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I liked guy who stays in usa n I stay in india...in starting he was the one who used to initiate the communication n now he is not talking at all pls how to make it work...
Love you guys! I have been talking with my bf for 2 years now online, we finally made it official recently when i came to America and spent 3 months with him! This video is awesome and i will be happy to follow the advice you have prescribed :)
I am new to long distance relationship my boyfriend is deployed back to the US for about a month now when we're together we are happy and lots of talking and plans for the future. That we're gonna get married that he loves me. But now that he's back to The US the communication became less specially calling. Before he leaves he said we're going to talk everyday but that didn't happen I am always the one who messages and call him. Been calling him many times and he can't even call back but instead drop a message that he's busy. I have trust issues and this LDR is killing me. He said I need to trust him and have faith in him. But how can I do that if he's not doing any efforts to talk or see me even in a video call. He said everything will be okay just trust the process. But it's hard to get hold of him. I think I'm losing him now that he doesn't love me anymore! It's sad to think that all that he promise me he would do is just a word in the air! 😢
How to make him miss you long distance? (How to make a long-distance relationship work?) 1. Change your mindset, to be POSITIVE. Don't think of the problems with the relationship. Focus on yourself. Think that this relationship can work, and it is beautiful. Being after the man and overwhelming him will BREAK UP the relationship. 2. always be SELF-CONFIDENT when you talk about the relationship. Don't think he will cheat, or not give you enough love, or leave you etc. Because when you have FEAR, things will happen. Focus on your qualities, don't be scared of losing him. Don't be neady, don't focus on negativity. Focus on you, which is who they were attracted to in the first place. 3. Do not share NEGATIVE experiences all the time. LD relationships are based on POSITIVE experience. For every 1 negative experience give 5 positive ones. That is what draws people to us. 4. The reason of the breakup in LD is ROUTINE, lack of excitement. Create MEMORIES, even in LD. Plan the next trip, don't meet at home, meet somewhere else and discover things together (theater, park, discovering places...) 5. Don't be constantly CONNECTED. Always talking on social media will make you turn into FRIENDS not lovers. Distance creates ATTRACTION. You create a NATURAL SPACE for the guy to miss you- when you put your phone away when you work out etc... You need to live with PURPOSE, have your own life, your own dreams. 6. PLAN your FUTURE. Either planing to live together or to stay LD, but still plan. Where do you see yourself in 20, 30, 40 YEARS? The same with your relationship. This way you will not sweat the small stuff. If someone does not want to plan, they don't pay attention to you, take you for granted. Try to stand a bit of distant, and work on the attraction itself. If you start to live with purpose, your man will plan, and be after you, chase you.
1. Have positive thoughts regarding future of the relationship 2. Be confident ( specially woman ) 3. Share and focus on positive conversation 4. Create memories , do plans 5. Dont be consistently connected / natural space 6. Live with purpose. 7. Plan the future with significant others
I respect people who met online they have to believe and have faith on each others Thats not easy and we have to cheer them up It’s not as funny as people think
Don't see it as long distance relationship, see it as a normal everyday relationship. Be postive and supportive like a good girlfriend or boyfriend will do. Trust on your partner and do not over think things. Talk to each other often.. dont be too up tight and boring, losen up and have fun together. Play games together, tease each other, make them laugh. Why should you listen to me? I know this things works because am in a long distance relationship and i am very knowledgeable with the dating and relationship topic
What about when you’ve never met each other. You have both gone through a lot and you have planned to meet but he does not bring it up as much as you do. Feels like it will never happen no matter how much he say’s he wants to see me but he wants to get it right
I'm a French subscriber, thank youuu I love Alexandre Cormont, I feel like he is so true-hearted and that he really cares about helping women, and I love Mark Rosenfeld as well because he is so spontaneous and shares gold advices, for the new relationships but also for the old ones, and he want us to follow our heart, our values. They both share visions and principles that are respectful of who we are, to make us happy as human beings, because the idea is to be in a beautiful relationship with ourselves, first. That's how we become beautiful human beings who can share love and so much more with another beautiful one.
Amen, am in a similar situation and have faith, feel more at peace than ever before, usually not very secure in the past but I just feel so secure all of a sudden and we taking things step by step in a more mature way. Love it and I thank God for the experience so far❤
I met a Dutch man online and we have not met yet because I’m in the US. We speak every day for about 2 months now. We keep it very fun and very positive. He texts me good morning every day and good night as well. He calls me with names of endearment like love and babe. There are plans to meet in the Netherlands once this Covid is done and he does speak about the future. We do not spend hours on the phone also. Again we keep it fun and playful. It’s been different for me because I’ve never dated long distance but this guy is truly amazing and very honest. Dutch men are to the point and blunt. It’s a quality that I admire about him. He shares his daily life with me and has already told his family about me. We do have an age gap but we are both over 40. It’s nice to get the good morning love texts and the good night texts even if we don’t speak for a few hours during the day. No expectations just taking it slow and do not have heavy conversations as much. I enjoy watching your videos as it really helps me to adjust and understand.
I am on a LDR for 3years now.. im in uk my fiancee in USA.. all your advices are good.. especially keep positive it does work.. we plan the future together.. he even take me on date while he is in US and i am here in Uk.. when we met we always go out on adventure together.. so i can said that everything you said it so true.. i am experiencing it now and it does work.. and we both trust each and we come into a conclusion i will move to USA and he send my fiancee visa to the home office.. we had plan to see each other on 28th April but unfortunately it got cancelled coz of the virus.. but we are focusing on the picture for me to move with him soon .. Long Distance Relationship does work if both working together 😍
MaryAnne Cansamy 💕💍💕congratulations and good luck in your future journey. 🍀 I'm in Toronto and he is in Arusha, Tanzania. Met few years ago briefly. Lost and found me 3 years ago. We headed off very quickly from friends to romance. We were intense. Done so much together. I became demanding when he was slacking . He became distant, I became insecure that I'm losing him. We created a rift. Still love one another but we / he can go a month without calling me. If it was up to me, I would be connecting every day in some way and form . I stepped back. Focusing on my education. Our conversations are still warm and loving but not enough for me to call it a relationship. He is still planning on meeting me and I was going to meet home in June . The pandemic hasn't hit Africa yet which it may, so the time before we meet will stretch out . Even if we don't end up together , it has been a wonderful journey.
*Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but finding ways to make each other feel missed and loved is crucial. Communication, trust, and understanding are key.*
Mark Rosenfeld but of course hhahaha Namasté guys stay safe, blessed but most of all HAPPY! If I can do it on one leg y’all can do it with 2 hahhhahahha 😹
If you meet someone online, meet in person as soon as possible. Otherwise you are wasting your time and your energy and it's just infatuation, nothing more.
I've met 4 different guys online 15-20 years ago when I was young and naive, and it was a disaster....online we had immense chemistry and in person there was none.....as you said, meet sooner rather than later!
@@EP-qi8ed I was online dating too 20 years ago. The first date was soooo disappointing! We had great chemistry but it was different in person. Fortunately we met within 1-2 weeks (same city) so I didn't waste my time. I also "met" online someone who lived abroad in my late teens (crazy, I know) and we met in person after one year. It was a great experience but he pulled back the day I left the country and we never met again. However, I met my current boyfriend on a dating website, we met in person after a week and we are still together!
We never meet cz of covid but we are 7 yrs here in LD but we are happy cz we care to each other im lucky to have him we are old so we need company every day even in the air
I feel like long distance relationships are so much harder than irl relationships. Most of my relationships have been long distance and online, and all of them have been terrible. I put in time and effort into every one yet they all crumble. I'm currently in one right now and it's going in the same direction. I really want this to work so I'm gonna take all the advice that I can from here. Thank you for making this vid, I really needed some good advice.
I met someone interstate at a wedding 1 week before the covid-19 came into play. We have been speaking / FaceTiming most days since and this video has come along at the perfect time 👌. Not knowing when we will see each other again in person is really hard but it’s also been a blessing because it means we have had so much time to have proper conversations and really get to know everything about each other before just jumping into bed together. Those of you doing distance I highly recommend FaceTime opposed to messaging / social media as like Mark said you can still make dates together e.g organise to have a meal together or some drinks and play a board game or online trivia and it’s so much more intimate than messaging. Thanks again Mark for the fantastic video as always, you’re awesome! :D
This is so true about staying positive and plans. From my 20+ years of learning, feeling, experiencing LDR first-hand has taught me that having clarity about your goals for the future as a couple really pushes forth the strength in long distance. The person will miss you more and more especially if you focus your time in growing as a person / individual. With that, you get to share with them something new all the time because you are expanding and improving all the time. DO you feel me?
LDR is the biggest challenge I’ve ever known. We have 7 months online only. We play and laugh daily. I tease the heck out of him and he loves it. Haha. He’s my best friend. I said that to him and he didn’t like it so much. He said he doesn’t want a friend he wants love and he wants me.
Best advice - if they've slacked off on planning, step back and focus on re-attraction! If they're not planning, they've started taking you for granted. Edit - A very helpful video would be on elaborating on how to re-attract him.
I have enjoyed my 6 month LDR is been the most beautiful experience I have had in a romantic relationship. I am in the USA and he is in Yemen. We have fun, laugh, love, challenges it’s been harmony ❤❤❤
tell me abt it. Im in the UK and BF in Asia. We haven't been able to see each other for 4 straight months and god knows for how much longer. Im so pissed off with how the British gov & US gov dealing with the situation. Screwed ppls life big time!
Perfect timing, I have just met 2 chaps online and I'm glad that I have the opportunity not to put all my eggs in one basket. I am very hopeful to meet one of them in particular soon as lockdown/isolation restrictions over, but I don't want to overthink and overinvest in that particular chap until we have met in person. All great tips! :)
I met my boyfriend on fb.Last year he was asking for advice from everyone on fb group,other’s were telling him it was ok go for it. I committed and give my honest opinion. That’s how we met.We started off as friends first.Now we have been in this long distance relationship. He is overseas we talk, text, when we can.
I have a crush on someone in a different country and It’s a difficult time I can’t go to see him this year I usually go all the time . But because of covid-19 there’s no flying out or in .
I’m in one! I am / was confident he can’t see the positives of the relationship. He always complains on what I cannot give he even blames me to not engage enough in the relationship! He is the one that wants to change me, I feel like he wants me to remain who he met while being caught in his cage! I feel like breaking up! I cannot give what he needs, he blames me for that. I don’t feel valued and seen🥺 My guy can’t deal with long distance, I know he does care but he cannot do it! Makes me think I will never day long distance anymore! Relationships, especially when 40+ are already difficult enough
I really enjoy watching the videos where you collaborate with another quality relationship coach. I found Mat Boggs at a similar time and adore you both, but I just think it is such a lovely thing to see collaboration. I am grateful for your authenticity and genuine care in a world where it is all too easy to take advantage of people's vulnerability. Thank you. Bron - Melb.
Omg! Alex and Mark, you guys did this at a perfect time! I needed this so much. I just connected with this guy through a dating app. We have been constantly texting/face-timed/talked on the phone 2-3 times since February. He is working, going to school and I know he is not constantly on social media. But, he replies after hours, so I kind of got into my own head for a week now. Your take on “online relationship” during this pandemic is spot on. I need to refocus on my life, and not treat this as a bf/gf relationship until I have met him. I do like him a lot but this eases my life. Thank you! 🙏🏻 Also, loved your insecurities vs. intuition video. I always think the worst that he will lose interest because of my last. So, this is some amazing info.
😲😲😲 MARK!!!!! What a coincidence that you just uploaded this subject!! Sooooo theres a fabulous man that I fell HARD for, I'm pretty sure I love him, and 5 years ago, before I took off for Alaska, and now Oregon, we lived in the same town in Cal and he just never did show any interest in me beyond friends. I swear tho, being in his presence made me weak- But JUST LAST NIGHT, we were messaging back and forth, and he indicated his feelings for me!!!!! I thought I'd died and gone to Heaven!! My hearts been racing ever since because I wont be back in cal until the lock down lifts...So heres my concern tho- Is this a situation where absense made him THINK he wants me, or did he just play hard to get when I was there in the same city with him?? I'm excited and scared at the same time!!
Hi i love all those tips and i realize i have done thing's wrong now my question is can i still change it while being in the same relationship I've done all that mistakes
Mark, we're like 3 hours away; we normally call or text throughout the day, but when we argue he's normally hiding in the cave or needing space, just takes him sometimes a week or so to calm down to call, text, or video call again. Can you give me some tips on how to solve problems better with him? I prefer talk it out in a calm way as they all say communication is key, but he prefers space alone and his ego can be so strong to apologize or contact me again.
My most respected and genius gentlemen...Mark and Alex❤️😍❤️ Really enjoyed the talk and all the knowledge gained.... thanks a million Yeah....stay on the positivity.... Maryam from Malaysia...
@@Markrosenfeld You are always be most welcome Mark...... great to know your channel.... well you deserve the credit ... wonderful person... love your accent... love your work.... I've gained lots of knowledge and positive input....Yeah.. well done
Thank you Mark and Alex! This video was Really ENLIGHTENING, instructive, positive and extremely helpful. I'm blown away! So may layers. So thoroughly done. : ) You both rock!
Thank you so much for this video! I met someone online. We have been chatting and talking on the phone a lot. We are getting to know each other and have become very close. So it can work IF the both of you feel the same way like we do. We talk through mostly good times and a little bit of the bad times or just to say hello, how are you? He tells me he misses me and I gladly reciprocate that I miss him. It seems funny because we never met but that feeling of missing him is definitely there. We are there for each other. I consider him a good friend if not a best friend. I make sure I do what I enjoy and then I tell him all about it. Sometimes he wants to be involved. For example: I would be watching a you tube video or music video and he would want to know which one or I would just send it to him. He really enjoys that. Hopefully we will meet soon.
Good timing watching this.. I've been in a year long distance relationship online and this covid situation makes it even longer for us to meet personally. And I'm not even sure he wants to visit me at all. I'm losing grip it seems but he said he's just busy doing things around the house. It's a boring situation waiting for lockdown to be lifted up anyway.
This is what exactly I need.. More about LDR please sometimes I run. Out of things to talk about everytime I talk to my Australian boyfriend. We talk during Sunday and Wednesday but everyday he message me and reply too. Now I've wat he'd this I think I'm gonna focus more on my qualities. More videos ok.
Will keep them coming for y'all, Cha Ramos! You'll find many fun topics online. Check out my channel for more Long Distance Relationship videos. Hope you get something from them. Thanks for sharing! x
Hi, thanks for the chance i watched this video coz i am currently in a long distance relationship with the guy i met online and he came twice to see me already in my own country. He proposed me the first time he came. I am holding to that promised he gave me but sometimes I couldnt avoid to have fear that he might seeing someone else in his place.. I caught him once that he signed up to dating site and talked to women.. He said sorry and said he did that only the time we had argument..I already forgave him but sometimes at the back of head i have fear for long distance..
I met my man online. We texted for about a year and a half before we met. He was exactly who I thought he would be and we feel deep into a strong infatuation (or love?). He is in another country and is planning to come to my country for a visit but now noone can fly and I'm worried if we have to wait 5 or 6 months before we see each other again that things will have waned. We are doing many of the things you suggest and will incorporate the rest so I'm crossing my fingers.
What if we been together for almost 9 years. He's had a track record. Cheated many many times. Finally he proposed 2 years ago. It's been Rocky and now he wants a break.
Hae Alex and Mark.BOTH of you are amazing thanks for the positive advice esp. In this pandemic .As Alex copied " LIVE WITH PURPOSE" i too copied mark thanks alot...big up 💪💪💪💥💥🙏
Hey guys you know what is really missing in this video Mathew Boggs. Gosh! If he would be there with both of you it would be so amazing and gouges. About long distance relationships, I'm so happy and glad to hear you guys couse I'm in distance relationships since five years. My future husband is Uk citizens and right now since the last three years in Turkey for his progect job and I'm in Italy. So hearing you guys helps me to built a stronger relationship with the love of my life. Thank you so much.. Please do stay bless.
LDR never worked for me. You have no chances to fix things as easily as you need to keep the relationship going. We tend to abruptly cut the communication once and that’s it. I personally don’t recommend them. I just ended my Ldr by default (he moved to another country for his job) i was kind of forced into a long distance. He knew i wasn’t thrilled by it but still decided to leave. Well... it’s over after 2 weeks of him ignoring my txt messages/calls, not finding the time to talk, feeding me with excuses, trying to convince me to start doing sex videos even though i expressed my concerns about it. And we actually never had sex in real life... Along with manipulation tricks he tried to pull out on me to get the upper hand in the relationship. So nope. not doing it! I ended it for my own mental well-being. That can work if you already have a past healthy relationship to sustain each others absence. But when you are still trying to build something its too much of a challenge.
well done both love your channels , make a vidio on how to keep the love and not becoming friendds in long distance when you cant kiss partner and hug and all when these create the love hormone :( long distance is hard
I have a problem I am going to lift celebrity and he has a job that he goes on concerts a lot and it is a long term relationship and it’s hard to communicate with him and how you feel about him and his other family members how do you go about communicating with him and his family without hurting anyone
I would love you 2 to talk more about long distance relationships with people who met online please and I have a question: what do u think if the guy doesn't want to have u on a specific social media like Instagram and only want to comunicate through Whatsapp? I think is shady
He phones me every day for hours but just referred to me as a pen pal! Yes, there are 6000 km between us, but I thought we were kinda building something until covid restrictions lift. He said he can't invest in me emotionally from so far until we are in the same physical place - is this fear on his part? This is where guys and girls are different. I have walked away...why should I emotionally invest when it is not returned. I have no fear even if we are worlds apart, especially if I think they are worth it.
I understand why you feel that way, and I'm sorry that you do. You can actually learn from his mindset. Watch this video to get valuable insight on the situation: ruclips.net/video/BUjIXUM68KU/видео.html
Thanks for sharing this long distance relationship I always thought it will never work out, but it could Alex and Mark much love and blessings guys, much thanks
This advice hopefully works for me. We are LDR. The 1st-2nd months of our communication, he was so constant. He always VC me and chat with me everyday but 2 weeks ago, I've notice he changed, he just send funny videos & pictures to me but not even asking if I'm ok or not. When I want to call him, he just decline or not picking up my calls. His always reason was he was tired from work and can't do VC. But when I first meet him he was not like that, even if his tired, he has time to VC with me even 2-5mins. But now he didn't do it anymore. He message me today. He said he was busy or too tired for the whole week, I want to call him but maybe I will be disappointed again if decline or not pick up my calls.🤦 I doubt my feelings towards him, is my instinct true if he has another new girl that he was chatted online? Or his reason acceptable? I'm confuse, please help me Mr. Mark. what do you think? I just pray that he was just too busy at work and not finding another girl 😔😔😔🤦🤦
Is it okay for a man to miss a woman if they live 1 hour drive apart and have been texting for 19 days and only seen each other physically twice due to different work schedules? Or is that a red flag?
Me and my Scottish LDR man we've been chatting online since 2017. I thought we're really serious together but I ended up discovering he meet up his long time Filipina trans lover last 2018 in Singapore. (which I thought he's Ex Gf) I was really hurt, I thought we already in a relationship. We never meet but I really love him more than any men on internet. It hurts that we never even started a real relationship yet.. We will just see if we meet soon in person. I'm not sure if he allowed to travel this year but I'm still looking forward to meet him. Who knows he might love me.
Hello I love your advice.... real eye openers..... so I’ve got a question how do you prepare or strengthen your relationship before LDR me and my partner are always together we are really close longest separation time was 4days (been together for 3yrs)..... next year his supposed to go away for a year and the thought of separating scares me we’ve talked about it briefly but in passing and his even worried about the distance .... do you have any advice for this .... I don’t want to lose him his my world
I met a guy online. He's from Greece and I am from Mexico. I already bought my tickets to see him because I like him so much.😍❤ Although, with this quarantine sometimes i dont have anything new to tell him. I dont want that he gets bored of me. What can I do? Ps: give tips about cybersex 🙏😁
I luv you alex but you have to luv me more than I luv you. I will only migrate to states: 1) you want to marry me 2) I have a job in the US 3) receive a scholarship to study at mit
I meet my bf in my social media, we been talking together for 5 months now. But we never talk live in the phone yet. We still texting day and night. His Another country and I am here in USA. What can I do to make him feel to talk to me by phone, not text message all the time? I hope you will give some answers.
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I liked guy who stays in usa n I stay in india...in starting he was the one who used to initiate the communication n now he is not talking at all pls how to make it work...
Mark Rosenfeld
You are so sweet to say that!!!
You truly are an inspiration!
Thanks for the guidance you share, take care!
Awww thanks!!
I'm in a long distance relationship with a wonderful Aussie guy...
Love you guys! I have been talking with my bf for 2 years now online, we finally made it official recently when i came to America and spent 3 months with him! This video is awesome and i will be happy to follow the advice you have prescribed :)
Thanks buddy for having me! :-)
I am new to long distance relationship my boyfriend is deployed back to the US for about a month now when we're together we are happy and lots of talking and plans for the future. That we're gonna get married that he loves me. But now that he's back to The US the communication became less specially calling. Before he leaves he said we're going to talk everyday but that didn't happen I am always the one who messages and call him. Been calling him many times and he can't even call back but instead drop a message that he's busy. I have trust issues and this LDR is killing me. He said I need to trust him and have faith in him. But how can I do that if he's not doing any efforts to talk or see me even in a video call. He said everything will be okay just trust the process. But it's hard to get hold of him. I think I'm losing him now that he doesn't love me anymore! It's sad to think that all that he promise me he would do is just a word in the air! 😢
How to make him miss you long distance?
(How to make a long-distance relationship work?)
1. Change your mindset, to be POSITIVE. Don't think of the problems with the relationship. Focus on yourself. Think that this relationship can work, and it is beautiful.
Being after the man and overwhelming him will BREAK UP the relationship.
2. always be SELF-CONFIDENT when you talk about the relationship. Don't think he will cheat, or not give you enough love, or leave you etc. Because when you have FEAR, things will happen.
Focus on your qualities, don't be scared of losing him. Don't be neady, don't focus on negativity.
Focus on you, which is who they were attracted to in the first place.
3. Do not share NEGATIVE experiences all the time. LD relationships are based on POSITIVE experience.
For every 1 negative experience give 5 positive ones. That is what draws people to us.
4. The reason of the breakup in LD is ROUTINE, lack of excitement. Create MEMORIES, even in LD. Plan the next trip, don't meet at home, meet somewhere else and discover things together (theater, park, discovering places...)
5. Don't be constantly CONNECTED. Always talking on social media will make you turn into FRIENDS not lovers. Distance creates ATTRACTION. You create a NATURAL SPACE for the guy to miss you- when you put your phone away when you work out etc...
You need to live with PURPOSE, have your own life, your own dreams.
6. PLAN your FUTURE. Either planing to live together or to stay LD, but still plan.
Where do you see yourself in 20, 30, 40 YEARS? The same with your relationship. This way you will not sweat the small stuff.
If someone does not want to plan, they don't pay attention to you, take you for granted. Try to stand a bit of distant, and work on the attraction itself. If you start to live with purpose, your man will plan, and be after you, chase you.
Wooow just wow avgonyma1! I appreciate this a looot! x
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1. Have positive thoughts regarding future of the relationship
2. Be confident ( specially woman )
3. Share and focus on positive conversation
4. Create memories , do plans
5. Dont be consistently connected / natural space
6. Live with purpose.
7. Plan the future with significant others
Thanks for this, Sonia Akter! Great to have you on the channel x
Very true and don't be jealous and possessive will always trust and patient.
I respect people who met online they have to believe and have faith on each others
Thats not easy and we have to cheer them up
It’s not as funny as people think
Don't see it as long distance relationship, see it as a normal everyday relationship.
Be postive and supportive like a good girlfriend or boyfriend will do.
Trust on your partner and do not over think things.
Talk to each other often.. dont be too up tight and boring, losen up and have fun together. Play games together, tease each other, make them laugh.
Why should you listen to me? I know this things works because am in a long distance relationship and i am very knowledgeable with the dating and relationship topic
Thanks for sharing Vivian :D
What about when you’ve never met each other. You have both gone through a lot and you have planned to meet but he does not bring it up as much as you do. Feels like it will never happen no matter how much he say’s he wants to see me but he wants to get it right
Can we talk about their accents 😳🔥
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I know right. It's so hot 🔥 lol
I'm a French subscriber, thank youuu I love Alexandre Cormont, I feel like he is so true-hearted and that he really cares about helping women, and I love Mark Rosenfeld as well because he is so spontaneous and shares gold advices, for the new relationships but also for the old ones, and he want us to follow our heart, our values. They both share visions and principles that are respectful of who we are, to make us happy as human beings, because the idea is to be in a beautiful relationship with ourselves, first. That's how we become beautiful human beings who can share love and so much more with another beautiful one.
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I'm in a LDR for a year now... engaged January and planning for future.we getting through it in Jesus name.we met online BTW
Amen, am in a similar situation and have faith, feel more at peace than ever before, usually not very secure in the past but I just feel so secure all of a sudden and we taking things step by step in a more mature way. Love it and I thank God for the experience so far❤
I met a Dutch man online and we have not met yet because I’m in the US. We speak every day for about 2 months now. We keep it very fun and very positive. He texts me good morning every day and good night as well. He calls me with names of endearment like love and babe. There are plans to meet in the Netherlands once this Covid is done and he does speak about the future. We do not spend hours on the phone also. Again we keep it fun and playful. It’s been different for me because I’ve never dated long distance but this guy is truly amazing and very honest. Dutch men are to the point and blunt. It’s a quality that I admire about him. He shares his daily life with me and has already told his family about me. We do have an age gap but we are both over 40. It’s nice to get the good morning love texts and the good night texts even if we don’t speak for a few hours during the day. No expectations just taking it slow and do not have heavy conversations as much. I enjoy watching your videos as it really helps me to adjust and understand.
oh my god can we switch? I live in the Netherlands and met an American man online.
@@Lana.a_ haha you both amazing
Two of my favorite coaches right here ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
I am on a LDR for 3years now.. im in uk my fiancee in USA.. all your advices are good.. especially keep positive it does work.. we plan the future together.. he even take me on date while he is in US and i am here in Uk.. when we met we always go out on adventure together.. so i can said that everything you said it so true.. i am experiencing it now and it does work.. and we both trust each and we come into a conclusion i will move to USA and he send my fiancee visa to the home office.. we had plan to see each other on 28th April but unfortunately it got cancelled coz of the virus.. but we are focusing on the picture for me to move with him soon .. Long Distance Relationship does work if both working together 😍
MaryAnne Cansamy 💕💍💕congratulations and good luck in your future journey. 🍀
I'm in Toronto and he is in Arusha, Tanzania. Met few years ago briefly. Lost and found me 3 years ago. We headed off very quickly from friends to romance. We were intense. Done so much together. I became demanding when he was slacking . He became distant, I became insecure that I'm losing him. We created a rift. Still love one another but we / he can go a month without calling me. If it was up to me, I would be connecting every day in some way and form . I stepped back. Focusing on my education. Our conversations are still warm and loving but not enough for me to call it a relationship. He is still planning on meeting me and I was going to meet home in June . The pandemic hasn't hit Africa yet which it may, so the time before we meet will stretch out .
Even if we don't end up together , it has been a wonderful journey.
@@gratitude5740 good luck too😘
Btw I found your story amazing too.. it good to that we are not alone maybe we can keep in touch and share idea.. 😍😍
.BE the ONE for him and believe your the ONE.and say I am beautifull and confident so that he feels it.
Its hard to be a long distance relationship its not easy we always miss missing each other just only pray we connect and keep on communication.
*Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but finding ways to make each other feel missed and loved is crucial. Communication, trust, and understanding are key.*
Love the collaboration and of course obsessed with BOTH of your accents jajajajaja thank you
Our pleasure!
Mark Rosenfeld but of course hhahaha Namasté guys stay safe, blessed but most of all HAPPY! If I can do it on one leg y’all can do it with 2 hahhhahahha 😹
If you meet someone online, meet in person as soon as possible. Otherwise you are wasting your time and your energy and it's just infatuation, nothing more.
I've met 4 different guys online 15-20 years ago when I was young and naive, and it was a disaster....online we had immense chemistry and in person there was none.....as you said, meet sooner rather than later!
ITs simply imature, that's the truth.
@@EP-qi8ed I was online dating too 20 years ago. The first date was soooo disappointing! We had great chemistry but it was different in person. Fortunately we met within 1-2 weeks (same city) so I didn't waste my time. I also "met" online someone who lived abroad in my late teens (crazy, I know) and we met in person after one year. It was a great experience but he pulled back the day I left the country and we never met again. However, I met my current boyfriend on a dating website, we met in person after a week and we are still together!
YESSSS!
@@anoukc6928 why do u think he pulled back after u left?
We never meet cz of covid but we are 7 yrs here in LD but we are happy cz we care to each other im lucky to have him we are old so we need company every day even in the air
I feel like long distance relationships are so much harder than irl relationships. Most of my relationships have been long distance and online, and all of them have been terrible. I put in time and effort into every one yet they all crumble. I'm currently in one right now and it's going in the same direction. I really want this to work so I'm gonna take all the advice that I can from here. Thank you for making this vid, I really needed some good advice.
Wow this video is speaking directly to me 🙏🏾
I met someone interstate at a wedding 1 week before the covid-19 came into play. We have been speaking / FaceTiming most days since and this video has come along at the perfect time 👌. Not knowing when we will see each other again in person is really hard but it’s also been a blessing because it means we have had so much time to have proper conversations and really get to know everything about each other before just jumping into bed together. Those of you doing distance I highly recommend FaceTime opposed to messaging / social media as like Mark said you can still make dates together e.g organise to have a meal together or some drinks and play a board game or online trivia and it’s so much more intimate than messaging. Thanks again Mark for the fantastic video as always, you’re awesome! :D
This is so true about staying positive and plans.
From my 20+ years of learning, feeling, experiencing LDR first-hand has taught me that having clarity about your goals for the future as a couple really pushes forth the strength in long distance.
The person will miss you more and more especially if you focus your time in growing as a person / individual.
With that, you get to share with them something new all the time because you are expanding and improving all the time. DO you feel me?
LDR is the biggest challenge I’ve ever known. We have 7 months online only. We play and laugh daily. I tease the heck out of him and he loves it. Haha. He’s my best friend. I said that to him and he didn’t like it so much. He said he doesn’t want a friend he wants love and he wants me.
Best advice - if they've slacked off on planning, step back and focus on re-attraction! If they're not planning, they've started taking you for granted.
Edit - A very helpful video would be on elaborating on how to re-attract him.
@Panje Nambao I'd like to know too, I asked that as well.
I have enjoyed my 6 month LDR is been the most beautiful experience I have had in a romantic relationship. I am in the USA and he is in Yemen. We have fun, laugh, love, challenges it’s been harmony ❤❤❤
Glad it's going well Jang! If you want more join my Queens Club community! www.skool.com/qclub/
This quarantine ended many relationships believe me...
Alexander Branden ☹
Hahahahaha
tell me abt it. Im in the UK and BF in Asia. We haven't been able to see each other for 4 straight months and god knows for how much longer. Im so pissed off with how the British gov & US gov dealing with the situation. Screwed ppls life big time!
His accent 😍😍😍 oh my goodness
Perfect timing, I have just met 2 chaps online and I'm glad that I have the opportunity not to put all my eggs in one basket. I am very hopeful to meet one of them in particular soon as lockdown/isolation restrictions over, but I don't want to overthink and overinvest in that particular chap until we have met in person. All great tips! :)
I met my boyfriend on fb.Last year he was asking for advice from everyone on fb group,other’s were telling him it was ok go for it. I committed and give my honest opinion. That’s how we met.We started off as friends first.Now we have been in this long distance relationship. He is overseas we talk, text, when we can.
I have a crush on someone in a different country and It’s a difficult time I can’t go to see him this year I usually go all the time . But because of covid-19 there’s no flying out or in .
...he should come to visit you, not you ;-)
🇬🇭 watching from Ghana 🇬🇭
I’m in one!
I am / was confident he can’t see the positives of the relationship.
He always complains on what I cannot give he even blames me to not engage enough in the relationship!
He is the one that wants to change me, I feel like he wants me to remain who he met while being caught in his cage!
I feel like breaking up! I cannot give what he needs, he blames me for that. I don’t feel valued and seen🥺
My guy can’t deal with long distance, I know he does care but he cannot do it!
Makes me think I will never day long distance anymore! Relationships, especially when 40+ are already difficult enough
I really enjoy watching the videos where you collaborate with another quality relationship coach.
I found Mat Boggs at a similar time and adore you both, but I just think it is such a lovely thing to see collaboration.
I am grateful for your authenticity and genuine care in a world where it is all too easy to take advantage of people's vulnerability. Thank you. Bron - Melb.
Thanks a lot let apply your advice
Thank you for such a wonderful advices!
Omg! Alex and Mark, you guys did this at a perfect time! I needed this so much. I just connected with this guy through a dating app. We have been constantly texting/face-timed/talked on the phone 2-3 times since February. He is working, going to school and I know he is not constantly on social media. But, he replies after hours, so I kind of got into my own head for a week now. Your take on “online relationship” during this pandemic is spot on. I need to refocus on my life, and not treat this as a bf/gf relationship until I have met him. I do like him a lot but this eases my life. Thank you! 🙏🏻 Also, loved your insecurities vs. intuition video. I always think the worst that he will lose interest because of my last. So, this is some amazing info.
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😲😲😲 MARK!!!!! What a coincidence that you just uploaded this subject!! Sooooo theres a fabulous man that I fell HARD for, I'm pretty sure I love him, and 5 years ago, before I took off for Alaska, and now Oregon, we lived in the same town in Cal and he just never did show any interest in me beyond friends. I swear tho, being in his presence made me weak- But JUST LAST NIGHT, we were messaging back and forth, and he indicated his feelings for me!!!!! I thought I'd died and gone to Heaven!! My hearts been racing ever since because I wont be back in cal until the lock down lifts...So heres my concern tho- Is this a situation where absense made him THINK he wants me, or did he just play hard to get when I was there in the same city with him?? I'm excited and scared at the same time!!
Why these advices are so true.it really hit me and so i hit the subscription button.6 years ldr here 💋❤
Welcome to the channel, Sally Ang! Great to hear you like my content. Thanks so much! x
Great advice gents thank you 🙏
Hi i love all those tips and i realize i have done thing's wrong now my question is can i still change it while being in the same relationship I've done all that mistakes
Love his accent! 😍🥰
thanks. very informative looking forward!
wow, what an amazing advice! thank you so much! 👌😊
Sometimes I wonder if Mark realizes how handsome he is 😏😅
Who's this Mark character you speak of?
@@Markrosenfeld that guy on the right side :-)
He does
@@WiktoriaSta how do you know? 🤔
Same with Alex ;)
Mark, we're like 3 hours away; we normally call or text throughout the day, but when we argue he's normally hiding in the cave or needing space, just takes him sometimes a week or so to calm down to call, text, or video call again. Can you give me some tips on how to solve problems better with him? I prefer talk it out in a calm way as they all say communication is key, but he prefers space alone and his ego can be so strong to apologize or contact me again.
My most respected and genius gentlemen...Mark and Alex❤️😍❤️
Really enjoyed the talk and all the knowledge gained.... thanks a million
Yeah....stay on the positivity.... Maryam from Malaysia...
That's really nice of you to say, Maryam! Thank you! 🙏
@@Markrosenfeld You are always be most welcome Mark...... great to know your channel.... well you deserve the credit ... wonderful person... love your accent... love your work.... I've gained lots of knowledge and positive input....Yeah.. well done
Thank you so much for this advice ..
Thanks, Realyn Mana! Hope you got heaps from the video.
Thank you for the advice!!!
My pleasure, Julie! Hope it helps. x
Thank you Mark and Alex! This video was Really ENLIGHTENING, instructive, positive and extremely helpful. I'm blown away! So may layers. So thoroughly done. : ) You both rock!
Thanks for the really nice comment, SFoster! Glad you liked the video. Thanks for being such an awesome supporter! 😊
we want more videos like this 😍😍
Glad you liked the collab, Gabriela Sterle. Definitely expect more to come for y'all! Thanks! 😊
Been waiting for this one THANKS gentlemen!!☺️🩵🩵👏🏽
Hi Alex & Mark!
Watching from Malaysia... How to avoid overthinking? Thanks for your advices😍
Thank you so much for this video! I met someone online. We have been chatting and talking on the phone a lot. We are getting to know each other and have become very close. So it can work IF the both of you feel the same way like we do. We talk through mostly good times and a little bit of the bad times or just to say hello, how are you? He tells me he misses me and I gladly reciprocate that I miss him. It seems funny because we never met but that feeling of missing him is definitely there. We are there for each other. I consider him a good friend if not a best friend. I make sure I do what I enjoy and then I tell him all about it. Sometimes he wants to be involved. For example: I would be watching a you tube video or music video and he would want to know which one or I would just send it to him. He really enjoys that. Hopefully we will meet soon.
Good timing watching this.. I've been in a year long distance relationship online and this covid situation makes it even longer for us to meet personally. And I'm not even sure he wants to visit me at all. I'm losing grip it seems but he said he's just busy doing things around the house. It's a boring situation waiting for lockdown to be lifted up anyway.
This was good❤
I have missed you Mark!
Oh I've missed you too Sheker !
Thanks for sharing yes guy distance relationship very powerful conaction never divorce guy you are expart relationship appreciate you.
This is what exactly I need.. More about LDR please sometimes I run. Out of things to talk about everytime I talk to my Australian boyfriend. We talk during Sunday and Wednesday but everyday he message me and reply too. Now I've wat he'd this I think I'm gonna focus more on my qualities. More videos ok.
Will keep them coming for y'all, Cha Ramos! You'll find many fun topics online. Check out my channel for more Long Distance Relationship videos. Hope you get something from them. Thanks for sharing! x
Lot relationships end up relationship this coronavirus.. 💔
Hi, thanks for the chance i watched this video coz i am currently in a long distance relationship with the guy i met online and he came twice to see me already in my own country. He proposed me the first time he came. I am holding to that promised he gave me but sometimes I couldnt avoid to have fear that he might seeing someone else in his place.. I caught him once that he signed up to dating site and talked to women.. He said sorry and said he did that only the time we had argument..I already forgave him but sometimes at the back of head i have fear for long distance..
Very helpful tips-- loved the reminder about the 5:1 ratio!--very important !!!
I met my man online. We texted for about a year and a half before we met. He was exactly who I thought he would be and we feel deep into a strong infatuation (or love?).
He is in another country and is planning to come to my country for a visit but now noone can fly and I'm worried if we have to wait 5 or 6 months before we see each other again that things will have waned.
We are doing many of the things you suggest and will incorporate the rest so I'm crossing my fingers.
Thank you guys
Happy to help, Letmeknow You. Glad you liked the collab!
Thank for your good advice .how to avoid over thinking..sometime he's over protected to me...
What if we been together for almost 9 years. He's had a track record. Cheated many many times. Finally he proposed 2 years ago. It's been Rocky and now he wants a break.
Hae Alex and Mark.BOTH of you are amazing thanks for the positive advice esp. In this pandemic .As
Alex copied " LIVE WITH PURPOSE" i too copied mark thanks alot...big up 💪💪💪💥💥🙏
Where i see my relationship with him in 20 years i was thinking to leave... bcuz i thought he was not that much into me
It's Covid Crisis Guys last April , Now it's surging up again.....Nobody is traveling you need to Make another Video
Hey guys you know what is really missing in this video Mathew Boggs. Gosh! If he would be there with both of you it would be so amazing and gouges.
About long distance relationships, I'm so happy and glad to hear you guys couse I'm in distance relationships since five years. My future husband is Uk citizens and right now since the last three years in Turkey for his progect job and I'm in Italy. So hearing you guys helps me to built a stronger relationship with the love of my life. Thank you so much.. Please do stay bless.
Maybe one day 🤔🤔
🤔🤭💋💕 thanks so much for your help, relationship are difficult.
Alex you are cool thanks
Yeay a collab ❤️
Glad you liked it, Fetch. Thanks!
LDR never worked for me. You have no chances to fix things as easily as you need to keep the relationship going. We tend to abruptly cut the communication once and that’s it. I personally don’t recommend them. I just ended my Ldr by default (he moved to another country for his job) i was kind of forced into a long distance. He knew i wasn’t thrilled by it but still decided to leave. Well... it’s over after 2 weeks of him ignoring my txt messages/calls, not finding the time to talk, feeding me with excuses, trying to convince me to start doing sex videos even though i expressed my concerns about it. And we actually never had sex in real life... Along with manipulation tricks he tried to pull out on me to get the upper hand in the relationship. So nope. not doing it! I ended it for my own mental well-being. That can work if you already have a past healthy relationship to sustain each others absence. But when you are still trying to build something its too much of a challenge.
well done both love your channels , make a vidio on how to keep the love and not becoming friendds in long distance when you cant kiss partner and hug and all when these create the love hormone :( long distance is hard
Wow.. very informative. 🤗❤️
Thanks, Bethel Bethlehem! Glad you liked the collab. x
I love you so much Mark❤️❤️
Thanks much 😊
My pleasure, Zenaida Cariaga. Thanks for watching! 😊
I have a problem I am going to lift celebrity and he has a job that he goes on concerts a lot and it is a long term relationship and it’s hard to communicate with him and how you feel about him and his other family members how do you go about communicating with him and his family without hurting anyone
I need to completely change, I am always negative 🙁
Realizing the need to change is the first step towards change, Tanya Larsen. Thanks for sharing! All the best to you! x
@@Markrosenfeld Thank you 😊
Thank u ❤️❤️
My pleasure, Hassna Fikri!
These points are not good if the person is not interested in a relationship...
LDR really esp this man is super busy..
How he can have time more with a woman? 🌷
Linda Lopera, no man is too busy for his woman. If he wants to, he can always find a way. If he doesn't want to, he can always have reasons/excuses. x
@@Markrosenfeld thank you 🌷 💖
I keep watching your video that is really helpful 😇🌷
😍❤️🤩 first person 😍
I would love you 2 to talk more about long distance relationships with people who met online please and I have a question: what do u think if the guy doesn't want to have u on a specific social media like Instagram and only want to comunicate through Whatsapp? I think is shady
He phones me every day for hours but just referred to me as a pen pal! Yes, there are 6000 km between us, but I thought we were kinda building something until covid restrictions lift. He said he can't invest in me emotionally from so far until we are in the same physical place - is this fear on his part? This is where guys and girls are different. I have walked away...why should I emotionally invest when it is not returned. I have no fear even if we are worlds apart, especially if I think they are worth it.
I understand why you feel that way, and I'm sorry that you do. You can actually learn from his mindset. Watch this video to get valuable insight on the situation: ruclips.net/video/BUjIXUM68KU/видео.html
Sons Happy Easters to you both family.
Mark, you and Alex make a great team. Can't deny loving those accents. 😍🤣 -- Connie ✌
By the way, had good realizations from this video.
Thanks! I'm glad you got to learn from it! Alex is a super wise man!
I love the romance guy
Hello its not over dear message Dr David on WhatsApp for restoration of broken relationships and other manifestation!!!!!
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What should I do sir. He don't want me to talk again,, and I miss him a lot
Thanks for sharing this long distance relationship I always thought it will never work out, but it could Alex and Mark much love and blessings guys, much thanks
Happy to help, Maria Ansola. Thanks for the lovely comment!
This advice hopefully works for me. We are LDR. The 1st-2nd months of our communication, he was so constant. He always VC me and chat with me everyday but 2 weeks ago, I've notice he changed, he just send funny videos & pictures to me but not even asking if I'm ok or not. When I want to call him, he just decline or not picking up my calls. His always reason was he was tired from work and can't do VC. But when I first meet him he was not like that, even if his tired, he has time to VC with me even 2-5mins. But now he didn't do it anymore. He message me today. He said he was busy or too tired for the whole week, I want to call him but maybe I will be disappointed again if decline or not pick up my calls.🤦 I doubt my feelings towards him, is my instinct true if he has another new girl that he was chatted online? Or his reason acceptable? I'm confuse, please help me Mr. Mark. what do you think? I just pray that he was just too busy at work and not finding another girl 😔😔😔🤦🤦
does no contact work on long distance?
Is it okay for a man to miss a woman if they live 1 hour drive apart and have been texting for 19 days and only seen each other physically twice due to different work schedules? Or is that a red flag?
Me and my Scottish LDR man we've been chatting online since 2017. I thought we're really serious together but I ended up discovering he meet up his long time Filipina trans lover last 2018 in Singapore. (which I thought he's Ex Gf) I was really hurt, I thought we already in a relationship. We never meet but I really love him more than any men on internet. It hurts that we never even started a real relationship yet.. We will just see if we meet soon in person. I'm not sure if he allowed to travel this year but I'm still looking forward to meet him. Who knows he might love me.
Awesome
Thanks, ishanaa Isha!
Hello I love your advice.... real eye openers..... so I’ve got a question how do you prepare or strengthen your relationship before LDR me and my partner are always together we are really close longest separation time was 4days (been together for 3yrs)..... next year his supposed to go away for a year and the thought of separating scares me we’ve talked about it briefly but in passing and his even worried about the distance .... do you have any advice for this .... I don’t want to lose him his my world
I met a guy online. He's from Greece and I am from Mexico. I already bought my tickets to see him because I like him so much.😍❤ Although, with this quarantine sometimes i dont have anything new to tell him. I dont want that he gets bored of me. What can I do?
Ps: give tips about cybersex 🙏😁
Heya Krystel Ariadna! Have you downloaded this yet www.makehimyours.com.au/sexting? Hope you get heaps from this material. Thanks for watching!
@@Markrosenfeld Hey!! I tried to download the guide. It didn't work though. I don't know what happened :(
I luv you alex but you have to luv me more than I luv you. I will only migrate to states:
1) you want to marry me
2) I have a job in the US
3) receive a scholarship to study at mit
I meet my bf in my social media, we been talking together for 5 months now. But we never talk live in the phone yet. We still texting day and night. His Another country and I am here in USA. What can I do to make him feel to talk to me by phone, not text message all the time? I hope you will give some answers.
so coaches, 2 of you hv LD relationship ?