Alessia Sutherberry
Alessia Sutherberry
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How to stop obsessing over how you look (ULTIMATE GUIDE: make peace with your body + face)
How to stop obsessing over how you look (ULTIMATE GUIDE: make peace with your body + face)
00:00 - Coming up
01:21 - Why we care about how we look
09:11 - Guide: Stop obsessing over looks
MY PROGRAMME FOR WOMEN✨ (decentering men, self validation, healing the inner child, and more)! ✨ If you are interested and would like to learn more, reach out via email - alessia.sutherberry@hotmail.co.uk ❤️
Business inquiries ~ alessia.sutherberry@hotmail.co.uk
My Instagram ~ alessiasutherberry?hl=en
Просмотров: 1 225

Видео

how to stop envying other girls (jealousy) (toxic friendships) (self improvement)
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.14 дней назад
How to stop wanting other women to fail. ✨🧚‍♀️🌾🌺🦋🍓💸🌻🌿🌸☀️ How to stop jealousy from consuming you (for girls who *envy* other girls) Video Chapters 00:00 - Coming up 01:15 - Tearing other women down 04:31 - Female role models 05:36 - Boys will be held accountable 08:16 - Do you really hate her? 09:33 - “I’M JUST A JEALOUS PERSON” 14:28 - Toxic friendships 19:10 - We’re reflections of each other ...
How to live your girly life *wisely* (habits) (spend money to make money) (access your highest self)
Просмотров 4,8 тыс.21 день назад
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How to stop needing a man (stop chasing men) (financial security) (decenter men) (healing)
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.Месяц назад
stop chasing men start chasing a rich life 00:00 - Stop needing a man (context) 02:47 - Men financial security 13:31 - The art of satisfying yourself 18:12 - Embracing quiet moments Videos for women wanting to know more about financial empowerment : ruclips.net/video/f_2iLwPAulE/видео.htmlsi=-sxWDnU-tLN1juDC ruclips.net/video/hHZPtabIMtM/видео.htmlsi=_x4MSJQntbP6-h4y MY PROGRAMME FOR WOMEN✨ (de...
Life advice for conventionally *attractive women* (insecurities) (self esteem) (relationships)
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.Месяц назад
What it's like being a beautiful woman. Video Chapters: 00:00 - Intro 03:55 - Lack of identity 09:11 - External validation VS self validation 11:11 - Strong sense of self 14:27 - Beautiful people are vain? 17:35 - Beautiful people aren't insecure? 19:37 - Beauty = happiness 21:32 - Women unite MY PROGRAMME FOR WOMEN✨ (decentering men, self validation, healing the inner child, and more)! ✨ If yo...
Honest advice for women dating insecure men (not what you want to hear, what you NEED to hear)
Просмотров 2,5 тыс.Месяц назад
💘 Relationship advice for women dating insecure men. 💘 Video chapters: 00:00 - Coming up 01:24 - Intro 02:02 - Assertive women are strong women 12:05 - The men that tell you to ‘stop crying’ 15:30 - Less is more girly MY PROGRAMME FOR WOMEN✨ (decentering men, self validation, healing the inner child, and more)! ✨ If you are interested and would like to learn more, reach out via email - alessia....
Stop apologising for being *beautiful* | my honest advice for women | confidence | authentic self ✨
Просмотров 4,6 тыс.2 месяца назад
Stop apologising for being *beautiful* | my honest advice for women | confidence | authentic self ✨
How to decenter men *BUT still enjoy dating men* | stop trying to win him over | high-value woman
Просмотров 9 тыс.2 месяца назад
How to decenter men *BUT still enjoy dating men* | stop trying to win him over | high-value woman
How to *deeply* validate yourself (so he can’t invalidate you) (emotional validation)
Просмотров 4,5 тыс.3 месяца назад
How to *deeply* validate yourself (so he can’t invalidate you) (emotional validation)
Ways women self-sabotage their dream life + how to stop (self-doubt) (dream job) (patriarchy)
Просмотров 3,6 тыс.3 месяца назад
Ways women self-sabotage their dream life how to stop (self-doubt) (dream job) (patriarchy)
How to get over *rejection* as a woman (dating lessons) (male validation) (self-doubt) 🥹🪽
Просмотров 5 тыс.3 месяца назад
How to get over *rejection* as a woman (dating lessons) (male validation) (self-doubt) 🥹🪽
Ultimate 6AM Meditation (for women) *love yourself* *attract goodness* *heal deeply* (female voice)
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.3 месяца назад
Ultimate 6AM Meditation (for women) *love yourself* *attract goodness* *heal deeply* (female voice)
Stop getting in your own way & heal (from avoidant girl to secure woman)
Просмотров 2,5 тыс.3 месяца назад
Stop getting in your own way & heal (from avoidant girl to secure woman)
How to stop clinging on to your boyfriend (detach + find happiness independent of a man)
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.4 месяца назад
How to stop clinging on to your boyfriend (detach find happiness independent of a man)
how to *actually* feel better about your appearance | feel DEEPLY attractive | train your brain |
Просмотров 4,5 тыс.4 месяца назад
how to *actually* feel better about your appearance | feel DEEPLY attractive | train your brain |
How to stop unconsciously performing for men (bye male validation, hi self-love)
Просмотров 6 тыс.4 месяца назад
How to stop unconsciously performing for men (bye male validation, hi self-love)
Affirmations: decenter men + re-center yourself ✨❤️‍🩹🧘‍♀️
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.4 месяца назад
Affirmations: decenter men re-center yourself ✨❤️‍🩹🧘‍♀️
Trying to heal everyone? *They don't care, so why should you?*
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.4 месяца назад
Trying to heal everyone? *They don't care, so why should you?*
how to *separate your worth from your looks* as a woman (male validation, true friendships, mindset)
Просмотров 4,3 тыс.4 месяца назад
how to *separate your worth from your looks* as a woman (male validation, true friendships, mindset)
Stop waiting for him to take you out = you know where the door is. 💘
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.5 месяцев назад
Stop waiting for him to take you out = you know where the door is. 💘
How to have *women who actually care about you* around (friendship, overcome jealousy, healing)
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.5 месяцев назад
How to have *women who actually care about you* around (friendship, overcome jealousy, healing)
From *Agreeable Girl* to *THIS IS ME, TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, WOMAN* 🌷✨
Просмотров 4,7 тыс.5 месяцев назад
From *Agreeable Girl* to *THIS IS ME, TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, WOMAN* 🌷✨
Heal your *period pain* | affirmations | relief | healing music | calming | soft voice
Просмотров 3756 месяцев назад
Heal your *period pain* | affirmations | relief | healing music | calming | soft voice
How to have powerful intuition (so men can’t take advantage of you) (predict the future) (dating)
Просмотров 2,9 тыс.6 месяцев назад
How to have powerful intuition (so men can’t take advantage of you) (predict the future) (dating)
How to STEP INTO your FEMININE RAGE ~ stop entertaining defensive men + heal (life changing)
Просмотров 3,2 тыс.6 месяцев назад
How to STEP INTO your FEMININE RAGE ~ stop entertaining defensive men heal (life changing)
heal your relationship with your sexuality ~ inner peace | confidence | queer representation (film)
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.6 месяцев назад
heal your relationship with your sexuality ~ inner peace | confidence | queer representation (film)
15 Minute Guided Meditation | secure EXACTLY what you desire, no less | visualisation method |
Просмотров 3,6 тыс.6 месяцев назад
15 Minute Guided Meditation | secure EXACTLY what you desire, no less | visualisation method |
how to SWITCH from *nice girl* to *assertive woman* | life lessons for people pleasers
Просмотров 4,1 тыс.7 месяцев назад
how to SWITCH from *nice girl* to *assertive woman* | life lessons for people pleasers
How to STOP basing your self worth on men fancying you | YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU RADIATE
Просмотров 6 тыс.7 месяцев назад
How to STOP basing your self worth on men fancying you | YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU RADIATE
Books, films & podcasts that DECENTER MEN | hello *female gaze* goodbye male gaze | feminine energy
Просмотров 3,3 тыс.7 месяцев назад
Books, films & podcasts that DECENTER MEN | hello *female gaze* goodbye male gaze | feminine energy

Комментарии

  • @Zhr-hj3dn
    @Zhr-hj3dn 2 часа назад

    why you didn't say to us " hello beautiful people "😭😭

  • @RikkeGade
    @RikkeGade 11 часов назад

    Think im gonna share this video with the girls i used to babysit when i was an au pair. They are 15 and 13 now. I wish someone told me at a earlier age❤️

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry 8 часов назад

      Aw bless you! I bet you were the best au pair! 💗💗💗

    • @RikkeGade
      @RikkeGade 6 часов назад

      @@alessiasutherberry Aww that's so sweet, thank you dear🥰

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry 6 часов назад

      @@RikkeGade 💗

  • @ericajane5465
    @ericajane5465 12 часов назад

    Thank you so much for these beautiful, kind,and wise words, Alessia ❤ You are a treasure and angelic soul 😊 Sending you much love and many warm wishes ❤

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry 8 часов назад

      Aw thank you for your beautiful and kind words 💗💗💗💗 I really appreciate you xxxx

  • @IngenueFeliu-uf1id
    @IngenueFeliu-uf1id 12 часов назад

    Spoken so beautifully, thank you for sharing this message. <3

  • @Jenna-vj2ju
    @Jenna-vj2ju 20 часов назад

    My favorite channel!

  • @GretMad
    @GretMad 21 час назад

    Hi Alessia, thanks for the healing video❤❤❤ I just wanted to say that a year ago I commented on your birthday video (as it’s my birthday today) saying that I was having a sad birthday and your video helped me a lot - I’m happy to say that my life is a lot different now and my birthday today was filled with joy and love. Your response to my comment a year ago made me feel much better that day so I just wanted to give you a happy update😊 I hope you’re enjoying your summer x

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry 8 часов назад

      Hi my lovely. Omg, I remember your comment! 💗 Thank you so much for reaching out again, I'm so blimming chuffed that your birthday was filled with joy and love this time! Happy belated birthday btw! 🥰💗 Your comment has really really warmed my heart. I hope you're enjoying your summer too xxx💗💗💗

  • @jennifer5353
    @jennifer5353 21 час назад

    This video is so important ❤ I wish I had learnt this when I was in my 20s. My then boyfriend was so hard on me because of my appearance. I was never enough for him so he used to tell me how I should look to be perfect. By the time we broke up I didn’t even know myself, I was just the beauty obsessed girl that he had created and it took a lot of time and effort to connect with my true self again… I think we as women need to take care of each other and spread this message.

    • @coolbreeze5683
      @coolbreeze5683 19 часов назад

      I think we all wish we learned this lesson earlier in life! I was working in hairstyling and esthetics in my early 20s and many of the women who would come in on a regular basis would "joke" about how they need to maintain their looks so their husbands/ partners don't cheat on them or leave. Me being in my 20s at that time would laugh along with them but now, I realized how sad that was. That their marriages and relationships were built on something so shallow and impermanent. Even if it wasn't their husbands putting that thought in their minds in each case, it was the fact that they believed that they weren't worthy of being with their partners unless they looked a certain way. They basically bathed themselves in chemicals and put themselves at risk of long term health issues just to look a certain way for external validation.

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry 8 часов назад

      I'm so sorry your ex boyfriend said that hurtful stuff to you. I'm so glad you are away from him and that you have worked to connect with your true self again. I'm proud of you for making the effort because it can be super difficult. 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry 8 часов назад

      @@coolbreeze5683 Such a valuable insight. So interesting how we can joke about these things because it is so normalised.

  • @emilybelen932
    @emilybelen932 22 часа назад

    Thank you sm Alessia you are doing great and making big changes in this world ! you are very inspiring keep going.

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry 22 часа назад

      @@emilybelen932 aw thank you for saying this my lovely. Means so much to me! 💕❤️💕🥰 xxx

  • @sunny02x97
    @sunny02x97 23 часа назад

    I struggle with a skin condition and it’s so hard to not focus on my appearance 😫

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry 8 часов назад

      I totally get why you struggle to not focus on your appearance lovely. 💚 This RUclips channel is a safe space for you to talk about this. Sending a big warm hug your way x

  • @urrockstargf111
    @urrockstargf111 День назад

    alessia i hope you know how much your videos mean to me a guy commented on how i looked today and it made so insecure abt something i didnt even notice before this is exactly what i needed bless u

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry День назад

      @@urrockstargf111 Aw my love I’m so sorry you were made to feel insecure today:( I am sending you a big hug. You are sooo much more than your body and face. You are a valuable and beautiful soul! 😘❤️💕✨

  • @justkeepgrowing1994
    @justkeepgrowing1994 День назад

    Your videos mean a lot to me - they are finally helping me start to care less about my looks, and stop seeking external validation. My partner tells me I should stop caring so much but he hasn’t experienced life through the female lens, where there is so much value placed on our looks. It’s a long journey but I’m trying! Thank you so much ❤️

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry День назад

      @@justkeepgrowing1994 Omg! Go you my lovely. You are clearly putting in the work to value yourself deeply. It’s you that you have to thank, not me! 🥰❤️😘 xxxx

  • @malaikannn
    @malaikannn День назад

    loved this video! as a south asian girl i don’t meet the eurocentric beauty standards and i used to get made fun of for having dark thick upper lip hair and having darker spots etc and i spent so long trying to make myself appear white until i just realised that i don’t want to fit in anymore i want let girls who look like me know it’s ok to embrace your ethnicity and your heritage. keep doing what you’re doing ❤

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry День назад

      Such a beautiful and powerful realisation you came to. Keep doing what you are doing too my lovely! And you thank you for being so sweet 💗💗💗💗

  • @_iam1533
    @_iam1533 День назад

    Not me being ugly and watching this 😂

    • @EYRM9
      @EYRM9 15 часов назад

      everything is temporary, good things are temporary and bad things are temporary.. This is just all what life can offer, but your soul is eternal. Nothing in this life is worth your soul, and especially a few seconds of lust. Worry about your ETERNAL soul and not about your temporary life. You don’t need a man/ woman or materialistic things you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill someone thing that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33 “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 Note: I’m not saying don’t get married, I’m just talking about obsession or even committing adultery and losing your soul for the opposite sex rather than following our father and creator.

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 День назад

    Morning from Hawaii been watch this video very interesting but like it

  • @caterinarizzo3311
    @caterinarizzo3311 День назад

    bellissimo video

  • @Maryam-cy6cv
    @Maryam-cy6cv День назад

    The sad part is that most women get treated better when they look “pretty” according to societal standards. + A lot of women don’t want to miss out on the pretty privilege treatment. But the real question is who cares if is we miss out on that superficial treatment?We are worth way more than what we look like!! + not needing that validation will make us attract genuine people who want a genuine relationship just like us💕

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry День назад

      Wise words my lovely 🥰💗😘🩵

    • @coolbreeze5683
      @coolbreeze5683 День назад

      Great comment! Why do we try to get attention from people for our looks? That's how an object with no mind or consciousness gets regarded as. Why would anyone want to strive to be an object? There are men who will date a plastic doll. Why would any woman want to appeal to someone with no discernment or standards. It doesn't matter if people like that treat you better 😂 their opinions are of no value. It reminds me of an Instagram model that went to a conference to meet her fans. She was excited about meeting her crowds of followers. Then she did an interview after the conference and said she's deciding to close down her account. Some of the fans she met at the conference were creepy and disgusting. It wasn't worth the money just knowing she appealed to so many creeps. I guess on paper, she thought she would have tons of level headed, handsome fans 😂 she enjoyed the ego boost of getting tons of attention and gifts but then she saw who was mainly giving that attention to her and she couldn't do it anymore.

  • @bisquit_cream
    @bisquit_cream День назад

    Thank you so much for your content. Feels Like a blanket over my soul in a windy and overwhelming world

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry День назад

      Omg I loveeee this comment. Wow, thank you my love 🥰😘🩵💕

  • @rosemariesmith3555
    @rosemariesmith3555 День назад

    You’re one of my FAVE channels. I love challenging these old beliefs and moving twd a happier self. ❤

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry День назад

      YOU ARE THE CUTEST 💗🥰😘🩵 thanks for saying this 💗💗

  • @stargirl3972
    @stargirl3972 День назад

    I can’t stress enough how valuable and important your channel is. I know your channel will continue to grow and you will continue to help so many women ❤ thank you so much 🙏🏽💙

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry День назад

      @@stargirl3972 Aw thank you for being so lovely and kind 🥰❤️ you’ve made my day!

    • @123isi321
      @123isi321 День назад

      I have the same thoughts! ❤ so grateful for your channel, your intelligence and warmhearted intention. Also your voice and the birds sounds in your videos. So good to listen to 🥰

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry День назад

      @@123isi321 aw yay! thank you lovely 🥰🥰🥰 sending a big hug your way xxxx

  • @thatsnotmyname2798
    @thatsnotmyname2798 День назад

    Who was your favorite L word character?

  • @thejaywalkerkid
    @thejaywalkerkid День назад

    I think this affects women with validation seeking and people pleasing issues, who are brought up in a household of emotionally unavailable parents, exponentially. Great points

    • @EYRM9
      @EYRM9 15 часов назад

      everything is temporary, good things are temporary and bad things are temporary.. This is just all what life can offer, but your soul is eternal. Nothing in this life is worth your soul, and especially a few seconds of lust. Worry about your ETERNAL soul and not about your temporary life. You don’t need a man/ woman or materialistic things you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill someone thing that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33 “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 Note: I’m not saying don’t get married, I’m just talking about obsession or even committing adultery and losing your soul for the opposite sex rather than following our father and creator.

  • @lisa-mariebengel4539
    @lisa-mariebengel4539 2 дня назад

    This video made me feel very secure and empowered, so thank you so much. I´ve been noticing that since Uni I have made some friends that talk very negative in general, and sometimes about other women by whom they felt mistreated. This was a new environment for me because my close friends and I have deep connections and never talked negatively about each other. The only relationships I experienced hate for women was with classmates in middle school and I never liked that dynamic. This video really helped me realize that I have to take a step back from some my friends and really feel into what serves me in that relationship. 💙

  • @NaYa-j9p
    @NaYa-j9p 2 дня назад

    I never hax anxiety issues in the past but recently i feel my life has changed due to many factors and I've become selective to people i hang out with and date this has also made me spend more time by myself and i have noticed for the first time in my life i have experienced anxiety going out i feel people stare at me which usually happened before since im a foreigner and not so bad looking but it didn't brothered me before but now it does it really does and it makes me so anxious now. Making me wish i was invisible and sometimes i don't even want to leave me house to not experience this 😢

  • @reesecrotchett2115
    @reesecrotchett2115 2 дня назад

    Thank you for this ❤ Things have been tough lately and I feel like one of my closest friends is slipping away and now I have to worry about her stealing my crush from me.. I felt ugly compared to her and other people in my grade..I’ve been stuck honestly and this video really helped me figure things out 😊😊

  • @GottaBeNoah
    @GottaBeNoah 2 дня назад

    Being a transman, I have isloated myself at home for over a decade. This week I have finally decided to break the ice a d go out to watch a movie and just see the world. Not going to lie, pretty nerve wrecking. This video helped me a lot mentally. Although I know I am not the target audience haha

  • @cherrypandas
    @cherrypandas 3 дня назад

    i see beauty in everything and everyone except for myself

  • @PalettePrincess97
    @PalettePrincess97 3 дня назад

    It’s that we as women are supposed to want men and their attention is what makes me feel indifferent.

  • @Notyourgirl-nv7lt
    @Notyourgirl-nv7lt 4 дня назад

    Very true and important to spread awareness about this.. 🧿💙

  • @redspiderlily27
    @redspiderlily27 4 дня назад

    Thank you for the tips. I never thought of thinking in the ways you mentioned. I feel better now. I have always felt ugly and these days the insecurities were getting much much stronger and affecting my daily life. I just cry all day because I have no money for surgery or good clothes or makeup. I cry and compare myself a lot to my peers. I am trying to change this thought process and i appreciate your video and tips. Thanks.

  • @vidimtepodstromem
    @vidimtepodstromem 4 дня назад

    Im not even beautiful but i still seek a lot of male vaildation and it crushed my self esteem and mental health😢 But I am focusing on myself healing from this burden I’ve forced myself in😅 thank you!!!!❤

  • @jazzonthemoonBACKUP
    @jazzonthemoonBACKUP 4 дня назад

    Lipedema patient here with a low hyoid bone, grade three ptosis to my breasts and a boyish face (apparently I look eighty from behind and eleven face-wise). Not a mindset. 😅 If it's just a mindset you don't get avoided and bullied by all males and end up being dateless for the entirety of your 35 years of life albeit you're the one asking people out. A "mindset" won't stop you from getting guys to give you their phone numbers after you've given them yours. I understand the desire to help, but ugly is not a mindset. Ugly woman means getting called for jobs because you mastered six languages and being told you didn't pass before you even go in for an interview, right after they receive the formal CV they requested via phone call with the mandatory photo attached.

  • @zebraslippers
    @zebraslippers 5 дней назад

    ive been putting off going on this journey out of fear for way too long. idk what happened but immediately, after hearing the first things you said, i just started sobbing and cried the whole video. i guess it was a needed release and that i needed to hear all these things today. thank you!

  • @geoeconomics5629
    @geoeconomics5629 5 дней назад

    You forgot that you chose him

  • @Lovereems
    @Lovereems 5 дней назад

    Thanks you so much for this❤

    • @EYRM9
      @EYRM9 15 часов назад

      everything is temporary, good things are temporary and bad things are temporary.. This is just all what life can offer, but your soul is eternal. Nothing in this life is worth your soul, and especially a few seconds of lust. Worry about your ETERNAL soul and not about your temporary life. You don’t need a man/ woman or materialistic things you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill someone thing that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33 “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 Note: I’m not saying don’t get married, I’m just talking about obsession or even committing adultery and losing your soul for the opposite sex rather than following our father and creator.

  • @sp_7.77
    @sp_7.77 5 дней назад

    You are amazing, thank you. I send love to you and all women in the world.

  • @Cxssiekxy
    @Cxssiekxy 6 дней назад

    Im 13 and struggle with male validation. im going to high school and throughout my middle school life, all i ever saw was girls talking about guys, dating, and just relationships and people gossiping about others' relationships, and i barely got any male attention which i blamed on my looks and tried to dress better and look better (also partially for myself too cause i was insecure) and all i ever did was try to get guys like any time a guy talked to me i would immediately fall in love i. I'm trying to get over my need for male validation 😊

    • @beverlyfernandes6357
      @beverlyfernandes6357 4 дня назад

      I can totally relate. It's just so sad how it has been normalized and not much people speak about this. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. We will loose ourselves if we keep trying to please others. I never thought I had this problem until I watched the video and read some comments. We can move past this.

    • @EYRM9
      @EYRM9 15 часов назад

      everything is temporary, good things are temporary and bad things are temporary.. This is just all what life can offer, but your soul is eternal. Nothing in this life is worth your soul, and especially a few seconds of lust. Worry about your ETERNAL soul and not about your temporary life. You don’t need a man/ woman or materialistic things you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill someone thing that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33 “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 Note: I’m not saying don’t get married, I’m just talking about obsession or even committing adultery and losing your soul for the opposite sex rather than following our father and creator.

  • @Pragatithepainter
    @Pragatithepainter 7 дней назад

    He did not rejected me he compared and told me i am not attractive at alll

  • @AeCherry99
    @AeCherry99 7 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this video.I have struggled with this jealousy throughout my teens and early 20s.Now that I’m 25, I’m slowly learning to love and accept myself for who I am.Learning to really appreciate other women instead of seeing them as competition.Your videos help a lot ❤.

  • @PolinaM20
    @PolinaM20 8 дней назад

    Great things you were saying made me think of you as magically beautiful and appealing. I do get amazed by women’s beauty as a woman but that should give no stiffness in your attitude and desires to put there in the world or experience them. I was getting so anxious every time my beauty was praised, my core wanted my own validation. I also fall into this trap of covering my feelings by “perfect” looks as if it gave me meanings in life. This video was relatable and nice example of how to stop and come back to my heart talking, not my fears. Thank you ❤️

    • @EYRM9
      @EYRM9 15 часов назад

      everything is temporary, good things are temporary and bad things are temporary.. This is just all what life can offer, but your soul is eternal. Nothing in this life is worth your soul, and especially a few seconds of lust. Worry about your ETERNAL soul and not about your temporary life. You don’t need a man/ woman or materialistic things you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill someone thing that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33 “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 Note: I’m not saying don’t get married, I’m just talking about obsession or even committing adultery and losing your soul for the opposite sex rather than following our father and creator.

  • @MyMoAl
    @MyMoAl 8 дней назад

    Omg ur so prettyy idk why but u kinda resemble ayeza khan ahaha ❤

    • @EYRM9
      @EYRM9 15 часов назад

      You don’t need a man/ woman or materialistic things you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill someone thing that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33 “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 Note: I’m not saying don’t get married, I’m just talking about obsession or even committing adultery and losing your soul for the opposite sex rather than following our father and creator.

  • @michaillouvranos293
    @michaillouvranos293 8 дней назад

    i love natural women! They way that nature supposed to make them! All these society standards are made up just for them to spend a fortune for something they actually don`t need! Real men love hairy woman!

  • @lydia-jamilabeloued7048
    @lydia-jamilabeloued7048 9 дней назад

    I'm sorry to say this, but there are no negatives to pretty privilege. All the “negative” experiences you have as someone who is considered beautiful by society are the same for people who may not be. Especially women. I know I have pretty privilege and should I be honest? Life is certainly so much easier because of it. In all areas. I find it very, very difficult in this world to talk about the bad experiences you have when you're above average in beauty. That alone shows how privileged you are. Being beautiful certainly doesn't automatically mean being happy, but there really aren't any disadvantages to being beautiful. Beauty alone gives you even more privileges. And all the experiences, such as losing your identity, feeling misunderstood, having fake friends blah blah blah. These are all experiences that people, especially women, who don't have pretty privilege also have. So be careful with such statements. You should be honest with yourself: beauty really does open all doors in this world, you get more respect, you can allow yourself to make more mistakes, you get better jobs, you can be cheeky to men because they become interchangeable for you and you don't have to believe that you wouldn't get anyone else if you didn't tolerate their bad behavior, people are generally nicer to you. It's a lie that there are any dark sides to pretty privilege. And it's dangerous to say the opposite.

  • @monismart222
    @monismart222 9 дней назад

    Beautifulll meditation<333 please make more!

  • @laugl1901
    @laugl1901 9 дней назад

    16:15 I just cried ❤

    • @EYRM9
      @EYRM9 15 часов назад

      You don’t need a man/ woman or materialistic things you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill someone thing that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33 “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 Note: I’m not saying don’t get married, I’m just talking about obsession or even committing adultery and losing your soul for the opposite sex rather than following our father and creator.

  • @MartaMela
    @MartaMela 9 дней назад

    Thank you. In one sentence you woke me up. There are other important things. I totally forgot about it, was so fixated on men and romantic love.

    • @EYRM9
      @EYRM9 15 часов назад

      You don’t need a man/ woman or materialistic things you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill someone thing that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him.. Jesus said: Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?" _ Matthew 6:26-27 “For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” _ Matthew 6: 32_33 “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 Note: I’m not saying don’t get married, I’m just talking about obsession or even committing adultery and losing your soul for the opposite sex rather than following our father and creator.

  • @rachellane2198
    @rachellane2198 10 дней назад

    I love your videos Alessia, I love the warm and kind-hearted community you are developing here 🫶 I wonder if you are thinking of doing any more meet ups? I think there was a picnic a while back which I was so disappointed to miss! I think with horror films for me, I have ADHD and anxiety so it provides stimulation sometimes when I'm bored, and also allows me to live vicariously through the character, which helps process my anxiety in a way !