So true! Speak your truth girl! I have heard most of these at some point haha.. So sad to see people within the community responding with ignorance instead of understanding. Keep up the great videos!
YAAASSSSS . I so agree with what your saying. I commented on one of your videos it was easier to date men. Yes it is easier because of the hetero norm. I have always said that it was harder to be bisexual than gay or lesbian. So now ya know what it is like and it's sad. We have a long way to go and education is the key. Thanks for posting this video and I will continue to support your channel.
Hey Rachel, this is off topic but I wanted to mention something that pertains to your older videos. You and I both experienced unhealthy attachments to authority figures in our pasts, and there is a word for that. It’s called “limerence”. I learned about it on a channel called “Crappy Childhood Fairy”. I know you have moved past that dark era of your life, as have I, but I found it very interesting to learn more about what I went through.
I constantly get asked if I an open marriage cause me and my wife are both bi women , so we can't possibly be monogamous. I tell them so what if we do it's our marriage we make the rules that work for us. P.S. we are actually non monogamous but because we want that not because we're bi and it's our business.
YES, the preference thing drives me crazy because it completely misses the point of bisexuality. Myself and most other bi/pan people I know are attracted to people or fall for people based on WHO THEY ARE and the CONNECTION they have with them, and gender is a small or irrelevant factor in that.
I have been exploring this recently and YEP. Every time I think oh now it’s time for a man, woman, etc… the universe surprises me with a PERSON. You know what I mean? All the best to you
but its a fact though....bisexual never like both men and women 50/50 ...there is ALWAYS a strong dominant one ..... just like pepsi vs coke or mcdonald's vs burger king .... so its 100% legitimate that you are asked about it ....
It's been awhile... great!! you are doing well and moving forward on your path. I would be interested if you could address on why you think there is such an issue around bisexuality? Maybe there is a very simple answer or not? Since sexuality is more opened and expressed then in the passed, am curious as too your thoughts.
@@rachelgeraci HI Rachel This is Otto I wanted to say thank you for all of your video content you've done in the passed; as well as your recent new content. As we closed out 2021, am sure your pondering over your personal endeavors as well as your triumphs. May 2022 bring you new discovers peace in your heart and your wisdom in the world of the LGBTQ+ community. Happy Holidays.
I think you're life is you're business, my wife let me explore my feelings and attraction to other women after we began our relationship but everyone was so up in my business when they found out . Oh are you experimenting at you're age , you really should have done this in college sweetie. Why can't people just mind their business, yes I wanted to experience this side of myself after burying down for so long and my partner was understanding enough to let me do that .
Thank you for making the point that it's not really fair to say that "everyone is a little bit gay." To me it seems the equivalent of saying "everyone is a little bit straight," which a total gay like me would not appreciate at all. I could be looking at it wrong but it also seems in the same vein as "you just haven't met the right man/woman."
In general, isn't it annoying when other people tell you who you are actually attracted to and so have to make excuses for why you are telling them otherwise?
I don’t think that’s true at all. There are women out there that will still date someone who is bi, or after dating a guy. See I dated guys when I was a teenager and married a man at 20 years old, even though that lasted less than 2 years. (Although mine was doing more of what I was taught.) I didn’t realize until 29 that I’m into women. Yet women were still interested in me, even after my past.
I wasn’t a late bloomer. It’s called I was in a mind controlled religion. When I left the religion, I could be who I was all along. But I know I’m a lesbian. I just want to accept others and be accepted too. Take care. That’s your right and you certainly don’t have to have to be with someone like me.
No offense but this kinda feels like a thinly veiled excuse to complain that people are mad you're dating a man. I get you're upset but just be straightforward
@@rachelgeraci sorry I was being kinda mean. You're allowed to express how you feel on your own platform. I'll delete my comment later, I was being rude for literally no reason you seem nice
So true! Speak your truth girl! I have heard most of these at some point haha.. So sad to see people within the community responding with ignorance instead of understanding. Keep up the great videos!
Thanks bb!! ❤️❤️
I’m a bisexual woman who is tired of hearing all of those stereotypes. I feel you!
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YAAASSSSS . I so agree with what your saying. I commented on one of your videos it was easier to date men. Yes it is easier because of the hetero norm. I have always said that it was harder to be bisexual than gay or lesbian. So now ya know what it is like and it's sad. We have a long way to go and education is the key. Thanks for posting this video and I will continue to support your channel.
Hey Rachel, this is off topic but I wanted to mention something that pertains to your older videos.
You and I both experienced unhealthy attachments to authority figures in our pasts, and there is a word for that. It’s called “limerence”.
I learned about it on a channel called “Crappy Childhood Fairy”.
I know you have moved past that dark era of your life, as have I, but I found it very interesting to learn more about what I went through.
I’ll check it out. Thanks for pointing it out :)
I constantly get asked if I an open marriage cause me and my wife are both bi women , so we can't possibly be monogamous. I tell them so what if we do it's our marriage we make the rules that work for us. P.S. we are actually non monogamous but because we want that not because we're bi and it's our business.
YES, the preference thing drives me crazy because it completely misses the point of bisexuality. Myself and most other bi/pan people I know are attracted to people or fall for people based on WHO THEY ARE and the CONNECTION they have with them, and gender is a small or irrelevant factor in that.
I have been exploring this recently and YEP. Every time I think oh now it’s time for a man, woman, etc… the universe surprises me with a PERSON. You know what I mean? All the best to you
but its a fact though....bisexual never like both men and women 50/50 ...there is ALWAYS a strong dominant one ..... just like pepsi vs coke or mcdonald's vs burger king .... so its 100% legitimate that you are asked about it ....
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@@romeorodrigues3680 ur slow and that's ok but do better next time!❤️
It's been awhile... great!! you are doing well and moving forward on your path. I would be interested if you could address on why you think there is such an issue around bisexuality? Maybe there is a very simple answer or not?
Since sexuality is more opened and expressed then in the passed, am curious as too your thoughts.
Hi Otto! Yes I will make a video addressing this based on what I know in my personal experiences as a lesbian
@@rachelgeraci HI Rachel This is Otto I wanted to say thank you for all of your video content you've done in the passed; as well as your recent new content. As we closed out 2021, am sure your pondering over your personal endeavors as well as your triumphs. May 2022 bring you new discovers peace in your heart and your wisdom in the world of the LGBTQ+ community. Happy Holidays.
I think you're life is you're business, my wife let me explore my feelings and attraction to other women after we began our relationship but everyone was so up in my business when they found out . Oh are you experimenting at you're age , you really should have done this in college sweetie. Why can't people just mind their business, yes I wanted to experience this side of myself after burying down for so long and my partner was understanding enough to let me do that .
Thank you for making the point that it's not really fair to say that "everyone is a little bit gay." To me it seems the equivalent of saying "everyone is a little bit straight," which a total gay like me would not appreciate at all. I could be looking at it wrong but it also seems in the same vein as "you just haven't met the right man/woman."
In general, isn't it annoying when other people tell you who you are actually attracted to and so have to make excuses for why you are telling them otherwise?
Great video 😊
All Bisexual humans are valid.
Yesss
Can you please tell me , why I likes gay boys videos but I know I'm into girls only.
Good luck with women after coming out as a bi. What I know you might hardly found another female companion after dating a guy.
I don’t think that’s true at all. There are women out there that will still date someone who is bi, or after dating a guy. See I dated guys when I was a teenager and married a man at 20 years old, even though that lasted less than 2 years. (Although mine was doing more of what I was taught.) I didn’t realize until 29 that I’m into women. Yet women were still interested in me, even after my past.
@@ashleymaughan2991 De gustibus... I wouldn't like to fate late bloomer. But anyway, good luck and have a nice day!
I wasn’t a late bloomer. It’s called I was in a mind controlled religion. When I left the religion, I could be who I was all along. But I know I’m a lesbian. I just want to accept others and be accepted too. Take care. That’s your right and you certainly don’t have to have to be with someone like me.
It sucks sigh
Good morning from jamaica i feal in love the frist time i see you an i think you or mental scare from your teacher, i no i am out of your legue
I thought u were gay
Yeah I did too. Haha
Well she is Gay just not in the way you think 😭
No offense but this kinda feels like a thinly veiled excuse to complain that people are mad you're dating a man. I get you're upset but just be straightforward
I mean I’ve stated plainly that I am upset about this in other videos lol.
@@rachelgeraci sorry I was being kinda mean. You're allowed to express how you feel on your own platform. I'll delete my comment later, I was being rude for literally no reason you seem nice
@@MiniCupcakesBaby it’s ok. Thank you for the apology :)
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