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  • @hulkthanos1332
    @hulkthanos1332 Месяц назад +53

    Never explain yourself to idiots. Especially if you own a company.

  • @projectleroy920
    @projectleroy920 Месяц назад +86

    Keep in mind she was a single mother asking him about his salary. Treacherous behavior.

    • @icemanbtlr25
      @icemanbtlr25 Месяц назад

      Im having a hard time believing that some of these women even have jobs, they be too dumb to be able to carry out simple stuff let alone the responsibility of a job paying over 100 thousand. And money only means this much to broke people thats a fact. Billionaires don't buy burkin bags or Versace because when you can have everything everything means nothing to you.

    • @missklassy4447
      @missklassy4447 18 дней назад +1

      _It's rude to ask someone their salary. There is s difference between someone making $50k vs $100k to be honest, I"m a single person that's not a lot of money when you're alone! _*_The biggest lie is that BM doesn't go for the money and that's an absolute relic; otherwise, why did Black men get pissed off when Eboni Ki Williams said she wants someone on her level and not a Bus Driver? *What she told Black men with her there's a level of education and a Class difference; she worked for it. I would not date a Jeezy or Kayne West or Snoop Dog*,I could care less how much money they bring in, I look at their lifestyles and how they carry themselves as well as their choices!_*_ I have nothing in common with the Hip Hop Urban black male or marginal man!_

  • @a8o.a8o
    @a8o.a8o Месяц назад +94

    They’re trying to expose and embarrass men but it’s actually backfiring against them. Smh

    • @TheBlackpillPhilosophy
      @TheBlackpillPhilosophy Месяц назад +13

      good let them play their hand .The die is cast . The Hunters are ready

    • @On_the_poddy_with_Lito
      @On_the_poddy_with_Lito Месяц назад

      Like always and that’s part of a lot of their distain for us is that they’ll never come close to passing us where their ceiling and they hate that

  • @Tential1
    @Tential1 Месяц назад +87

    Salary doesn't mean much. Our community doesn't understand wealth at all.

    • @xxfranknittyxx2270
      @xxfranknittyxx2270 Месяц назад +11

      True wealth is more valuable than fiat

    • @theebonymaw
      @theebonymaw Месяц назад +5

      ​@@xxfranknittyxx2270 word. best period in my life was when i made half as much as i do now. i had nearly all back then that i long for now, just didn't appreciate it at the time. that said, i wouldn't go back in this economy lol

    • @AndreTheGiant85
      @AndreTheGiant85 Месяц назад +1

      Facts and the woman in this video just proved that.

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr Месяц назад +5

      I tried to tell them.. but they wanna get fast money and blow it just as fast.

    • @a.j.9727
      @a.j.9727 Месяц назад +4

      Say it with me now:
      There. Is. No. Community!

  • @DLMitchell
    @DLMitchell Месяц назад +67

    And this is how they end up with a Diddy. Valuing a man’s money over everything else has no future in it.

  • @dolphus32
    @dolphus32 Месяц назад +109

    If you meet a woman and she leads with the question..what do you do? Immediately depart from her.

    • @erickonassis6310
      @erickonassis6310 Месяц назад +10

      Or I'm spoiled

    • @problactive285
      @problactive285 Месяц назад +17

      I remember this female slid up on me in the grocery store line and asked me that....when I told her I was a Machinist, she literally looked at me like I was a dirty bum. ...I still laugh about that shit 😂

    • @QuiseCortez
      @QuiseCortez Месяц назад +9

      Chris Rock said it best..."Men when your friend has a new woman what do you ask? 'What does she look like!?'...Ladies when your friend has a new man what do you ask? 'What does HE do!?' ".

    • @davidconover2652
      @davidconover2652 Месяц назад +6

      Nah, I'm going to answer it because then she has to be QUIET FOR LIFE!

    • @MD-DLive
      @MD-DLive Месяц назад

      Those come simply many are programmed to believe that males need to be the financial backbone of their pre-made baggage, in which, they believe only currency/ money is going to resolve-WRONG! THE FOUND VALUE SYSTEM, SIRITUAL BONDING, KNOWLEDGE OF SELF, GENUINE FRIENDSHIP/ COMPANIONSHIP IS THE ANSWER. FYI, THE JOB MARKET, MY POISITION DOES NOT DEFINE ME AS AN INDIVIDUAL! 5:48 6:44

  • @MeandPopsOnTheCouch
    @MeandPopsOnTheCouch Месяц назад +164

    Men need to stop doing this show at all. This is an auction for these women who are probably broker than me.

    • @yunglion8676
      @yunglion8676 Месяц назад +13

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @the.truth_i.s
      @the.truth_i.s Месяц назад +15

      I agree, but they say clout is a hell of a drug

    • @JNigelReese669
      @JNigelReese669 Месяц назад

      Absolutely correct!!! It reminds me of the pictures of Slaves on the auction platform. They were paraded "FOR SALE" in front of potential White purchasers!

    • @ErikWhite-lt7zi
      @ErikWhite-lt7zi Месяц назад +7

      Thank you. Thank you and thank you. It's our fault for going on these shows

    • @ErikWhite-lt7zi
      @ErikWhite-lt7zi Месяц назад

      Crimson said it perfectly. Ladies want a high quality man and the money that comes with it, while the hyenas want the money and couldn't care less about the quality of man that comes with it. This is the disconnect and why this gender war rages on. Men are saying I'm more than just a wallet and the hyenas are saying these men are supposed to be providers and it's not enough black male financial providers. It's going to continue

  • @t_adams
    @t_adams Месяц назад +54

    This is why leading with your wallet is a bad move, not just for you but evryone.

  • @terencew7716
    @terencew7716 Месяц назад +64

    Men value peace over drama

  • @nothingbutfacts1676
    @nothingbutfacts1676 Месяц назад +45

    It’s the blatant audacity looking down on a man because he does not make enough, while you are in poverty yourself. These chicks really believe that someone going to save them.

    • @sayitaintso7544
      @sayitaintso7544 Месяц назад +5

      "I know my worth" is one of the biggest slogans of the sisterhood. They have overinflated their worth. She is looking for a top 10% man and bypassing someone she could build with. The delusion is real and so is The Wall.

    • @michaelmcginnis6095
      @michaelmcginnis6095 Месяц назад +1

      There is some Captains (Savaho) out there!

  • @johnnyoldenjr.
    @johnnyoldenjr. Месяц назад +14

    Most women dont understand money they spend it as fast as they get it.

  • @jshooper7819
    @jshooper7819 Месяц назад +65

    *I'm a 38 year old childless BM making $120K.* A few years ago I was only making about $65K. During my financial upgrade I haven't upgraded my lifestyle or living conditions because just removing the psychological burden of living paycheck to paycheck is enough for me to feel comfortable.
    A man can make 6 figures but still be living paycheck to paycheck if you're living beyond your means and spending frivolously.
    I think that mindset and lifestyle is what a lot of modern women desire. They want the foolish guy who throws money around carelessly.

    • @quadreehordge6273
      @quadreehordge6273 Месяц назад +10

      Bro, truth is a lot of people don’t understand this concept that’s why the ones that know, don’t stress about money.

    • @bensisko-theemissary4940
      @bensisko-theemissary4940 Месяц назад +13

      When I was much younger (early 30’s) I went from 67K per year to $65 per HOUR as a Consultant virtually overnight. Later when I opened my IT consulting firm I have been working multiple contracts sometimes sending my own employees to different employers under contract and have been doing so ever since. Even today most BW simply ignore me because I’m not over 6 feet. It’s crazy. I just built my retirement home in my wife’s home country. I own 3 properties now in the United States and drive 2 luxury cars. BW keep loosing for very SUPERFICIAL reasons.

    • @jshooper7819
      @jshooper7819 Месяц назад +6

      @@bensisko-theemissary4940 Major props to you brother! Living the dream. I work in tech as well as a software developer.
      Many intelligent professional Black Men have to adopt an SYSBM mindset and lifestyle due to the ridiculous backwards culture and environment we come from.
      People get upset about Passport Bros and other ideological movements...but they never wanna address what inspired Men to move that way.
      Fewer and fewer Black Men wanna subject themselves to BW's delusional mindset.

    • @ElliotHolden
      @ElliotHolden Месяц назад +2

      I found my wife in Madagascar bro. Friendly tip. I chose the path less traveled and it has far exceeded my expectations.

    • @ElliotHolden
      @ElliotHolden Месяц назад +1

      @@bensisko-theemissary4940 You should spend sometime in Africa, specifically Madagascar, friendly tip.

  • @bigtruckdriva901
    @bigtruckdriva901 Месяц назад +73

    It matters because she wants to brag to other women... $100k sounds better than $95k

    • @Buckshott_54
      @Buckshott_54 Месяц назад +13

      lol 😂 he should not have answered at all. Who the hell is she?

    • @naesimone6340
      @naesimone6340 Месяц назад +3

      Yes this is true and you can round up during your brag session cuz there’s not much difference. I do it all the time 😂

    • @sayitaintso7544
      @sayitaintso7544 Месяц назад +10

      The thing is he could grow and start making 150K, $200K+ down the road. She wants to be waiting at the finish line after he has done all the work. What man would sign up to be exploited?

    • @ninocrown3247
      @ninocrown3247 Месяц назад +1

      @@Buckshott_54When men go on shows like this, they open themselves up to BS questioning like this. Pandering and seeking validation from delusional or selfish females.

    • @ninocrown3247
      @ninocrown3247 Месяц назад +1

      @@sayitaintso7544A real chick would say, he’s a young hustler. Maybe I can jump on this train and help him grow his business. Those are the chicks who get wifed up. That’s why you have Becky, Ling and Maria (some Latinas aren’t much better than Keisha), getting married to successful BM. Many of these non-BW are getting in, on the ground floor. Nevermind many BW’s obsession with swag.

  • @JWFitness1
    @JWFitness1 Месяц назад +31

    "Fupa on fleek." That is HILARIOUS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    These hyenas will be just like Vivica Foz in a few years 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @nonyabiz12
    @nonyabiz12 Месяц назад +30

    Mother told me when I first started working to NEVER tell a woman how much money I made. It'll just lead to her trying to figure out how much your bills are. Which will lead to her calculating how much money u have left over every month which will be how much she'll expect to get out of u every month.

  • @jjonez7695
    @jjonez7695 Месяц назад +34

    A woman asking a man she doesn't know how much money he earns is insane. Let's be clear 4 to 5 decades of men simping created the modern woman's mindset.

    • @TajeniV
      @TajeniV Месяц назад +4

      Facts I say this all the time our fathers grandfathers & great grandfathers were all simps and this is a result of them simping for decades

    • @danieltaylor6274
      @danieltaylor6274 25 дней назад

      ​@@TajeniVthat's not true

    • @TajeniV
      @TajeniV 24 дня назад

      @@danieltaylor6274 it most certainly is true
      Our fathers & grands looked at women like they couldnt do no wrong and look at the after effects of that nonsense

    • @danieltaylor6274
      @danieltaylor6274 24 дня назад

      Some did think like that, the fact is that this way of thinking has been going on for Thousands of years. But the fact of the matter is that this is the worst I have ever seen it in the current generation. Me personally I haven't seen my forefathers this weak​@@TajeniV

    • @danieltaylor6274
      @danieltaylor6274 24 дня назад

      It's crazy when I see women lined up with balloons, it's like they're calling the shots. The man is their option.

  • @Buckshott_54
    @Buckshott_54 Месяц назад +14

    All these hyenas have is CAT 🐱! If you don’t want that…they HAVE NO POWER!

  • @_CPerk
    @_CPerk Месяц назад +25

    I remember dating a chick when I was either 27 or 28 and just brought my first crib. The chick was 23, in grad school full-time and not working. She fixed her mouth to complain about my fully functioning car (paid off) not being new and how I needed to upgrade. I asked her what she thought I should drive and she said some car that at was like $50K new at that point. I broke down how much that monthly payment would be and how that would mean I couldn’t pay for dates like that and she was dumbfounded. That told me she had literally no clue what she was talking about.

    • @MisterFridayOMG
      @MisterFridayOMG Месяц назад +3

      Because they genuinely think like children.
      " I want a shiny this or that" but You don't actually put these things into reality and the genuine cost of living.
      All they do is spend.
      I want a cheap chick who likes to count her coins and has a genuine budget.

    • @BiggieTrismegistus
      @BiggieTrismegistus Месяц назад +2

      Black women want to be bougie instead of bourgeois and there's a distinct difference. Being bourgeois means comfortably middle class. Being bougie means spending money for the sake of looking like you spend money. The former is fine but the latter is just stupid.

  • @seersoftimez
    @seersoftimez Месяц назад +16

    Money comes and goes. Body count doesn't

  • @lutherspears5846
    @lutherspears5846 Месяц назад +46

    Why does it always seem to be Black women?

    • @calledwhoa5142
      @calledwhoa5142 Месяц назад

      Thee # 1 demographic race of women are homeless

    • @romanorleans504
      @romanorleans504 Месяц назад

      Because the myth of white womanhood has them in a chokehold they really believe that WM have all this money and WW live the soft life and dont have to contribute to their standard of living and they believe BM should be doing the same the sad part is they are DEAD last economically and idk why BM keep even entertaining this Bs

    • @tabbym.7485
      @tabbym.7485 Месяц назад

      Other women don't ask because they know how to put themselves in places where the wealthy men are. The women that ask are broke and on section 8 😂😂.

    • @ceruleanelectricthrone485
      @ceruleanelectricthrone485 Месяц назад +1

      They hate us

    • @TheBlackpillPhilosophy
      @TheBlackpillPhilosophy Месяц назад

      They are Satans Daughter. Blakk women joined the feminist movement at higher numbers than any other group of women.

  • @nolenation1993
    @nolenation1993 Месяц назад +33

    Like the KS says "You can't make this shit up. LMAO.

  • @skyblue375
    @skyblue375 Месяц назад +16

    This right here just proves that women are not looking for love, they looking for the bag.

    • @Judahzchosen144
      @Judahzchosen144 Месяц назад +3

      IDK bout u, but that a 304 where I come from.

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr Месяц назад +3

      Men are in love, and women are in business.

  • @TheBlackpillPhilosophy
    @TheBlackpillPhilosophy Месяц назад +12

    He explained it because he does not understand The Nature of the Beast before him .

  • @TheCj126
    @TheCj126 Месяц назад +8

    A lot of these women can barely spell "value", let alone actually have any...

  • @hectorgarfield7827
    @hectorgarfield7827 Месяц назад +17

    This is another example of why western modern black women why the United States is THE worst place to look and find a wife. That is why I tell my sons to get their passports.

  • @peterinbohol
    @peterinbohol Месяц назад +7

    So. If the price is right they will allow men the privilege of loving them. Such a great deal

  • @cmearl2009
    @cmearl2009 Месяц назад +9

    Why is he explaining his salary.

  • @nocappn
    @nocappn Месяц назад +21

    Pop the balloon shows are only to embarrass men!

    • @TheBlackpillPhilosophy
      @TheBlackpillPhilosophy Месяц назад +5

      But it will Black-Pill more men. What they made for evil will turn to the good .

  • @laviyousmuhammad2951
    @laviyousmuhammad2951 Месяц назад +4

    Poor sister don’t even believe she’s five thousand dollars worth of inspiration

  • @naesimone6340
    @naesimone6340 Месяц назад +5

    This is why when I was dating I never made it about a dollar amount. This is getting to be sad at this point 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 Месяц назад +15

    Who's more superficial? Men or women

  • @gloriasabree2147
    @gloriasabree2147 Месяц назад +4

    All that glitters is not gold! And the disease 🦠 of greed is an itch! If you handle your life as a transaction between 22 - 29 you deserve to be old 😢 & lonely!

  • @africaisking7817
    @africaisking7817 Месяц назад +21

    I guess only the NBA guys will be getting cheeks at this point.

    • @babyfunk7512
      @babyfunk7512 Месяц назад +4

      After seeing the NFL Draft, I'm not too sure about that.

    • @d.fernandosmith4033
      @d.fernandosmith4033 Месяц назад +6

      They're going to price themselves out of the market entirely with all this fake shit.😂😂

    • @africaisking7817
      @africaisking7817 Месяц назад

      @@d.fernandosmith4033 Yep

    • @echelonfox4532
      @echelonfox4532 Месяц назад

      😅😅😅 bro facts.

    • @RASTAGOOB
      @RASTAGOOB Месяц назад

      And the ballers, entertainers, Pookie, Chadrone and the crew 🤣😂

  • @Marisa-om8cm
    @Marisa-om8cm Месяц назад +4

    How do women think the rich men they want get to be rich in the first place? If they werent born with money, succesful men start with humble beginnings like this young man.
    Women can't see that and don't want to be around to support or help during the build up. They just want to be at the finish line when a man is already successful.

  • @t_adams
    @t_adams Месяц назад +10

    Why would anyone ask what another make when they just met? That should only come up when things are getting serious, and you are making future plans.

  • @riddimluvva
    @riddimluvva Месяц назад +6

    A friend told me he felt sorry for his clients who owned residential property. He was able to make 10 grand and up every two weeks without the stress and emergency expenses landlords had to absorb. He was expanding his business to work on more jobs by hiring a crew. We're talking about a person hitting half a million a year and setting himself up to triple that. These silly hyenas would reject him from the moment they heard 'house painter'. No need to be angry at women who truly deserve pity: they are doomed.

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel Месяц назад +5

    These women are choosing based on what others may think.

  • @whatsakingtoagod5583
    @whatsakingtoagod5583 Месяц назад +7

    I couldn’t be on this show. If a woman pops her ballon, I could care LESS about what she has to say. You’re spot on when you said he shouldn’t have explained himself. If she shows you she isn’t interested, take your ball and go home. Leave these women to their own devices!!

  • @NathanBChampine
    @NathanBChampine Месяц назад +5

    Unfortunately there are some women that are financially illiterate.

  • @Billy32609
    @Billy32609 Месяц назад +5

    He does not need to explain to her about his money. If she is asking about money move on.

  • @lordmaul3
    @lordmaul3 Месяц назад +7

    These Short-Bus Keisha's and Slow-Bunny Bonequisha's don't know there's no real difference between making $75k to $95k a year. It's only a $20k difference a year. The don't know about different streams of income or revenue either. If you get with a Keisha like her you'll end up broke or in debt.

  • @AC-ss5oy
    @AC-ss5oy Месяц назад +8

    notice that these women always say " i just feel like its not enough" . they havent quantified what 75K-95K ACTUALLY looks like or feels like. it just sounds like it's not enough. they are no different than children, they have no real concept of the value of money. these are the same women with a 400 credit score and 5 maxed out credit cards.

    • @pmotorsports8276
      @pmotorsports8276 Месяц назад +2

      You forgot 2-3 Baby😢 Daddies 0 husband's

  • @bspradley
    @bspradley Месяц назад +6

    You said it straight out from the start. I would not have explained it. If I would have shared my income, it would have been a rough estimate. But even more than that, I am sure she does not know the value of money. You can make 75K and live rather comfortable and she is turning her nose up. She needs to worry about what he is doing with his money vs how much he is making.

  • @lordmaul3
    @lordmaul3 Месяц назад +8

    Fupa on fleek lol.😂😂

  • @hulkthanos1332
    @hulkthanos1332 Месяц назад +3

    The glitz and glam is normally a scam

  • @HoldenMuhKnutz
    @HoldenMuhKnutz Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for making that note. Men actually settle. One girl told me she felt like she settled for me when in reality it was the other way around. She was wasn’t my type at all however she had a few redeeming qualities. I’m a patient man. Those redeemable qualities would have been a benefit for the both of us.

  • @15my-own-way81
    @15my-own-way81 Месяц назад +3

    Wouldn't even need to explain myself after that balloon pop.

  • @evos469
    @evos469 Месяц назад +3

    The average woman lives hand to mouth and have the least amount of savings

  • @wellwait4197
    @wellwait4197 Месяц назад +9

    The internet is breeding these foolish women in bulk nowadays. If your husband makes 75k and you make 45k (which is very possible), that’s a combined income of 120k. You can live a wonderful life on that amount of money. Doesn’t love, someone’s company, loyalty, dedication and respect come into the equation anymore? Maybe I’m just old fashioned, but I wouldn’t trade my wonderful husband for all the money in the world.

    • @michaelmcginnis6095
      @michaelmcginnis6095 Месяц назад

      You're a very wise person indeed. They don't make them like you anymore! God bless your union! 🙏

    • @BiggieTrismegistus
      @BiggieTrismegistus Месяц назад +1

      No those don't come into the equation because too many black women want to be bougie instead of bourgeois.

  • @QuiseCortez
    @QuiseCortez Месяц назад +3

    Like Crimson said explaining was the mistake. I would've said in response "you can pop your balloon" and just move on. As much as I desire a wife and children being single does bring peace. It just seems a lot of women do not want to build with someone they want a ready made man. And the ones that want to build are already taken.

  • @xunknown6073
    @xunknown6073 Месяц назад +5

    It's just hopeless with these modern ABW. Hopeless. Smh

  • @thaiboxing67
    @thaiboxing67 Месяц назад +5

    Of the 164 million men in the US only 3% are 6ft, have a 6 pack and make 6 figures. Then when you dissect by race the number of black men who fit this criteria is even way less so it just baffles me when I hear some women list their requirements as if the men they seek are in abundance. For this type of individual they want they are going to have to compete but many do not want to then complain about their outcomes on the dating market. Just crazy

  • @reginaldeggleston
    @reginaldeggleston Месяц назад +1

    The most profound thing Kendra said " They don't want to be a helpmate...It's all transactional."

  • @mydogmarleyandme.4325
    @mydogmarleyandme.4325 Месяц назад +5

    A man that is on his purpose would never “audition” for a woman. These women do not understand it’s not how much you make, it’s how much you can keep. A man who is making the kind of money these women want would never take them around family, friends and especially work events. They would not know the assignment that a woman is with a man a status requires and how she can’t embarrass him with lack of knowledge and etiquette it takes to run in those circles

  • @matthewtarver5183
    @matthewtarver5183 Месяц назад +2

    I wouldn't have answered that question either I would have told her what I do for a living

  • @lordsinister707
    @lordsinister707 Месяц назад +3

    This is exactly how speed dating died. Men are going to get tired of going on to these shows just to be humiliated and lambasted by rude women.

  • @purpledrank221
    @purpledrank221 Месяц назад +5

    With rising rents, food and mass layoffs, consider yourself lucky the MF has a job at all. There are people having to do 3 interviews to be a dish wahser.

  • @blackamore1826
    @blackamore1826 Месяц назад +3

    You took the words right out of my mouth just what I was thinking I would not explain s*** to her

  • @kynntheckhart
    @kynntheckhart Месяц назад +4

    They just want to be able to spend and it not be able to affect the man. And after it's all said and done they'll still walk away broke.

  • @NIGHTFALLDROP
    @NIGHTFALLDROP Месяц назад +5

    1,000% correct! Call it the "Cassie Effect." Here's a woman that looks at a man who controls his own destiny. But because he doesn't come with all the "flash" and "swag" SHE DEMANDS, she turns him down. Nevermind the fact that her own finances probably don't even come close to his. But the real comparison to "Cassie" comes in, when even IF she got a man that was in the high standard she craves, she would completely overlook the cost to HERSELF in order to stay in that position. Because men of that caliber wouldn't put up with her BS and THEIR DEMANDS would be far higher than what her sad level 6 behind could cash. Buy a dog and learn gardening sweetie.... you're done.

  • @nicamc817
    @nicamc817 Месяц назад +7

    I still can't figure out the reason the money is so important to these women? What more can you buy? You can only do hair and nails once or twice a month? What else do you need to buy? They already have all the purses and closets full of clothes they don't even wear. It just sounds so lazy and entitled. I really need to get clarification here. How greedy and lazy can a person be??

    • @theebonymaw
      @theebonymaw Месяц назад +2

      it is the perceived status and prestige so that they can brag to, and look down on, other women. i promise you, it's all vanity.

    • @BiggieTrismegistus
      @BiggieTrismegistus Месяц назад

      A few centuries ago the Western countries created what came to be called the "bourgeoisie" and being bourgeois meant being middle class. Over the past couple of decades the concept has been picked up by black American culture and distorted. Now these women want to be "bougie" which essentially means spending money to show that you're spending money.

  • @liquidationkingla5706
    @liquidationkingla5706 Месяц назад +4

    We know the women on these shows are only there to Gold Dig, but why do the Men go on these Shows??? He has his OWN BUSINESS; He can go and live and date any Woman in the WORLD!!!

  • @23WarinWest-El
    @23WarinWest-El Месяц назад +2

    Reminds me of an ol' Tina Turner song: What's Love Got to Do With It? 🤣

  • @thaiboxing67
    @thaiboxing67 Месяц назад +2

    A man should never lead with his income because many times in this day and age women will treat him according to said income. This is why the vetting process is so important

  • @douglasjones5880
    @douglasjones5880 Месяц назад

    I've been through the cycle of life, women chasing money, missing life. When they get older they start begging.

  • @DavidG.Hudson
    @DavidG.Hudson Месяц назад +1

    Lady K. You hit the nail on the head, when you said some of these women are too transactional to understand real money. Love when you spit facts. Keep up the good work sweetie.

  • @jamesrobinson1557
    @jamesrobinson1557 Месяц назад +2

    This is the time to answer a question with a question! Like body count! Kids! Or weight? But that’s offensive😂😂😂

  • @goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997
    @goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997 Месяц назад +2

    Yeah, fifth grade reading levels demanding your financials is wild though🎉🎉.

  • @whatever7639
    @whatever7639 Месяц назад +1

    Ayi Kwei Armah described them as “The Ostentatious Cripples”!!!!

  • @reginaldeggleston
    @reginaldeggleston Месяц назад +1

    Male income: 16 to 19 years: $518 weekly ($26,936 annually) 20 to 24 years: $662 weekly ($34,424 annually) 25 to 34 years: $963 weekly ($50,076 annually) 35 to 44 years: $1,239 weekly ($64,428 annually) 45 to 54 years: $1,271 weekly ($66,092 annually) and they don't want to settle?....Really?

  • @R3dsigma76
    @R3dsigma76 Месяц назад +3

    Save yourselves young black men,run,run away,as fast as you can,you deserve better women,stop digging in the toilet,get a passport,learn another language,live better than this.

  • @BigCore-
    @BigCore- Месяц назад +1

    The difference between $100K/Yr and $95K is less than $2.50/hour. It's about $400 a month...

  • @yunglion8676
    @yunglion8676 Месяц назад +2

    Once again Sister Kendra and her skillet saves the day 🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-yn2hf3wm9y
    @user-yn2hf3wm9y Месяц назад +1

    6:55 They're utilizing that Box to get to the 💰💰💰😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @romanorleans504
    @romanorleans504 Месяц назад +1

    Smh the minute she asked him how much he makes HE should've popped her balloon for her or told her to pop it

  • @michaelmcginnis6095
    @michaelmcginnis6095 Месяц назад

    Women consider that asking her age is impolite. Its equally impolite to ask a man about his salary or income. Truth be told!

  • @kryptonic010
    @kryptonic010 Месяц назад

    The moment she asked me how much I made I would had not told her and popped the balloon for her.

  • @kdub2229
    @kdub2229 Месяц назад

    They're always demanding what they themselves are NOT. 6:17 FUQin AMZING ! Very Great point Kendra.

  • @rayonhughes6696
    @rayonhughes6696 Месяц назад +6

    Fellas, just walk away from them. Like Crimson said, "it's the mindset." Who in the hell wants to be in a relationship with someone like this? Everything is about money, she doesn't care about anything else, NOTHING! Be careful my guys, after looking at this video you have to ask yourselves, "are they really worth it?" Really? Are they worth it?? I SAY NO!

    • @RASTAGOOB
      @RASTAGOOB Месяц назад

      The mindset and the spirit is jacked up amongst them

  • @johnserosanguineous1886
    @johnserosanguineous1886 Месяц назад +3

    Ray'Quantavious was homeless when she got pregnant by him. But YOU? You need to have 6 figs, 3 rental properties, a day job where you get off at 3, weekends, and holidays off, a month for vacation, a pension, 401k, stock options, the platinum+++ healthcare plan, $10 million life insurance policy. 6'5 or taller, no older than 33, an 8-pack, 4 degrees, but still hood.

    • @RASTAGOOB
      @RASTAGOOB Месяц назад +1

      Let them rot off bro. They know they messed up with Glocktavious and the crew so they have to up their standards 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @michaelmcginnis6095
      @michaelmcginnis6095 Месяц назад

      Believe it or not, these hyenas convince each other than such a creature really exists and that they do deserve such a fantasy to come true!! Walt Disney succeeds again!

  • @dd470_
    @dd470_ Месяц назад

    $75k-$95k can be such an amazing life! She is delusional as hell smh

  • @problactive285
    @problactive285 Месяц назад +1

    To be honest, I'd rather be making 95k than 130k on paper...wink wink.

  • @douglasjones5880
    @douglasjones5880 Месяц назад

    Crimson ,you can't tell a fool anything, they know it all

  • @TridentShield22
    @TridentShield22 Месяц назад +1

    I lie downwards on my income 55k-60k is what I say if asked indirectly. As time passes I wait to see if they're brain makes sense of how I live & does math. Most are utterly lost

  • @jboogy1021
    @jboogy1021 Месяц назад +2

    I appreciate your page so much. As a single man I’ve seen the dynamics of dating change in real time lol. I’m a provider type man and I’m out of date lol

    • @theebonymaw
      @theebonymaw Месяц назад

      lol same. i feel like Steve Rogers out here for real. i guess it just goes to show how much influence some of my elders have had on me.

  • @BigRedUSD
    @BigRedUSD 25 дней назад +1

    You know what’s crazy? I make more than my brother who she denied and I wouldn’t deal with her because of how she dealt with him. There’s nothing wrong with him or how much he makes because he own his own company, he can triple or 10x his earnings in one year depending on how he wants to grow his business but clearly she doesn’t understand businessmen. She needs a pookie 💯

  • @edwardheard8000
    @edwardheard8000 Месяц назад

    😳 Conversation over, no explanation needed!

  • @babyfunk7512
    @babyfunk7512 Месяц назад +1

    Cough Cough, Vivica - 10:37

  • @ronniedaise7522
    @ronniedaise7522 Месяц назад

    Excellent!!! 👑👑👑👑

  • @quadreehordge6273
    @quadreehordge6273 Месяц назад +5

    Classic women over playing their hand again!🤣🤣, Calling hit when they have a 20 right in there hands.🤦🏿‍♂️lol this is why we stop caring, cause we know now ,that the next girl going to say f y’all ladies take that 20 and run. While y’all keep playing, Vivica Fox games. good luck ladies may the best woman win!👍🏿

  • @RodNubianKing
    @RodNubianKing Месяц назад +1

    I am encouraging the Black Men not to even go on these shows. A grown Black Man who is responsible doesnt need to explain himself to anyone. These types of women dont have anything going on and are super materialistic for things that will rot and get old

  • @milesfriend1043
    @milesfriend1043 Месяц назад

    Never come across these types but women naturally will gravitate towards an above average men

  • @mahdul8or
    @mahdul8or Месяц назад

    If you gross $100k you will net about $75k after taxes … and hey don’t seem to understand this.

  • @LadyDee8118
    @LadyDee8118 Месяц назад

    He shouldn't have entertained her with an answer. What a man/woman does is irrelevant to who they are as a person. Thanks Crimson.

  • @cecilreid4634
    @cecilreid4634 Месяц назад

    Good for him. He missed out on a viper. Go ahead, brotha n find yourself a keeper to love n bulid with. Someday, she will recognize you n will to try n holla. Step away n let her catch those vapors

  • @ardent9422
    @ardent9422 Месяц назад

    All he has to do is take his 75 to 90K and get a passport.

  • @jamesrobinson1557
    @jamesrobinson1557 Месяц назад

    It’s not how much you make! It’s how you manage what you have! If you don’t know how money works. The number doesn’t matter!

  • @bigtruckdriva901
    @bigtruckdriva901 Месяц назад

    On fleek was bout 2015

  • @Jus4-Us
    @Jus4-Us Месяц назад

    Our young people are confused. They don't know what they doing. They have not been taught how to become suitable mates for one another. They have not been given a structure on how to prepare for marriage life, how to properly meet, court, and discuss their needs and wants in a marriage. What most of us know to do is to meet, talk, go out a few times, then have sex. That's our order of activity. Because most of us come from single parent families, we lack the understanding of arrangements, having a protector or mediator for women, public courting, and the rules of engagement. These cultural traditions were never taught to us as black Americans so it's easy for us to go into relationships blindly and ill-prepared. We truly need a new umderstanding on how to enter into, build and sustain a marriage.

  • @myklo4269
    @myklo4269 Месяц назад

    If women have the right to pocket check a man, men has the right to ask about body count. If the "relationship" is transactional, keep it that way. No man with common sense is going to waste his assets on a woman that easily gave her body away for less. That's like buying a car with 100k miles for new car money.