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Why Black Single Motherhood Is A Failure
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This young boy actually gets into an altercation with his mother, and this is part of the failure of single motherhood in the community. Let's talk!
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This is what today’s single mother won’t mention because most of them are trying to carry on like the perfect mother. This is why our black males are in the situations they can’t consistently get out of.
This is the ultimate consequence of “I don’t need a man”
I was fighting with my brother once 16 years old (basically a shoving match) and my mom got between us and I reached around her and popped my brother upside the head but I inadvertently bumped my mom into the wall and she hurt her arm. Nothing major, but enough to make her cry. My dad came home and after he found out what happened - I’ll never forget the level of fear that went through me when I heard him charge up the stairs calling my name. He grabbed me by my collar and threw me onto the bed and raised his fist with rings on it and said if I EVER HEAR you fighting or messing with your mother again all your teeth are gone!! Of course at that age the idea of having your teeth knocked sent shivers down my spine! Hahaha! He didn’t hit me but the look and posture was terrifying! So much so that after he left my room I didn’t move for about 5-6 minutes. I’m in my 50s and my dad is in his 70s and man, I love him sooo much. Lastly he once told me and my 3 brothers if I ever catch anyone y’all or hear that y’all are in a gang, I’m going to beat your a$$ up and down the street infront of everyone. I told him we were thankful for that as adults. But he doesn’t remember ever saying that. Ha. So yeah, this behavior would NEVER EVER EVER fly with a strong man in the house!
Damn that's crazy hopefully you all made up after all that. It gets like that sometimes when boys are in the house
@@kordellsmall8301 Of course. We were kids. Everything was squashed a few hours later. I apologized to my mom, told her I love her and went to beat the crap out of my brother in a game of Madden football. Haha!
😂😂I hear you bro I experienced the same thing I also am in my 50s and my pops is still my hero 😂😂
That boy said ur teeth will be gone and I may or may not replace em either lol gawd damn
My dad said if I ever joined a gang he’d break my neck and I never had even hung out with bad guys to begin with
In my 30s experienced the same .. love my pops to death💪🏾
Repeating the same behavior that drove the father away
Yup... these women are literally destroying the lives of fathers and their kids.
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That boy was obviously fed up from *_years_* of emotional and likely physical abuse from that so-called "mother"...
That is what is really is... what young man wants to taunted while recorded during a dark time? In her defense this probably not his first time with a melt down but that is not how you diffuse a melt down of any gender.
Facts.
@@kingmelanin7468 He was RESPONDING. Because his whole rant was “You are not going to touch me!”
And sexual abuse unfortunately
Exactly what it is, y I barely talk to mine.
This is the most toxic parenting relationship I’ve seen in a long time. Instead of trying to calm the child down and de-escalate the situation, the mother further escalated the situation by challenging, insulting and provoking the child. Here’s a young boy who is going through puberty and has all this aggression that he is trying to control and he has no male figure in his life to help him cope with the changes in his body and his emotions, and the mother only makes it worse by provoking him to attack her and she is encouraging him to be violent towards others when he is upset. And when he does attack her, she will conveniently leave out the part where she provoked him and escalated the situation by her own actions and words. 🙄🤷🏽♂️
As always. They always leave out what they did to contribute to a situation escalating and ending badly. They’ll dump the responsibility off on a man and blame him.
That was the most disgusting thing I've seen in a while.
Listen to the kids voice , hes saying "touch me" over and over. She use to beat him or spank him with no resolution . no teaching or understanding. She turned this kid into that . now she turns on the camera to act like she has nothing to do with his behavior
My mother was like this and once I actually hit her
She's trying to get youngin to hit her because she can't control him physically or mentally, and she needs justification to call in her zaddy-daddy, the yt man - cop/legal system. She's not alone, I've heard stories and seen first-hand, these single mothers and their sons.
Boys around 11-13 are already stronger than most adult females. How his moms antagonised him just like any random woman on the street would says it all. They've created this normalcy that we didn't used to have.
right 11-13 however roughly 15 or 16 because of testosterone increase they have more muscle mass and bone density
Indeed. I coached football... Twelve year old boys are strong enough for war. I disagree with Crimson talking about a physical confrontation, because I was strong and big enough to beat up my father at twelve. He abused me all my life and I was ready to di:e to be done with it. It's important to have a heart connection with the young man because he's hard wired to k:ill everything in his environment. He's in the best shape of everyone in the house also. He needs to be heard out, forgiven, and allowed to be a young man who is loved and respected.
Men can't be punked... We'll d:ie instead.
@@busyrand well it depends on 12 yr old boy not every individual male duting puberty is same so she not all the right or wrong and she did say at a early age 5th grade the boys are stronger than women when testosterone hit.
i will say at 11 -14 again depending on how much he been affected by testosterone but 15 and 16 is it highest peak
I agree. All I saw was a so called mom curse at and antagonize her son. She obviously wasn't going to do anything. Call the police or have male friends remove him.
He is the way he because of her. She had no right to keep him from leaving. Women like that makes no sense. Especially in romantic relationships. If you don't want a man to harm or destroy your home or you let them leave.
The level of calling him the N word like he is some dude off the street is beyond me. This why men are needed because we can tame this aggression, a woman cannot. If her son wanted to kill her, she would not have been able to stop him.
How she screamed she was sick of him broke my heart.
I can't tell that's her son. She talking like that's her man
At that point he is some n on the street
@@TheDealProd Her man? That’s just as bad or worse.
@@shineonnent.7951 they go at their daughters even worse which is sad.
She’s recording so she can put the first case on her own son.
“I don’t know what’s wrong with him!” (He won’t do what I command)
its their go to catchphrase. it's very telling because that's what baby mamas want; a Black man's body that's controlled by her mind.
She's probably annoying and invading, and can't stand that he stands up to her or has his own agenda.
Yep! SMH
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Go pick that kid up immediately, I'll foot the bill for the gas.
Aka brainwashing to fit your hidden agenda
@@derricklangford4725 …same, D!!!
How much a year?
I knew a woman that lost her life at the hands of her 16yo son. She instilled fear in him all of his life… she was a lesbian the whole time I knew her and when he showed signs of being gay he was every name in the book to her. And the physical/verbal abuse lasted until he couldn’t take any more. He did not respect her and took her out execution style while she slept on the couch.
Damn 😢
WHOA!😮
Wow.
Damn
Sounding like a full fun boy too. I would go old school in a jiffy
The mothers behavior in this situation was truly disgusting. She has no control anywhere. No control of him, no control of what was happening, and no control of herself. She continued to escalate and instigate things with threats of violence that she would not be able to match if he were to take action. He showed restraint, but she actually thinks she won that battle.
There are lots of educated Black women who are single mothers too. Having an education is not going to fix the problem. It's a cultural phenomenon going on where Black Women do not feel having a father is important, they don't feel they need you unless it's on their terms.
Brother, these women are not educated. They have been truly thoroughly indoctrinated within the system of WS. Which have and always had one goal in mind, the destruction of our families, and our women was the primary tool used to accomplish it..
Agreed.
And the children always lose out.
I know because I have spent 39 years out here working with these children as an educational consultant.
After all these years, I am still shocked by the level of NEGLIGENCE and low development
I see in these children, both academic, and in a large range of
life skills.
You are correct 💯. Her egging him on is why so many of these disrespectful, arrogant, loud-mouthed 🔊🗣️ overgrown bears end up having their own children end their lives.
@@hopelove1595
Wow! I knew it was happening; but I did not know it was happening so frequently.
Not having male influence over her or the child. My kids mother fights my authority, influence, and dominion over my child. She competes and go as far as to undermine my word.
After 20 something years, I ran into one of my middle school friends. Had not seen any of them since 1994....
I heard someone call my name, turned around, and it was my friend who was 15 in the 8th grade.
In that one conversation outside of the grocery market, he filled me in on all of our crew. Some went off to war and came back messed up. Some OD'd.... Some are behind bars for life, some are strung out......
All of them were raised by abusive single mothers, including him. He started telling me how his mother and other mothers were partying and alcoholics, and beat the living day lights out of them for ANYTHING.
When in our youth, I thought they had the best lives because they had all of the video games, Jordans, Guess jeans, jerseys, Goose feathered coats....... 85% percent of them were abused almost daily and I never knew until that conversation last summer.
I also have multiple guys who eliminated themselves if you know what I mean.
None of them had their fathers.
This makes me want to cry. So sad our BW are like this. I have a 13 year old daughter and she tells me and her father that many kids at school says that she's lucky to have parents that loves her. I didn't understand but after reading this I understand now. Lord. I look at the kids at her school. The parents all have luxury cars but they are the worst parents.
That needs to be in a memoir for real man. And target the book at BW.
@@kreativeforce532 I never thought about that, but I will definitely consider that. 🙏🏿
As a father of 4 adult men, I can tell you my boys never broke anything in my house out of anger.
However they had to pay for everything they broke horse playing around the house.
Keeping those wildlings alive was the hardest part of raising that many boy at once. They are like little stunt men.
I feel for that young man. I was raised by a single mother with 2 sisters. She favored them and always made threats to send me to live with my dad but never did. My therapy was being outside at the park and running around the neighborhood. I found a love for running which led to a cross country/track scholarship. I was able to sublimate that negative situation into a positive which led to me obtaining my masters degree and becoming a licensed clinical social worker. I can see the guilt in my mother’s eyes at times knowing how badly she treated me and she even apologized to me for her toxic behavior. I hope that young man can figure it out because the system doesn’t care about your situation.
I was just talking about this to my female colleague who teach at the same school. I literately just had that conversation that the system doesn't care and it spends billions of dollars to keep black fathers out of the house and black women single with children that they can't raise on their own--functionally.
@@herbertharris7316 exactly bro. Fathers are needed in the household. I honestly stopped listening and tuned my mother out at age 12. I understood the situation and just had the mindset to stay out of trouble and to get good grades. It was a weight lifted off my shoulders at age 17 when I graduated high school and left for college. I consider myself blessed to have had that insight at a young age and to not allow the toxic environment to steer me in a negative direction.
You are correct
That's what sports... after school programs and part-time jobs are for..to get away...single moms regardless of economic class ethnic group or region are not good for boys ..some harm will be done
I lived this life, but luckily for me she sent me to my father. That was the first time I was in a stable environment
It's funny cuz A few days ago my sons mother calls me and tells me my son been acting up and talking back.. im like well when I tried to discipline him she tells me I'm being too hard or hey don't woop him.. now he is 12 I told her as a mom you cannot control him anymore. He realizes this. but because im no longer with the mother I don't have full control. Even though we not in the same house we could've still fixed it but she suppressed me from doing wat I gotta do..
She wants you to be the attack dog. There is 0 foresight in many women when raising sons.
FYI: he is not really a bad child just has to have the necessary adjustments.. or that update every now and then when they get out of line..
@@therealmccoy2004 going through the same thing. They don't understand how much they take of the mother's emotional reactions (growing up with learning only them). So they are allowing their emotions to control their reactions to the social, economic, and educational systems.
@@TheELEASY being disciplined by an emotional and illogical person, is just abuse.
You don’t learn discipline because that emotional and illogical person doesn’t have a set of standards nor rules, so it’s you walk on egg shells or just get to the I don’t give a F stage.
Whooping children is a slave mentality. They’re more intelligent ways to parent.
*Taunting, Testosterone and Tempers is Dangerous* 👈🏾
right
This is why children raised by mothers don't know how to manage themselves in society. I was working for a short time at Amazon and saw this behavior regularly.
Why a short time sound like you don't know how to manage yourself.
@@merouria6524 Amazon did lay people off from work myself included 😂 stop reaching
They always want to to fight anyone at the slightest provocation.
@@dionned.6176 Smart people know Amazon isn't long term employment unless you're corporate. I worked there temporarily to keep money in my pocket until I found something stable. Since I don't have children I don't have the liberty of living off the government or child support, so I have to work 😂😂, and I don't view any type of job as beneath me.
@@TheLadyofELyour comment makes sense; I've seen it in the workplace too!
I think these mothers get a high from being in control of their children. It's like a master, not a parent. I always hear mothers talking about "yeah, I can't wait until they get older and try me so I can knock their ass out." They talk like that more about their daughters. Smh
Cut the welfare. All of it, including alimony/child support, then we'll see how strong she really is
They threaten the daughters, the boys actually get abused unless he is his mothers son-husband.
I’ve seen a daughter have to have 2-3 abmortions in high school and still got to stay, got a new car, got to just live her life stress free but the Son got verbally, physically, mentally and emotionally abused if he wouldn’t give her money, and even got fought and put out because he had a girl In the house when his mom was out of town. In high school.
His sister snitched, but she also had snuck someone in the house and her brother actually covered for her.
Boys will go out shoot, rob, kill, join gangs just do they don’t have to be at their mothers house.
@@PD-qu8dq Mothers fight their daughters too. After a while, someone eventually snaps, because I did. All that aggressive talking they do for nothing is annoying. Lots of girls get physically abused (and deleted) by their mothers.
This narrative that girls get treated better by their mothers is sometimes one-sided. These mom's many times hate all their children.
@@TheLadyofELI agree with you. I've seen single mothers act like their newborns are the world to them but after all the spoiling and colorful yrs are over; those fatherless children catch hell because their emotional needs were replaced with Jordan, a iphones, etc
If this is how she deals with a child, imagine how she deals with adults.
Is there’s any wonder why his father isn’t around?
Bingo
I bet he looks like his father. That's what the real problem is.
@@tyronehill1237 poor child
Well, she didn't choose a husband to have a kid with because as you see, she likes playing power games.
@@NickM_FirstofHisName and with other wmn including children...
My son who is now 18 tried me at 15 and my husband shut that ish down quickly. He has never raised a pinky let alone his voice at me ever ever again! That boy saw both heaven and hell at the same time... He is the most respectable and sweetest young man, a freshman in college studying to be a physical therapist❤
he's not supposed to be a punk afraid of you, and your husband shouldn't be a guard dog. That's not natural. WS isn't afraid of you, nor is North Korea, China etc so if the men around you are afraid of BW then they will not have the testicular fortitude to combat OTHER MEN who will not hesitate to wipe the floor with you, AND them (once their fear is known).
What a wonderful story thank you for sharing.
My grandson was living with me and his mother also was living in my house. My daughter got into an argument with me. And my grandson felt froggish. Calling himself coming to her rescue. I looked at my daughter and said with one sentence. "You know I am about to knock his ass out". My daughter quickly turned to my grandson and told him he had better stop. She knew my tolerance level by me being her father for all those years. He was just 14 at the time. And i have a wonderful relationship with my grandson. Later in time when we had a talk. i told him. Men are men. And boys are boys. A man is not going to jaw jack with you about anything. He is going to do what he has to do. And wait on the repercussions later. So know if you are not prepared to get a grown man ass whipping. You had better learn to use common sense. From that point on. Nothing but yes sir papa. No sir, papa.
I love it.
My heart breaks for him! He probably should have been with his father years ago. This woman is tormenting this young man. Unless she is prepared to shoot and kill him, she definitely should not be provoking this young man to violence. Mommy is underestimating this young man! Without his father, grandfather, uncle or older brother there to talk him through his rage and anger, she is playing a very dangerous game.
She probably is prepared to shoot and kill him.. she is certainly prepared to call the police. That's the implicit threat in her begging him to hit her. And who recorded this? Her? Why? As if she wants evidence for the police when they come.... This is an explosion waiting to happen.
Funny part is a Dad would instantly notice and either talk him down or walk him down. Boys need men to shape them.
She should have simply walked away.
The hate she has for her son. This is so sad. It hurts my heart. He just needs to TALK
I'm 35 and I use to get jumped on by my mother and brother I wasn't a bad child. But when I hit 18 I told my brother you lay a hand on me and I will beat you to death and he knew I wasn't playing. My mother tried to get loud with me when I was in my early 20's and I just looked at her and she stopped that mess and never tried it again. My point is you have to build that trust and respect you can't beat them and expect them to respect you out of fear. All that yelling and screaming only works for a small time. And If I saw my brother today or tomorrow I would put him 6 feet in the ground with a smile on my face. Stop trying to punk these boys out thinking that it will last. Because trust me it won't.
Boys are supposed to have a healthy sense of fear of their fathers just like I had for mine when I was growing up.
Raised like a true son husband, they stir up chaos and then prevent you to leave. She was recording waiting for him to go off so she can call the police on him.
My mom tried to give me a spanking for no reason when I was 13. I took the belt away from her and informed her that I would not be accepting any more whoopings.😅
Damn right.
😂😂😂😂😂
*slow clap* well done sir, well done.
Same. I slammed my hand on the table and told her I had had enough of her. She got scared.
They know they can’t control these boys.
And yall expect step dads to come in and clean all that up, HELL NO!💯🧠
This is why I stand on a SINGLE MOTHER let alone a woman in general CAN NOT raise a MAN.
This is mind blowing for real.. I also just remembered my aunts (plural) talking to their boyfriends and husbands like that 🤦🏾♂️
Last thing I heard him say was I don’t want to hurt you and she said get off of me. Now that he knows that he can beat her it’s over.
Best thing she could do is give him to his father. He is too emotional. Damaged emotional. This mother talks like talk to her husband . "Beat my azz"
She probably ruined that relationship a long time ago.
@@carl5438 spot on
Every once in a while a father would put you in check so it doesn't have to come to this level. An emotional young boy grows up to be an emotional man, not good.
This happens when a boy has been never been giving a chance to vent his emotion as a little kid and does not understand how to manage emotion, once you let a child get that old its hard to deal with them, you got a kick them out and let life humble them. Fathers usually fix this stuff earlier in a their boys, like I did mine.
And she’s talking to him like a dude from the street and not her son. Wow! This behavior shows that there’s been disrespect from her son for a long time and it’s been unchecked. Now it’s to another level!
Maybe, there has been disrespect from her and he has been suffering in silence. You have no idea.
Most of y’all are like this fix it or shut up
Maybe it's the mom that's been disrespectful; the son's behavior appears to have been built up from his mother's insults.
This is normalcy in the single parent community ... The level of mental manipulation and abuse is why it's like it is. See, his father ESCAPED .. The boy is a prisoner BY LAW to stay there.
This was started by the maternal jackass. he wanted to go out and she told him no as a flex, then stood in front of the door. she cornered him, starting the fight. they like this attention because they have no man so they get it from their sons. what you just saw was emotional incest. Her needing a man to put her in her place hence "COME beat my ass"
Spot on!
DEEEEEP😅
💯
So weird 🥴
oh my god....i got chills reading this comment.....
She spoiled him, ignored his behavior the whole childhood, still bought him all that stuff in the room (plus his smartphone and bill payment) that he destroyed, while the room she probably RENTS is destroyed.... My Dad would have whipped me and then called CPS to come pick me up before he killed me.
You missed the point, All of that BS she bought don’t replace his father nor the masculine discipline and guidance he so desperately is yearning for.
Most importantly, he doesn’t have that masculine protection of his father. Your father is the one that covers you from harm, from everyone.
Teenage boys without fathers are forced to be protectors without a protector and that stuff takes a toll on their mental and emotional state.
It’s hard being under the roof of a person who is either the victim or the aggressor but she is never the one apologizing for her wrongs.
Single mothers use SIGN language to discipline their boys
You are correct about male presence, BGS showed a video of some young bull elephants that were terrorizing the others until they put 2 older males in there and that behavior ceased!! Personally dealt with this with my son whom my ex would stop me from correcting him when he was young but brought him to me at 16 when she couldn't handle him!!
I did my BEST to raise 2 boys. The one thing I feared was this here happening. I am soo thankful to say my boys are now 39 and 33 and they never spoke to me out of pocket . To this day they do not curse in front of me...if they slip up in conversation they immediate correct themselves.😀
I curse in front of my mom all the time I insult her with my father and too my father and I think nothing of it
She was a single mother too and it was unbearable and has done too much damage to myself family and future to garner any respect
The only thing she has left in old age is the funeral I’m not hard pressed to make
And I’m very aware of how horrible this all is
@@jimmiejackson8489 I get it.... many people thought I would have the same feelings about my mom as you.... mom was very abusive, told me many times how she never wanted me. She resented my grandmother for not letting her go to the chop shop and told me almost everyday she couldn't wait until I made 18. On my 18th birthday she changed the locks and set my things at the front door. Told me to have a nice life! She's no longer here....I remember she used to say "I wouldn't be caught dead in Red!" guess what color her Ern is????🤷♀
@@jimmiejackson8489 Damn bro. My mom was also a single mom and made a lot of bad decisions, but I was able to emotionally detach from her at a young age before it got to that point. As difficult as it is, you should try to resolve whatever issues you guys have so that you can be at peace when she's gone. Any unresolved issues can hinder your other relationships.
@@Yahawadah70ad " so that you can be at peace when she's gone." yes! My mom actually apologized to me towards the last few months of her life.... I forgave her long before because I later learned she was 14 when she had me and her mom(my grandmother) was single with 5 kids at the time, in the projects sooo.....BUUT MY grandkids represent the first generation to break the cycle of single parent households, welfare, public housing, gangs, crime (insert statistic here) ! Woo hoo!🥰
@@Princeguitarz On most occasions these single mothers are too proud to admit their wrong doings, apologise or say I love you. They'll more than likely say it to their daughters than the sons which cause them to suffer in silence in adulthood. Usually all it takes is a simple "I love you" or an apology to set them free, but they won't do it. Glad you guys were able to break the cycle.
PROVERBS 21:19 IT IS BETTER TO DWELL IN THE WILDERNESS,THAN WITH A CONTENTIOUS AND ANGRY WOMAN.
My 14yr old son's mother always babied him, and he's nothing more than a son husband. She would say he's the man of the house, and I would say he's the man of nothing because he's incapable of doing a man's duties or responsibilities. Now she calls telling me I need to talk to him when I have been talking to him his whole life, but he doesn't like people who dictate authority to him. Every time he does something wrong, she always makes up excuses for him. If I call him, he won't answer his phone; I've just washed my hands of both. When he wants something, his phone somehow works.
No Protection, no providing, no leadership without Direction, Instruction and Correction.
I would hang up on his ass or I would have a list of demands and todos before I bought anything.
One of my brothers tried to disrespect our stepdad when we were growing up. And my stepdad had him in a corner he never hit my brother he just matched his energy man to a teenager and boy oh boy the baby came out of my brother he started to cry. And he never disrespected my stepdad again.
When I need an opinion, I call my mom.
When I need answers, I call my dad.
I had to seek out my father because I out grew my mother.
Put that on a t-shirt!
I like that
What I see in this featured clip (not excluding your assessment) is all the years of resentment, deprivation and hate that were poured into this young man, all of it is being returned in spades. We love to say how we would react to his behavior, but never consider that him being this out-of-pocket is itself a reaction.
CC you are so right
Alot of times they keep thinking the little cute boy they raised would NEVER disrespect them. If you dont discipline them and continue to just let everything slide THIS will be the outcome.
I’m so thankful for my parents. My mother and father were married up until I was 10 years old. At 12 years old my dad moved to Virginia from Mississippi. Around that time I remember always being angry. My dad was very structured and he told me what would happen to me if I get out of line. I never raised a hand to my mother or even thought about it. All of those punishments I got saved my life. I knew what the word “no” meant. My dad would say,”actions have consequences.” I’m now 26, doing well. My father and I have a great relationship I thank him so much for being there despite the circumstances. Seeing that video is troubling because it could’ve been worst.
So the mother and father can live together but be separated.
Once the children leave home the parents then go their separate ways.
Did anyone else notice at the end of the video SHE said " get off me". 😆
That child was showing restraint the best he could but she cornered him. A dad/step dad wouldn't have done all that talking at the door. Ultimatum: Either you get your act together OR I'mma beat you down, pick one.
At this point, it's too late for her to do anything. She's tried to do this on her own with a man's input, and this is the result. At this stage, she needs an uncle, brother or some male figure to step in!
She got what she begged two minutes for, without seeing that video in context, the way she handled that, that's the result that was expected.
This is what you get when females say they can "raise" kids by themselves.
Stop complaining about men and pick better men to give children to.
...or don't have children at all!
@LogicalCritik that makes the most logical sense however, for some reason the vast majority of our women can't not have kids.
I personally only know three or four BW of child bearing age that don't have at least one child.
A man being in the house will definitely check the boy. He will think twice because of the threat of a more powerful physical figure in the home.
That's why I will never stay anywhere near a neighborhood without complete family units with a Father!
When I was that age, if my father even thought I was contemplating having a tantrum like that, he would have done some world-class straightening on me.💪🏿👊🏿
Im on of 5 boys now men from my mom, we grew up living with our mom and stepdad but we also spent weekends and summers at our real dads house.
4 of us have or are serving in the military 2 USAF, 1 Navy, and 1 Marine our other brother has lived on his own and is in progress of building a business. All of us are how we are and where we are due to the guidance of our dad and step dad, we had the advantage of not 1 but 2 fathers.
I have friends on the otherhand who were raised by single mothers, and it shows.
And women say "I" don't need a man." I'm willing to bet any amount of money if his father was there that would have never happened. In addition, after the video, it sounds like they were fighting, and he said, "I don't want to hurt you." I would like to commend Crimson on this topic being that black women think they can do any and everything. Ladies, you are losing this battle with your sons, and I don't see it getting any better.
As a father who had my son from day one, WE aint never have these type of problems. I established way early😂😂😂. Once a certain age, we gotta tune that azz up, just to let him know..., YOU AINT running nothing here & WE GOOD from here on out❤😂❤. He's 23 now & still good guy, was a good son. But as fathers only we can put that muscle down on our boys.✊🏾💪🏾✊🏾
She seemed to turn up his anger instead of being that comfort that only a good mother would show. It’s clear he’s going through a total meltdown. But instead of helping she’s provoking him. This is long pent up frustration. She’s probably been verbally abusive for a long time
this was Hyena foreplay
Yeah I remember one time thinking to myself when I was real young after my mom snatch me up. One day I will be larger and much stronger than you.
I believe from my perspective more times than not the son is silenced and when speaking up is put down physically and mentally his whole life
What I see is years of taking it and not knowing how and not being able to express himself.
Listening to it he just wanted to leave the house idk y but he looked irritated
The woman was antagonizing the son
One thing you don’t do when someone is mad is antagonize them your asking to fight.
The last words spoken was
Son: please move
Mother: nah beat me up
Son: pushes pass mother
Mother: tackles son
Mother: ugh!!!! I am sick of you.
Son:get off me.
Wrestling in the background
Son: I don’t want to hurt you
Mother: gives grunt
The aggressor is the mother I am not saying the son has done nothing wrong but what I see.
A scared individual fleeing his oppressor.
As the saying goes I took you into this world and I will take you out.
And women don’t understand men if she did there would be one there.
Some ppl in my opinion are selfish bc the real question is why is he acting like this and I assure you there’s a valid reason.
But ask the mother they need revenge for what they don’t know their self bc they can.
Well men can and will protect themselves from their own mother’s brother’s etc anyone or thing.
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Written very well. This is what I see as well. This young man has gone thur something and he needs to talk it out. This mother is horrible to stand there and ask for an a$$ beating from her own seed.
Exactly. The mother is instigating. And emasculating. The son isn't listened to. Also, she shuts his voice and his agression.
The son is doing what any typical teenage boy would do; in a more structured environment, a father would be there to intervene and show authority. This mother should be ashamed of herself; she might have had her son arrested because she was recording this.
That was extremely embarrassing to watch smh
Black single motherhood wouldn't be a failure if women were more careful with who they have kids with
That's the narrative....but it's more about welcoming and encouraging the father to be present, instead of merely wanting their money. There is no such thing as a good single mother. These women Chase the father off so they can move on with the next man... And the next man
Not necessarily true...a good man may have chosen the wrong woman to birth children with...
Well in that case single black motherhood wouldn't exist
False. Without a two parent household with that man as the lead, the child is at a supreme disadvantage. The Black community is at a disadvantage
It does not matter. My kids mother fights my authority and influence over my child. She competes for the fatherly role although not needed for her to do so. Then implies to others that she has to do it all by herself relating the child rearing. Men, under no circumstance, DO NOT procreate with any woman that does not value, relish in, seek, nor understand male authority and influence.
Most of the time these women are abusive or been abusive and antagonistic to these boys. I'm witnessing this behavior in the making with my nephew. My sister is extremely evil toward her kids she don't provide for. Six baby daddies. These women are not victims of this they create this.
No Order, no discipline, no structure. Tragic
I told my son those same words ( son I can show you better than I can tell you! ) . My son replied back ( Dad you right, you got that! Lol)
It's funny because I came across two parents with a male teenager on the train and the mom tells her son he's on punishment for a hole year. The father wanted to give his son a reasonable punishment for a month.
I remember the last time I got the belt from my mom. It didn't hurt anymore so I laughed in her face. Shortly after that I went to live with my pops.
You ain't lying You telling the Truth.😂
It hurts my heart that every moment like this has to be recorded or broadcast on social media for the world to see. This young man is clearly in a lot of pain but he has a "victim" of a mother who could not or probably didn't care to comprehend that he needed/wanted his father in his life (if he's still available). Once again the "strong and independent" woman can't comprehend that your protection and provision are insufficient because it's conditional, entitled, overbearing, and stifling to a young man's development.
To girls too, they need their father, i know that father that play "fight" with sons is very important to help them control their angry is a bond for them, we are not the same, how can we teach things we don't understand or experience.b
Pain? I could tell that he had not been taught how to control his anger. I could tell that he lacked respect for his mother. I could tell that he was black and a male. There are many things we can learn from this video, but how - I ask you - can we tell (from this video) he was in pain?
Good points!
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@@RodPruitt Well, most men feel that anger and destruction is the best way to channel pain or frustration because they don't want to appear weak. Moreover, the young man may be suffering from depression or perhaps suicidal ideation. The point I'm making is that his behavior is open to opinion. In my personal opinion, he's harboring pain from somewhere.
1 TIMOTHY 2:11 LET THE WOMAN LEARN IN SILENCE WITH ALL SUBJECTION.(12) BUT I SUFFER NOT A WOMAN TO TEACH,NOR TO USURP AUTHORITY OVER THE MAN BUT TO BE IN SILENCE.
If a man was in that house like it’s supposed to be that little boy would’ve been folded up like cheap laundry 💯💯💯💯
This is why these young black men are so out of their minds
I really do feel for black boys/girls growin up…afro Latinos too! I sadly can relate
Great commentary. Thank you for this post. Incidents like these are unseen, and unspoken. Thank you for this post!
The man of that house is the policeman, when she calls him to come deal with her son. The black community is in shambles........
That boy would be sweeping up broken glass and his teeth if he tried that at my house.
This is how women act in the hood, know a person unstable you keep taunting and egging them on
Its not the young mans fault; there is no balance in fatherless homes. I wish this young man well, considering the circumstances. Thanks for sharing sista 🙏
My father was in the house but always at work. His relationship with my mother was so strained and stretched. They would argue,fuss, and cuss at least twice a week. My father was not home most of the time because work which left is with my mother alot of the time. She took out the anger and frustration of dealing with my father on me for years and as young child. Yelling , screaming, whipping me, embarrassing in front of her friends and family and preventing me from being around other boys/men including my father. I had a similar outburst as a teenager and the then continued until I was about 20. She would do something to me and play the victim as if I was wrong for speaking up or calling her out. It messed with my psychology so much that I still have quite a poor relationship with my parents. For what my mother did and what my father allowed her to do (partly because of lack of understanding) and a willingness to overlook her abuse , for the sake of “keeping the peace”. I don’t know when it began but I began to see my father as a coward especially in the face of confrontation.
Timothy, maybe you should tell your father how his negligence affected you, ijs
@@logicalcritik2144 I’ve told him but we have not come to a solid understanding. I believe both my parents are unsatisfied in the marriage and have been for years. As a result of being unsatisfied they took out their frustration with life and each other on my siblings and I. They got married because they had us . I just gaining my independence as a young man and I’m healing from my childhood/adolescent years .
@@timothybrown3884 I hear you Timothy; if all of you are adults now, I don't see any reason for them to stay together. I don't feel like it's you and your siblings fault that these two are unhappy. Moving forward, I hope you have or are building your own life now, don't allow those two horrible people to wreck your whole life. You are a better person than they are.
A definite quick fix with a father at home...
This is heartbreaking 😢
This is why fathers are needed! But if you let these hyenas tell it, Fathers are non factor. SMH!
due to the mother's failure, and her inability to tame the boy as a father would (this is the dad's job) this boy will be tamed by the streets and that may be a permanent taming. My mother was like this too, in fact i see mothers do this way too often. Y'all escalate your children and tell them to go further as if it's the right thing to do. There's something inherently flawed in mothers that do this. This boy was just having an emotional tantrum, he's still a male and if he truly wanted to beat his mom he would. We all have a limit. But he didn't, because that's not what's happening in fact he kept his respect for his mother til the end. He knew it was wrong in the end but there was nothing to control and taper his emotions. Poor boy needs outlets, he needs a man to talk to because boys can't talk to their moms about everything the way they can with fathers. Yes, the strength difference will eventually reach a point where all boys lack respect for their mothers because we can take them down.
All that means is the boy needs a father to teach a boy how to control his emotions, how to think through them, how to sit down and be introspective about what's bothering them. I'm sorry, mothers today fail their sons so much yet society won't accept it. A change is needed in women in this regard and we will see results like no other. This woman didn't even try to be feminine and motherly to her son, to sit him down and be soft and let him speak what's happening. Men can ignore things and focus on one issue at a time, women tend to follow the line of problems and make it worse. The point isn't he broke stuff, yes it's a problem, but the real issue is something deeper yet i hear how common it is for moms to go from one thing to another without fixing the main problem. Fathers are so needed, yet they no longer exist like we used to. We all suffer, the boys the most.
She hyping him up instead of trying to turn down his energy. Women do that with grown men. They will follow a man around the house running off the mouth until that man eventually pops her. This is the part where women get it wrong. Don't throw gas on a man but use water.
A father would take him outside and release that energy everday....he would not have done any of that if a man was in the house
This is what happens when the child was spoiled and out of control at a young age.This what they grow up to be.
I have a relative whose grandson has over 35 pair of Jordans and every label known to man in clothing.He’s 9 years old!
She took his cell phone and he threw a temper tantrum out of this world.I was floored watching that fiasco.
@helenewortham1840 this is what happens when the boy grows up without his father
@@darnellwilliams8783 True.I was a single parent.The father of my son was there for my son.I wasn’t one of those women that nagged and argued with my son’s father.
The child in this video was spoiled and pampered.That’s the monster she created.
He didn't want to hurt her.
Black single moms love those Jordans more than their children do; when my child was young, she never owned a pair of Jordans.
@@logicalcritik2144 same here.When my son was young.There wasn’t any cell phones🤣🤣🤣🤣
My son was mumbling back at my wife his stepmom whom helped me raise him. It was after one of his Highschool Football games. After arriving home I had him go to the shed and crank the Push Lawn Mower and cut the very large back lawn while informing him that if he didn't I would not use the rod of corrections on him but instead make use it on me too see if I would be willing. Needless to say the grass was well done and he made it right with the woman who put the time in to be labeled his mother.
Facts! Great show sis!❤
She was using her own form of masculinity to raise him and he is rebelling against it because he knows it’s a mask all that yelling he was doing was a plea for her to get off his back. Most boys never do that to their mothers or test their fathers unless their was abuse in the home.
This why having two parent households is important
That’s the result of a child who wasn’t love properly as child by his mommy.
Both of them need to go to jail sadly. Her for being a bad mother and him for not knowing how to control himself. When she said come beat my ass it sounds like she wanted something else...
They can barely control their daughters while trying to compete with them, and they fail at that.
First thing I thought was, "she's talking to him like she's arguing with her boyfriend. Second was, "who uploaded this to WorldStar? Last was, he's doomed if no one intervenes on his behalf very soon.
That “come get your son” phone call is not too far away.
Now Ice-Tray you got to go live with your daddy. Momma's gotta have a life too baby boy.
Not just any man but his FATHER
Girl!!! You be preaching!!!!!
Wouldn't have had all that BS if the father was there, because his a$$ would have been broken at a very young age.
Smh you are telling so much truth it’s scary