thank you so much for sharing this. my twinflame just died a few weeks ago through an accident ... it felt / still feels like the world was ripping apart. i've never had a connection like this in my life before with anyone else before. we were not in a romantic relationship anymore at the time because we decided we need to grow on our own so when i found out i was shattered because i didn't have like physical contact to him at the time if that makes sense. it's very enriching to still learn about the twinflame connection because it helps me understand what's going on and helps me coping a bit so thank you for sharing this video!
Oh my Cosmos, Geraldine, reading this message just made me start literally crying with compassion for you. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS and I cannot even imagine what you must be feeling. You are the strongest woman to manifest yourself and your Twin in a lifetime that you have to observe them transition. I'm so grateful that my video made even the smallest impact on you. All of my absolute best and highest vibrations go out to you ♥️♥️🙏🙏
Every video I’ve watched so far you’ve hit it on the nail, the patience part was exactly what I’ve been doing, I’ve been hearing messages from within to let go I will be ok, and it’s definitely thee most hardest thing I’m experiencing right now, apart of me feels really sad however I know have to do this.
This video is so helpful ❤ I am done with all these other stories: you need to embrace your feminine energy more, you need to be more patient, you need to give your TF time to fix his karmic situations.. as if I have to turn into a Buddha before I get my Twin Flame as a ‘prize’. It makes you feel so guilty for not being completely ‘enlightened’. After 3 years on this journey, I finally realize that I am already good the way I am and that this whole ‘connection’ was just created by me to realize this. 🤞🏻
I keep finding good twin flame RUclips channels and think - this is so good, no one is better than this. Then I find another and think - this is so good, no one is better than this. And I think - I’ve learned all the info the Internet has to say about twin flames, there can’t be more, but then I learn more! Well, your channel does both - it is a really great channel and is presenting new info I didn’t think possible. The universe keeps pointing me to new info I didn’t think was possible to learn.
Omfg... I needed this now and you just finally made perfect sense more than any coaching i've paid for...you are a legend and I can't ever Thank-you enough !!!! Now I can live again and do it right, for me and my soul ! They can never come back in if I don't rise up and be in total zen.
This is exactly what scares me. I am trapped in a toxic home life (due to narcissism) and I can not afford to leave. I am no longer even functioning well enough to sustain myself financially. I have no idea how to overcome this and I have no expectations about my future of any kind whatsoever. I'm just lost.
I have had to watch this video a couple of times. Especially when the going gets tough and I need someone to remind me why I'm doing this and what it really is for. I love this video and I more "cheering us on" videos. They are so helpful as well as your book. Thank you and keep going.
Your page finally made it all click for me. After a whole year. Thank you. I get it now.... finally. You explain it so well. This incredibly wild painful beautiful transforming journey we are on!!!
This just blew my mind! I thought the same thing about my TF before I knew what the concept was. I thought he came into my life to teach me about patience. Mostly because I believed that patience was a virtue that I lacked. Just meeting my TF was a blessing or gift as you call it because before him, I was hyper fixated on getting into a relationship and it was a major blockage in every other area of my life. Now, I can release that fear of being alone and continue on with all the things I ever wanted to do that I neglected in search of my match. I can not thank you enough for making these videos. 🤍
Hahaha I was laughing thinking of my ego screaming to get them back I am practicing that stillness - sometimes I think this journey isn't real but I've let go of 6 friendships in the last year and have literally no material things and am absolutely peaceful & content than ever before
I am on a twin flame journey for 2.5 years now. And while I am sure that he is my twin, when we talked about it he denied it. Even worse. Said someone else was his twin. Then I started just denying that twin flames even exist myself but just a few weeks ago things about twin flames kept popping up again in my life / feed …. And I am convinced that he is my twin. It all makes sense. What is just so heartbreaking for me is that he denies it, he doesn’t want to be my friend and he even says that he doesn’t think we will ever have a deep connection again. He’s also dating someone else. It hurts me so much for him to say this after everything we have been through I honestly can’t believe it. He says he’s changed and it’s just how he is now. Pain pain pain for me while he’s living the dream life (3D) I know. But it seems like he hasn’t done any work. Doesn’t even believe in 5D. Or is he just saying that? I’m really entirely exhausted to the point that I wish that I would have never met him. All attempts from my side to meet someone new and forget about him failed. I know it all sounds like I still have a lot to learn. I know I did learn a lot already but I just finally want to be done with it or at least for him to give us the opportunity to have an open minded conversation about it. Unfortunately he is still “running”. Even though I feel him, sometimes I have thoughts which I know are not mine. Sometimes when I close my eyes I see situations with him and me, situations I would normally never think about or plan to have. I know those are his thoughts. I’m just wondering WHY is he so cold and stubborn to me. I guess I still have to do a lot of work on my ego and self love. And while I do not want to play the victim but I do feel it slightly unfair that I have to do all the work, go through all the pain and illness because of it while he just continues with his life :(
Thank you - I had a perfect aha moment...I was confused why this longing reappeared when I have been in a really good place with this separation...EGO - thats the only part that is screaming and aching. It is confusing having such intense heart pain but now I'm realizing this pain is actually coming from my ego's suffering?! This is enlightening...
Twin flame is good but it can be painful emotional 😭 the energy is so strong like my twin flame she was hurting emotional and I felt it physically by right side of my heart started hurting for few seconds and when she cries I feel tears coming down my face. I’m been patient as the saying good things happen to those who are patient I used to cry first time she ghosted me my emotions where all over the place but as time goes on I stopped crying and now when she ghosts me runs I don’t cry I’m just get spiritual I’m ready for union when she returns back to me . She’s sent me signs like on a twin flame video on here RUclips the words I love you came up 3 times and lady didn’t mention I love you it was just for me because my friend watched RUclips video and he didn’t see any I love you
thank for sharing this video. I wasn’t able to understand other videos around this practicing patience around separation. I hope I will be able to implement atleast lil bit on this journey. When I detach myself, I dont feel energy of my twin, and that triggers my ego and the whole cycle starts.
Yep, I recall liking this one.. I remember relating to the "bowels of emotional hell" and having IBD, well I def understand this on many a multifaceted level lol. I def see where Im waiting on myself to stop being resistant to this whole dynamic AF lol! Also appreciating the reprieve of the energetic "chaos" ie are we vibing or imbalanced today lol. 12:12
But had to be honest I have going through a monumental spiritual awakening and gone back to who I have always been, after being stuck in a limbo for years❤
I come back to this video every time I feel my ego beginning to sting and the urge to reach out to my twin comes up, for whatever reason. I will say that I'm proud to be in a state where I only wish to reach out to him to celebrate what work I've done so far and share that unconditional love in hopes that my changes reflect in his 3D life and incarnation. However, as you've said before, it's hard not to hope that we'll be in a 3D relationship someday again in the future. This is the part that confuses me about Union, I think. I've come far in my own work and recognize now the path I need to take to become the best version of myself that I can be in this manifestation, and as an extension of myself and my energy, I hope the same for my twin, so, in a sense, am I not choosing to do the work with my twin? I would choose to be with him again in a heartbeat in the 3D plane, so how can physical Union be so elusive and not always reached in this incarnation? Also sorry for jumping around your videos and leaving comments, my ego has been loud tonight, so I've returned asking questions, haha!
Same for me. I am really struggling to keep the urge to contact her under control. The Universe sent me the message: "Trust the process!". On some days the pain of separation is driving me nuts, on others I see clearly the necessitiy to care for myself in the best possible way. Back and forth, like a rollercoaster
How?!?! Do you or does anyone have a video on the HOW? How much more healing and what do I need to heal; and how do I go about doing so?? For 10 years i have practiced regular mediation, rain or shine, sickness or health, everyday sometimes twice a day. I commune with my higher power, everyday, and have for years. Affirmations everyday for years, just started a new round of affirmations after seeing your core karmic lessons video and seeing that, at least the past me if not the present, is a shoe in for self worth. I have journaled til my hands bled. I have been in therapy for years. I have completed so many rounds of 12 steps (3 years sober now), cleaning the wreckage of my past and getting my spiritual house in order. I exercise everyday without fail and have for years. I eat healthy. I take care of my child, my family, my friends, myself. I live in love and compassion for self and others. I have walked the darkness and lived to see the other side. I have taken a person I hated and turned him into the person i now love and am proud to be. How much more healing can I possibly do? Healing is a life long, constant process. We are never done. So, I do not understand what I am missing here. Daddy issues? Check, addressed, in constant practice of forgiveness. Self hatred? Check, addressed, healed and healing everyday of my life. Rape trauma? Check, addressed, forgiven, no longer even triggered. Be happy being alone? Well I had that down for decades, now I want to experience being happy with someone, or unhappy with someone. What is the "with someone" experience like? I waited 40 years for my first boyfriend, and didnt even get one, I got a twin flame engaged to someone else. I hate this journey. All I want now is a lousy dude on a couch drinking a beer and showing me how wonderful my life was single, then I can be done with all these feelings.
I went on the wrong temper tantrum. Not exactly relevant to the video. 🙄🙄 Oh well, still needed it out and answers. Corrected Tantrum: HOW do I release and let go? This has always been a struggle in all areas of my life, from spiritual mind treatment to 12 step work. Letting go "and letting god" has never been my strong point. Im so glad you said its not about practicing patients, because I have none, it is not a factory installed feature and its not one I am looking for aftermarket either. I will never pray for patients, because i do not care to have the lessons that will bring me the skill. I prefer to rage and get angry like a petulant child when something isnt happening quickly enough. My impatience is a character flaw, but also one of my greatest gifts. People tell me "you have so much energy" or "I wish I could bottle your energy" ummm no folks, its not energy, its impatience. I want to get to the good part of my day so I plow through the other stuff at top speed impatiently trying to get to the parts I prefer to experience. But the end result is everything got done, got done correctly and I still got to relax and enjoy as well.
I was stranded in Vegas without money phone or glasses. I was having to find the bus to the airport. Never been to the state of Nevada. Never rode a city bus. I was on the verge of panicking. I had to tell myself to chill the eff out and get it together. That’s not going to solve any thing. It took my entire inner being to tell my ego to stfu. God I’m flying through this journey ❤️❤️
Thank you so very much , for this much needed information in the message. I love the vacation view point of separation...because that's exactly the way I feel during this time of separation from my Twin Flame 🔥. Although, I feel that we are one; I made the mistake of once telling him that I felt that we're one. I say mistake because it only caused him to say that I was crazy 🤪. At the time I couldn't understand why he wasn't feeling what I was feeling. Especially since I felt him with me all the time, sometimes...I even expressed to him that I felt like when I was pregnant and my child was with me always...that's how I had began to feel towards him. He just listened to what I saying to him, because I couldn't explain to him how or why I felt that way. I even told him that as much as I wanted to be with him...I already felt complete from the time, I call it, that we were activated...and although we have not been intimate, I feel it's okay because I feel we have been together on another plain or in the spirit, I call it...somehow because I have felt him. I also told him to stop making love to me when I am driving down the street, it comes out of nowhere like something out of a movie and I know I am not crazy 🤪, because it's not about that it's more than that...that's the way I feel. Thanks again, my love 💓!
First of all, your Twin Flame videos are the best on RUclips. They're easy to understand and most realistic, so thank you for sharing your insights! My question on this video is what do you mean when you said we made the choice to manifest our twin in this reincarnation and we made the choice to be the chaser? All I ever wanted was a lifelong partner with common value system and interest - something that feels easy and comfortable. I didn't need the twin flame in the romantic sense because it hasn't been easy, at all. I never had to chase in my past romantic relationships and here I am finding myself in the chaser role. I wish I never met him in the romantic, longing to be together physically sense. Although, from a personal growth perspective, this has been the best self-reflection period/exercise I've ever been through and I'm working on closing the gaps I've discovered during the process. But at the end of this, I want to be free. I just want to take my lessons and run if he doesn't come to the realization that we're supposed to be together. I know I'm good for him and he has so much to offer. I just wish he has the strengths to see this in himself, that he's a wonderful human being, and win the battle against his own demons.
I'm glad my videos resonate with you! I see you're currently in a battle with the Ego. Remember that you are your Twin. You created everything. So if you're in this Ego and body as a Chaser, you chose to be so. NOT with the Ego, but the Higher Self. You were ready in this incarnation to come into Union, to learn the hard freaking lessons, to do the healing. And in another incarnation, you'll be the one attempting to run from yourself.
I read your book! And it all so true. So validating my twinflame journey. Wow! I still can’t believe it. Especially with the out of a sudden I love you in the beginning. I never told that anybody before and out of a sudden after so short time I say it the first time In my life 🤣🤣 That was hilarious to me … But it’s also so true I feel obsessed with this pull. I even tried the cutting cord. And then though I can’t do it I feel like cutting my self off and then you write it. How accurate can a book bee :D I read while writing here. And with every page I feel so validated.
@@jasmindinapoli9659 I'm so glad my book resonated with you, and thank you for your support in reading it! Regarding consultations, my books are currently closed, but you're welcome to write to me via my website and I'll get you on the waitlist
I hadn’t thought of patience in that way. I can appreciate that viewpoint. Isn’t it a compliment to me that I want to chase me?😅 I do walk away and focus on myself, but he never leaves my head. It’s not as intense as it was for quite some time, but there’s not a day that goes by I don’t think of him. I actually beg the universe to get him out of my head, so I can just focus on my own stuff, but I think the universe isn’t listening - jk😂 I am always working on healing, but I’m sooo burnt out on it. I hired a local spiritual awakening coach and am looking forward to meeting with him. I feel like I’m going through another mini dnots😩 My gawd, how many are there?! “…get through the bowels of emotional hell…”💯💯💯 Separation vacation…uhhh….definitely doesn’t feel like any vacation I’d pay for😅 “The shit storm of tf lessons…”💯💯💯
Great video. I wonder why we don't just call it 'awareness,' and forget about the whole 'twin' thing. Can you tell me what you personally mean by 'being the universe?" Do you mean like a "spark of God?" Also, what do you mean by 'growing' and expanding? We hear these things all the time but if there is no time in 5D, then we can only 'realize' ourselves.
Is it ‘’normal’’ feeling like gasping for air if I randomly see a picture or video of my twin on social media? Or a normal reaction should be ‘’feeling at peace as we are divenely united”
Can I ask a question? So if we are meant to grow individually, spiritually, and into our best independent selves during separation from our twin. Then what truly is the purpose of union? If we get so much from separation no matter how hard it is, why would we want to come together? If that’s truly the case, aren’t we both better off separated? To foster continuity of growth? Am I the only one with these thoughts?!
I can already feel the boredom happening. We just got into a seperation phase which will be longer then normal (this is how it feels) And Me imagining dating someone else feels exactly like this. My ego could be attracted (but this feels already to superficial) but my energy will be absolutely bored and not matched on the depth How do you deal with this beeing the chaser? 😂
I have gotten to a point where any interaction with people too much in the egoic realms just exhaust me and I have to sleep for 3 hours. Do you have a suggestion about how to get my high vibration back or perhaps a video on this? I've watched every single video that you have done and this is not Eco degradation as it just seems to be happening when I interact with someone who is stuck in 3d. I've already had several ego degradation so I'm very familiar with that entire process. This seems be occurring in situations even that I don't want to be in like my current work situation and or with people who I used to interact with and now I feel I have surpassed
If you decide to not be with your twin, can you change your mind later about getting back with them? I’m very new to all of this, so I’m sorry if this is a dumb question.
Is separation defined solely as not being physically together? I know many videos say the chaser should not reach out to the runner so does that apply at all times that twins are not in a committed relationship with each other? If we are not together but communicating pretty well, does this still apply (don't be the first to reach out?). I know a couple people who say they only send birthday greetings to each other once a year and have no contact besides that. Is it OK to wish your twin a Happy Birthday every year if you are in separation? I know I saw your video about why we want to reach out and tell them we are OK and that it's all ego based, but it's very hard to ignore them completely. I have not seen mine in person for almost 25 years. We have been raising the children we had with other partners.
I always encourage you to do whatever you feel is best for YOU, but be mindful of the reason you're doing it. You never need anyone's permission to do anything that you feel is best for you.
I feel obsessed I feel sick in the head idek if he is a twin flame this is all new and tbh I hate it karmic bond wasn’t this bad I mean it wasn’t this painful like how does someone feel so right but we can’t be together like I feel like the movie Hancock
How do I wrap my head around the concept that my TF, who does not exist, gave birth to three children? For the life of me, I am not understanding the part about my TF not existing. (I am autistic and therefore very literal, if it helps any).
If it helps, I literally mean that your Twin does not exist. It is all perception created by the Ego. Since your brain works well with concretes, you may want to read my book, because the entire first chapter is on the science behind all of this 🙏
Why do they even have a soulmate as a option?So where the trust when this is reason we broke up That's doesn't makes any since to me.And what am I the chaser have to do sit and no have someone too
Iam the chaser and i want to focus on myself but whenever i start caring for myself my twin comes back and the circle go back on Can i ask him not to talk to me again cause it hurts me whenever he withdraw again and im tired of the on and off sit
Is it not egoic to think that we manifested this person? Idk it kinda makes me feel a little better but I feel like Im simply telling myself that as a way to cope.
I ask this question from a place of genuine curiosity and confusion: How do twins ever unite if both continuously fight the urge to reach out under the pretext that the urge is egoic or a form of chasing? Surely for every reunion someone has to reach out eventually or separation would continue forever. My twin and I don't have a clear-cut runner/chaser nor DF/DM dynamic. I ran but I also chased, and we are both women but identify as nonbinary and embody both feminine and masculine energy depending on the situation, so it's unclear which one of us would-- based on the typical twin flame stages-- be the one to reach out and end separation. Now nearing the 2-year mark of separation, I am starting to experience the things that people describe as signs that separation is almost over. I'm finally content with my own life and pursuing my dreams and passions, I don't feel lonely and in pain when thinking about our connection, I feel an increasing sense of peace. But I do also have the urge to reach out. Is that a sign that I still have healing to do or a sign that union is now possible?
I would need to hear your entire story to give personalized information. But don't believe it when people say there are signs to separation being over. There aren't. 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy That's helpful, there is so much conflicting information out there about twin flames and I only just accepted that this is what's happening a couple months ago so I'm rather lost. I keep telling myself that regardless of whether I'm the runner or chaser, whether separation is almost over or not, focusing on my own life and really enjoying the peace I'm finally feeling is the only path forward. But there is a strong part of me that wants definitive confirmation (the need for control is the biggest hurdle I've faced over this now 6-year journey). But I'm glad I found your channel and thanks for the response.
It's great that you are living your life, and I understand the Ego's need for control. I am actually releasing a video in January that talks about how much conflicting information there is out there. I know how frustrating it is 🙏
Oh i dont have to choose.They always want to call the shots.This was her gag or feelings or revenge .Which one i dont know,because i have not heard a word iut her mouth and she continues to ghost me.U beed to know what her agenda,because u dont have time and im definitely not for the games.
I respect your perspective based on your experience but, I wholeheartedly disagree. I have known my twin flame for 35 years. The connection has ALWAYS been unrivaled and magnetic but we weren’t able to connect in a more substantial way until 3 years ago. What I can tell you is that even before we got together more seriously 3 years ago, every single time I have been around him, THAT is when my spiritual gifts activate and flourish. Away from him, my growth slows down tremendously and occasionally stagnates (though I’m one who is always learning and growing regardless). With him, I’m the strongest, healthiest, most vibrant and happiest version of me. Every time I’m around him, my Clair senses grow stronger and I recognize gifts I never understood previously. The problem is, sometimes, he gets triggered by my rapid growth and it’s like he gets jealous and tries to slow me down. So he sabotages and creates problems where there doesn’t need to be any at all. He’s scared of the changes he’d have to make in his life. A lot of that is also due to his conditioning and our history, which is unusual and complicated. But regardless, together we both are stronger when he allows it.
@@wearethesamenergy that my ego still dominates all the situation. Still is louder than the voice of my heart and soul. I love my TF but sometimes I doubt all the process of coming closer. The separation takes 7 years and he started a family in that time and even got married. I am losing trust, hope and sometimes feel waves of anger that I cannot move and live my life again without wanting him still back…
@@wearethesamenergy yes, I did and actually I am following these tips. Still, there is a huge part of fear in me which I would love to release… any idea/video how?
I would need to know more about what you're fearful about and where it comes from. If you want, book a consultation with me on my website and we can chat!
I like your videos but the "choice" thing - hmm I don't think it's a choice we make because no matter how long you get no contact and separated, without doing anything and "NOT KNOWING" about it, it's going to knock at your door
You always have a choice. You may not like the choices presented to you, but you still have them. You have a choice to obsess, stalk, and ruminate. You have the choice to practice non-attachment. You have a choice to be with the person in the 3D when they come back. You have a choice to make yourself fully unavailable to them in the 3D. You always have choices. Don't allow the Ego to make you believe you're stuck. 🙏
No offense but how do you make love with yourself when you re missing your twin flame so much that your heart is wrenching. according to you , your twin it's you , your twin it's there with you.. "You re waiting around for yourself" ??...if that's the case WHY WOULD YOU EVEN NEED THE OTHER PERSON AROUND ...??? I wish that I could agree with you and ease my pain by just ONLY loving myself..YOU ARE NOT MAKING ANY SENSE UNFORTUNATELY WITH THAT THEORY, Nobody would need anybody else to love if what you saying it's true.. You are missing the TOUCH the hugs ,the smell, the voice, the presence of your twin flame , the way they Love You ,...How can you replace all that with your theory????
thank you so much for sharing this. my twinflame just died a few weeks ago through an accident ... it felt / still feels like the world was ripping apart. i've never had a connection like this in my life before with anyone else before. we were not in a romantic relationship anymore at the time because we decided we need to grow on our own so when i found out i was shattered because i didn't have like physical contact to him at the time if that makes sense. it's very enriching to still learn about the twinflame connection because it helps me understand what's going on and helps me coping a bit so thank you for sharing this video!
Oh my Cosmos, Geraldine, reading this message just made me start literally crying with compassion for you. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS and I cannot even imagine what you must be feeling. You are the strongest woman to manifest yourself and your Twin in a lifetime that you have to observe them transition. I'm so grateful that my video made even the smallest impact on you. All of my absolute best and highest vibrations go out to you ♥️♥️🙏🙏
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I feel like I’m not whole. Need to move on it seems. Life does have a way of telling you to move on
I’m here if you wanna share
Every video I’ve watched so far you’ve hit it on the nail, the patience part was exactly what I’ve been doing, I’ve been hearing messages from within to let go I will be ok, and it’s definitely thee most hardest thing I’m experiencing right now, apart of me feels really sad however I know have to do this.
All this twin flame journey is painful af, but leading to -I feel that- the transcendence of the ego-concept.
Omg 😳 so sad
This video is so helpful ❤ I am done with all these other stories: you need to embrace your feminine energy more, you need to be more patient, you need to give your TF time to fix his karmic situations.. as if I have to turn into a Buddha before I get my Twin Flame as a ‘prize’. It makes you feel so guilty for not being completely ‘enlightened’. After 3 years on this journey, I finally realize that I am already good the way I am and that this whole ‘connection’ was just created by me to realize this. 🤞🏻
YES! 🙏🙏
I love how you put that. lol They really do make you feel like you have to be Buddha to unite with your TF. 😂
I keep finding good twin flame RUclips channels and think - this is so good, no one is better than this. Then I find another and think - this is so good, no one is better than this. And I think - I’ve learned all the info the Internet has to say about twin flames, there can’t be more, but then I learn more! Well, your channel does both - it is a really great channel and is presenting new info I didn’t think possible. The universe keeps pointing me to new info I didn’t think was possible to learn.
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Omfg... I needed this now and you just finally made perfect sense more than any coaching i've paid for...you are a legend and I can't ever Thank-you enough !!!! Now I can live again and do it right, for me and my soul ! They can never come back in if I don't rise up and be in total zen.
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This is exactly what scares me. I am trapped in a toxic home life (due to narcissism) and I can not afford to leave. I am no longer even functioning well enough to sustain myself financially. I have no idea how to overcome this and I have no expectations about my future of any kind whatsoever. I'm just lost.
You are the best, and I am choosing myself over and over again, for my continuous self-healing.
I have been on a "Twin flame vacation" for over 8 years😂❤🙏
I know what you mean. I have not spoken to mine in two years and I have not seen her face to face in more than 30 years now.
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Wow this is amazing. Interesting point of view
Grateful to come across it. Much ❤️ love
I have had to watch this video a couple of times. Especially when the going gets tough and I need someone to remind me why I'm doing this and what it really is for. I love this video and I more "cheering us on" videos. They are so helpful as well as your book. Thank you and keep going.
I love the way you teach these life lessons. Thanks a lot.
Damn!!! I'm so with you on this! You, you're good!!! I get all of this, 100 %. Thank you!!!
Your page finally made it all click for me. After a whole year. Thank you. I get it now.... finally. You explain it so well. This incredibly wild painful beautiful transforming journey we are on!!!
Yay, I'm so glad they resonated!!
I literally will call it that from now on, vacation. Thank you for this
P.S. your videos are beautiful, amazing, and honestly life changing. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR WHAT YOU DO! Bless you
I'm glad they're resonating!
Another beautiful video! Someone has said genius is infinite patience! But being infinitely patient means to just be!
You have no how helpful you have been to me.TY for your light and clarity on this very connection that can be so challenging to say least. 👌🏾
I'm so glad my videos are resonating!
Omg! You are the best! This is by far the best explanation in two years…❤❤❤❤❤
I'm so glad it helped
This just blew my mind! I thought the same thing about my TF before I knew what the concept was. I thought he came into my life to teach me about patience. Mostly because I believed that patience was a virtue that I lacked. Just meeting my TF was a blessing or gift as you call it because before him, I was hyper fixated on getting into a relationship and it was a major blockage in every other area of my life. Now, I can release that fear of being alone and continue on with all the things I ever wanted to do that I neglected in search of my match. I can not thank you enough for making these videos. 🤍
I’m feeling it! Fighting twin flame vacation. I’ll never give up. I have my path
Just make sure your path honors you and not just your TF journey. You are the most important thing 🙏
Hahaha I was laughing thinking of my ego screaming to get them back
I am practicing that stillness - sometimes I think this journey isn't real but I've let go of 6 friendships in the last year and have literally no material things and am absolutely peaceful & content than ever before
@shannondegnan294 Amazing that you are so peaceful and content! I have also been a practicing minimalist for over a decade 🙏
I can't believe I just saw this message. Watch my video next week about severe Ego Degradation. I talk about minimalism!
I am on a twin flame journey for 2.5 years now. And while I am sure that he is my twin, when we talked about it he denied it. Even worse. Said someone else was his twin. Then I started just denying that twin flames even exist myself but just a few weeks ago things about twin flames kept popping up again in my life / feed …. And I am convinced that he is my twin. It all makes sense. What is just so heartbreaking for me is that he denies it, he doesn’t want to be my friend and he even says that he doesn’t think we will ever have a deep connection again. He’s also dating someone else. It hurts me so much for him to say this after everything we have been through I honestly can’t believe it. He says he’s changed and it’s just how he is now. Pain pain pain for me while he’s living the dream life (3D) I know. But it seems like he hasn’t done any work. Doesn’t even believe in 5D. Or is he just saying that? I’m really entirely exhausted to the point that I wish that I would have never met him. All attempts from my side to meet someone new and forget about him failed.
I know it all sounds like I still have a lot to learn. I know I did learn a lot already but I just finally want to be done with it or at least for him to give us the opportunity to have an open minded conversation about it. Unfortunately he is still “running”. Even though I feel him, sometimes I have thoughts which I know are not mine. Sometimes when I close my eyes I see situations with him and me, situations I would normally never think about or plan to have. I know those are his thoughts. I’m just wondering WHY is he so cold and stubborn to me.
I guess I still have to do a lot of work on my ego and self love. And while I do not want to play the victim but I do feel it slightly unfair that I have to do all the work, go through all the pain and illness because of it while he just continues with his life :(
Please watch my videos "Twin Flame as a Tool of Manipulation," and "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family." 🙏
Thank you - I had a perfect aha moment...I was confused why this longing reappeared when I have been in a really good place with this separation...EGO - thats the only part that is screaming and aching. It is confusing having such intense heart pain but now I'm realizing this pain is actually coming from my ego's suffering?! This is enlightening...
Absolutely
Sooo helpful! Thank you ❤❤❤. The "patience" defined this way was a wow moment !!
Yay!
Twin flame is good but it can be painful emotional 😭 the energy is so strong like my twin flame she was hurting emotional and I felt it physically by right side of my heart started hurting for few seconds and when she cries I feel tears coming down my face. I’m been patient as the saying good things happen to those who are patient
I used to cry first time she ghosted me my emotions where all over the place but as time goes on I stopped crying and now when she ghosts me runs I don’t cry I’m just get spiritual I’m ready for union when she returns back to me .
She’s sent me signs like on a twin flame video on here RUclips the words I love you came up 3 times and lady didn’t mention I love you it was just for me because my friend watched RUclips video and he didn’t see any I love you
Thank you so much for sharing this message. I understand so much clearer now. Thank you so much.
I asked for peace in this and your videos appeared on the night of the solar eclipse in libra Oct 2nd... wow
I love this and I love you!!!
And no I didn't make the choice to meet her so you absolutely rung about that
Thank you for your comments 🙂
thank for sharing this video. I wasn’t able to understand other videos around this practicing patience around separation. I hope I will be able to implement atleast lil bit on this journey. When I detach myself, I dont feel energy of my twin, and that triggers my ego and the whole cycle starts.
I would suggest watching my series on my website called "Non-Attachment and Union"
This was so good and exactly what I needed to hear, thank you.
So glad!
I hope you’re doing better than what you were trying to smile through the pain know that you’re not alone
Love your shirt! This video made me laugh. 😂
Your videos are so helpful, clear and to the point. Thank you.
I'm so happy they're resonating! 🙏🙂
Amazing. Such truth. Thank you 🙏
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Yep, I recall liking this one.. I remember relating to the "bowels of emotional hell" and having IBD, well I def understand this on many a multifaceted level lol. I def see where Im waiting on myself to stop being resistant to this whole dynamic AF lol! Also appreciating the reprieve of the energetic "chaos" ie are we vibing or imbalanced today lol. 12:12
Thank you !❤
Wow all of this should be in a twin flame Bible
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But had to be honest I have going through a monumental spiritual awakening and gone back to who I have always been, after being stuck in a limbo for years❤
Thank you very much, your video makes great sense and is very helpful for me. Peter UK
I'm glad it resonated!
Thank you very much. 💙
I come back to this video every time I feel my ego beginning to sting and the urge to reach out to my twin comes up, for whatever reason. I will say that I'm proud to be in a state where I only wish to reach out to him to celebrate what work I've done so far and share that unconditional love in hopes that my changes reflect in his 3D life and incarnation. However, as you've said before, it's hard not to hope that we'll be in a 3D relationship someday again in the future. This is the part that confuses me about Union, I think. I've come far in my own work and recognize now the path I need to take to become the best version of myself that I can be in this manifestation, and as an extension of myself and my energy, I hope the same for my twin, so, in a sense, am I not choosing to do the work with my twin? I would choose to be with him again in a heartbeat in the 3D plane, so how can physical Union be so elusive and not always reached in this incarnation? Also sorry for jumping around your videos and leaving comments, my ego has been loud tonight, so I've returned asking questions, haha!
You gave me an idea for a video, so thank you 🙂
Same for me. I am really struggling to keep the urge to contact her under control. The Universe sent me the message: "Trust the process!". On some days the pain of separation is driving me nuts, on others I see clearly the necessitiy to care for myself in the best possible way. Back and forth, like a rollercoaster
@normanquednau Have you watching my video "Why we Want to Tell our TF How we Are?"
How?!?! Do you or does anyone have a video on the HOW? How much more healing and what do I need to heal; and how do I go about doing so?? For 10 years i have practiced regular mediation, rain or shine, sickness or health, everyday sometimes twice a day. I commune with my higher power, everyday, and have for years. Affirmations everyday for years, just started a new round of affirmations after seeing your core karmic lessons video and seeing that, at least the past me if not the present, is a shoe in for self worth. I have journaled til my hands bled. I have been in therapy for years. I have completed so many rounds of 12 steps (3 years sober now), cleaning the wreckage of my past and getting my spiritual house in order. I exercise everyday without fail and have for years. I eat healthy. I take care of my child, my family, my friends, myself. I live in love and compassion for self and others. I have walked the darkness and lived to see the other side. I have taken a person I hated and turned him into the person i now love and am proud to be. How much more healing can I possibly do? Healing is a life long, constant process. We are never done. So, I do not understand what I am missing here. Daddy issues? Check, addressed, in constant practice of forgiveness. Self hatred? Check, addressed, healed and healing everyday of my life. Rape trauma? Check, addressed, forgiven, no longer even triggered. Be happy being alone? Well I had that down for decades, now I want to experience being happy with someone, or unhappy with someone. What is the "with someone" experience like? I waited 40 years for my first boyfriend, and didnt even get one, I got a twin flame engaged to someone else. I hate this journey. All I want now is a lousy dude on a couch drinking a beer and showing me how wonderful my life was single, then I can be done with all these feelings.
I went on the wrong temper tantrum. Not exactly relevant to the video. 🙄🙄 Oh well, still needed it out and answers. Corrected Tantrum: HOW do I release and let go? This has always been a struggle in all areas of my life, from spiritual mind treatment to 12 step work. Letting go "and letting god" has never been my strong point. Im so glad you said its not about practicing patients, because I have none, it is not a factory installed feature and its not one I am looking for aftermarket either. I will never pray for patients, because i do not care to have the lessons that will bring me the skill. I prefer to rage and get angry like a petulant child when something isnt happening quickly enough. My impatience is a character flaw, but also one of my greatest gifts. People tell me "you have so much energy" or "I wish I could bottle your energy" ummm no folks, its not energy, its impatience. I want to get to the good part of my day so I plow through the other stuff at top speed impatiently trying to get to the parts I prefer to experience. But the end result is everything got done, got done correctly and I still got to relax and enjoy as well.
Thanks for clarifying!
Beautiful video. 🙌💜 x
I was stranded in Vegas without money phone or glasses. I was having to find the bus to the airport. Never been to the state of Nevada. Never rode a city bus. I was on the verge of panicking. I had to tell myself to chill the eff out and get it together. That’s not going to solve any thing. It took my entire inner being to tell my ego to stfu. God I’m flying through this journey ❤️❤️
Hope all is better try and smile through the pain with you
Thank you a lot🎉U are great.
You are great! 🙂
This is so exhaustingg :/
Thank you so very much , for this much needed information in the message.
I love the vacation view point of separation...because that's exactly the way I feel during this time of separation from my Twin Flame 🔥.
Although, I feel that we are one; I made the mistake of once telling him that I felt that we're one.
I say mistake because it only caused him to say that I was crazy 🤪.
At the time I couldn't understand why he wasn't feeling what I was feeling.
Especially since I felt him with me all the time, sometimes...I even expressed to him that I felt like when I was pregnant and my child was with me always...that's how I had began to feel towards him.
He just listened to what I saying to him, because I couldn't explain to him how or why I felt that way.
I even told him that as much as I wanted to be with him...I already felt complete from the time, I call it, that we were activated...and although we have not been intimate, I feel it's okay because I feel we have been together on another plain or in the spirit, I call it...somehow because I have felt him.
I also told him to stop making love to me when I am driving down the street, it comes out of nowhere like something out of a movie and I know I am not crazy 🤪, because it's not about that it's more than that...that's the way I feel.
Thanks again, my love 💓!
Thank you for the information 🙏 is so interesting
I love you dearly ✨🌠
First of all, your Twin Flame videos are the best on RUclips. They're easy to understand and most realistic, so thank you for sharing your insights! My question on this video is what do you mean when you said we made the choice to manifest our twin in this reincarnation and we made the choice to be the chaser? All I ever wanted was a lifelong partner with common value system and interest - something that feels easy and comfortable. I didn't need the twin flame in the romantic sense because it hasn't been easy, at all. I never had to chase in my past romantic relationships and here I am finding myself in the chaser role.
I wish I never met him in the romantic, longing to be together physically sense. Although, from a personal growth perspective, this has been the best self-reflection period/exercise I've ever been through and I'm working on closing the gaps I've discovered during the process. But at the end of this, I want to be free. I just want to take my lessons and run if he doesn't come to the realization that we're supposed to be together. I know I'm good for him and he has so much to offer. I just wish he has the strengths to see this in himself, that he's a wonderful human being, and win the battle against his own demons.
I'm glad my videos resonate with you! I see you're currently in a battle with the Ego. Remember that you are your Twin. You created everything. So if you're in this Ego and body as a Chaser, you chose to be so. NOT with the Ego, but the Higher Self. You were ready in this incarnation to come into Union, to learn the hard freaking lessons, to do the healing. And in another incarnation, you'll be the one attempting to run from yourself.
Vacation word this is so healing 😂 nice guided ❤ thankyou
Can you do a video on divine timing, in what it actually is vs how it’s being used.
Absolutely!
Funniest shit ever but its so true. Not one bit offended but rather relieved.
Perfect Video! Thank you so much!!!
You're very welcome, thank you for watching!
Is there a way to ask you questions or are you also on Instagram? ❤ or do you give Sessions?
I read your book! And it all so true. So validating my twinflame journey. Wow! I still can’t believe it. Especially with the out of a sudden I love you in the beginning. I never told that anybody before and out of a sudden after so short time
I say it the first time
In my life
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That was hilarious to me …
But it’s also so true I feel obsessed with this pull. I even tried the cutting cord. And then though I can’t do it I feel like cutting my self off and then you write it.
How accurate can a book bee :D
I read while writing here. And with every page I feel so validated.
@@jasmindinapoli9659 I'm so glad my book resonated with you, and thank you for your support in reading it! Regarding consultations, my books are currently closed, but you're welcome to write to me via my website and I'll get you on the waitlist
I hadn’t thought of patience in that way. I can appreciate that viewpoint. Isn’t it a compliment to me that I want to chase me?😅
I do walk away and focus on myself, but he never leaves my head. It’s not as intense as it was for quite some time, but there’s not a day that goes by I don’t think of him. I actually beg the universe to get him out of my head, so I can just focus on my own stuff, but I think the universe isn’t listening - jk😂 I am always working on healing, but I’m sooo burnt out on it. I hired a local spiritual awakening coach and am looking forward to meeting with him. I feel like I’m going through another mini dnots😩 My gawd, how many are there?!
“…get through the bowels of emotional hell…”💯💯💯
Separation vacation…uhhh….definitely doesn’t feel like any vacation I’d pay for😅
“The shit storm of tf lessons…”💯💯💯
Yes to all of this
Great video. I wonder why we don't just call it 'awareness,' and forget about the whole 'twin' thing. Can you tell me what you personally mean by 'being the universe?" Do you mean like a "spark of God?" Also, what do you mean by 'growing' and expanding? We hear these things all the time but if there is no time in 5D, then we can only 'realize' ourselves.
I would suggest reading my book! I go through all the scientific and energetic elements in depth
Is it ‘’normal’’ feeling like gasping for air if I randomly see a picture or video of my twin on social media? Or a normal reaction should be ‘’feeling at peace as we are divenely united”
Hi, can you create a video on frequency rising ang clearing of the off-grown emotions during the TF journey?
Take a look at my Intuition and Empath playlist
(a) (WeAreTheSame ~ 'Twin Flame Separation (An Important Message): 'Creating my twin,'.... 'and ASCENDING to HIGHER FREQUENCIES,'
I'm glad you're liking them 🙏
what a great looking shirt
Nearly 8 months in separation. He ignored my last 2 texts. I don't know if I can do this anymore.
Thank you
Can I ask a question? So if we are meant to grow individually, spiritually, and into our best independent selves during separation from our twin. Then what truly is the purpose of union?
If we get so much from separation no matter how hard it is, why would we want to come together? If that’s truly the case, aren’t we both better off separated? To foster continuity of growth?
Am I the only one with these thoughts?!
Union is NOT with a 3D manifested physical person. It is with the Self.
I can already feel the boredom happening.
We just got into a seperation phase which will be longer then normal (this is how it feels)
And Me imagining dating someone else feels exactly like this.
My ego could be attracted (but this feels already to superficial) but my energy will be absolutely bored and not matched on the depth
How do you deal with this beeing the chaser? 😂
I have a couple videos on this feeling: "Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame" and "Attraction to Others After Meeting the Twin"
I have gotten to a point where any interaction with people too much in the egoic realms just exhaust me and I have to sleep for 3 hours. Do you have a suggestion about how to get my high vibration back or perhaps a video on this? I've watched every single video that you have done and this is not Eco degradation as it just seems to be happening when I interact with someone who is stuck in 3d. I've already had several ego degradation so I'm very familiar with that entire process. This seems be occurring in situations even that I don't want to be in like my current work situation and or with people who I used to interact with and now I feel I have surpassed
I have a video called "Soul Family Frequency (exhaustion)" that talks about just this!
Thank you!@@wearethesamenergy
How to increase frequency other than meditation?
Will add to my list
If you decide to not be with your twin, can you change your mind later about getting back with them? I’m very new to all of this, so I’m sorry if this is a dumb question.
You can always change your MIND
Is separation defined solely as not being physically together? I know many videos say the chaser should not reach out to the runner so does that apply at all times that twins are not in a committed relationship with each other? If we are not together but communicating pretty well, does this still apply (don't be the first to reach out?). I know a couple people who say they only send birthday greetings to each other once a year and have no contact besides that. Is it OK to wish your twin a Happy Birthday every year if you are in separation? I know I saw your video about why we want to reach out and tell them we are OK and that it's all ego based, but it's very hard to ignore them completely. I have not seen mine in person for almost 25 years. We have been raising the children we had with other partners.
I always encourage you to do whatever you feel is best for YOU, but be mindful of the reason you're doing it. You never need anyone's permission to do anything that you feel is best for you.
My twin complained I wasn't patient enough..😂😂😅
Mine too
I feel obsessed I feel sick in the head idek if he is a twin flame this is all new and tbh I hate it karmic bond wasn’t this bad I mean it wasn’t this painful like how does someone feel so right but we can’t be together like I feel like the movie Hancock
So why they come back when you at the point that you don't even want them anymore. Is just like been tortured every day
What does "long-term separation" in detail mean for your case?
I'll answer this in my Q&A video
How do I wrap my head around the concept that my TF, who does not exist, gave birth to three children? For the life of me, I am not understanding the part about my TF not existing. (I am autistic and therefore very literal, if it helps any).
If it helps, I literally mean that your Twin does not exist. It is all perception created by the Ego. Since your brain works well with concretes, you may want to read my book, because the entire first chapter is on the science behind all of this 🙏
At the time of this video, you both were in long term separation?
Yes
But I can’t date others when I feel him every second as he is with me I can’t open up to other man because he is there
I completely understand that. I talk about it in my book and in a few videos. One being "Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame"
Why do they even have a soulmate as a option?So where the trust when this is reason we broke up That's doesn't makes any since to me.And what am I the chaser have to do sit and no have someone too
Iam the chaser and i want to focus on myself but whenever i start caring for myself my twin comes back and the circle go back on
Can i ask him not to talk to me again cause it hurts me whenever he withdraw again and im tired of the on and off sit
Absolutely you can. Always do what's best for you
Is it not egoic to think that we manifested this person? Idk it kinda makes me feel a little better but I feel like Im simply telling myself that as a way to cope.
You do not manifest with the Ego!
I ask this question from a place of genuine curiosity and confusion: How do twins ever unite if both continuously fight the urge to reach out under the pretext that the urge is egoic or a form of chasing? Surely for every reunion someone has to reach out eventually or separation would continue forever. My twin and I don't have a clear-cut runner/chaser nor DF/DM dynamic. I ran but I also chased, and we are both women but identify as nonbinary and embody both feminine and masculine energy depending on the situation, so it's unclear which one of us would-- based on the typical twin flame stages-- be the one to reach out and end separation. Now nearing the 2-year mark of separation, I am starting to experience the things that people describe as signs that separation is almost over. I'm finally content with my own life and pursuing my dreams and passions, I don't feel lonely and in pain when thinking about our connection, I feel an increasing sense of peace. But I do also have the urge to reach out. Is that a sign that I still have healing to do or a sign that union is now possible?
I would need to hear your entire story to give personalized information. But don't believe it when people say there are signs to separation being over. There aren't. 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy That's helpful, there is so much conflicting information out there about twin flames and I only just accepted that this is what's happening a couple months ago so I'm rather lost. I keep telling myself that regardless of whether I'm the runner or chaser, whether separation is almost over or not, focusing on my own life and really enjoying the peace I'm finally feeling is the only path forward. But there is a strong part of me that wants definitive confirmation (the need for control is the biggest hurdle I've faced over this now 6-year journey). But I'm glad I found your channel and thanks for the response.
It's great that you are living your life, and I understand the Ego's need for control. I am actually releasing a video in January that talks about how much conflicting information there is out there. I know how frustrating it is 🙏
how to tell someone the he or she is your twin flame
"The Runner and the Term Twin Flame"
@@wearethesamenergy I mean, how can i tell her this, may be she is not a believer in all this
TFV! 😅 Vacation!
Oh i dont have to choose.They always want to call the shots.This was her gag or feelings or revenge
.Which one i dont know,because i have not heard a word iut her mouth and she continues to ghost me.U beed to know what her agenda,because u dont have time and im definitely not for the games.
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Cute, cute tank top!
Can we meet our twin while we are married to someone else?
"Why Twin Flames Show Up While You're Married"
I respect your perspective based on your experience but, I wholeheartedly disagree. I have known my twin flame for 35 years. The connection has ALWAYS been unrivaled and magnetic but we weren’t able to connect in a more substantial way until 3 years ago. What I can tell you is that even before we got together more seriously 3 years ago, every single time I have been around him, THAT is when my spiritual gifts activate and flourish. Away from him, my growth slows down tremendously and occasionally stagnates (though I’m one who is always learning and growing regardless). With him, I’m the strongest, healthiest, most vibrant and happiest version of me. Every time I’m around him, my Clair senses grow stronger and I recognize gifts I never understood previously.
The problem is, sometimes, he gets triggered by my rapid growth and it’s like he gets jealous and tries to slow me down. So he sabotages and creates problems where there doesn’t need to be any at all. He’s scared of the changes he’d have to make in his life. A lot of that is also due to his conditioning and our history, which is unusual and complicated. But regardless, together we both are stronger when he allows it.
I do not get one thing, Alexx. How to substitute my ego so it does not come into way of me?
I'm sorry, I don't understand?
@@wearethesamenergy that my ego still dominates all the situation. Still is louder than the voice of my heart and soul. I love my TF but sometimes I doubt all the process of coming closer. The separation takes 7 years and he started a family in that time and even got married. I am losing trust, hope and sometimes feel waves of anger that I cannot move and live my life again without wanting him still back…
So your question is how to calm the Ego? Have you watched my video "5 everyday tips to calm the mind?"
@@wearethesamenergy yes, I did and actually I am following these tips. Still, there is a huge part of fear in me which I would love to release… any idea/video how?
I would need to know more about what you're fearful about and where it comes from. If you want, book a consultation with me on my website and we can chat!
What is the universe? God??
You!
@@wearethesamenergy but I didn't create gravity..
Yes you did :) Just not in human consciousness
@@wearethesamenergydo u believe in God?
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I like your videos but the "choice" thing - hmm I don't think it's a choice we make because no matter how long you get no contact and separated, without doing anything and "NOT KNOWING" about it, it's going to knock at your door
You always have a choice. You may not like the choices presented to you, but you still have them. You have a choice to obsess, stalk, and ruminate. You have the choice to practice non-attachment. You have a choice to be with the person in the 3D when they come back. You have a choice to make yourself fully unavailable to them in the 3D. You always have choices. Don't allow the Ego to make you believe you're stuck. 🙏
No offense but how do you make love with yourself when you re missing your twin flame so much that your heart is wrenching. according to you , your twin it's you , your twin it's there with you..
"You re waiting around for yourself" ??...if that's the case WHY WOULD YOU EVEN NEED THE OTHER PERSON AROUND ...??? I wish that I could agree with you and ease my pain by just ONLY loving myself..YOU ARE NOT MAKING ANY SENSE UNFORTUNATELY WITH THAT THEORY, Nobody would need anybody else to love if what you saying it's true..
You are missing the TOUCH the hugs ,the smell, the voice, the presence of your twin flame , the way they Love You ,...How can you replace all that with your theory????
Everything you're talking about is EGO. It's not real.
@@wearethesamenergydamn
hey i need to help how do i contact you?
Thank you
Thank you so much💐💐💐