It's always great to have Alex back on the channel, his knowledge and expertise are out of the world! Can you add any others to this list? Let me know below and don't forget to check out my book which is now available on amazon - www.makehimyoursbook.com/book
@@cindycinn2724 I agree.. I found the ones with Matthew Boggs were hilarious, they just seemed to have chemistry and bounced off each other. So why not both..
1. Maintain your value: be the challenge, have your own personal life. 2. Express your love in healthy time: don’t have low standards. 3. Be yourself: show him your unique world. 4. Positive energy: smile and enjoy the present moment. 5. Create specific memories: if your life is amazing, he’ll want to be part of it.
Ladies listen carefully to what these guys are saying. Do less for him and do more or concentrate more on your own life and that will organically draw him closer to you.
once you get all these things and put them in your relationship memory bank you have all the tools to make for the right decisions to be successful with a man you like and he likes you equally, this is rare and the world will try to bust it up for the entire time if we merge to one and get any time at all, he is free and single and i am trying to not have any guys over, and it isnt working very well, but i dont have to answer my phone or door because as an empath i am fine, i love being alone, i have honey do list to self a mile long, the reason i am not ready either is my home business, no money, lost job due to no vehicle and its 4 hr walk, so relationship other coaches said too its probably just wanting to hook up, and that if i had no income he would not like me also confirmed thru another youtube thing, but nothing solid to go on except my inner peace, i am dying to know him, but i have to fix all the messes and some home improvement and lift weights and get my belly flat, important to feel my utmost best for him, i feel, so it looks like this will never happen and all say its just a fantasy, i cant wait to prove i was right LOL
Spot on. All these tactics are for men who suffer from avoidant attachment. Wait for a man who has high EQ and is securely attached in relationship. It will be easy and flow. 🙏
Joy Wambui it’s not putting pressure on women the thing I got from it is be the independent woman he fell for, and not rush to make a commitment at such a short period of time. Don’t be on his call, letting him think you will drop everything to be with him, especially if he is doing bare minimum or not even trying. If anything they are saying let him work for you, don’t give in so easy
they say "you need to" a lot because you have chosen to watch a video on how to make a man miss you. if you don't want advice or to take direction why are you watching?
Yes miss, but if viewers are depressed, physically ill etc does that mean they’re unlovable? It IS a lot of pressure & tho I get re good energy etc, if/when you marry, life can throw all kinds of challenges during which this advice does not apply and/but you need healthy connection with your partner more than ever!?!
Very unrealistic expectations. You state to be yourself but also smiling and happy ALL the time. Gotta have some emotional balance which doesn’t necessarily equate perfection.
They're not saying that. They're just saying that a man has to earn the right to be in your inner circle. And I personally don't process pain, cry a ton, etc with someone who's not in my inner circle yet. It's having emotional boundaries with him while you get to know him and grow closer with him :)
i get it, when i am with him if i ever get to, then i will be fun and playful and passionate to spend memoral time with him, i seen him tear up on conversation we had, so this guy is so awesome, he feels things and knows i accept that as good, i wish i could get to know him, oh i got one call cause i was asking for a verification that he is a little interested at all, and finally months later i get one call and its rather vague on wether he likes me or not, its a sheriff call if i need help to call non emerency, so my friend said, told ya hes not interested, and i listen to it like three times a day, and i hear different, i invited him over 3-4 times just to have another friend calls me lier and fantasy world, he pulled into my guys spot, so about 4 failed attempts due to a friend ruining it
The most problem of people is “ Fear of losing “what we have .and not brave enough to walk away from the wrong person so that you create bad or negative energy pushing them away from you ( they are your Karmic partner who come for lesson learn) to clear the path to prepare you for your true soulmate
@Monica Seferian its how things are right now, men tell each other alot i see it to be cold to women, in so many ways, it is a sad reality but there is good guys, just the whole world wants to break up happy couples with lies to destroy a good relationship and the friend believes the friend, and what are they hating on women its very sad to me and i see it too this happens alot, and if a girl or guy is not respected then the friends that want to know what is going on, continues to bring anything up they discus and twist it into something that makes their friendship more and the couple relationship a bad thing, no matter good you are it doesnt matter, this is a single world now not a couples, and i know i would be spending a life of people trying to sabotash a man in my life and me to break it up, its gonna be worse than ever, this is a fact, friends should not tell friends about their relationship cause they never let the negatives go and rub it into the wounds to destroy the couple, its sad thing, but its reality, good luck to anyone fortunate enough to even find a mate that fits them as this rare i understand that, good luck all, the worst thing about friends telling friends, is its not their relationship so why does a guys best, for instance , why should the a guy confide in sex talk about his friends relationship so he can cheat and think about the sex or get into their problems that they can never leave it out of the conversations, their is a agenda to plant seeds of dought without a fair fight even to be, this is what i hate about friends, constantly talking down and ruining it, how could a couple even survive, they would have to know this in advance of the way the world is. I need coaching and still thrive to hope one day i will be loved, its a thing with me, i started in kindergarden loved a kid that loved someone else, go figure and its been that way my whole life, no one for me, and if i thought i'd find him, he doesnt see any importance in anything more than what he'd have going for his life, i am just accepting of what life is and what i can do to love myself cause no one else will, i believe in me, i create my Hawaii at home where i remain safe and am healthy as a horse, i say i 29 and i feel that age. just taking care of me and believeing what i know is reality for me is all i can do. thanks coach's because with a father who loved his own children after me as i was not blood child, i feel not loved in relationships and always attract narcsissist who destroy me to my core. so sick of it, my dad i felt did not love me like the other kids which were his, i forgive him, and understand but my pain remains the knowledge of reject and belittling and i still get this treatment from people and i am good made to be seen bad, its not a fair deal but i am strong as an Ox, still passionate and loving towards animals and people, i like to make people laugh
This is bullshit no one should have to hide how their feeling! If he wants to run because you tell him how much you love him then he doesn’t deserve that love!! NEXT!!!!
If I am married and have a newborn baby, I don't think I can keep working on being a "challenge" to him continuously.. my time would be focused more on the baby and I would need more of his help. Does this mean he is going to run away to other women during this period? Where is commitment in the picture?
This is a great video- sometimes it really has to be spelled out with examples before it makes sense. I think many women just automatically think if they spoil a guy he'll be putty and can't live without you. Works on dogs, but not men! It takes training and practice.
This is so true! My LD beau gets excited about my writing skills and hasbeen very encouraging to my career plans. He said he feels we have a real connection between us. He paid for me to rent a car to come see him last week and can't wait for me to come see him again.
I love both of you😊 I need some advice regarding dealing with a shy guy( he is also French with a gorgeous accent) who is moving very slowly. Would both of you consider preparing a video about shy guys? What is the best way to let a shy guy know that you would like to be more than friends without making the first move or scaring him off?
I’ve been talking to a guy for a month over text/phone calls. We’ve communicated everyday since our first date, initiation has been 50/50 mainly. Two dates total and we won’t see each other for weeks because of travel. It’s been super natural up to this point but I’m starting to feel anxious if we don’t text everyday since we won’t see each other for so long. My brain says I should pull back and give him some space but my instinct says I should still try to keep up with the daily texts/calls we’ve been doing. Typing it out, I think I know which one I should choose but... any thoughts?
Love the concept but sorta a contradiction. Not feeling this other guy you’re collaborating with. Regardless of the rules that play along with a healthy relationship if two people love each other it’s plan & simple it will work & it will be effortless & easy.
Yeah, careful how you show them love, they are such fragile creatures 😂 He either likes and loves you, or not. We need to do all this stuff, plus some more....when the men will take the charge and do what they suppose to....like be a man for example...you guys are cute tho☺😘
I did ALL that and everything went down. Sometimes i feel I'm a person who can't be loved because always end with Men hurting me. They say I'm sexy, funny, intelligent... But something goes down. I'm tired of love and trying to find a relationship. Love IS Just a unrealistic feeling.
Bravo! Yes all about yourself first! Study law of attraction and you'll thrive fully 🥰, everyone is you pushed out. We all feel eachothers energies. Think about it if see someone yawn, dont you yawn. If you think "man I havent talked to ..... I should call them and bam they call or text you!" If you always say and think men or women suck, they cheat, they lie well then you'll continue to attrack that.
Dating is tough; TEENAGE version.THeir clickish. SO in this case, NO senior year is the making of a relationship because you go through so many changes in that year. Some go off to college. My daughteri s a percussionist. Not one guy cared she was a percussionist. They are so selfish. It's always them, their sport, or their thing. SO now she goes unfortunately with the I don't care attitude. She used to be such a friendly, caring person. Now she's more closed. I think she's just tired of feeling like she's wasting time. I told her when they get a little older, things change. SO we'll see. But right now, she's just like I don't care.
How can I be myself if I have to play a different role? I understand priorities but we would have to start thinking very carefully about what we say and what we do. Sounds exhausting. Why do we have to do all of this stuff to get us to miss us?
Ana Cecilia Sotomayor being yourself is being the independent woman they are talking about. It sounds exhausting to make a man work for you, and your time? Or to stick with plans you already have instead of dropping everything for someone you are just starting to date? I don’t get it,
cause like i feel i am a good person, but others even friends try and make me a bad guy, any way they can find, and it is not so, i am honest and do good for others and i am like a counselor, sorta, i have my own house, i have abundance, just no money, i have God and he is my best friend, my whole life is for what he wants and myself, people disappoint and talk shit out of jealousy, and i am constantly thrown under the bus by all, and it hurts bad, i am afraid that this guy i am finally interested in will be mean too, i exspect it, and its not what i want, i am not believed what i say about things any things, i am so disappointed in people all of them, that i dont need people so i find people like relationship coaches and rally roots ebay youtuber and people that probably would also throw me under the bus, my whole life i am different as an empath i am rare, i dont fit in to the way the average person fits all but not me, i fit outside the box and am good but made bad by neighbors, friends, family all always have, so being alone is heaven i smoke weed. animals connect with me and its special but people cant see me, especially if they come to my house, God has blessed me so much i have all i need and more but no money, is this some kind of joke to my life, its ok but not in my mortgage companies eyes, i just paid for 3 months using taxes and stimulas money and working on june's payment, i want to work at home, its my life dream and its hard for me to not do anything else but focus on guy relationship soul mate stuff and all, i love to learn all day, i am a rare person an empath and i struggle with people they dont get me, i am weird and i talk about things, no one udnerstands, its a thing, so if i dont answer phone and door i am not ripped off and told that i am bad and they just want and use me and treat me with disrespect. its so hard being me, if i could cut off people in my life i would be fine, i thrive on it, i invent things and learn things and am very social but misunderstood, i guarentee i need your coaching help cause i will strongly attach and know almost like a physyc that this guy is mine, but it not coming to pass, and my friends are sad for me thinking i am nuts, it hurts bad. and this one says "he will stop coming over when the guy steps up and comes over or calls, and its not happening and i am just getting ready with home improvement and put christmas lights in the bathroom, building toys like santa's elf, and doing what i do, i love myself and i respect myself but i cant speak for others, they gossip they are jealous, they use they abuse they talk crap to my face, and tell me i am not imporant and invalid that what i think is not real, this is not ok with me, so i right now am pledging to myself to not answer phone and door to protect myself once more so i can thrive and win with my home business and need to stay focused, cause i will screw this up like i already told him i love him and it scared him and he stopped driving by, the story of my life, if i dont believe myself i would not be here, i know what i know and its real for me no one else.
I’m actually married lol and my husband still chases me after 20 years. I think it’s because I’ve always been myself and am not a people pleaser. I’m not rude, I’m just honest and what I say is always with good intent behind it. I don’t get attached to people because, I love my space. so.. respecting others space has always been easy.It’s just who I’ve always been and I’ve never been a jealous person. I’ve also never been afraid to disagree with men or anyone also . when I used to go on dates men loved battling it out with me in a fun, flirty way. I’m also sarcastic and y men actually would Love it! They would always say I was hard to figure out and they never knew if I was being serious or playing so... our dates would be fun and spontaneous and guys actually loved that about me! They would always say, I was mysterious and fun! and that they never knew what to expect from me each time. I also would end dates early because, sometimes I got bored even if I liked them plus, I would think, that way we had new things to talk about each time and it left them wanting more from me. This all came natural because this has always been my personality. Ladies, be yourselves ( just leave some mystery every mow and then. Be authentic! I think in these times that’s rare so, you want to be the one who stands out from the bunch and “own it’ and whoever doesn’t like it is the wrong one for you, and always be willing to, walk away! this does work if the man has good intent. And if you get a second date you will also have them on their toes and will respect you more and be extra careful not to cross any boundaries because they will know you’re a high value woman who will not hesitate to walk away! and it’s a turn on as well for them
thank you so much for being here for me, i am trying keep balanced and he drives by and see's me building a fence, making a garden now i am building a green house, got other business plans than what i have now which is selling things i make on ebay as a seller and i am making little Barbie Guitars, my gu, i call him, drives by and see's me and his truck will swerve and i feel him very much so, his radiance in his truck his spirit and how he feels is quite intense, his aurora and engergy, and hearts so to speak are flowing out his truck, its amazing, and i havnt seen him drive by for a while, and he never stops, and i dont know that he wants me as far as we have no time at all together just me giving him my drivers license to drop off clothes and he asked if he could see my drivers license again, this time it was personal, i freaked out, i saw him looking at it, with his back to me, and he has sexy muscles and back, his voice is very comforting, and his personality is awesome, one time i called non emergency and he answered, and i told him about homeless people by the rail road tracks and he said "thank you Angela" he said arnt you scared i said "no because i am going to see if anyone is there that there is resources for help, then one more time we met, i called 911 because a guy i was seeing on the weekends wouldnt stop drinking and wouldnt leave and kept towering over me and i could be hurt, as i grabbed the phone i bolted out of my room and he followed (make story short) and i saw in the mirror blood on my cheek, cant recall that happening, but i ran to the front door and he locked me out, so i called 911 and he answers, he said he had to do something he normally didnt have to do and it was amazing i am talking to him, he was to respond, it was a sucky way to met, 1/2 of time with him was awesome, i literally had to brace my feet cause i felt compeled to merge into him and it not only was inappropriate, he had alot of gadgets on him for Police Officers, normally i dont like cops, so shocked i finally got to see him face to face,, only while he was workijng, i felt him go by today and pretended i didnt see him, i was using a tool with wood. so he showed interest in me i felt and now everyone is trying to tell me things like "its just a fantasy" and everybody thinks i am in a dream state and that he was just doing his job, i did a tarot reading on youtube overtaking all other readings when i first had a reading pop up on my phone that "Picses i just got back from vacation" and right into the love stuff and relationship and dead on physic girl, amazing, really freaking amazing. i am a christian and i would of never gone to those type of things, but God can work thru any means he choses to reveal what he wants to reveal, and my guy, asked me all kinds of questions he did at that 911 call, like "let me ask you this, are you a Christian?" and other things that were not related to the call, so he is interested, And All i have is nothing but my feeling And intuitian as an Empath, i know because i not only would not like a cop cause they give tickets and its a bummer to see a cop, i smoke weed. crazy match yes, very crazy, first thing i said i embarrassed myself, i said "do you get wit it?" he said no he doesnt like that kind of music. so funny i said "i'm sorry, i didnt mean to ask youi that? at one point he smelled me from behind, waiting for two cops to get a dude out of my bedroom.. well i have nothing else and no time except when he works, so i have nothing but the memories i have shared, if you want to take this off and file it, you can because i have been single 25 years and i never like any guys, ever, one time, so this is pretty weird that i would actually be attracted to anyone, i am extremely picky and felt there was no one for me, this is real and my connection,. its said thru tarot card reading that he just wants to be single, and enjoying it, and this is good because i am not ready, i have bird houses all over the place on a mass production i am doing and dining room tables and chairs i sanded and painted to sell on ebay, that day he came to help me i asked "Can you just go get him out?" and he said he cant because he is too vested. what does he mean too vested, he lives above me and i have a camera out front the police dept can monitor as we have lots of running from cops out here in the country. vested he said, what a feeling of protection and i dont really understand, cause its a different vesting LOL?
The most important thing in this world is not " men or women" it is about you & your passions toward life. When it is time you will find the right person. Until then invest in urself and dont believe in ppl who want to waste ur time & energy.
I have got very much distance from him since I don't text him first, and because I am very independent to not expressing any more my feeling. Although I feel missing him very much, what should I do next?
Jenny, it's the same for men as it is for women - no self-respecting man will keep chasing a woman who doesn't reciprocate. Express how you feel, it's okay to be vulnerable. x
8:04 work on my shelf? 🤔 ...alright, I guess I'm going to IKEA to get my guy then! (Just kidding! Amazing video! Funnily enough the guy I like is also French)
Show me only ONE woman who can resist this accent! How can I listen to what he is saying when I'm completely focused on your colleague's charm, masculine appearance and accent, of course! You made my day! Thank you, guys 💖😘🍀
Hi. What does it mean when a boyfriend says that he is not d Going to say these words..I LOVE U and I MISs U anymore but he uses still the endearment names for u.. thanks.
@@Markrosenfeld I always asked him about this and why... but he wont answer me straightforward....he just told me to refrain asking ... before he confessed that to me that He loves me...but now no more ..because he said I knew that already .. what does this mean sir..? I'm so confused
Does this work if he has somebody else I'm heartbroken because I'm really in love with him we were really good friends and I'm heartbroken. Right now hes distance because he knows my feelings and doesn't want to hurt me I'm distance too because I'm in love with him
This applies in marriages too..right? my husband all of a sudden doesnt value me bcoz im available whenevr he tells me. Can u make a video on showing guys respect without becoming doormat-y
Question for you Mark. As your Australian and you've done videos with Matt, an American and also Alex who is French, are cultural differences minor when it comes to winning your man's heart or does the fundamental male instincts Trump culture? And if there are differences, what are the major ones you see?
It's always great to have Alex back on the channel, his knowledge and expertise are out of the world! Can you add any others to this list? Let me know below and don't forget to check out my book which is now available on amazon - www.makehimyoursbook.com/book
Can I say.. A big Hello from cold wet England and I love it when you do these team ups...
Very good combination 💯✅👍❤
Clayton Olson or anyone you chose surprise us Mark
@@cindycinn2724
I agree.. I found the ones with Matthew Boggs were hilarious, they just seemed to have chemistry and bounced off each other. So why not both..
Can you please do more videos on txting and how to keep it interesting/valued? He loves txting me throughout the day, but i need advice 😘
@@misslanapford9169 yes they are unforgettable together lol
1. Maintain your value: be the challenge, have your own personal life.
2. Express your love in healthy time: don’t have low standards.
3. Be yourself: show him your unique world.
4. Positive energy: smile and enjoy the present moment.
5. Create specific memories: if your life is amazing, he’ll want to be part of it.
Nice, msf579! Love it! x
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Just need to find the man first
Hehehehe, here too...
@@eniepresley5867 That's not an easy task as they're hiding well.
Ladies listen carefully to what these guys are saying. Do less for him and do more or concentrate more on your own life and that will organically draw him closer to you.
So we get crumbs instead of the pie?
I feel like men are very complicted in realation ship always up and down i just dont understand them
Men .... not worth all this trouble!
once you get all these things and put them in your relationship memory bank you have all the tools to make for the right decisions to be successful with a man you like and he likes you equally, this is rare and the world will try to bust it up for the entire time if we merge to one and get any time at all, he is free and single and i am trying to not have any guys over, and it isnt working very well, but i dont have to answer my phone or door because as an empath i am fine, i love being alone, i have honey do list to self a mile long, the reason i am not ready either is my home business, no money, lost job due to no vehicle and its 4 hr walk, so relationship other coaches said too its probably just wanting to hook up, and that if i had no income he would not like me also confirmed thru another youtube thing, but nothing solid to go on except my inner peace, i am dying to know him, but i have to fix all the messes and some home improvement and lift weights and get my belly flat, important to feel my utmost best for him, i feel, so it looks like this will never happen and all say its just a fantasy, i cant wait to prove i was right LOL
Smh I’m just hearing “you need to.....you need to” like why are we putting all this pressure on women
Spot on. All these tactics are for men who suffer from avoidant attachment. Wait for a man who has high EQ and is securely attached in relationship. It will be easy and flow. 🙏
Joy Wambui it’s not putting pressure on women the thing I got from it is be the independent woman he fell for, and not rush to make a commitment at such a short period of time. Don’t be on his call, letting him think you will drop everything to be with him, especially if he is doing bare minimum or not even trying. If anything they are saying let him work for you, don’t give in so easy
they say "you need to" a lot because you have chosen to watch a video on how to make a man miss you. if you don't want advice or to take direction why are you watching?
Yes miss, but if viewers are depressed, physically ill etc does that mean they’re unlovable? It IS a lot of pressure & tho I get re good energy etc, if/when you marry, life can throw all kinds of challenges during which this advice does not apply and/but you need healthy connection with your partner more than ever!?!
I nearly do the 5 tips and that’s true .. he’s crazy about me!
Thanks for the video guys
Very unrealistic expectations. You state to be yourself but also smiling and happy ALL the time. Gotta have some emotional balance which doesn’t necessarily equate perfection.
They're not saying that. They're just saying that a man has to earn the right to be in your inner circle. And I personally don't process pain, cry a ton, etc with someone who's not in my inner circle yet. It's having emotional boundaries with him while you get to know him and grow closer with him :)
Liselotte Elisabeth thank you for explaining. I was confused too lol
i get it, when i am with him if i ever get to, then i will be fun and playful and passionate to spend memoral time with him, i seen him tear up on conversation we had, so this guy is so awesome, he feels things and knows i accept that as good, i wish i could get to know him, oh i got one call cause i was asking for a verification that he is a little interested at all, and finally months later i get one call and its rather vague on wether he likes me or not, its a sheriff call if i need help to call non emerency, so my friend said, told ya hes not interested, and i listen to it like three times a day, and i hear different, i invited him over 3-4 times just to have another friend calls me lier and fantasy world, he pulled into my guys spot, so about 4 failed attempts due to a friend ruining it
The most problem of people is “ Fear of losing “what we have .and not brave enough to walk away from the wrong person so that you create bad or negative energy pushing them away from you ( they are your Karmic partner who come for lesson learn) to clear the path to prepare you for your true soulmate
@Monica Seferian its how things are right now, men tell each other alot i see it to be cold to women, in so many ways, it is a sad reality but there is good guys, just the whole world wants to break up happy couples with lies to destroy a good relationship and the friend believes the friend, and what are they hating on women its very sad to me and i see it too this happens alot, and if a girl or guy is not respected then the friends that want to know what is going on, continues to bring anything up they discus and twist it into something that makes their friendship more and the couple relationship a bad thing, no matter good you are it doesnt matter, this is a single world now not a couples, and i know i would be spending a life of people trying to sabotash a man in my life and me to break it up, its gonna be worse than ever, this is a fact, friends should not tell friends about their relationship cause they never let the negatives go and rub it into the wounds to destroy the couple, its sad thing, but its reality, good luck to anyone fortunate enough to even find a mate that fits them as this rare i understand that, good luck all, the worst thing about friends telling friends, is its not their relationship so why does a guys best, for instance , why should the a guy confide in sex talk about his friends relationship so he can cheat and think about the sex or get into their problems that they can never leave it out of the conversations, their is a agenda to plant seeds of dought without a fair fight even to be, this is what i hate about friends, constantly talking down and ruining it, how could a couple even survive, they would have to know this in advance of the way the world is. I need coaching and still thrive to hope one day i will be loved, its a thing with me, i started in kindergarden loved a kid that loved someone else, go figure and its been that way my whole life, no one for me, and if i thought i'd find him, he doesnt see any importance in anything more than what he'd have going for his life, i am just accepting of what life is and what i can do to love myself cause no one else will, i believe in me, i create my Hawaii at home where i remain safe and am healthy as a horse, i say i 29 and i feel that age. just taking care of me and believeing what i know is reality for me is all i can do. thanks coach's because with a father who loved his own children after me as i was not blood child, i feel not loved in relationships and always attract narcsissist who destroy me to my core. so sick of it, my dad i felt did not love me like the other kids which were his, i forgive him, and understand but my pain remains the knowledge of reject and belittling and i still get this treatment from people and i am good made to be seen bad, its not a fair deal but i am strong as an Ox, still passionate and loving towards animals and people, i like to make people laugh
This is bullshit no one should have to hide how their feeling! If he wants to run because you tell him how much you love him then he doesn’t deserve that love!! NEXT!!!!
If I am married and have a newborn baby, I don't think I can keep working on being a "challenge" to him continuously.. my time would be focused more on the baby and I would need more of his help. Does this mean he is going to run away to other women during this period? Where is commitment in the picture?
Alex speaking enflish, lovely accent!👍😍
This is a great video- sometimes it really has to be spelled out with examples before it makes sense. I think many women just automatically think if they spoil a guy he'll be putty and can't live without you. Works on dogs, but not men! It takes training and practice.
Amen Heather, I never thought of it that why till the guys mentioned it.
This is so true! My LD beau gets excited about my writing skills and hasbeen very encouraging to my career plans. He said he feels we have a real connection between us. He paid for me to rent a car to come see him last week and can't wait for me to come see him again.
Roxi Smith that is awesome!!
Merci Mark d'avoir inviter Alex😚!
Merci Alex d'être venu 😙 joli accent😎
I love both of you😊 I need some advice regarding dealing with a shy guy( he is also French with a gorgeous accent) who is moving very slowly. Would both of you consider preparing a video about shy guys? What is the best way to let a shy guy know that you would like to be more than friends without making the first move or scaring him off?
I’ve been talking to a guy for a month over text/phone calls. We’ve communicated everyday since our first date, initiation has been 50/50 mainly. Two dates total and we won’t see each other for weeks because of travel. It’s been super natural up to this point but I’m starting to feel anxious if we don’t text everyday since we won’t see each other for so long.
My brain says I should pull back and give him some space but my instinct says I should still try to keep up with the daily texts/calls we’ve been doing. Typing it out, I think I know which one I should choose but... any thoughts?
Go with what your heart says. If he's the one he will accept you for who you are. Always communicate from a place of love not fear xx.
Always love it when you team up love the opinion of both thanks guys
Love the concept but sorta a contradiction. Not feeling this other guy you’re collaborating with. Regardless of the rules that play along with a healthy relationship if two people love each other it’s plan & simple it will work & it will be effortless & easy.
Thanks for the feedback Anna Douglass - glad you (mostly) liked the video and the concepts aha
Yeah, careful how you show them love, they are such fragile creatures 😂
He either likes and loves you, or not. We need to do all this stuff, plus some more....when the men will take the charge and do what they suppose to....like be a man for example...you guys are cute tho☺😘
Bull, men don't hunt...if they are not interested, no matter WHAT you do, you will waste your time.
I did ALL that and everything went down. Sometimes i feel I'm a person who can't be loved because always end with Men hurting me. They say I'm sexy, funny, intelligent... But something goes down. I'm tired of love and trying to find a relationship. Love IS Just a unrealistic feeling.
Bravo! Yes all about yourself first! Study law of attraction and you'll thrive fully 🥰, everyone is you pushed out. We all feel eachothers energies. Think about it if see someone yawn, dont you yawn. If you think "man I havent talked to ..... I should call them and bam they call or text you!" If you always say and think men or women suck, they cheat, they lie well then you'll continue to attrack that.
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Dating is tough; TEENAGE version.THeir clickish. SO in this case, NO senior year is the making of a relationship because you go through so many changes in that year. Some go off to college. My daughteri s a percussionist. Not one guy cared she was a percussionist. They are so selfish. It's always them, their sport, or their thing. SO now she goes unfortunately with the I don't care attitude. She used to be such a friendly, caring person. Now she's more closed. I think she's just tired of feeling like she's wasting time. I told her when they get a little older, things change. SO we'll see. But right now, she's just like I don't care.
How can I be myself if I have to play a different role? I understand priorities but we would have to start thinking very carefully about what we say and what we do. Sounds exhausting. Why do we have to do all of this stuff to get us to miss us?
Ana Cecilia Sotomayor being yourself is being the independent woman they are talking about. It sounds exhausting to make a man work for you, and your time? Or to stick with plans you already have instead of dropping everything for someone you are just starting to date? I don’t get it,
cause like i feel i am a good person, but others even friends try and make me a bad guy, any way they can find, and it is not so, i am honest and do good for others and i am like a counselor, sorta, i have my own house, i have abundance, just no money, i have God and he is my best friend, my whole life is for what he wants and myself, people disappoint and talk shit out of jealousy, and i am constantly thrown under the bus by all, and it hurts bad, i am afraid that this guy i am finally interested in will be mean too, i exspect it, and its not what i want, i am not believed what i say about things any things, i am so disappointed in people all of them, that i dont need people so i find people like relationship coaches and rally roots ebay youtuber and people that probably would also throw me under the bus, my whole life i am different as an empath i am rare, i dont fit in to the way the average person fits all but not me, i fit outside the box and am good but made bad by neighbors, friends, family all always have, so being alone is heaven i smoke weed. animals connect with me and its special but people cant see me, especially if they come to my house, God has blessed me so much i have all i need and more but no money, is this some kind of joke to my life, its ok but not in my mortgage companies eyes, i just paid for 3 months using taxes and stimulas money and working on june's payment, i want to work at home, its my life dream and its hard for me to not do anything else but focus on guy relationship soul mate stuff and all, i love to learn all day, i am a rare person an empath and i struggle with people they dont get me, i am weird and i talk about things, no one udnerstands, its a thing, so if i dont answer phone and door i am not ripped off and told that i am bad and they just want and use me and treat me with disrespect. its so hard being me, if i could cut off people in my life i would be fine, i thrive on it, i invent things and learn things and am very social but misunderstood, i guarentee i need your coaching help cause i will strongly attach and know almost like a physyc that this guy is mine, but it not coming to pass, and my friends are sad for me thinking i am nuts, it hurts bad. and this one says "he will stop coming over when the guy steps up and comes over or calls, and its not happening and i am just getting ready with home improvement and put christmas lights in the bathroom, building toys like santa's elf, and doing what i do, i love myself and i respect myself but i cant speak for others, they gossip they are jealous, they use they abuse they talk crap to my face, and tell me i am not imporant and invalid that what i think is not real, this is not ok with me, so i right now am pledging to myself to not answer phone and door to protect myself once more so i can thrive and win with my home business and need to stay focused, cause i will screw this up like i already told him i love him and it scared him and he stopped driving by, the story of my life, if i dont believe myself i would not be here, i know what i know and its real for me no one else.
My ex boyfriend broke with me cause I’ll told him I would change my plans for him
We are not talking for 1 week. And I feel that he never miss me because he is a gay,
😁 😁 😁 I like him a lot
He disrespected me and whn i say something he says you always play victim card
Alex and Mark. Great video. I follow Alex on the french part and you on the english part. Thank you so much for your advices you are both amazing.
Does a man really and care about you if they want you to have a 3 some. This is after you've been talking for a year. Just talking not dating
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im in same situation lol 3 weaks dating and i think wow he is amazing then boom ..he wants a 3 some ah
anew beinging no YOU should be good enough. Move on- he’s low value obviously.
@@mellyg7741 thank you..
This is him projecting his own insecurities onto you. You are better than this. Move on. Xx.
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Awesome video from 2 of my fav coaches! Thank you both 😉
Wow, thanks MARILYNN U! The pleasure's ours.
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We're not talking for one week and I feel that he never miss me because he is a gay
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Great advice as usual. Thank you and blessed.
This is a beautiful comment, Alice. Thank you!
Too many speculations!
I’m actually married lol and my husband still chases me after 20 years. I think it’s because I’ve always been myself and am not a people pleaser. I’m not rude, I’m just honest and what I say is always with good intent behind it. I don’t get attached to people because, I love my space. so.. respecting others space has always been easy.It’s just who I’ve always been and I’ve never been a jealous person. I’ve also never been afraid to disagree with men or anyone also . when I used to go on dates men loved battling it out with me in a fun, flirty way. I’m also sarcastic and y men actually would Love it! They would always say I was hard to figure out and they never knew if I was being serious or playing so... our dates would be fun and spontaneous and guys actually loved that about me! They would always say, I was mysterious and fun! and that they never knew what to expect from me each time. I also would end dates early because, sometimes I got bored even if I liked them plus, I would think, that way we had new things to talk about each time and it left them wanting more from me. This all came natural because this has always been my personality. Ladies, be yourselves ( just leave some mystery every mow and then. Be authentic! I think in these times that’s rare so, you want to be the one who stands out from the bunch and “own it’ and whoever doesn’t like it is the wrong one for you, and always be willing to, walk away! this does work if the man has good intent. And if you get a second date you will also have them on their toes and will respect you more and be extra careful not to cross any boundaries because they will know you’re a high value woman who will not hesitate to walk away! and it’s a turn on as well for them
The two best together❤❤❤
Yes women confidant to Man strong women hope and miss you
thank you so much for being here for me, i am trying keep balanced and he drives by and see's me building a fence, making a garden now i am building a green house, got other business plans than what i have now which is selling things i make on ebay as a seller and i am making little Barbie Guitars, my gu, i call him, drives by and see's me and his truck will swerve and i feel him very much so, his radiance in his truck his spirit and how he feels is quite intense, his aurora and engergy, and hearts so to speak are flowing out his truck, its amazing, and i havnt seen him drive by for a while, and he never stops, and i dont know that he wants me as far as we have no time at all together just me giving him my drivers license to drop off clothes and he asked if he could see my drivers license again, this time it was personal, i freaked out, i saw him looking at it, with his back to me, and he has sexy muscles and back, his voice is very comforting, and his personality is awesome, one time i called non emergency and he answered, and i told him about homeless people by the rail road tracks and he said "thank you Angela" he said arnt you scared i said "no because i am going to see if anyone is there that there is resources for help, then one more time we met, i called 911 because a guy i was seeing on the weekends wouldnt stop drinking and wouldnt leave and kept towering over me and i could be hurt, as i grabbed the phone i bolted out of my room and he followed (make story short) and i saw in the mirror blood on my cheek, cant recall that happening, but i ran to the front door and he locked me out, so i called 911 and he answers, he said he had to do something he normally didnt have to do and it was amazing i am talking to him, he was to respond, it was a sucky way to met, 1/2 of time with him was awesome, i literally had to brace my feet cause i felt compeled to merge into him and it not only was inappropriate, he had alot of gadgets on him for Police Officers, normally i dont like cops, so shocked i finally got to see him face to face,, only while he was workijng, i felt him go by today and pretended i didnt see him, i was using a tool with wood. so he showed interest in me i felt and now everyone is trying to tell me things like "its just a fantasy" and everybody thinks i am in a dream state and that he was just doing his job, i did a tarot reading on youtube overtaking all other readings when i first had a reading pop up on my phone that "Picses i just got back from vacation" and right into the love stuff and relationship and dead on physic girl, amazing, really freaking amazing. i am a christian and i would of never gone to those type of things, but God can work thru any means he choses to reveal what he wants to reveal, and my guy, asked me all kinds of questions he did at that 911 call, like "let me ask you this, are you a Christian?" and other things that were not related to the call, so he is interested, And All i have is nothing but my feeling And intuitian as an Empath, i know because i not only would not like a cop cause they give tickets and its a bummer to see a cop, i smoke weed. crazy match yes, very crazy, first thing i said i embarrassed myself, i said "do you get wit it?" he said no he doesnt like that kind of music. so funny i said "i'm sorry, i didnt mean to ask youi that? at one point he smelled me from behind, waiting for two cops to get a dude out of my bedroom.. well i have nothing else and no time except when he works, so i have nothing but the memories i have shared, if you want to take this off and file it, you can because i have been single 25 years and i never like any guys, ever, one time, so this is pretty weird that i would actually be attracted to anyone, i am extremely picky and felt there was no one for me, this is real and my connection,. its said thru tarot card reading that he just wants to be single, and enjoying it, and this is good because i am not ready, i have bird houses all over the place on a mass production i am doing and dining room tables and chairs i sanded and painted to sell on ebay, that day he came to help me i asked "Can you just go get him out?" and he said he cant because he is too vested. what does he mean too vested, he lives above me and i have a camera out front the police dept can monitor as we have lots of running from cops out here in the country. vested he said, what a feeling of protection and i dont really understand, cause its a different vesting LOL?
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Ugh guys are just complicated. About to be just a lesbian
The most important thing in this world is not " men or women" it is about you & your passions toward life. When it is time you will find the right person. Until then invest in urself and dont believe in ppl who want to waste ur time & energy.
How much is the coaching with Mark Rosenfeld
Great video and this was helpful Mark
I have got very much distance from him since I don't text him first, and because I am very independent to not expressing any more my feeling. Although I feel missing him very much, what should I do next?
Jenny, it's the same for men as it is for women - no self-respecting man will keep chasing a woman who doesn't reciprocate.
Express how you feel, it's okay to be vulnerable. x
Yes, it worked! Also I love you two together in videos!! ❤
Awesome to know it worked for you, Parul. Glad you love the collabs. Thanks for watching! x
Alex looks like a gladiator! 🤣
That's because he is ;)
@@Markrosenfeld - 😂🤣 - To think that their diets were only plant-based... hence higher endurance levels. 😬
To be myself?? You wont like it that im being my real self cuz im needy, codependent, insecure 😂😂
Thanks so much
My pleasure, SHENANI WR!
Great advice 👍Thanks
Thanks Mark and Alex!🧡
Thanks for watching and for your ongoing support, Dr. Bethanye Jocius!
Yay, my favourite dating coaches collaborating together! :)
Thanks Lily! Glad you loved the collab. More collabs coming in the future for y'all! x
Hey Mark n Alex u guys are so amazing
Thanks so much, I did this with a guy and we are better as friends not as a romantic relationship.
Nice Blanca Rosas
Hello! Kindly link the book referenced in the video. I'm unable to locate on Amazon. Thank you in advance....Cheers!
Heya Zoo! Here you go www.amazon.com/Influence-Robert-B-Cialdini/dp/1292022299/ref=dp_ob_image_bk
Thank you so much both of you.
This is a great video guys
Brilliant! Thank you so much for your great advice!
Thanks for the comment, Khaliun! Really glad you liked the collab.
8:04 work on my shelf? 🤔 ...alright, I guess I'm going to IKEA to get my guy then! (Just kidding! Amazing video! Funnily enough the guy I like is also French)
Show me only ONE woman who can resist this accent! How can I listen to what he is saying when I'm completely focused on your colleague's charm, masculine appearance and accent, of course! You made my day! Thank you, guys 💖😘🍀
Hi, I am the ONE woman 😂 (if you mean the French man)
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Hi. What does it mean when a boyfriend says that he is not d
Going to say these words..I LOVE U and I MISs U anymore but he uses still the endearment names for u.. thanks.
Gaea Sophia, did you ask him why he won't say those words anymore?
@@Markrosenfeld I always asked him about this and why... but he wont answer me straightforward....he just told me to refrain asking ... before he confessed that to me that He loves me...but now no more ..because he said I knew that already .. what does this mean sir..? I'm so confused
@@Markrosenfeld thanks for replying me ..😊
Does this work if he has somebody else I'm heartbroken because I'm really in love with him we were really good friends and I'm heartbroken. Right now hes distance because he knows my feelings and doesn't want to hurt me I'm distance too because I'm in love with him
Do you really love him? If you want to get him back permanently,,,,,,, some one help me to get my ex back permanently within few days"'''''""""
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Thanks for sharing videos I love it awesome
Thanks so much Hoili. Really glad you loved it. Thanks for watching and don't forget to share the videos around too!
Wow both of you good looking 😀Thanks for this topic .
Hahahah thank you, Angeline! Glad you liked the video.
Okay hotness overload ❤️
Thanks for watching, Erika Andit!
always welcome coach 😘
Thanks guys for the advice, love u both!
Arrw that a sweet comment, Gd. Thanks! Glad you're on here. x
@@Markrosenfeld I was a subscriber of u both and you made me feel ok while listening to your advices. God bless you guys. Thanks for your help..
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Excellent
Thanks for watching and for this comment, Stevie! Hope you got a lot from the video.
Yay!!
Yay! Glad you liked the video, Ashley. Thanks for watching! x
Lovely
Thanks for watching and leaving a comment, Wen!
I learned so much from this ...thank u so much so much realization ❤️
Glad you loved the video, Rem. Thanks for watching! x
This applies in marriages too..right? my husband all of a sudden doesnt value me bcoz im available whenevr he tells me.
Can u make a video on showing guys respect without becoming doormat-y
My two favorites ❤️
Awww thanks Misha!
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Question for you Mark. As your Australian and you've done videos with Matt, an American and also Alex who is French, are cultural differences minor when it comes to winning your man's heart or does the fundamental male instincts Trump culture? And if there are differences, what are the major ones you see?