They don't. It's just like emotional intelligence. It's a defined concept but they never use it properly. Their sole purpose with these terms is to denigrate men with them. They don't actually care what they mean
@stevie they're not listening!!! the only option dudes have is to walk away and not play their game. so.... (in case you're one of those people that does it) stop shaming b dudes when they walk away and stay away. They're walking away from a corrupt culture.
This guy sat in a marriage with a chick who admitted to cheating and having multiple pregnancies that weren't his. This is some Boyce Umar level SIMPin I can't even fathom or rationalize. This is sad AF
The fact that a mother can use S.I.G.N. Language (shame, insult, guilt & need to be right!!) against her son's father instead of being conciliatory and admitting her own failings demonstrates her inadequacies as a wife: I celebrate this man expressing his darkest moments and showcasing himself as a survivor of an unfit, unworthy wife. God's speed to you, sir. Nothing to be ashamed of. I am proud of you and so is your son.
All this woman did was prove Kel right. Imagine living with this demon everyday. This is why so many men have given up on marriage. These hyenas are so good at masking themselves its just too dangerous.
She really called him a narcissist for being suicidal when YOU cheated in the first place?? WTF! Damn he picked the wrong one. But what dude would want to deal with her after hearing her talk??
U can tell she lying. She started out the vague rambling then went to deflecting and blaming him for what she did. All she did was solidify to other men why she shouldn't be entertained.
As a 90s kid this is sad to see. I never thought my TV big bro Kel would go out sad like this. But It's clear he was sold the old school marriage concept and never adapted to the modern era we live in. I hope he learned from this.
Eye indicators are somewhat unreliable. Pay attention to the duress in her voice. That gives her away. When you're actively lying, that stressor can't be controlled
Yes, when they cheat, there's always some justification, so they claim, but these are the same women who feel it should be the death penalty if a black man cheats
Now I have the full knowledge of what The Crimson Cure means when she states, 'hyenas'... No empathy found... This poor dude is like why did I get married to YOU! No accountability whatsoever!
She really don't make no sense she done her husband wrong he had enough of her but yet and still she say that he is the one with mental problem please stop .
I noticed in the early 2000s that Kels' spirit seemed a bit rough when he would do walk on roles on some shows. After the interview, it all makes sense now. He was really going thru it at that time.
Notice how she didn't take any accountability for her poor moral decisions & chameleon babble! Now all of sudden it's always "Jermaine fault." The man is wrong, leaving for his own mental sanity and wellness. Smh.
Women: “if you want to unalive yourself because I cheated on you and had another man’s child is you just trying to make everything about yourself because you’re really a narcissist” 😂😂😂
It just amazes how some of these women will do some boo boo the fool nonsense and then try to make it seem as if it’s the man’s fault. “Yes I cheated but you left me with no other choice” smh
I didn’t know what to believe. But from the outside looking in, it felt like “I need to get out in front of this bullet before it goes viral because it got me looking crazy right now”.
This was one of the most cringe examples of explaining ive ever seen.. i broke up with my EX last year for ish like this. Cheating on me with her married boss.. but tried to justify why.. excuse after excuse
You know when you listen to her talk it just all seems as though it's made up and even if he did the things she says he did she still doesn't sound convincing it's like she's adding more to the story to get her point across.
I wonder d why this guy didn’t get all the exposure as the other one of the Kennan And Kel duo… Dude was dealing with a full grown hyena in his home… No time to work… Smh
Wait a minute, wait a minute, this heffa have the nerve to say it was no big deal when she cheated. Then it was no big deal to pass off her bastard off has Kell's son. However, shooting a video to project Kell as the villian is a big deal. On the cause of what Kell's appearance on Club Shay Shay. In the short term, she doesn't have to pay a price for her infidelity. She knows it. She doesn't see in the long term, she will pay a heavy price. 🤔🤔🧐🧐
Others said she was using witchcraft and Im surprised Kel admitted that on the show. Many of these new age modernistas out here engaging in that mess and screwing up dudes lives.
"Just because I cheated..." This woman minimized breaking her vows and stepping outside of her marriage and then had the nerve to say that HE was the narcissist because he considered taking his own life due to her emotionally hurting him so deeply! How could she ever call that man husband and be completely unaware of his feelings!? She was never wife material!
I believe Kel , I remember how he was losing his mind and it seemed like it was because of something personal going on with his now ex wife, it all makes sense
Theyve mastered how to out talk and be the victim. They've exhausted anyway for anybody to communicate with them but the only way this works is if you talk with them. Just make your move and leave them be
Can't believe he's from Chicago. But Hollywood the industry got him early so he aint really get to grow up "Chicago". Wouldn't be surprised if the women in his life, mother sister auntie cousins were encouraging him to stay with her
He was a kid, it was the 90's so Kel gets somewhat of a pass for allowing this or at the very least not walking away. It was a different time and men weren't so as well informed about women outside of what television showed you and the role models around you IF you had role models around. Its also kinda clear the ex has some mental issues.
She kept on saying, she really couldn't see the issue with what she did. So therefore she was fully aware she was hurting him and to her it wasn't an issue. She wasn't ready for that relationship, she was forced into it, she sounds very very childish.
I like how she slid over the fact she cheated. After my divorce i fell into a deep depression because i put so much into the relationship and she threw it away for nothing. You can tell this woman has no self awareness. Thankfully Kel got his kids because i would fear for them being around that cackling hyena.
9:48 can anybody in their right mind picture a man being excited over a child that his woman is carrying for another man and he's so excited that she's carrying somebody else's child that he actually goes out and tells the world can anybody else picture that because I can't
What a horrible human being….. with friends like her who need enemies. Wow! She has no empathy or compassion for that young man after all of he’s been through. She’ll get it back though. Shameful behavior.
TY. That was the first thing I noticed. So close, she's still hiding something I bet. She just wanted attention. No apology for her actions at all. No accountability at all. She's a fake. Obviously she didn't care about him at all.
It is all his fault. He knew she was a terrible person for him. What did everything you could to stay even after she was basically telling him she did not want him on more than one occasion. She dogged him out during the relationship, and after the relationship.
I’m just listening to her and I feel my head exploding. If the heffa doesn’t feel any guilt in cheating, I won’t feel any guilt in putting her and her stuff on the curb.I will NOT be excited about you having a baby by another man. I will be single.
It just sad that women like this don’t take her marriage and her vows seriously and the fact that her cheating and him hitting rock bottom is narcissistic behavior!!!! I can’t believe it this heffa needs help
If I cheat It's my fault because I am a no good womanizer.
If she cheat it is also my fault because ( insert excuses here ).
Hyena logic.
Frfr! We get no room for excuses.
And if you have any problem with that or say anything, then you are a narcissist and abusive.
And as a bonus, if you leave, they take half.
She’s literally gaslighting him!
That’s one of the main traits of a narcissist 🤦🏾♂️
100% facts
It’s never the women’s fault, it’s always justification for their actions, ignorance, arrogance and incompetence.
Most Women say all men cheat lol!!! But on the Maury show 90% of the men wasn't the father.
Woman claim*
The only narcissist I see is the chick trying to justify her BS and blaming her ex-husband for HER actions.
Correct 💯 💯 💯
Incorrect. There are the millions of women that agree with it as well.
Don't miss them in that census.
9 times out of ten it's them doing the narking
facts, she out here LYING just like BALCK WOMEN do.
facts@@thelightseeker94
Nothing is ever sacred to these types of women. NOTHING I MEAN NOTHING!
Narcissists will use YOUR reaction against YOU.
I've realized that a lot of women just throw out the word narcissistic, incorrectly....and probably don't know the meaning of the word
No they know what it is except that she's really projecting the behavior on him, but in reality, she's really talking about herself.
They don't. It's just like emotional intelligence. It's a defined concept but they never use it properly. Their sole purpose with these terms is to denigrate men with them. They don't actually care what they mean
They project their behavior onto others as a rule
@@jephteclersaint4204Exactly.
Exactly just like misogyny
This heffa said a whole lot of NOTHING.
This was a complete deflection from her." It's his fault I cheated and had babies from other men." Ladies stop doing this. It makes yall look bad.
They can't help it. It's their nature. They love chaos. They live for it.
@stevie
they're not listening!!!
the only option dudes have is to walk away and not play their game.
so.... (in case you're one of those people that does it) stop shaming b dudes when they walk away and stay away. They're walking away from a corrupt culture.
This guy sat in a marriage with a chick who admitted to cheating and having multiple pregnancies that weren't his. This is some Boyce Umar level SIMPin I can't even fathom or rationalize.
This is sad AF
No its not....Fools are born every second....I feel no sympathy for self-pity and self-abuse 🤡s
This the type of woman Pastor Geno Jennings says you have to stay married too!
Simpin is one thing...being a complete mark is something different.
EFF UMAR SIMP FUBAR JOHNSON @@tommygunn2782
Str8 up.
Got psycho eyes 👀 calling someone else psycho.
Yes, and he fell for that psycho box.
Haven't heard her say she didn't cheat on him.
The fact that a mother can use S.I.G.N. Language (shame, insult, guilt & need to be right!!) against her son's father instead of being conciliatory and admitting her own failings demonstrates her inadequacies as a wife: I celebrate this man expressing his darkest moments and showcasing himself as a survivor of an unfit, unworthy wife. God's speed to you, sir. Nothing to be ashamed of. I am proud of you and so is your son.
All this woman did was prove Kel right. Imagine living with this demon everyday.
This is why so many men have given up on marriage. These hyenas are so good at masking themselves its just too dangerous.
Lying liars lie always!! This is one of them!!
Her eyes, the way they move. Tells you, she is lying.
She lied from the first word
They also suggest she's possessed
She really called him a narcissist for being suicidal when YOU cheated in the first place?? WTF!
Damn he picked the wrong one. But what dude would want to deal with her after hearing her talk??
U can tell she lying. She started out the vague rambling then went to deflecting and blaming him for what she did.
All she did was solidify to other men why she shouldn't be entertained.
She makes cheating on your husband sound as innocent as drinking the last of someone else's kool-aid.
They got mad at the # of WW at the draft...SMH 😢
It’s wild how these women can write books about men like Shaq’s ex wife and dog men out, but they expect you to keep their secrets
I do blame him for linking up with this disaster.
And we wonder why BW are at the bottom of the marriage list.
No accountability, just blame somebody else. She had that itch and wanted it scratched.
As a 90s kid this is sad to see. I never thought my TV big bro Kel would go out sad like this. But It's clear he was sold the old school marriage concept and never adapted to the modern era we live in. I hope he learned from this.
Like so many men in their 50s 60s they goin out sad
Will Smith too
@@TheBreezy703 We owe it to them to not suffer the same fate.
@@thelightseeker94 no lies detected you are 1000 percent right
You can ALWAYS tell when a woman lies? I watch the eyes go up and left, she's thinking about what to say on the fly.
This is what children do their eyes dance around when they lie
Actually visual cortex theory says the creative side (bs) is the right side. Left is the truth.
Playin' all up in folks face👈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Eye indicators are somewhat unreliable. Pay attention to the duress in her voice. That gives her away. When you're actively lying, that stressor can't be controlled
You look for signs? Word of advice. She's lying. How can you tell? Cause she's talking. If there's no action it's just fantasy land.
Yes, when they cheat, there's always some justification, so they claim, but these are the same women who feel it should be the death penalty if a black man cheats
Now I have the full knowledge of what The Crimson Cure means when she states, 'hyenas'... No empathy found... This poor dude is like why did I get married to YOU! No accountability whatsoever!
She really don't make no sense she done her husband wrong he had enough of her but yet and still she say that he is the one with mental problem please stop .
It’s Jermaine fault.. it’s always Jermaine fault 😭😂😂😂💯
I noticed in the early 2000s that Kels' spirit seemed a bit rough when he would do walk on roles on some shows. After the interview, it all makes sense now. He was really going thru it at that time.
Notice how she didn't take any accountability for her poor moral decisions & chameleon babble! Now all of sudden it's always "Jermaine fault."
The man is wrong, leaving for his own mental sanity and wellness. Smh.
Women: “if you want to unalive yourself because I cheated on you and had another man’s child is you just trying to make everything about yourself because you’re really a narcissist” 😂😂😂
It just amazes how some of these women will do some boo boo the fool nonsense and then try to make it seem as if it’s the man’s fault. “Yes I cheated but you left me with no other choice” smh
What? He’s a narcissist cuz he was hurt when she cheated on him!?! wtf is she talking about?,.
It's crazy how she did him and how his daughter is treating him as well
Because kids will understand who the problem was in the relationship
Daughters often side with their mothers. His daughter probably knew nothing about this. If it’s even really his daughter
Look at Russel Simmons wife and daughters
I didn’t know what to believe. But from the outside looking in, it felt like “I need to get out in front of this bullet before it goes viral because it got me looking crazy right now”.
She cheated on him and had a baby for another man while married to him but she's traumatized? 🤔
This was one of the most cringe examples of explaining ive ever seen.. i broke up with my EX last year for ish like this. Cheating on me with her married boss.. but tried to justify why.. excuse after excuse
You know when you listen to her talk it just all seems as though it's made up and even if he did the things she says he did she still doesn't sound convincing it's like she's adding more to the story to get her point across.
She sound like she jealous of him being famous..
I wonder d why this guy didn’t get all the exposure as the other one of the Kennan And Kel duo… Dude was dealing with a full grown hyena in his home… No time to work… Smh
Wait a minute, wait a minute, this heffa have the nerve to say it was no big deal when she cheated. Then it was no big deal to pass off her bastard off has Kell's son. However, shooting a video to project Kell as the villian is a big deal. On the cause of what Kell's appearance on Club Shay Shay. In the short term, she doesn't have to pay a price for her infidelity. She knows it. She doesn't see in the long term, she will pay a heavy price. 🤔🤔🧐🧐
One thing that woman will learn painfully. Love what you have before Life teaches you to love what you've lost.
"Girl if you don't get yo forehead out that camera"😅😅😅...Kendra, you the best!!!
Others said she was using witchcraft and Im surprised Kel admitted that on the show. Many of these new age modernistas out here engaging in that mess and screwing up dudes lives.
Cheating is one thing, take the L. Getting pregnant, having another dude(s) child(ren)......I would've thrown hands....PERIOD. And yes, at HER!
"Just because I cheated..."
This woman minimized breaking her vows and stepping outside of her marriage and then had the nerve to say that HE was the narcissist because he considered taking his own life due to her emotionally hurting him so deeply!
How could she ever call that man husband and be completely unaware of his feelings!? She was never wife material!
And l thought I was a push over nice guy, THIS GUY MAKES ME LOOK LIKE A TYRONE BAD BOY 🤔
😂😂 crimson said the way we know you liein is how close she got that big forehead in the camera 😂
Wretched, nobody remembers her until she shows up. I am glad he got away from her.
Accountability
I believe Kel , I remember how he was losing his mind and it seemed like it was because of something personal going on with his now ex wife, it all makes sense
Never accountability, always in control. Smh. Raw deal. With that being said, he chose the absolute worse option available to him.
Theyve mastered how to out talk and be the victim. They've exhausted anyway for anybody to communicate with them but the only way this works is if you talk with them. Just make your move and leave them be
That was a Classic Projection by her‼️ She's the Narcissist‼️
Can't believe he's from Chicago. But Hollywood the industry got him early so he aint really get to grow up "Chicago".
Wouldn't be surprised if the women in his life, mother sister auntie cousins were encouraging him to stay with her
3mm away from the camera....😂😂😂😂
He was a kid, it was the 90's so Kel gets somewhat of a pass for allowing this or at the very least not walking away. It was a different time and men weren't so as well informed about women outside of what television showed you and the role models around you IF you had role models around. Its also kinda clear the ex has some mental issues.
She don't want her other man walking through the scene.
I know she is lying because her eyes keep looking up and to the right as if she is thinking of what to say next.
She kept on saying, she really couldn't see the issue with what she did. So therefore she was fully aware she was hurting him and to her it wasn't an issue. She wasn't ready for that relationship, she was forced into it, she sounds very very childish.
I experienced this in my marriage. same thing !! same way. just not the abortion part.
I love how stupid people record themselves saying stupid things.
I like how she slid over the fact she cheated. After my divorce i fell into a deep depression because i put so much into the relationship and she threw it away for nothing. You can tell this woman has no self awareness. Thankfully Kel got his kids because i would fear for them being around that cackling hyena.
These 304 ain't loyal.
9:48 can anybody in their right mind picture a man being excited over a child that his woman is carrying for another man and he's so excited that she's carrying somebody else's child that he actually goes out and tells the world can anybody else picture that because I can't
I consider these people the most dangerous in the world because they can justify any action they want, no matter how disgusting or violent.
I'm not sure why brothers stay in abusive relationships. That's a topic that really needs to be discussed
They love running to social media to cope by telling lies, pure lies. Narrative vomit because their ego is hurt
The guilt and damage that she caused by cheating is eating her up on the inside. She can’t handle accountability. It’s like kryptonite to Superman. 😂
Kendra peace goddess
What exactly did she say? She clarified nothing. When a story doesn't make sense, it's a lie. The babble is real with this one 🤣
What a horrible human being….. with friends like her who need enemies. Wow! She has no empathy or compassion for that young man after all of he’s been through. She’ll get it back though. Shameful behavior.
She lucky to be alive
This might be the reason why men wait so long to marry, just waiting to see the true side of the woman.
I don’t even know why men are dealing with modern woman in the first place.
Her eyes doing the "hope I don't get caught lying" dance...
The whole way she is speaking just screams SOCIOPATHIC
She said a whole lot of NOTHING 😂
They blame us for their own insecurities like wth and feel justified
TY. That was the first thing I noticed. So close, she's still hiding something I bet. She just wanted attention. No apology for her actions at all. No accountability at all. She's a fake. Obviously she didn't care about him at all.
This can’t be real. We have truly entered the matrixes twilight zone of delusion.
Kel inflicted a major injury on her. Narcissists fear being exposed. That's the reason for the weak attempt at damage control by her.
It doesn’t pay to be a pushover, I learned that the hard way
At this point i know i shouldn't be shocked as to what comes out of these women mouths but...Sister Kendra I am shocked!
But the baby isn't his. You forgot to mention that part.
Those back feet are keeping them on the losing end of life!
It is all his fault. He knew she was a terrible person for him. What did everything you could to stay even after she was basically telling him she did not want him on more than one occasion. She dogged him out during the relationship, and after the relationship.
Does she actually believe her narcissist b.s.? Incredible that she believes anyone is buying this crap.
Her ballz dropped out and the gloves came off 😂
MEN u gotta stand on business. Ur the QB, it's always yo fault therefore PROTECT yoself and NEVER let anybody devalue u! 😐💯👌🏽
Sister you be reading through them 😂😂😂 exposing their true core. Dragging their back feet is hilarious 😆😆
The Ole bait and switch chameleon tactic .
So she is describing herself....she did more then that
It's always what the man wasn't doing, is why they cheated...😑
Wow! He married this woman ☠️👀
The impetus…. Damn! 😮
Yyy women can’t just leave they have to be irritating and petty
I’m just listening to her and I feel my head exploding. If the heffa doesn’t feel any guilt in cheating, I won’t feel any guilt in putting her and her stuff on the curb.I will NOT be excited about you having a baby by another man. I will be single.
Lying ahh 304😠😠
It just sad that women like this don’t take her marriage and her vows seriously and the fact that her cheating and him hitting rock bottom is narcissistic behavior!!!! I can’t believe it this heffa needs help
You couldn’t pay me to get married in this country ever!!!