Twin Flames: What is Learned in Separation
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024
- What is learned in separation from the Twin Flame? A reading from my book "The Soul Family: a Guide to Karmic relationships, Soulmates, Soul Tribes, and Twin Flames."
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Twin flame separation at first hurt so much I would cry myself to sleep every night my heart was hurting so much it was like my heart was ripped out. But something stopped me crying and stopped my heart from hurting I don’t know what stopped me from crying 😢. Ever since I’ve experienced a lot of things that I’ve never experienced before like my twin flame when she’s hurting emotional 😭 I feel it by my right side of my heart hurts for few seconds and when she cries I feel tears coming down my face. But last week I got a shock she replied to my comment on here RUclips I was watching twin flame video I put a comment and she replied to my comment I was shocked in a good way.
The immense pride I’d feel if I were the author of a book like this. I treated myself to it and it’s is fuuuuuuucking fantastic. You are a trailblazer. Hats off to you friend! So glad you published a paperback I’m over these [screen] devices. Blessings to you 🙏 ❤
Aww, that's so nice of you to say, and thank you so much for your support! 💜🙏
Thank you for mentioning how our ego or selfishness can trick us .I've reached out to him couple times,on birthdays, festival and I was convinced that I am okay with the outcome.guess what once he replied shortly I was mad , afraid and in regrets.now I am at that point of surrender and more aware of my hidden intensions.
Alexx - Divine Timing indeed. My 🔥🔥 and I just entered Separation, dealing with a lot of egotic issues. Thank you for reminding me - which means US - of what needs to happen during separation, in order to grow.
Your guidance and insights are amazing. Thank you
Sending you my highest vibrations!
All of my best and highest vibrations to you!
In the past you said DF heals in separation and DM in union. Awesome excerpt 🔥🔥🔥
@camadhembree6301 That is correct. Things learned during re-union via the energy field usually instill into the Ego when the Runner has time to think about them (remember they're very Egoic)
I found the book very informative in understanding Souls and the twin flame journey. Watching this video caused me to reflect on the past year of separation. No expectations, no longing, no wishing, no pain, no desire to reach out....All of this was gradual. Healing of core wounds.... I realize I have boundaries now that I didn't have before. I realize my worth. We are still in separation so there is further work to be done. It's all good. It's all in Divine Timing.
Yay! Love to hear this!
Thanks. It took a lot of work!💕
Thats so great to hear. Im at this place too have been in Inner union officially for 7 months now. It feels great
@@Flufero23 It definitely does! 💜
The book is life changing! It’s in my top ten of most life changing books; along with Descartes and Krishnamurti. Deep respect and appreciation ❤
And while reading the book, the voice of Alexx was in my mind😂☺️
Aww, that's super sweet, thank you for this comment. In really happy you got so much out of the book. Sorry about my voice being in your head narrating! 😂💜
Thank you for the excerpt! I actually put your book in my amazon shopping cart to purchase a few days ago, so this is a cool treat! I feel like I manifested finding your RUclips account at the right time in my life, and thus your book. Thank you for your gift that you share with us! ❤️
Thank you for your support! 🙏
Appreciate this Alexx. I liked reading that passage. I also liked reading about the I am. A few others have pointed that out and it resonates deeply. Scary at times to how much.
I'm very glad that resonates!!
Very Helpful ❤ Gratitude ✨
Favorite video thus far. Presentation and delivery was on another level in this passage. Thank you for your guidance, pure execution in this one 🙏🏽❤
Wow. I’m speechless. This was everything!!!
I'm glad you resonated with it!
Thank you! That was a lovely way to start the day. I just finished the Soul Tribe section of your book and am now starting Twin Flames. I am really enjoying it. You have made everything so easy to understand...even the science at the start! 😊
I'm so glad you're liking it!
How timely! Thank you 😇❤️
I've read your book Alexx. It's very insightful and has been a great help. I'd be interested in seeing some content about 3rd party relationships. Being a chaser energetically, but in 3d not wanting to be on this journey at all, I've recently felt a shift in my chaser energy. Almost an acceptance that connecting in the 3d would not be a good idea. I bumped into the person I think is my twin and I felt a major, repelling feeling as they're not in a good place. Like, there's no way I'm chasing this anymore! I do still feel the 5d energetic connection but it's kind of like, I'm absolutely fine with how things are. Or is the Ego kidding my higher self? It's all fun and games 😂
I have multiple videos on Third Party relationships such as "What are Third Party Relationships," "Why Your Twin Flame shows Up While You're Married," and more. They're mostly in the Twin Flame playlist.
I got my copy a few weeks ago and have cheated a bit listening to this as I am not at this part yet! But it was great hearing it in your voice, I'm very auditory so now I will "hear" the rest of the book in your no nonsense, pragmatic tone! Your point on "push energy" really resonated with me and I realize that I've been doing that, even though I have forced myself to refrain from reaching out to who I believe is my twin :( You've given me lots to think about, some hard truths not easily swallowed. Despite the discomfort I'm grateful, so thank you.
Thank you for taking the time to read it, and you can be proud of yourself that even though there are "some hard truths not easily swallowed," you're not fighting against it and yourself. That's an incredible ability to grow and learn!
Excellent. Thanks. A lot to digest yet you’re really clear. Thank you again
I found you today and what you said has so much sense. I also just bought your book on Ebay. Can't wait to read it.
I have met my twin 4 years ago but we have connected a year ago.
I felt the energy between us which you described.
Thank you
Through Ebay...I think they're charging a lot for my book, so I hope you didn't pay extra than market value! Thank you for your support, and I'm glad the videos are resonating
Beautiful Alex great book I will surely buy it thank you!
Thank YOU!
Such a shame creating an audio book is insane expensive. Your content read by yourself in such a speed is amazing!
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This was excellent and the first time it made sense. I will get your book. Thank you for your service ❤
Thank you for your support!
Hello and congrats on your book! Thank you for this reading. This one excerpt put some ongoing, significant, and very relevant things into perspective for me right when i needed it. Stay blessed and be well 🙏🏽.
Thank you, Alexx. I so wish that I could share my journey with you, in person. Like many others, I was completely oblivious to the concept, Twin Flame. However, upon my Dad’s passing this was no longer the case. If you go back through your comments you will find my early-on questions about TFs. Through the intense highs and lows, which at many times I thought I would completely lose it, I really do feel that I AM now nearing the end of this journey. Ego pretty much gone, and I AM HOME. And yes, we definitely need to go through Separation.
My journey has been about 2.5 years. My beautiful Father left the 3D on the 22 July, 2024 (3 years yesterday).
I AM so grateful for my TF lessons, and for being chosen to go on this journey but I have to say THANK YOU to all of the Community who have helped me - that of course includes you and your TF, Alexx. I would not have made it otherwise.
Forever Grateful 🙏🏻❤️🕊🪶👑🐪🦃
So happy you're feeling better and that this community could contribute to your healing. All of my best and highest vibrations to you on your journey!💜💜💜💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏🙏
Chasing and running happened to me but sometimes I ask myself if i was just being influence by listening to social media
I see. Thank you
Okay on my reading list. Thank you, Alexx! 🥰😊
Ive two or three video topic suggestions.
1- Your thoughts on psychedelic drugs such as mushrooms to aid spirittuality
2 - Auras and how can they appear as different colors physically?
3 - Feeling others physical energy and what to do with it.
When if comes to energy all i come across is reiki and vampirism and i want to know whats the next step if you can feel energy. How to hone it or what to pursue in that path. Can you use it, is it a step toward a clear sentient ability, etc
I love these questions. You may want to watch some videos on my Intuition and Empath playlist, especially "What is an Empath?," "The Clair Senses," and "Intuition or Anxiety?"
I watched all these recently,
I'm HSP, don't think I'm empath or advanced in any clear sentience (yet 🙃). My intuition is definitely increasing where I feel even schizophrenic (like a beautiful mind).
However the same energy you can feel off your body I also occasionally feel off my ex/ possible tf over the past year. It's a very physical thing and off others its softer and less static-like or magnetic than my own. More like a water globe and also more stable as I don't have to concentrate so much to keep it. This happened recently within a group meditation since I started going a Buddhism temple. Maybe it's not energy, im ok with a scientific explanation but its happening across various contexts now. Maybe it is due to them being advanced spiritually and it's not my own ability to sense it. But it's wonderful feeling.
I love your channel, although I'm trying to avoid twin flame videos now, and move on. I'll return to it one day. I like that I found a community that I want to participate in. I'll definitely buy your book. Thanks for replying🕯️
So beautiful love it. Just wondering what if we never express our love towards the runner at all since beginning, how can the reunion happends?
"Twin Flame Stages"
Really loved your book! ❤ It gave so much insight into the different kind of connections you can experience during this lifetime 🙏🏻✨
So glad you liked it, and thank you for your support in reading it! 🙏
Congratulations on your book!! Thank you for reading this chapter!! Sending love & light :)
Loving the book too. 😊
Beautifully said ❤ I keep getting randomly love songs keep coming up my phone ,that's the ego trying to creep in 😅
Beatiful !!!
Almost 10 years on the journey having fun yet lol! I learn a lot in separation but I need time when twin comes in to trigger me enough I want to scream!! Tell the ego to stand down and do the work . I like what you have to say. My twin knows who we are now he came to me and in a month off and running talk about me acting up ego comes in takes a bit but I learn so much .
I liked this. Thank you for sharing.
Hi Alexx, do you give personal coaching on zoom or something?
Not anymore
Loved reading your book ❤
Thank youuuuu
in the end...only..love...remains..affter...all.
Thank you. Love it. ❤
Thank you so much❤❤
Hi Alexx, will get your book ! Was wondering when you always mention about separation, does it include/mean when each of us being with different partners?
That's called a Third Party, and it doesn't necessarily mean being with others.
Wow thank you!
Thank you Alex for that!
I find myself confused once again…
What to do when I love him - unconditionally, and am fine thinking of him on the energetic level, but still get angry when I think of things that he said before and when we separated this last time.
As in - I do feel he is my twin on the energetic level - it’s like his shadow is my constant companion all the time, but when I think of the possibility of being with him again, or the relationship I want to throw rocks at him?
And as for no expectations - on an ego level - if we are together - how is that possible? Case in point - we each have kids. If we are together - there are children to consider - so yes - expectations.
😅 so Karmic?
I can't answer whether it's a Karmic or TF based on your comment. Have you watched "Letting Go of Expectations" and "Anger After a Breakup?"
@@wearethesamenergy
I had watched both before, and went back to watch them again.
First off - you have an exceptional talent at breaking things down to bite size and getting your point across. Thank you for both these videos and… all the rest!
I meditate daily for an hour. My TF /Karmic lives 100 feet away, which means I run into him on an almost daily basis. After 3+ years of being together and separating half a dozen times, I finally decided to let go after the last breakup, and we went into this current long term separation. His and my kids are still close friends.
I have reached the point where I thought I had let go of the anger numerous times. The anger pops up especially when the kids are together and I feel the hurt and disappointment about the break up of the family dynamic we had.
I no longer have a reaction when I see him. The essence of him is always in the back of my mind. I’ve gotten a handle on the obsessive thinking. When I get down to looking at all the information you have shared, and when I ask myself honestly- I know he is my TF. But when the hurt and anger are stirred up again, I feel doubt. Or that I am not strong enough to overcome this.
Which, I guess, is actually worse…
Thank you ❤
Thank you
If one feels that they have found their twin and their heart chakra has opened finally after 4 years of trying to save it (also many things in life has progressed ), but the other person does not acknowledge any connection but ghosts instead. Is this really a twin flame journey then? Should the 1st person pursue/chase?
"Twin Flames versus Karmic," "Ghosting versus Twin Flames Separation," "Twin Flames as a Tool of Manipulation" videos
Great reading!
Thank you!
Awesome excerpt 🔥Definitely going to purchase. You have said in the past DF heals in separation and DM in union. Does this still apply?
Yes, I actually responded to this question somewhere else that you posted it 🙂
Love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I find all your content very helpful as someone very confused. I tried to dig deeper about TF, extracting every way to have a knowledge and understanding. Thank you so much. I've almost watched all of your videos in just 2 days just to get answers to what I feel. We just had our separation almost 2 months now. I have a question though. My TF and I have body marks, like we both have a mole obove the R eyelid, above the right side of the lip. We also have the same blood type (AB) and are both Capricorn. Does these have a significance?
They have a significance if they have a significance to your Egos. That's all that "significance" is - subjective value.
@@wearethesamenergy . Thanks again!
Hi alexx. Just wanna say thanks for all the information you have shared in your work it has been of great use to my healing and spiritual journey.
Question.
Does healing a karmic lesson heal an associated health issue along with it ?
Basically is there a correlation between karmic lessons and health conditions.
Would absolutely love a video or a reply on this.
Thanks. ❤❤❤
I love this question, and I will do a video on this! But the short answer is it can!
Hii Alexx… watched this video 3 times now have a thing or two to ask maybe…Been on this journey or so i think for the last 2.5 years or so i think🥲 and with multiple separations as well i dont know if i have given up hope of how it should look like i am more like tired now tbh even though i sometimes do cry hysterically wanting him back and obsessing even after so long and everytime he comes back i always have hope i have never not had hope or expectations does that mean i am not on this journey and as you mentioned in your karmic relationship video where karmics seems to never leave and come back is it that? Sometimes back last year he would randomly text me …And idk if we even ever said i love you and i mean ig he never felt also and the concept of unconditional love wasnt there, its just me obsessing? And i am still ego oriented and not understanding that we are all the same and these are my attachment issues and not something else? If i dont feel like he can be my tf when i look back now suddenly at things he said or did how can i even believe in divine timing ?maybe his coming back is always a lesson and happens at his convenience also He very clearly mentioned doesn’t see it with me maybe at one point did and i am delusional to think he does when he thinks there’s someone out there for him and not me while mine is cause of abandonment which again if so cant be tf but karmic i am guessing… i am not healing and this is not just my ego but what i am actually doing and begging god so how is this person a tf??
uve done a great job!
Thank you!
I just finished your book and loved it cover to cover. I am going to send it to my tf. I liked that you said it's important to share what you've discovered with him. I know other tf coaches say the runner will never understand or even believe that this is real. Yours seems to get it. How long did it take for him to really grasp the concept?
I specifically talk about this (and my own situation) in my video "The Runner and the Term Twin Flame"
@@wearethesamenergy found it, thanks!
Hi, you got me a little bit confused. Not sure should i tell my twin about our connection or not. In some of your video you say there is no need to tell them, But in your book you say we should absolutely tell them as soon as possible🤷🏻♀️
We are now in a long separation period, for almost 2years now. Once he tried to reach out to me, after 1 year being separated, but i ignored his message. We but in to each other but we never speek…i always frees, because im rakentaa by surprise and cant even rase my hand to say Hi back to him😅 he takes it like i dont want to even know him anymore…i asume.
It's your choice whether you tell them or not. Whatever feels best for you.
@@wearethesamenergy im not going to initiate contact. If this info would be so important for him to know, i feel spirit would provide him with that. I just Keep my distance and focus on my own wellbeing.
My TF and I had a separation for more than a year, and during that time, I experienced ego-degradation. I can tell my TF has grown a lot as well, but he still seems far from ego death. Should I expect another separation that pushes him to complete this process or maybe he’s not a TF or do some TF not ever awaken in the 3D? Apologies if there is already a video on this.
Ego Degradation by the Chaser does not cause Ego Degradation by the Runner. Union with the Self causes the Runner to go into Ego Degradation. You may want to watch my video "How Twin Flames Heal" or read my book, which talks about all of this in great depth.
omg, this freaked me out. because despite the fact that i am completely averse to the runner now (and I think they sense this when they're forced to see me in group settings) the prospect of ego not yielding in this lifetime and forcing me to go through it again makes me want to tell god: no, no more SC. like that's it, and not because i'm attached (they made sure to evaporate that) but because the ST dynamics and the circumstances this has put me in make it virtually impossible for me to leave.
but prior to saying that some don't yield you said will always sync to one another's energy.
You recognize that even if you achieve Ego Degradation in this incarnation, you will more than likely be repeating a human incarnation again and again and again, right? It's not a one-stop shop.
@@wearethesamenergy yes, I know. But the suffering in this one is exponential and I don't want to leave it that way at all despite the political opposition.
@@polestarexperience7703 Oh, I understand 🙏
Is it possible for your twin flame to come back to you three years later? I’ve been feeling very strongly that things have been becoming clear for me about my role in all this over the past 4 months and I have a strong feeling like a knowing that there will be some form of movement or decision happening soon on their side. Do you believe in this or did you also feel this before the union manifested in the physical?
Of course they can come back after 3 years. The Runner can show up whenever.
Hello. Is it possible for the chaser to struggle with one’s ego and has the lower vibration?
Everyone struggles with Ego
Yes, sadly. I am trying to figure out if I am the chaser or runner. When an argument occurs, I feel like I am the one who runs and go no contact. I absolutely hate confrontation and would rather not argue. Can you please shed light on this?
@@MD-ke8fb I would suggest you read my book
This is a content request. When do you communicate to runner that we are in TF relationship where the runner has no idea of it. Or do you ever communicate that at all? We are in the first separation. I cut all commutations including blocking in all social media platforms and I'm trying to energetically pull away completely to sorely focus on my spiritual path.
"The Runner and the Term Twin Flame" on TF playlist
this is driving me nuts i haven’t seen him for four years and i try to detach and i feel sooisidally depressed so i emotionally attach again while having had literally no contact him. i feel like im delulu
I was pondering this question this morning. So if twin flames are one soul, what happens when we die? Does that soul go back to being one? After a nearly 8 year separation, we have reunited but I don't discuss this concept with him, he's interested in our connection because it's like no other he's had but I just keep quiet... I have learned a lot during separation but I am totally blown away by what he has.
I do not talk about TFs as one Soul. I have a video entitled "The Purpose of Twin Flames" that will give a better definition of how I speak regarding them. I will also have a video out this month on what happens when a Twin dies
@@wearethesamenergy Okay, thank you.
Hello .i just wanted to know is a twin flame connection also an emotional connection?? Or only energetic?
It's emotional as well. I would suggest watching my videos "What is the Soul Family (Part I and Part II)" so you can understand the members
I hope everybody understand that the information that said in the video about tricks and etc. Are true for anyone in this path not just for twins...so if are in awakening path, it is possible that ur soul wants to learn u things from these kind of content ....so dont scroll it...listen ....and dont focus on the twinflame word
My twin; I don’t think it’s possible for her to match my vibration. I have dedicated my life to inner work and she is scared to look at a lot of areas in her life although she does a lot of inner work too. I don’t get sad about the situation, I’m annoyed feeling bonded to someone I don’t even talk to. Im done trying to block that bond. I just allow it and hope with time I won’t be able to feel her presents anymore.
Are you sure it's a Twin?
Can twins have two different core karmic lessons? I think he (the chaser) has the karmic lesson self worth and i (the runner) selflove. Is this possible?
No, Twins will always have the same Core Karmic Lesson. But any other member of the Soul Family can have a different one than you
Thank you!! I recognize everything about twinflames but for example i have repressed sexuality and he has more heightened in my opinion.
Is this always a different core karmic lesson? We both have abandonment issues but now i feel like running. In other relationships this was not the case.
I have a video on Twin Flame Mirroring in the 3D that may resonate with you
Question for another video (or maybe you already have something on this?): How can you move on and at the same time let go & surrender?
Moving on sounds like not engaging in any future fantasy, any romatic fantasy with them a.s.o. (which sound like: when it enters your mind, try to focus on something else). Letting go on the other hand sounds like allowing every single thought, fantasy, emotion but let is pass by, just be an observer (like David Hawkins describes it). If I do the latter, there's tons of fantasies with her that I just observe. Because there is desire. But it doesn't allow me to move on. It's like keeping watching a series I shouldn't be watching to move on. Moving on sounds like supressing what comes into your mind rather than allowing, but it sounds more helpful then for ever and always having to fantasize about the person you believe to be your twin. I'd rather force myself to not think about them then to allow every single thought, desire, fantasy... But then again: what you resist, persists. What is right, what is wrong?
The answer is non-attachment vs sublimation. You're speaking about sublimation (pushing the thoughts down) when we want non-attachment (being equanimous to everything). I have a series on my website called "Non-Attachment and Union" that you may want to watch at some point.
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you very much! I indeed already bought the "non-attachment and union course" and also already worked through it. Acceptance as the first point is of course very crucial, otherwise there will be lots of rumination. Also non-reactivity, since through reframing it allows us to not act impulsively. Yet still there is this desire for that one person and it feels like it's them or no one else. And that's a bit scary for me. There's a lot of fear and doubt inside me right now. Thoughts like "how delusional can you be to think that this person who rejected you is the person you'd rather stay single for ever". It's like being highly attached whilst being aware of it.
Maybe I just got the definition of attachment wrong? Is observing thoughts were you fantasize about them without taking any action or control (like texting them) attachment? If it isn't, it still almost feels like being a victim to mental and emotional material entering your mind whenever it wants and the only thing you can do it is to allow it and not act on it.
I think my problem is that I had a lot of dream like states where we were meant to be together and everything follows a perfect plan, but lately I also had two dream like states that would tell me something like "time to wake up from your delusion and move on, you just fell deeply in love with an illusion. Wake up and move on!"
It is so confusing and giving me lots of doubt. Sorry for writing a whole book here :D
@@SAMALBRA I can tell a couple things from this comment: 1 is that you have a lot of self-criticism, and 2 is that you're focusing way too much on the other person, when it's never about them. You won't be able to non-attach until you're nicer to yourself. The Ego's job is to create thoughts. You can either get mad at the thoughts it's creating, or understand why it's creating those certain types of thoughts. Where does your inner critic come from? Who put it there and why has it gotten so loud? Are you using it to pre-emptively strike so no one can hurt you as much as you hurt yourself? Journal on it.
@@wearethesamenergy thank you very, very much! 🙏
That's very true, I have a huge inner critic. Probably comes from my childhood that demanded it from me. Also I have to learn what is ego and what is intuition when it comes to thoughts. Super grateful for your answer! 🙏
What is the difference between what the spiritual community calls a Twinflame and what the psychology community calls an Avoidant (dismissive or fearful) Personality Disorder? People who encounter an avoidant have an identical experience (i.e. a short-lived, super magical, intense, otherworldly connection, romance, and sex. Followed by a sudden withdrawal and departure and abandonment of the connection.) as the DF experiences with the DM in the twinflame relationship.
I have this on my list of videos to do
As the chaser, after deciding to stop....how do I navigate when we have no choice but to be in the same place???
Mentally? Emotionally? Energetically? In what way?
@@wearethesamenergy physically....and he goes out of his way to draw my attention to him.....when I keep to the other side of the room, he would deliberitly come over and make sure I see him....
Ok Thankyou
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i want him so bad
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Not a big fan of the twin flame concept because of the massive abandonment that happened in my experience of this kind of situation. You’re left alone in the most difficult parts of your life until you’re deemed “energetically worthy” to the other party and honestly I just find that concept really messed up. The idea paints this big picture as if you need to cleanse yourself until you’re energetically clean enough to attract them and that just doesn’t sit right with me.
That is definitely not what I teach! I can understand why you'd have a problem with the concepts if that's what people were telling you!
Thank you❤