Her Husband of 18 Years Took Everything & It Went Viral on TikTok
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- Опубликовано: 7 окт 2021
- Porsche Moore went viral on TikTok after uploading a video of her husband’s abrupt departure from their apartment where he left her with nothing. The video has been viewed over 6 million times since it was uploaded this summer. Porsche discusses why she wants to help women who face similar situations and life after the viral moment with Tamron Hall. Plus, the friend who encouraged her to post the video, Erica Sims, also joins us.
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Girl call it a blessing
When people leave you
Let them go
Don’t beg them to stay!
@erica oneal Or to come back. Just let him go.
Exactly
TD Jakes said it best, “have the gift of goodbye” I believe this wholeheartedly and implement it every chance that presents itself.
Bishop T.D. Jakes taught US all this lesson very well. Didn't he?
@@sharonmontgomery1073 Also, Joel osten commented about letting go. When someone walks out on you "LET THEM GO" I truly believe if a person want to move on, let them go. I wouldn't want to be with a person that doesn't want me. You will only be miserable. Everything happens for a reason. It's a blessing to keep it moving. You will reap just what you sow. "LET GO AND LET GOD". FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS!!! YOUR ENDEAVOR WILL BE BLESSED. 💜♥️ 🙏🙏 💜♥️.
It's so sad that she's known him for years but didn't know him.
Now that's a sermon
That’s a word Sis!
🎯💯✔
Ouch! That hurt my soul 💔
She knew him. That's why Ms Angelou said "When people show you who they are believe them". When doing something good sends you to counseling,you trying to change the spots.
“I didn’t realize that i needed to be free until i was cut lose the way that i did”
Thissss speaks volumes!
Yesss! I caught that too. Listen when God has great things in store for you He makes sure those who mean you no good is Out of the way.
You can WASTE TIME on the WRONG PEOPLE.
@ALPO YAOIT WAS MY HOUSE, HIS ASS GOT KICK OUT.
Me too...I just don't understand why they are cowards. That is what hurts the worst
@@MRSBBW A MAN IS MAN 24/7, IF HE'S A"COWARD"HE'S SLEEPING ON THE JOB.
When people want to walk out your life, “‘let them go,” I have the spirit of goodbye!
- TD Jakes
When one closes another one opens
I love it! "Spirit of goodbye!" I will be using that term. Lol!
I think it’s the “gift of goodbye!” 👋 But same meaning!
Madea said the same thing 😂😂
@@Morkiemom535 yes.
Girl, he was in your way.He removed himself in the most juvenile way, trying to kill your spirit. He couldn't stand to watch you ascend and his ego couldn't watch. Years of future pain avoided
💯
Amen
Juvenile! Yes! That's the right word! Very juvenile, he acted like a punk, good for her though lol. I was left by a horrible ex in a similar way, everyday I count my blessings
He was JEALOUS of you and wanted to destabilize you. That is so childish and immature! What is Really crazy is that he is tried to explain it and CONVINCE he is a good person ! I have heard of this before!
Exactly
The trash literally took itself out! Take it as a blessing sis and start fresh💕
Period💯😂🤣💀
He will likely back pedal after the dust settles. I hope she slams the door shut on being with him ever again.
Exactly !!!!
Exactly !!!!
@@FreedomofSpeech865 that was his plan all along.
Girl, as awful as this was, at least he didn't try to kill you. There are some men whose idea of ending a marriage is to kill their spouse, so see him removing himself as your blessing.
Exactly! You can always get past the rest!
True words hun
So true keep praying iam sorry you have to go to something like that abandonment, rejection but its a blessing in disguise one day,you will realize how special and lucky you are that's God removed this man from your life because you deserved better. May God continue to pour his blessing upon you.
Amen. It's like the trash taking itself out. You don't have to touch it, smell it or walk it out. God removed it and you can start over.
Unfortunately, in today’s world this is true. It is a blessing that he is out of your life. That is the biggest blessing GOD could have ever bestowed upon you! GOD IS GOOD 🙏🏽
That sister-in-law knew exactly what was going on. She probably got a lot of your items at her house.When men leave they do not take lamps,wall accessories,pillows,bed linen etc. Only women do that. Plus to tell you when you get back home you are in for a big surprise, where is the love in that. Consider yourself blessed and cut all ties with both of them . Especially if no children involed.
Lord bless you, now go reach your goal in the universe and never look back.
Kathleen Jackson I know right . Another poster said something similar as the sister in law was sent to be the lookout . Wow
The ones that act like females do... petty azz hell
You just told the WHOLE ENTIRE TRUTH💯💯💯
My grandmother always said, ALWAYS have at least three months rent & utilities squirreled away because people are unpredictable and the only person you can trust 100% is yourself.
just like mine a wise woman
Yup
I teach that to my daughter
Baby was she from the south. Sounds like my Big Mama, lol.
Amen
Since the taping, I have been able to have him served. Our relationship wasn’t perfect…that’s why we were in counseling ♥️. I got the message loud and clear this time. I am sorry this has happened to so many of us. I loved foolishly and blindly and despite the e-mails I have received recently of him apologizing, I will keep moving forward. Thanks for your words of encouragement and well wishes.
Keep the faith!!! You deserve better girl. You are beautiful and has a lot of good stuff in store for you. #prayersUp
There is nothing like finally hearing somebody loud and clearly, and seeing what that somebody is truly about, versus what you thought you wanted them to be about. It is freeing and the life lessons are priceless.
Heal for you. Forgive him for you. Please don't internalize what possibly you could have done to make him do xyz. Sending shalom, love, light, strength, courage and wisdom to you. May you discover YOU in this journey. You are worthy of your tears as well as a MAN who adores and appreciates you and is kind and compassionate.
Changed behaviour is the most sincere form of apology. His actions are giving off narcissist vibes and they usually will do whatever to get you back only to treat you worst. No contact is the recommended course of action with them and to communicate via lawyers only. Praying for healing and restoration for you both🙏🏽💫
May God bless you on your journey! Please do not go back!
Narcissistic reply! Why did he take EVERYTHING?? No justification!
A recent quote which held so true for me:
"GOOD THINGS FALL APART, SO THAT BETTER THINGS CAN FALL INTO PLACE"!!! The Universe is Amazing - Go get your Blessings, my Sister 🙌🏾🌹
@Kim Dee- You are so correct I have that saying on my wall.
@@ahunt9650 💯🙌🏾😇
Amen
Looks like she was married to a covert narcissist. It was all about him until it wasn't. My former husband of 14 year did almost the same thing to me. Best decision he made for me. I'm happily remarried.
Yes
U go girl !
I’m so happy for you. I pray I will be in your position one day🙏🏽
The sister-in-law was the look out for the brother. Wickedness runs in this family. You have been delivered .Run Girl!!! Freedom is here!!!
Been there. My in-laws helped my husband marry his current wife. And she has taken him through the ringer. Guess who they have tried to get in touch with? Me.
That's crazy 🤪😳
I definitely said that 💯💯💯💯💯
Exactly!
@@Daylightstarbrite Yep But Real And It Is Sad 🙄
If your husband is exhibiting micro-aggressions, you should start YOUR own exit plan.
I feel like I needed to see this directly
He did a "Sister Move" on Sister, he had this plan in the making for sometime.
@@shirley9209
Exactly!!!
Husband was/is a coward!! Sis, don’t ever let any man tell you he doesn’t want you twice. This is a blessing! Keep faith you will be a better woman in the end. And where the Lord is taking your soon to be ex- cannot go! Be released and Blessed!!
Amen.
Amen
Deanna White..Well said. 👏
Haha! Words of Wisdom! "Don't let a man tell you that he Don't want you Twice"! Wow! I had to read that twice! Lol.. Amen... #Blessings
Aries
If all he could afford to provide was that raggedy apartment, he's no big loss.
Omg sad but true my apartment is shitty but it looks better than this
His level of cowardice is completely gut wrenching. That is sooooo evil 👿
Sounds familiar 🤔😕
Praying for your heart and healing
Yes he’s a coward! Sad
SMH
Sister in law knew it.
It sounds like the sister-in-law knew and dropped her a hint. The sister-in-law sounds shady!
Yeah I wouldn’t mess with her no more some surprise sis
I was thinking about the same thing.
Yes I agree the sister in law new!! Her trifflin ass!!
That raggedy 😡🤬 pretending to be a friend on the trip while her brother cleared the apartment will get her karma too.
Yeah, she got her out of the house.
It’s interesting that he defended his character when his actions already spoke for him 😌
right! like "i have been nothing but a great husband" lol you were not!!!
Typical!
I was thinking the same thing. You were a great husband but you.left your wife with nothing but her wedding dress??? Boy please.
Ebur exactly ! He tried to defend his childish behavior.
Girl, cry if you must, but DON’T TAKE HIM BACK! He’ll come slithering when his prospects dry up (they will) and he realizes the grass (in stilettos) on the other side is full of brown patches. You’ve been handed a new beginning on a sterling silver platter. I wish you love, joy, peace, and happiness.
💯
And a year later she updates us that he did try to come back after this interview
He has been planning this a long time. The sister in law knew what was up.
yesss, she trifling as well ....she was the distraction
Sooo true. A man doesn't just up and leave. He wanted to go but didn't know how. Her trip was his opportunity. And he didn't waste no time!!!!
I want to hear his side of the story tho!!
Exactly my thoughts.
WATCH FAMILY, THEY CAN KEEP SECRETS, BETTER THAN THE FBI.
@@shirley9209 True
Sorry this happen to her; however, he literally set her free. She may not realize it FULLY yet but she will. Good Riddance.....
For real
Yes. FREE AT Last!!
Say a word say a word..
He set her freeeeeeeee
Amen
Whatever she was going through God saw it first, and when it was time he sent him on his way. Her life will get better and better . Good riddance to his ass. Your king awaits.
What type of child leaves without communication?! She’s better off without a boy like that. A team is only as strong as the weakest link and he was an EXTRA WEAK link. She is beautiful and I hope she stays well.
My husband of 20 yrs marriage done me the same way his loss not mines took a lot of great memories but I'm gaining gracefully right now GOD IS GOOD..
The. Sister-in-law knew what the husband was up to
Absolutely!!!!
Yes. She did
Absolutely
Absolutely!
Evil b was probably to put up to take her out of town to keep a tab on her. They set this in motion together. She better put a lock on any devices change passwords. Get new cards. Move
Guy can say he’s been a good husband, but leaving her in this manner, with intent of maximum pain inflicted, is low. Nothing good about it.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 righteous
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 in what she doing fir herself.
so everything is about her ..like he wasnt in the relationship or something what about how he felt!
@@nottistewart right ✅
@@nottistewart agreed but u know how women are. They never ask about the man. it’s all about her like we don’t know what the hell she did not making excuses for his actions but nothing from his sides at all. I need to hear his side of the story. She’s not telling us what we NEED to know. I’m glad she’s moved on tho❤️❤️
There's a backstory. I'm getting the feeling he was living a double life.
Absolutely
Me too
What if he wasn't. Always 2 sides to a story.
@@lamara8497 if he been with her for 15 years and she said they went into counseling and she did ever think he would leave her then it was something or someone else forcing him to leave her high and dry. You only do this if you really hate the other person. But after 15yrs, it was him. Cowardly actions have selfish motives.
@@jamardunn3126 only heard one side of the story my guy. That's all I'm saying. It's always 2 sides, via it's good or bad. I don't assume nothing until I hear from both sides if possible. If they been in counseling then something was going on. In this day and time dude could have a made a video and gave his side of the story. Obviously he didn't and it wasn't his concern. Maybe he took everything because he knows he will have to pay her. I just look between the lines.
She out grew him. Appreciate the fact that he left her; , Alone, Well and Alive. Glad she got the lesson.
Exactly!
No matter what the whole story is; Leave like a Man!! Not a punk or chump. You tried to destroy her but Karma is a Bit**
Right on 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Yaaassss!!
Oh yeah, it's coming and he ain't going to know what hit him. Sad azz😡
There's nothing more dangerous than an insecure man.
I say that ALL the time!!
You got that right! So much damage had occurred with insecure men.
So true!!
Insecure because of the trifling sisters and mother in their life! Chiiillleee, the sister in-law!!
This woman was always supportive of his dreams, and this is the first time she wants to follow her dreams.
Ladies, never do that. Never put yourself last.
He is jealous of the success you are making of your life. Cry your tears, then dry your face and travel your path free of him. God bless you girl 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I knew of a man who picked his wife up from work. Dropped her off at home and told her he had somewhere to go. She went in the house laid down. Woke up and noticed he wasn’t home. Happen to go the the closet and his clothes were gone!!! Now the kicker is she had just been diagnosed with cancer and earlier before the diagnosis convinced her to sell their home. She passed away a few year’s later and her daughters would not let him attend the funeral. Coward
There is 3 side to every stories. In the age of social media every body is a journalist an every body going to blame the husband but I'm reserving my judgment auntil I hear the truth.
That situation was a Darhman video. Just saying.
@@lebertcampbell8937 it’s his right to leave if he wanted to but why take all her belongings as well
@Indigenous Melanindian Amaru Khan not necessarily. ??
😢I hope she found some peace.
I’m sorry for her, but she mentions that they were working things out, so there was trouble, but no one deserves this behavior. He was waiting for her to be gone long enough to leave.
It was so planned. His sister seemed to have been apart of it as well. The thing is this was not a surprise to God. He is going to make it up to this young lady in such an amazing way.
The complete thought of her saying nothing was wrong was funny to say the least
Right! It's just the cowardly way he did it
His harvest is coming God will deal with him!
WHEN THERE IS A NEED TO STAGE A "LEAVING" YOU ALREADY KNOW IF THIS CAN BE A PEACEFUL TRANSACTION. IF YOU DO NOT CHOOSE A SHAKESPEARIAN STYLE, CRAZY OPERA THAT DOES NOT INCLUDE THE POLICE, BROKEN GLASS AND FIRE, FOR YOUR SAKE PLAN WELL. THE PLAN INCLUDES: A NEW RESIDENCE, MONEY, LAWYERS AND A WELL STOCKED REFRIGERATOR. THESE THINGS PAVE THE WAY TO A SUCCESSFUL NEW LIFE. SERIOUSLY.
Depending on her state's marriage laws she can probably sue him on grounds of desertion she definitely has all the filmed proof.
Yeah over 6 million views.
Ruby Tuesday you’re talking a mouth full 💯. That’s act is desertion
“I didn’t know that I needed to be freed until I was cut loose the way that I was” WOW!! Such a Powerful statement that I can certainly relate to.
Unfortunate but good to see she’s in good spirits.
It’s probably a feeling of relief. I’m glad she is rid of him and his family as well
I know the feeling.
It's a lie that's y.
The manosphere supporters won’t talk about stories like this!!!! People like Oshay Jackson and Jaye de black won’t talk about this. They’ll blame the woman for him leaving.
Or in serious shock..it hasn't really hit her yet...I pray when it does, her mind would take it gentle. It's a serous and weird betrayal😞😣😒
I don't need to see anything in that letter to know he was wrong. The empty apartment told it all. Real men don't do ish like that. They make sure the wife is OK and figure things out for themselves. He's just another man that needed an excuse to get mad and leave. But her becoming an entrepreneur is the weakest one I've heard. He's obviously been with her too long and been looking for something else and found it. He's wanted to leave but didn't know how to say it and didn't want to look bad so he took the coward way out. But just leave with your personal stuff not everything! The only other thing I can think is if she quit a job or left a well paying career for her dreams and he felt pressure.
I think he felt pressure and jealousy. He was not happy with her starting a business. I hope the judge makes him pay her.
She will come out on the other end down on her knees thanking God for removing that milestone around her neck…I will assume they did not have children & that’s another blessing…Now she can blossom & live her Creator purposed life…
And we all know that letter had the tone of the pillow talk of his new bed mate.😉
Waatssf. Giving. On. Crazy Stay Safe. Dont.no whar. Ease. To. Say. Sorry
@@notnow_stopitagain5800 I was gonna say the same thank god there are no kids involved.
The Operatives words;...Real and Men.....this he was not!....you are right!
Her elevation has just begun. Blessings from one sister to another 🙏❤🙏
He'll be ordered to return everything until a judge divides up property, but she'll get more because of him doing that.
He wanted to leave. I'm confused as to why he'd hide out from getting served. Sounds a bit narcissistic.
Based on her recount of the story , this man tried to leave her more than once before ..she chose to ignore it .
@@rogers5622 SHE chose to ignore it? HE kept going back, you mean. Don't make excuses for immature little men. Ever.
POSSIBLE BI-POLAR!!!
Right!!!! Gone on you punk, get served! Smdh
Very narcissistic
The Sister In Law Knew what was going on 💯
Na bruh.. where did you get that picture from lol
The one thing my parents' marriage taught me is that when a man starts exhibiting problematic behavior, leave him immediately, because it's only going to get worse. Find someone you don't have to "work things out with"
How you go from a “great husband “ to leaving your marriage in this manner? Yeah ok, “great husband “! Now tell her where you are, so you can get a divorce, isn’t that what you wanted?
Porsha, things will work out (it will be hard at times), your glow says it all. Wishing you the best 🙏🏽.
He sure act like it,she's gonna jump leaps and bounds with the blezzings god has for her
Patty’s daughter that’s right . No great husband takes his wife’s things and leaves her with nothing .
🙏💪🏾God move people out your way to get to your destiny 👌
TEACH!!!
Amen
God DID A HURRICANE 4 REAL💯
So true my friend tell me about it
That's right
Clearly he had an issue with her being an entrepreneur. (There could be an outside person involved as well but he definitely didn’t want her being a boss.) I’m sure there were MANY before this incident but when he told her that if she becomes an entrepreneur they would have to live separately, that was a HUGE red flag! And the fact that he took EVERYTHING even her clothes shows how petty he is and that he truly wanted to hurt her. It’s amazing how she was with him that long but truly didn’t know the REAL him. 😕
It happens...resentment builds and petty men act like boys.
That's crazy he took her clothes. What is that?
@@voxnihili7097
Pure pettiness smh!
Whats the point of taking her clothes? :/
She knew...she just ignored the red flags.
Her husband was threatened about her wanting to live out her dream of being a business owner! Some men don’t want a woman to be successful especially if they are not!
Yep and trifling sister and family in his ear.
Absolute facts!! These men don’t want us to shine brighter them
He had no respect for her and wanted to hurt her!! When God gets through with that coward, he’ll truly regret his moves. Obviously, he’s been planning another life with someone else. Hold your head up!! You didn’t wrong him, he wronged you! Don’t ever take that trash back into your life, he’s beneath you!! God has something much better for you!🙏🏽
It's his trifling side of the family for me. I hope he also gets to see them clearly.
Thank you for allowing me the space and energy to share my story.
Wishing you nothing but success and happiness❤
Sending you love ❤️
I had the rug pulled from under me this summer by my ex-fiance. It turns out alot of my girlfriends were going through the same thing after I did my FB Live exposing his antics. It's a widespread "Me Too" movement in this case, which is disgusting. I just wanted to say to you, Sis, "ME TOO". You're not alone. Stay strong and his is coming soon. Get your popcorn ready!!!!
@@kimberlycareymua8207 Me too. I can't understand what joy it gives them in hurting someone else. So proud of us women for finding our joy and quickly adjusting to life without them when they pull the rug. Sending love and blessings to the queen's right here and the girl in the vid❤️
I truly believe that you’re going to be very successful my fellow Paparazzi consultant 😉…He’s going to wish he never did this too you but I know you’re going to have the last laugh!!! Stay strong because you will win!!! P.S. That sister-in-law ain’t ish bc she knew what was up but came on the trip as if she was being supportive…
Like TD Jakes said, “Rejection is God’s Protection.” Run away little boy. Live your life!!
To Hell with that WORTHLESS TD JAKES
Go T. D. Jake's 💙
TD SNAKE. . Look at who really cares abt the false prophet...blk women is his #1 fans....free will. .hells fire is earned.
@@shomerephraimonop9612 Snake or not, there’s something to be learned from anyone.
The sister-in-law knew what was up. God made him removed himself for a reason it’s gonna be hard but it is your time to shine and build in your life and entrepreneurship #bebless
“He made his statements loud and clear, and I heard him This Time”……. Her words. Sounds like he’s been “saying” something to her in regards to him leaving for a while…. Sounds like she didn’t want to except it, and her feelings are to be expected. She’s been with him since she was 15 yrs old. That’s a long time…. I hope she heals and moves on from all of this.
Sister in law knows where her brother is. And is shady as f. That's HIS sister, not yours. Her loyalty is to him. You divorce me, your family is divorced from me too.
She's glowing...she no longer has to deal with the B.S.
💯💯💯💯
"You were the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye. You thought I'd crumble, you thought I would break down and cry🎵🎵....I Will Survive" And you will. That song is for you girl!!!
Everybody wants a wife but nobody wants to be a husband. Good sisters, remember to always have a nest egg. Take care of yourselves. Peace xx
So so true, "Everybody wants a wife, but nobody wants to be a husband." In other words, they want wife to do all what momma is not there to do while they go out and play.
True my granny said marry a man who wants to be your husband
Facts.
Taking care of self is priority number one, even in marriage. Ponder on that ladies!
😂 so not true
Porsha smiling because the weight is lifted!! I’m overjoyed for Porsha. Life starts for her after this!! Can’t wait to see the beauty that comes into her life after that. I wouldn’t be interested in an explanation or any further communication with him. Don’t be stupid and talk about you want “closure”. Closure is up to you, has nothing to do with the other person, nor os it something another person can “give you”.
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Problem with some of us women, when someone show you who they are open your eyes and take notes. Counseling would not help. He said from the beginning if he has to support her with her dreams they have to live separately.. the man was hinting he is not there to support you and your dreams, but you wanted counseling. Ladies don't force people to do what they don't want to.
Anyway, I hope she don't take it to hard, cause it's clear he didn't love her.
Thank you Monique Harris. Needed to hear this.
The sister in law knew what was up.
Definitely!!
Sir Mr Husband, your actions speak louder than your words. Your behaviour tells the truth about who you are.
When she left to go out of town, he put his plan in motion. Sad. She deserves many blessings coming her way.
Passive-aggressive; narcissist behavior of a man who may have been jealous of his spouse and plotting the BIG disappearance! The redflags were there! He needs therapy apart from her and vice-versa! Cautionary tale: Watch his actions! If you must be married, live in separate spaces in these crazy, covid times! When your spouse don't have your back, the Lord does! Peace, Blessings & Recovery, sis!!! #ProtectBlackWomen💕✌🙏🙌
Yes Sister yes!!! Oh he was jealous too! Case of PGNB, excellent point! This is why women was told always keep some money on you. Thank God Porsha got a new life coming.
HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!!! WON'T JESUS DO IT!!!!!!!!🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏👏
Yes ma'am 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I was waiting for someone in the comments to recognize he was clearly a narcissist...
@@SisterKnight same!
This a lesson to women, have some of your OWN income and savings. Its called financial abuse. He held the power because he was in control of the household income.
He was a man who couldn’t handle a strong woman! What a wimp. It was planned and the sister-in-law I am sure was not the only one who knew. Betrayed by many on this one.
I was married for 16yrs. And boy he was a total B through out the situation. I will pray for her. They're is LIFE AFTER 😊❤📖📖🌹
Rejection is a Blessing....
Serve him at his Job even if you have to get a Private Investigator to help to find him to get him Serve....
Coward prob quit that job
Dr Mike's Monroe said that when someone say they love you, ask them WHY he/she love you. Their answer is very important and speak volumes. The WHY is his/her expectation(s). Maybe that person
don't have a WHY, but only know that he/she love you. That's true love with no strings attached. Once you're no longer living up to that person's WHY.. the so called love grow wings and fly away. That individual want you to be all he/she want you to be; but don't want you to be who you are.
I'm happy that she finally see him as he really is and that she has been set free from his control to be all she can and want to be. She lost material things that can be replaced. She definitely didn't lose any love. Thumbs up to her and may she continue to advance in the future. There's only one way to go from where she's now....UP!
Oh you meant Dr.MILES MUNROE, late GREAT...AMEN
Yes. Sorry about the typo. I did meant The late Dr. Miles Monroe.
This is a deep comment on so many levels. Thank you ..
He is so petty gosh, look what extremes he went through to hurt his wife.
Wow! Terrible...there's a woman behind what her husband did...
the coward is hiding so she can't serve divorce paper!?
When she gets him in front of a judge..it won't be nice
My husband of 25 yr tossed me to the side. He dont even visit the kid so sad. Sleeping with the enemy
So he's not speaking to his sister his sister do not know where her brother is located ?🤔 her sister-in-law stated that she's going to have a big surprise when she get home I was hoping that if she have not already received appliances and furniture for coming on the show I got a feeling she's going to be okay!! he's going to regret this this did not go the way he planned it she did not say or I did not hear whether or not they had children together. What is he going to do now is keep hiding like a rat and not give her the divorce. But he will eventually get caught. He did not expect his low down dirty ways would be put out on social media. And on national TV 😂
@@RosasResources where he live at? I got your back 👏🏾💚 lol 😂 I don’t a husband or kids, but I’m sick of these mofo’s
I want her to get the monetary value of ALL her items he stole!!!!
If he has a job, then you serve him there!
He should have been man enough to tell her he wanted to end the marriage🤬
SO TRUE THAN BEEN ON BS JST REMEMBER ALL THE DUMB SHIT HE DONE U CAN REPLACE THM & BETTER JUST THINK GOD STILL HAVE U N WE LIVE TO LEARN SO FU?? HIM WITH THT B? 😄❤️💯🦾🌎. KEEP YA HEAD UP.
You're making me think of Toni Braxton's song "He Wasn't Man Enough For Me".
He told her but she did not want to hear it.
He was a dusty.
One thing I learned from my absentee father was “God bless the child that has its own!” Always have something tucked away for emergencies.
I've been self employed for 30 years and it takes a special man to handle a woman in charge. I'ts not as smooth as people think being your own boss and in charge of your destiny, so your spouse/partner needs to have an understanding and open mind and not be selfish because at the end of the day the vision and plan is going to benefit the both of you. I'm anticipating nothing but success for Porsche.
He has the nerve to write a lengthy letter to show for his comment, but only gave his wife one or two sentences through text. Then ghosted her.
Cowardly, petty and chickensh_t. He took all of her clothes except the wedding dress. Unless he intends to wear them he just wanted to hurt her. I hope she becomes very successful and wealthy. Living well is the best revenge. And I doubt he was a great husband.
He’s trying to clean it up now on national TV but he cannot afford his wife a text he’s just trying to save face
Punk move
And he's hiding! Left her with no furniture, etc! A sorry man #myopinion
VERY SORRY!!!!
Exactly and yet his statement to the show was like it’s not an accurate depiction of the situation. Bruh, the facts are you cleaned out the apartment while she was out of state like a little bih smh
And then, the fact that she can't even serve him with the papers says it all!! He still wants to hang on, no let that woman move on and let her serve them papers sir!!! Sorry ass!! And his sister definitely knew with her trifling ass!!
@@trionfreeman3935 People who know them, know where he is.He may try to come back and do a " I'm sorry, I was confused baby" apology since her video went viral
And to disconnect the internet so that she couldn't work from home. That's sounds vindictive and intentional
When you're entering into your abundance everyone isn't meant to come! Him leaving was your blessing
REJECTION IS GOD'S BLESSING. NOW YOU ARE ABLE TO SOAR. HE IS NOW SOMEONE ELSE'S PROBLEM BUT HE WILL FIND OUT THAT THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER, DO NOT TAKE THE SNAKE BACK. SISTER-IN-LAW KNEW EXACTLY WHAT WAS GOING ON. DO NOT LET HER FOOL YOU AND DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM HER, ALSO. GET YOUR DIVORCE BEFORE YOU BECOME WEALTHY. PEACE&LUV to the Prime Creator
Say NO to teenage romantic relationships as parents. He wasn't ready. She wasn't ready and did not deserve this. Protect your children-from themselves.
Girl I agree but a teenager in love swears they know what is what. You can't tell them anything
We shouldn't have to say no to teenage courtship we should do a better job raising our offspring and preparing them for adulthood so that they are better equipped mentally emotionally spiritually to make good choices.
@@justjahki2149 true. Ppl used to get married at 14. Not advocating for that, just saying it's possible for teenagers to know & do better than they do these days
There is nothing wrong with teenage courtship, she was dealt a bad card that's all
I totally agree but it’s so difficult to do. Kids will do what they want behind your back.
She stated her sister in law was with her on the trip. Was that her husband's sister, if so, did she have an idea what he was doing and why don't she tell her where he is? 🤔 sis-in-law helped set her up. I think you're going to have a big surprise when you get home. Okay...
I thought the same thing. If, the sister in law is her soon to ex husband sister. I bet he was texting his sister everyday on that trip.
Exactly why i came straight to the comments! I heard sister in law and was like WTH!
Exactly!!! The sister-in-law knew. But sometimes women protect their brothers even if they're unquestionably in the wrong.
It does sound like she, " sis in law" might of known
She definitely knew from her statement alone
I think she's just very innocent in the sense that she probably didn't see what he was already showing her. It's a blessing though. By the time he left he was already gone.
Girrrrl! Go right on with your life! Your husband really did you a great favor! Now you can put this experience behind you and go on and live your best life! A day will come and you will be able to send him a big thank you card and mean it from the bottom of your heart!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Whybtake whats not yours, you reap what you sow. His day is coming, make sure you get separation papers. He abandoned you.
He sure did!!!!!!
The sister in law knew from the beginning her husbands plans and the sister in law was his look out to help him have a plan to rob his wife. That whole family is foul 😈💩
I bet lots of her clothes is in her sister in law's closet
yup... he needed 3 days to move!! she trifling as well
My heart wishes and hopes all goes well. To be honest, either you have a man who is all in or not. In both my marriages, I was never able to choose myself. I lost so much during and after both marriages. Today, after 55, I own and operate an Alteration Shop and create an online school. Both of these businesses are growing fair fast. Soon I will need staff. I have no stumbling blocks (jealous and weak men) in my way. Don't ever be pulled back into that relationship, EVER!! Keep your heart out of it. Stay focused, co-partner with God. He provides Agape Love.
BUT, what he didn’t know was that he would have to answer to sooo many people AND on the Tamron Hall show. Immediate RECKONING. 👏👏👏👏
LOL! I guess that's why that email was sooooo long trying to explain!
He doesn't want her to be successful
Therefore, HE left for that reason?
@@mikesincere27 Oh yeah, he's a controlling prick. I had a former co who went through something similar. The difference was education--he didn't want her to go college because he knew that was her ticket to independence.
Sister Num. You are so right. I know of people close to me whose husband now ex. Wasn't supportive in the least. As soon as their wives spoke of going to school or getting a full time job. Then their husbands would start an argument or act up. Why would her husband even take her clothes and other items of hers. Not to mention the washer, dryer and bed. No internet service. Code for the apt changed. Is that an example of a good husband.? Why is it as soon as she was adamant on becoming an entrepreneurs. He was totally against it. Her husband maybe jealous and wanted everything to be about him. Why did the sister-in-law make that statement. Was she at that conference as a distraction and a spy. Porsha should have nothing to do with those people. God bless and guide her. Also anyone who has had similar situation. Women or men. Although we all know its mainly women with this issue. Single mothers especially. Peace and love.
That weak narcissist did her a favor. He was probably jealous of her success. The Lord always restores what's taken so she's good.
I am so sorry this happened to you! However I am proud of you for sharing your video! You have a wonderul support system, thank you God for your friend Erica! Please keep it moving and grooving! You got this!
Thank God he just take everything and leave but didn’t harm her,it’s scary how you can be with someone for that long and not know them,follow your dreams queen ❤️👸🏾 he will regret it
What REAL man walks away and not leave his wife even a footstool to sit on!????
He wasnt a real one she was the bomb and he was the ball and chain dragging around her ankels. Sure hope he gets what hes looking for and i pray for any sister that suffers from a man , they can sometimes be cruel
This is why I stay out of married people's business. It sounds like there's some gaps in this story but again it's none of my business 🤫🤔
Thank you! She seems guilty af, but they are trying to play up the feminist angle. Nobody just acts that way without provocation.
@@bobbyray7558 not a man. Men don’t do things like that just to be spiteful it’s definitely more to the story.
What gap says it's ok to take all of her clothes? And disable her computer. He was entitled to 50% at most and not her personal possessions.
Sure they do when they are petty aholes.
Gaps in the story???? Yeah ...like maybe he us with someone else????? The story was that he dis not want her to be an entrepreneur....also apparently didn't want her to go on the trip....she is not a child ....why was he trying to control her ??????
Tamron's hair is fire !! I her video a month ago. She seems so sweet and was so greatful to him for being the one to "give her life" when she a doubting her life she was given. Well all good things come to an end and he seemed to have gotten her to her next phase. Although she seemed greatful for his help, she seemed to have outgrown him and there was nowhere else he could help. Don't know what else he was looking for. She was in it for the long hall. but he turned out to be "limited bus service".
I feel you girl my ex left in the dead of night while I was with my mom after her surgery. It's devastating, I'm glad she's picked herself up and is doing good now.
There are people in this world that feel threaten when you elevate in any form.You will never be able to please them. .
Dr. Phil always says that nothing goes from 0 to 100, the hints were there she just turned a blind eye to it as most of us women do. She heard him this time, what does that say.
She acknowledged all that with them going to counseling
What I got from the interview was that yes they were having some issues and they were going to counseling but the last thing he said to her is I want my wife and I want us to be OK or something Like that. So he deceived her plain and simple
Yes I hate to be a pessimist but there were signs. And evening even hearing this nice young lady tell her story I hate to say it but thier were signs.
@@paralegalkc I think when he told her that he was just blowing smoke up her bum. He knew at that moment what his plan was. He is just a coward and possibly a narcissist. But want part where he was right when he said she believes her own truth. In relation to her naive-ness on how bad things really were. Cause even I can see the micro-aggressions and micro-emotions in their relationship.
The fact that she finished up 4 more days of vacation after her spouse went “missing” tells us everything we need to know lol.
I don't know this beautiful woman who's newly single till watching this video. I live near Nashville also. My husband of 30 years did the same to me taking everything including our life savings. His dog left behind actually died from a broken heart. Fast forward 5 years I am happy joyous and free. I cried for the 2 years after abandonment became homeless in L.A. for more than a year. Blessing in disguise him leaving. Your life is going to be so much better. Thanks for sharing Your story for everyone out there feeling alone not knowing how to cope.
Sweetie, you are a strong black woman an you were blessed the day he walked out of the marriage. God gives us freewill to choose, but He directs our paths. Just because we choose that person....does not mean that is the person God has for us!! You will come out tremendously better than you went in. God bless you QUEEN 👑!!
Yeah, dating immature black men in my twenties I was ghosted a few times when I I traveled for funerals and in a hospital stay. My ex-husband ghosted me while I traveled for a funeral. My ex-husband was unaccomplish and I believe that's why he was immature in ghosting me even though he was 12 yrs older than me. We were not arguing. Now in my 40s, I purposely go on week long trips to see if new boyfriends ghost.
Go on trips b/c you WANT to. Otherwise you are not living your life as intended.
Dont leave them men in your house Sis
Hence to why I leave them alone completely because at this point in my life I don’t expect nothing out of black men
@@cutlyfe Right! My life has been much better too🙌🏽
Was this particular husband a BM?
WOW!!!! Leaving that way is not being a "good husband"!!!!
My thoughts exactly!
After reading the letter he wrote I believe there is far more to this. Not saying that what he did was right, however, I have a strong feeling that she wasn't listening and he obviously became exhausted of trying and being emasculated in the process. People are pissed because he pulled a moved that traditionally women are known for making. If the tables were turned people would be cheering her along and saying that's what he gets.
Exactly..he got some nerve to say he's been a good husband. I swear 1 thing God gave some men is audacity lol
Not a good person, not a good man.
@@tishataray can I tell you sis,they are never wrong never have nothing to apologize for, and always try turning the tables
"I wanted to do something for myself just this once" says A LOT about their relationship and him.
find him...serve papers...don't let him cash in on the success that is coming your way because he is still "Legally" your husband. Be careful.
Sooooooo ladies let's do our thing and find him for her. The internet has found people with less info 😏 Let's help free her from this sorry excuse for a spouse.
😜😜😜😜😜
Find him to say what ? 🤔
He took the things to his girlfriend's apartment and she can just take the divorce papers to an attorney or judge's office. It's not hard to do that😏
@@armanitransport2604 she still needs to get him served.
She free he left.......
@@sassygreen5024 No she's not free yet. She needs to have him served so she can divorce him and get on with her life.