Ways women self-sabotage their dream life + how to stop (self-doubt) (dream job) (patriarchy)

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024
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  • @Sheisme120
    @Sheisme120 5 месяцев назад +24

    “Nice girls don’t get a nice life.”🎤 I felt that!

  • @mei-xe6fi
    @mei-xe6fi 5 месяцев назад +4

    Now i'll shout out to everyone that i'm an artist!!!!

  • @omotayoa5889
    @omotayoa5889 5 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you for your content, a lot of your videos really have helped me reflect on how negatively I usually think and ways to be more positive.

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 месяцев назад

      Aw that makes me so happy ~ thank you for watching my love 💗💗

  • @marciafab7
    @marciafab7 5 месяцев назад +18

    I love that we have so much in common. I am lucky to have such an amazing woman like you in my life. I'm so proud of you. I hope I meet you in person one day. 💜

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 месяцев назад +2

      Aw my lovely, I am so proud of you! This comment has made my day! 💗 Thank you for being such a light in this RUclips community. I will have to do a visit to New York soon! 😘🤗

  • @andeeverse
    @andeeverse 5 месяцев назад +6

    The video came on time as always... i'm getting through a Hard time... right now I'm pursuing a dream(singing, dancing, video creation...) but I gave the best years of my life to a man that didn't love me and now here I am, 9 years later, 34 years old and I dont know why I feel too old for everything.. i really feel the social pressure to be perfect and I've always cared too much about others opinion... even when I look younger I know that a woman with certain age is normally judged , I don't think that men know that kind of pressure... grey hair is beautiful on men! Wrinkles mean wisdom on men, but on women? Im so silly because I look young but I'm an extremely sensitive person and now I have this dream that I want to fight for but I'm too scared

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 месяцев назад +2

      I am sorry you are going through a difficult time my lovely. 💗 Thank you for sharing with me so openly - you're clearly brave and self-aware to post a comment! I believe this awareness and ability to share with others will help you navigate through the fear. Keep being honest about your feelings, especially with those you feel comfortable with. Sharing somehow diminishes the scariness of things; they seem less daunting when not kept to oneself.
      It's understandable why you might fear getting old; there are countless negative messages out there, instilling fear in women and urging them to purchase anti-aging creams before it's "too late." But I assure you, your worth doesn't diminish with age; if anything, you're becoming more self-aware, more grounded, and, I believe, more beautiful! ❤

    • @andeeverse
      @andeeverse 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@alessiasutherberry thank you so much for your words Alessia. It means so much to me... Women supporting women is the most beautiful thing. Hugs and love from Venezuela 💜

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 месяцев назад +1

      @@andeeverse Aw sending love and hugs to you in Venezuela 💗💘🥰😘

  • @amirahazhar4192
    @amirahazhar4192 5 месяцев назад +13

    love the new hair!! what alessia said about being the love of your life really struck me...thank you alessia! spent uni getting in my own way about male validation and needed this channel when i was going through that.

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 месяцев назад +1

      Aw thank you for your kind words my lovely 💗💗! I appreciate you!

  • @Jenna-vj2ju
    @Jenna-vj2ju 5 месяцев назад +4

    Getting my daily dose of Alessia Sutherberry🌺

  • @angeleeshaw
    @angeleeshaw 5 месяцев назад +5

    Such a beautiful and much needed video. I have struggled with these doubts all my life and definitely need this reminder regularly.

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 5 месяцев назад +5

    Love this video on self doubt

  • @humaira2347
    @humaira2347 5 месяцев назад +7

    love love love this video

  • @maravilleva
    @maravilleva 5 месяцев назад +1

    I loved this one so much! Really resonated with your words! Will come back every time I feel low. Thanks, Alessia 💛

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 месяцев назад

      Aw thank you for letting me know lovely! Sending you a big hug xx💗💘🥰😘

  • @CatalinaRivero-fd3vb
    @CatalinaRivero-fd3vb 5 месяцев назад +3

    Your vídeos are heart warming 💗

  • @sinaw2844
    @sinaw2844 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for the video. It actually made me a bit cry when I realized that it is so true what you’re saying. Women are so much more than what they usually think, and it’s sad that we have to remind ourselves of that. Much love to all women out there 💗💗💗

  • @elisamina
    @elisamina 5 месяцев назад

    tysm i watched your video while walking in nature hugging trees and sitting in front of the river i feel good now i love your content

  • @Mysteriesandmountains
    @Mysteriesandmountains 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wonderful video. I needed this so much. So tired of caring what other people think. ❤

  • @aria8463
    @aria8463 5 месяцев назад +2

    Loved this video as usual ❤ really needed this

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 месяцев назад +1

      aw thank you for commenting my love 💗💗💗

  • @abbierichardson4916
    @abbierichardson4916 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you ❤️ such a beautiful video, rivers of wisdom flowing from you!Needed to hear all of that. loved those calming visual scenes too - helped me to feel what you said land in my body

  • @yuliyasakai
    @yuliyasakai 5 месяцев назад

    Such a good vibe :) Definitely feeding off positive energy haha

  • @UNAMIAMUSIC
    @UNAMIAMUSIC Месяц назад +1

    Appreciate you sm!!

  • @TanviOjha125
    @TanviOjha125 5 месяцев назад +4

    I really love and appreciate your videos...lots of happiness and love from my side...i need a suggestion i really liked a guy and he too but we never talked i don't know why but i feel maybe i am fat thats why idk ....any suggestions???

  • @Notyourgirl-nv7lt
    @Notyourgirl-nv7lt 5 месяцев назад +5

    💜

  • @Cherrypopppp
    @Cherrypopppp 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yes queen ❤

  • @Zhr-hj3dn
    @Zhr-hj3dn 3 месяца назад +1

    soooooo good

  • @findmewherethefairylightsare
    @findmewherethefairylightsare 5 месяцев назад +3

    Love 💕❤

  • @banermorales8197
    @banermorales8197 5 месяцев назад +2

    I Love it the accent

  • @UNAMIAMUSIC
    @UNAMIAMUSIC Месяц назад

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