5 ways to stop feeling ugly | simple tricks for insecure women | tips you have not heard before 2023
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- Stop seeing yourself as ugly and unworthy. I am going to give some advice on how to revamp your vision of self. You deserve to feel beautiful and special. You feel insecure for a reason, it is not your fault. But you do have the power to recognise your unique beauty... I want to help you 🦋✨💙
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i see beauty in everything and everyone except for myself
Girl same🥲
Have you ever felt so ugly you would want to unalive yourself for that reason? That’s how I feel right now.
GIRL IS THAT U IN YOUR PRP?
@@sillygoosearoundtown xactly so prettyyy
Me rn
I have felt that a lot, deleted most of the pictures I had of myself while I was a teenager, would regularly scream and cry and hurt myself due to that.
It has taken a lot of time, patience, and work, but it has evolved.
Focusing on the inner beauty does really help.
I started noticing how I look when I feel "Haggard, droopy, depressed, ugly, etc." Vs when I feel "generous, lovely, bright, kind, etc.."
And I noticed my entire physiology changes.
Even now sometimes I'll look at myself and think "holy shit I look like a troll" but then I try and snap out of it, and smile, and say beautiful things about myself, and it changes.
Letting myself know that it is okay to have baggy eyes and a puffy face, especially when I first wake up.
I hope that you can begin to love yourself, no matter how your outer shell looks.
Sending you a hug ❤
me too
I really appreciated how you acknowledged your "pretty privilege" at the outset. I respect your candor. Many women with your privileges do videos and refuse to acknowledge this fact which I find disingenuous. Your experience will differ from that of say "a black woman" who for the most part are deemed unattractive due to mainstream media. I had to like and subscribe.🤗. Great vid
Agreed!
Thank you for reaching out lovely. I really want my RUclips channel to be a safe space for everyone so I think it is important to acknowledge my privilege. 💖🤗 Lots of love x
@@noziphotshabalala5018 🤗
I grew up feeling ugly, I am African American and was adopted by a white family and grew up in Canada. I never had a boyfriend, got my hair cut, and grew up believing Black people are bad (compliments of a biased education system ans news).
I am over 50 and am just now starting to look at myself in a positive light and loving myself and ignoring the pervasive negativity against people who look like me.
Best thing I ever did was stop looking at magazines, commercials and watching tic tok and FB.
This reminded me of The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison.
😂 watching tik tok 😂
I feel like I’m never going to find someone because of how unattractive I believe I am, I’m insecure about my weight, my hair, my arms and I feel like I’m going to die alone without feeling attractive ever. No matter how many people tell me I’m being silly, I just don’t believe them. I’m trying so so hard to get out of this negative mind state but it’s just so hard.
Same here girl but let me tell u if you feel like growth is hard staying the same is also hard choose your hard I'm going through the same situation as u start loving yourself start working out not because you hate your body but u love it start prioritizing yourself set healthy habits just for 6 months do everything you know which would cause you to see a different person in yourself after those 6 months. Girl I believe in u do it shock everyone much love❤ And always remember no matter what you believe you are beautiful because God has made everyone Pretty no one is born ugly it's just a judgemental society we live in❤
I feel ugly often because I like my pics in selfie but when others take my pic I look so different and I lose confidence
Exactly
Same
is not the same feeling ugly and feeling ugly and being ugly by society standars. The second one is FUCKING HARD and is not only about how you feel is also about how people treat you
Every dismissal reinforces the idea that "they don't like you that much because you’re not pretty enough" It’s soo hard, especially as someone who struggles with anxious attachment. Always wanting people to like you. It's the perfect self made prison I think
I’m black and that’s not easy. I have hyperpigmentation, I’m in the middle of overweight I try to lose weight I go to the gym. I hate my face shape and I always get used. I mean why can’t I have no one?? Why is it so hard for me to have someone?? To be confident?? I just want to be beautiful?? Everything about me is ugly
Thank you for sharing this with me. I am so sorry you are feeling this way. You don’t deserve it at all. Please feel free to message me on Instagram and we can chat privately. My Instagram - alessia sutherberry
I’m black too and I refuse to let this be a thing BUT THE NASTIEST COMMENTS I HAVE HAD A FROM BLACK MEN!!!
i use make up and filters to hide my ugly face :(
@@stargirl3459sameee 💔 i hope we have are glow up soon
I was suffering from BDD from a few months and this video gave me so much confidence and positivity. Thank you so much Alessia ❤️
Hey lovely, thank you for being so honest and vulnerable. I'm so so glad this video has helped you 🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤
you have no idea how much this video helped me. while I still feel kinda ugly it made the scary thoughts feel less harsh momentarily and I thank you for this. Lots of love!
That makes me so so happy babe.💓 Thank you for sharing this with me. I can tell you’re a beautiful soul (inside and out)! People like yourself that spread so much love and positivity will receive so much back. Good karma ! One day you will see yourself as the beautiful goddess that you are !! I know it 💓💓💓 xo lots of love xo
Forget being HIT with that horrible feeling!
How about ACTUALLY BEING CALLED UGLY BY MEN IN FRONT OF YOUR PRETTY FRIENDS - at least 3-4 times a year in every single decade of life???
Being compared to your friends.
Your friends being told SHE IS UGLY - why are you hanging out with her??
Having men pull faces and recoil when they see you.
Guys who do talk to you.. interrupted by their mate who tells them… you can do so much better than that.. IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE!!!
I never got over any of this I wanted to die!
It still happens and I’m almost 50!
I am still single and can’t shake this horrible feeling of being a piece of crap that is so unattractive and unworthy!
Even when I try to silence the voices! 😞
Hey. It’s been five months but I am absolutely aghast at the treatment you have been receiving by some people. It is horrific and it is absolutely cruel. It is a horrific twist of fate that you have been exposed to shallow, empty, insecure people who feel the need to attack your beauty as a human being to uplift themselves. I am aghast. It’s so soul-crushing.
I am the opposite age of you, just a young woman in her high school who is trying to get by while feeling these absolutely devastating feelings of ‘averageness’. I spent my baby years being exposed to movies and magazines and social media where girls talked about their sculpted bodies and eurocentrically beautiful faces and all their friends and all their loving, adoring dates. And what a letdown it feels like that my teenage years are dull, empty, not lonely but not exciting in comparison to my expectations. Boys don’t really approach me. I don’t get compliments in the hallways. I feel horrible, I hate my clothing and my body and my wide, fleshy native american (but not the pretty kind of native features) face. I have many good friends, but I compare myself to them and others. I feel rotten inside. Disordering eating and body dysmorphic disorder rule my daily thoughts. And when I feel better, it terrifies me, because I feel like I don’t have the right to feel attractive, enticing, beautiful, desirable. It’s a hole of despair. Everyday is horrible despair. And I pray that when I get older, I’ll just magically get more stable, but I just don’t know anymore.
Some people are truly so cruel. And I am so, so sorry. I hear you. Though I may not relate fully to you in all aspects, I am listening. I appreciate you. I believe you are beautiful, and your vulnerability is beautiful. Thank you for sharing these experiences with us here, for us to read.
Aw, I'm so sorry hun. I feel you. And it hurts to always be the lesser than or last resort. I don't want to say some platitude to make you feel better, but I just want to say you are loved and I love you.
@@nyx7829 Thank you beautiful soul I really appreciate it and wish you all the love in the world .. this means a lot to know there is kindness here❤️❤️❤️
@@umsirifazendobarra00 I’m absolutely disgusted by what you’ve been through.. I’m so sorry.. I can relate to the eating disorder and dysmorphia and it hurts me that you’ve been hurt and that you’re hurting too.
Somewhere in these awful experiences we have found each other to share our experiences.
I just want to say that a few months on from my original comments I am working through a lot of stuff. Journaling and trying to look myself in the mirror 🪞 every day with some level of acceptance. It’s TOUGH REEEEALLY TOUGH and I don’t always believe what I see.. but day by day and some days are worse than others but some are better.
Thank you so much for your sharing your story too darling and I hope that we both and others like us can achieve the best love of all.. self love and acceptance. Sending you a massive hug ❤️❤️❤️🙏
@@umsirifazendobarra00 I’m absolutely disgusted by what you’ve been through.. I’m so sorry.. I can relate to the eating disorder and dysmorphia and it hurts me that you’ve been hurt and that you’re hurting too.
Somewhere in these awful experiences we have found each other to share our experiences.
I just want to say that a few months on from my original comments I am working through a lot of stuff. Journaling and trying to look myself in the mirror 🪞 every day with some level of acceptance. It’s TOUGH REEEEALLY TOUGH and I don’t always believe what I see.. but day by day and some days are worse than others but some are better.
You’re younger than me and have I hope many many years ahead of you.
I hope these years will be kinder to you than they were to me.
Talking to a trusted person, talking to yourself with kindness when you feel brave enough to muster some.
Thank you so much for your sharing your story too darling and I hope that we both and others like us can achieve the best love of all.. self love and acceptance. Sending you a massive hug and thank you ❤️❤️❤️🙏
Thank you for the tips. I never thought of thinking in the ways you mentioned. I feel better now.
I have always felt ugly and these days the insecurities were getting much much stronger and affecting my daily life. I just cry all day because I have no money for surgery or good clothes or makeup. I cry and compare myself a lot to my peers. I am trying to change this thought process and i appreciate your video and tips. Thanks.
omg. the 2nd u started talking i was like “aww she’s so cute” i literally love u already and this is my first video of urs ive watched
Aw you are so lovely. I am so so glad you liked the vid! Lots of love ❤❤
Girl, please don't stop making videos❤️
Babe you’ve made my day🤗❤️ Hope you’ve had an amazing week! ❤️💚 lots of love x
Lately I’ve been feeling very ugly because I have a crush on this guy and I want him to like me back and I know it isn’t all about looks but I just want him to like me and being pretty always helps :((
Hello Mabel, I'm so sorry you're feeling unhappy. I remember not feeling good enough for guys when I was at school. I doubted myself because I thought I didn't look beautiful. I don't know what stage of life you're at but if someone really cares for you, what you look like shouldn't matter to them. I know it's hard to think like this. I'm sure you're beautiful, but making deep meaningful connections with other people happens because of matching energies (who you both are deep down). This isn't me invalidating how you're feeling, I totally get it. There is a HUGE pressure to look a certain way, to impress guys by means of your appearance. Women are shallowly valued in this society. But I value you for opening up and starting this conversation with me. Thank you for your trust. I can tell you are a beautiful soul, and that in my opinion is the most important thing. You will find your person ❤❤❤❤
@@alessiasutherberry Thank you:)) you’re honestly about to make me cry this is really nice that you care so much about some random person. I’ll try to remember this Everytime I feel down about my looks.
@@mabelccr1000 Awh thank you girly. Talking to wonderful people like you is exactly why I do RUclips. Please feel like you can always pop me a message or comment on any of my videos 🥰 big hug Alessia xxx
@@alessiasutherberry Ty and what you’re doing is so amazing❤️❤️
@@mabelccr1000 Lots of love babe 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 thank you xxx
Thanks a lot for this video. I'm trying to become stronger, it's not easy after being left for a younger woman after almost 20 years of marriage. It really feels bad. Remembering that I almost lost my life after giving birth to a son (even if I have very little maternity feelings) makes it even worse. I could have avoided all of that ordeal, getting my body and my mind scarred after that experience (all for nothing). I just wanted that marriage to last, I just wanted someone to keep me company in my older years, I didn't need children. Now I am left with a son that I don't love enough and no husband. Twenty years and my happiness down the drain.
Sorry for the venting, I just wanted to take this out of my heart. Thanks to whoever will read this till the end.
Sending you a big hug my love xxx
i feel sorry for you but i feel bad for your son he didn't deserve a parent like you or your ex husband , i mean just because you wanted the marriage to last you had a baby but thats not how it works , now you dont love your son enough but what's his fault , this is the reason so many children grow with so much trauma that they struggle their whole life
how can you even say ' all for nothing'? children's aren't supposed to fix your relationship
if you didn't needed one you shouldn't have had one
please work with your problems and feelings and dont let your child suffer just because you are a self- centered person
I feel so ugly for the last year I've been going through this idk why I don't understand I've never felt this way in my life
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I could do a video about why we feel ugly - where it may stem from - what do you think? Obviously our insecurities vary and they come from different experiences but I would love to speak generally about the topic. Maybe that would help you xx
@@alessiasutherberry Thank you! Definitely would be interesting to watch
@@alexisCalled10 Amazing !❤❤❤
You cant give the speech when you are a pretty princess
I really apreciate this video, your strong mentality and honesty is extremely admirable. As a young teen I have been heavily struggling with my self image wether physically or mentally, I have random breakdowns and my mood seems like shit all because I feel "ugly". I have many problems in my life mainly made by others but I learn to cope with them, however this problem, I cant seem to get around it. So thid video really helped. Trully, thank you ❤❤❤
Hey there! 🌟
I'm so glad to hear that you appreciated the video, and I want you to know that you're not alone in how you're feeling. Let me just say that your self-awareness and willingness to reach out are incredibly impressive. It takes a lot of courage to open up about these struggles, especially as a young teen.
Self-image can be a real challenge, and it's something many people, including adults, grapple with. Remember, you're still growing and changing, both physically and mentally, and what you see in the mirror doesn't define your worth or who you are as a person.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@alessiasutherberry 💗💗💗
Thing is I've felt like I was horribly ugly since I was 4 and by then even adults approached my parents and told them how cute I was but I got so used to my mom talking bad about all types of women that it made me develop horrible body dysmorphia. I remember when I was 14 I couldn't even look at myself in the mirror and find one good thing and once my mom's friend took a picture of me and I looked exactly like what I wanted to look like.
Right now my body is ill and I have tons of acne and swelling from hormone imbalance that is finally getting treated and it makes me feel so bad because I felt like I was the one truly ugly person (like my face was missing ''it'', the spark everybody else had) for so long and now that I know I really don't look good to people is when I need to try to embrace my body and it hurts so badly.
I'm a Male, I feel Ugly when I was younger. Now I lost 70 Lbs They look at me differently now. More Positive looks.
When I see these ''glow up'' trends where people start stating there's no way someone can improve their looks so much it gives me a horrible feeling because it was so easy to tell from the start that that person was good looking, they just differed from what's allowed for people to look like according to standards.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that; Remember you're always worth it.
5 tips to not be ugly:
tip 1: wtf are u doing here? ur fucking gorgeous scram
awh
@@tani.q why did u click on it?? U should learn to love urself.. even tho I don’t love myself lol I’m just tryna spread the message.. anyways ur gorgeous
@@kendall__ thanks 🥺🥺❤️
I was feeling very ugly these days but when I saw your video i just feel that I'm not ugly tnq so much 💜💜
That is music to my ears, I am so sorry you are going through this - there is light at the end of the tunnel xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Thank you so much dear ❤️ actually I was very depressed these days because my boyfriend broke up with me because I was not very beautiful 🥺😭
@@Poojakhanuja20 I am so sorry that’s awful - you are beautiful, sometimes people don’t recognise beauty when it is right in front of them because they’re blinded by their own ugliness - I am sure that was the case with your ex boyfriend - being nasty is the ugliest trait xx
@@alessiasutherberry thanks dear your motivation and tips helped me so much that I am going to marry my bestfriend Jin
He is Korean we are getting married in 2 weeks thank you so much 💜😭💜😘 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I wish I could invite you in my wedding 💜😘
@@Poojakhanuja20 oh my gosh that is incredible!!!! I want to know how the wedding goes! Congrats 🥰🥰🥰
This was a lovely video, you’re so beautiful yourself & your voice is so pretty you’re like a beautiful little flower 🌺🌞
You are so lovely, taking the time to post such a heart warming comment, says a lot about your character. 🥰 Thank you so much! 🥰❤️
She is wonderfully honest,...very nice personality..just need to have confidence.
Thank you so much Jane❤️ You are a kind soul x
There is no such thing called confidence u become that way when u feel good in your body and to feel good in your body u need to accept yourself and to accept yourself u need to be aware that u look good and to be aware that u look good u need to look good if u are ugly u wont enjoy life as attractive people as u are aware that u dont feel comfortable in your body as u look ugly and i hate all gorgeous people saying they are ugly that is just being fucked up look up how real ugly people look like
I find this video interesting. I’m African American, brown skin. Pretty in the face, slim. I feel like majority of my insecurity comes from my hair, and I have the 3c/4a desirable texture. Even if you’re at the top of your game, you can still envy another sport. For example, I love your hair!!!! Like so envious, I love how much easier it is to deal with with. I get compliments from people with hair like yours but I want hair like the Asian girls, thick and dark like that? So beautiful.
Basically. What I’ve learned, a rose is beautiful. But so is a hibiscus. Two different types of beauty, different flavors, different kinds!
How have I only just seen this comment. I am so sorry it took me two months to get back to you lovely! How are you doing?
I loveeeee what you said about all flowers being beautiful just in different ways. I so agree. Beauty comes in so many different forms.
Sending a big hug your way. xxxxx
as a black woman it’s crazy how much my hair is a determining factor in how attractive I feel…when my hair is long and straight or I have extensions I get attention from guys but when I wear it natural…nada. I have the more “desirable” hair texture too (3b/3c).
Thank you for this ❤ Things have been tough lately and I feel like one of my closest friends is slipping away and now I have to worry about her stealing my crush from me.. I felt ugly compared to her and other people in my grade..I’ve been stuck honestly and this video really helped me figure things out 😊😊
Nowadays I have stoped seeking male validation from the tops you have given in your videos my life has become more comfortable and most important my mind is in peace .........
But whenever I wear makeup or even I put lip balm on or I do skincare I subconsciously keep on telling myself I'm doing this so that males get attracted to me ....I at that moment only I intterupt myself cause before I used to do makeup and skincare to seek male validation that it has gotten into my subconscious mind I do interrupt my thoughts and affirm myself saying I'm doing this for myself I want to look beautiful in my eyes and I want my skin to be nice that's why I'm doing it but sometimes I do self doubt myself and I'm trying to change it
All thanks to you loads of love❤❤❤❤❤❤
While all of those inner qualities are nice they're not physical beauty. All you can do is accept yourself as you are and do your best to emphasize things that you actually like about yourself.
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If you focus on your God-given purpose, which only you can do, you'll discover looks are irrelevant. Besides, you're the apple of God's eyes created for a reason. And we need one another.💝🌹💐🙏
Omg I love youuuu😭
This moves me so much..I have been watching videos about insecurities to do inner work and your video comforts me so much
Aw I love you too🥰🥰❤❤ I'm so so so happy you've enjoyed my videos lovely. Thank you for commenting xxxxxx
It's kinda an amazing video, Alessia! I also feel ugly from time to time although I'm skinny, toll and white too... thank you for these steps!
Thank you so much for creating content like this!!! This video is exactly what I needed to hear and you have no idea how much I appreciate you.
I LOOOOOOVED this video!!!! Thank you so so much 🙏🏼💞🍉 this was exactly what I needed to hear tonight!!!! So so so helpful. Thank you beautiful!!!! ☺️☺️☺️🙏🏼
I am so glad you loved it!!! Thank you for your kind words. Lots of love xx❤❤💘🥰
I am here because I am in perimenopause and my hair is becoming extremely thin. Therefore my appearance is changing I wore a wig for a while, but now am sick of hiding. So 'I will put forth the effort to overcome this with God's help through videos, books, and God's Holy Word.👍🏾🙏💝🌹😍💐
So helpful and your voice is so relaxing.. thank you so much for your efforts and sharing this with us❤️😽
There was one time i was doing a funny face to make my mum smile and she told me "You are making yourself even uglier than you aldready are."
I'm so sorry to hear that lovely. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. I hope you know you are not alone and that you have me and this channel. We appreciate you 💘💘💘💘💘💘💘
🫨 we love our parents but sometimes they can say the meanest of things... Sorry. But she doesn't define your value, even if she's your mum
@@laceyloops Facts 💗🥰
Feeling ugly does not make a woman Insecure, she will & does have many, many amazing qualities.
Feeling ugly is "an insecurity" , It does make her Insecure.
Being bullied destroyed my self confidence. I cant even look at myself in the mirror without thinking im hideous.
if that's you on your pfp you're genuinely so beautiful... we tend to look for any thing that differs us from the beauty standard and hyperfixate on it
@@moonieri omg thank you so much for this, i was literally having a breakdown over my looks 5 minutes ago 🥲 have a nice day
Came across you’re RUclips, you have such a pretty aura🥺
Awh thank you so much for being so lovely 🥰❤ I hope you have a lovely day babe 🥰🥰🥰 xxxxxxx
Lipedema patient here with a low hyoid bone, grade three ptosis to my breasts and a boyish face (apparently I look eighty from behind and eleven face-wise). Not a mindset. 😅 If it's just a mindset you don't get avoided and bullied by all males and end up being dateless for the entirety of your 35 years of life albeit you're the one asking people out.
A "mindset" won't stop you from getting guys to give you their phone numbers after you've given them yours. I understand the desire to help, but ugly is not a mindset. Ugly woman means getting called for jobs because you mastered six languages and being told you didn't pass before you even go in for an interview, right after they receive the formal CV they requested via phone call with the mandatory photo attached.
Thank you for making this video
Both my sisters have less fair skin than me but they are extremely beautiful. Both of them got beautiful facial features from my parents. I have the most fair skin but I am not even close to beautiful. My relatives praise them both that they are beautiful and not even look at me that’s makes me sad and sometimes jealous, does that makes me a bad person?
Babe I'm so sorry to hear this. Thank you sharing this with me. ❤❤ You don't deserve that treatment. I don't think you're a bad person AT ALL. I hope you feel valued by other people in your life. You're so special, some people are so blind sometimes. xx
Wow this was very unique perspective. Loved it ❤️
Awh thanks so much my lovely ❤️❤️❤️
This is so hard to understand. Especially when every woman around me is treated better because of pretty privilege and men being attracted to them. And always overlooking me, as i dont fit the beauty standard.
Also its no secret that being beautiful gives you so many more opportunities to pursue your dreams and goals.
i feel like a moth in a world full of butterflies
I can’t relate to so many things u say thanks so much for giving us motivation and change our prescriptive towards things ❤ 😍❤️❤️❤️
Aw thank you for this comment lovely !❤❤❤ Lots of love xxxxx
Wow 👏🏼 Such wise words angel! This really helped me today ✨♥️
Aw thanks lovely girl 💙❤️💗💙❤️💗
I love this. I needed this.
Question though. How will I know if I am beautiful if everyone I fall on love with is aware of everyone who is more attractive than me? Ya know? Its annoying bc yes my boyfriend says I am pretty and he says he finds me attractive but I see whats online, what he looks at….and I don’t look like that. I know I am not ugly. But wouldn’t it suck to be with someone who is AWARE that other people are better looking than you? To me, when I fell for him, my heart glasses were only for him. Its almost like attractive men were just there and not even people. I didnt even care to look, I wasn’t even attracted to people I was attracted to before. Sure I know he isn’t the hottest in the world, BUT to me, I would be more attracted to him in a room of the most attractive people in the world….its the love. So do men just work off Lust?
I hope they will me videos about how to stop feeling ugly for men too❤️
He sent me a video of a man and told me I look like him I think I fell deeper into depression 😢😢
is it true that the older the WOMAN the lower the value or the value fades??? i heard this many times
yeah I'm watching this video again because it's very good and it helped me a lot.
That’s music to my ears ! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you! X
Not a woman (guy) but thank you actually
This is good to hear:)
What lipstick is this? It's so pretty!
my short fat body with big head make me feel insecure .
i try to find someone i can relate to
but all i find is beautiful girls telling this kind of stuff ... i just cant relate 😐
I love it. I am teenage from Spain and wowwww thank you
That is amazing ! Thank you !! ❤️❤️❤️ Also Feliz Navidad! X
YOU ARE SOOOO DAMNNN TRUTH
The was truthful and honest....and nice
thanks lovely 🤗
Nice one Alessia! 😊
my bother called me ugly when i was little girl why
Hey, I don't know if you will reply to me or not. I have always been told I am beautiful from a young age, gets a lot of male validation here and there even I know myself am pretty but somehow I always wants to be best , best looking , having best grades and no one ever criticised me into doing these things. I feel like am not pretty enough and you know the inner feeling of knowing your self worth isn't really high for me. I feel super super insecure around other pretty people.
God makes no mistakes. Humans are fearlessly and wonderfully created by God. And it's delusional to think there's a universal beauty.🙏🤦🏾💝🌹😍
God is not real.
I don't feel ugly. I AM ugly. :(
Loved this - thank you.
Thank you for watching my love x
Did you really say "i'm white, i'm thin" at the beginning of the video?!
Yes and that she has pretty privilege. All truths.
It's the fact that she thinks that being white makes her prettier. Sounds obnoxious. Sad to say but I kind of agree. Not in a racist kind of way but white people literally look like angels when they're really pretty. Unlike say a pretty african or asian. They're all beautiful but the white kind of beautiful is more glorious I feel. Still wouldn’t want to be white for anything. Let me keep struggling with my 4c hair and dark skin. Whether I look like an angel or not. I know everyone has an upper hand over someone else no matter how destitute you may feel. I still love being a black african.
I would love it if after the part about capitalism wanting us to buy things, you said, "this video is sponsored by shein!"
"you are uniquely beautiful" oh so you're viewing me through my camera somehow? Or you made this video specifically so I would see it? Hm doesn't seem likely
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How to stop feeling ugly
Step 1: don't be ugly
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How does being white have anything to do with being pretty all color shine what are you trying to say about those Black people?
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This video came at the perfect time 🙏 thank you 🩵
🥰💘❤ lots of love lovely xxxx
But you’re pretty… it’s easy for you to
@@Lalla-cy2zd Girl that is a pound of makeup and a filter. Don’t let pictures deceive you 🤣
@@paytonworkman1715 I’m sure you’re beautiful even without it 🤍
You're British? 🇬🇧
I am !!! 🥰
@@alessiasutherberry thanks for replying ✨ I really like that accent of you people.
Greetings from India💙
@@Natalia-cm8ez hello !!! ❤️❤️❤️ lots of love
what is this?
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So do us men.
Everybody's ugly.
bro why only attractive people talk about this i dont care what u say when u look gorgeous, get ugly first then talk u will see how is it
becouse even when u are attravtibe u can feel ugly
@@qwuantum but its just a feeling, they aren't getting made fun of all the time for their looks
I don’t get why now days you’re not progressive or you’re bigoted if you don’t think surgery is a good thing. It seems pretty obvious that paying to permanently change your body/appearance is not a healthy or productive choice to make. It doesn’t fix your deeper issues, you’ll always find something else to be unhappy with. And ultimately you’re just buying into the negative dumb mainstream culture that’s obsessed with looks and image which is what brought us to your video in the first place. Feeling ugly because we live in a world that focuses way too much on a superficial form of beauty and the various physical characteristics WE’VE deemed to be “beautiful”. It’s changed throughout history. Plump women were once sought after. Then it was shamed and women were expected to be super skinny. Now women are expected to have a skinny stomach, big ass, big boobs while the rest of them is without fat.
It’s just ridiculous, it’s all a construct.
easier said than done. As an ugly woman life is harder. wether you agree with that statement and or it sounds harsh it doesnt matter. There will always be a standard no matter what generation your in- and the majority of humans will follow and believe in that standard and alienate those who don’t follow since its human nature to do so. People dont feel alienated they just are.
Yeah and even if you get something fixed, it’s not always going to turn out the way you want. I got a nose job several years back and I haven’t felt myself since.. :( I feel like I look worse now than before.
it didn't help at all. when you feel deeply ugly these words are useless
Everybody's ugly. Those ppl you think are beautiful? They're really not
Useless Video.
Thank you for your videos it’s so soul soothing to listen to you
Aw thanks lovely🥰❤️💗💜
I hope I can be less insecure about my boney arms and my spine showing so much.
I am sorry you feel insecure about your ams and spine, that must be super hard. If you want to chat in more detail please fill free to message me on instagram (healing Alessia) x
Thanks for making this video
aw thank you for commenting ❤