Single Mothers Hate Their Responsibilities
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Like the old saying goes "If you raise your children the right way then you get to spoil your grandkids, but if you spoil your children then you'll end up raising your grandkids"
I never heard that one but damn that was heavy. It just makes sense
That happens a lot in the BC... the third possibility, though, is if you abuse your children, you won't get to see your grandkids.
💯
It hits heavy cause it's the truth.
Sir or madam, I will be appropriating that phrase. Thank you!!!!
She’s disrespectful asf recording them people like that. Those kids are are hers and their son’s responsibility, not theirs.
Whatever happened to "it takes a village?" 😂😂... these women just have no respect for that concept to work.
This was exactly what I was thinking.
She is Straight Trash of a so-called woman
She didn’t even call and ask!
Don’t forget ladies. “My Body My Choice”. Now it your responsibility to take care of your choices.
That's the part they don't want to deal with.
The real life choices they hate to deal with.
This STATEMENT SHOULD BE THE STAPLE OF THE YEAR!!! EVERY STRONG INDEPENDENT BLACK WOMEN NEED TO HEAR YOUR STATEMENT, EXCELLENT TAKE!!!!!!
I really don't like this statement (my body my choice) because it's disingenuous and too simple. Personal health? Sure. Completely understand. Taking about children? Nah, society has to deal with that and that child has its own body. Yes the child comes from your body, but if you don't raise it right then society has to deal with that problem.
She brought those kids out there to put pressure on the grandparents. She knew they might tell HER no, so she was banking on them not being able to say no with the kids standing there...She thought wrong.
They love using their kids as pawns.
Plus She needed bullets for Her "Blame it on the Father" Gun. We see what She was attempting to do (And so did the Grand Parents) So She's gotta tighten up the Butt Cheeks and try it elsewhere or better Yet, Wait until the Father shows up at 5pm like He said He would and more than likely has been doing. I believe She decided She had more important things to do than to stay on code.
Exactly!
I'm with the Grandparents. You don't just drop them off like groceries, and expect them to just take them. This happens more thsn people think. Putting pressure on the Parents, and not the Father. They did the right thing. Some of these mothers don't even like their kids, and won't admit it, but you can tell in their actions.
This is why I mentioned single men with no children not to entertain single moms. They make poor choices with men. Guys, don't get caught in their foolishness!!
There's usually NO safety net for BM!!
Don't be a baby momma..that's the title she earns..just give them to the father in the first place..stop holding them hostage and for ransom
@@maliksalaam8322 safety net, ma'am is what?
That's NOT true in 95% of the cases I have witnessed over the years (30+) while observing and dealing with "Single Mother" situations. They quickly "Burn Out" their resources because they feel as if someone (Doesn't matter who) should do more than they are obligated to do because She is under the False impression that She deserves what She is asking for.
Granny said, “I’m sorry!” 😂 I completely agree with the grandparents. Those are your kids.. plus those are little kids. Older folks don’t wanna run around with little kids
Shame on that woman for trying to shame those old people into watching her babies, it's very simple you had fun making them you have fun raising them. Old people ain't in the best shape they move slow and they sleep a lot they can't be running after no quick and fast kids. Let them enjoy their golden years in peace.
Exactly, these news parents are so selfish.
@@RachaelBluee exactly 💯 👍🏽
"take your burdens to the Lord, not me" 😄
😂😂😂
That "take me to the king" took me out 😂😂😂😂
@keptbygrace6221.... What's funny about that?
Yes Mam
@@TommieGun71The way she said it😂
Correction there is only a problem when boundaries are created for BW you can tell a BM you can't help him anytime, any place, for any reason.
Bruh, if I could thumbs up your comment a thousand times I would.
Bruh, if I could THUMBS UP your comment a million times I would
I approve this message.
Disrespectful!
Wasn’t even responsible enough to call first but wants two old-old folks to, on a whim, take her responsibilities off of her plate.
Then had the nerve to record them and put them on the internet! 🤯😡😡
She lucky they didn’t curse-her-out in front of those babies! 🤨
Disrespect is how they do business.. and when they receive the consequences of their disrespect, they claim victim.
@sparklitd.... She had the audacity to record them as if she was going to embarrassed them, but embarrassed herself, these heffa's are out of pocket.
I don’t see the controversy here. My grandparents would tell me to handle my business since I want to be grown and have kids. Mam put the camera down and grow up 🙄
What is the camera supposed to do ? Shame then into watching the kids. Plus she had nothing important to do
What's wrong with you yo about a camera, anyway She's trying to lace these so called Women about Bringing THERE kids his and hers tO HIS GRAND PARENTS SPOT.. some Sneaky Behind the back authoritarian crap.Yeah it's a Issue..
Grown enough to have em, grown enough to raise em!!!
Recording them is disrespectful
If raising children is too hard a task for you why did singing “you let him hit it raw?”
The song!!!!
" You didn't have second thoughts. Now you a single mom."
Not a single goddamn thought was put into how these kids would be taken care of, but you wanna pass the baton to someone else.
Embarrassing
If She will stoop low enough to try this trick, He better make sure them Kids are His (I'm just saying).
If you listen to the grandfather he clearly said "we already got one in here". So they are already parenting either another grandchild or grandniece/nephew that someone done dropped off. They are both sick and old but yet have opened their opened their house to a child after they have raised their own children. The mother probably heard someone dropped their kid off with those grandparents and figured she could pressure them into accepting hers too by bringing them over. And look how she caught them in the back yard too. They probably saw her coming and didn't want to answer the front door. They know whats up with her. And Lastly, even after the grandparents told her they were sick and already had one child they were keeping she didn't care about none of that she still tried to push her kids off on them.
He only gets them when it's convenient for him. That's what he supposed to do!!! Y'all ain't together and he doesn't have custody of them.
CHOICES! Not the grandparents responsibility 😕
Wow Sis! You are soooo absolutely correct! Trying to set healthy boundaries in the black family is sure to get you silenced, canceled and ostracized! I have been happily ostracized (DELIVERED) for about 5 years now and life has never been better or more peaceful… 🙏🏾😃
The she had a nerve to record the interaction SMMFH
She was recording so She could have something to use later on Her self proclaimed "Shame" tour ( a Tik Tok Premier) Later this Summer. She has plenty of "Nerve" which in most cases don't require much Sense!
"...even having them standing there to witness the conversation was irresponsible".=FACTS💯
They absolutely did the right thing. More Grand parents should do this. The mother overstepped her boundaries. To the mother's credit she did not unleash full Black Girl Magic hyenaship on the grandparents.
She couldnt do that because she knew she was out of place and the still was trying to shame them.
@@universe-ie2mk Not only that but She would have to deal with the Kids Father on a Whole different Level. I'm also willing to bet that the Father told Her He was coming to get the Kids and She decided She didn't want to stick to the plan.
@@forsale313Bingo thats really what happened
She couldnt wait just like other females
They want you to take the trash out when they want you to not when you feel like it
BW have a mental issue thinking they run shit and when they dont or learn the hard way they act like victims🤦🏽♂️🤣
Baby this one hit home!!! My daughter took a job at county jail working every weekend she told me I was wrong I should be able to keep my grandkids every weekend… the devil is a liar I told her that’s a lot to ask of someone and no I’m not going to guarantee you I will do that….these kids expect you to be they maids I don’t think so
They expect the men to be their "wives," too. They want a complete role reversal, but they don't want any of the accountability that comes with manhood.
HHHHMMMM, She had them Kids and took that Job, Both of which are HER responsibilities! Hell, She was crafty enough to get that Job so now use that Money to find a Babysitter.
@larheamiles6012.... Why would she expect that from you? Was that the example you set for her?
I have a question, though. Were you a single mother? And if so, did you get your daughter to watch her siblings and play second mom while you worked, partied, played and did your thing? I'm just curious, because I think some single mothers may expect their mothers to help them just like they helped their mothers when they were kids.
I was always told that anything grandparents do is a GIFT (to be appreciated not expected) and expect to be around my kids all or majority of the time; so this type of thing is beyond me. 😢
Giver got to set limits, bc the takers never do...-fabolous
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They are right it’s not their responsibility
Granny: this ain't no daycare 😂
These women are getting lower and lower in quality. I guess this would be considered “not protecting black women”
Maybe black women should be more diligent in protecting THEMSELVES from making decisions that are guaranteed to build CRAPPY LIVES! Is that an option???🤔
And holding them accountable for their selfish bullshit is now racist or discriminatory 🙄
Why should I protect someone who brings nothing but drama and bs to my life?
They don't want protection. They want attack dogs.
VERY, VERY LOW IN QUALITY!!! LOW ON THE TOTEM POLE
@jonathancue1584
At this point, the totem pole is in the ground, and the wood is being eaten out by critters.
These women are ridiculous 😠😔😡😭😭.
Some single mothers are very entitled, I've seen some of, my own family members, drop their kids off, without even calling, to ask if you wanted, to keep thier kids, and then have the nerve and audacity, to get an attitude when you call them out on their b. s, or refuse to keep they kids🙄🤔!
They will completely rearrange your life if you let them..
There is no good relationship that truly exists without boundaries
If parents allowed them Black Mother's would dump their children right off on them. My mother did it for 7 out of 8 of her kids. These same parents also did not sit their kids down and tell them before kids what that would look like and how they wouldn't be taken advantage of as grandparents.
That’s ingrained into a lot of us. My Mom dropped me off at my Grandparents and they took care of me. Caused a lot of issues for me. Loved my Grandparents but I wanted my parents. Since the 20s woman have had children and left them with their parents to do better rather than taking care of them. All the things most of us do such as Studding and leaving behind our children is a reverberation of what has happened in the past. Women have used children as pawns forever and now it coming to the forefront with the internet.
Deadbeat moms
So if you have 5 or 6 kids you supposed to just drop them off at the grandparents house just like that and and expect them to watch them while you go do your thing wow
Having Grand Parents is a Blessing, Not an open resource to use as one may see fit.
My parents did this often - would leave us at grandparents for weeks or months ar a time and we wouldn't hear a peep from them. When it was time for myself and mt sister to go home, they would have them put us on a GREYHOUND bus for a 6 hour ride. No phone numbers, no money, no way to call for help. We were between the ages of 8 and 11 and rhis happened more than once. We could have been kidnapped! Why have children if you don't want to raise them? Good on these grandparents for standing up to this.
Kids being coddled and leashed is a new thing. Millions of us grew up rough and tough in the '80s and prior. There were no cell phones back then. We used to roam the neighborhoods and city. We fought and held our own. We ran from the cops and elders after doing pranks. As long as we came back home before the street lamps came on, it was all good. Then we took baths and slept like babies. We didn't sit in the house all day playing video games.
@@KtotheGyou are correct. I remember riding the city bus many times, starting at 10 yrs old, to pick up my little sister from daycare. Mom would call and say she had to work late- go get some change from the money jar and go get your sister. It was only about a 15 ride each way, but looking at my kids now I can't even imagine sending my 10 yr old to ride public transit (with all the weirdos) to pick up a 4 yr old.
@@keptbygrace6221 We were blessed and lucky, if you want to use that word... because that stuff was going on back then, too... however I don't think it was as rampant, like the s. trafficking that goes on today, where even women are the predators and wranglers. But we were told to not talk to strangers. Don't accept candy or rides from strangers. We had secret words and codes to use if strange adults said that they knew our parents and that it was safe to come with them. We were told to yell and pick up weapons if we were ever outsized or outnumbered. Also, sometimes strangers would come to kids' rescue if they saw a situation amiss. Things are different today, but there was more community back then. There really was a village mindset.
@@KtotheG you're conflating. The. OP stated how their parents would drop them off at grandparents house for weeks to months at a time, without a word. Raising your OWN children (rather than dumping them off with grandparents or other relatives) is not "coddling" as you just implied.
And the fact that you admit to being left to your own devices resulting in doing "pranks" thay caused you to get chased by police reveals that you probably needed more parental supervision and discipline than you let on.
My exwife was molested by an uncle she was left alone with to be babysat by because her parents were quick to dump her off so they could have their fun.
They are chronically ill and I know how that feels personally. Why should the grandparents have to put up with your responsibilities of children especially if you didn’t marry or get a mate before you carried. That’s selfish!
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯... Seems like the baby momma is already planting the seed in those babies heads that their daddy doesn't want them and simultaneously trying to guilt trip the grandparents into watching them.. One of the oldest tricks in the book.. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I love how she does to the parents what she accuses the son of doing leading me to believe she's being dishonest. I guarantee the arrangement doesn't suit her at all times and that's the part that's frustrating to her. I pain myself to watch family court cases with real people and usually the mother's weaponize visitation by making it as difficult and unpredictable as they can AND demanding the max in financial support. They want all the leverage, all the money and all the flexibility with no regard for the father and are quick to call him a deadbeat if they are inconvenienced one time. We live amongst a lot of deadbeat mom's but we've been conditioned to never acknowledge it.
My husband and I have 4 children that are full of energy and who are off the chain in a good way. There is no way I would just show up at my parents or his side of the family houses and try to drop our children off without making arrangements and offering payment for babysitting. Most family members do not want the responsibility or obligation to be stuck with our children. Even if they genially love our children no sane person wants to be stuck with children that they did not ask for.
Well, you let em hit it.......
My body, my choice, but they ALWAYS leave out the other important part.........MY TERMS! Any amount of money that if that man aksed for full custody at any time, she would've said NO. For all we know, he may have. Point being, everyone is supposed to be their to serve HER needs as SHE sees it. Their idea of compromise is control.
Thanks again sis for the great content. I would ask who would she have tried to take them to if grand parents were not alive, God forbid. Who? And anybody that think the GP are wrong are guilty of doing this same thing. Common sence just dont hit our people. Its like we're numb to inconviencing our elders when they should not be burdened with those things. Those kids should be bought over when the GP wants to see them. Not so we can go do what we want in the streets
Old skool don't play that.
I love it the way Crimson doesn't play the ole "a woman always need help from somebody whenever she needs it" syndrome. Crimson makes these women RESPONSIBLE!
I am with the grandparents on this. She probably didn’t even notify the father or make arrangements with him and just popped up with her video phone ready to press record and play the victim and emotionally blackmail the parents in the process as well.
The quote “all wickedness is little to that of a woman” is a biblical passage found in Ecclesiasticus 25:19, which suggests that the wickedness of a woman is unparalleled. This statement is repeated in various forms across different biblical texts, including Sirach 25:19-26.
Ecclesiasticus 25:19
“All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.”
Ecclesiastes 7:28
“Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.”Ecclesiastes 7:28
“Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.”
Ecclesiastes 7:26
“And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.”
Kan Ahch. 👊
Thank you, Sir!
Add Ecclesiasticus 25:24.
*They said not today.*
Sadly some of the most selfish women often have the most kids.
The issue is even if the father is there and trying to have a family many women want the freedom of a childless woman being in a relationship takes order and structure but they want the freedom to do whatever whenever with no responsibility it may even cause her to end the relationship regardless of struggles they may endure and blame the man that he ain't doing enough or helping
I used to pack my son up to get ready to go. My mother in law said no, he can stay w me, you go. But thats cuz i never asked her or automatically assumed she keep my son. She wanted to keep him that's different. Not just assume they watching the grans.
They definitely create burdens for any and every body but the co-parents.
You made the right points in this video. Some people have no idea what boundaries are and how to set or respect them. Thats how they wind up with broken relationships and OOW children, i presume...
4:44 old school game
5:35 Creating boundings for the community
This is how my oldest sister with her son, did my mother.
She’s wild for showing up like that. Those are not their children. They can spend time with them , as yall mutually agree, but nobody owes you babysitting help. And half the time, they want you to babysit so they can go make more children they can’t care for.
Yep and she didn't call first because she knew the answer. Thought she could guilt trip em.
You let em hit it raw
You had no 2nd thoughts
Stop harrasing the elderly let grandpa and grandma rest and raise your own children that goes for both Men and Women. Stop being selfish 🤨
And please stop telling everyone “My Body My Choice”.
Was dating a woman from Atlanta. I'm 45 she 40. Go to visit her family to make them breakfast. She has 3 other sisters and a brother. ALL with children out of wedlock. Non of them married. Babies all over the house (the chick i was with has 2 grown over 20, the rest all under 7). Damn near sat on a baby cause they was stuffed everywhere. Poor parents looked exhausted. 3 of the sisters were still living at the their house all over 30. I left like hell no, I'm not dealing with this mindset.
Yes I’m the black community it seems everyone hates boundaries. My relatives are apart of that mix.
My husband and I decided to contact our relatives after I gave birth to our first child and my relatives got mad because they wanted me to call them when I was in labor even though I told them while being pregnant I was only calling after our child was born. My relatives decided that they were not going to help us with our son at all (even though they said they would prior to having our child) as a way to be spiteful. My husband and I didn’t care because we didn’t plan on anyone helping us anyway. We did have a lot of sleepless nights and did need some support but we were there to support each other and it made our marriage stronger. My relatives now have the poop faces because they thought being spiteful was going to make us crack but it didn’t and only made them look stupid because now they don’t really have a relationship with our child. It doesn’t pay to be nasty.
Ladies: please stop having kids with dudes you KNOW won't be father material. Then act surprised when he's not stepping up to the plate. Have some accountability for yourselves...
5:14
Truth Spoken!
This woman was totally disrespectful. Especially recording them for your own gratification. She know she was wring, and they let her know.
The BABY MOMMA BOX !!! 😅
The video strikes a nerve because I had too many instances in my family with these types of scenarios! Leave the senior citizens alone. The need to stop burdening family members with their sh*t! "Her Body, Her Choice!" Made the bed, now lay in it!
Why do these females gotta record everything?? And she's wrong to just pop up to their house and try to drop her kids off without calling and ask 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Shalom Sisters ❤
Wonder if she’s ever hit them up for $$? Wouldn’t be a bit surprised.
Dang hope the elderly ppl are ok they aren’t wrong they have problems
WOW Queeny is so right an a anther banging video stay bless Queeny ❤❤📚
Remember
*My body My choice*
*Good men are boring*
*Good men ain’t my type*
*I don’t need no man*
If you look at their age alone...theyre too old and probably been taking care of kids their whole life..and you got both of them saying NO...they cant do it!!
Some women don't need to have kids! How dare she go to her elderly in laws and try to take them for granted expecting them to look after her baby's daddy's kids! Those senior citizens lived their lives, raised children and need a BREAK! The ratchets need to keep their legs closed if they don't want to be mothers! Look for the father, don't impose on the grandparents!
Stay winning the last place race
That's evil manipulation, especially all the more by using the children to pressure them.
When my wife and I were raising our children we didn’t have any one to drop them off to and I didn’t blame my parents or my wife parents because we had those children not them, they got the kids when they felt like getting them.
Same. When we had ours, both sets of grandparents were still working full time, so it was just us.
I feel bad for those babies, our future!! We gotta do better shit! Both parents.
It would be one thing if she was dropping them off before she went to work or school, something that was bettering her and her kids' lives. This does not seem to be the case here. This also shows the lack of communication and logistical skills many of these ladies seem to be proud of...
With No boundaries you create a monster that you have to kill and that's why I do not allow family members to stay with me set boundaries and show tough love
Good on them grandparents for making her responsible for her own kids. If the dad ain't around, it's probably YOU!
She’s wrong for trying to shame them like that. It’s not their responsibility to watch those kids..to make it worse she had two. I just wonder why do women want custody of kids when they need all this help to raise kids. Give kids to the parent that doesn’t necessarily need help from the other parent or don’t have the support needed
Grandparents got lives too. Respect their boundaries. She tried to guilt them into taking them kids with the camera and the baby being there.
Hello & blessings
Now you're a single mom.
And the next track after that is........."They Not like Us". LMAOOOOOOO
Clap 👏
I don’t get how ppl be so comfortable randomly shoving a camera in ppls face smh 🙄
@naesimone6340.... People are crazy now a days, who shows up to someone home unannounced and records their interaction without the other party consent?
LADIES, JUST BECAUSE THE WORD OF THE DAY IS "LEGS." THAT DON'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO SPREAD THE WORD
U let him hit it raw, u didnt hv 2nd thoughts, nw ur a single mom x2..... drizzle drizzle
she should ask the bear for help, grizzle grizzle
Nobody is thinking about the kids.. thats crazy... so what if it ain't my responsibility.. what about the kids
Feminism promised them a village the old man said “nah”
Where is her husband?😂
They don't believe in husbands.
I can help you sometimes is a euphemism for I cant and i wont help you
" The dad only shows up when it's convenient for him."
And yet, knowing that, you still spread your legs and let him knock you up. So, who's really at fault here? 🙄
What do they expect when they break their homes? Dad has to earn a living, too, in order to support the kids. These single mothers want to play and bait/trap new baby daddies.
I have one Daughter my Mother helped me out with her certains things I regret because my Mother felt she could over rule me when it came to my own child overall things are good but I refuse to have more kids I don't want to put that burden on my Mother i want her to be able to enjoy her life I have a Daughter 14yrs old my Sis has a Son 7yrs old thats good enough!!!
I will never understand why these young girls think raising children is what they want to do. I'm so confused 😵💫
Nah, they just hate birth control. They don't think about raising kids.
Stop losing these Men. Drop them babies with Dad.
They're supposed to be housewives taking care of their own babies.. Dad is supposed to be working.
Short story...
My 42-year-old son came to my house last week.
When he told me he was on his way I told him do not stop.
Keep going.
I'm busy.
But he came anyway.
He then after I allowed him to come in my house proceeded to tell me about my granddaughter being pregnant the second time 🥺.
So I asked him, Is it by the same type dude that was whooping her butt that she had before? To which my son didn't even understand he should not have even been at my house
damn it..
So I kicked him out,
And told him how do I know that that is my blood?
Then I told him on information and belief, if you are not my blood,
Then she is not my blood, and that baby probably with more than likely information, is not my blood...
Keep it moving pal
This is typical behavior in the black community. I'm glad the grandfather told her, "You have to deal with this, not us." I think we all have been used by our family members to a certain extent, " I know I have." But when you set boundaries, they cannot take it. Then, "you're a bad person, you're no good etc.."
The boundaries are a huge problem for black families! They don’t like it and when you set boundaries you funny acting! It’s annoying smh
Seeing who she can play with..
Most of our elders are on a fixed income. They have limited time and resources. Respect it.
So can everybody stop complaining about how women don't want to have kids anymore? I'm all for it: Stop having kids you don't want to be responsible for!
They look more like great grandparents 🤔
They look like GOOD SENSE