Daina's Diary 006 | My Niece Was Taken While I Was In Jamaica...
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File for full custody and save yourself the headache. BOTH her biological parents have failed her.
She has custody I thought.
@@iamshesheisme8954 she dose she's her legal guardian
She does @@iamshesheisme8954
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Sure she has full custody
@@infinity_spiritGaudian and custody aren't the same thing in the States not sure how it is in Uk but she should file for r sole full custody and that way she won't have to answer to anyone regarding Aaliyah.
She’s mad. *Kidnapping a child to put them in WORSE living conditions* . The lady is clearly mental 😭
Who is ? I’m so confused 😐
@@Hannah-sg4sr "Gina"
And the brother?
@@Poeticfloetic irresponsible. why would you ever jeopardize your sister’s guardianship accountability, by making a decision to leave Aaliyah on an *unsupervised* visit with Gina? I’d say he’s mad as well. It just makes it seem clear to me why both parents do not have guardianship. They clearly do not know how to make wise decisions on behalf of a child. It’s so unfortunate.
Not to mention he jeopardized Aaliyah’s safety! Very irresponsible.
Your brother WAS thinking. He waited till your mother left to take her. He knew exactly what he was doing.
How did he know that the mother was going to leave eventually anyway ?
This story makes no sense, why is she not mad at the mother? The mother is in the wrong if she is meant to be supervising him.
@@petitechxls4429 maybe he waited for an opportunity. The definitely sounds like a set up
@@l.c7240 So he could show off her nice things like he bought them. Hence taking her designer gear. He would get the same heat. After all he took her there. The birth mother is a mess but so is he. He never looks neat or groomed. It takes two to fail a child yet he seems to get less heat.
Part of me side eyed the mother, if she as mother to both was manipulated to help them Aaliyah back. Maybe they convinced her they’re ready & feel more responsible & best Aaliyah with her actual mum dad. I have a brother that got into certain “lifestyle”….has daughter. In fact because I was actively in her life since she was a baby, she called me dad when she started talking even tho corrected. No matter what trauma been through with, they still thinks & treats them with forgiving and naive….the mum likely want to do right to what the son asks
Nah ya brother is the opp. He packed a bag full of babygirls' expensive items for a supposed visit? He left her & didn't check the environment? What did he think he was doing by dashing her there, for an unapproved, unplanned AND unsupervised visit? Nah he the opp.
Thank you… and on her mums channel she teaching him how to make rice and peas.. at his BIG age
🤢🤮 he should be absolutely ashamed
@@jeheneboss8366 what her mom channel? What’s Diana snapchat?
@@jeheneboss8366I’m weak 🤣
@@jeheneboss8366what’s the moms channel?
This is so relateable for me! I’m taking guardianship of my 2 year old baby sister and have been raising her since she was 7 months old. My dad’s ex partner (her biological mom) is on crystal meth and an alcoholic. She has 2 other young kids she can’t take care of and is pregnant AGAIN with some next man’s baby. Instead of being grateful, she acts like I stole her child when all I have done is give her child a loving home and a future. If I had not stepped in, I wholeheartedly believe my baby sister would be dead right now. When we got her at 7 months, she had the worst diaper rash the Paediatrician had EVER seen and showed signs of neurodevelopmemtal delay due to lack of stimulation, because the woman (can’t even call her a mother) would lock her away in a room all day with no attention. She would have bruises and a swollen face that this woman could not explain. Today, she’s a happy, healthy cheerful toddler and mark my words, I know God’s got me and I’m going to give her the best life ever!
This is wonderful, you are the best big sister she could ever have. Keep holding on, God has u & will bless you for your selfless and loving care of your sister🙏🏾❤
God bless you, your sister is blessed and it’s the best decision for her in the long run!! 🙌🏾
You should be so proud of yourself! What you’re doing has literally changed the direction of your sisters entire life. Bless you!
This made me emotional. God bless you, and God bless your beautiful baby sister
Where’s the dad?
Your mom shouldn’t have left her in your house, ur brother shouldn’t be anywhere near her unless you’re present and she should never go back to her biological mom because she clearly doesn’t care about her wellbeing.
She said her mom did not know her brother took her.
@@natashiaolive9704Which is why he should not have unsupervised access. Comprehension is everything.
@@natashiaolive9704which is why she should not have left her unsupervised with him
Please don’t let this situation stop you from taking trips again you deserve a break once in a while!!!! You’re amazing mother
I’m sorry your mother should not have left to run to her house for any reason with out taking Aaliyah with her 🤷🏾♀️she knows her son your brother is NOT to be left with Aaliyah UNSUPERVISED period the end this could have ended deadly not to mention Aaliyah could have been put back in care soooooooo happy Aaliyah is safe at home but clearly you can’t even take time off for rest it may be in your best interest to pay for private help and a nanny because clearly family can’t make be trusted to follow your rules nor the court order ❤❤❤❤
This. !!!!!!!!
This is tough but true, we don't want Aaliyah taken from Di and this may be the best route
Why exactly was the child taken by social services ? Why is her dad unfit to have his child
Girl why is your brother still there for? Like he's the reason this all happened, he shouldn't be given grace he's just a bad as ‘Gina’. They're both clearly not fit enough to be even left alone with their daughter. I really feel for those poor babies living in that state.
So they (social workers)can't visit her when she refuses to take your niece back, but they (the social workers) can visit you anytime she calls them? You the one doing the right things is the one that gets put under the microscope? I cannot even comprehend this b.s. I am so sorry girl, please keep thriving❤ ❤❤❤
Right exactly
She should go to family court and file for full sole custody of Aaliyah for thr sake of Aaliyah.
I can’t believe men actually get these women pregnant. I’m so glad Aaliyah is now safe but the other two girls are on my mind. This is child abuse.
Waste men you mean
I’m saying, how does she have so many kids, that’s a madness
I hate that youve been left to pick up after your brothers failings. Its not your responsibility.
she didnt pick up after anyone. The child was going to be taken by child protective services and she stood up to take the kid. She decided to take the baby, not pick up her brothers failings.
@@nellasultannNah it’s definitely his failings because he isn’t raising his own children. His sister has taken the parental roll when she shouldn’t have too because her parents failed her.
@@nellasultann Comprehension over emotion.
A welfare check could have never been done! Well done babes. Aaliyah is really blessed to have you
Imagine looking after Aaliyah in Daina's goodgood CLEAN house and then taking her to that ****. Nuh mek no sense. Mi bex
13:21 do you know how happy I am to hear this voice and realise she’s back 😭😭😭
I felt the same way!
Shout out to your neighbour! 🙌🏾
Glad you got Aaliyah back home safely 💕
All now the WOTLESS brother couldn’t help to retrieve his daughter out that demonic situation with his own baby mum, a situation which he also caused by being FASS.
When there are kids involved, I’m heated 😤
Wotless and fass? Are you Trini?🤣
Sounds like thr relationship was fake from thr beginning and she just got with him to get in with but Daina but that didnt work and he has no backbone to stand up to her.
Or Guyanese? lol
Or bajan?? 😂
Or Jamaican?
I feel bad for the kids that’s left with Gina. 💔
WHY DO YOU SAY THAT? I don't see the issue everyone has with this woman. She seems like a free spirit and protective.
@@priscillae93you can’t have children living in filth. We also don’t know why the children got taken from the home in the first place.
That’s crazy. Time to keep your brother away from the home. Clearly he doesn’t make good decisions.
Daina, everyone is at fault. Respectfully, everyone that was present that day and allowed Aaliyah to go out of that front door is at fault. Thank God nothing happened to her, but imagine if it did!
Yepppppp
agreed, from start to finish there were too many oversights
Agree - In my opinion - ‘Gina’ needs a family support worker to help with setting a routine with the kids and doing tasks around the home. She needs encouragement and guidance. On a positive note, Gina has a spacious home with great natural light. Dear Gina - instead of using the cleaner on the side of the toilet, maybe try Harpic (I use the Black one - does wonders for me 👌🏾 Read the instructions and then see how it works for you (if it does). There are many products out there. Also your family need to take responsibility, show consistency and stability for the baby - including Chy. In terms of your driving - have you tried short term insurance (just to give you time to find suitable insurance)? On a positive note, also glad you went to Jamaica and spent time with your dad! Happy belated to your friend Paige #Stay blessed ya’ll 🙏🏾
I have to agree. Aaliyah has to be supervised when with her mother *or* her father. If grandma had popped to her house, the sister or the friend should've intervened until she got back so they could be supervised.
@@balanceis_key Putting the responsibility of policing the brother on the youngest sister is unfair. He is her elder. The fault lies with the brother. He is the one who took her there without permission. It's called showing off. I have seen part time fathers do that in my friendship groups. Showing off what the child has like they grafted to put clothes on the children's backs. Then you get women with low discernment looking at pics and saying "he is a great dad" Smh
EVERYONE of them is wrong fr that!!! You’re Aaliyah’s legal guardian and Nobody consulted with you before taking her over there? 😢 & then what even made them think it was a good idea🤦🏽♀️girlllllll
Yes her mom is wrong but she was never supposed to have her in the first place! Your family ain’t had your back.
I agree 100%, I would’ve told em until Daína comes home Aaliyah ain’t going nowhere especially not without me(the grandma) being there. But I’m glad she’s back home.
I dont want to judge but why did your bro take her over there with the place in such a condition plus his youngest daughter still lives there! 😩 AND social services allowing their brother to visit place too! Social services should be doing the necessary REGULAR checks on her & living conditions! Major safeguarding alarm bells ringing! She has children in her care smh
It’s so sad how a human being can be so selfish, she sees her child in great care and wants to ruin it just because.
I know, totally agree!!! It’s guilt from the parents.
@@user-cj4hs5sh2x Yess and that guilt should motivate her to do better, but no just makes it worse.
You are acting like she pushed her way into Daina's home and started snapping pics and grabbed the child. Funny how most of the women commenting are putting the heat on the mum. The brother is not fit either and also has supervised access but he gets preferential treatment clearly despite his failings. Smh. He took her there with her stuff to show off imo. He is not all there and is selfish too. Imo
This hair looks really nice on you. Love it!
Pretty
The system is flawed why leave her with mother she was removed from.
Exactly!!! This baffled me
It's true that she's your niece, but you're her mother. Start saying this. SHE'S YOUR DAUGHTER. YOU ARE MOTHERING HER. Gina was an incubator.
I feel you but I understand why it would feel weird to have your brothers child call you mother. It might confuse the child at a young age or send mixed signals about how everyone is related.
💯
@@aleksannukishe already calls Daina mommy, naturally.
@@aleksannuki I think that’s something that can be easily explained when Aaliyahs older tbf but I can understand not wanting to completely sever the bond between her and her mother
Nah she need to correct it now.
Someone give this girl some flowers for raising children she never made, it’s probably extremely difficult and tiring so Ms Gina has no right to talk to you disrespectfully, you might not be her bio mother but you’re doing a damn better job at raising what should’ve been her responsibility and making sure she has a stable home to grow up in, that is strength and I don’t think you get praises enough
*Child not children. It's one child she has.
How did your brother have another baby with this woman knowing how hard it was to find a responsible guardian for Aaliyah. Those pictures are horrendous. The parents need to get down on their knees and kiss your damn feet for giving their child a good life. What kind of life would Aaliyah have had with this woman. I feel bad for the other children.
the reckless family destroying behaviour men get away with
She has 3 daughters under 5 I'm sure there all his? I could be wrong tho
2 his the other isnt
@@infinity_spirithe has 2 with her Aaliyah and a younger one.
@@user-hj1wp1dt2g👏🏾💯
Can you file harassment charges? This sounds outrageous 😩.
I audibly GASPED at those photos….If I were you, I would legally adopt Aaliyah. She has no parental rights then 🤷🏾♀️
Easier said than done. A guardianship works when the parents are deemed incapable of being parents. However things change, in a way Daina is acting the same way a foster parent is if no biological family members are available. It’s understood that the legal parents can have the child back when they are better from whatever issues they have. Of course things can get worse, but you know what? A messy and dirty house will not prevent a parent from keeping their child. Sounds good in theory to adopt but not realistic.
@@Chazzabox1obviously it’s not just about the house being messy or they wouldn’t of taken some of her other kids. I wish people would actually listen because D said there are lots of reasons why the children were taken use your listening ears next time.
Any screenshots for those of us who don't have snapchat
@@KingRose339 You’re kidding right? My response was specifically about messy homes, maybe you should read to understand not reply. It is very clear a messy home is not enough.
@@Chazzabox1your message if factually incorrect. A special guardianship is legally binding throughout the child’s minority! (Until 18 years old). Special guardianships are RARELY overturned in which the child would be turned to their birth parents. The parents retain very limited legal rights, and as such, adoption is not possible without the consent of the parent (s).
That place looks like a crack house and SHE HAS YOUNG CHILDREN THERE! Why aren’t the social workers pressing child endangerment charges smh
I can’t believe they left the other girls there! I wonder if any of the workers/officers involved would let their own kids stay in that house for a sleepover or a play date for a few hours 🤔
That’s the part I don’t understand especially after seeing those disgusting pictures of their living conditions? How is she allowed to keep the other children? Two taken but two are still with her, how? If she was found unfit for two of the kids what makes her fit for the other two to stay? I’m thoroughly confused about how that works.
my thoughts exactly
@@UPThoney4Lifethis is the comment I was looking for.
I’m sooooo confused how a house is unfit for 2 kids but safe for 2 other kids.
Someone make it make sense??? I seriously need someone to explain this to me.
@@UPThoney4Lifeit’s crazy! No logic whatsoever kmt
Dainá all I can do is pray for you constantly 🥺🙏🏾
All future vacation plans have to be posted After you get back. Now you know how to move from here on out
Hi Daina, as someone who works for Children Services i can tell you that you can add your mum as a guardian. I believe social services will need to carry out a viability assessment (necessary checks) to ensure Grandmother is safe and capable. I’m so sorry you had to experience this! your poor niece 😢
If the Grandma will leave Aaliyah with the son without being able to correctly safeguard her from being kidnapped, then she should not have guardianship.
@@beepbopboop7727I agree. However i’m certain Grandmother won’t be making the same mistake twice - and with these checks in place Grandmother will take her position as Aaliyah’s guardian more seriously. Of course this decision lies with Daina herself 🤍 just informing her that this option is available x
@@beepbopboop7727agreed
I think her mum learnt a good lesson
how could your brother have TWO kids with her?!?!?!?
Right! It’s giving both unfit and screws are missing.
As a dispatcher she shouldn’t have sent u to go engage with that woman
THIS!!!! I was so infuriated at that woman! But that is how they are here in the UK! They take everything as a ‘domestic’ and they want you to fix it 😒
At all! They only want to get off their ass when something has already popped off. Their unwillingness to intervene actually encourages people to do things that could’ve been avoided. By that point, kids could be so traumatised if people can’t control their anger ☹️
So unbelievably traumatising to hear this story..this will be engraved into aaliyahs life for ever Gina if you are reading this comment ENOUGH IS ENOUGH NOW!!
Stay strong Daina! You are a blessing and god has got you and Aaliyah closely in his arm.
Input your boundaries girl, any time you are away the brother is not aloud to come over period. It’s as simple as that…he didn’t need to go over there! It’s very selfish and unfair, that house was 🤢 I’m in utter shock!!
This is the thing, family disputes are so traumatising to children
Even if they don’t understand exactly what’s happening, they can pick up on the general mood and that can have long lasting effects. The birth mother is so irresponsible and selfish, she’s not even trying to do what’s best for Aaliyah, it’s all about her 😑
Can you describe the state of the house?
This Gina girl owes you all the thanks in the world for saving her daughter from an imperfect system instead of putting her at risk😞
The relief I felt when I heard Aaliyahs voice in the background ❤ so sorry that this happened Daina smh. I feel so bad for all the kids involved 🙏🏾. Keep doing what you're doing for Aaliyah, its definitely the best for her ❤
Respectfully, why isn’t your brother and mom having to take accountability for what happened that day?! I feel like only Aaliyah’s mom is being villainized in this story; though I totally understand!!! Both mom and bro failed on the guardianship “rules” the day she was taken. Nevertheless, Diana, you’re heaven sent. You’ll be truly blessed for all you do for your niece
Completely
Because Aaliyah's mum was the only one refusing to give her back???
The grandmother isn’t doing enough for me. There’s two grandchildren!! Diana has one so why not take the other?
@@Justonevideoplease because she's raised her kids. Not all grandmothers are willing or able to make up for their kids mistakes. It should fall on the father of anyone else at all to get those babies out of that hellhole...
@@Justonevideopleaseshe’s probably not suitable according to SS. Maybe the brother lives with her part time?
Not me downloading snapchat just to see what the fuss was about only to be too late 😂
NO ONE WILL MENTION THIS. BUT REAL TALK YOUR BROTHER IS TO BE BLAMED AND HES COSTING YOU ALOT. THAT BROTHER OF YOURS NEEDS TO GO GET HIMSELF TOGETHER REAL TALK. He pick up that woman and had a kid with her. He don’t have nothing for himself so he couldn’t get his own child either. Thank God for you tho. Respect
Facts
and not juust 1 child. 2 with her!!
He had two with her. After the first he went back again.
@@justkash5843 wait what that’s news to me so why the courts didn’t give her both… oh my god 🤦🏾♀️
Dianas life went from doing fun youtube videos with her former partner and living the life of a young couple, to so much responsibility and hardships in such a short time. And why are you the responsible guardian if your brother is literally there, what has he done to make him incompetent to take care of his own child?
Her mother too!! Her mums younggg she can still help
The brother can’t have Aaliyah either. I feel like Diana is the one who’s financially stable, and level headed enough to help her.
@@HoneyBee0219 *Daina ♥️
So proud of the woman you are. Your niece is your blessing, as you are hers ❤
I wonder how she's got custody of the other kids If she hasn't got custody of Aliyah
It's the UK 😞... This would never fly in places like the Netherlands, people's kids have been taken for less
I just wrote a similar comment because actually two of her children were taken (one with Daina and the youngest in foster care) and the other two children are allowed to stay with her in filthy conditions? How was it determined she’s unfit for the last two kids but somehow fit for the other two to stay with her? It just doesn’t add up at all, I truly don’t understand how that works.
@@kateasheley7404for real! The Netherlands doesn’t play
I@@UPThoney4LifeI don't know how old the older ones are, but it may be due to their age.
Im sure she had two children previously then aliyah then the new lil one
The two last children are for her brother
She states this in previous vlogs, not sure if you seen the vlog when aliyah was a baby and they came for Christmas
Your mom should have never left, I’m so shocked. This would have never happened had she not. She should have sent him home then handled whatever she had too.
That’s the point that created all this. Gotta make better decisions when it comes to safety and children. Completely traumatic for no reason.
I’m horrified by these pictures I pray all those children are kept safe.
Imagine its like your being punished to look after you niece. Something aint right. Prayers are definitely needed. Its hard because your job is social media and whatever you put out that baby mother is gonna stalk you and try to use that against you. Isit possible to file for restraining order? Gather evidence of stalking etc. As for the social should be ashamed of themselves the house is disugsting.
as a mother you are entitled to a break looking after children or child is a 24/7 job you dont get no days off you was entitled to that break away and some you time!! Handled the situation perfectly and the "perfect fit" comment 😂😂 aaliyah is so lucky to have a role model like you in her life and thankfully. Because of YOU she will grow up in a loving enviroment and have everything she needs ❤
You're such an amazing storyteller, I was captivated from the minute you started.
So inspiring fr
Literally. I easily click off long videos but I watched this with no fast forwarding 😭💕
That's doesn't make any sense. They'd rather let her stay with the person she was taken away from instead of letting her leave with her grandmother?
I know this isn't about blaming but rather prevention. However, what was your brother thinking taking her there in the first place? Did he not see the filth in the house?
There's more to the story, who knows what's going on for her brother. Afterall the child went to her aunt and not him.
way more, totally irresponsible @@misst7923
He has been in the filth when he was with her and when he made children with her. He is culpable too.
You're actually telling the story very graciously
Your Social worker you were speaking to in the car needs assessing herself! Very unprofessional. All the evidence was there that the person they are supposed to protect a child from, was resisting. She shouldn’t have even questioned or challenged your suggestion to call the police.
I was NOT PREPARED for the pictures of the house 😩😩😩😩😩
😢it was worse than I even thought
RIGHT?! My jaw hit the floor
Neither was i ! I am SHOCKED
Where are the pictures?
It was so much worse then my brain even prepared for😱😱😱
Them pictures just inspired me to finish folding my laundry 😩😩
Listen..... I headed straight to the laundry room and got it together.
Girl, ain’t body listening to someone who does not have all of their kids. Diana you are doing amazing and Aliyah’s life is so much better because you are her mom.
I could tell on Paige's snap story that you weren't always present during the Jamaica trip. Makes sense now.
Im so sorry you and Aaliyah went thru that sisbbut one word of advice DO NOT TRUST YOUR BROTHER. Im sorry but it has to be said.
Sending you and the rest of the family love and blessings xx
Sounds just like my sister. She has none of her kids living with her either. She had them living in a pig sty. Kids deserve so much better. You are a literal guardian angel for your little niece, not many people could do what you're doing and as well as you are. Bless you x
I came back to say Dainá, you're doing an amazing job raising and caring for your niece.. When she is older and reaches independance, it'll be you she comes to for advice, to hang out together etc etc.. you will always be her safe place
My mother adopted 4 of my brother’s daughters during my childhood & I assisted her w/ raising my nieces. And I’m telling you if my mom and her family had to go retrieve my nieces from their mother & she started to make a scene! My mom would’ve kicked that woman right through her damn window onto the pavement🤣🤦🏽♀️Right-hand to God! And my nieces would've just had to live with the memory of seeing their mother fly through a window and the sound of the Ambulance 🚨 💯🇺🇸
Can’t believe how any parents wouldn’t love to have a child like Aaliyah & love her unconditionally!!! Aaliyah is adorable!!! 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
This!!! It makes me so, so mad to my core
Cute that you think everyone roaming the streets are sane
Hun, I know her behaviour is hurtful but try not to stress about how she's acting. She knows the good you're doing but it makes her feel bad about herself, so she is deflecting and taking it out on you. This is a classic reaction which is why it is best that you have very limited contact with her. Keep your head up Hun and stay blessed 😁💛💜
facts
Your brother...why take her stuff over for a lunch🤔
She’s a toddler still! It’s usual for them to have a spare set if clothes , wipes, water bottle in a bag to take everywhere
@danielledavis6784 You're absolutely right! You can tell I ain't got no kids😅🤣🤣, but I do remember my mom saying bring extras in their baby bag for accidents to a cousin.
Aaliyah is so blessed to have an aunt like you ❤
Thanks for sharing. This was heavy loaded. Warfare prayers definitely needed.
Dainá your soul is beautiful! I commend and honor you gf! I’ve got so much more to say and feel in my heart for you but imma leave it at that. May God continue to bless you and your family abundantly!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 thank you for sharing/showing what true love really is 🧠🖤
Life is lifing 😮💨 but we’re not alone on this journey
I’m so sorry sis this sounds so stressful you need another holiday to recover from the first one 😭😭😭 Jesus this sounds like every parents/guardians worst nightmare 😢
Gina trying to sabotage the SGO won't mean A will return to her care like she thinks..Her recent actions and state of the home only adds more to the existing concerns. Supervised contact for both parent is in place for a reason. Gina should never have had that opportunity. A must have been so confused, glad shes back home with her Auntie mama. Deffo back to 6 x per year. Set out all dates in advance at least 2 supervising in a place they cannot flee. Daina's got this x
Yet the brother willingly took her there after waiting for his mum to leave. He saw an opportunity to do it and did. Also. She was a fan but how did she know he was Daina's brother to be a fan? He has not been heavily featured on the channel so clearly he told Gina who his sister was and she saw an opportunity. He is suspect too. I have brothers and trust. They have messed up but they got the same condemnation. They choose who they lie down with so 🤷🏽♀️
Also side note when someone is repeatedly calling your phone late hours please PICK UP
Massive flaw in social services to leave her somewhere she legally wasn't allowed to stay, what if something bad had happened while she was there who would take responsibility. Such a complicated situation. I agree with a few of the comments maybe you need to look into adopting alyaiah if possible
I’m confused “Gina” says you went to the Pub.. & that requires them to then come to your house after.. but they didn’t feel the need to check where Aaliyah had to stay.. which happened to be at “Gina’s” a persons who’s history they know 🤷🏾♀️
YEP!
Which then makes me believe the police did tell social services they did a welfare check.. don’t have Snapchat but from Daina’s description and everyone’s comments.. that never happened .. they and her brother dropped the ball..
Hope she & Aaliyah get to go to Jamaica together soon!!
I’m so happy you have spoken your truth! You deserve so much respect for all you’ve done!! I pray you and Aaliyah are left alone to enjoy life❤️❤️
Daina you are doing amazing! Hope things ease up for you and stay that way.
Praying that you and your daughter can live a peaceful life
I don’t have kids so who knows how I’d act but I like to think I’d be eternally grateful to the woman stepping up to raise my child, and not do anything to further emotionally scar the child or alienate her from me 🤔 I’d even be deeply embarrazzed!
Not if you’re not well, mentally. You won’t see the good in others, you might only see your pain. This woman is not managing. You will be fine, most people are. Luckily these situations although they happen a lot, it’s not normal. Poor mental health is no joke. The messy house thing is unfortunately very normal with people who have no will to take care of themselves, everything is hard work from brushing their teeth to washing a mug.
This happens a lot. It’s guilt and denial from the parents inability to parent THEIR own child.
@@Chazzabox1 I agree she’s not well, that’s why I say I’d like to think I’d behave differently but who knows. I’ve had my own fair share of mental health issues to the point I would never have kids since there’s the risk I wouldn’t cope. I can totally see how she’s only seeing her pain because I’ve done it, though not to this extent. She’s disregarded the actual reality of the circumstances she’s living in, and the only thing she’s thinking is ‘yeah but I gave birth to her soo…’ Doesn’t matter if the kid gets traumatised or sleeps in dirt ☹️ I just hope one day she’s well enough to look back at how Aaliyah is brought up and think wow, someone really did that for my daughter?! I feel like the day she starts to feel some shame and embarrassment in hindsight, will be a sign she’s healing. If she just goes on living like this unsupported blaming Daina, then idk for her
y'all needa peep dainá's snaps fr how could a mother think a home in that state is ok??
Those pictures…I’m so glad Aaliyah has you in her life and that you have full guardianship. I just feel for the kids that have live in that 😢
Its been years since I've had Snapchat, and you made me download it. I wasn't prepared for that at all. It's not just about the mess. She has cleaning products out for the kids to get to. Why are they even out? It's not like shes been using them. She obviously needs a mental health check
And so does the brother.
OMG!!!! wah kinda DUTTY NASTY environment is that. That girl really had the audacity to open up her trap and talk, and give you any kinda kick back while police was there to see with their very eyes that the children were not in a safe CLEAN space.
Full Custody is in order here, lawyer up, 6 supervised visits revoked. What!? Daina, you are an amazing MOTHER, and that baby recognizes that. This is why she calls you MOM.
Love Peace and Harmony and Happiness to you beautiful Sistah ❤
The toilet almost emptied my stomach yo 😭😭😢😢😢 nooooooooo no man. I’m angry like this happened with my own child. WTF!!??????? She shouldn’t be allowed to keep ANY of her kids she clearly needs some mental health services bad. Who could live like that and with young girls around!?????
I understand when u said at first, your bro was dead to you. The brother should be held as much accountable as the baby mother. He full well knew what he was doing and sneakily did it while your mum went out. He obviously still has love for his bm.
Unfortunately u can't make the bm fix up, but your family should assertively motivate your bro to fix up and get his life sorted.. stop smoking, go college and learn a skill, get a stable job etc.. as what's stopping him from having custody of his OWN children too !? He should be going above and beyond for his children, like you're having to step in and do. You definitely need to set expectations, boundaries and rules with him, he seems to have life too comfortable, with least responsibility, coming and going as he pleases, but probably doesn’t contribute nothing. Sometimes tough love has to be placed above our feelings for our loved ones. Hope it all works out 🤗
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This shouldn't even be shared poor child in the middle of this drama 😔
You are so strong I can’t even imagine how you deal with this!
So crazy. All these years, you're so vocal & strong in your Jamaican roots, I had no idea you've never been there. Glad to hear you finally experienced that
God please allow some grace over Daina life and heart. Allow the wheels to turn for the good and the pain fades to joy. you know her heart God❤
How is she allowed custody of her other kids if she's lost the others to the care system? Can the other children be saved?
As a 40something lady I’m so impressed with how you stepped up for your niece. God bless you and continue to give you the strength to carry on❤
I’m so glad you got her back and pray you get peace this year. Keep fighting for your niece you are doing incredible. I’ve seen the photos and I’m shocked at the conditions.
I genuinely didn’t think the pictures would be that bad because hooooow 🤢☹️ I felt sick, especially after seeing the toilet smh. Such a sad situation. Glad Aaliyah is back with you Dainá & I do hope her siblings are in good care 🤎
Nah I’m so sorry about the way life has been lifing back to back, I hope the hurdles stop hurdling because this is a lot
Thanks Diana for sharing this. Im actually a social work student but grew up in care and I agree that there definitely needs to be some changes within the system aswell as policy and procedures, like your ‘Next of Kin’ example, if guardian not present. It’s really unfortunate what took place, however Aaliyah is sooo blessed to have such a committed, loving and supportive aunty💗💗💗
D all I can say is you're such a good well rounded person and I just know God has so much good coming your way. Just keep up the self improvement and don't lose yourself over people who can show themselves all on their own. Love and Blessings
You are a great MOTHER❤️
Sounds Like Its Time For An Attorney Or Lawyer And Draft Up A Permanent Claim To Your Niece Or File For Full Legal Custody To Cut Through The Chaos And Drama So You Can Get On With Your Life Peace And Blessings And Future Success On Your Endeavors 💙🙏🏾💞🤗
I am so sorry you had to deal with this, you handled it with grace. You're an amazing mother.
“Do I look like someone that goes to the pub” 🤣🤣 ahh Daina, your doing a great job with your niece! P.s I was not ready for them photos 🥴🥴 poor kids
Why would ur brother breed such a Jancrow in the 1st place 😭
Birds of a feather…
@@jasmineonly I’m Convinced Gina is a Nitty and the Brother was Trappin from her yard 😭 coz what in the BANDO is THATTTTT YARD! 😭😭😭😭
@@Blanco24Seven_36Five fr trap yard 😭
@@Blanco24Seven_36Fiveplease does anyone have a ss😭