ever since and this new info about twin flame is depressing in my end. I love her so much. She has labeled me as her soulmate but i have been telling her before her encounter with her tf about the same feelings i feel with her and how the energy with her feels so unreal that I cant explain it. Ive realized that she has been blocking me out because of the reality of the 3D realm, family, kids and eveyday life in general. My love for her is undeniable and she knows this and feels the same way for me. This relationship we have on my end has never been from a physical aspect and i have explained this to her many times over our seven years of marriage. I really dont know how to exept how shes feeling about what it is she going through because of her past experiences putting a wall on our relationship and being with her so called tf she was free from all of what is reality of what is going on in our connection. Thats why i feel like this is an excuse more than anything else. Very confusing and sad. Our story goes back 20 years and we always kept on finding ourselves together again without effort until we said enough is enough and started our beautiful connection thats why this is all so confusing to me.
💔💔💔 I'm so sorry to hear you're having such a hard time on your Soulmate journey. I talk about everything you just said in many of my videos, so I'd first go watch Soulmate ones and then move onto Karmic and Twin Flame ones 🙏
If you meet your twin flame in this lifetime, based on what I've read and heard, it means you are on a journey to learn one of two core karmic lessons. So, is it possible to have met your twin flame in a previous lifetime without realizing they were your twin flame, or without having learned your core karmic lessons in that previous incarnation?
"Twin Flames and Past Lives"
I can talk with my twin for hours and hours.. and the sex its unbelievable extraordinary!! We are in the separation face.. but it's been amazing.. we both love to go deep in conversations and makes ourselves uncomfortables too but understanding ego and not letting us drive by it...
i understand about soulmates but finding my twin it's been beyond all the wonders in the world.. ❤ with all the triggering included (im scorpio so i love go deep 😅)
boy do I miss my chainsaw ~
😂😂😂💜
I think he is a twin flame. There are so many similarities that go on and on, and can't be coincidences. Very strange to me. I "accidentally" manifested him. We worked together. He was a co-worker/friend and not my type until the heart center activation when I " fell in love" with him. I don't know why I love him. I just do. We had a connection for four years, but I never felt at ease even though I knew he cared for me. He very slowly pulled away. He triggeted me in ways I thought were really dumb and annoying. Funny thing, after ego death I love him even though he dumped me for the karmic. NC for five months.Any other man would have been on my s**t list. I have continued focusing on my spiritual journey even though he crosses my mind from time to time.
Very similar to me. only a large age difference and attachment to old relationships preclude continuation. the first person I "forgave" so easily. Love from space straight from the heart chakra. Simply. but if I'm being honest; he had a nice sexy chest😜
Yes. I am 7 1/2 years older than he is, but we look the same age. We are old folks.I had a karmic ( a player) cheat on me when I was young. I kicked him to the curb and never looked back.
Hi Alexx!!! Thank you so much for your videos! 💞 I have a question: Could you go through the dark night of the soul after meet a soulmate? Thank you!!!
Yes! Watch my video "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family"
Great :D thanks! @@wearethesamenergy
You are confusing
I love him for his kindness, his gentle stroke, his tender touch. He’s very loving and empathetic. He’s considerate and his smile lifts me up and his eyes kiss my soul. He’s so sweet. He has a masculine energy that is subordinate to the feminine energy. I also love him bc of his realness. HES vulnerable with me. He knows I can see his imperfections. He has 6 kids, five women.
We laugh about it bc he has a 7 year old and he’s 46…inside joke. All the others are grown except the last two
In his flaws and trials and tribulations he still smiles and takes care of all of his kids!!! I LOVE that about him.
His trials remind me of a King David type
He’s searching for love and gets easily distracted with himself
Whatever he’s doing to cause him to not stay in relationships is boggling me
He wants to be on some king behavior but I think he’s tired of it
He cried in my arms, I love him bc he’s authentic and lovely laced in so many flaws
Yet, he still commands respect
I love him for him
I love the way he makes me feel but his ambiguous communication and fear causes me to doubt.
Yesterday I decided to stop chasing him
He’s so frustrated with life and exhausting works every single day, two jobs yet I think he is struggling with leaving his wife bc he confided that he loves her but she’s more of his friend. He went 365 days of no sex until me
In love him for helping me feel loved and love again
He also gets on my nerves 😁 too
Is that normal?
Being in the separation stage is teaching me how to self reflect and helping me to see me and what I need to heal
Rather he comes back or not, I needed to heal from so much of what my husband is putting me through
I am done done with my husband, he won’t let me go
Won’t sign the papers- he sucks the life out of my soul with his abuse
Yes, we still are married and I’m not ashamed of that bc marriage doesn’t mean love
It’s not the right time and I surrendered to the truth of he can’t love me rn bc I feel his pain
When he says “I’m exhausted” I feel it in my soul
It’s bigger than being exhausted from outer work, it’s an inner work
So now he’s running and I stopped chasing him
He told me that “how do you know that we weren’t meant to meet and then reconnect two years later”?
Idk
I’m so scared and full of fear bc I think I pushed him away
I’m working on it
Maybe I did bc I told him to go love his wife as best he could and take care of his house bc I don’t want to hurt her
I asked him why he stepped out and he said bc they are just friends and she wanted a baby and he gave her one
He’s easily influenced by “love” 😂
Been married twice and engaged once where he current wife is the one he broke off his engagement for
All of this I figured out just listening to him
He told me one day how he misses his dad so much and he is certain if he was still here he would not have “all these damn kids”
I see he is lonely, fragile, loyal to an extent but yea that’s why I love him