Prayer vs. a Prenup: Which Do You Trust More?

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  • Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
  • What does signing a prenup mean for your relationship? One social media user says it’s “ungodly,” so of course we have to weigh in on the controversial topic. Then we’re revealing the questions we hate getting asked most, and you might be surprised what they are!
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  • @sammierose1150
    @sammierose1150 3 года назад +237

    A piece of paper offers more legal protection than any man’s word does. Simple as that. 💁🏽‍♀️

    • @madikeraisland3927
      @madikeraisland3927 3 года назад +8

      Preach

    • @essie420
      @essie420 3 года назад +5

      You better preach!

    • @Raj-ld1oy
      @Raj-ld1oy 3 года назад

      The same applies to a womans word.
      Women say i'm on the pill but she suddenly becomes pregnant?
      Don't act like women don't ever lie.

    • @lilangel808
      @lilangel808 2 года назад +1

      Yass Qween!

    • @sammierose1150
      @sammierose1150 2 года назад +2

      @@Raj-ld1oy never said they didn’t. They absolutely do as well. I’m not part of that statistic, seeing as I got my tubes tied, but I get what your saying 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @jackie_0221
    @jackie_0221 3 года назад +407

    When Loni said “I did some research and asked my Christian friends” meaning, she probably asked Tamera hahaha

    • @MrTurtledove1981
      @MrTurtledove1981 3 года назад +14

      😂😂😅🤔

    • @mgeijho
      @mgeijho 3 года назад +41

      but Tamera signed a prenup it sounded like she asked people that didnt sign a prenup.

    • @WonderfulActs
      @WonderfulActs 3 года назад +10

      Hahaaa! True! That is exactly who she called lol

    • @dianachilds5599
      @dianachilds5599 3 года назад +1

      Jacqueline hahahaha true that

    • @zsoleyn
      @zsoleyn 3 года назад +8

      Tamera has a prenup with her husband

  • @kezzyangelic
    @kezzyangelic 3 года назад +267

    Loni’s Outfit is Giving Me Life ❤️

  • @bambimahloane4204
    @bambimahloane4204 3 года назад +152

    Loni looks like a beautiful African queen in this outfit

  • @EthioBelle
    @EthioBelle 3 года назад +123

    This is why I love Loni, she always considers everyone's side of the story

  • @ghofrane799
    @ghofrane799 3 года назад +61

    I might pray before getting in a car but that doesn't mean I won't put my seatbelt on

  • @noveldixon9963
    @noveldixon9963 3 года назад +143

    Loni you are shinning thru lockdown
    Better than in the studio

    • @joycedominguez1828
      @joycedominguez1828 3 года назад

      I wonder if they have someone doing their hair and makeup at home

  • @NicoliePollieOllie
    @NicoliePollieOllie 3 года назад +89

    I'm glad Adrienne pointed out that thats a Hollywood way of thinking cuz I've never paid for another person's meal at a dinner

    • @TheFilmLocker
      @TheFilmLocker 3 года назад +19

      Really? I’m living in Spain and it’s expected that the birthday person pays. I also grew up in Nigerian/African culture and it’s the same...the people invited don’t pay 😅

    • @misshglady4lyfe
      @misshglady4lyfe 3 года назад +2

      I hate when new yorkers think they can put people down like that by saying such things. Their soo cocky it's crunchy a.f. not everyone from wherever are that!!

    • @eloisegomes6673
      @eloisegomes6673 3 года назад +9

      @@TheFilmLocker it's a hollywood thing from a USA perspective.

    • @victoryjessey
      @victoryjessey 3 года назад +6

      @@TheFilmLocker I'm a Nigerian, the people invited don't pay 😄

    • @essie420
      @essie420 3 года назад +1

      Lmao no it's not a Hollywood thing - I'm Nigerian and if you invite someone to a party or your birthday you're expected to provide as the host. But growing up in the UK, people started asking people to pay for themselves as everything is so expensive here. However, I'm a believer in cutting your coat according to your size

  • @mscstapleton
    @mscstapleton 3 года назад +51

    Jeannie is buggin about the birthday party... Adrienne was on point with "that's so Hollywood"

    • @victoryjessey
      @victoryjessey 3 года назад +6

      Really? Because where I'm from if you as the celebrant invites people you should be prepared to pay and I'm pretty regular. Now with my friends, if the celebrant invites you but can't pay, they tell you "you're invited but you're going to pay for yourself", then if you can't afford it you stay home.

    • @mscstapleton
      @mscstapleton 3 года назад +10

      @@victoryjessey yeah nope, if I say "I'm having a party and you're invited" than I'm paying but if I say "we're going out to celebrate my birthday" everyone pays for themselves.

    • @echakamonjok
      @echakamonjok 3 года назад +3

      @@mscstapleton with a birthday party that’s different. Unless someone throws a party for me that’s cool and I’d be so grateful (or like a surprise party). However, with a birthday dinner nah. Everyone is paying for themselves

    • @essie420
      @essie420 3 года назад +8

      Lmao Jeannie is defo not bugging, - outside of America there are many cultures including mine where the celebrant is expected to cover the costs for a dinner for example.

    • @sunnym2458
      @sunnym2458 3 года назад +1

      @@essie420 we don’t have money for that

  • @marylinehappy8504
    @marylinehappy8504 3 года назад +64

    Im glad loni stood up and defended the Christian mindset ... because originally that’s what it is .... Now if you choose to sign a prenup, that’s your personal choice.

  • @yasminejasmine4368
    @yasminejasmine4368 3 года назад +142

    I hate being asked “are you going to try for a baby boy?” I have 4 daughters..... I’m done with kids why should I try for a boy

    • @lesxjl5353
      @lesxjl5353 3 года назад +13

      lol same I have 2 boys and they keep asking me “where’s the girl?” Like why? I’m content with my two kids ☺️

    • @marykay7878
      @marykay7878 3 года назад +4

      I would love to have 4 kids with the same gender. My aunt has 4 daughters and my cousin has 4 sons, and their Kids dynamic is so different from everything i have seen in other families, they are this sibling-gang of 4 that no one can come in between hahaha.

    • @yasminejasmine4368
      @yasminejasmine4368 3 года назад +3

      @@marykay7878 it’s good especially my 2 oldest are 2 years apart and the younger 2 are twins so they each have a partner

    • @marykay7878
      @marykay7878 3 года назад +3

      @@yasminejasmine4368 sooo cool, siblings but also best friends. Siblings of the same gender can relate much more to life experiences the other one is going through!!

    • @beetle-juice
      @beetle-juice 3 года назад +2

      This stems from a very traditional mindset where you are expected to bear at least a son. My brother has 3 daughter and 1 son. His son is autistic, so my mom urge them to try to have another son. His wife is currently pregnant with their fifth child and we don't know the gender yet. My other brother has 3 daugthers and feels like he has enough kids already, but my parents wants him to try for a son. Sometimes the question is harmless, but if it doesn't stop after you already gave them an answer, then it's really just being rude.

  • @boboloco4565
    @boboloco4565 3 года назад +16

    Thank god Adrienne was here to speak up for us regular shmegulars 😩❤️

    • @victoryjessey
      @victoryjessey 3 года назад +2

      😄 I'm a regular shmegular and where I'm from if you invite people for your birthday you should be ready to pay, now if you can't afford it you tell people ahead of time, you're invited but you're paying for yourself and then anyone who can't pay won't come

    • @essie420
      @essie420 3 года назад

      @@victoryjessey Exactly

  • @priyaravindran6150
    @priyaravindran6150 3 года назад +40

    I love that they've gone back to talking about fluff topics, instead of hard news. I follow the news everyday. I come to The Real to escape it, not to listen to The View 2.0. I also love how chilled out Loni is at home. She's been letting everyone talk without only arguing her point.

  • @adwoatumtum
    @adwoatumtum 3 года назад +72

    *Ive said it and will continue to say it. Loni is so pretty* 🥺

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 3 года назад +83

    Angie Martinez Inducted Into the Radio Hall of Fame
    ----------------
    I love me some Angie... listen the way she has made her mark in the hip hop/ music industry to even being one of top people to listen to on the radio...this woman can do NO wrong... she’s a dope personality , she’s all good vibes , anytime you hers her name it’s nothing but good news and for that she gets all my respect !
    Prayer Over Prenup
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    I don’t think having a prenup is nonsense... nor does it mean that a person is necessarily not trusting of their partner... it’s one thing to become one , and it’s another to take something that wasn’t yours to begin with... to me becoming one means all the things going FORWARD you do as one... if you choose to have a bank account together fine , if you choose to make a mighty fine investment in something make sure you do it together..stuff like that! But this is more than just about materialistic things..l some people use faith as a way to manipulate or use it against someone and end up doing dirty deeds in the end and that’s not ok... nobody goes into a marriage wanting a divorce, but at least be PREPARED & PROTECTED just in case , cuz things happen , love changes and people change
    Borrowing from Bae
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    I’m gonna mention a quote Tam once said ... and that is “ If You Lend Money to Someone , Think Of It As A Gift” Now if you get it back... that’s fine but don’t expect to get it back... because sometimes as much as I would like to be petty and keep tabs and let people know they are in debt with me... I’m not gonna let someone as small as money make me act out of character..l I will however treat you according whether you’re my partner or not... now I will have a conversation but I’m not gonna constantly keep checking with you like “ hey so when you gon give me back my 30 dollars I let you borrow “
    Quit the Questions
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    I think one question that irritates me a lot is... when like you’re at a family function every damn year someone in th family days “ omg look at you getting all big how old are you now , th last time I saw you was when u were a toddler “ and in my head I’m like “ a year older than I was last year when u saw me “ but outside I’m like “ heyyyy nice to see you... I’m 19 now “ like it annoys me lol
    Birthday Bill
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    First of all... if it’s MY BIRTHDAY PARTY... where tf are we going that u one necessarily have to pay and two... why is that I have to pay on my birthday... it’s MY DAY! Better be glad I even offered to host something on my day when I’d rather have y’all plan and surprise me... people are so entitled 😂 I would rather have a party/ big celebration at my house rather than go out and pay for people’s meals...

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 3 года назад +1

      Agreed

    • @Sona77.
      @Sona77. 3 года назад +1

      Very true! People change, especially MEN. I’m definitely signing a prenup.

  • @victoryjessey
    @victoryjessey 3 года назад +15

    I agree with Jeanie, you should be prepared to pay because if everyone was like I'm broke and stayed home you would feel some type of way if nobody showed up especially if you're the one who gave the invitation. If your friends say they're taking you out for dinner on your birthday that's different.

  • @sherrijones8244
    @sherrijones8244 3 года назад +19

    I totally agree with Adrienne regarding birthday dinner; I'd love to share my celebration with my friends, but if we go to a restaurant, your meal is your responsibility. I'd be prepared to pay for my meal, but usually friends/family will treat the birthday girl/guy.
    In this instance, your attendance is my birthday "gift" and anything else gifted to me is icing on the cake.

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +3

      If your friends and family treat you to a birthday meal at a restaurant it's fine. But please don't ask people to come out and pay for their own meals. It's so tacky and cheap. It just makes you look like you're broke and forcing to have a celebration. You honestly won't die if you stay home and order yourself a pizza on your birthday.

    • @angelwallace6319
      @angelwallace6319 3 года назад +3

      @@omphilemoerane2569 I mean....if I’m the birthday girl why should I have to pay for everyone else’s meal?

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +4

      @@angelwallace6319 because you're HOSTING a dinner and that's what a host does. They provide the meal. Will you make your guests pay for their own meals at your wedding as well?😒

    • @TheFilmLocker
      @TheFilmLocker 3 года назад +4

      Angel Wallace because you invited them. The same as inviting to a wedding or any celebration. People don’t pay to attend. Same for bdays I think 😅

    • @TheFilmLocker
      @TheFilmLocker 3 года назад +2

      Omphile Moerane exactly! 😅

  • @DC45193
    @DC45193 3 года назад +17

    I'm old skool, if im having a party to celebrate me I'm prepared to pay for everybody stuff. The issue is that people having parties at places they can't afford. I don't need to spend RuthCrust money when I was just at your house having Dominios Pizza.

  • @kristinathomas3379
    @kristinathomas3379 3 года назад +4

    As someone having a birthday dinner this weekend. I will not be paying for anyone else’s meal. Thank you Adrienne for speaking for the regular folks. Fortunately my friends always pay for my birthday meal as well, but I come prepared to pay for my own.

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 3 года назад +40

    I hate the question “is that your REAL hair?” I know Black girls feel me, at this point I say YES I don’t care if it’s blonde to my toes, they wouldn’t ask that to anyone else like chile bye

    • @dhenderson319
      @dhenderson319 3 года назад +3

      I answer truthfully
      I don’t mind the question
      People are curious
      And if it actually is my real hair, I find it a compliment

    • @roka2031
      @roka2031 3 года назад +2

      @@dhenderson319 Agreed , I would not take offense at that question especially in 2021....

    • @indigobeauty1
      @indigobeauty1 3 года назад +6

      Depends who ask... But overall, it is a silly question.

    • @Churros1616
      @Churros1616 3 года назад +1

      Wigs, extensions, hairpieces have been so normalized in 2021. There is nothing embarrassing about it. People are generally interested, sometimes they ask because they wanna buy it too. I do think it depends on who asks me though.

    • @lucky4evr1
      @lucky4evr1 3 года назад

      @@roka2031 I've been getting that question since 20 years ago. It will never stop.

  • @washurhands5079
    @washurhands5079 3 года назад +15

    Love doesn’t last forever. Relationships fade. I do not want to share what ever I inherit with the husband if it doesn’t last so I’m signing up for the prenup.
    And if you can stop asking why I don’t lose weight that’d be great

    • @HeatherLynseyMusic
      @HeatherLynseyMusic 3 года назад

      I hadn’t listened to the video yet so the last part threw me. I said who is out here insulting commenters about their weight?! Lord

  • @user-ly7ul3jn4b
    @user-ly7ul3jn4b 3 года назад +3

    Jeanie is so on point here. In my culture if you are inviting people for your party. You host them. If you dont have money to invite nobody

  • @jenniferbrown8224
    @jenniferbrown8224 3 года назад +13

    Loni's skin is always flawless

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 3 года назад +11

    I don't like when people ask why I'm not Married yet? 😩 Because i rather take my time to meet a quality man than rush and meet some jerk that I'm probably just gona end up divorcing anyways.

  • @Blessing.O.A
    @Blessing.O.A 3 года назад +80

    Loni seem to get the 'Christian' thought line than the two who speak more of being 'Christians'
    No offence meant.

    • @NicieWilliams
      @NicieWilliams 3 года назад +6

      I was waiting for A to confirm what Loni was saying. My assumption is she has one.

    • @arcblackmomba
      @arcblackmomba 3 года назад +4

      Cuz she’s going from the POV of those fake judgy holier than thou Christians. Not saying she is one, Loni loves playing devils advocate to keep everything balanced to some extent.

  • @distorbia20
    @distorbia20 3 года назад +20

    It is insensitive to ask a woman when she will have a baby. You don’t know her struggles. Adrienne has shared the bff struggles of conceiving. So stop asking her

  • @LMLification
    @LMLification 3 года назад +13

    If you are the birthday person, then it would seem more sensible to have someone invite you out than for you to ask people to come out to celebrate with you. If I wanted to organize something instead, I would be fine with hosting something that I could afford for each guest that I would want to invite. In return, people I would invite would likely bring me a nice gift and of course be good company anyway. If someone is not paying for their guests, then at least make sure there is no pre-set menu and that people can order within their price range.

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 3 года назад +17

    The question “ when are you gonna have a baby” is rude because you don’t know their journey, miscarriages are common, they could be trying to adopt or in general have issues like what type of answer do you expect? It’s so entitled

  • @signalfire15
    @signalfire15 3 года назад +6

    I love the way Jeannie is sitting lolol she’s so casual!!

  • @lovelymarin3704
    @lovelymarin3704 3 года назад +32

    Birthday Dinner Discussion: I think Jeannie was right, if you invite everyone and you are planning the party/dinner or whatever then you should pay. If you get surprised or taken out by your fam and friends then that's different because it's coming from them. I am not paying for someone who is throwing a party for themselves and called all of us to come😂 I was raised that if you invite people then you pay. If you agree early on you are all going and you're going to split the bill or pay for someone because its their b-day then that is talked about beforehand. But YOU invite ME and expect ME to pay for YOU? 🤔

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +3

      Nah I hate when people do that. In high school I had a friend who hopped onto that trend despite having very financially stable parents who didn't mind throwing her a birthday party every year. I straight up told her to pay for my meal when she invited everyone out for dinner for her birthday cause hello I brought a gift. Lol she NEVER pulled that stunt again 😂

    • @lovelymarin3704
      @lovelymarin3704 3 года назад +4

      @@omphilemoerane2569 exactly! How do people expect you to pay for them when they don't know if you got it like that? Don't invite me to come out and then hand me your check😶

    • @hiboahmed8876
      @hiboahmed8876 3 года назад +4

      That bill could literally be $300, I don’t get why the person being celebrated has to pay for everyone on their birthday. If they do that sort nice but definitely not expected

    • @sailorsister211
      @sailorsister211 3 года назад +1

      For me I do agree with both Jeannie and Adrianne, depending on how close is the friendship. Like me and my friends, no matter who invites or if its your Birthday, you are expect to pay for yourself, but we have been friends for years. My sister is the same situation with her and her friends. My mom and her best friend, have a plan and budget where they take turns paying when they go out to eat, no matter who invities. However, if I invited someone who I am friends with for not very long or never really hang out with her, then I will pay for her. Like there was situation with one of my mom's friend, she was invited to Chuckie Cheese by one of the parents of her daughter friends, since it was her daughter's best friend birthday. The daughters were friends but the parents were at most acquaintences. When she arrived at Chuckie E Cheese, it was expect for her to pay for her daughters tokens and meal. My mom friend at that time a stay at home parent, lucky she had cash on herself. I found that pretty cheap and rude since it wasn't talk beforehand esp since she is stay at home mom. They weren't really friends, their daughters were friends, and it was kids party. Like when my mom threw my and my sister parties when we were kids, she never made the guest pay for their meals.

    • @essie420
      @essie420 3 года назад +1

      Exactly! The that's so Hollywood thing reminds me that a lot of people forget other cultures exist out side of the the USA. If I tell my friends I want to host something then I will pay for it, if it's too much reduce the amount of people or do nothing - cut your coat according to your size

  • @hannahmaldonado3665
    @hannahmaldonado3665 3 года назад +6

    It's called trust can be broken. You can trust a person wholeheartedly and that trust can still be broken.

  • @shampretty1670
    @shampretty1670 3 года назад +11

    I agree with Jeannie, you have to be prepared to pay. You are the one who invited your guests.

    • @echakamonjok
      @echakamonjok 3 года назад +1

      That’s such a Hollywood thing. I have never lol. If I’m inviting you to dinner, y’all are paying for your meal. Everyone is paying for their own meal. You shouldn’t have to pay for everyone’s meal on my birthday? That makes no sense. Come celebrate with me or nah. If you can’t then don’t come or if I got it then I’ll pay for your meal. If I offer to pay for someone’s meal cause they don’t got it on my birthday then that’s different.
      In general if I say my treat as a gift - like if I offer then that’s different. if someone invites you somewhere don’t expect that person to pay for you. If you ain’t got it then don’t come or know your budget and spend accordingly.

  • @manuela1102
    @manuela1102 3 года назад +16

    Why should I pay for everyone’s meal. I agree that you should pay for your own meal. Maybe not everyone makes good money. Then go somewhere everyone can afford to go

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 3 года назад +1

    I’m so grateful for y’all I literally been watching y’all everyday for years yall my h0es for life!!! 😭❤️

  • @iyinoluwao3393
    @iyinoluwao3393 3 года назад +8

    You don't have to pay for everyone's meal, be prepared to pay for yours and choose a restaurant within everyone's budget or be okay if people decline, and maybe do somehing else with said people.

  • @bebeinspired7577
    @bebeinspired7577 3 года назад

    Loveeee Angie!!! She keeps things real with no fluff. True fellow Boricuaaaaa!!!!

  • @tasneembashir4880
    @tasneembashir4880 3 года назад +3

    Its called wisdom! The Bible says we should have that.

  • @darklawyergirl7
    @darklawyergirl7 3 года назад +12

    Loni looks lovely, like my auntie. A Nigerian auntie.

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 3 года назад +28

    Prayer is not tied to one thing you can literally pray about anything. A prenuptial is a legally binding contract that you sign when marrying someone who has assets or potential assets in case of a divorce they are protected so they don't get finessed. It should be prayer for marriage or marriage counselling. Which is very debatable...true or very true?

  • @one1ovemari
    @one1ovemari 3 года назад +4

    Lmfao Jeanie checking her phone @ 8:39 y’all!!! I am crying 😂😂😂😭😭😭

  • @kaidrewry4378
    @kaidrewry4378 3 года назад +4

    A prenup doesn't mean "I dont trust you." It means "I trust and love you but I don't know what will happen in the future. Life can be unexpected."
    Btw I love Loni's shirt :)

  • @Gheuns3251
    @Gheuns3251 3 года назад +18

    Loni speaking truth. Other ladies are all up in their feelings because it hit close to home 😂

    • @honeymoney23
      @honeymoney23 3 года назад +3

      Facts!!!!!!!!! A prenup means you don't have certainty that you'll really be together til death do you part

    • @d.g9661
      @d.g9661 3 года назад +4

      Things happen and y'all might get divorced nobody go into a marriage thinking they are going to get a divorce a prenup protects you against the worse happening a divorce. If you don't get a prenup then you don't care about what you worked for.

    • @Gheuns3251
      @Gheuns3251 3 года назад

      @@d.g9661 it’s also shows you are only worried about yourself and tad selfish . If you living together both paying bills, mortgage , struggle etc then if a divorce happens , YES that person is entitled to half .

    • @mphon1828
      @mphon1828 3 года назад +1

      @@Gheuns3251 well that’s the problem. Each is entitled to half but it doesn’t always end nicely and the situation can get messy and that’s what the prenup is for to help settle things fairly in case anything happens.

    • @Gheuns3251
      @Gheuns3251 3 года назад

      @@mphon1828 don’t get married period and avoid a “messy “ split

  • @dimetricerutherford2131
    @dimetricerutherford2131 3 года назад +1

    Awesome show.....and loving the questions!!! Loni you look amazing 🤩

  • @beniensumbu6454
    @beniensumbu6454 3 года назад +2

    Loni looks gorgeous in that outfit!! literally clicked on the video bc of her look. great job!!!

  • @Nique1986
    @Nique1986 3 года назад +19

    Prenups are important to have it’s just to protect both parties just in case and I understand why Adrienne is annoyed everyone knows she wants a child more than anything and to keep mentioning it are asking is insensitive !!!!!!!

  • @aminahnakitende166
    @aminahnakitende166 3 года назад +17

    The double standards people, but where I come from we are like Jeannie you are expected to pay for the guests. That's why I don't do BD parties coz Iam cheap and I don't want to pay for everybody 🙃

  • @essynduta7689
    @essynduta7689 3 года назад +1

    Jeanie is so pretty..
    😍😍😍
    Loni your outfit is a whole mood
    🥳🥳
    Adrienne looks so elegant
    😍

  • @evelynramirez6390
    @evelynramirez6390 3 года назад +18

    Adrienne seems like shes over the show Lmaoo i hope she doesn’t leave soon ;(

  • @ErinMBlack
    @ErinMBlack 3 года назад +4

    I agree that a pre-nip sets the relationship up for a rocky start. When you get married, you become one and so should your finances. That’s why it’s important to vet out your spouse. I understand that Jeannie has a different perspective because she’s divorced. However, the concept remains.

    • @essie420
      @essie420 3 года назад +1

      I disagree - how you go about it is what sets the precedent for your marriage. If you're open about communications and your reasons for getting a pre-nup then it really shouldn't.

    • @joypeaceandhappiness1501
      @joypeaceandhappiness1501 Год назад

      A prenup is clear open and honest communication. They can put the assets in a trust and not tell you anything. A prenup gives both party a say no different than a will, which should be drafted or revised at the time of prenup draft

  • @gabrielleivie4585
    @gabrielleivie4585 3 года назад +4

    I love Angie on the song lady’s night they all killed it too many legends on just one song 🎧 🤦🏾‍♀️💯video even better

  • @candycoatedreams
    @candycoatedreams 3 года назад +1

    Wow. I've never been this early before! Love this show!!

  • @michimichi2295
    @michimichi2295 3 года назад +1

    I'm with Angie on this "I don't want to pay for your dinner". More specifically, if you came out to celebrate with me on my birthday with genuine sincerity and love - why do you find it hard to pay your own bill. It's my birthday and I did not force you to come. That's the height of audacity wanting the birthday person to foot the bill of the multitudes....hell nooo!!! Period! *Btw my view goes both ways, I have no problem paying my own bill.

  • @theblessinglomo
    @theblessinglomo 3 года назад +6

    I just love love loni love.... she’s just saying what she got from her research 😅😅

  • @EvaBosh
    @EvaBosh 3 года назад +2

    The thing about paying for a birthday dinner is so interesting, as it differs so much from culture to culture 😊 Here in Croatia it's always the person whose birthday it is paying for everything. The friends bring the presents, have a great time and that's it. But in no way would they be expected to pay for anything regarding the dinner or the party.

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 3 года назад +3

    Lesson of the day is always prepare to pay for yourself, you just never know

  • @emefagadze-executivelifeco3469
    @emefagadze-executivelifeco3469 3 года назад

    Loni is stunning! She wears that outfit with the headwrap so so well.

  • @irdinasofia9995
    @irdinasofia9995 3 года назад +4

    Adrienne looks stunning here!

  • @debrasanchez3829
    @debrasanchez3829 3 года назад +1

    Loni looks soooo beautiful ! Love the look!!

  • @NidKay89
    @NidKay89 3 года назад +1

    Wow Loni is glowing as always

  • @Bee-wd4mh
    @Bee-wd4mh 3 года назад +1

    Loni is sooo introspective and smart❤️❤️❤️

  • @zahraenn
    @zahraenn 3 года назад +6

    Seems like Jeanie wanted to highlight she was always asked about having a baby by the ladies so it's ironic that A doesn't like it happening to her 👀

  • @kwynkaq
    @kwynkaq 3 года назад +2

    Funny that Loni's opinion on prenups is more christian than the Christians on the panel 😂
    Loni is a very beautiful woman. She def styles herself waaaaay better than the stylists in-studio.

  • @taiwoopeoluwa8572
    @taiwoopeoluwa8572 3 года назад

    Loni has been rocking these headwraps🥰

  • @temeas8
    @temeas8 3 года назад

    They are all well put together women but their facial expressions are priceless
    The hood emerges on some questions

  • @Ebunoluwa13
    @Ebunoluwa13 3 года назад +1

    I think the girls got the question twisted. If your friends invite you out for a bday meal that's totally different and they should treat you and you obviously be prepared to pay for yourself. HOWEVER, if I have invited my friends out to eat, KM AM CELEBRATING MYSELF so will gladly pay for everyone's meals they just shouldn't expect it. That is how most Africans celebrate their bdays, it's when I got to this country that I realised If you're invited to eat out for someone's bday then you're required to pay for yourself

  • @AaliyahJay
    @AaliyahJay 3 года назад

    Loni out here moving like an air hostess showing us that all the fire exits are clearly marked. Oh how I miss travelling 😭

  • @vanessawalker5366
    @vanessawalker5366 3 года назад

    what works in our marriage is that all money goes into our account and all bills get taken out. we also have separate savings as well. my husband and I are both financially responsible so we both entrust each other with our finances. We are either gonna be balling together or broke together. And since we are in our mid 30s we always have a surplus. not only that I helped get our credit scores up as well. so now we both can finance anything we want.

  • @theumbrellaofdoom
    @theumbrellaofdoom 3 года назад +3

    lmao the end!!!!!! i guess depends on the situation! if you throw a party, ofc you fronting money. if it's a dinner, everyone pays tf lol

  • @eb4478
    @eb4478 3 года назад

    The two said Christians on the show (Adrienne and Jeannie) don't seem to be born-again so of course they wouldn't get it. Thank you Lonnie for providing an authentic Christian perspective.

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 3 года назад +1

    I love when Angie’s on!!!!!

  • @gugzdlamini5
    @gugzdlamini5 3 года назад

    I am 100% with Jeannie on the birthday dinner situation!

  • @rosadouglas87
    @rosadouglas87 3 года назад

    I agree with Loni based on experience. I did not have a prenup on my first marriage because we both had nothing. My Business professor always said you should always have a prenup anytime either person has assets and/or children. Now I have my children to protect as well as myself. You don’t divorce the same person you marry. I never thought I would divorce much less have a messy divorce but it happens. Everyone stay safe!

  • @ashleybullard6712
    @ashleybullard6712 3 года назад +2

    It's a birthday dinner everyone pays for themselves I've never had to explain to anyone that has ever been to one for me. The only way I would pay is if I had it at a restaurant i know is out of the price range for friends.

    • @susuilu
      @susuilu 3 года назад

      Nah, that is selfish

    • @ashleybullard6712
      @ashleybullard6712 3 года назад +1

      @@susuilu not really and I've never been at a dinner an expected to be paid for I guess my friends,family, and self must be different because this has never been a problem and we all have birthday dinners for our bithday8

  • @Zumzizeroo17
    @Zumzizeroo17 3 года назад

    I agree Loni! Every time people find out you do something that is I suppose uncommon or interesting to them they want you to do it at the drop of a hat. Every time people would ask me what I went to school for and I told them forensic psychology they’d be like so are you analyzing me? What kind of person am I? Like i can do that off bat, I need days. Lmao 😂

  • @angelwallace6319
    @angelwallace6319 3 года назад +8

    Prenup topic: I used to think prenups were offensive and meant that you didn’t trust me, but I’ve seen people get screwed over in their marriages because there wasn’t anything set in place beforehand. I’d rather be safe than sorry.
    I hate being asked “when are you gonna get a boyfriend? Are you talking to someone yet” like damn, mind ya business 😅😅
    It’s one thing if I throw a birthday party at my house and provide the food/liq/music and allat, then yeah I’m supposed to pay for it. But if I want to go out to dinner for my birthday at a restaurant , why should I pay for everyone? Me personally, I’m ok with paying my own bill, but I’m not bout to cover the whole table. Plus my friends would never let that fly. Whenever it’s someone’s b-day, we buy them drinks and split their bill.

  • @fantamegful
    @fantamegful 3 года назад +2

    1. Prayer vs. prenup: it seems like only Loni understood the topic.
    2. Where do people get the balls to ask people such inappropriate questions? It’s shocking.
    3. I agree with Adrienne, you should be prepared to pay for your own meal. And everyone can contribute to pay for the birthday girl/boy.

  • @damoneford6145
    @damoneford6145 3 года назад +4

    Happy Belated 50th Birthday Angie Martinez

  • @nolyssa
    @nolyssa 3 года назад

    I hate those small talk questions too!

  • @susuilu
    @susuilu 3 года назад +7

    Loni looking lovely. Looking like a real african queen.

  • @thetruthofallthenation6577
    @thetruthofallthenation6577 Год назад

    wow......... your telling the truth 😂 loving

  • @deem132
    @deem132 3 года назад

    Loni looks BOMB!
    That birthday dinner discussion is interesting bc depending on your group of friends & finances, everyone’s opinion is different. That being said I think making the birthday girl or boy pay for their bday dinner is ghetto let alone everyone else’s.

  • @shamsamohamed5541
    @shamsamohamed5541 3 года назад +1

    In Islam they say “ what’s his is yours and what’s HERS is HERS” 😊😊

  • @melinachavez3826
    @melinachavez3826 3 года назад

    I think the meal paying perspective is very Bay Area!!! We always invite people and pay for everyone never expect for someone else to pay for our fun but if they offer they’re awesome friends!

  • @OumTHMDY
    @OumTHMDY 3 года назад +14

    Angie is a cutie pie man. She should be the go to co-host every time a regular isn't on. Chemistry is 🔥!

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee 3 года назад +1

    No. you need that piece of paper. You need to protect yourself from what might happen.

  • @cutie0506
    @cutie0506 3 года назад +5

    Yes the bible for life!! 💯

  • @Ijaondarire
    @Ijaondarire 3 года назад +2

    Micah 7:5 tells us not to trust any one.Prenup is important.

  • @loveinthewebb6168
    @loveinthewebb6168 3 года назад +1

    I clicked immediately for Loni!!!!

  • @nanagyambibi7426
    @nanagyambibi7426 3 года назад +4

    Prenups have a negative connotation especially from women because they think it basically means they will be left high and dry but from my research it is just setting the terms. A woman can also negotiate her wants too! Prenups should be normalized!

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +1

      Well if the woman will be a housewife/stay-at-home mom then a prenup is probably not the best thing for her.

    • @nanagyambibi7426
      @nanagyambibi7426 3 года назад +1

      @@omphilemoerane2569she should also negotiate what she wants....doesnt matter if she is a housewife.

  • @bluepeony5997
    @bluepeony5997 3 года назад

    Loni looks gorgeous here! The make-up also

  • @araineacutebrownnurse7315
    @araineacutebrownnurse7315 3 года назад

    I totally understands the importance of a prenup and reasons why someone would get a one but for me , no I would not get a prenup.

  • @thealigators8815
    @thealigators8815 3 года назад +10

    When you invite people to celebrate YOUR BIRTHDAY or anything, you should pay for their meal and drinks. I MEAN ALL OF IT.......

  • @maddie3329
    @maddie3329 3 года назад +1

    If you’re going to a birthday dinner or going to the club for a birthday it should be discussed who is paying before hand, but I will pay for the birthday person. Even if it’s my birthday I just assume I’m paying for myself, especially if I made the plans. If we’re going to a club I’ll buy the birthday person a drink or two depending on why they order, but I’m not footing the bill for the whole night, drinks are expensive.

  • @princesspunkinpatch
    @princesspunkinpatch 3 года назад +1

    The birthday dinner is a tough. My relatives in Texas think that whoever does the inviting pays for everyone. They expect it. I've been called out on it.
    I grew up in California where everyone pays for themselves. If someone is feeling generous than they might pay for everyone. (Often someone that didn't do the inviting.) I don't know. I always expect to pay for myself. If I'm in Texas I intentionally don't invite people places unless I am prepared to pay for everyone.

  • @lindagarcia5908
    @lindagarcia5908 3 года назад

    Like the saying you marry one person, but divorce a stranger.

  • @mimilo6326
    @mimilo6326 3 года назад +6

    Inviting people to your birthday and expecting them to pay is something I’ll never understand. And the thing is they’ll choose an expensive restaurant and god forbid you don’t go they’ll get upset about that too.
    Honestly Birthday dinners are boring anyways so dont understand why people have them in the first place

    • @LMLification
      @LMLification 3 года назад +2

      Exactly. If someone is tight on money or just isn' that generous, then they could just do something that is within their price range or simply do something at home. Your guests are already spending time and money to bring a present to the celebration. They could also be incurring costs if they are coming from out of town. Some venues have birthday packages, pre-set menus and deals to help people save money anyway.

  • @missphindi1325
    @missphindi1325 3 года назад +1

    Exactly, such a Hollywood thing. Why would I pay for all my friends on my birthday dinner??? It's different if I'm asking you to pay at a party that I'm throwing. For a dinner? Nah bih, you got yourself

  • @noveldixon9963
    @noveldixon9963 3 года назад +11

    In lockdown I'm looking at these women and need to wear a bit of make up in lockdown
    They look fab

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 3 года назад +3

      I miss wearing lipstick. I wore make-up when I went on a staycation at an Airbnb my boyfriend booked us into even though we were indoors the whole time😂

  • @_tera__4959
    @_tera__4959 2 года назад

    In Europe the birthday person pays for the drinks/food (at least for the 1st round if people order several rounds) and the guests bring presents.

  • @gabriellaaresto6484
    @gabriellaaresto6484 2 года назад

    LONI IS SEEEERVING !! Giving me BROWN SKIN GIIIIIRRRL🎶👸🏽